1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboom 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,320 Speaker 1: and emerging, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 6 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Concer podcast. This is 7 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: the podcast where which have mindset, self development and becoming 8 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 9 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 10 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 11 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 12 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, We're here to 13 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical 14 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's 15 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: seat of your own life and stop letting life pass 16 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: you by, then you're in the right place. Hello, my loves, 17 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: and welcome back to the potty. Today we have the 18 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: incredible Samantha Daily. So sam actually came on the potty 19 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: right at the very start, I think she was. You know, 20 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,040 Speaker 1: she's one of my very first guests, So I'm going 21 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: to link her very first episode, but she is back 22 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: and Wow. Sam is now a seven figure business mentor 23 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: who helps entrepreneurs scale with strategy and spirituality. She's the 24 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: queen of all things manifesting, doing things from an authentic 25 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: and aligned place, and I'm sure you can imagine we 26 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: have so much to talk about. So in this episode 27 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: we do chat manifesting, adopting a life happens for me, mindset, 28 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: doing business in your feminine energy, and basically how to 29 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: face your fear's head on. Also, just a heads up, 30 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: we did have some tech issues with this episode, so 31 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: I do apologize the quality is not amazing, but the 32 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 1: content is definitely amazing. Let's get into it. Sam, Welcome 33 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: back to the Rise and Conker Podcast. Thanks for having me. 34 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: I'm so excited. What do I do with my hands? 35 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: How do we make this natural? Guys, we're just like 36 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: introge twice for this and we are obviously not tech 37 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: Galley's and we're trying to figure it out. So third 38 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:40,839 Speaker 1: time Lucky Sam has been a potty. Before she came 39 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 1: on the potty, you would have to be one of 40 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: my first ten guests. It was quite early on, I 41 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: think so, and everyone was obsessed with your episode, because 42 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: you were talking about manesting back then, and I don't 43 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: think my audience Obviously I spoke a lot about manifesting, 44 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: but I don't think my AUNI and you know, knew 45 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: a lot of people, so they were obsessed with you. 46 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:09,119 Speaker 1: But since then, you have gone on to move countries, 47 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: constantly build your business. You're still with your beautiful partner. 48 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: I would love for you to just catch us up 49 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: on what's been happening over the last four years. Yeah, 50 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: I know. 51 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 2: I think back to that episode and it's just like 52 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 2: so crazy how much has transpired since then. And I 53 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 2: feel like you're the usher to my Justin Bieber in 54 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 2: a sense where you're like, wow, this you know, you 55 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 2: just came across as like talented person and like brought 56 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 2: them into the spotlight. So I'm forever grateful for, you know, 57 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 2: the platform of getting to be on your show, especially 58 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 2: when yeah we were podcasting, was you know, so different 59 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 2: and it was really early on and I was just 60 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 2: at the very beginning of my business. So so much 61 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 2: has happened for both of us obviously in the past 62 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 2: like four years since then, but so much, you know, 63 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 2: for me because I was really such a baby in business. 64 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 2: At that point, I you know, had barely really you know, 65 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 2: had many clients at that stage. I think I had 66 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 2: done one beta round of my signature program. And now 67 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 2: I run a seven figure company and have you know, 68 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 2: moved from Spain back to the US where I'm from 69 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 2: and bought my dream beach condo. I live across the 70 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 2: street from the beach now in South Florida, And yeah, 71 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 2: just like life is so much different, and I'm so 72 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 2: grateful for the journey and all the risks that were 73 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 2: required along the way to get us here. But yeah, 74 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 2: it was kind of a crazy, crazy ride because I 75 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 2: had originally moved to Spain just on a whim, like 76 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 2: taking a risk for a guy that I met on 77 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 2: a dating app. Like I was twenty one and I 78 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 2: was studying abroad in Spain and I met this guy 79 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 2: and we ended up having like this Lizzie Maguire movie 80 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 2: experience where he was taking me around the city and 81 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 2: like teaching me things and we were fumbling over our 82 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 2: words and like kind of falling in love with each other. 83 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: And then I had to leave and. 84 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 2: Go finish school, and so we did a year of 85 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 2: long distance apart, and then when I graduated from university. 86 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I'm going to decline my job 87 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 2: offers and I think I'm going to move back to 88 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 2: Spain and just fuck around and find out, you know, 89 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 2: move there for a year, teach English in the schools, 90 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 2: make no money, and that was the plan. And I 91 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 2: ended up staying for six and a half years. And 92 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 2: during that time period was when I you know, built 93 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 2: my business. I started a podcast, I became a coach, 94 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: and so many things evolved and changed for me. And then, 95 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 2: you know, it was such a blessing that the business 96 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 2: grew to a level where I was like, Okay, We've 97 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 2: got to like actually bring this back to the States, 98 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 2: you know, just for more opportunities within you know, my 99 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 2: audience and people that I want to connect with, and 100 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 2: also you know, income wise and for tax purposes and 101 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 2: things like that. And so that is kind of what 102 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 2: led us to make the big move from Madrid to 103 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 2: South Florida. And here we are now we're still together. 