Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life
Speaker 1: I Cut. I'm Brittany, I know Laura. This is our
Speaker 1: US uncut episode, our little quickened, down and dirty where
Speaker 1: we answer your biggest problems, your deepest secrets, and the
Speaker 1: things you just really need some help with.
Speaker 2: This is my favorite episode. I love it.
Speaker 1: It's the one I.
Speaker 2: Look forward to all week because I just love giving
Speaker 2: you my opinion.
Speaker 1: Okay, am I right? Britt Britt, You guys might have
Speaker 1: cluted on Laura has been a bit sick this week.
Speaker 1: That is actually not Laura. We didn't want to not
Speaker 1: bring you guys an episode, so I've gone rogue and
Speaker 1: I've tried. I've thought, what's the next best thing I
Speaker 1: could possibly to Laura? Buster was unavailable, Marley hasn't been
Speaker 1: speaking much, so we have got Matt in the studio
Speaker 1: doing his very first ask Uncut.
Speaker 2: Welcome cad I guys, lifers, you know it's weird. For
Speaker 2: so long, I've been secretly reading through the questions that
Speaker 2: get submitted to the Facebook group, and I thought to myself,
Speaker 2: gin know what, I think I'd be pretty damn good
Speaker 2: at answering some of these questions. And I didn't want
Speaker 2: to ask Laura, but I secretly infected her with an
Speaker 2: illness that knocked her down for a week. So there
Speaker 2: was no other choice but for me to get the
Speaker 2: call up and can I just say it's good to
Speaker 2: be here. I feel comfortable, Laura, you've been replaced.
Speaker 1: Well, you know how I feel. I feel a little
Speaker 1: bit like I'm cheating on Laura.
Speaker 2: There you are.
Speaker 1: I feel like, okay, even though I just want everyone
Speaker 1: to know. Laura is in the room. She's watching us
Speaker 1: like a hawk, trying to make sure we perform. She's
Speaker 1: making sure we articulate. She's making sure we don't move
Speaker 1: back from the mic because she has to edit this.
Speaker 2: We proposed it in a way that was I was wondering,
Speaker 2: what is she going to ask? She came into the room.
Speaker 2: I was sitting down on the couch and Laura is like, look.
Speaker 2: She actually said, I don't know if you're going to
Speaker 2: hate this, but I have an idea. And I was thinking, God,
Speaker 2: hang on.
Speaker 1: Did you take this idea as yours? Laura? Did you slippery?
Speaker 2: And she was like, how would you feel about doing
Speaker 2: an episode of Life on cart.
Speaker 1: You're like, where do I sign? No?
Speaker 2: Oh, you know, I've got my own podcast, The Babble,
Speaker 2: which hang on that was two minutes.
Speaker 1: You got that in there. I love that.
Speaker 2: Lauren said, you can say the Babble, but just make
Speaker 2: sure it's at the very end, and I was like,
Speaker 2: of course, not a problem, totally fine. The Babble podcast
Speaker 2: one of the best pop culture podcasts out there. I
Speaker 2: think you know, if your fix of news and related TV,
Speaker 2: it's it's at the Bubble podcast on Instagram as well.
Speaker 2: You're going to give us a follow.
Speaker 1: How come you haven't got me on there if it's
Speaker 1: the best you've been on there?
Speaker 2: Sorry, you had a full episode to yourself.
Speaker 1: I actually performed really well. Continue.
Speaker 2: I'm glad you remember it was that serious.
Speaker 1: I had a mind blame. We asked, we are sock
Speaker 1: to have you here, but guys, Laura, actually we told you, guys,
Speaker 1: she's been sick. She has been sick is an understatement.
Speaker 1: She has been deathly. She sent me a photo of
Speaker 1: herself and I almost sent an ambulance to the house.
Speaker 1: She sent me a photo in bed horizontal. Her face
Speaker 1: looks like she's been stung by a bee. No offense, Laura,
Speaker 1: but you were really really unwell. But can you testify that.
Speaker 2: Can I just say I think she looked great. I
Speaker 2: think she looked beautiful.
