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Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families Podcast.

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Speaker 2: It's the podcast for the.

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Speaker 1: Time poor parent who just once answers. Now they'll add

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Speaker 1: it into a conversation and all of a sudden you're like,

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Speaker 1: how does my child know this? But what we've learned

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Speaker 1: over time, they actually don't. And now here's the stars

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Speaker 1: of our show, my mom and dad.

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Speaker 3: Hello, this is doctor Justin Colson, the found of Happy

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Speaker 3: Families dot com dot you. Welcome to the Happy Families Podcast. Friday,

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Speaker 3: the sixteenth of September. We've only got three months to

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Speaker 3: go to a Christmas Kylie, I.

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Speaker 1: Think we need to have a CEO meeting.

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Speaker 2: A CEA meeting. What's a CA meeting?

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Speaker 1: Chocoholics Anonymous. If you'd be listening to the podcast for

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Speaker 1: a while, you might have worked out that that we

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Speaker 1: have a problem.

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Speaker 2: But when you say we you you're putting this on me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, of course you.

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Speaker 3: You eat way more chocolate than me, only because you

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Speaker 3: bring it home. Well, tell me, well, we have to

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Speaker 3: have a CEA meeting.

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Speaker 1: Well, we made a commitment, and so I'm putting it

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Speaker 1: out there. We've made a commitment that we're going to

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Speaker 1: not entirely obliterate refined chickens from our diet, but we're

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Speaker 1: going to do a really solid job of it. So

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Speaker 1: guess what I did today in support of.

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Speaker 2: Your need to not eat chocolate junk food? Yeah, what

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Speaker 2: did you do? Well?

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Speaker 1: I really wanted some chocolate, so I boiled a hard egg.

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Speaker 1: I ate an egg.

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Speaker 2: You see that sounds so tragic.

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Speaker 1: It was. It was really tragic. I put it into

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Speaker 3: You're not aware of this, but you remember, I mean

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Speaker 3: for long term podcast listeners, you'll know that for the

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Speaker 3: last few months we've been talking about the Haggs chocolate

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Speaker 3: not sponsored that I've been stashing and eating, and I've

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Speaker 3: And that's why we've decided to do it, because I

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Speaker 3: need to look after myself better. I'm gaining weight, nothing's

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Speaker 3: felt so dissatisfied, that's a good it was anti climactic.

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Speaker 3: So I've got half a bag of Haig's specially freakly thing. Ohs.

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Speaker 3: Just to me this to my right in the cupboard

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Speaker 1: Well, I probably should tell you then that I have

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Speaker 2: Have you been eating them? No?

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Speaker 3: You had a hard boiled egg. You actually haven't been

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Speaker 3: eating them? Well, not today, Kylie Coulson. I haven't eaten

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Speaker 3: I think I've been good all week. All week, I've

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Speaker 3: For those of you who are knew to the podcast,

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Speaker 3: every Friday we talk about what we could do better

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Speaker 1: Well, the first step is recognition, my honey, So you

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm not going to say that I'm an addict.

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Speaker 3: I'm uncomfortable with that word, especially in reference to me

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Speaker 3: in the way that I consume sugary, process crappy foods.

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Speaker 3: long as you promise to follow the recipes and I

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Speaker 1: Why is it that it always just adds more work

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Speaker 2: Trying to write this book. I signed up for four books.

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Speaker 1: Write a book.

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Speaker 2: What would you write a book about?

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Speaker 1: I have no idea, but I can promise you that

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Speaker 2: So that you can complain? I've got to do this

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Speaker 2: Right, I could enjoy that? It does sound good?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I think I need to think about this a lot.

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Speaker 2: This past week.

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Speaker 3: We went for a big family bike ride. It was

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Speaker 3: But that bike ride we found a like a I

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Speaker 2: Is that the right word?

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Speaker 2: Lots of lots of watery stuff to ride around? Caught

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Speaker 3: though it hasn't been the greatest week because I've been

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Speaker 1: Well after the break, I'm going to share what our

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Speaker 1: kids really know about what they see in the movies.

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Speaker 2: It sounds rude.

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Speaker 3: Just when you think you've got this parenting gignailed, your

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Speaker 3: Your Growth Guide is that instruction manual? A webinar outlining

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Speaker 3: basic milestones so you know where your child's at, where

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Speaker 3: Get insights, reassurance and support from your Growth Guide. Available

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Speaker 3: online at Happy Families dot com dot au.

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Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast, the podcast for a time

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Speaker 1: poor parent who just wants answers.

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Speaker 2: Now, what happened with the movies? Missus, Happy Families, You've

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Speaker 2: funniest experience. Yep, So kids have seen something rude and they.

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Speaker 1: Well, we had a Papa holiday a little while back

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Speaker 1: They were actually just watching Jim ungiep And it's a

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Speaker 1: And so she's going through all of these experience as

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Speaker 3: So the older better tomorrow is take home messages from today.

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Speaker 3: On Monday night, We've got this incredible webinar lined up.

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Speaker 3: Our Facebook page, Doctor Justin Coulson's Happy Families, or at

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Speaker 3: Like I said the Happy Family. This podcast is produced

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