104 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 2: So it all worked out. All the all the naysayers 105 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 2: that were like, what are you doing with your life? 106 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 2: We're still together almost a decade later. Who's lacking that? 107 00:05:56,400 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: That is? So I honestly love stories like that becuz 108 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: one hundred percent, like going back to the time, I 109 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: couldn't imagine you telling your parents like I'm not going 110 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: to take the job off, as even I've just done 111 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: college and I met this boy and he's really cute 112 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: and I'm just going to go over there with him. 113 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 1: Like I could imagine everyone being like what and now look. 114 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 2: And now look, I know, look at me now. 115 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's just for me. 116 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 2: It's like the biggest testimony of so much of like 117 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 2: what I teach, and I really believe, you know, we're 118 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 2: put here on earth and meant to live certain experiences 119 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 2: so that we can metabolize these different like lessons and 120 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 2: understandings from the universe and then share them with people 121 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 2: and be that inspiration. And so I really feel like 122 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 2: that's such a testimony in my life of the power 123 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 2: of trusting your gut and following your intuition and trusting yourself. 124 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 2: I always say, like, you know, self trust is my 125 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 2: main business strategy, but it's like my main life strategy. 126 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 2: You know, how do you how how I don't understand 127 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 2: how people can navigate life without trusting themselves, Like you 128 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 2: have to be willing to do the things even when 129 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 2: you feel kind of crazy if you want to get 130 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 2: where you're trying to go. And so, yeah, that story 131 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 2: obviously means a lot to me because it's the whole 132 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 2: foundation of everything that I have now and everything that 133 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 2: I've built because of it. 134 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: I love that. And even like going through your whole journey, 135 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: I know, you know, limiting buliff work, and my audience 136 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 1: is very familiar that what do you think is like 137 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: the biggest limiting belief that you had to overcome, whether 138 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: it was right at the start, whether it's been recently, 139 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 1: I generally would love to know. 140 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 2: I think maybe a belief that I held, but I 141 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 2: didn't really know it on a conscious level, Like this 142 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 2: wasn't a conscious story that I was telling myself. But 143 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 2: I do think to some degree I had always kind 144 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 2: of felt like, you know, it's possible for her, or 145 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 2: like you know, they've done it, but it doesn't necessarily 146 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 2: mean that like I can do it. And so that 147 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 2: was something once I decided that I was really gonna 148 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 2: get my feet wet and actually try to start to 149 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 2: build something and you know, build like a personal brand 150 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 2: and see what I could turn it into, I really 151 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 2: had to actually shift my identity around that to be like, no, 152 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 2: this is possible for me as well. And I think 153 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 2: so many people can relate to that, and that's that's 154 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 2: kind of like a you know, every new level, there's 155 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 2: going to be a new sort of like a version 156 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 2: of that belief, you know. But at the start, it 157 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 2: was definitely like, oh, these people have grown these really 158 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 2: big audiences on social media, or they've gotten these brand 159 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 2: deals or because that was like, really, you know, coaching 160 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 2: was so not what it is today back then, I 161 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 2: didn't even when I was first starting out, I didn't 162 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 2: even know what coaching was. 163 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: By the way. 164 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 2: I just kind of like stumbled across it, like by accident. 165 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 2: I was never like I'm going to be a coach, 166 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 2: Like I had no idea what that was. I didn't 167 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 2: know anyone who had a coach. I didn't know anyone 168 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 2: who was talking about coaching, because this was like, you know, 169 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 2: twenty eighteen, twenty nineteen, and so obviously there was an 170 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 2: industry for it, but it was not what it is now. 171 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 2: And so once I decided like, oh, I'm going to 172 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 2: try to build something of my own. I originally started 173 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 2: a blog and was sharing more on social but I 174 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 2: really had to shift that belief of like other people 175 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 2: have something that I don't have, or like they're more special, 176 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 2: or they're more lucky, or you know, it was more 177 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 2: possible for them for whatever reason, but it's not possible 178 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 2: for me. I also, weirdly enough, think that I had 179 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 2: a belief about the fact that I was living in 180 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 2: Spain just because of like not having as much accessibility 181 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 2: to communities or events or like things that I really 182 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 2: like could go to to like network or even like 183 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 2: algorithms on social media. Like I remember when TikTok just 184 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:43,679 Speaker 2: started and Gary Vaynerchuk was like, TikTok is going to 185 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 2: be the new thing. So I was like, I'll follow 186 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 2: you to the end of the earth, Gary, whatever you say, 187 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 2: I'll do it. And so I got on TikTok, but 188 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 2: like they had the geoloc thing and it was just 189 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 2: so messed up. I went live one time I'll Never forget, 190 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 2: and like everyone was just like, what are you saying 191 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 2: in spani And I was like, oh my god, this 192 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 2: is not working. There was a limiting belief there too, 193 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 2: of like and maybe other people can relate to this 194 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 2: depending on where you live, of like maybe even if 195 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 2: you just live out in the country or something, or 196 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:13,319 Speaker 2: you know, you're not in like a big major city 197 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 2: of feeling like, oh, because I live in this different place, 198 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 2: like I'm not going to have as much accessibility or 199 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 2: popularity or networking or whatever. So those are some that 200 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:25,680 Speaker 2: kind of come to mind for me, especially at that 201 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 2: time in my life. 202 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 1: I love that I definitely had that too, because I 203 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 1: could one hundred percent see that limiting be almost like 204 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 1: constantly rearing its head at every new level for you. 205 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 1: So when you kind of see it coming into your 206 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: field again, how do you kind of work through it 207 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: or what's something that you have done even recently to 208 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: work through limiting beef. 209 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think now my process with working through limiting 210 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 2: beliefs has definitely evolved because the more that you do 211 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 2: it kind of the quicker that you get with it, 212 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 2: Whereas before it might be like this big journaling session 213 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 2: of like, Okay, what is the belief? Is that actually true? 214 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 2: How am I feeling about it? What am I making 215 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 2: this mean? What is the story that I'm telling myself? 