Speaker 1: He's trying to get late as soon as Laura gets better.
Speaker 2: So now it's been I reckon. It has been the
Speaker 2: week from hell. Laura has just been struck down with
Speaker 2: like the mother of all viruses. Since Monday last week,
Speaker 2: she's been super unwell, and it's kind of been this
Speaker 2: weird rollercoaster where one day she was feeling better and
Speaker 2: she was like, I think I'm getting over it, and
Speaker 2: then the next day she was back to being rock bottom.
Speaker 2: And then obviously we thought either me or Marley's going
Speaker 2: to get sick next, and then Marley got sick, and
Speaker 2: then she got conjunctivitis, and so you know, I'm just
Speaker 2: this absolute hero I am. I'm the rock of this family.
Speaker 2: Nothing is going to stop me from making sure that
Speaker 2: they're looked after, they're well fed. But I'm actually I'm
Speaker 2: quite fragile. Normally, normally the slightest change in temperature, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, hell, if.
Speaker 1: I'm struck down, is this I'm supposed to start calling
Speaker 1: you the whole.
Speaker 2: I'm quite weak. I'm a fragile I'm a fragile human
Speaker 2: being brit.
Speaker 1: I can testify to that. I also think you fragile, and.
Speaker 2: The last few months it's always Laura who is the
Speaker 2: one helping me, and I'm there in bed, you know,
Speaker 2: in the fetal position. And to the point where it
Speaker 2: was on the weekend where she was feeling really really sick,
Speaker 2: and then she took some antibiotics that were recommended by
Speaker 2: the GP. She took them, and then maybe an hour
Speaker 2: later I just heard that she was vomiting in the bathroom,
Speaker 2: just non stop, vomiting violently ill for half an hour.
Speaker 2: It was really really scary, and I called the midwife
Speaker 2: and I was thinking, Jesus, do we have to go
Speaker 2: to a hospital? You know, I can just imagine that
Speaker 2: for the baby. This is you know, a nightmare. So
Speaker 2: so it was pretty scary for a little while there.
Speaker 2: But I think now she is getting better, still not
Speaker 2: well enough to be on the podcast, so I think
Speaker 2: in the next few days she will be back. So
Speaker 2: this is this is one time only, so if you're listening,
Speaker 2: savor every second because I might not be back for
Speaker 2: a little while.
Speaker 1: I reckon you'll come back. But basically, what we've done, guys,
Speaker 1: the reason we've given you this short ask uncut today
Speaker 1: is because I don't trust Matt enough to have him
Speaker 1: on a full hour episode, so he was never going
Speaker 1: to fill in for the proper Tuesday ZEP. So we
Speaker 1: did a switcher Roonie. We got him in for some
Speaker 1: quick answers and Laura, we'll be back later in the
Speaker 1: week for the full episode on Thursday. The thing is, guys,
Speaker 1: we often get questions Laura and I, and we do
Speaker 1: run them by Matt anyway, because we do want a
Speaker 1: guy's perspective when we bring them to you. So this
Speaker 1: is actually brilliant. And some of the questions we picked today,
Speaker 1: I have purposely picked them because I want more of
Speaker 1: a male SKU, a male skw Yeah, and you were
Speaker 1: all I could find. So before we jump in, I
Speaker 1: just want to tell you a funny story that happened
Speaker 1: to me today. I went to a cavet this morning
Speaker 1: with my sister and in Bondie. Today, Guys, it was
Speaker 1: really windy, so we're sitting outside doing some work because
Speaker 1: we're trying to get outside of the house because it
Speaker 1: was just you know, you get stuck in this damp,
Speaker 1: dark house and you like, I need some man sitting
Speaker 1: down doing our work, and there's this really really hot
Speaker 1: guy at the table behind me in front of me,
Speaker 1: and I've been lying him off and I'm like, hot, damn,
Speaker 1: this guy's spicy. He's trying to make some eye contact
Speaker 1: and stuff, you know.
Speaker 2: Anything in return? Or was he playing hard to get I.
