1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 1: My name's Anatasha Bamblet. I'm a proud First Nations woman 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: and I'm here to acknowledge country t Glenn Young Ganya 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: nianar Kaka yah y and beIN Ahaka nian our gay 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:16,920 Speaker 1: In Mbina, yakarum jar, Dominyama, Domaga Ithawakaman, damon Imlan Bomber 5 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 1: bang Gadabomba in and now in wakah Ghana on yak 6 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: rum jar Watnadaa. Hello, beautiful friends, we gather on the 7 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: lands of the Aboriginal people. We thank acknowledge and respect 8 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: the Abiginal people's land that we're gathering on today. Take 9 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 1: pleasure in all the land and respect all that you see. 10 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: She's on the Money podcast acknowledges culture, country, community and connections, 11 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: bringing you the tools, knowledge and resources for you to thrive. 12 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 2: She's on the Money. 13 00:00:46,800 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 3: She's on the Money. 14 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast 15 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 4: that lets you be pervy about other people's money habits 16 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 4: for educational purposes, of course. Welcome back to another one 17 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 4: of our money Darius where we get to talk with 18 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 4: one of our incredible She's on the Money community members 19 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 4: all about their journey. Let's jump straight into it because 20 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 4: this week I got an email and it sounded exactly 21 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 4: like this, Dear She's on the Money, You guys completely 22 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 4: changed my life three exclamation points. Four years ago, I 23 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 4: was in the worst financial position I had ever been in. 24 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 4: My partner was super financially savvy, and I just felt 25 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 4: like a failure. I took it upon myself to change 26 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 4: my money story and get my shit together, which is 27 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 4: how I came across the She's on the Money podcast 28 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 4: and book. It was pretty overwhelming and confronting reading the 29 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 4: book and felt scary starting from scratch. However, four years later, 30 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 4: I am a completely different queen. I have eighteen thousand 31 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 4: dollars in long term savings, thirty four thousand dollars invested 32 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 4: in stocks, and it also started a side hustle to 33 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 4: earn some extra cash. Money diarist welcome to the show, 34 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 4: and I would say like, welcome to the community. But girl, 35 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 4: you've been here for four years. 36 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: Yes I have. And that I was like, oh, that 37 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 2: was my email. 38 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 4: You did a good job, queen. 39 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 2: Yes, well it has changed since that email, like I 40 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 2: think it's grown more as well. Like listening to that, 41 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 2: I was like, oh cool, it's come a long. 42 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,399 Speaker 4: Way, she sounds like a cool chick. But also we've 43 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 4: done even more than that. Let's dive into it before 44 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,239 Speaker 4: we get there. I have to ask if I asked 45 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 4: you to give yourself a money grade from A through 46 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 4: to air, what grade do you think you would give 47 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:43,359 Speaker 4: yourself today? 48 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 2: I'd say probably a B plus because you know you 49 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 2: can always get better. Yeah, you can. 50 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 4: But I've got a lot to learn from you in 51 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 4: this episode, so we'll see how that stacks up by 52 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,079 Speaker 4: the end of it. Can we go back? I want 53 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 4: to know a little bit more about your money story. 54 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, yes, long journey. I don't think I had 55 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 2: great role models growing up, so lots of debt and 56 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 2: gambling issues with my parents, and I guess I don't 57 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,519 Speaker 2: ever remember having a conversation about money. I don't ever 58 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 2: remember having a conversation about savings. I don't remember having 59 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 2: a conversation about what you should do when you get 60 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 2: a job, or how to open a bank account, or yeah, 61 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 2: any of the things that I guess I realized that 62 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 2: I didn't know as I got older. So I think 63 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 2: I from the start, I never really had a great foundation, 64 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 2: And yeah, that's I guess how I ended up being 65 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 2: like four years ago. Yeah, having a hard look at 66 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 2: my accounts and being like, I think I probably need 67 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 2: to change some things. 68 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, so fair, so talk to me. You said it 69 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 4: in your email and you're like, oh, my partner was 70 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 4: super financially savvy. And I just felt like it's failure 71 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 4: and the like there's no definition of failure. Like I'm 72 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 4: a very big believer in like, you haven't failed, you're 73 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 4: just starting here. But what contributed to that feeling? 74 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 2: I just think I was always stressed about money and 75 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: like not like necessarily paycheck to paycheck, but like almost 76 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 2: paycheck to paycheck, and like try and organize going on 77 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 2: our first international holiday and doing all of the things, 78 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: and like I was still at UNI, working like a 79 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 2: part time job and he was obviously working like full 80 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 2: time and you know, just very different positions, and I 81 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 2: guess I just felt, yeah, I was like, oh, I 82 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 2: don't think I can do all of the things that 83 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 2: he can do, and I wanted to be like equal, 84 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 2: you know, and contribute equally. So I guess that's why. 85 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that makes absolute sense. But like it's so 86 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 4: interesting asking that question of people, because to one person, 87 00:04:56,680 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 4: failure is oh well, actually I went through Drive through 88 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,159 Speaker 4: this week three times, and then to other people, it's 89 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 4: like this feeling of like I'm behind and I'm you know, 90 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 4: not living paycheck to paycheck, but kind of nearly close 91 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 4: to other people, they're like, for me, I was in 92 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 4: forty thousand dollars worth of personal debt, and I was like, 93 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:15,039 Speaker 4: you need to have a good, cold, hard look at 94 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 4: yourself Victoria divine. So it's just so interesting being like, well, 95 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 4: what does that mean, how does that work? Like what 96 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 4: does that feel like? Because it's just so different for everybody. 97 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 4: What was that like kick up the bumb moment where 98 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:27,919 Speaker 4: you were like, I have to kind of get my 99 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 4: stuff together because I feel like we have lots of things. 100 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 4: Money is hard and like you know, if you're you know, 101 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 4: planning overseas holidays, you're like, oh, yeah, I'll get it 102 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 4: together when I get back, But like, why change? 103 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 2: I think? I remember we were sitting in the car 104 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 2: in my garage and I had we hadn't really spoken 105 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 2: about finances at all, and I just said, I think 106 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 2: like this holiday that we're you know, booking and is 107 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 2: like killing me financially. And I really wanted to do it, 108 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 2: but I obviously didn't probably think about it before saying yes, 109 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 2: and I think I didn't want to feel like that 110 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 2: ever again, Like I remember crying and feeling like, oh girl, 111 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 2: like you're gotta get your shit together, because you know, 112 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 2: I want to be able to do more than just 113 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 2: scrape through, you know. So I remember that feeling and 114 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 2: that conversation, and we both still remember it and we 115 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 2: look back, like obviously that was probably nearly five years ago, 116 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 2: and we look back and we're like, wow, it's so 117 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 2: different now, and it's. 118 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 4: Nice totally tell me a little bit more about like 119 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 4: that change, because I think a lot of people get 120 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 4: to that point and that's so relatable, like I need 121 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 4: to get it together. Where did you turn first? Because 122 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 4: I get that point. You probably hadn't heard of She's 123 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 4: on the Money, and we probably come a little bit later. 124 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 4: I feel like the gateway, like the gateway drug of 125 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 4: the finance communities Barefoot Investor. We all turned to him 126 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 4: and thanks Scottie Pape ten out of ten. But like, 127 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:59,839 Speaker 4: what was your first experience of like trying to learn 128 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 4: a little bit more about financial literacy. 