1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yr 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing 8 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for 9 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow. 10 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. 11 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 3: She's on the Money. 12 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 4: She's on the Money. 13 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: Hello, and welcome to She's on them the podcast some 14 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 2: millennials who want financial freedom and the end of the 15 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 2: year to happen literally right now today, my friends, it 16 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 2: is Friday, and it is the last Friday of the 17 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:11,199 Speaker 2: year that I am going to be getting my little 18 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 2: team together to talk about you our incredible She's on 19 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 2: the Money community today. Mis just gried. She is going 20 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 2: to be sharing her favorite money wins. Beck say ed 21 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 2: over this side of the table, you've got our three 22 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,479 Speaker 2: broke tips to share with us. We've got a juicy 23 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 2: money dilemma. As always, this week we're going to be 24 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 2: talking all about getting started with shares, and we're gonna 25 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 2: be unpacking something you slid into our DMS about. So 26 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 2: this week we're talking about friends who borrow money a 27 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 2: little bit spicy. But I have also been told that 28 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 2: when we get to the end of this episode, our 29 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 2: producers sam And and Lisa have cut together what they're calling 30 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 2: bloopers from the year that has been scary. 31 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 4: It's my favorite things that they did last year. 32 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, but like I was mortified. I was like, 33 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 2: that's not that's that's literally just showing everybody who I 34 00:01:58,760 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 2: really am. 35 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 3: We're not safe. 36 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 2: We are not saying nobody is safe. Anything said in 37 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 2: the studio does apparently not stay in the studio. So 38 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 2: we have a bloops reel to share with you at 39 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 2: the very end of these episodes, So guys, don't go anywhere, 40 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 2: or if you're really bored already. 41 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 3: Just skipped to the end. 42 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 2: But before we get there, my loves, how has your 43 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 2: week been? It is the last week of twenty twenty three. 44 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 2: Beck enjoying it? Not enjoying it? 45 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 3: Where are we at? Yeah? 46 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 5: Really enjoying it? I just got back from Sydney, saw 47 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 5: the Family. 48 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 3: Oh how good is family? Yeah? 49 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:34,239 Speaker 5: It was really lovely and I drove there, didn't fly 50 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 5: because you know, you guys know I hate flying, Yes, 51 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 5: and so it was just like a beautiful, therapeutic eight 52 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 5: and a half hours on the same road, the whole away. 53 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 5: But I really did enjoy it. And now I'm just 54 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 5: chilling until the office opens back up again. 55 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, what's your go through road trip album? Because that's 56 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 4: like a you've got eight hours? What do you like? 57 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 5: Totally I'm big podcast up. Obviously I'll listen to She's 58 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 5: on the Money. 59 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 3: You're quite literally a podcast. 60 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, But what I try and do is sit in 61 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 5: silence for as long as possible. 62 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 3: Really, I do do that. 63 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 5: I do because like, let's say, I can get through 64 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 5: an hour and a half and then when I start 65 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 5: listening to something then it feels like, do you know, 66 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 5: like I've not been myself, Like. 67 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 2: I bore myself for one hour. 68 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 4: Do you like talk to yourself in your hesh? 69 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 3: I think about things. I think about things. I look around. 70 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: At the same site you've seen every single time driven 71 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: to Sydney and. 72 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 3: Back, they're still or inspiring. 73 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 5: You know, there's something about an something about an open 74 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 5: road in summer jest, you totally get it. 75 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 4: But see, I would put on like a country like 76 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 4: you do a country album. 77 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: I would do either the Taylor Swift eras to a 78 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: set list, which I have been listening to on repeat 79 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 2: on Spotify. I also read something recently. Do you know 80 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 2: what I can't say? I read something recently that's a 81 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: blatant lie, Jessica. I saw something on TikTok recently that 82 00:03:58,080 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 2: makes sense. 83 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 4: Story checks out more alright. 84 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 2: Taylor Swift trained for her Eras tour by running on 85 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 2: a treadmill while singing her entire Eras Tour set list. Wow, 86 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 2: and I can't wait for people to start training for 87 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 2: marathons that way. 88 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 4: Honestly, if there was a way to get me to run, 89 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 4: that would be Yeah. 90 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 2: I can organize that, jess No worries. I know you've 91 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 2: already got a walking pat in your house. Halfway there, 92 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 2: but I'd either listen to that or we'd just be 93 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 2: listening to really gruesome murders the entire way there. 94 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 4: I'll be in a different car. 95 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 2: You don't know what you're missing, Jessica. 96 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 5: Actually I'm also not a true crime person, but anyway, No, no, please, 97 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 5: you are not my people, no Misjessic. 98 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 2: How has your week being good? 99 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 4: Just been relaxing, eating gingerbread, eating lots and lots of gingerbread. 100 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:51,159 Speaker 4: I went boxing day shopping, snagged some deals. We love that, 101 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 4: just kind of taking the break because we only have 102 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 4: a little quick one, just to enjoy it. Be aro 103 00:04:56,520 --> 00:05:00,559 Speaker 4: od friends, go to the beach, chill out, lovely good things. 104 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:01,039 Speaker 4: How are you. 105 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to eat this blueberry muffin because I 106 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 2: definitely haven't had enough food over this festive season. I 107 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 2: went down to the beach to spend some time with 108 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:13,239 Speaker 2: my family. My parents are down there, my sister came down. 109 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 2: I've been hanging out with my husband. We're kind of 110 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 2: like in that, I don't know, we're waiting for a 111 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 2: baby to arrive. They're coming in February, at the end 112 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 2: of February, we think, So that's kind of it's just 113 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 2: a bit weird. I feel like we're in limbo. We're 114 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 2: planning for a baby. I'm uncomfortable. I'm not having the 115 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 2: best time in the heat. I'm really puffy, like all 116 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:38,039 Speaker 2: of those things. Really grateful obviously, like every pregnant person 117 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 2: we're all grateful for it, but like, guys, I'm not 118 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 2: gonna lie pregnancy sucks. Which one of you was gonna 119 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 2: be like, Oh, by the way, here's a laundry list 120 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,799 Speaker 2: of symptoms you're definitely gonna get and like it's not fun. 121 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 2: So I feel like I can be grateful for being 122 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 2: pregnant obviously cannot wait for this baby to arrive, but 123 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 2: also cannot wait to not be pregnant. 124 00:05:57,920 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 4: You're a pitiful beach ball. 125 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 2: If anyone ever tries to tell me ever again like 126 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 2: pregnancy is magical, I'm gonna be like, you're a liar, 127 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 2: A dirty liar. 128 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, that seems fair. 129 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 2: I just don't know how anyone enjoys this anyway. Let's 130 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 2: get into the episode, Miss Jess Gricci, What have you 131 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 2: got when it comes to community money, wins and confessions? 132 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 4: First one is a little bit niche, but it comes 133 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 4: from Emma, and she said money win. Late October, I 134 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 4: received an email from my payroll saying I owed them 135 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 4: over three grand as I was overpaid on my birth leave. 