Speaker 1: Got a few, like some glances up and some like
Speaker 1: holding the eye contact for a few seconds, you know
Speaker 1: those ones quick.
Speaker 2: Question when you're trying to flirt. Is it just do
Speaker 2: you just want to lock eyes and give a little
Speaker 2: smirk or what are you trying to do there?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think the trick is to hold that eye
Speaker 1: contact for that little bit longer than you normally would
Speaker 1: if you caught someone's eye, normally you'd catch their iron
Speaker 1: look away.
Speaker 2: It's very creepy.
Speaker 1: You want me to show you now? Yeah, I do
Speaker 1: this ready.
Speaker 2: A little breathe out laugh.
Speaker 1: So I locked eyes and then I did a smirk
Speaker 1: and look away laugh. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Great, Although hasn't proved very successful, guys, so it wasn't working.
Speaker 1: So no, we're just I wasn't actually trying to get
Speaker 1: him to talk to me. I just clocked him. I
Speaker 1: was like clock clocked hoty twelve o'clock that was it.
Speaker 1: I knocked my bag over next to the table and
Speaker 1: some rubbish flies out, so I get up to run
Speaker 1: after it, because you don't want to let rubbish go
Speaker 1: down the street. And the rubbish stopped right next to
Speaker 1: him at the table.
Speaker 2: Perfect right, because then you can lock the eyes.
Speaker 1: Perfect except it was my empty tampon box. They got
Speaker 1: caught in the wind and blew down the road and purposely,
Speaker 1: like perfectly, landed next to his table. I was like,
Speaker 1: you are fucking kidding me. So I was like, pick
Speaker 1: that one ten box and I was like, that's it.
Speaker 1: I'm we may as well get divorced, like it's never
Speaker 1: going to go anywhere.
Speaker 2: What did he say?
Speaker 1: Nothing? He just got awkward and got flushed, and I
Speaker 1: was like, yep, I bleed out on my vagianta. That's
Speaker 1: what happens like every like every other I didn't say that, guys,
Speaker 1: that was my internal monologue. Scurried back to my table
Speaker 1: and that was it. Packed up, went home.
Speaker 2: Wow, So would you.
Speaker 1: With that? What would you think if that happened? Would
Speaker 1: that be like a little like or not that it
Speaker 1: should be a turn off? Guys? Obviously it's not, but
Speaker 1: it's pretty funny. That my tampon box. And you know what,
Speaker 1: it's obvious that the tampon box had been in there
Speaker 1: for a little bit because it was a bit crumbled.
Speaker 1: It wasn't even a cute so.
Speaker 2: It was a fresh one. It was an old tampon box.
Speaker 2: I reckon, I'd probably have a laugh and be like
Speaker 2: heavy flow, huh hey.
Speaker 1: You know what would have been better if he picked
Speaker 1: up the tampon box, wrote his number on and game
Speaker 1: of bat.
Speaker 2: Oh boom, opportunity lost.
Speaker 1: Anyway, that's the most eventful thing that has happened to me. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm going to jump into the questions and I'm going
Speaker 1: to go straight to the one that I think comes
Speaker 1: in most often from you guys, and it's on ghosting, Matt,
Speaker 1: Why do guys ghost? I felt like we had a
Speaker 1: few really great dates. It felt like we got along
Speaker 1: and it was going somewhere, and then all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: I just never hear from him again. Why the fuck
Speaker 1: do guys do this? And she yelled that she was angry,
Speaker 1: Why the fuck do guys do this? And do you
Speaker 1: want message for closure? And to ask why or do
Speaker 1: I accept that they've ghosted me?
Speaker 2: Look, it's a good question, and I think there are
Speaker 2: many different ways to look at this. But when you
Speaker 2: boil it down and you look at men as a whole,
Speaker 2: and obviously I'm very conscious here not to generalize, but
Speaker 2: at the same time, guys are cowards really amen when
Speaker 2: you look at it, we're also just very pathetic.
Speaker 1: I think as well, I'm so glad you're saying this
Speaker 1: and not me.