216 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: Why do I say that I want this thing but 217 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 2: there's something underneath that that doesn't want it? What is 218 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 2: that trying to find the shadow side of it, like 219 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 2: doing all of that, and I think in the past used. 220 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: To be like a bigger like upheaval. 221 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 2: Process that would need to happen, but nowadays, like if 222 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 2: I'm just being totally honest about what I do, I 223 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 2: don't necessarily do like a full you know, shadow work 224 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:34,439 Speaker 2: journaling session with myself. But it's really more of just 225 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 2: kind of like instantaneously catching the belief and having that 226 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 2: self awareness that's you know, constantly scanning for am I 227 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 2: believing something that's not actually of service to my highest 228 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 2: self or to my you know, biggest future that I'm 229 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 2: trying to create, and in the moment noticing recognizing oh, 230 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:56,199 Speaker 2: like wow, I'm actually yeah, I kind of feel that way, 231 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 2: and that's not that's not something that my future self 232 00:11:59,080 --> 00:11:59,680 Speaker 2: would feel. 233 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:00,959 Speaker 1: So let's shift it. 234 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 2: Let's create a new story, and then just kind of 235 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 2: right in that moment making a conscious choice to implant 236 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 2: like a new belief, and then anytime that it comes 237 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 2: up after that, it's just kind of like a shift 238 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 2: and something that I've always done for my whole journey 239 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 2: is used this kind of reframing technique of just I 240 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:22,200 Speaker 2: forgive myself for thinking whatever I forgive myself for believing 241 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 2: whatever that kind of non helpful belief was, and then 242 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 2: I replace it by saying, I'm choosing to believe that, 243 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 2: or I'm in the process of believing that, you know, 244 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 2: and kind of giving yourself that step to where it 245 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 2: doesn't feel like you're totally lying to yourself. Of like, 246 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 2: I believe that I'm a multi millionaire. If that doesn't 247 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 2: feel accessible, if that doesn't feel true, you can say, like, 248 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 2: I'm choosing to believe that it is possible for me 249 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 2: to create wealth in the millions or that exceeds the millions, 250 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:52,559 Speaker 2: or just kind of like phrasing those affirmations in a 251 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 2: way that allow you allow them to feel like stepping 252 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 2: stones rather than like these big impossible statements to where 253 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 2: your you know, bullshit radar is kind going off. But 254 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 2: that's really what it's like for me nowadays, is that 255 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 2: sort of self awareness, catching the belief and then consciously 256 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 2: choosing to change it in the moment and continuing to 257 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 2: adapt it, you know, as I go, if I feel 258 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:14,199 Speaker 2: it coming up more. 259 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 1: I love that. And that's even like something I talked 260 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:21,560 Speaker 1: to my students about is even giving you a step 261 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: by step formula, a process you want to get to 262 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: the point where you don't need to write this down. 263 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 1: You can do it in the moment. You can catch 264 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: it and it's way more powerful. But you do need 265 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 1: to have that first understanding. But then it's like like 266 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 1: you said, it's like in the micro moments consistently that 267 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: makes such a huge compounding difference. We'll get straight into manifesting, 268 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 1: because you are a manifesting queen, like I said, like 269 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: when we first did our podcast almost four years ago, 270 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 1: you were talking about manifesting and I just was obsessed 271 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 1: with your episode because not many people were talking about 272 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 1: it during that time, and you were so knowledgeable, and 273 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 1: I was like, this is my person, so let's go 274 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: straight into it. And even in the podcast we as 275 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: recorded for your podcast, which I'll look in the show notes, guys, 276 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: we were talking about how my manifestation process has changed 277 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: so much, and like your limiting belief process has changed. 278 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 1: I'm sure you're the exact same, and I really wanted 279 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 1: to talk and bring in this concept of how we 280 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 1: can balance like manifesting our goals and visions, but also 281 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 1: like surrendering to the flow of life, and like how 282 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 1: do you know when to push and how do you 283 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: know when to let go, because for me, as a 284 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: previous labeled control freak, this was honestly the hardest heart 285 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 1: about manifestation I had to learn, and I really had 286 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: to learn it with my trying chick conceive Johnny, and 287 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: I feel like I just like ace it now that's 288 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 1: literally we've got the tatoo. Life happens for me because 289 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: even when things are going to the shit out and like, 290 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: it's life happens for me. Complete surrender, I would list 291 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 1: time everything's fine, like the whole officem fire, my team 292 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 1: just laugh at me. I would love to know, like 293 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 1: your ideas on. 294 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 2: That, Yeah, yeah, I think you know. Surrender and the 295 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 2: letting go is the most challenging step of the manifestation 296 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 2: process for most people because we're so used to feeling 297 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 2: like everything is on us. We're you know, the whole 298 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 2: everything is on our shoulders. It's up to us to 299 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 2: make it happen, and of course action is required in 300 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 2: the manifestation process. I hope at this point that we 301 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 2: all get that. I think people get that now. I 302 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 2: don't think that's like a thing anymore. I remember the 303 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 2: conversation joll manifesting in the past used to be like 304 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 2: you still have to do stuff, But I do think 305 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 2: that we're all past that at this point. So I 306 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 2: trust that the listeners of your show are like, we 307 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 2: get it a ligned action pace, so we do have 308 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 2: to take action, you know. There's also there's such a 309 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 2: magnetism to this energy of leaning back, and I think 310 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 2: one of the greatest kind of like parallels or like 311 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 2: illustrations that we can use when we think about this 312 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 2: is with the energy of dating. You know, when someone 313 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 2: is leaning back and they're not double triple texting you, 314 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 2: they're not