136 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 4: My child is now almost two, by the way. It 137 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 4: didn't seem right to me, so I went back and 138 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 4: checked all my payslips and requested that they double checked 139 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 4: by doing a full audit, which they did. Fight this 140 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 4: week they email me to say, actually, you don't have 141 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 4: an overpayment at all. We actually owe you two hundred 142 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 4: dollars as we underpaid you. And also, by the way, 143 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 4: we didn't pay you forty five hundred dollars into super. 144 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 4: Well you're on birth leave. 145 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, excuse me. 146 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 4: She said. I'm so happy I stood my ground and 147 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 4: didn't just agree to pay it back. That is a 148 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 4: big mistake. 149 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 2: That is not just a big mistake, that's embarrassing. 150 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, so they sneaky double check you or receipts always people. 151 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 3: That gives me the ick for that employer. 152 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 6: Totally. 153 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 2: Really, if I did that to you, Jess, would you 154 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 2: like try and leave? Because I would. 155 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 4: I think I'd be going. You work for finance, yea 156 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 4: extra embarrassing for me. 157 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 3: Oh my god. Imagine if I've messed up like my 158 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 3: super or my taxes or something. 159 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 4: Embarrassing. 160 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 2: Outsource it, guys, It's outsource it so I can blame 161 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 2: other people. Next, I've got a money win from Sue 162 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 2: who said I paid for a normal entry ticket to 163 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 2: a festival on the weekend, but somehow I ended up 164 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 2: with a VIP ticket around my wrist. 165 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 4: Love us. 166 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 2: She didn't didn't tell us how that happened. 167 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe they just gave her the wrong one. 168 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 3: And she was like, would you say something? No, you would. 169 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 4: Would exactly not in a situation where they're not losing out. 170 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 4: Do you know if I went to the shops and 171 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 4: they didn't scan something through, then probably company, I supparent. 172 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 2: And then there's me calling over the attendant of the 173 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 2: calls check out the I'm like, so this didn't go 174 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 2: through that, like when I put it in, like it 175 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 2: didn't change the measurement. Could you just like, oh, scan 176 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 2: it in? Because now I'm anxious And they're just like, 177 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 2: you should have stolen it. 178 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 3: Everybody else steals it. That's cute. 179 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 4: Well, I have a good win to come actually on 180 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 4: that theme, but firstly one from Shay who said money win. 181 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 4: I opted out of capitalism for Christmas. I didn't spend 182 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 4: money to travel to see people that made me miserable. 183 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 4: I didn't spend money on stuff people don't need or 184 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:32,079 Speaker 4: want out of obligation or guilt. And I didn't spend 185 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 4: money or my health on booze that would be used 186 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 4: to cope with dealing with family drama. Amazing, weeen we 187 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 4: love to see it. 188 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 2: Also, just because they labeled as family doesn't mean you 189 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 2: have to spend any time with them. If they don't 190 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 2: nourish you, bye, absolutely completely cut them out. 191 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 4: Next, Skyly said, I bought a twenty four pack of 192 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 4: Huggies nappy pants usually twenty two dollars using a discount 193 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 4: on door dash, and only paid eighteen dollars. 194 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 2: Okay, that's good, that's a money win, already. 195 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 4: A win, but it gets better because they were out 196 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 4: of stock, so they substituted it for a pack of 197 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 4: forty eight. Who saved twenty one bucks and I didn't 198 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 4: even have to go to the shops. 199 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 2: As someone has recently been buying nappies. That stuff is wild. Actually, 200 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 2: side note, can I play a little game with you too? 201 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 4: Oh please? 202 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 2: I've been planning for a baby, and as you guys know, 203 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 2: I'm a spreadsheet girly. I'm going to need to know 204 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 2: how many nappies and newborn news is each and every 205 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 2: single day, and I'm probably gonna put it in a 206 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 2: spreadsheet calculate how many nappies I need at what size 207 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 2: and when and where and how much do nappies cost? 208 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 2: And what is the best price that I could potentially get. 209 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 2: So the real question here is goes how many nappies 210 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 2: does a newborn news each and every single day? 211 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 3: My gut says like six, Yeah, my gut says four. Four? 212 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 2: You reckon, Well it's actually nine or ten? 213 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 3: So you are you using sixty. 214 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 2: Plus nappies a week? Who when you have a newborn? 215 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 2: And I was like, nah, that math can't be right. 216 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 2: So I call one of my midwife friends and I 217 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,439 Speaker 2: was like, hey, just wondering, like, you know, trying to 218 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:00,199 Speaker 2: plan one. They will like just buy a I could 219 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 2: have nappis and buy another packet when you start to 220 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 2: run out. And it's like, well that seems quite logical. 221 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:07,439 Speaker 2: I want to do the maths. I want to work 222 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 2: out what these nappie's going to cost me. Yep, And 223 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 2: it's nine or ten a day. It goes down as 224 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,599 Speaker 2: they start to be able to like control themselves a 225 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 2: little bit better, But like, sure, what do you mean 226 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 2: ten a day? 227 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 4: That is excess? 228 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:21,839 Speaker 3: That's a lot. That's a lot of. 229 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 4: Nappies so many ways, and I wonder she was so 230 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 4: excited that she got them for half the price. 231 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, because you just go through them. And then 232 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:32,959 Speaker 2: it makes me think about like landfill and whether they're 233 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 2: biodegradable or not, and whether I should be doing a 234 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 2: cloth nappy parenting thing, and then I have to manage 235 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 2: my entire life around clock. I just it's a lot, 236 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 2: is a lot. 237 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 4: Oh my goodness. 238 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 2: Anyway, carry on, Jess, what else have you got. 239 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 4: I've got a win from Ashley, who said I was 240 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 4: in need of a gift idea, so I decorated a 241 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:51,319 Speaker 4: mug with polymer clay and I kept one as a 242 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:52,559 Speaker 4: gift to myself and she put. 243 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 2: A cute that's so cute. 244 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:55,959 Speaker 3: That's so. 245 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 4: And then lastly I have a wind from Beck. He said, 246 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 4: I went to buy two meters of fabric at spotlight 247 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 4: and they tried putting it through and the girl said, 248 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 4: it appears we don't sell this, just take it. 249 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 3: Wow, that is so cool. 250 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 2: Her boss is like, I saw now sing. 251 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 4: No, we don't know what happened. 252 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 3: I love that. 253 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 4: That's everything I got. 254 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:22,559 Speaker 2: Oh, I think that that is a very good wrap. 255 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,719 Speaker 2: Miss Beck sayed, what broke tips have you got for us? 256 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 2: Like the last three of the year, you're feeling the 257 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 2: pressure to make these really good. 258 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 3: A little bit trujular. 259 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 2: She doesn't care look at her face. She's like, no 260 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 2: v all my stuff is good. 261 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 5: Also, I'm very organized, so I think, I think, I feel. 262 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 4: Okay, you've never let us down before. 263 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 3: Thank you. That's so nice. You need to happen. 