Speaker 2: Bless us, bless our cotton socks. We don't want to
Speaker 2: hurt people's feelings. Nobody wants to be the bad guy, right,
Speaker 2: which is okay for the most part, except sometimes you
Speaker 2: really do just need to be honest, and sometimes you
Speaker 2: need to deliver bad news to people even though you
Speaker 2: know it's going to hurt their feelings. But guys are
Speaker 2: just we're also very lazy.
Speaker 1: As well, So you think men just can't be fucked.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, when it comes down to it, I reckon
Speaker 2: that these days, ghosting happens more because because of the
Speaker 2: dating apps like Tender, like Bumbull, plenty of Fish, et cetera,
Speaker 2: et cetera. I think it's so easy now that if
Speaker 2: you have someone who you maybe don't have a great
Speaker 2: relationship with, or maybe you know it's a little bit
Speaker 2: harder to try and get that spark. You can just
Speaker 2: pick your phone up and find someone new, and it's
Speaker 2: so easy just to like discard that current person who
Speaker 2: you've seen for a week or two, throw them to
Speaker 2: the side, and just move on.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it's a little bit of a mix.
Speaker 1: I mean everyone's ghosted everyone. I don't do it anymore.
Speaker 1: I'm always upfront and I'll always just say hey, didn't
Speaker 1: feel it. But I had a conversation with my friend
Speaker 1: yesterday which was very similar to this. She is online
Speaker 1: dating and she I was asking her straight up and
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, so how's it going. She's like, all duds,
Speaker 1: all duds. And I said, okay, so how do you
Speaker 1: do you find that awkward when they want to see
Speaker 1: you again and you don't. And she's like, well, not really.
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, what do you say to them?
Speaker 2: She's oh, I just don't oh, and she ghosts.
Speaker 1: She ghosted them. And I said to her, you can't
Speaker 1: do that. She's like, I don't want it. She's like
Speaker 1: it's too hard. I don't know them, it's only been
Speaker 1: one or two dates. And I'm like, yeah, but imagine
Speaker 1: if that was you and they just weren't running back
Speaker 1: to you exactly.
Speaker 2: You need to think of it from both sides. You
Speaker 2: treat people how you like to be treated. And I
Speaker 2: think it's hard because if you haven't had sex with
Speaker 2: the person, do you even offer someone an explanation or
Speaker 2: you know, do you does it seem at a place
Speaker 2: if you step up and say, hey, look, Britt, I'm
Speaker 2: really sorry. I'm just not feeling things at the moment,
Speaker 2: and you're like, hey, buddy, relaxed, it's been two dates.
Speaker 1: No, I see. This is the other question. Do you
Speaker 1: have to have had sex or like some form of
Speaker 1: intimacy for it to validate an answer as to why
Speaker 1: they don't want to see you anymore? Well, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that. I go on first dates
Speaker 1: and if they write to me and say they want
Speaker 1: to see me again, I will always write back and
Speaker 1: say the true You.
Speaker 2: Have been ghosting guys in the past, though, years and
Speaker 2: years and years ago. Yeah, and you stopped. You're a
Speaker 2: non ghoster.
Speaker 1: I have been sober from ghosting for probably four or
Speaker 1: five years now.
Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, that's a long time.
Speaker 1: I just never felt better.
Speaker 2: Well, I think it comes with the maturity though as well,
Speaker 2: right now that you're a bit older.
Speaker 1: Thanks man.
Speaker 2: And you also you know what it feels like to
Speaker 2: be ghosted you now, I don't want to inflict that
Speaker 2: same pain on somebody else, because there's nothing more annoying
Speaker 2: when you're in a position and you think you've had
Speaker 2: a really good date, Like you walk away from that
Speaker 2: date going hey, I think I've really found someone special here,
Speaker 2: and then you message them, and you back and forth
Speaker 2: and you try and set up a date, and then
Speaker 2: it just all of a sudden fades out, and then
Speaker 2: you're there racking your brain going like, is it just me?