like, hey, are we still on for our date? 315 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 2: Like they're not doing any of that like anxious attachment 316 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 2: type stuff, you are naturally more intrigued. You're naturally more 317 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 2: drawn to them. You're like feeling this attraction, whereas we 318 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 2: can get really anxious with our manifestations and kind of 319 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 2: like crowd them or almost like be like the hover 320 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 2: parent to our manifestations, like is it happening yet? Have 321 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 2: we made any progress? What are the numbers? Let me 322 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 2: check one more time? How many people have signed up 323 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 2: to my thing? And we're just like really like way 324 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 2: too much on top of it. And so understanding first 325 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 2: that there is such a magnetism to the end energy 326 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 2: of leaning back and not needing right and being like 327 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 2: I'm and that's hard, but you do have to kind 328 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:10,879 Speaker 2: of sit with yourself and really feel into can I 329 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 2: get behind that is what I'm trying to manifest an 330 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 2: extra a bonus and excitement, a joy, a fun thing 331 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 2: or is it a true life necessity? Because if it's 332 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 2: a life necessity, I think the energy that you bring 333 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,199 Speaker 2: to it is going to be a lot different than 334 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 2: these kind of cherry on top things where you're like 335 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 2: I want to manifest my dream home or the dream car, 336 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 2: or I want to be able to travel more or 337 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 2: more freedom in my schedule or whatever it is. Those things, 338 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 2: truly we might feel like we need them, but when 339 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 2: you really sit down with yourself, you can kind of 340 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:46,160 Speaker 2: get clear on like, okay, I actually will be okay 341 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 2: if I don't get this, Like, what's the worst that's 342 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 2: going to happen. I'm not going to die. Everything's going 343 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,199 Speaker 2: to be okay. I'll still be safe, I'll still be 344 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 2: taking care of it's going to work out. I'll find 345 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 2: a way, we'll figure it out. So you really do 346 00:17:57,680 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 2: almost have to take yourself all the way to that 347 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 2: point of like, will I be okay if this doesn't happen, 348 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 2: and affirm to yourself, like absolutely if this falls through, 349 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 2: even if it's something with money, or it's a job 350 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:12,439 Speaker 2: that you really you know, you really want because it 351 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 2: would be amazing for you and would put you in 352 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 2: like a much better situation. Still, the truth of the 353 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 2: matter is if you didn't get it, you would figure 354 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 2: it out, you would apply to something else, you would 355 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 2: find another way. Right, There's always a third door, And 356 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:29,399 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people are just stuck feeling like, 357 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 2: you know, when I go to the club, I can 358 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 2: either go in the front door or I can go 359 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 2: in the back door. But as an entrepreneur, you get 360 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 2: really creative and you start to realize that there's always 361 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 2: a third door option waiting for us. What about making 362 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 2: friends with the promoter or knowing the bouncer, or having 363 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 2: someone let you in through the side. There's always another way. 364 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 2: And when you realize that, you can like feel more 365 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 2: at peace with this idea of Okay, if it doesn't 366 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:57,919 Speaker 2: work out, I'll be okay because I'm resourceful, because I'm smart, 367 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 2: because I'm creative, because I don't let myself do because 368 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 2: I have my own back because I'll be able to 369 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 2: figure it out. And that is what's going to bring 370 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 2: you enough piece to actually be able to lean back 371 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:10,920 Speaker 2: and to be genuine in the leaning back. That's really 372 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:15,639 Speaker 2: important because if you try to manufacture or fake the 373 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 2: energy of like I don't need it, but really your 374 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:22,320 Speaker 2: energy is saying like I fucking need it, Like the 375 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 2: energy like the universe can feel that that you can't 376 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 2: manufacture that. And so an example that I can give 377 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 2: even in my own life recently, in my business, at 378 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 2: the end of twenty twenty three, I had a huge year. 379 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 2: In twenty twenty three, we you know, cross seven figures 380 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:41,159 Speaker 2: in the business. The podcast did over a million downloads. 381 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 2: I had like thirteen trips that year. I was in 382 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:47,679 Speaker 2: all kinds of different countries. I was running multiple retreats, 383 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 2: you know, launching various masterminds, like so many things were happening. 384 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 2: Then by the end of that year, I had experienced 385 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 2: some things in my personal life that were really heavy. 386 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 2: I got sick couple of times, I experienced a psychic attack, 387 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 2: and then my partner and I were unfortunately involved in 388 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,439 Speaker 2: a scam where we lost a lot of money and 389 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,480 Speaker 2: so a lot of money went out the door, and 390 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 2: there was just like this, you know, ending the year 391 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 2: with this like heaviness of feeling like, whoa, I've been 392 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 2: on this big ride, so many amazing things happening, but 393 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,439 Speaker 2: then like you know, a gut punch to end it, 394 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,880 Speaker 2: and that kind of left me feeling like slightly burnt out. 395 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 2: To be honest, of like, okay, I need to like 396 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 2: reevaluate a little bit my priorities. So coming into the 397 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 2: new year in twenty twenty four, I declare that this 398 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:36,639 Speaker 2: year was going to be my soft CEO era, And 399 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 2: what that meant for me was not like I'm stepping 400 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 2: back from my business, but really just that I'm rearranging 401 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,920 Speaker 2: my priorities and I'm going to put myself first. Even 402 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 2: though i have a lot to manage, even though I'm 403 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 2: a CEO, even though I have people relying on me, 404 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 2: I get to choose my schedule. And that's why I 405 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 2: wanted to do this in the first place. So let 406 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 2: me optimize that, let me hire a personal trainer, let 407 00:20:56,400 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 2: me take fridays off, let me you know, launch less 408 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:03,359 Speaker 2: if that feels better for my energy, let me prioritize 409 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 2: my relationships. And so in doing that, I had to 410 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 2: get really real with myself and say, you know, honoring 411 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 2: this new pace and the way that I want to 412 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 2: live my life at least for this year might come 413 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 