264 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 2: So ten out of ten, what's your first broke tip 265 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 2: of the week? 266 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 5: Okay, so this first broke tip is maybe more of 267 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 5: a life hack, but also definitely a money saver. So 268 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 5: this one's from Emma, who says that what she does 269 00:11:56,480 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 5: basically is on mealk prep days she bulk a bunch. 270 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 3: Of brown rice, white rice, whatever it is. 271 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 5: It turns out to be a lot cheaper than say, 272 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 5: buying like a one kilo bag every now and then, 273 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 5: usually not using it all. You end up leaving in 274 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 5: the back of the pantry, like one of those big ones. 275 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 3: There's really big ones, you know, there's ten kilo ones. 276 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,559 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I don't need ten kilos of cooked rice. 277 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 3: You just got a bolt cook it all. Freeze it. 278 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 3: It lasts forever. Where do you put it? 279 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 4: Though? 280 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 2: I mean I didn't freeze, o, Jessica, that's where you freeze. 281 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 3: True, you don't have to cook the whole ten I 282 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 3: was gonna. 283 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 4: Say, a picture you trying to get ten killed, like 284 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 4: that whole big ass sax worth of rice into your face. 285 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 2: So I think a life wind would be just like 286 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 2: maybe cook like one kilo of it, and I would say, 287 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 2: probably don't freeze it all together either, like you know, 288 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,200 Speaker 2: individually glad wrap the packets. 289 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 5: She gets send the photos all individually glad wrapped, which 290 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 5: is great because I feel like, even when we're cooking rice, 291 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 5: we over estimate how much we need end up chucking 292 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 5: the rest out. 293 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 2: But you can freeze rice. You can you don't need 294 00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 2: to chuck it out. 295 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 5: But often you'll be like using the chicken curry spoon 296 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:03,079 Speaker 5: in the rice and you're like, ah, it looks a 297 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:04,959 Speaker 5: bit gross, let's just chuck it out anyway, not. 298 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 3: Gross if it's definitely not gross. 299 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 5: But I feel like when you you know, when you're 300 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 5: just doing that for per meal, yeah, you end up 301 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 5: just chucking it out. So bolt cooking a bunch of rice, 302 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 5: it's very feeling. It'll you'll need in times of need when. 303 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 2: You're just way cheaper than buying that pre prepared microwave rice. 304 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 2: You're basically making your own microwave rice much cheaper because 305 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 2: one you don't have to pay it, but two you're 306 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 2: probably going to put it in the microwave any way 307 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 2: to reheat it, So what's the problem. 308 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 3: Totally better for the environment as well. Love it, money win, 309 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 3: life win. 310 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 2: I like that one absolutely. 311 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 5: This next one comes from Alex who recently moved and 312 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 5: had a lot of kind of like half used toiletrees, 313 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 5: some were full, but ones that she wanted to donate. Unfortunately, 314 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 5: you can't really donate toiletrees due to hygiene reasons and 315 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 5: other things once they've been used. That's true, but this 316 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 5: is also kind of just we're talking about this maybe 317 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 5: last it might have been last week or maybe a 318 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 5: couple weeks ago, where she kind of set up this 319 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 5: thing with her friends where it's like a toiletry swap. 320 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 5: So when we were talking about this a couple of 321 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 5: weeks ago, we were saying, like a skill swap of sorts. 322 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 5: So you could do this with really anything with your friends, 323 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:17,839 Speaker 5: if you're moving, if you've got a bunch of little 324 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 5: things that you need to declutter, just make it a 325 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 5: thing in your friendship group if you have one, or 326 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 5: in your community Facebook group or wherever, just try and 327 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 5: set up a little yeah toiletry swap little things like that. 328 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 5: She also says that this is really honestly helpful for 329 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 5: some if you're ever running low on toilet tries. Hotels 330 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 5: and hostels have stacks of abandoned ones in lost property, 331 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 5: so that is also an option if you're, like literally 332 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 5: for someone maybe doing it tough living on the street, 333 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 5: go to a hotel, go to a hostel and see 334 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 5: if they have anything in lost property. They probably even 335 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 5: have clothes and stuff in there that you could maybe take. 336 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 5: But that's something I'd never really thought of before, lost property. 337 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 4: From going to landfill or something like that. 338 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 3: Absolutely, absolutely so smart. 339 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 2: When you say, like a toilet tree swap, I laugh 340 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 2: a little bit because that was from Alex, and my 341 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 2: little sister's name is Alex, and like, I think my 342 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 2: little sister's version of a toilet tree swap is coming 343 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 2: into my house, opening my skin take and going I'll 344 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 2: take this, this and this, and I just really want 345 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 2: to try this they and then all of my stuff goes. 346 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:19,960 Speaker 2: There's no swapping, there's just taking, but it's all my 347 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 2: half opened product that I might actually be enjoying. But 348 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 2: she thinks she'd enjoy more. 349 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 3: Yes, of course. Oh well that's a money win for her. 350 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 2: That's a little sister win, I think. 351 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. 352 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 5: Okay, So my broke tip is I probably should have 353 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 5: mentioned this last week because it's almost the summer's almost over. 354 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 3: But basically, this summer, what are you doing? You gatekeeping? 355 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 3: I know I kind of gave all people on the 356 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 3: show to gatekeep. 357 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 5: It's you. 358 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 3: I don't believe it. I never saw this in my life. 359 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 2: I didn't see this coming either. We're gonna have to talk. 360 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 5: No, well it's not too late because holy moly, Struke 361 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 5: Bowling and Archie Brothers are all offering ten dollar games 362 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 5: and she beats over the summer. 363 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 2: Oh that's kind of cool. Yeah, if you have cute date. 364 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 3: It's a cute date, it's cheap date. 365 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 5: You can take your friends, you can take your family, 366 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 5: maybef you have little kids and you don't want to 367 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 5: be blowing the budget over the school holiday. 368 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 2: Also, maybe want air conditioned space to do something for 369 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 2: a while if you don't have aircon at home. 370 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 5: Exactly right, exactly right, So yeah, take advantage of that. 371 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 3: I think I might. 372 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 2: You think you might thin you're going to go bowling. 373 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 2: I haven't been bowling in here, you know. Oh I think, actually, Jess, yeah, 374 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 2: exactly what I was going to say. Oh, that was messy. 375 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 3: Let's not talk about it. I don't need to hear 376 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 3: about this off air. 377 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 2: We went to bowling, but it was bowling in a bar. 378 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 3: Dangerous, Yeah, very dangerous. None of us are very good 379 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 3: at bowling. 380 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 2: So we were there for the festivities. 381 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, very much. 382 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 2: So well, I love those. Let's go to a really 383 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 2: quick break on the flip side. We're going to be 384 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 2: talking about getting started with shares. We've got a spicy 385 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 2: DM about friends who borrow money, and the. 386 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 3: Countdown to the bloops is on. 387 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 2: I'm really scared, but also kind of excited to hear 388 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 2: how many times I've messed up on the podcast or 389 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 2: said things maybe I shouldn't have. So don't go anywhere, guys. 390 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 4: Welcome back, guys. Let's take a listen to the Money Dilemma. 