129 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so funny because my friend had read The 130 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 2: Barefoot Investor, and I remember going over and we had 131 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 2: a few wines and they were telling us about how 132 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 2: good this book was, and they were like, you've got 133 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 2: to open all these accounts, and you know, we had 134 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 2: had had a few wines. And then next thing I 135 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 2: remember in the mail, I had the I G bankus 136 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 2: coffy and I was like, I haven't even read the book. 137 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 4: That's fine, Like, I'm very excited that you fell into 138 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 4: the culture. 139 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 2: Oh I didn't even know. I did nothing with the accounts. 140 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 2: I just closed them after because I hadn't read the book. 141 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 2: So I was like, well, this is silly. No. I actually, 142 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 2: from that conversation in the car, I remember writing like 143 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 2: a long list of things in my life that I 144 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 2: wanted to change, and a lot of those things, you know, 145 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 2: stem from financial security. And you know, my partner had 146 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 2: read a lot of books, and I was like, I 147 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 2: just feel like I need to do it on my own, 148 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 2: Like I need to find my path it's going to 149 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 2: work for me. 150 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 4: Because yeah, your path isn't going to work for me. 151 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I googled on Google at work female budgeting 152 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 2: tools or like female budget finance books that's literally and 153 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 2: you were. 154 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 4: Hey, And then I came up thank you my SEO 155 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 4: must be working. 156 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, okay, cool. I had a look. 157 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:28,239 Speaker 2: I read the spiel and I was like yeah, okay, 158 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:32,319 Speaker 2: and I started reading and then I basically just did 159 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 2: every single thing that you said to do in the book, yes, 160 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 2: from start to finish. I think I hyper fixated for 161 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:39,199 Speaker 2: a bit. 162 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 4: Good because like I structured that book in such a 163 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 4: way that I was like, all right, so you've never 164 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 4: picked up a book before, this can't be overwhelming. At 165 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:47,839 Speaker 4: the start. I have to make friends with the reader 166 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 4: or right, I have to make friends with you, money dires, like, 167 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 4: have to gain your trust, and then I have to 168 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 4: be like okay, cool. And I think in the book 169 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 4: I still and like I wrote it so long ago, 170 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 4: but I like literally recommend that you need a glass 171 00:08:57,800 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 4: of wine for the next bit. I'm like bab strapping 172 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 4: because we're going to an audit that like I give 173 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 4: you the worksheet to do it. I'm not like, oh, 174 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 4: just go and have a look at this. I'm like, no, no, no, 175 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 4: you're going to fill this in and I just I 176 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 4: hope it and it sounds like I did. I took 177 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 4: you on a journey of like discovering one thing and 178 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 4: another thing and then like, okay, cool, that's the next step. 179 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 2: And it was a definite snowball. The bank statement one 180 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 2: I remember like printing it at work because free printing. 181 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 2: I highlighted everything and I was like, oh my god, 182 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 2: it's really confronting, isn't it. Oh wait, I cried so hard. 183 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry, but I promise I'm 184 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 4: here for you. Like sometimes we have to cry because 185 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 4: we're just feeling overwhelmed. But at the end of the day, 186 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 4: it's not good or bad. It's just like, hey, did 187 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 4: you realize this is where your money's going? And you're 188 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 4: probably like no, v I didn't have a clue. 189 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 2: I did not. And after that, I was like, okay, so. 190 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 4: Do you remember what the most confronting thing was like 191 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 4: seeing on your bank statement? 192 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 2: Not really, because I think it was probably just like 193 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 2: the unnecessary spending, the shopping, like the things that I 194 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 2: just really didn't need, and I was like, well, that's 195 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 2: where my money is like sitting there and like clothes 196 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 2: and bedding. I have a bedding obsession. 197 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 4: Oh you and Jessica Icci in our team love some 198 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 4: good bedding, Yeah, love some linen. And I was like 199 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 4: I don't know if I need that much bedding. Yeah, 200 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 4: it's really confronting when you look through your house and go, wow, 201 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 4: this all used to be money. 202 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, there's my gas bill in the cli 203 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 2: in the cupboard. 204 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 4: Yeah exactly, isn't it crazy? Well, I kind of love that. 205 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 4: But you have ended up in the right place, which 206 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 4: is a really good thing. I want to know more 207 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 4: about you personally though, to tell me what do you 208 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 4: do for work now and how much money do you earn? 209 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 2: Yes, I currently have true jobs, because you know why not. 210 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 2: In all my spare time, I work as a registered 211 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 2: nurse in a hospital. And I also have like a 212 00:10:54,520 --> 00:11:00,440 Speaker 2: office job that I had prior to graduating that just hey, really, 213 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 2: well not one hundred percent sure what I do there? 214 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 4: We use bop along. 215 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a great office job that lets you do you. 216 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:11,439 Speaker 2: I love that because we can only work when you 217 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 2: first start as an urse, you can only work a 218 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 2: certain amount of hours. And I've obviously studied for like 219 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:20,599 Speaker 2: three years, and I was like, well, I kind of 220 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,079 Speaker 2: want to work full time. Like, I just budgeted my 221 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 2: ass off during this three years. 222 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 4: I did not do this bank account audit to only 223 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 4: have this income. 224 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was like, I kind of want to 225 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 2: be on a full time wage like as I and 226 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 2: I get the reasoning, like the burnout and stuff like that, 227 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:40,440 Speaker 2: but I wasn't happy when I did my budget pre 228 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 2: starting with kind of what I thought it was going 229 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 2: to look like, and so I was going to quit 230 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 2: and then I decided not to and I work an 231 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 2: extra two days there. 232 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 4: Oh, very cool. So if we break it down how 233 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 4: many days and how much pay for each job, it's really. 234 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 2: Hard to like with the tax and the over time 235 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 2: with the nursing, it's so hard to work out. I 236 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 2: think I think it's about one hundred grand a year, 237 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 2: give or take pre tax. It's probably a bit more 238 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 2: with the overtime. I didn't I didn't account for that 239 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 2: in my budget because it's so flexible and it really 240 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 2: makes me uncomfortable, like not knowing her. 241 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 4: And you don't want to bank on that either. Yeah, 242 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 4: And I know that you read my book, so you 243 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 4: know that a lot of what I do is work 244 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 4: on your base income, work on what is contracted, like 245 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 4: what's in your in your contract. I think we should 246 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 4: be as a base and then anything above and beyond, 247 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 4: Like I won't say it's cream on top and you 248 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 4: can do what you want with it, because that's not 249 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 4: the point. But like anything on top, we will make 250 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 4: decisions with as it comes through, because I think a 251 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 4: lot of people, especially nurses, I've got a lot of 252 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 4: like locom teachers, people who are creatives, freelancers, Like you 253 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 4: just don't know what next month is going to look like, 254 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 4: Like you might end up doing keeps of overtime and 255 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 4: you're like fine with it, or you might be burnt 256 00:12:58,280 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 4: out and you're like, no, I can't take on any 257 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 4: more days. So you just don't know. But budget with 258 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 4: our base. 259 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 2: I did my budgets with my base. Yeah, budget from 260 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 2: the base from the registered nurse job and then from 261 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 2: the office job. It's obviously just the same. 262 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 4: Yeah okay, And what would you bring in on average 263 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 4: from the office job? 264 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 2: A fortnight it's after tax, like nine eighty. It's like 265 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 2: two days a week. 266 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, very nice. So how many days are you doing 267 00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 4: in the hospital, Like, if let's just pretend it's this week, 268 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 4: so four and then two and then you have one 269 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 4: day off. Yeah yeah, okay, cool, so you're still getting 270 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:34,679 Speaker 4: a little bit of time. It's basically like you're a 271 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 4: real estate agent. They only get one day a week ish. 272 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 2: We'll sometimes split the shifts, so if I do like 273 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 2: an afternoon shift at the hospital, I will work in 274 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:46,079 Speaker 2: the morning, log on for the day at my office shop, 275 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 2: and then go to the hospital after. So I still 276 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 2: get two days off a week, which is nice. 277 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 4: Are you always tired, because I feel like I would 278 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 4: always be tired. 