2: with some income fluctuations, and that might mean that the 414 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 2: business does less in revenue this year than it did 415 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:25,239 Speaker 2: last year. And I got really real with myself of like, 416 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 2: that is okay, and I'm actually expecting that that might happen, 417 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 2: and I'm not too worried about it, and I'm not 418 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 2: going to go into overdrive of trying to like override that. 419 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna let that be okay. And because my 420 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 2: energy was genuine in being okay with earning less and 421 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 2: maybe you know, making less revenue and moving at a 422 00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 2: different pace, what I discovered through this year was that 423 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 2: even though my energy has shifted so much and I've 424 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 2: rearranged so many things and I'm doing things in a 425 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,119 Speaker 2: different way and I do feel more at ease and 426 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 2: definitely a lot softer in my energy leaning into the feminine, 427 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 2: the revenue is actually up in the business compared to 428 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 2: last year. And so those are the kind of results 429 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,360 Speaker 2: that I think, you know, we see from the outside 430 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 2: where it's like if you just relax and let it happen, 431 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:16,879 Speaker 2: you'll probably receive more and then you end up being like, okay, 432 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 2: So I'm going to pretend like I'm calm, I'm going 433 00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 2: to pretend like I'm relaxed. I'm going to pretend like 434 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 2: I'm doing less, and you're trying to deceive the universe. 435 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 2: You're trying to fake or manufacture an energetic frequency, and 436 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,640 Speaker 2: as we all know, energy doesn't lie. So I think 437 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 2: the biggest thing with leaning into the surrender and the 438 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:38,399 Speaker 2: trust and letting go is really truly believing that you 439 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,240 Speaker 2: will be okay even if it doesn't happen the exact 440 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,719 Speaker 2: way that you're hoping that it will, and having that 441 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 2: be a very genuine, pure energy of acceptance. When the 442 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:53,440 Speaker 2: acceptance is there, you'll find that things ultimately work out, 443 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 2: and of course not still in the way that you 444 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,439 Speaker 2: always imagined like it could be. It happens in another way, 445 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 2: but things are always happening for you, as you know. 446 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:02,919 Speaker 2: And so the more that you can kind of like 447 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 2: lean back, the more magnetic you'll be, the more of 448 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 2: a you know, a better experience you'll have, and the 449 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 2: more that you'll actually be translating that true lean back 450 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:11,960 Speaker 2: energy to the universe. 451 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 1: I love that so much. Thank you for sharing that 452 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: with us. It is it's so interesting. I honestly had 453 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 1: a very similar experience where last year it really felt 454 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:27,200 Speaker 1: like I had some huge, huge highs, but it came 455 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: with a lot of lows. And also, if I'm very honest, 456 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 1: when I looked back, it was a lot of almost 457 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:39,320 Speaker 1: proving energy of like, well I can do something really 458 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: huge in my business. It's like I'm going to go 459 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 1: out and do this. But I really kind of took 460 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,479 Speaker 1: the you know sheet away and I was like why 461 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,400 Speaker 1: did I feel the need to do that? And it's 462 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 1: like why did I feel the need to prove that 463 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 1: my business is you know a legit natural subplements cotting 464 00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 1: or like you know those sorts of things, and really 465 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: questioning the behavior and reflecting because it's like we don't 466 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 1: know until we try, and being like thank youself for 467 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,880 Speaker 1: like really wanting to go and the momentum and everything 468 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:15,439 Speaker 1: in that year, but also now I want something different 469 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 1: and also I believe that I can have something different. 470 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,399 Speaker 1: In e com businesses, there is this kind of trend 471 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 1: where you see a lot of like hype campaigns, like 472 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 1: big events and like very kind of risky things done 473 00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 1: it comes to the territory. But again I had to 474 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,879 Speaker 1: be like, hang on a second, and absolutely, if it 475 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 1: feels aligned, if the team's on board, if I'm on board, 476 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,800 Speaker 1: if the energy feels right, we'll do these you know, 477 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: fun exciting things, but just also being wary where it's like, 478 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: are we just trying to compete? Are we trying to prove? 479 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: And to me, I'm like, that's not the right energy 480 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,520 Speaker 1: in which to do something. And then last year, yeah, 481 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: it just felt like I was probably turning the wheels 482 00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,919 Speaker 1: a little bit too much, and this year, I'm like, 483 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 1: it feels better to be slower, to be soft, and yeah, 484 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:07,200 Speaker 1: I want to absolutely see the same results or more, 485 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: but also at okay, if not, because it matters what's 486 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 1: happening internally rather than externally. That actually matters to me more. 487 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 2: And now I know absolutely yeah, And it requires that 488 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 2: true acceptance of I'll be okay if you know, this 489 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 2: doesn't work out or we make less money or whatever, 490 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,640 Speaker 2: because it's worth it to me to prioritize these other things. 491 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 2: That's exactly kind of what my experience was as well. 492 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 2: And you know, I think when it comes to the 493 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 2: energy of like manifestation in general, and like leaning back 494 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 2: and whatever. I think another element to that that maybe 495 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 2: is a little bit more like fun of something that 496 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 2: you can like throw in there and like add a 497 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 2: twist to your perspective or the way that you see 498 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 2: manifestation is seeing yourself as the manifestation. Like you are 499 00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 2: being manifested by opportunity. These buy brand deals, buy visibility, 500 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 2: by whatever it is that you're seeking in your life. 501 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:11,280 Speaker 2: Those things are looking for the energetic match to bring 502 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 2: them it to life, projects, courses like things like that. 503 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 2: Those entities, those energetic entities. Have you ever read Big 504 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 2: Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert? Yeah, I figured you would have 505 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,159 Speaker 2: read that book, so you know, in Big Magic she 506 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:28,200 Speaker 2: talks about how like ideas are like energetic entities, and 507 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 2: like they're kind of like floating around in the ether 508 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,360 Speaker 2: and they're like searching each other person, right, and they're 509 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:36,520 Speaker 2: they're searching for the person to be generated through or 510 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:38,720 Speaker 2: to be like birthed through. And so if you think 511 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,360 Speaker 2: of all the things that you want in life, the opportunities, 512 00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 2: the money, the experience, is, the visibility, the whatever, those 513 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 2: are all like energetic entities and they're looking for their owner. 