391 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 2: Hi, there, have you got a money dilemma you just 392 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:18,160 Speaker 2: can't solve? The Sheese on the Money Team is here 393 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:21,400 Speaker 2: to help. Every week, we tackle your dilemmas, both big 394 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 2: and small, to answer your most burning money, career and 395 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:27,400 Speaker 2: life questions. To get involved, simply head to our website 396 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 2: and leave us a short voice recording and you might 397 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,159 Speaker 2: just find yourself on the show. Now, let's take a 398 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 2: listen to this week's money dilemma. 399 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 7: Hey guys, I'm made thirty five year old female with 400 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 7: a little bit of surplus money and I'm wanting to 401 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 7: explore perhaps purchasing shares EFTs, don't know what they are. 402 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:54,439 Speaker 7: Would love your advice on where to get started, and 403 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 7: really just basic knowledge that we should have as women 404 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:00,679 Speaker 7: to get into the final market. 405 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 4: Thank you. 406 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:04,919 Speaker 2: Oh well, hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, 407 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:09,399 Speaker 2: the podcast Millennials who want Financial Freedom. So we have 408 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 2: five hundred plus episodes of I would say, financially, some 409 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 2: of it's questionable. The Friday episodes, you might want to 410 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:19,119 Speaker 2: give a little bit of a skip if you're not 411 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 2: too interested in what we call our personalities. But on Wednesday, 412 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 2: we do what we call a deep dive, and each 413 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 2: and every single deep dive, the entire purpose of that 414 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 2: episode is to educate you on a topic that maybe 415 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 2: you haven't discussed before, or maybe a topic that you 416 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 2: have seen before, but no one's ever broken it down 417 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 2: in a way that actually made sense. To you and 418 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 2: spoke to you in a way where we're peers having 419 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:44,919 Speaker 2: a chat. You're not silly for not knowing this stuff, 420 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 2: You've just never learned it before. I'm excited because I 421 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 2: can answer this so quickly and so easily. My friend, 422 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 2: we did an entire investing series with our friends from 423 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 2: Chaerz's recently and even the year before. So if you're 424 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 2: interested in learning about share or ETFs, what I would 425 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 2: do is key into your podcasting app. Any podcasting app 426 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:06,680 Speaker 2: does the job, and I would key in she's on 427 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 2: the money shares or she's on the money ETFs, and 428 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 2: an episode that is directly related to that topic is 429 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 2: going to come up. I'm a little bit biased. If 430 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:18,919 Speaker 2: I were you, I would really start at the beginning 431 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 2: of our podcast because the way that we've structured it 432 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:24,560 Speaker 2: is really so that you can kind of build those foundations. 433 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:27,919 Speaker 2: And now we're nearly five years in. Isn't that wild? 434 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,919 Speaker 2: Nearly five years of content in, But we've kind of 435 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 2: leveled up the content in a way where sometimes you 436 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 2: do have to go back to basics and listen to 437 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:38,159 Speaker 2: a couple of the older episodes to go, let me 438 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 2: collect all of these basic foundations that I need to 439 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 2: create my financial literacy toolkit and then build from there. 440 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 2: But excitingly, the team and I sat down a couple 441 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 2: of weeks before Christmas and jess, what do I make 442 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 2: you do? 443 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:56,360 Speaker 4: We put together a spreadsheet? Is anyone? 444 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:59,119 Speaker 2: No one is surprised? But what was in the spreadsheet? 445 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 4: All year's worth of content? 446 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, And the reason we did that was because I 447 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 2: just said, look, I'm obviously having a baby this year. 448 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 2: We obviously already put lots of thought, energy and effort 449 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 2: into the content that we create. But I was like, 450 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 2: what did we do like five years ago that might 451 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,719 Speaker 2: have changed? Like let's review that. Okay, we've got, you know, 452 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 2: an investing series that we're doing in twenty twenty four. 453 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 2: All right, we know that we wanted to build on 454 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,679 Speaker 2: one another. So if you went and just listened to 455 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 2: those investing episodes, you get like a juicy amount of 456 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 2: knowledge that kind of builds on each other. I didn't 457 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:33,120 Speaker 2: want to be in a position where, you know, five 458 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 2: years in you would think that content might get repetitive. 459 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,919 Speaker 2: I am also surprised guys that we still have so 460 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 2: many topics we haven't tackled. But I just wanted to 461 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 2: make sure that we were nailing it, and if we 462 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 2: had already done it, we went back and we checked 463 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 2: the episode and said, is this outdated? Do we need 464 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 2: to update it? You know, is there anything that has changed? 465 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 2: And in the world of investing, so much has changed. 466 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 2: So I'm excited for I guess the structure of next 467 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,640 Speaker 2: year to roll out, because it's basically going to be 468 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:05,239 Speaker 2: a here's an investing guide, here's a savings guide, here's this, 469 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 2: that and the other, and. 470 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:06,880 Speaker 3: We're really keen. 471 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:10,639 Speaker 2: So from my very very biased perspective, I would be 472 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:14,120 Speaker 2: starting with our content. There's obviously a heap of other 473 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 2: podcasts you can listen to Girls that Invest My Millennial 474 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 2: Money are two of our friends of the show that 475 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,439 Speaker 2: we know and love. There's also a whole heap of 476 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:26,359 Speaker 2: investing books out there. I obviously already have three books, guys, 477 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 2: It's going to be five in twenty twenty four because 478 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 2: having a baby, it's just not enough for one year. 479 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 2: So I'm going to be releasing a book in May 480 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 2: and then another book in November, which is very very exciting. 481 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 2: But also all of our friends have finance books as well, 482 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 2: and if you just go into any bookshop, the finance section, 483 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 2: have a look, read the blurbs on the back, find 484 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,439 Speaker 2: one that resonates with you, because to me, that's the 485 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 2: most important thing is that you're learning from someone who 486 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 2: talks to you in a tone of voice that you enjoy, 487 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 2: because otherwise you're not going to listen, you're not going 488 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 2: to engage with it. So that is my advice. Do 489 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 2: you guys have ourthing to add to that? Because I've 490 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 2: just basically done a sales pitch on the She's on 491 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 2: the Money podcast for you to listen to the She's 492 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:08,360 Speaker 2: on the Money podcast. 493 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:09,479 Speaker 4: I think you've had it. I was just gonna say, 494 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 4: if you want to get the investing the shoes in 495 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 4: the Money book, we'll pop thelink in the show notes 496 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 4: to make it easy for you. 497 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 3: Smart lovely, Yes, credit. 498 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 7: We do. 499 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:17,919 Speaker 4: I've got your girls. 500 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 3: And for me, I was going to basically say the 501 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 3: same thing as Ve. 502 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 5: I think that you do a really good job of 503 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 5: covering basics and also intermediate and also advanced. So yeah, 504 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:28,639 Speaker 5: go back and have a little listen. 505 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 2: Go back and have a listen. Also, thanks for the listens. 506 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 2: Love you guys. Let's move into the next part of 507 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 2: the show. This is the second last part of the 508 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 2: show today because we've got to get to the bloops. 