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<v Speaker 1>Hi Heart Podcasts, hear more Kiss Podcast playlist and listen

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<v Speaker 2>A good pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn.

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<v Speaker 1>Bady, what our windows down?

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<v Speaker 3>That's my world? Risen the dust only good fab, Doug

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<v Speaker 3>all down.

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<v Speaker 4>I've don't much, but yeah I'm not our big get

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<v Speaker 4>and what a lot?

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<v Speaker 3>It don't matter where.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the pickup, Hi, guys, Happy Friday afternoon.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone, end of the week. It's the Pickup with Brett

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<v Speaker 3>Hockeley and Laura Burn.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, can we just talk about something that is so crazy? Laura, now, no,

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<v Speaker 4>it is. I'm losing sleep about it. You know, the

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<v Speaker 4>series on stand alone it's the best. Yeah, well, the

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<v Speaker 4>new season's come out.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen it yet, but you guys have been

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<v Speaker 1>talking about it NonStop and I will go homes after

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<v Speaker 1>in the watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>Producer Grace is like a mega fan.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's like it's always been cold, like it's and

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<v Speaker 4>when I say cold, like cold locations and cold.

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<v Speaker 2>But this year they are doing it in South Africa,

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<v Speaker 2>which seems unfathomable to me, Like to think.

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<v Speaker 4>Of the idea They're going to be thrown into the

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<v Speaker 4>wilderness where there's things like lions and buffalo and hippopotamuses, and.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you've watched the last few pot of My

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<v Speaker 1>hippopot of if you've watched the last few seasons of Alone, normally,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's in Canada somewhere, and they have to

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<v Speaker 1>get all their like structures built before like the dead

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<v Speaker 1>of winter hits and catch the like. There is no

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<v Speaker 1>person that's ever been to South Africa that would feel

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable just being out there in the wilderness with the

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<v Speaker 1>lions hanging out in a ten with.

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<v Speaker 4>Like an arrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, what's a bow and arrow going to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently though, so episode one has already dropped. The second

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<v Speaker 1>episode dropped today like at lunchtime. But apparently in the

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<v Speaker 1>first episode there was a woman who already.

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<v Speaker 3>Caught a wart hog.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so she's just eaten bacon living large at the

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<v Speaker 1>time of the last year.

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<v Speaker 4>She caught it with like a bowl and arrow. They're

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<v Speaker 4>actually crazy. I could not do it. I'd be day one.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you'd be dead, but I'd be riding an elephant

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<v Speaker 2>out of their day one.

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<v Speaker 3>Brittany sitting up in a tree with a cheetah. That's

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<v Speaker 3>the end of Brittany Brockley. Oh sorry, I think we

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<v Speaker 3>were just hanging out with it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, that sounds fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, guys, you going to watch it the brand new

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<v Speaker 1>season alone. It's available and exclusively on stan and the

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<v Speaker 1>episodes are dropping every Friday one pm. Now we have

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<v Speaker 1>the most amazing woman on the line and I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>it now.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying next contender for Australia of the Year. I

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<v Speaker 3>reckon too, absolutely and if not, we're going to submit

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<v Speaker 3>at ourselves for her.

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<v Speaker 5>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Brook Macintosh and Brook is halfway through

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<v Speaker 1>running fourteen thousand kilometers solo around the entire country. That

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<v Speaker 1>is two marathons a day, every single day, for one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and eighty days.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>Now it's either crazy or brilliant, or probably both because

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<v Speaker 4>I can't even run a kilometer without stopping.

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<v Speaker 3>So this is really something impressive.

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<v Speaker 1>But also Brook is aiming to raise one point four

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<v Speaker 1>million for suicide prevention through the Blue Tree Project, which

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<v Speaker 1>she needs all of Australia to get behind her. I

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<v Speaker 1>know that there's been a couple of male runners over

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<v Speaker 1>the last year that have made it through the media

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<v Speaker 1>and have been you know, people have spoke about the

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<v Speaker 1>quite amazing feats that they've done in running, but I

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<v Speaker 1>do think some of the things that Brook has had

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<v Speaker 1>to face as a woman doing this across the country

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<v Speaker 1>is something that is unfathomable.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's a massive feat just wrapped up seven thousand

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<v Speaker 6>kilometers and your ladies wouldn't believe it. But I've been

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<v Speaker 6>doing a few detours and I've actually added an extra

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<v Speaker 6>five hundred kilometers.

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<v Speaker 4>But why yeah, No, it is truly incredible and I

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<v Speaker 4>cannot fad them doing two marathons a day. I did

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<v Speaker 4>one half marathon once and I just thought I deserved

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<v Speaker 4>a medal.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, wow, this is incredible.