Speaker 2: They are they okay? Maybe maybe they missed the message?
Speaker 2: Do I message again? So people really need to have
Speaker 2: that closure.
Speaker 1: I think the best thing to do is just be honest.
Speaker 1: But the second part of her question is here, She's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: so fuck, he's ghosted me. But do I message and
Speaker 1: follow up? Do I ask why? Do I try and
Speaker 1: get an answer? Do I pretend like I don't know
Speaker 1: he's ghosted me and be like, hey, just checking in,
Speaker 1: like that message might not have gone through.
Speaker 2: I think as much as you would like some closure,
Speaker 2: because obviously that's going to allow you to move on
Speaker 2: and get over it. I do think it's just going
Speaker 2: to boil down to the the just there was nothing there.
Speaker 2: If he's ghosting you, he's that kind of person where
Speaker 2: he's not going to be really honest. He's going to
Speaker 2: avoid confrontation. So if you then reach out to him
Speaker 2: and say, hey, obviously it's not working out, can you
Speaker 2: please give me some reason for why it didn't work out,
Speaker 2: He's not gonna answer that in an honest way. I
Speaker 2: don't think he's just going to give you some fluff
Speaker 2: to try and just, you know, not offend you and
Speaker 2: let you down lightly.
Speaker 1: I agree ultimately, guys, it means that they're not interested.
Speaker 1: Whether it's the girl ghosting or the guy, they're not
Speaker 1: interested and they're not respectful enough to give you an answer.
Speaker 1: So I would never if someone ghost me, I will
Speaker 1: never chase it, never follow it up, and I will
Speaker 1: never write something angry like fuck you ghost to me,
Speaker 1: because it's a real What are you going to get
Speaker 1: from that? That's what you've got to think. What are
Speaker 1: you going to get from that? Even if they say
Speaker 1: to you, imagine if they were Imagine if he's what
Speaker 1: went wrong and they were really honest. They write back
Speaker 1: and say, I didn't like the way you spoke about this,
Speaker 1: I didn't like what you wore, I didn't like your hobbies.
Speaker 1: You were like, you're not going to go and change yourself,
Speaker 1: So why fucking no, Why have someone put you down
Speaker 1: like that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent, britt. And you know, it's funny.
Speaker 2: There's been so many cases where I've had mates of
Speaker 2: mine who have been ghosted before and they had the
Speaker 2: exact same question of hey, should you know I messaged
Speaker 2: her twice. Now I get the follow up message she
Speaker 2: didn't write back. Should I ask you know? What went wrong?
Speaker 2: I think it's interesting that both guys and girls get ghosted,
Speaker 2: you know, very often. It's so easy to think that
Speaker 2: it's just a male thing, but it's both parties.
Speaker 1: No again. And I had a conversation with a girlfriend.
Speaker 1: I was like, you can't do that anymore and I
Speaker 1: want you to try and be better, and she's like,
Speaker 1: I'm going to do it. She's like, I will from
Speaker 1: now on. Just say and this is my message, guys,
Speaker 1: this is what I say. Hey, I had a really
Speaker 1: great time with you too. To be honest, I just
Speaker 1: don't feel like there was anything more there, happy to
Speaker 1: be friends with you.
Speaker 2: Though perfect perfect, there are many signs that you become
Speaker 2: an adult when you get a mortgage, when you buy
Speaker 2: a car, and when you stop ghosting. Yeah, that's when
Speaker 2: you become an adult.
Speaker 1: Well, the next question, Matt is still on the ghosting train,
Speaker 1: but it's as a guy. And that's because what my
Speaker 1: friend was saying, She's like, I don't know what to
Speaker 1: say to let them down?
Speaker 2: Is it?
Speaker 1: She said? Do guys actually want to hear the truth?
Speaker 1: Or would a guy rather be ghosted? Because for women,
Speaker 1: we don't want to be ghosted. I would rather the truth,
Speaker 1: But is it the same for a guy, And what
Speaker 1: would you want to hear? What is the best response,
Speaker 1: Because all these girls out there, they get very awkward
Speaker 1: about how to let someone down. Because women don't want
Speaker 1: to hurt people's feelings, especially if the date's been great.