509 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 2: But as always, you guys have slid into our dms 510 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,440 Speaker 2: about a spicy topic, which is friends who borrow money. 511 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 2: So here is the DM my friends. Hello, she's on 512 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 2: the money. I need advice, my friend, You're in the 513 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:54,159 Speaker 2: right place. We have advice, we have opinions. We're going 514 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 2: to have a little bit of trauma. One of my 515 00:22:56,680 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 2: best friends always asks me to borrow money. It used 516 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,360 Speaker 2: to be like twenty bucks here and there, but lately 517 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 2: she's asking for more than one hundred dollars at a time, 518 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,439 Speaker 2: saying she desperately needs it to pay rent, she doesn't 519 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 2: have a job, and that I'm the only person she 520 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 2: can turn to for help. I do feel bad, and 521 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 2: she has a really fractured relationship with her parents, so 522 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,439 Speaker 2: living at home is not an option. In the past, 523 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 2: I've mentioned I feel really uncomfortable her asking me for money, 524 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 2: yet I always seem to give it to her because 525 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 2: I am guilted into it. In brackets with a face 526 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 2: palm emoji. I've even suggested that I can help her 527 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 2: get a job and assist with her applications, but she 528 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 2: always declients. Not long ago we went out for dinner 529 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 2: and where the bill came, she didn't have any money 530 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 2: to pay. She said she didn't want to let me 531 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,400 Speaker 2: down and was embarrassed to say she couldn't afford it, 532 00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 2: so came anyway. I obviously had to pay for the 533 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:49,120 Speaker 2: entire thing. I need this to stop, but also want 534 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,160 Speaker 2: to be sensitive with her, as I know she's currently struggling. 535 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 2: What do I do. 536 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 5: She didn't mention if the friend pays it back at 537 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,719 Speaker 5: her in a reasonable time, which I know is not 538 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,120 Speaker 5: the really the point, but. 539 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 4: A little bit, a little bit. There's a big difference 540 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,879 Speaker 4: between a friend who borrows money all the time but 541 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:10,640 Speaker 4: will get it back to you. When I can add 542 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,639 Speaker 4: a friend who borrows money and doesn't pay back. 543 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 5: And doesn't pay it back. And I'm wondering she's not employed. 544 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,880 Speaker 5: Maybe she does have other income and can pay it back, 545 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:22,640 Speaker 5: But personally, I really want that information because I'm thinking 546 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:27,239 Speaker 5: of me and my best friend Olivia, who I. 547 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 2: Always I'm going to nickname her money bags. 548 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,959 Speaker 5: Yeah, I literally always borrow money from her, but I 549 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 5: also paid back quickly, and we have like a sibling 550 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,360 Speaker 5: relationship where it's not awkward to say no to each other. 551 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:40,160 Speaker 3: So I think that's different in a way. 552 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,440 Speaker 5: But I'm still kind of like listening to this and 553 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:46,879 Speaker 5: just wondering what the dynamics like. Yeah, and is she 554 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 5: too uncomfortable to say a firm no, a staunch no. 555 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 3: It is awkward. 556 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 5: Your friend is obviously struggling, but that's not your responsibility. 557 00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:59,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, this person seems like a really good friend, Like. 558 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 2: I can tell that they're a good friend by the 559 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 2: way that it's written. Yeah, because they obviously are worried 560 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,879 Speaker 2: about them struggling. They don't really want to say no, 561 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 2: but they're also like, I can't keep doing this. I've 562 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 2: had enough of this, like it needs to end. But 563 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 2: they also don't want to, like say a firm no, 564 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 2: because if they say a firm no, it might be 565 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 2: like a line in the sand with the relationship, and 566 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 2: clearly they don't want to draw that line. Yeah, it's 567 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 2: really really hard, Jess, what would you do? 568 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 4: I think it's hard because it's one of those things 569 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 4: where to me, it sounds like her friend is going 570 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 4: to be reliant on this until she no longer can be. 571 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 4: So I wonder if cutting it off is in a 572 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 4: way to benefit the friend as well, like to be like, 573 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,879 Speaker 4: you can't rely on me for these things, particularly with 574 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:47,120 Speaker 4: the dinner for example. It's not as if your friend 575 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,120 Speaker 4: is saying, hey, I need money to pay my rent 576 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 4: or I'm going to be homeless. Like your friend did 577 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,960 Speaker 4: not need to come out to dinner with everybody, And 578 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 4: I understand that she was embarrassed, But there are ways 579 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 4: that you can tackle it and approach it, and I 580 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 4: think any friend be understanding of the fact that you 581 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 4: can't afford to do it. So I feel like perhaps 582 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 4: if our listener was to draw the line in the sand, 583 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,679 Speaker 4: it might in a way kind of help your friend 584 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,560 Speaker 4: to have to let you know it's fine or flying right, 585 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 4: like I'm pushing you out of the nest. You can't. 586 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 4: You gotta fly. You got to figure it out. But 587 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 4: at the same time, I do feel like I have 588 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,359 Speaker 4: to flag that that has the potential to be volatile, 589 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:25,440 Speaker 4: and it has the potential for your friend to react 590 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,359 Speaker 4: emotionally and be really upset. So it's something I think 591 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 4: that you do have to be prepared for that if 592 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 4: that's what you want to do. But I completely agree 593 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 4: with our listener. If I was in that situation where 594 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,200 Speaker 4: I wasn't comfortable lending to a friend and I had 595 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,679 Speaker 4: expressed that and they weren't being respectful of that. I 596 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 4: would find that upsetting. It's a totally different thing, like 597 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,840 Speaker 4: you were saying in your example with you and Live. 598 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 4: You know, if she's happy to do it and she 599 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:51,920 Speaker 4: knows you're going to pay it back and everyone's fine, 600 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 4: then there's no reason to not behave that way. But 601 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 4: particularly I think the fact that she is expressed to 602 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 4: her friend that she's uncomfortable and they're continuing to do it. 603 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,159 Speaker 4: An That's what I don't really like because normally in 604 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 4: this situation, i'd say, oh, like talk to your friends, 605 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 4: like let them know how you're feeling, blah blah blah. 606 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 4: But it sounds like she's done that and their friends 607 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:13,439 Speaker 4: not changing the behavior, And I think that that is 608 00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:18,679 Speaker 4: really disrespectful and unkind, particularly when it comes to luxuries 609 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:19,640 Speaker 4: not necessities. 610 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:21,399 Speaker 2: Yeap, Yeah, like going out for dinner. 611 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 4: You don't need to go out for dinner, babe. 612 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 2: So I was really empathetic of the story, like and 613 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 2: of the question. I was like, this really sucks, like 614 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 2: we're in the middle of a cost of living crisis. 