279 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:57,679 Speaker 2: Not really like I have my days Like if it's 280 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 2: really busy at the hospital, then yes, But honestly, the 281 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 2: office shop, I just sit at my desk. One day's 282 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 2: from home and one day's in the office, and it's 283 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 2: very nice. 284 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 4: See that blows my mind in the nicest way possible 285 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 4: that there are office jobs where you're like, yep, I 286 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 4: just like kind of do what I'm told when I can. 287 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,679 Speaker 4: But it's like pretty lax. I can't think as a 288 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 4: small business owner, I would actually cry if people were 289 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 4: doing that in my business, Like whoa, I mean, pop off. 290 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 4: We won't name them, I won't name you, but you 291 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 4: know when you're just like wholy guacamole. 292 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, they have a lot of full time stuff and 293 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 2: I'm kind of like the only one that does what 294 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: I do. But I think because it's either like higher 295 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 2: someone new and have to train them in everything that 296 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 2: I've learned, you know, in the last I think I've 297 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 2: been there five years or so, or just keep me. 298 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 2: I think easier choice was just to keep me. 299 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 4: So, hey, that's cute. We're going to use that for 300 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 4: as long as we can. So you're about one hundred 301 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 4: grand a year ish as an RN, and then I 302 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 4: would say about twenty five five thousand dollars per year 303 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 4: if you're nine eighty a fortnight as a office worker. 304 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 4: In addition, which brings you to about I would say 305 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 4: one twenty five per annum. And then I'm assuming you 306 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 4: have little top ups here and there from overtime from 307 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 4: the hospital, and we just make decisions along the way. 308 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 2: I think the one hundred grand would be including over time. 309 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, yeah, that works too, So let's just call 310 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 4: it one twenty five money win. And that is a 311 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 4: great place to be in. Tell me a little bit more, 312 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 4: because go like four years, eighteen grand in savings, thirty 313 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 4: four thousand dollars in the share market. Sorry, what are 314 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 4: your money goals? What are we working towards? Because you're 315 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 4: working hard. 316 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm working hard to retire early. That is my goal. 317 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 2: What does that mean? That means by my deadline's kind 318 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 2: of forty. Oh okay, but you know, if I could 319 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 2: do it earlier, that would be great. But I don't 320 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 2: know if I would ever completely finish. More on a 321 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 2: personal my brain would itself if I stayed home every 322 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 2: single day, but it be in the position at forty 323 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 2: to be like I could just work one day a fortnight, 324 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 2: or I could just do a shift here and there, 325 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 2: and I'd be so happy with that more just for 326 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 2: brain stimulation purposes. But I would love to retire by 327 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 2: forty and that's my goal. 328 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 4: And for those following along at the moment, our money 329 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 4: direst is twenty seven today, so that's exciting. Tell me 330 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 4: not today like it's not your birthday, but like as 331 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 4: well for recording, she's twenty seven, Happy birthday for whenever 332 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 4: your birthday is. That wasn't a criteria question. Twenty eight soon, 333 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 4: which is good, so you've got heaps of time, but 334 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 4: also like, at the same time, to achieve a retirement 335 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 4: by forty, you've got to be pretty aggressive. So tell 336 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 4: me a little bit about what that looks like. If 337 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 4: you've got one twenty five k coming in, what are 338 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 4: our investing in savings goals each week or each fortnite, 339 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 4: depending on how you get paid. 340 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 2: So I just work on my base salary for my budget, 341 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 2: and I think I am first not I think I 342 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 2: do a thousand a fortnite. 343 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 4: A thousand of Fortnite is so good. 344 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:07,919 Speaker 2: I'm going for aggressive at the moment I used to 345 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 2: do when I was still at UNI, like the minimum. 346 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 2: I think I did like whatever my budget could allow, 347 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 2: which was like thirty dollars or something I could buy 348 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 2: like one share per Fortnite, And I was like, you. 349 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:20,719 Speaker 4: Know what, but from little things, big things grow. Now 350 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 4: there's like thirty four thousand dollars in there, and if 351 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 4: you're doing one thousand dollars per Fortnite, that's like twenty 352 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 4: six thousand dollars a year. Be for real, Like that's 353 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:30,679 Speaker 4: so good. Like imagine if we could go back and 354 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 4: tell baby you four years ago, by the way, not 355 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:35,679 Speaker 4: only are you going to get this budget things sortaed, 356 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 4: you're going to be an investor and an aggressive one 357 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 4: and you're going to have retirement goals. You'll be like EO, 358 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 4: David Dues, Yeah, like what why would I do that 359 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 4: to myself? 360 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 2: I know? So I think that's the goal I save. 361 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 2: I have a long term savings that I do. It's 362 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 2: like a smaller amount because I decided to go more 363 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 2: aggressive with the investing and a little short term save 364 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,639 Speaker 2: well for like things that just I want to buy 365 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 2: or come up or you know, spontaneous things. 366 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 4: Absolutely, I know we still budgeting for things like I 367 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 4: know you've got a partner. Are we budgeting for big 368 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:13,880 Speaker 4: life events with your partner or holidays or like what 369 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 4: does that look like? 370 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, that is an interesting question because we're not really 371 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 2: sure what it will look like. We're both very financially savvy, 372 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 2: so like having a wedding, a massive wedding, or spending 373 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 2: something like that or doesn't really align with us. Buying 374 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 2: a house just doesn't seem like something that we really 375 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 2: want to do anytime soon. We're really happy with renting 376 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 2: in the area that we want to live in, and 377 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 2: any extra cash just goes straight into investing, like any 378 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 2: overtime that I actually make, so I know what my 379 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:52,679 Speaker 2: base is, and then everything's automatically transferred, every pay straight 380 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 2: into the investment account. It comes straight out automatically invested. 381 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 2: All of it's invested into the different accounts automatically and 382 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:06,959 Speaker 2: then any extra I see what I need that fortnite 383 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 2: is my short term looking a bit. You know, Hey, 384 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 2: how are you going? 385 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, and it can it can look a 386 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 4: little bit how you're going like mine does. Sometimes. 387 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, if I've had like a few things, like you know, 388 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 2: events that I've had to buy gifts for or things 389 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 2: that I've needed, I'll top up that account with my overtime, 390 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 2: and then if I'm all good at that time, I'll 391 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,879 Speaker 2: just chuck it straight into investing obsessed. 