514 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,720 Speaker 2: They're looking for the thing that can birth them into 515 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,439 Speaker 2: the world. They're looking for the place where they can 516 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 2: be channeled through You see yourself as that thing, and 517 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 2: you're like, I'm going to be the one that they choose. 518 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,399 Speaker 2: I'm going to be a match because why wouldn't you 519 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 2: pick me? 520 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:03,360 Speaker 1: Right? 521 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 2: And those big opportunities are looking for someone who is 522 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 2: high energy as a big personality, who's energetic, who's loving life, 523 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:13,880 Speaker 2: who's you know, free, who is chill but like growing 524 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 2: and cares about herself and knows how to prioritize and 525 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 2: has great relationships. Like just become that person that those 526 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 2: ideas and opportunities would want to choose as their vehicle 527 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 2: to be brought to the earth. And that makes this 528 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 2: process of manifestation even more fun too, because it's like, duh, 529 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,880 Speaker 2: why wouldn't you pick me? Hello, Like, look what I'm doing, 530 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 2: Look how awesome I am. Look at you know, all 531 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 2: the work that I'm doing on myself. I think that's 532 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 2: a fun way to kind of like view it. 533 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,879 Speaker 1: That was so good. I love that. Thank you so 534 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 1: much for bringing that in. Let's talk about business, because 535 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,679 Speaker 1: you're obviously an incredible business courach and love how you 536 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 1: really marry the spirituality manifestation with business. If there was 537 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 1: someone who is, let's say that either just starting out 538 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: in business or they currently run their business and it 539 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: they love what they do, but it's like it feels 540 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 1: hard and it just feels like, oh, like something isn't 541 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 1: right here. Do you have any like recommendations or theories 542 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 1: or insights to that? 543 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. So I got a message from someone the other 544 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 2: day that was, like, what would you say to someone 545 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 2: who has so many ideas and is dying to build 546 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:38,600 Speaker 2: something but doesn't know what to choose or where to 547 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 2: start or what to build. And my answer for that 548 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 2: was really simple, and it's get mentorship, get accountability. I 549 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 2: think when you're feeling like everything is hard or you 550 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:50,840 Speaker 2: have so many things you don't know which one to choose, 551 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 2: we're in this constant battle of like is this the 552 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 2: right choice? Is this the wrong choice? And it's stopping 553 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 2: you from really doing anything. 554 00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 1: And the thing. 555 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 2: About creating a big business, manifesting your dream life in 556 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,160 Speaker 2: any way, shape or form, is that you've got to 557 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 2: take the first step. When you cannot see what step 558 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 2: two is, when you cannot see what step three is, 559 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,080 Speaker 2: you have to actually just start and so I think 560 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 2: it's really valuable for people that are at at you know, 561 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 2: the early stages of their business journey to get mentorship 562 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 2: because we get so in our heads, like you have 563 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,960 Speaker 2: business mentors, I have business mentors. Like it doesn't matter 564 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,800 Speaker 2: the level that you're at, we all get distracted by 565 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:29,960 Speaker 2: little things, even what you're talking about, like last year 566 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 2: of feeling like, oh, you know they're over here doing that, 567 00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 2: should we do something like that? It's like this proving 568 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 2: energy of like wanting to compete or seeing what other 569 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 2: people are doing. That happens at every level. But you've 570 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 2: got to like find a way to build the mindset 571 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 2: to keep you steady and streamlined of no, this is 572 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 2: the goal. This is what I'm going to start with. 573 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 2: Here's the steps. Let me just do step one and 574 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:57,280 Speaker 2: then step two will appear from there. So really having 575 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,520 Speaker 2: accountability and some sort of plans that you can get 576 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,479 Speaker 2: out of like the chaos and the mud of like 577 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 2: the mind that's pulling you in all these different directions, 578 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 2: and really just know what to focus on that is invaluable. 579 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,120 Speaker 2: And when you have that, you can start to have 580 00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 2: a lot more fun because the reason why it's feeling 581 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 2: hard and you're not having fun is because you have 582 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 2: so many decisions to make and you're not actually making 583 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 2: any of the decisions because you're stuck in the indecision. 584 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 2: You're stuck in the overthinking, oh my god, what if 585 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 2: I chose that wrong? 586 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:26,000 Speaker 1: Should I do this? 587 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 2: Should do that? I'm not sure. 588 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 1: I have to wait. 589 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 2: Oh I can't do step one because I don't know 590 00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 2: what step three is. How do I start this podcast? 591 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 2: Do I need to do video? 592 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 1: Should I cut? 593 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 2: It's like you're getting so far ahead of yourself that 594 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:39,000 Speaker 2: of course it's no fucking fun. That's miserable. So get 595 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 2: the accountability, get the mentorship, get yourself a plan, because 596 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 2: once you have someone that can say, okay, I see 597 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 2: everything that you want to do. We've laid it all out, 598 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 2: but where I believe we should start is here. 599 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 1: Do this. 600 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 2: Come back to me next week. Then you know what 601 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 2: you're doing. You're more focused, you're more streamlined. So now 602 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 2: you can be enjoy. Now, you can be in play, now, 603 00:30:58,120 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 2: you can be in fun. Now you can actually go 604 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:02,360 Speaker 2: out and live your life and know that you're making progress, 605 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 2: and that's going to make you more magnetic. You're going 606 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 2: to have more fun, and we talked about on my show, 607 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 2: like the energy of like fun is what attracts money. 