615 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 2: Like I totally get it. You know, we don't know 616 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 2: why her friend doesn't have a job. There could be 617 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 2: really valid reason as to why she doesn't have a job. 618 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 2: There are six million I could come up with on 619 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 2: the spot as to why she can't work at the moment, 620 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,959 Speaker 2: and that's fine. I'm assuming that there's not like a 621 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 2: massive issue with not working. Given the friend has suggested, Oh, 622 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 2: I can help you with the applications, Jess, like I 623 00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 2: could feel them in and you know, help you along 624 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,439 Speaker 2: that process. I'm assuming that there's nothing that you're aware of, 625 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,879 Speaker 2: that is all. I don't want to say. Fine, but 626 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 2: like you're letting them get away with it, okay. I 627 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 2: think it's taking it a step too far when you're 628 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 2: going out for dinner and just expecting the other person 629 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 2: to pay. I feel like you're then in a position 630 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 2: where you're being taken advantage. It's crazy to me. I 631 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 2: think it's really rude, Like honestly, like, obviously money is 632 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 2: fickle and all of that, but like, yeah, okay, you 633 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,120 Speaker 2: were embarrassed. You know, it's more embarrassing putting your other 634 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 2: friend on the spot and being like, well, now they're okay, 635 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 2: I don't have any cash. You're gonna have to cough 636 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 2: up two times the amount you thought you were going 637 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 2: to have to for dinner. Now, like what if I'd 638 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 2: only budgeted enough for one, Like now you're putting that 639 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,440 Speaker 2: burden on your friend and expecting that to be okay, 640 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 2: Like I get embarrassment exists, Like please, don't get me wrong. 641 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 2: We've spoken so many times on the show about how 642 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 2: you know, in theory you should just say no. But 643 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 2: then there's me who also I'm a people pleaser. Yes, 644 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 2: you're also people pleaser. Like I know that if I 645 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 2: asked Jess to brow money, she'd. 646 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:54,960 Speaker 3: Be like, oh, that's really weird. 647 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 2: Okay, now, yeah, of course fee Like even if you know, 648 00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 2: but even if you didn't want to do it, because 649 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 2: with just to night people pleaser is we would do 650 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 2: it anyway. And I'm not saying that that's the right thing. 651 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 2: But I also think that when it comes to money, 652 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 2: we should just be honest about our thoughts and feelings 653 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 2: and all of that kind of stuff. 654 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 3: So I get it. 655 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 2: I don't think I could say no to a friend 656 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 2: because I do want to help. I'm that type of 657 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 2: person that goes no, no, no, let me fix it, like 658 00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 2: I want to help. But at the same time, like, 659 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 2: then there's the line of like, hey, can I borrow 660 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 2: one hundred dollars? Like I'm so sorry, I have to 661 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 2: meet rent? Happening all the time, and you're going, oh, 662 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 2: should becoming reliant on it becomes rude, It becomes entitled 663 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 2: when you're then going out for dinner and just being like, oh, 664 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 2: by the way back, can't pay? 665 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 3: What are you doing? 666 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 4: And if they can't work, I think there are so 667 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 4: many other options, because again I agree with. 668 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 2: Last month you did your or this end of the 669 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 2: month's really there, but you did your find one thousand 670 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 2: dollars without finding a new job. 671 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 4: Well yeah, And that's the thing is, like there is 672 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 4: so many options if, as you were saying, not everyone 673 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 4: can work, and that's totally valid, but even outside of 674 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 4: government support, that is available selling stuff a Facebook market place, 675 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 4: returning cans. I did surveys, do you know what I mean? Like, 676 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 4: there are so many options that you can make enough 677 00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 4: money to get you buy Like, even just doing surveys, 678 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 4: I was making fifty bucks a week, one hundred bucks 679 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 4: a week slay, which is just from your phone. And 680 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 4: not everyone is going to want to dedicate or have 681 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 4: the time to dedicate. But if you're in a spot 682 00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 4: where like I really genuinely don't have the money. I 683 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 4: think there are options that you can explore. And is 684 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:29,480 Speaker 4: it going to pay you five thousand dollars a month? 685 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 4: Obviously not. But if you just need money to get 686 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 4: buy if you just need money to go to dinner, 687 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 4: so you're not relying on your friend, there are definitely 688 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 4: things that I think she could be exploring that aren't 689 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 4: putting her friend in this. 690 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 2: Position honestly borrowing money. I think it's a fickle topic 691 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 2: because so many people are going to be opinionated on it. 692 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 2: Some people will say absolutely not. I'm very much of 693 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:55,680 Speaker 2: the opinion I will lend money to friends, but I 694 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 2: see it as a if they pay it back, nice 695 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,160 Speaker 2: But it's you either get paid back or you lose 696 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 2: a friendship. And like to me, I'm always like, okay, 697 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 2: well here it is, but I'm never going to chase it, 698 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 2: if that makes sense. Some people are completely for it, 699 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,480 Speaker 2: like Beck, you've got a friend where that relationship exists 700 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 2: and it works. We can't argue with that, and that's 701 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 2: absolutely fine. But again, money is inherently emotional. It's when 702 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 2: it steps out of you know, being I'm so glad 703 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 2: that I have this support. 704 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 3: I'm so glad. 705 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:30,040 Speaker 2: You know, I'm grateful to being entitled, and this feels 706 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 2: like it's gone from being like I'm grateful to being entitled. 707 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 2: If that started happening to me, I'd want to cut 708 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 2: the friend off to It'd be like you are taking 709 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 2: the absolute mickey. Get in the bin, yeah, hard agree, 710 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 2: whatever else say they go. The first question we asked was, 711 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:46,400 Speaker 2: do you think the friend is potentially taking advantage of 712 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:50,320 Speaker 2: this person? Ninety eight percent of you said yes. If 713 00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 2: this was you, would you end the friendship? Thirty percent 714 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 2: of you said yes, I don't need that in my life, 715 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 2: but seventy percent of you said no, I'd certainly set 716 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 2: some boundaries though. If yes, what did you do when 717 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 2: someone asked you to borrow money? Sixty six percent of 718 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 2: you said I gave it back and they paid me 719 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,720 Speaker 2: back nice. Twenty percent of you said I gave it, 720 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 2: but I wish I didn't because I never got it back, 721 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 2: and fourteen percent of you said I said I wasn't 722 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,280 Speaker 2: in a position to lend to them. If you did 723 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 2: lend money to a friend, we said how much? Thirty 724 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 2: six percent of you said the most common amount to 725 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 2: lend was ten to twenty bucks, thirty five percent of 726 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 2: you said fifty two hundred bucks, eighteen percent of you 727 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,640 Speaker 2: said two hundred to five hundred dollars, and twelve percent 728 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,800 Speaker 2: of you said more than one thousand dollars. Wow, that's 729 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 2: so much money. 730 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 4: That's the other thing is her friend's asking for one 731 00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 4: hundred bucks at a time. That's a lot. 732 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 2: That's a lot. 733 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,120 Speaker 4: That's not a Hey, my card's not working. Can you 734 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 4: spot my eight dollar latte? 735 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, it's an eight. 736 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 4: Dollar nothing on nothing. Sorry, I'm taking eight dollar latte. 737 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:56,720 Speaker 2: Don't know where she's drinking. 738 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 3: Not too shocking, I reckon. 739 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 2: I spent on average like six seven dollars a yeah, 740 00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 2: not too far off for own non coffee drinking gal, which, 741 00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 2: by the way, suspiciously close, suspiciously close, and also like 742 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,240 Speaker 2: weird that you don't drink coffee. Maybe twenty twenty four 743 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 2: be her year. Maybe maybe all these bad things keep 744 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 2: happening to you because you don't drink coffee. 745 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:17,719 Speaker 4: That all right. 