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<v Speaker 4>Tell us why you're doing this, Like what happened in

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<v Speaker 4>your life that you thought I'm just going to go

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<v Speaker 4>run around Australia and raise millions of dollars.

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<v Speaker 6>There is so much to unpack there. But in August

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<v Speaker 6>twenty twenty two, I was going through the depths of

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<v Speaker 6>suicidal ideation myself, and the week that I was actually

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<v Speaker 6>wanting to take my own life, I was actually involved

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<v Speaker 6>in a massive high speed car accident and it was

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<v Speaker 6>through the healing and the recovery of that process that

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<v Speaker 6>I realized that I didn't want to die. I just

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<v Speaker 6>wanted my internal pain to end. Had me on a

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<v Speaker 6>path of having just one more conversation, and I was

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<v Speaker 6>working five all at the time. So I went back

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<v Speaker 6>to site and I opened up about my mental struggles

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<v Speaker 6>with the guys on site and it was actually a

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<v Speaker 6>permission slit for them to start having more conversations. And

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<v Speaker 6>by me doing that, I received so many thanks and

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<v Speaker 6>gratitudes for opening up. And in August twenty twenty three,

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<v Speaker 6>I ran sixteen hundred kilometers top of Wa to bottom

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<v Speaker 6>of Wa to raise awareness of mental health. And when

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<v Speaker 6>I finished, I was like, oh am I stopping here.

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<v Speaker 6>There's still so much more of Australia that need to

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<v Speaker 6>hear this message. So now I talk the Queens lamb Brooka.

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<v Speaker 1>You're incredible, honestly, I mean, I can only imagine how

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<v Speaker 1>taxing this has been on your body. How are you

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<v Speaker 1>feeling at the moment, and what's been the effects on

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<v Speaker 1>your body so far?

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<v Speaker 6>The first four weeks of this run was pretty horrendous,

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<v Speaker 6>Like my body was just adjusting to what was happening.

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<v Speaker 6>But now my body's pretty adjusted. I don't feel too

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<v Speaker 6>many aches and pains, at the moment. But I'm also

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<v Speaker 6>something else that we experience out here is our pms

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<v Speaker 6>and our periods and all that. So I'm always battling that,

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<v Speaker 6>not battling that, but that is a massive challenge every

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<v Speaker 6>single month. On like the week leading up to that,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, all right, cool, you've got to tap her

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<v Speaker 6>a little bit and then you can go full again

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<v Speaker 6>for three and a half weeks. Yes, that's been a

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<v Speaker 6>huge adjustment.

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<v Speaker 1>But also, like you know, you think there's been like

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<v Speaker 1>people that ned Broklyn that people have been talking about

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<v Speaker 1>who have done big runs and stuff. There's other factors

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<v Speaker 1>that they don't have to think about, and that's a

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<v Speaker 1>safety element. Like being a woman being out there running

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<v Speaker 1>around Australia, there is so much more risk involved. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you keeping yourself safe on this run?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, So we do our run in smaller blocks, so

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<v Speaker 6>I would run ten kilometers and then the caravan would

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<v Speaker 6>be there quickly checking refuel of anything, and then I

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<v Speaker 6>would run ten kilometers. I also carry like a safety

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<v Speaker 6>SOS device on me and a two way radio as well,

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<v Speaker 6>especially in the parts where we have nor reception, just

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<v Speaker 6>so I know I can always get a hold of

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<v Speaker 6>the guys.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you want people to know?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, now, you've got so many people listening to you,

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<v Speaker 4>You've got so many people following your journey, and I

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<v Speaker 4>hope these conversations you know more people are following your journey.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you want to say to people that might

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<v Speaker 4>be feeling what you were feeling a few years ago?

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<v Speaker 6>My biggest message is there's two parts. It's one to

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<v Speaker 6>have just one more conversation and it's to speak up.

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<v Speaker 6>But before we do that, we need to build the

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<v Speaker 6>courage inside of ourselves to be able to do that.

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<v Speaker 6>So my biggest message is to have courage to have

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<v Speaker 6>just one more conversation, And on the flip side of

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<v Speaker 6>that is to have courage to call out BS behavior

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<v Speaker 6>because I believe it's the best behavior that happens in

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<v Speaker 6>society that sends people down the society. About this spiral

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<v Speaker 6>of suicidal ideation depression anxiety PTSD.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you've said it here in your mantrad just

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<v Speaker 1>one more breath, just one more day, and just one

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<v Speaker 1>more conversation, Brook, How can people get behind you because

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many Australians listening right now and what you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing is absolutely phenomenal. How can we all help you

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<v Speaker 1>get behind you and raise more money.