Speaker 1: They don't know what to say, so that's why they
Speaker 1: say nothing.
Speaker 2: I'm sure that everybody out there, both guys and girls,
Speaker 2: would rather have the other person be really honest as
Speaker 2: opposed to being ghosted, because it just it just means
Speaker 2: you can move on quicker and not still get hung
Speaker 2: up on that person. What could have been. I think
Speaker 2: in terms of being honest, as cliche as it is,
Speaker 2: I think just the answer of you know, I just
Speaker 2: didn't see it. There wasn't a spark there, because, like
Speaker 2: you said, you don't want to be really honest and
Speaker 2: be specific towards someone's personality or say I kind of
Speaker 2: thought you were a bit arrogant, really, because that's not
Speaker 2: going to do anything that's going to benefit that person.
Speaker 2: It's just going to make them feel more shit about themselves.
Speaker 1: If you go on two days and then you say,
Speaker 1: let's catch up again and the woman says to you, look,
Speaker 1: I've had a really great time in you, but I
Speaker 1: don't feel anything. They're happy to be friends though. It's
Speaker 1: not going to hurt your feelings, is it totally?
Speaker 2: Totally? Yeah, you're going to get a bruisee to ego,
Speaker 2: but then you'll move on so much quicker.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so there you go, guys. That's it. Just
Speaker 1: be honest. Next question, are you ready?
Speaker 2: Is this question two or three?
Speaker 1: Well, that was like a mix that was like two
Speaker 1: one point five because I mixed, I blended two into one.
Speaker 2: Is just quick, quicker, little time out. This is you're
Speaker 2: happy with? This is this. You're missing Laura.
Speaker 1: Oh I thought you were actually asking me off. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you're actually asking me. I am missing Laura, except
Speaker 1: she's in my line of view, so I can see
Speaker 1: her right now. This is fun, It's something different. I'm
Speaker 1: enjoying it.
Speaker 2: I'm having a good time.
Speaker 1: This is great you just compared to yours.
Speaker 2: We should do this again.
Speaker 1: Oh, look at that. He's really trying to sell himself. Guys,
Speaker 1: we might put a poll out and see if we
Speaker 1: want Matt.
Speaker 2: Ba't please don't. If you don't enjoy it, just ghost me.
Speaker 2: Don't give you the feedback.
Speaker 1: You just literally said. OK.
Speaker 2: When it comes to podcast, ghosting is a way to
Speaker 2: go all right.
Speaker 1: Next question, So I seem to have this problem where
Speaker 1: guys only see me as good mates good friends. I
Speaker 1: have always been the type of person who has naturally
Speaker 1: gotten along better with guys because I'm really down to
Speaker 1: earth and I cannot deal with bitchy girls. But that
Speaker 1: has seemed to follow me into the dating world. When
Speaker 1: I go on dates with guys and we see each
Speaker 1: other for a couple of weeks, it just turns into
Speaker 1: a really great friendship and nothing more. And I'm still
Speaker 1: great friends with all the guys that I have kind
Speaker 1: of dated. My only long term relationship was with my
Speaker 1: best friend, but the whole time we we never had
Speaker 1: sex because we were super closed, but not on a
Speaker 1: relationship level. Is there something I'm doing wrong when it
Speaker 1: comes to dating, because guys either only want to be
Speaker 1: fuck buddies, friends with benefits, or just friends. Help. Wow, Wow,
Speaker 1: so she's just constantly friend zoned? What's she doing?
Speaker 2: Do you think, Oh, that's a tricky one. That's a
Speaker 2: tricky one. And I've had I've had friends who have
Speaker 2: come to me with a similar situation, and I think
Speaker 2: of it as you are such a rare breed.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: The question the question from the listener, because I think
Speaker 2: the dream is to find someone who you're best friends with, right,
Speaker 2: someone who you have similar interests. Guys really want that,
Speaker 2: they want someone who is going to be their best mates,
Speaker 2: someone who they can have a relationship with that's more
Speaker 2: than just a sexual connection.