746 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 2: We also said have you ever had to ask a 747 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 2: friend to borrow money? Thirty four percent of you said yes, 748 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 2: and sixty six percent of you said no. 749 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:25,480 Speaker 3: It's been nice. 750 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 4: I feel like most people will have. I don't think 751 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 4: they're asking to borrow money. Like I've definitely borrowed money 752 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 4: off feet where I've been somewhere. It happened when we're oversea. 753 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 4: I was like, my card's not working, and. 754 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:34,760 Speaker 2: I'm kind of funny. 755 00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 4: I already ordered the Starbucks, can you faine? 756 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,640 Speaker 2: It was kind of funny because she's so embarrassed and 757 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,960 Speaker 2: obviously I was like, yeah, like it's fine, but like 758 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 2: it was the fumble at the register of her being 759 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 2: like I only have my phone. 760 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 3: Ah, I really have my phone? Yeah, no, dress, Well, 761 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:51,480 Speaker 3: nothing is more stressful. 762 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 4: It is, and I feel like an incidental borrow of money. 763 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 2: So let's be honest. It wasn't even a latte. It 764 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 2: was like a strawberry Assaye refresher and I'll. 765 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 4: Stand by I'm pretty sure. But that is I think, 766 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 4: vastly different to habitual burrowing, which is what this person 767 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,400 Speaker 4: is doing. And it just sounds like she doesn't respect 768 00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:11,319 Speaker 4: our listener, which is not. 769 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,080 Speaker 2: Friendship is built on respect, and right now, that's what 770 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 2: is lacking in this friendship. So I do feel like 771 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:20,839 Speaker 2: your friend is taking advantage of that. And while it's 772 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:22,799 Speaker 2: not the easiest thing to say, I think you do 773 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 2: need to go. Hey, Like, honestly, I just start off 774 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,799 Speaker 2: with the truth. Hey, I just really think that this 775 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:31,080 Speaker 2: has become quite habitual. Honestly, I don't know how to 776 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 2: explain it to you, but I do feel a bit 777 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,799 Speaker 2: taken advantage of. Like I feel like, you know, the 778 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,200 Speaker 2: time we went out for dinner, you're not telling me 779 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,200 Speaker 2: in advance. It just puts me in a really tricky 780 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,400 Speaker 2: spot because it changes the rest of my week and 781 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,120 Speaker 2: I had to change my budget and I had to 782 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 2: you know, just explaining it. I'm not saying that they 783 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 2: deserve an explanation at the end of the day. 784 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 3: No is no. 785 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 2: But as a people pleasing girly, I want to explain 786 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:56,880 Speaker 2: to you why this is, you know, upsetting me or 787 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 2: you know, not the right thing to do. And then 788 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 2: how can I wor with you to make sure that 789 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 2: you're okay and I'm okay and we're all in a 790 00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 2: happy spot, because I really don't want to lose this friendship. 791 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 3: But like, if this just keeps. 792 00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 2: Happening, I'm going to end up really frustrated and then 793 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 2: you know, I'm probably going to avoid your calls or something, 794 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 2: and I don't want to get to that, So what 795 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,680 Speaker 2: can I do? And I feel like kindness in that 796 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 2: circumstance because do you know what your friend probably hasn't 797 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,399 Speaker 2: even noticed. Yeah, they just expected you to be there. 798 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, so true. 799 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,839 Speaker 2: So let's talk about what the community said, because it's 800 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 2: always the spicy stuff in the dms. So your response 801 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:33,879 Speaker 2: is when we said, what are your two cents, we're 802 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:34,800 Speaker 2: pretty wild. 803 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 3: My friend from high school. 804 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:41,400 Speaker 2: Asked me to borrow fifteen thousand dollars for a house deposit. 805 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,280 Speaker 2: I obviously told her I didn't have any cash. 806 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 4: I mean fair, that's crazy. 807 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:47,360 Speaker 3: That's a lot. 808 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 4: That's like a whole different thing. Again, that's a different story. Yeah. 809 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,719 Speaker 2: Someone else said, I have a personal rule that I 810 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 2: never lend money that I would be upset about not 811 00:35:56,280 --> 00:36:00,120 Speaker 2: getting back. Yeah, that's all. That's like your Someone else said, 812 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 2: you're not responsible for your friend. You need to set 813 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 2: strong boundaries because that's how she's going to learn. Someone 814 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,880 Speaker 2: else said, how about in the future, just choosing to 815 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,160 Speaker 2: arrange free activities, so when they ask to go out 816 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:14,800 Speaker 2: for dinners, suggest to walk because they can't afford it anyway, 817 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:19,120 Speaker 2: and there will be no tricky conversation. Someone also said, 818 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 2: just stay friends. But hang out at the park or 819 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,720 Speaker 2: free spaces byo snacks and drinks, and then say sorry, 820 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:26,680 Speaker 2: I don't have the cash. 821 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 3: Next time they ask. 822 00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,399 Speaker 2: Someone else said, if she's a real friend, she won't 823 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,279 Speaker 2: be offended if you say you're unable to help her financially. 824 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 2: That could be a good way of pushing back, which 825 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 2: I would agree. Like, you know, if it's a bit confrontational, 826 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:41,759 Speaker 2: you're like, I don't really want to tackle this. I 827 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,960 Speaker 2: would just go next time they ask to cash, be like, 828 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 2: oh my god, yess, I would love to, but I 829 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 2: actually don't have one hundred dollars cash. Sorry, And then 830 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,080 Speaker 2: if they say you do, just be like, look, I 831 00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 2: really don't like you know, heberbills have come up and 832 00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,759 Speaker 2: raw her up. Because even if you do have that 833 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,719 Speaker 2: cash in the bank, it doesn't mean it is free. Like, 834 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 2: it doesn't mean it's able to be lean out. It 835 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,920 Speaker 2: doesn't mean that you're okay with doing that. And saying well, 836 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:07,799 Speaker 2: I actually just don't have the cash to lend out 837 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,320 Speaker 2: at the moment doesn't mean that you're flat broke. It 838 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,920 Speaker 2: just means you don't have cash to lend out at 839 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 2: the moment, and that is okay, totally There's been a 840 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 2: lot of people saying exactly what I say, So I'll 841 00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:19,680 Speaker 2: end on this because I think we all want to 842 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:23,040 Speaker 2: get to bloops. But someone else said I would never 843 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,880 Speaker 2: give someone money and expect it back. It's now a 844 00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:27,920 Speaker 2: gift to see it that way because it will never 845 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,920 Speaker 2: ruin your friendships, Amen, which I. 846 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:31,840 Speaker 3: Think is really important. 847 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,640 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously it's way better to pay back. Please 848 00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 2: pay it back. Don't just expect friends to lend out 849 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:38,920 Speaker 2: money and then it be free money. But I think 850 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 2: having that mindset is going to keep your friendships intact. 851 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:48,839 Speaker 2: Do you have anything to add, guys, please please Our 852 00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,600 Speaker 2: producers Sam and Anna Lisa unfortunately record us when we 853 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,520 Speaker 2: don't think we're being recorded, and they don't dispose of 854 00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:58,439 Speaker 2: footage that we think has been disposed of where we've 855 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 2: messed up. And they have said that they have put 856 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,520 Speaker 2: together once again another Blue Briel for us to listen to. 857 00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,560 Speaker 2: So how that we dive straight in. This will be 858 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,280 Speaker 2: the first time we are hearing it as you guys 859 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,760 Speaker 2: hear it, because they wouldn't let us hear it before 860 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:13,879 Speaker 2: to prepare our responses, which I think is quite rude 861 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 2: to talk about it. 862 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 8: It's been another year if She's on the Money. And 863 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,440 Speaker 8: while it's been a big one, you'll be happy to 864 00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,920 Speaker 8: know that behind the scenes, a lot of things have 865 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:31,799 Speaker 8: stayed the same despite our best efforts. The girls keep getting. 