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<v Speaker 6>It's sharing the message, sharing the cause and donating to

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<v Speaker 6>the cause. By googling just One more Brook, you'll be

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<v Speaker 6>able to find our donations link. And also we've been

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<v Speaker 6>really encouraging people to hold their own fundraisers in their

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<v Speaker 6>own communities and then donating the funds raised directly to

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<v Speaker 6>the course.

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<v Speaker 1>Can people follow where you're at in your journey? How

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<v Speaker 1>can people you know specifically if you're coming through a

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<v Speaker 1>town that might be near them, or you're in an

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<v Speaker 1>area around Australia.

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<v Speaker 3>How can people see where you're at?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I love runners coming out to run with me.

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<v Speaker 6>That keeps me going and it's such a forest gump

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<v Speaker 6>moment whenever that happens. So we post all the time

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<v Speaker 6>on our Instagram. Instagram's the main one that we're on.

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<v Speaker 6>Inside our channel, we post the towns that were coming

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<v Speaker 6>through that day. But we've done a huge part of

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<v Speaker 6>Australia right now. So now we've got the top end

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<v Speaker 6>of Queensland and then Northern Territory and western Aushrelias, Go Brook,

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<v Speaker 6>what is.

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<v Speaker 2>Your Instagram now? So people can go and find you

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<v Speaker 2>right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Follow along and any runner wherever you are, go and

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<v Speaker 4>join our in her efforts.

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<v Speaker 6>Brook Macintosh double underscore.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you're amazing, honey.

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<v Speaker 1>Well done, and like we said, I reckon you're a

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<v Speaker 1>very strong contender for Australia the un next year. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just crazy what you've done. You should be so proud

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<v Speaker 1>of yourself, and so was Australia.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we need more women like you Australia. Go and

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<v Speaker 4>get behind Brooke. Hey, Laura, I got an update from

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<v Speaker 4>a friend today about something that happened that I realized

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<v Speaker 4>I never told you about.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's so funny. So I recently got married nearly.

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<v Speaker 4>Two weeks ago now, but the week before that, my

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<v Speaker 4>husband Ben and I were over seas in Italy at

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<v Speaker 4>his best friend's wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>I did see this. You're wearing a red dress the internet. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Deli Mail had a real field day with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh actually I didn't tell you that part too.

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<v Speaker 4>I wore a bright red dress right, it's a Tuscan

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<v Speaker 4>summary wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>Beautiful.

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<v Speaker 4>You can wear red dresses to weddings, but apparently you

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<v Speaker 4>can't wear them to certain European weddings.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not know this, But when you wear a red.

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<v Speaker 4>Dress to certain countries in Europe's wedding, it's a statement

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<v Speaker 4>of saying that you've slept with the groom I need

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<v Speaker 4>is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yup? Yup?

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<v Speaker 2>They told me that. No, they told me that after

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<v Speaker 2>the and I was mortified.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I just like flurried around that wedding

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<v Speaker 4>in my red dress everyone there because they're all European.

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<v Speaker 3>So was that in the area that the wedding was?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it? I don't know, I see like you said

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<v Speaker 3>to certain parts of Europe.

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<v Speaker 4>Like well, I asked the bride recently. I went back

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<v Speaker 4>to her and I just double checked. I said, look,

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<v Speaker 4>do I need to clear something up? I have not

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<v Speaker 4>slept with your husband and I and she's like no,

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<v Speaker 4>that's like an old thing for different places.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was fine, that's not even the stories.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>So at their wedding, they've had their wedding rings for

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<v Speaker 4>like eighteen months to two years.

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<v Speaker 2>They've been engaged for quite a while.

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<v Speaker 4>The husband has gone to get his rings and get

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<v Speaker 4>everything ready for the day, and he realized he had

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<v Speaker 4>put them on the bedside table the night before, went

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<v Speaker 4>back to find them gone, absolutely gone.

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<v Speaker 2>This wedding ring.

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<v Speaker 4>That he's getting married in like eight to twelve hours.

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<v Speaker 4>He's had it for two years missing. So he goes

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<v Speaker 4>and finds his future wife and he's like, hey, did

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<v Speaker 4>you clean up? Did you move anything? She's like absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 4>What are you missing?

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<v Speaker 2>He had to tell her that. He's like, well, my

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<v Speaker 2>wedding ring.

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<v Speaker 4>So they go to their son, their two year old son,

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<v Speaker 4>and they're like, where.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you put it?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you you know?