392 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 4: I love that. All right, let's go to a really 393 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 4: quick break because on the flip side, I want to 394 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 4: know more about this investment portfolio. I'm going to make 395 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 4: you break down the nitty gritty, so I hope you 396 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 4: are ready, and then we're going to talk about your 397 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 4: feelings about debt and then best and worse money habits. 398 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 4: So guys, don't go anywhere money direst We are back, 399 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 4: and I am not done talking about investing with you. 400 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 4: I've gotten real pervy recently on people's investing portfolios and 401 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:04,680 Speaker 4: want the tea. So let's rewind back to four years ago. 402 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:08,439 Speaker 4: You probably didn't even think you'd start investing. What was 403 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 4: the I guess we've been talking about gateway drugs. What 404 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:14,679 Speaker 4: was your gateway into investing? Like, why did you go? 405 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 2: That's for me, So it was probably largely related to 406 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 2: my partner, who has invested for a long time, very savvy, 407 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 2: kind of introduced me to the world of investing. He 408 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 2: did make me do a bit of research and look 409 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,679 Speaker 2: into a few things and good man, yeah, kind of 410 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 2: what I wanted to do. And then that's kind of 411 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 2: how I started. Really. I trusted him and he was 412 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 2: open and showed his portfolio and just so I could 413 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 2: kind of see how it works and how growth works 414 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 2: and what the heck everyone's talking about and they talk 415 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:57,120 Speaker 2: about investing or yeah, so that's kind of how I started. 416 00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:00,679 Speaker 2: I have read your investing book as well. Now I 417 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 2: don't think back then. 418 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 4: No, no, you wouldn't have want to pick that one up, 419 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 4: do you know what. I kind of remember when it 420 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 4: came out, if I'm being honest. 421 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,360 Speaker 2: Same, Yeah, I can't remember when when it came out, 422 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 2: but I don't think it was out at the time 423 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 2: where I had maybe started. 424 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, probably not. I have to google my own book. 425 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:19,399 Speaker 4: So Investing with Cheese on the Money came out in 426 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 4: I Believe twenty twenty three. Yes, so you definitely wouldn't 427 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:25,919 Speaker 4: have been out yet. No, that's crazy that I had 428 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 4: to google my own book. One out of ten cannot 429 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 4: recommend my brain at the moment, so tell me a 430 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 4: bit more. So you had a look and you were like, Okay, cool, 431 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 4: this seems like a really good idea. How did you 432 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,920 Speaker 4: purchase your first share? Did you download an investing platform first? 433 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 4: Did you go direct? 434 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 2: Like? 435 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 4: What did that journey look like? 436 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:46,399 Speaker 2: Yes? So I went through comm Sec comb Pocket or 437 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,439 Speaker 2: one of those com sec or Comsect pocket, and I 438 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 2: just bought my first ETF share. We always laugh about 439 00:21:54,280 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 2: this because EFT is my contract at nursing and ETFs interesting, 440 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 2: and every time I go to say it, I'm like, 441 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 2: which one am I trying to say? 442 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 4: I love that. I remember way back in the day, 443 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,919 Speaker 4: I was so nervous to do a speaking presentation on investing, 444 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:13,639 Speaker 4: and I really hadn't thought enough about this. I was 445 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 4: so worried about like how I was presenting myself and 446 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 4: all of that other stuff. And then I realized when 447 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 4: I looked back at a clip the amount of times 448 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 4: I called it an EFT that's me. No, I was 449 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 4: meant to be the subject matter expert, and I was 450 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 4: calling it an EFT. So if anyone has that recording, 451 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 4: just delete it, like we're friends, Like you're meant to 452 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 4: have my back, Like let's bring it up again, because 453 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 4: I remember being mortified and being like I have to 454 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 4: leave the industry, Like I'm going to cancel myself. Yeah, 455 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:41,880 Speaker 4: I quit the facts about those EFTs. Yeah they were right, 456 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:45,760 Speaker 4: but they were about ETFs. So anyway, that's my Like 457 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 4: I don't have dyslexia. I have ADHD, but I'm pretty 458 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 4: sure they kind of go hand in hand. They have 459 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 4: to they do. 460 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,439 Speaker 2: So every time I call it that, I laugh. But 461 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 2: it's ETF. 462 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 4: Who cares as long as you're investing, Like you know 463 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 4: what you meant? You know what you meant, didn't you? Yeah, exactly. 464 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:06,679 Speaker 4: So you brought your first ETF? And why did you 465 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,880 Speaker 4: pick that ETF? Was it because other people held it? 466 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 4: Was it because you thought it was a little bit sexy? 467 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:15,439 Speaker 4: Like how did we pick? So my partner invests in 468 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:16,920 Speaker 4: that ETF? 469 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 2: What is it? 470 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:18,679 Speaker 4: Come on? Cough up? 471 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 2: Oh you want to know? 472 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:20,679 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, of course I want to know. 473 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 2: NDQ So it's like the top tech companies in America 474 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 2: and yeah, I had to look at kind of what 475 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 2: companies they held, and there's a lot of things going 476 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 2: on with AI and tech in our day and age 477 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:37,880 Speaker 2: in our society, and it just felt like a good fit. 478 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:39,680 Speaker 2: It had really good growth. 479 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:41,479 Speaker 4: It still does have really good growth. 480 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was just like, you know, this just 481 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,399 Speaker 2: sounds good. And that's where I started. And I do 482 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 2: hold a bit of VHY. It's a high dividend paying 483 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 2: one kind of going back and forth of when I 484 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 2: do have kids and not working, maybe putting a chunk 485 00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:01,199 Speaker 2: of my portfolio in there to generate a bit of 486 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:04,240 Speaker 2: an income. So I thought I'd maybe just see how 487 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 2: I feel I put a bit of money in there, 488 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 2: just to test the waders before I have kids. 489 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 4: You know, No, I really like it, and I think 490 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 4: it's one of those things where I like asking you, well, 491 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 4: what ETF did you pick? Not because I want other 492 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 4: people to replicate it, but it's usually reflective of your 493 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 4: values and what you're looking for and how that works. 494 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 4: So I was just like, NDQ, I believe, don't quote 495 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 4: me on this is the beta shares NASDAQ one hundred ETF, 496 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:33,200 Speaker 4: So it's got the top one hundred American tech companies 497 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:36,000 Speaker 4: in it, so like literally Alphabet, Apple, all those ones 498 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 4: that you can think of that would be pretty stereotypical. 499 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 4: And the performance on that has been very good. Was 500 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 4: that your first share like three or four years ago? Yeah, 501 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 4: three or four years ago, So you've probably seen astronomical 502 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 4: growth in that ETF, Like I believe if you like 503 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 4: zoom out, do not quote me on this, but I 504 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,880 Speaker 4: know that I'm like very close to the mark. It's 505 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 4: had like one hundred percent return. So tell me what's 506 00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 4: that share looking like in your portfolio in terms of 507 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 4: turn at the moment. 508 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 2: It's a good, real juicy. 