866 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,200 Speaker 3: Gussie when it comes to the inn. 867 00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 4: I had that gurgle that was disgusting. 868 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:39,879 Speaker 2: I was just going to burn, but like a deep 869 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 2: burd did you hear that? It was very sexy? 870 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:44,440 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 871 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:49,080 Speaker 8: And by girls we mean all the girls, even Victoria's 872 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:50,000 Speaker 8: dog Lucy. 873 00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:55,000 Speaker 4: And so this outlawing of Lucy. Good god, did she fart? 874 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,720 Speaker 4: Oh sorry, that's really right? Good, Yeah, she's right there. God, 875 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:00,799 Speaker 4: I got her like a with and I was just 876 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,320 Speaker 4: like stopped working. 877 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 8: We are, of course, led by Victoria, the pioneer of professionalism, 878 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:10,239 Speaker 8: who would never ever struggle with technology. 879 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 3: Oh did I just press? Did I backspace? 880 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,840 Speaker 6: Ordered I posted I like had my microphone on while 881 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:19,319 Speaker 6: I was like in thing, and it transcribed me into 882 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,920 Speaker 6: the comments section on our Money Wins thread And it 883 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,399 Speaker 6: started from Helloa malcom to She's on the money Like. 884 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,040 Speaker 8: Beck joined us this year, and she brought a new 885 00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:32,759 Speaker 8: energy to the show, as well as new interpretations of 886 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:33,680 Speaker 8: legal boundaries. 887 00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 2: Actually, I don't know if this is legal, but if 888 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:35,719 Speaker 2: you take the step. 889 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:37,640 Speaker 3: I don't know if this is legal. 890 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:41,680 Speaker 4: I shouldn't. Perhaps I should not, yeah, saying it if 891 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:42,040 Speaker 4: I don't know. 892 00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:45,120 Speaker 8: We've had the normal fun with everyone's stumbles. 893 00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,919 Speaker 2: Miss Jessic, Can you take us through our community money 894 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 2: wins this week? 895 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 4: Absolutely more busy? 896 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 7: Yes? 897 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:57,320 Speaker 4: Deep? Or was she just stressed? She's the top. 898 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,240 Speaker 2: Of our company to the public, So we'll keep sixty 899 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 2: percent of it. We're going to issue forty percent of 900 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,960 Speaker 2: it to the We're going to issue forty percent of 901 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:10,359 Speaker 2: it to the public. One is from Cassie, who is 902 00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 2: talking about rewards cards and kind of sorry, it's gotta get. 903 00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 8: You guys don't get to see how unhinged the girls 904 00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 8: can get if they have to do a whole day 905 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:24,280 Speaker 8: of recording. 906 00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:28,440 Speaker 3: But well, I'll just let this speak for itself. 907 00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:29,279 Speaker 4: Where's your energy? 908 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:34,280 Speaker 2: Where's your passion? More passion, more passion, more energy energy. 909 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,480 Speaker 8: It's truly been a big year, and we expect that 910 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,680 Speaker 8: parenthood for Victoria will surely. 911 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,239 Speaker 3: Only make things calmer than this. 912 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:44,799 Speaker 8: In twenty twenty. 913 00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:48,960 Speaker 2: Four, here are Beck's top tips on creating your perfect portfolio. 914 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,200 Speaker 4: All right, so from. 915 00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 2: Some Harry Potters whisper shit. 916 00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,040 Speaker 8: Now. Some of you may have noticed a new word 917 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,359 Speaker 8: made it into Victoria's vocabulary this year. 918 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:07,120 Speaker 3: Some have said the excessive use of the word sleigh was. 919 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:10,200 Speaker 8: Too much, But what you all didn't realize was that 920 00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 8: v was actually getting into the Christmas spirit early. 921 00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:22,640 Speaker 9: Slight slap slack slave like slap, slate slap slap slap 922 00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:27,279 Speaker 9: sleigh slave slave slife slap slafe, sligh like slight, slay 923 00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:29,000 Speaker 9: slafe like slay slay. 924 00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:32,680 Speaker 8: His to another smart and very very silly year in 925 00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:37,080 Speaker 8: twenty twenty four, which she's on the money. 926 00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,759 Speaker 3: Well, that was slay my. 927 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,400 Speaker 4: Favorite episode we've done. Oh yeah, I. 928 00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 2: Love I'm always very impressed with commitment. Sam has to 929 00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:51,560 Speaker 2: one saving those files because like you don't go back 930 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:53,439 Speaker 2: like I don't know, maybe he did go back through 931 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,760 Speaker 2: all of it, but not only saving them, but also 932 00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,760 Speaker 2: like getting the right tone, like did you hear. 933 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,799 Speaker 4: That sleigh and he puts. 934 00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:02,359 Speaker 3: It into the right time. 935 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:05,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what a good audio engineer does for you guys. 936 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:09,200 Speaker 5: That was not as scary as I thought it would be. 937 00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 3: I thought it'd be way more scary. 938 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,319 Speaker 2: But honestly, like even in that Sam couldn't use all 939 00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,279 Speaker 2: of the illegal stuff you keep suggesting on. 940 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:18,960 Speaker 5: The show, that's true, twenty twenty four, it would just 941 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 5: be like beet beat beat beat, because like we'd just 942 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:23,640 Speaker 5: be like censoring out everything you say. 943 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:25,319 Speaker 3: I remember that for next year. 944 00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:27,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, Beck's like okay, so yes, have you heard of 945 00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:28,720 Speaker 2: the five finger discount? 946 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:33,799 Speaker 3: Yes, we have broad tips. He steal everything one out 947 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 3: of ten. 948 00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:38,480 Speaker 2: We will not not slip up again. But it has 949 00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,000 Speaker 2: been a year. I am very grateful to have shared 950 00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,200 Speaker 2: the podcast studio with the three of you this year. 951 00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 2: I feel like we have thrived. I feel like we 952 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:49,600 Speaker 2: have also survived. But I also just I'm so grateful, 953 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 2: Like I just I love what we do. I cannot 954 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,440 Speaker 2: believe we are heading into our fifth year of podcasting 955 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,040 Speaker 2: next year, and we have so much planned for twenty 956 00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,359 Speaker 2: twenty four, and I just I can't wait to share it. 957 00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:00,920 Speaker 2: Like I kind of want to just like dump it 958 00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:04,239 Speaker 2: on everyone all in January, but according to our marketing 959 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:05,880 Speaker 2: and our content. 960 00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,160 Speaker 3: People, that's not how it works. 961 00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:08,160 Speaker 4: Damn. 962 00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:12,759 Speaker 2: But no, have the most beautiful new year, guys. I 963 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:16,080 Speaker 2: cannot wait to see you bright and fresh and early 964 00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,440 Speaker 2: come the new year. And don't forget subtle plug, we 965 00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:23,000 Speaker 2: are running your best year yet. Online goal setting session 966 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,880 Speaker 2: with me, launching on the seventh of January. So if 967 00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,560 Speaker 2: you're like still feeling a little bit stodgy, not sure, 968 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:30,680 Speaker 2: if you have a heap of motivation, I've got you. 969 00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:32,560 Speaker 2: We're going to set goals together so that you two 970 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,759 Speaker 2: can have your best year yet, because I just I 971 00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:38,160 Speaker 2: have a feeling about twenty twenty four. Guys, it's our year. 972 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I got a good feeling. Got a good feeling. 973 00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,000 Speaker 2: Well, enjoy the rest of the day, guys, because it 974 00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:45,439 Speaker 2: is coming very close to the end of twenty twenty three, 975 00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,400 Speaker 2: and we will see you fresh and early in twenty 976 00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:51,320 Speaker 2: twenty four. Love you, and we'll see you around. 977 00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:52,760 Speaker 3: Tapping you guys. Bye bye. 978 00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,760 Speaker 2: Did By share on She's on the Money is general 979 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:05,680 Speaker 2: in nature and does not consider your individual circumstances. 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