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<v Speaker 4>He's too did you take something here? It's golden shiny, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>where did you take it? He's just laughing running away. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>They've searched the house. They had every person there that

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<v Speaker 4>was working there. Everyone like turned it upside down.

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<v Speaker 1>I think most parents are gonna obviously not wedding ring related,

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<v Speaker 1>but your kids take things and you lose it all

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<v Speaker 1>the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, keys in.

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<v Speaker 1>Bins, keys in toilets, yeap rings in gardens like kids

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<v Speaker 1>just there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, don't leave it lying around.

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<v Speaker 4>He's blamed his son, right, like he's deflected to blame.

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<v Speaker 4>He's a two year old son, nothing to do with me,

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<v Speaker 4>Like he should know better, so.

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<v Speaker 3>He should not know where he's too.

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<v Speaker 4>The wedding goes ahead and he has to get married

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<v Speaker 4>with like a sports ring, like a like a whoop thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have the whoop ring? Has it?

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<v Speaker 4>Just like so it's just this big thick not that

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<v Speaker 4>great looking gold.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not taking wedding photos of that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, we laughed, we laughed, we laughed.

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<v Speaker 4>He got into big trouble with his partner that you know,

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<v Speaker 4>he's blamed his son. Anyway, flash forward a week later

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<v Speaker 4>to our wedding. He still is wearing his ring, that's

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<v Speaker 4>the sports ring. Anyway, he puts his hand in his pocket.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think he finds his pocket.

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<v Speaker 1>No, because he was wearing the same suit that he

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<v Speaker 1>wears suit pants.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what it was in his pocket.

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<v Speaker 4>He had it in his own pocket the entire time,

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<v Speaker 4>gets married with like a gold sports band blames.

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<v Speaker 1>You're so mad at your husband. You'd be like, you

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<v Speaker 1>had one thing to do and you manage to lose

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<v Speaker 1>the ring, and then you blame the two years off,

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<v Speaker 1>But then it was on your being the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like the model in this is that, I mean, firstly,

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<v Speaker 1>he's the liability, but you can get away with blaming

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<v Speaker 1>things on your kids for a while. We're at a

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<v Speaker 1>phase at the moment, so Lola thinks farts are really funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Lola's four. She thinks farts are hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>So if anyone has farted, all you have to say

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<v Speaker 1>is that Lola did it, and she'll go, yeah, it did,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she takes it. She loves it, she'll claim it.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you're off. Scott Free's so we do it in

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<v Speaker 3>our household to bring her over to my house. I'll

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<v Speaker 3>use it.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been on a real discovery journey today. We've learned

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<v Speaker 1>a few things about each other in this team. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's a New Zealand show that was talking about the

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<v Speaker 1>concept of how you read books.

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<v Speaker 3>So hear me out.

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<v Speaker 1>When you read a book in your head like you're

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you sit down at the end of your

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<v Speaker 1>day and you have your favorite book and you're reading

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<v Speaker 1>through the dialogue between different characters. Do you voice those

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<v Speaker 1>characters in different ways or do you just read a

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<v Speaker 1>book like you're reading a normal piece of paper.

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<v Speaker 3>Have a listen to this.

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<v Speaker 5>My husband Aunt and I were lying in bed reading

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<v Speaker 5>our books and I said to Art, oh, this book

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<v Speaker 5>is taking me ages because it's set in Scotland. And

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<v Speaker 5>Art was like sorry, and I was like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 5>it's tricky for me to do a Scottish accent, and

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't realize that that is perhaps an abnormal.

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<v Speaker 3>Thing to do.

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<v Speaker 5>So when I'm reading, I'm doing the voices in my

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<v Speaker 5>head and the accents.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like a narrat Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So we discovered that our very own Brittany Hockley also

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<v Speaker 1>does the same thing, which is just utterly insane, not weird.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not weird, mind you, mine's exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>So.

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<v Speaker 4>My favorite book series ever, there's six books in the series, is.

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<v Speaker 2>Called Outlander by Diana Givalden.

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<v Speaker 4>It's been mental TV show, but it is set in

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<v Speaker 4>the Scottish Highlands.

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<v Speaker 2>It took me years to read those books, mainly because

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<v Speaker 2>there's a the six thick books.

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<v Speaker 4>B it's Scottish, you have to do the Scottish accent.

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<v Speaker 1>In the Scottish or is it in English? But therefore,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's not, it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Set in Scotland, and it's a lot of it's set

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<v Speaker 4>in what they call the Gaelic, which is like the

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<v Speaker 4>language back in Scotland. And a lot of it is

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<v Speaker 4>written because it's set in the seventeen hundred, so a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of it's written in different kind of English, like

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<v Speaker 4>a really old school English, and I read it in

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<v Speaker 4>my head how it is set and how it would

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<v Speaker 4>be like.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, lass, I read it like that. I do. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what I do.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but we little. But that's a very specific example.