509 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 4: It's looking pretty slick, and we're not promising that. It's 510 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 4: just so pervy to like get involved with what like 511 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 4: other people are doing, being like oh good, because you 512 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 4: can't replicate that. You can't go back in time and 513 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 4: purchase that share and get the same performance as our 514 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:18,960 Speaker 4: money direst But like, look at her buying in line 515 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:22,359 Speaker 4: with her values. That's so sexy because like for me 516 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,160 Speaker 4: my first ETF, when I went into it, I wasn't 517 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,639 Speaker 4: looking at a sector like you have. I was looking 518 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 4: at like a top five hundred because I wanted heaps 519 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 4: of diversification. But I want to know why people pick 520 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 4: these things, because these conversations drive your own narrative in 521 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 4: your mind of how you're then going to pick. You go, oh, interesting, 522 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 4: maybe I could pick a tech one. I love tech 523 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 4: like that makes me feel comfy. So anyway, thank you 524 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 4: for sharing that talk to me about income increases. If 525 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 4: you increase your income, is your plan to then just 526 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 4: aggressively invest more? Because at the moment, if I do 527 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,720 Speaker 4: some calculations because I'm a creep, you said that you're 528 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 4: investing one thousand dollars per fortnite, and like, I've calculated 529 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 4: based on having thirty four thousand dollars today and then 530 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 4: one thousand dollars per fortnight moving forward and an average 531 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 4: rate of return of ten percent in twelve years. Because 532 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 4: you said I'm nearly twenty eight, so I was like, okay, cool, 533 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 4: there'll be thirty eight forty. You've got twelve years until 534 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 4: you quote retire. You'll have an investment portfolio worth about 535 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:22,120 Speaker 4: seven hundred and eleven thousand dollars. What are you doing 536 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 4: around superannuation? Because that's good, but seven hundred and eleven 537 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,479 Speaker 4: thousand dollars I feel like is not where you stop 538 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 4: when you're trying to retire. 539 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,719 Speaker 2: No, my portfolio is now nearly at fifty five thousand. 540 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:35,199 Speaker 2: Stop it. 541 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,480 Speaker 4: So you wrote this in you said, yeap, I've got 542 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 4: thirty four thousand dollars and now it's fifty five thousand dollars. 543 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,639 Speaker 4: I need to eat my words and do my maths again, queen. 544 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 2: Stop it. But Super is invested in high growth international 545 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 2: shares with Vanguard Super and that growth has been craikra 546 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 2: since I transferred it. I think it's been like a 547 00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 2: year and it's done really good growth, which I know 548 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 2: it's a bit more risky because it's in the higher growth. 549 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 2: But I thought, well, you know, can't access it till 550 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:09,359 Speaker 2: i'm sixty probably sixty eight at this rate. Yes, so 551 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,159 Speaker 2: I thought, you know, in sixty eight, it's going to 552 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 2: ride so many waves of up and downs and we'll 553 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 2: see when it gets there. But I think it's got 554 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,920 Speaker 2: around thirty thousand in it and that'll just keep going 555 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 2: up because I'm working full time now, and yeah, it's 556 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 2: a good amount that's going in. I keep an eye 557 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 2: on it just to make sure you know, everyone's paying 558 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:33,159 Speaker 2: what they should be paying. 559 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 4: But it's important because some people skip that and then 560 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 4: it gets too late. 561 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,119 Speaker 2: No, so that's not when I think about retiring. And 562 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 2: I don't even pencil that in because I really want 563 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 2: to retire a lot earlier than when they say that 564 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 2: you have to retire, because I don't think I'm going 565 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 2: to make it to sixty eight to work for the 566 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 2: rest of Yeah, between now and sixty. 567 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 4: Eight, that is so fair. Do you and your partner 568 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,960 Speaker 4: have conversations around your investing strategy and what that looks like. 569 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 4: Like I know that you say, oh, we don't really 570 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,199 Speaker 4: have any big goals of like, you know, a wedding 571 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 4: or buying a house or any of that. But does 572 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,120 Speaker 4: he also have the goal of retiring by the time 573 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:08,719 Speaker 4: you're forty? 574 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,919 Speaker 2: He has the same goal as retiring early. And I 575 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,880 Speaker 2: think when we think about that, we're very aligned on 576 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 2: our goals and what it looks like. And every time 577 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 2: I make a decision or I'm like, oh, you know, 578 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,240 Speaker 2: when I started at the hospital and obviously my going 579 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 2: from like part time to like six days a week 580 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:32,119 Speaker 2: of pay, he's my little financial advisor because I'm like, 581 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 2: you know, we're doing all the math and the budget 582 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,679 Speaker 2: tools and the what does it look like if I 583 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 2: do X, I mean, what does it look like for 584 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,920 Speaker 2: my portfolio if I go really aggressive, or if I 585 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 2: go middle, or if I go conservative. We did all 586 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 2: of the numbers and we landed on Yeah, thousand a fortnight. 587 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 2: There's probably still more wiggle room than I could probably do. 588 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 4: But you don't want to shoot yourself in the foot. 589 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to be realistic. 590 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I think that over committing means that you 591 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 4: would be consistently disappointed if you didn't meet the criteria, 592 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 4: whereas if you set something that's relatively reasonable. And you 593 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 4: know what, there are probably some people listening to this going, wow, 594 00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 4: that's five hundred dollars a week that she's investing. That's 595 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:14,520 Speaker 4: really unrelatable. 596 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was unrelatable to me four years ago, but. 597 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 4: Like, that's just it. And I was reading the comments, 598 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 4: and you know, this is she's on the money, so 599 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 4: I'm very honest. But I was reading the comments the 600 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,360 Speaker 4: other day on one of our investing diaries, and i'd 601 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 4: actually had one of my team members on the show, Brooke, 602 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 4: who had been talking about her investing journey. And she 603 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 4: invests about six hundred and eighty dollars a week and 604 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 4: she has two full time jobs as well. She's very 605 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 4: similar to you, and that she didn't come from good 606 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 4: financial literacy. She didn't have a leg up, she didn't 607 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 4: have parents who taught her how to invest, she didn't 608 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 4: have any of those benefits. Yes, I think that there's 609 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 4: a very broad conversation about, you know, just privilege. We 610 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 4: live in Australia. We have access to the ability to 611 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 4: do these things, and that's fantastic. But I would never 612 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 4: want to downplay the fact that no, no, no, you guys 613 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 4: are doing this yourselves, Like you are creating this financial 614 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 4: freedom on your own because you have the tools and 615 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 4: resources and you're harnessing them. For most people who are 616 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,400 Speaker 4: just starting and maybe they're listening to this money Diary, 617 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,600 Speaker 4: let's remember that this money Diarres literally was in quote 618 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,240 Speaker 4: four years ago, the worst financial position of her life. 619 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 4: Like we're not talking about people where it's like, oh yeah, 620 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 4: but she has the free cash flow. I'm sorry and 621 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 4: I'm not trying to downplay it at all, but like 622 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 4: you have two very normal jobs. You're a nurse and 623 00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 4: you have an office job. And the reason you keep 624 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 4: your office job is like you love the income coming in, 625 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 4: you love the freedom you're creating for yourself. This isn't 626 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 4: like out of reach. It's unrelatable because you're not doing 627 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 4: it right now, but it's not unobtainable. Which I think 628 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 4: is the coolest part of it. At what point did 629 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 4: you realize, holy gacamole, I'm doing it myself, Like this 630 00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 4: is actually a reality. It's not like I have four 631 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,480 Speaker 4: hundred dollars in shares and like, oh, I could leave it. 632 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,000 Speaker 4: Maybe at what point where you're like, hold on, hold on. 633 00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:01,000 Speaker 2: I still log onto my APPP and I'm like, wooll 634 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 2: jump scar well because I'm like, there's no way that 635 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 2: that's mine. And I did that. So I think I'm 636 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 2: very grateful for how far I've come. I'm grateful really 637 00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,959 Speaker 2: to my partner for helping me. I'm grateful for you 638 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,479 Speaker 2: guys for your book. I used to read all of 639 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 2: the Facebook money wins and all of the little hacks 640 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,760 Speaker 2: the budgets. I have everything down to the dollar, you know, 641 00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 2: Like my budget is just so every single thing that 642 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 2: comes out of my account is accounted for. And I 643 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 2: couldn't have done it without sacrifice. I had to sacrifice, 644 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 2: you know. I went to UNI and worked part time, 645 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 2: and during that time a lot of my friends bought houses, 646 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 2: and you know, we're working full time jobs. So you know, 647 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 2: I am a bit older as well, like you know, 648 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 2: at twenty eight to finish UNI, or like last year 649 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 2: twenty seven, and a lot of them had been working 650 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,880 Speaker 2: their full time jobs for already three to four years 651 00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,520 Speaker 2: and are buying houses now. So you know, it took 652 00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 2: a lot of sacrifice for me to go back to 653 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 2: UNI and go, yeah, to have the vision and yeah, 654 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 2: to get where I am now. 655 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,400 Speaker 4: It did stop going their bed bathroom table. Oh no, 656 00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 4: don't do that to me. I really like bed bathroom table. 