608 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,520 Speaker 2: So it's just going to do amazing things for you. 609 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for sharing and Ian like this 610 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,600 Speaker 1: year you said ceo era, what does that kind of 611 00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: look like? 612 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 2: And Maine to you, the soft ceo era was really about, 613 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 2: like I said, kind of prioritizing my values ahead of 614 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 2: the growth that I wanted to see happening in the business, 615 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 2: because I think when you start growing a business, it 616 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 2: becomes your baby. Like we talked about on my show, 617 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:40,719 Speaker 2: like you had your businesses as your baby, and then 618 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 2: you had a real baby and you were like, oh fuck, 619 00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 2: you know, like one of these is actually like a 620 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 2: real living child and the other ones, you know, so 621 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 2: it's like that starts to make you shift your priorities. 622 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 2: And so I just had like this, you know, waking 623 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 2: up feeling of oh, like I really need to be 624 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 2: getting in more steps, I really need to be like 625 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 2: working out more. I need to rearrange how I envision 626 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 2: my calendar. I switched around kind of what my themed 627 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 2: days were so that I could stay more on track 628 00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 2: each day and not be task switching as much. I 629 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,480 Speaker 2: personally use my Google calendar as my to do list, 630 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 2: and that allows me to be a lot more realistic 631 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 2: with how much time a task is going to take 632 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,760 Speaker 2: me and where I can kind of like slot things in, 633 00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 2: rather than having this huge, long to do list of 634 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 2: all these things and then getting to the end of 635 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 2: the day or the end of the week and feeling 636 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 2: like I didn't accomplish everything that I set out to do. 637 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 2: So just better structure an organization, because as you know, 638 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 2: when you want to be more in your feminine energy 639 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 2: and you want to be more on flow, there's structure 640 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 2: required so that you can feel safe in letting go, 641 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 2: so that you can feel safe and relaxing. I decided 642 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 2: to take Fridays off of work and have that just 643 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 2: be a personal day for me. But that required, you know, 644 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 2: the scaffolding and the structure of what are the other 645 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 2: four days of the week and to look like, then, 646 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,680 Speaker 2: how are we going to you know, build this out, 647 00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,480 Speaker 2: and what are the themes of those days so that 648 00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,120 Speaker 2: I can really stay for the most part, like singularly 649 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 2: focused on each of those days instead of being like 650 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 2: this scatterbrained, you know person that's switching between all of 651 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 2: the you know, creative work and then logistical work and 652 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 2: then strategy work and so doing that, and then also 653 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 2: I just decided I'm only going to launch things in 654 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 2: a way that actually feels fun for me to do. 655 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 2: So if I don't want to launch them thing, I'm 656 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 2: not going to. And if that means less revenue, so 657 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 2: be it. But also when it came time to launch 658 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 2: something that I thought maybe I wasn't going to originally 659 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 2: at the start of the year because I was like, 660 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 2: those launches usually feel really heavy and a lot of energy, 661 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 2: so I'm probably only going to do that once this 662 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,240 Speaker 2: year instead of twice. But when it came time to 663 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 2: actually do it, I was I was feeling more my 664 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 2: cup was more full, and I was more nourished because 665 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,000 Speaker 2: of how I had been leading myself through the year. 666 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 2: So I actually did feel like I wanted to launch it, 667 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 2: but I was like, I'm going to do it in 668 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:49,239 Speaker 2: a way that actually is like totally new and like 669 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:53,239 Speaker 2: is experimental, but it just like feels fun and it 670 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 2: actually feels like something that I want to do, And 671 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 2: so being willing to experiment too, because you know, launching 672 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 2: something in a new way could work or it could 673 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 2: not work. But I'm in that lean back energy of like, 674 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 2: you know, let's mess around and find out and if 675 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 2: it doesn't work the way that I want to do, 676 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:09,080 Speaker 2: I know that I'm going to be okay. And so 677 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:10,440 Speaker 2: it was, yeah, a lot of that. I hired a 678 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 2: personal trainer, I've been weightlifting a lot more and focusing 679 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:16,800 Speaker 2: on it. Sounds so simple, but like eating three meals 680 00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:19,560 Speaker 2: a day just yeah, as like as like an entrepreneur, 681 00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,359 Speaker 2: like sometimes you're like, oh shit, like I didn't eat 682 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 2: lunch and I was like, I don't want to do 683 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:24,400 Speaker 2: that anymore. 684 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:29,320 Speaker 1: I love that. And again it's like having those boundaries 685 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 1: and almost like what I see it as, it's like 686 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:36,000 Speaker 1: you anticipating or not waiting for the burn burnout. You're 687 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: anticipating it and acting first, so then you're never you know, 688 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:40,839 Speaker 1: burnt it out, which I. 689 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:44,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, like like prevention, you know, being proactive rather than 690 00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:47,000 Speaker 2: like reactive to like, oh shit, now I don't feel good. 691 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:47,759 Speaker 2: What do I do now? 692 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:53,240 Speaker 1: Okay? I feel like all of us we feel out 693 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,960 Speaker 1: and we feel you know, whether it's in our business, 694 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,160 Speaker 1: whether it's starting something new, going to the next level anything. 695 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,240 Speaker 1: What do you you do when you feel down? 696 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:06,200 Speaker 2: When I feel doubt, I know that it's an opportunity 697 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 2: for growth, and so I typically ask myself, what is 698 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 2: the worst case scenario, what is the worst thing that 699 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 2: could happen, And if that were to happen, would I 700 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,560 Speaker 2: be okay? Most of the times the answer is yes, 701 00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:21,319 Speaker 2: I still would be okay. And then I go to 702 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:23,600 Speaker 2: the other side and I ask myself, what's the best 703 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 2: case scenario, what's the best thing that could happen? And 704 00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 2: how much risk am I willing to take if the 705 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,600 Speaker 2: opportunity of that happening of the positive result is on 706 00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:37,080 Speaker 2: the line. And most of the times the risk is 707 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:38,560 Speaker 2: worth the reward, and so I go forward. 