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<v Speaker 1>What if you're just reading, like a romance novel that's got,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a guy and a girl in it. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you read like as in your head, does the male

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<v Speaker 1>voice have a male sound and the female voice isn't it?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you create characters?

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm more more so than male female. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>more accents. So if someone has a French accent, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>doing that in my head like I'm you want to

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<v Speaker 4>gossolt like whatever, I do it like who? I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>but that's how. That's how my brain works.

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<v Speaker 1>I just read it like I'm reading any piece of

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<v Speaker 1>paper boy nothing, it makes no difference.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just efficiency.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in there, I'm out like, I know it's the

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<v Speaker 1>guy speaking, I know it's the girls. My brain doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>need the character rehearsal.

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<v Speaker 4>You need to read for the imagination where it transports you,

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<v Speaker 4>where it takes you. You want to have all your senses.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't want to read like you're reading a dictionary.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, this is like this is the other thing.

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<v Speaker 1>This debate or like question came up quite a few

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<v Speaker 1>weeks ago. But do you have an internal monologue? Was

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<v Speaker 1>the other one. So you know, I think a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people, as they're just getting about their day, they

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<v Speaker 1>have a little voice inside their head, not a crazy one,

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<v Speaker 1>just like the you know, the little voice that you

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<v Speaker 1>hear that tells you what to do and talks to

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<v Speaker 1>you as you're doing stuff. And mine is always talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me. And then there are some people out there,

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<v Speaker 1>a percentage of the population that just hears nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>That's me. I don't believe your brain.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't talk in my head much at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't really have an internal monologue. I don't talk

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<v Speaker 4>things through it. I don't really have a filter. But

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<v Speaker 4>my husband Ben, we have quite a few arguments about

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<v Speaker 4>the same thing, and that is him telling me he's

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<v Speaker 4>told me something before, and we've we've broken it down

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<v Speaker 4>a couple of days ago. Actually, he said, I say

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<v Speaker 4>things in my head so many times, and that I've

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<v Speaker 4>convinced I've said it out loud to you. And it's

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<v Speaker 4>not until I've said I will put my life on this.

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<v Speaker 4>You haven't told me that that he realizes he's only

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<v Speaker 4>said it in his brain.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting here with my mouth open because he is

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<v Speaker 1>actually shocking to me that people don't just talk in

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<v Speaker 1>their own heads all the time. Mine is so noisy.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's enough, Loot, look at your.

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<v Speaker 4>Life and look at what's around you right now and

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<v Speaker 4>your internal brain.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to be medicated.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just feel like my brain is it's always going,

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<v Speaker 1>and if it's not going, I'm like counting things.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing all kinds of weird stuff just to keep

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<v Speaker 3>my brain occupied.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not that I.

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<v Speaker 4>Can't do it, because some people are a step further.

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<v Speaker 4>There are people that do it. There's people that don't

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<v Speaker 4>do it, but there are some people that physically can't.

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<v Speaker 2>They cannot must drop a voice in their brain.

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<v Speaker 4>I can do it, and sometimes I will, like I'll

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<v Speaker 4>roll my eyes in my brain, do you know what

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<v Speaker 4>I mean? Like my brain will be like, wow, I

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<v Speaker 4>can't believe she said that or whatever, not about you.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe it was about you, But.

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<v Speaker 2>But my brain's not messy and chaotic like I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>doing it. It's quite empty. I think I've told you that.

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<v Speaker 1>Before, Gracie, you producer, Gracy, you what are you.

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<v Speaker 3>Doing chaos thoughts?

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<v Speaker 4>Constantly think I'm thinking, but the voice is going content.

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<v Speaker 2>God, it's cod No, it's so relaxing to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, I would love to spend a day in your brain.

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<v Speaker 3>Just tune out for a while. I find this utterly fascinating.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I mean, go and join the conversation on the

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<v Speaker 1>pick up socials if you want to tell us if

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<v Speaker 1>you have a constant internal monologue, maybe you do a

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<v Speaker 1>full dress rehearsal for when you're reading books and everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>got an accent in it and a special voice.

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<v Speaker 3>And like to know because I feel like we all

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<v Speaker 3>do this very differently.

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<v Speaker 2>You should see how I read Harry Potter.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a wild ride. Alright, well, guys, we're out

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<v Speaker 3>of here.