657 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 4: I'm my girlfriend. It's coming up to Christmas time soon, 658 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 4: and like their Christmas range, Oh sorry, it's a slippery slope. 659 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:23,400 Speaker 4: So we just don't go there anymore. 660 00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 2: And I have really good self control. I remember you 661 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 2: saying I think on a podcast episode that you put 662 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 2: twenty four hours between you and a purchase, and I 663 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 2: do that sometimes where I'm like, okay, it's been three weeks. 664 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 4: How good is that. 665 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 2: I don't know if she meant I need to put 666 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 2: this much time between a purchase, but no, no, no. 667 00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 4: That's better, bab. But I just have a lack of 668 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 4: impulse control, so twenty four hours is the minimum. The 669 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 4: longer you can stretch it, the more you know whether 670 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 4: you want it or not. Three weeks queen behavior. 671 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. I remember I was sitting there looking at this 672 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 2: pair of Ugbroots and I was like, oh, I really 673 00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 2: want some Ugbroots for winter. And I was like, I 674 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 2: just don't know if I can, like, you know, justify 675 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,080 Speaker 2: they are kind of expensive for slippers, and I was like, 676 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 2: you know, I'm just gonna wait. I waited like five 677 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 2: weeks and then I was like, you know what, I'm 678 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,280 Speaker 2: going to just see how I feel when I log 679 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 2: back onto the page. And then they were on sale. Ah. 680 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 4: See, good things happened to good people. 681 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 2: Baby, And I was like, see I waited and I 682 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 2: got the sale price. So yeah. I changed my whole 683 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 2: attitude on that as well, like the spending and going out, 684 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 2: like not that I really dined out too much, but 685 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 2: just yeah, my values had to shift to remember what 686 00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 2: I want to do, and that's retire and not have 687 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 2: to work for the rest of my life. And I 688 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 2: remember that when I think about why I'm investing aggressively, 689 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 2: it's for that reason, you know. Yeah. 690 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 4: And it's funny because you just said you know, I'm 691 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 4: so grateful for my partner, and I'm so grateful for 692 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,160 Speaker 4: all of these other things, but like you didn't mention 693 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 4: you and like, at the end of the day, you 694 00:33:57,920 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 4: can lead a horse to water, but you can't make 695 00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 4: them drink. I can throw and I do. I'm so 696 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 4: aggressive about it. I'm like so female, financially empowered. Like 697 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,880 Speaker 4: I'm just like, okay, cool, anyone can do it. Like 698 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 4: you know, you combat me and come to me and 699 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,319 Speaker 4: be like, well that's unrealistic. I'm like, sit down, it's 700 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 4: not unobtainable. This is how we're going to do it. 701 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:17,799 Speaker 4: Like I want you to be able to do it, 702 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:21,120 Speaker 4: but it is uncomfortable. You have to do the work. 703 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,440 Speaker 4: And you said at the start of this episode, and 704 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 4: like I think that this is where I'm obsessed with 705 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,880 Speaker 4: this money diary. You said at the start. Look, Va, 706 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 4: I read your book and I did the bank account 707 00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 4: order and I cried, Like it was so confronting and 708 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,880 Speaker 4: so hard. I did not promise that this journey was 709 00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:38,200 Speaker 4: going to be easy, but I did promise that it 710 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 4: would be rewarding, and now you were reaping the rewards. 711 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:42,960 Speaker 4: But like you got to put in the work you've 712 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:44,840 Speaker 4: got to do it yourself. Like I can't do it 713 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:46,799 Speaker 4: for you. I wish I could. If I could wave 714 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:50,080 Speaker 4: a magic wand and make every female in this country 715 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 4: super shine. It's the right risk profile, it's perfect. I 716 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 4: could set up all your investment port voluos like in 717 00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 4: line with your goals and your value. I would, but 718 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 4: I can't. You have to do the work. So I 719 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:03,799 Speaker 4: hope you're grateful for you too, because you're the one 720 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:05,759 Speaker 4: that did the work. Nobody else did that. 721 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 2: I am yeah, Yeah, I'm glad that I did it. 722 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 2: And I had that kind of maybe low point where 723 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:16,479 Speaker 2: I did feel like everything was chaotic, but now I yeah, 724 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:18,880 Speaker 2: just you have to do it yourself, and you have 725 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:20,880 Speaker 2: to be ready for that journey and ready for the 726 00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 2: sacrifice because it's your money, your pay your budget. You know, 727 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:27,960 Speaker 2: no one can do it for you. At the end 728 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,359 Speaker 2: of the day. You have to be into it. You 729 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:33,759 Speaker 2: have to be accountable because it's your money. Yeah. 730 00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,239 Speaker 4: And it's funny because recently I've been saying a lot 731 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 4: of people have been like, oh, I'm not ready to invest, 732 00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:43,280 Speaker 4: I'm not ready to start, And I keep saying ready 733 00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,759 Speaker 4: is not a feeling, It is a decision, like you 734 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 4: just have to pull your finger out one day and 735 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,880 Speaker 4: be like, guess I'm ready. I guess I've got to 736 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:51,919 Speaker 4: do it today. You're not going to have the most 737 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,480 Speaker 4: amount of financial literacy that you have, Like I can 738 00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,719 Speaker 4: almost guarantee that if we went back in time, Yes, 739 00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:59,880 Speaker 4: you had a lot of education with your initial sharepuot 740 00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:02,560 Speaker 4: for but there's so much stuff you'd probably change, is 741 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:05,400 Speaker 4: that right? Yeah, I mean even just reading your investing book, 742 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, that's what that is. Oh interesting, 743 00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:09,400 Speaker 4: I didn't know that. 744 00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:12,319 Speaker 2: Oh I've been doing that and I didn't know that 745 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:15,319 Speaker 2: that's what it was. Or yeah, so there's always things 746 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 2: that are going to be forever changing and growing. And yeah, 747 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 2: I just think it's so important to start like yesterday 748 00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,600 Speaker 2: because I wish I could have gone back do going 749 00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:26,080 Speaker 2: to work for. 750 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 4: Me, Like I'm not going to give you a cushy 751 00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 4: office job, but you sound like you were on the 752 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:30,960 Speaker 4: same page as me. 753 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wish I could have started earlier, but grateful 754 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:39,439 Speaker 2: that I did start when I did. And yeah, it's yeah. 755 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 2: I try my best to like anyone who asks me, 756 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 2: like in my life, my personal life or whatever, I'm like, 757 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,560 Speaker 2: have you read cheese on the money. Have you? 758 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 4: That's so sweet? 759 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,480 Speaker 2: Thank you? Do you invest? Do you do your Have 760 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,680 Speaker 2: you got a budget? And You'll never believe how many 761 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:55,880 Speaker 2: people tell me that they don't have a budget. And 762 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,840 Speaker 2: I was like, that is wild. Do you work full time? 763 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 2: What do you do with your money? How does it 764 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:02,920 Speaker 2: what happens when it hits your account? 765 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:06,320 Speaker 4: Does that not stress your heart? They spend it? It's crazy. 