708 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:44,360 Speaker 1: Anyway, I love that last question when you're feeling stuck 709 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:49,279 Speaker 1: or uninspired, especially being you know, the founder, the visionary 710 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 1: of your business, how do you get realigned? How do 711 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 1: you get back into the state aflow? 712 00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,759 Speaker 2: So this is something that I give to my high 713 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:02,200 Speaker 2: level business mastermind clients. We actually do a month long 714 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,080 Speaker 2: challenge when they start with me. It's called the creative Vortex, 715 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,280 Speaker 2: but I'll just give you like a couple like snippets 716 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 2: from it. Essentially, you know, our creative energy is the 717 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,440 Speaker 2: life force of our business, no matter what kind of 718 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,640 Speaker 2: business that you run, we have to be innovative and 719 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 2: constantly creating new things, and so it's really important if 720 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 2: you feel like you're lost from that or detach, you're 721 00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 2: not having any new ideas, you're not feeling inspired. 722 00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:25,919 Speaker 1: Most of the time. 723 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 2: The problem is that we are over consuming other people's 724 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:34,400 Speaker 2: ideas and other information, and so it's about unplugging our ears, 725 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 2: like literally and metaphorically from what everyone else is doing 726 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:43,200 Speaker 2: and getting realigned with our center and ourselves. So for me, 727 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,919 Speaker 2: like I've gone through phases where I've literally cut out 728 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 2: all personal development from my life, like no more podcasts, 729 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,000 Speaker 2: no more personal development books, because it gets to a 730 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 2: place where you literally feel like you're just trying to 731 00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:56,839 Speaker 2: like catch up with yourself or like learn so much 732 00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 2: or digest it so quickly so that you can implement 733 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 2: it in your business or teach someone else how to 734 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 2: do it. And if you feel that happening, you're going 735 00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,480 Speaker 2: to be so disconnected from your own creativity because you 736 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,319 Speaker 2: don't feel like you're as good as all the things 737 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:11,920 Speaker 2: that you're consuming and learning. So shutting that off and 738 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:15,439 Speaker 2: doing something called that I call non stimulation walks, which 739 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 2: is you know a lot of us go on our 740 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:20,120 Speaker 2: Hot Girl walks. We go on walks daily, but no music, 741 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 2: no podcasts, no books, no phone in general, no no calls, 742 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 2: no conversations with anyone, just silence. So it's you walking 743 00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,680 Speaker 2: with no disruptions. We're not plugging our ears with anything. 744 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:36,840 Speaker 2: This actually helps you open your channel and you'll notice 745 00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:38,920 Speaker 2: that you feel a lot of resistance to going on 746 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,120 Speaker 2: the walk because you don't want to be alone, which 747 00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 2: is such a weird concept where you're like, I need 748 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,640 Speaker 2: something to keep me company while I'm on my walk. 749 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:49,920 Speaker 2: But once you start doing it, you'll start to like 750 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:52,319 Speaker 2: get reacquainted with the voice in your head and you'll 751 00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,640 Speaker 2: be having conversations with yourself and you'll be like strategizing 752 00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:57,480 Speaker 2: what's coming up in your business or how things are 753 00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 2: in your relationship, or you know, you'll be actually talking 754 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:03,840 Speaker 2: to yourself and ideas will come and that opens the 755 00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:07,040 Speaker 2: channel and so you know, cutting off the things that 756 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,520 Speaker 2: are distracting you. And part of that for my clients 757 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,160 Speaker 2: a lot of the times is muting and unfollowing a 758 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,799 Speaker 2: lot of people on social media. I challenge them to 759 00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:19,279 Speaker 2: unfollow everyone in their niche, anyone that's in competition with 760 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 2: them their type of like brand or whatever they do. 761 00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:25,560 Speaker 2: It's like, don't look at any of that for a 762 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 2: period of time and then do the non stimulation walks, 763 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,200 Speaker 2: and I invite them to also do some sort of 764 00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:36,319 Speaker 2: daily devotional practice to the vessel, to the founder, to 765 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:40,399 Speaker 2: the visionary, something that serves you. Not necessarily like, oh, 766 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,600 Speaker 2: I'm going to do outreach every day because it helps 767 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 2: the business, but it's like devoting something to the channel, 768 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:52,400 Speaker 2: to the visionary, to the vessel of the business. What 769 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 2: is going to serve you, what is going to make 770 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:57,080 Speaker 2: you better, what's going to fill your cup and light 771 00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 2: up your energy. So if you guys want to try 772 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 2: join the creative vortex, oh. 773 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,200 Speaker 1: My god, I love it. I'll be joining. 774 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,759 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm doing that asap. 775 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:11,239 Speaker 1: I love the non stimulation walks. Honestly, when you said it, 776 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:14,320 Speaker 1: I was like, I'll know, so that means I absolutely 777 00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:19,920 Speaker 1: need to do it right. Yeah, Oh my gosh, Sam, 778 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:23,640 Speaker 1: thank you so much. There has been such a beautiful conversation. 779 00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,319 Speaker 1: I feel like he keep talking forever, and it just 780 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:28,920 Speaker 1: means you have to come back from the potty. But 781 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:33,440 Speaker 1: where can everyone find you? Did you have anything coming up? Obviously? 782 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,800 Speaker 1: I will link everything in the show notes guys. 783 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 2: So you guys can find me on Instagram at Underscore 784 00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:42,160 Speaker 2: Samantha Daily. You can check out the podcast. It's called 785 00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 2: Makeshift Happen. You can find it anywhere you get podcasts. 786 00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:47,080 Speaker 2: We also do video episodes on YouTube. If you want 787 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,080 Speaker 2: to come over and check out our recent episode where 788 00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,160 Speaker 2: Georgie was featured, I'm sure you'll love it. We had 789 00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 2: an awesome conversation there. And then for work and mentorship, 790 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,960 Speaker 2: you can always just send me a DM on Instagram. 791 00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,400 Speaker 2: I'm the only person in my DM, so I'd love 792 00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,840 Speaker 2: to chat with you. My website is Samantha Dailey dot com. 793 00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:06,080 Speaker 2: We will have a lot of things coming up, some 794 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:09,759 Speaker 2: of my signature courses, programs and business masterminds on a 795 00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:13,080 Speaker 2: very special sale for Black Friday time. So if that's 796 00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,560 Speaker 2: something that interests you, just know that that's all coming. 797 00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:17,000 Speaker 2: But I can't wait to connect. 798 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,480 Speaker 1: Yay, thank you so much. Damn it has been such 799 00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:25,480 Speaker 1: a pleasure. Thank you, Thank you so much for listening 800 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:29,319 Speaker 1: to another episode of the Rise and Concer podcast. 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