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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, everybody is out for Josya, manicent Moon

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Speaker 1: for hey, hey hey, everybody is out for Josy and

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Speaker 1: a manicurt.

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Speaker 2: Move for well. He is a news flash for our podcast.

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Speaker 1: Scientists say, don't take health advice from cintentn Cintenna.

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Speaker 2: How do you say it?

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Speaker 3: Centenarians, people who are over one hundred.

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Speaker 2: Ye old dudes?

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Speaker 1: Because how many times you've seen a story some old

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Speaker 1: timer and he's one hundred years old and.

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Speaker 2: He says, I had six gotches a day.

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Speaker 1: And sixteen packs of smokes, and I fought in the

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Speaker 1: war and I'm still here and I had an asbestos

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Speaker 1: chaser to go.

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Speaker 3: Well, this woman has just she died just recently, the

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Speaker 3: age of one hundred and seventeen. And she said that

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Speaker 3: she smoked until just recently, but she was too blind

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Speaker 3: to light her own cigarettes. That's the ond reason she

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Speaker 3: gave up towards the end. But often, like there's other

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Speaker 3: old people who say that they had a glass of

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Speaker 3: what port every day, two pounds of chocolate every week,

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Speaker 3: drinking whiskey. So it's inevitable that when someone's that old,

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Speaker 3: people are going to say what's the key? Yeah, But

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Speaker 3: scientists funnily enough of saying, don't take health advice from

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Speaker 3: these people, because it's really very little to do with

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Speaker 3: how they're living, is to do with their genetics and

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Speaker 3: coincidence and pretty much luck.

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Speaker 2: It's luck.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, do you want to live to be over one hundred?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: You know that.

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Speaker 1: I'm reading that Leanne Moriarty book at the moment, and

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Speaker 1: it just and the premise of the book is this

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Speaker 1: lady on a flight from Hobart to Sydney takes it

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Speaker 1: upon herself to dispense all the psychic advice to people.

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Speaker 1: But I think she has a medical episode. Well she

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Speaker 1: doesn't know what she's doing.

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Speaker 4: But you want to tell me too much. Don't tell

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Speaker 4: me too much.

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Speaker 2: This is just the premise to get you over the line.

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Speaker 1: So she's walking down the corridor of the plane saying

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Speaker 1: expected age of death ninety four, cause of death pneumonia,

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Speaker 1: expected age of death thirty seven, of death domestic violence,

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Speaker 1: you know, to all these people on the plane, and

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Speaker 1: people are amused by it. Other people are freaked out

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Speaker 1: by it. So I'm at the part where no one

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Speaker 1: has actually died yet in the book. But it's really

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Speaker 1: your own.

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Speaker 3: You didn't belie even if you didn't believe it, it

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Speaker 3: would freak you out. It's like pointing the bone is

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Speaker 3: like someone saying to you that, which is probably what psychics.

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Speaker 3: That's why psychics and of a specific they don't sort

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Speaker 3: of say you're going to cark it, because who could

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Speaker 3: survive that information? Because we're all that's the biggest knowledge

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Speaker 3: we have in our life, and it's amazing we find

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Speaker 3: a place for it is that we're all going to

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Speaker 3: die and we don't.

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Speaker 4: Know when and where and how do you remember?

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Speaker 3: And we have to get on with life or else

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Speaker 3: it would you die under the weight of the anxiety.

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Speaker 4: If we all you got to live your life much.

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Speaker 2: But do you remember the first time you found out

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Speaker 2: that you were going to die?

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Speaker 3: I remember going through a phase when I was scared

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Speaker 3: that my parents would die.

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Speaker 4: I still remember this very clearly.

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Speaker 3: I was maybe four or five something like that, and

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Speaker 3: every time they left the house, I was anxious that

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Speaker 3: they were going to die. So that must been my

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Speaker 3: first knowledge of what that meant.

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Speaker 2: I remember very vividly.

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Speaker 1: We were driving in the car and Dad was talked

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Speaker 1: about his auntie Bessie, who had passed away, and I said,

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Speaker 1: I said, when, So, what does that mean passed away.

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Speaker 1: And he said, well, she's dead. She's not coming back.

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Speaker 1: I remember saying what's dead and Dad's were dead is?

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Speaker 1: And he laughed, Dead's no more, mate, That's what it is.

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Speaker 1: And I went, oh, sucks to be Aunt Bessie. And

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Speaker 1: then my mom pipes. He goes, we're all going to

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Speaker 1: die and what me?

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Speaker 2: Including me? And he said, well eventually you when you're

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how we get through it. We tell kids

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Speaker 3: it happens when you're very, very old and you're ready

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Speaker 2: But this is all new information to me, a little

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Speaker 2: five year old Jonesy.

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Speaker 4: Do we sit our kids down and tell them?

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Speaker 3: I don't think you know whether we say no, But

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Speaker 3: what I mean is we don't do it. So we

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Speaker 3: talk about bees. No, we say when did you hear

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Speaker 3: about the birds and the bees?

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Speaker 4: But we just.

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Speaker 3: Assume somewhere along the lane we take in the knowledge yeah,

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Speaker 3: of death.

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Speaker 4: Don't have the death conversation.

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Speaker 2: No, and who wants the death compasson? No.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying to my oldest son when he started

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Speaker 3: to get a loose tooth, I said, oh, your teeth

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Speaker 3: are going to fall out, And Jack, who's two years

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Speaker 3: younger from the other room, says what he thought overnight

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Speaker 3: all his teeth would just go at once, which.

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Speaker 4: Is pretty much what happens.

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Speaker 3: What so some people take information better than others.

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Speaker 2: Jack, But Jack, it's a I don't know your own mortality.

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Speaker 1: I often find riding a motorcycle to be very therapeutic

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Speaker 1: in the sense that you never feel so alive as

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Speaker 1: when you're so close to death. And I push the

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Speaker 1: odds every day because I ride every day and I've

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Speaker 1: done it for a long time now, and i often

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Speaker 1: think about it, and I'm always more scared of my

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Speaker 1: motorcycle when i'm not on it, Like right now, I'm

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Speaker 1: talking to you, part of me in the back of

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Speaker 1: my mind sets.

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Speaker 2: I've just got to give him up. I've got to stop.

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Speaker 1: But you know what I recogn as soon as I

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Speaker 1: give him up, I'll die in a horrible Volvo car

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Speaker 1: sent or something like that.

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Speaker 3: We've got it all planned because that's what that woman

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Speaker 3: on the plane said to you.

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Speaker 4: Don't even talk to me about that.

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Speaker 1: That me right out, because what would you do if

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Speaker 1: a woman came up and said that to.

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Speaker 4: That's right, Well, that's the thing.

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Speaker 3: You spend your whole life looking for the volvo that's

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Speaker 3: going to hit you.

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Speaker 2: You want someone to come up, and you just want

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Speaker 2: good fortune.

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Speaker 4: You want to no, you don't want to hear anything.

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Speaker 4: Just live your life every day.

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Speaker 3: Live your life every day because, as Harley says, we

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Speaker 3: all have an asteroid coming for us. We all, we

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Speaker 3: all do. So live your life because you never know when, where.

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Speaker 2: How exactly. And psychics, keep your pie hole shut.

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Speaker 1: Keep your pie holes unless someone asks for it, no

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Speaker 1: unsolicited or booking.

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Speaker 3: You hear that sent and arians same goes for you.

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Speaker 2: Keep keep your good genes to yourself.

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Speaker 4: Okay, kids, that's it for today. Come back tomorrow. Tomorrow

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Speaker 4: of Jody and a Man's Room