766 00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,360 Speaker 4: And I'm not saying it's a bad thing. It's hard. Yeah, 767 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:11,640 Speaker 4: it's hard. But once you get on the budget train, 768 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,319 Speaker 4: I think a lot of people are evasive of it 769 00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,440 Speaker 4: because they are so scared that a budget is going 770 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,080 Speaker 4: to be restrictive and not feel good and it's going 771 00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 4: to stop them from living their best life. But it's 772 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 4: actually a tool that helps you understand every single dollar 773 00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,959 Speaker 4: that comes in, every single dollar that goes out, making 774 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,239 Speaker 4: sure it's in line with your values, your goals. Like 775 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,920 Speaker 4: it's just making your money work hard for you, and 776 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,440 Speaker 4: like you don't go to work for forty plus hours 777 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 4: a week so that you can be in a worse 778 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:37,880 Speaker 4: off position. 779 00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 2: Mary might as well just sit at home because that's 780 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:43,000 Speaker 2: too much effort exactly. But yeah, I think the budget 781 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:47,239 Speaker 2: is so important because it's not restrictive. It's scary, and 782 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,120 Speaker 2: I think that's why a lot of people don't want 783 00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 2: to do it. And I didn't have a budget four 784 00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:55,080 Speaker 2: years ago, which you know obviously was the problem. And 785 00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,879 Speaker 2: it's not restrictive because I've been on the holiday every 786 00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:02,160 Speaker 2: single year since I made that because it's important to 787 00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:07,080 Speaker 2: me to travel, and it hasn't been restrictive, it's been freeing. 788 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, tell me as well, because, like you said, I 789 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,880 Speaker 4: was in the car with my partner planning this holiday 790 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 4: and I just realized it was financially ruining me, Like 791 00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,880 Speaker 4: I just couldn't do it. Tell me about the feeling 792 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 4: you now have when you go on holiday versus the 793 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 4: lead up to that holiday. 794 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:28,000 Speaker 2: That lead up was grim. I was very stressed and like, yeah, 795 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:31,799 Speaker 2: I was very daunting to go. Now I'm like a 796 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,719 Speaker 2: bit more savvy when we go. We you know, we 797 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 2: don't always have to go for the nicest thing or 798 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 2: the most expensive thing, not that I did before, but 799 00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,920 Speaker 2: you know, we're a bit more conscious, you know, because 800 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 2: we want that goal of retiring early, but we do 801 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:49,719 Speaker 2: want to travel. So it's like, where can we meet 802 00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:53,880 Speaker 2: in the middle, and how can we do it in 803 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:57,920 Speaker 2: the smartest way. And you know, often we don't drink alcohol, 804 00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,799 Speaker 2: like that first trip we did and I reckon, we 805 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:05,160 Speaker 2: spent so much money just on drinking and we're lack 806 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,239 Speaker 2: never again. You know, we don't do that anymore, and 807 00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:11,440 Speaker 2: it's so much nicer to have that extra money in 808 00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,239 Speaker 2: your account. You know, that's just something that we've decided 809 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 2: when we go on trips, that's one thing that we 810 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,360 Speaker 2: can cut out. That makes a huge difference. 811 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,000 Speaker 4: You see. Nope, sorry, I love you, and like that 812 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,279 Speaker 4: is so fantastic that that works for you. 813 00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:26,839 Speaker 2: Love an apparole, Oh my. 814 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 4: God, I don't think it's a secret, queen. I love 815 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:33,160 Speaker 4: an apparol. I love a little in the afternoon, a 816 00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 4: little peanutolata by a pool. Oh say less. 817 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:37,920 Speaker 2: I definitely can relate. 818 00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,760 Speaker 4: But we're just I think, but that's in my budget, 819 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,040 Speaker 4: and we budget based on our values. And that's the 820 00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:46,120 Speaker 4: best part, Like mad respect that you know your budget 821 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,719 Speaker 4: and I know mine. But like the best part is 822 00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 4: once you get to this stage, we're not comparing. We're 823 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 4: not looking at yours and going, oh, well, she saves 824 00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:56,440 Speaker 4: more money than me on that particular thing. Like it 825 00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:59,080 Speaker 4: all comes out in the wash in the best possible ways. 826 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 4: Can I the presumptuous and assume you don't have any debt? 827 00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 2: No, I just have a hex debt. Yeah, no debt. 828 00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:10,000 Speaker 2: I had credit cards back in the day, which I 829 00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:13,120 Speaker 2: think was about five grand. But that felt like, oh 830 00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:14,840 Speaker 2: my god, that felt so crippling. 831 00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 4: And did you max out that credit card? 832 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:18,799 Speaker 2: Yeah? And I was like never I Once I paid 833 00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:20,120 Speaker 2: it off, I cut it up and I was like, 834 00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,320 Speaker 2: oh that, I'm never doing that again. So no debt, 835 00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:29,440 Speaker 2: no carloans, no after pay. I don't have an account. No, 836 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:34,000 Speaker 2: no debt, no not after like my growing up lifestyle, 837 00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:37,800 Speaker 2: no debt for me. The HECTS is probably kind of 838 00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 2: it's like around the forty grand mark hopefully with that 839 00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,320 Speaker 2: big index payment that we should be getting. 840 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,160 Speaker 4: Oh, we're all waiting for that, and the she's on 841 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 4: the money office, we're all watching out our hex debts 842 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,320 Speaker 4: getting very excited. 843 00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, oh, hopefully soon. But honestly, I'm so 844 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,520 Speaker 2: comfortable with that it's going to pay itself off and 845 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 2: I'm not too stressed about it. I don't really make 846 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 2: any contributions to paying it off. I'd rather invest it 847 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,600 Speaker 2: in my shares and let it grow and yeah, I 848 00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,799 Speaker 2: feel like that will pay itself off in good time. 849 00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,600 Speaker 4: It just plods along. So now tell me, what do 850 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:16,600 Speaker 4: you think your best money habit is. I feel like 851 00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:18,279 Speaker 4: you might have a few, like the fact that you 852 00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 4: cut out alcohol because you were like, we looked at 853 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,200 Speaker 4: how much that cost us and now we just don't 854 00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:24,399 Speaker 4: drink it. I couldn't pitch that to my husband. I'm 855 00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 4: so sorry, just not going to work for me. But 856 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 4: what do you think your best money howbit is? 857 00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:32,240 Speaker 2: Be's money habit is probably all the automatic transfers, because 858 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:37,920 Speaker 2: that system is just so to the tea and every 859 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 2: dollar goes somewhere. There's no lull in my bank account, 860 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:47,839 Speaker 2: which is nice. And the automatic investing that I've set 861 00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:51,520 Speaker 2: up on Beta Shares, it's so easy. It just comes 862 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,440 Speaker 2: straight out of my bank, straight into the wallet and 863 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,680 Speaker 2: invests automatically, and I don't have to think about a thing. 864 00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 2: I think that would be my best money habit. The 865 00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:02,880 Speaker 2: thing that annoys me the most is that I can't 866 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:06,520 Speaker 2: guarantee how much my overtime it's going to be every 867 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:10,520 Speaker 2: week to automatically invest. That that peeves me off. I 868 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:13,760 Speaker 2: have to do that manually, But that would be my best. 869 00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:15,520 Speaker 4: But that's so good that it's automated. 870 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:17,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it takes their emotion out of it. 871 00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 2: You know, it doesn't leave me going, oh, should I 872 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:24,279 Speaker 2: put this into No, it's going into investing and it's 873 00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:25,359 Speaker 2: going into long term. 874 00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:28,880 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, it's already gone. Sorry, did you mean to 875 00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,520 Speaker 4: make another decision? Because we already made it for you. 876 00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,600 Speaker 4: And I feel like, in my head, I'm like, once 877 00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:36,640 Speaker 4: it's in there, it's illegal to take it out. Like, sorry, 878 00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,920 Speaker 4: it's illegal. Like I've got to make a law book. 879 00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:41,759 Speaker 4: And one of the shehes on the money laws is 880 00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,960 Speaker 4: that you cannot take out of your investing cloud. You can, 881 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:48,319 Speaker 4: by the way, don't feel stressed, but in my head, 882 00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,200 Speaker 4: it just feels like it's not mine anymore. And it's 883 00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,879 Speaker 4: a very weird concept because I obviously know that. But yeah, 884 00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:56,360 Speaker 4: I just once it's in there, I'm like, oh, I 885 00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:58,719 Speaker 4: couldn't take it out, then I'm stopping it growing never. 886 00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,200 Speaker 2: I could never do that. So that would be my 887 00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,080 Speaker 2: hot tip. And you have to do a budget to 888 00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,960 Speaker 2: do that. Team just to break it to you. 889 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:08,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah exactly. You and I are on the 890 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:10,080 Speaker 4: same team. Do you budget and do you know what 891 00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:13,160 Speaker 4: the best part about this is it's free on my website. 