WEBVTT - Should We Make New Year’s Resolutions? 🎇🎉🥂

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and frooms. Happy you are we flex and frooms are?

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<v Speaker 1>We want to say.

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<v Speaker 2>Happy, Get near it, you little free get near it together.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess what we're talking about. I know you want

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<v Speaker 2>to hear it. New Year's Resolutions. Now. There are two

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<v Speaker 2>types of people, those who are vehemently pro and those

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<v Speaker 2>who are ob they against. Now. I've had very many

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<v Speaker 2>times in my life where I've altered between the two.

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<v Speaker 2>The good reason, I think that there is value in

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<v Speaker 2>accepting responsibility for your life and deciding, in this moment,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to try to do something different. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to try to be someone different. I'm going to try

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<v Speaker 2>and change my life to varying levels of success. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think it's it's the mentality that starts it

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<v Speaker 2>off and the actions that eventually follow. If they want

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<v Speaker 2>to through me, please say for the what do you

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<v Speaker 2>call them?

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<v Speaker 1>Affirmative?

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<v Speaker 2>No? The jury?

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<v Speaker 1>The jury?

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<v Speaker 2>Please say for the jury? Are you for or against

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<v Speaker 2>New Year's Resolutions in the traditional way?

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<v Speaker 1>I am against In the traditional way. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>a way to put off what you really want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>My approach is to set out your values and go

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<v Speaker 1>from their start today, Start now, Start now.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand that. I respect it because it is also true.

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<v Speaker 2>We all high behind the timelines. We all know time

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<v Speaker 2>isn't real. How many times we talked about this, babes,

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<v Speaker 2>time isn't real because we're on the Gregorian calendar right

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<v Speaker 2>it's twenty twenty two right now in Ethiopia, it's like

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<v Speaker 2>twenty sixteen, twenty fifteen. How does that make sense? Who knows?

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<v Speaker 2>My point? Is you picking an arbitrary time to do

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<v Speaker 2>something is just that arbitrary?

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<v Speaker 1>So exciting? Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? We've lost rooms. I'm gonna take that. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna captain the ship of my own. New Year's resolutions

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<v Speaker 2>for or against. Through me is against and for good reason.

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<v Speaker 2>She believes that the perfect time to start is now.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to change your life, do it today.

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<v Speaker 2>You want to be a better person, do it today.

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<v Speaker 2>And I agree with that. However, I think that the

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<v Speaker 2>average person really struggles with self agency, and I think

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<v Speaker 2>the almost like the fanfare around New Years and the refresh,

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<v Speaker 2>is a great motivator for the average person who's constantly

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<v Speaker 2>waiting for permission to do, who needs the invitation to

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<v Speaker 2>start now. We aren't all built in the same way.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you heard about human design. No, it could be

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<v Speaker 2>interesting to you. Human design is another one of those

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<v Speaker 2>personality archetype or systems or whatever. But it basically talks.

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<v Speaker 2>It's definitely what you'd refer to as quack science.

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<v Speaker 1>A right, so you're gonna say it's definitely not for you.

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<v Speaker 2>As I'm pointing at you. No, No, it's definitely like

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<v Speaker 2>it lives in that quack science territory. I I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know how it works. Talks about energy centers. The point

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<v Speaker 2>is it says that there are I think three types

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<v Speaker 2>of people in the world. There are actually four or wait,

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<v Speaker 2>let me so human designs. They say that there are

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<v Speaker 2>five types of people generators, manifesting generators, manifestors, projectors, and reflectors.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm not gonna explain what each one is. But

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<v Speaker 2>manifesting manifeti, manifesti, carnage and.

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<v Speaker 1>The studio folks.

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<v Speaker 2>Manifesting generators are my people. The types of people just

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<v Speaker 2>make things happen. There's not really rhyme or reason or chaos,

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<v Speaker 2>but they very simply are able to alchemize the things

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<v Speaker 2>they want to do. It just happens. But then they

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<v Speaker 2>are not the people who wait for invitations. They feel

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<v Speaker 2>empowered to go do stuff. They don't need a door

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<v Speaker 2>to be opened for them, they don't need a guide.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, I'm gonna do it, and they do it. However,

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<v Speaker 2>a big part of the population are projectors, and those

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<v Speaker 2>are the people or projectors and reflectors who need permission

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<v Speaker 2>to start, who want to feel invited, who want to

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<v Speaker 2>answer the call, who want to read the letter, who

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<v Speaker 2>want to get the text before they feel allowed to begin.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I feel like there is a value in

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<v Speaker 2>this concept of a news resolution, because they might just

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<v Speaker 2>be sitting at home waiting for permission to be like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, I get to change today because society

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<v Speaker 2>has allowed me to. And to that, I say, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's cool, because I would hate to feel trapped in

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<v Speaker 2>this mindset of like I can't be anyone different than

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<v Speaker 2>who I am because of whatever the reason might be.

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<v Speaker 1>You can always change, You can always change.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we believe that. Some people don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, it's good to know you can transcend

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<v Speaker 1>and become different categories if you work hard enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you can do whatever you want if you work

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<v Speaker 2>hard enough, or so I believe. Yeah, But see, I

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<v Speaker 2>gotta stop that because I believe in merit, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>not real with respect. With respect, merit is not real.

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<v Speaker 2>If you work hard at something, you might not get

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<v Speaker 2>what you want. Unfortunately, happy years and releaship.

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<v Speaker 1>On that note, have fun.

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