892 00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,360 Speaker 4: Go and download it. You don't have to do anything, 893 00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 4: and it will auto calculate at the bottom. That's very 894 00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 4: sexy and very peachy. 895 00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:24,759 Speaker 2: That would be my hot tip. Also, maybe, like I 896 00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,880 Speaker 2: every time I get like a bill and that's increasing, 897 00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:31,000 Speaker 2: Like I always like, I don't know how many times 898 00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:34,240 Speaker 2: I've canceled my insurance and resigned up, like my car insurance, 899 00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:39,040 Speaker 2: probably ten times. So every year they're like, oh, it's 900 00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:40,880 Speaker 2: going back up, and I was like, for what, I 901 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:41,840 Speaker 2: didn't even do anything. 902 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:43,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't even have any bingals. What are you 903 00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:44,439 Speaker 4: talking about? 904 00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,799 Speaker 2: Yeah? And they're like, oh, you know, ten percent off 905 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,920 Speaker 2: for new customers. I was like, hello, I've just been 906 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:53,000 Speaker 2: paying you for a year. How about me? So I 907 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 2: cancel things and resign up all the time, for anything, 908 00:43:56,880 --> 00:44:02,719 Speaker 2: phone bills, car insurance, any bill that yeah, we have. 909 00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,960 Speaker 4: Any subscriptions I use as well, I threaten to cancel 910 00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,440 Speaker 4: even without making a phone call to cancel it. Right, 911 00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:11,359 Speaker 4: And Adobe is probably going to be mad that I'm 912 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,480 Speaker 4: saying this, But I did this the other day to 913 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,839 Speaker 4: my Adobe subscription. I like went on the website and 914 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:19,960 Speaker 4: clicked cancel subscription and then it came up with a 915 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,120 Speaker 4: last minute offer and it was like, oh, we hate 916 00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:25,040 Speaker 4: to see you go. Here's forty percent off the next 917 00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:29,720 Speaker 4: six months. And I was like, oh that's nice, thanks. Yeah, yeah, actually, 918 00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:32,680 Speaker 4: because I was going to hit cancel subscription and just 919 00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:37,120 Speaker 4: see what happened. Then I was going to resign up anyway, I. 920 00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,960 Speaker 2: Fine with phone bills. If you asked to be transferred 921 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,279 Speaker 2: to the cancelation team, they can always give you a 922 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:47,359 Speaker 2: better price than even just negotiating with the people on 923 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:51,719 Speaker 2: like the phone. You'd be like, no, I'm canceling, I'm unhappy, 924 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 2: and then the cancelation team have a better price that 925 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:57,000 Speaker 2: they can offer you. So got to swindle every dollar 926 00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:57,319 Speaker 2: you know. 927 00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:02,319 Speaker 4: Love, you are a woman from my own community. Tell me, though, 928 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:04,920 Speaker 4: flip the narrative. What's your worst money habit? Have you 929 00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:06,920 Speaker 4: even got any at this point, I've. 930 00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:11,480 Speaker 2: Tried really hard to think of one, and I definitely 931 00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:14,840 Speaker 2: had a few back in the day. My worst money 932 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:20,920 Speaker 2: habit would be, God, I don't know. I would say 933 00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:22,719 Speaker 2: maybe travel, Like even if it's not. 934 00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:24,839 Speaker 4: No, it's not, you can't because you don't even drink 935 00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 4: when you travel. Sorry you're too savvy for this show. 936 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 4: But that's okay, But I have to ask a pressing 937 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,759 Speaker 4: question because, like you know, at the start, I told 938 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:33,279 Speaker 4: you we're going to loop back to this. You said, oh, 939 00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:36,560 Speaker 4: I'm a B plus. What kind of B plus person 940 00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:38,960 Speaker 4: says they don't have a bad money habit? Like a 941 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,920 Speaker 4: person who says no straight out the gates. I'm an 942 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,880 Speaker 4: A plus. And then if they said I don't have 943 00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:44,279 Speaker 4: any bad money habits, I'd be like, you know what, 944 00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:47,319 Speaker 4: I believe you, but sorry, what's the B plus for? Then? 945 00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:49,720 Speaker 4: Why not a plus if no bad money habits? 946 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:51,719 Speaker 2: I don't know. I do want to, like hi ball 947 00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 2: myself and then we have this comra and I was like, oh, actually. 948 00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,279 Speaker 4: Oh no, sorry. In this house, we back ourselves. 949 00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 2: I think there's always room to grow, which is why 950 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,400 Speaker 2: I did be plus because I want to strive to 951 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:07,520 Speaker 2: be the best. But sometimes, you know, things happen. We 952 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:10,960 Speaker 2: can't guarantee every single thing's a sure thing for the 953 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:15,720 Speaker 2: rest of our lives till I retire. But I love it. Yeah, 954 00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:16,839 Speaker 2: I'm probably an ade. 955 00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:19,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, I know, like I just heard your 956 00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 4: money story, baby cakes, I know, but I do want 957 00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,040 Speaker 4: to ask, though, if you've not got a bad money habit? 958 00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:25,640 Speaker 4: You have to tell me what was the last thing 959 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:26,760 Speaker 4: you impulse purchased. 960 00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:29,440 Speaker 2: I feel like it was just yesterday because I've been 961 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:33,080 Speaker 2: on annual leave and I'm looking for things to do 962 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:37,960 Speaker 2: around the house, and I bought a new monitor from 963 00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,759 Speaker 2: Marketplace for my desk like at home. So now I 964 00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:45,279 Speaker 2: have two screens for my home office. I didn't really 965 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,799 Speaker 2: need it. I had one and my laptop, but I 966 00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:49,520 Speaker 2: was like, oh, you know, if I'm going to work 967 00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,239 Speaker 2: from home for a while, I could get another one. 968 00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:52,799 Speaker 2: That's good. 969 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:56,200 Speaker 4: I love it. See guys, even her like Impulse purchases 970 00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:59,719 Speaker 4: are on bloody Marketplace. She is savvy, she's an a 971 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 4: W she's an A plus. I love it, money Dirist, 972 00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,400 Speaker 4: this has been a pleasure. I am just so glad 973 00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:08,360 Speaker 4: that you not only wanted to share your story, we 974 00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:10,360 Speaker 4: had a really great chat. I feel like this is 975 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,160 Speaker 4: going to be a very fun episode to listen to. 976 00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 4: But then also, you just you're so part of the community, 977 00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:19,839 Speaker 4: the book, the podcast, like you're investing your saving like 978 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:23,000 Speaker 4: you're an icon. I love it. And for anyone listening 979 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:26,239 Speaker 4: who's like that's unrelatable, No, Queen, it's not unrelatable. It's 980 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:29,000 Speaker 4: just not currently being done, like you're just not doing it. 981 00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,520 Speaker 4: You can absolutely create this yourself. And I just think 982 00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:34,080 Speaker 4: that's the coolest part of this money story. You did 983 00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:35,799 Speaker 4: this yourself. I love it. 984 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:36,279 Speaker 2: Thank you. 985 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:41,279 Speaker 5: I would read the book, you know, the little people's 986 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,360 Speaker 5: stories when I was first reading the book, and I 987 00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,560 Speaker 5: was like, oh, that could just never be me because 988 00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 5: that seems so unachievable. 989 00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,399 Speaker 2: But well, here I am. 990 00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:51,880 Speaker 4: I guess it's small steps in the right direction. And 991 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 4: I think that all the time we get so overwhelmed 992 00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 4: and like, social media does not help, because social media 993 00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:01,879 Speaker 4: definitely shoves down now through narratives of people who are 994 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:05,120 Speaker 4: genuinely unrelatable. Like, don't get me wrong, not all of 995 00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 4: us are going to become multimillion dollar tech founders and 996 00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:11,400 Speaker 4: you see their stories like, yeah, I get why that's unrelatable, 997 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:14,279 Speaker 4: but sorry, we have a twenty seven year old from 998 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:17,719 Speaker 4: Melbourne who didn't come from wealth, who is creating it herself. 999 00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:18,680 Speaker 4: That is iconic. 1000 00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:19,920 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. 1001 00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 4: I love it all right. I wish we had more 1002 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:25,239 Speaker 4: time together, but alas we do not. Thank you so much. 1003 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,560 Speaker 4: I just can't wait for their community to get their 1004 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,600 Speaker 4: little hands on this episode because they're going to love it. 1005 00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:30,479 Speaker 4: As much as I did. 1006 00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me. 1007 00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:41,200 Speaker 6: The advice shared on She's on the Money is generally 1008 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:45,160 Speaker 6: nature and does not consider your individual circumstances. 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