Speaker 1: But do you think the problem is and I totally
Speaker 1: agree with that. I think you want to marry your
Speaker 1: best friend and you want to be with your best friend,
Speaker 1: But do you think that that best friend should come
Speaker 1: down the track? Is this? Do you think that she's
Speaker 1: jumping into that too quickly, so they don't these guys
Speaker 1: aren't seeing the romance develop and that maybe that best
Speaker 1: friend part comes down the track. Because I also have
Speaker 1: friends that are like this. I've got a few friends
Speaker 1: that are constantly friend zoned. I'm actually friend zoned a
Speaker 1: lot too. Hurt my heart.
Speaker 2: But you call yourself a bit of a tomboy, don't you.
Speaker 1: No, I grew up as a tomboy one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: All my friends were guys. Every weekend was with a
Speaker 1: boy surfing question.
Speaker 2: If you meet someone who you're really vibing with, would
Speaker 2: you ever tone down those tomboy elements in your personality?
Speaker 2: Try and seem a bit more girly so you're not
Speaker 2: just seen as a mate.
Speaker 1: When I'm on a date, I'm very girly. I wear
Speaker 1: girly things. I'm just myself, but I'm probably a slightly
Speaker 1: watered down version of myself because we all know exactly
Speaker 1: what I'm like. Tring them in slowly, I don't let
Speaker 1: the laugh out Day one like that's the day two. Okay.
Speaker 1: I have two opinions here. I am of the opinion
Speaker 1: that you can have this beautiful friendship with someone for
Speaker 1: a long time and then realize that, oh my god,
Speaker 1: you're my human and I never knew it because all
Speaker 1: of a sudden you know each other inside out. And
Speaker 1: I think that that is wonderful. But I think that
Speaker 1: there can be an element sometimes when you go on
Speaker 1: a first date or a second date, if you jump
Speaker 1: in too soon and I think you're too much, you
Speaker 1: can definitely give off too many friend vibes straight up.
Speaker 2: Like if you're grabbing him in a headlock and giving
Speaker 2: him you know.
Speaker 1: If you're at the club with the boys and you're
Speaker 1: having your boys jokes and you're drinking your beers and
Speaker 1: you're talking about the football. All these things are fine,
Speaker 1: And I just want you to be hyper aware that
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, the guy's like, this is what
Speaker 1: I'm in He's thinking this is what I do with
Speaker 1: my friends every weekend, and now I'm doing this here
Speaker 1: with you, and he might subconsciously be like, cool, she's
Speaker 1: gonna be cool to hang out with us, and they
Speaker 1: lose that romantic touch. I think you've got to sort
Speaker 1: of build to that sometimes. And I don't mean hide
Speaker 1: who you are. I just mean let there be that
Speaker 1: This is different to the boys. This is beautiful women.
Speaker 1: I'm on a really nice dinner date with like what
Speaker 1: guys go out and have romantic dinner dates with it
Speaker 1: each other? You know, they go to the pub and
Speaker 1: they drink.
Speaker 2: Me and my mates would go out for like a
Speaker 2: beautiful love to dinner, candle live, beautiful view of the harbor.
Speaker 1: I actually I actually get one. But do you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I think you can jump in too
Speaker 1: quickly sometimes to be one of the boys.
Speaker 2: Initially, when you started saying that, I was like, what,
Speaker 2: I disagree, brit because I think, you know, you should
Speaker 2: just be yourself. You know, there's nothing wrong with you.
Speaker 2: Shouldn't you shouldn't have to water down your personality to
Speaker 2: try and make yourself seem more appealing to the other person.
Speaker 2: I do think you need to have some separation between
Speaker 2: being someone who's going to be categorized as a friend
Speaker 2: versus being someone who you're going to form a romantic
Speaker 2: connection with. And I think you know, like, especially in
Speaker 2: the early stages of dating someone, you know, you do
Speaker 2: want to be a bit more flirty as opposed to
Speaker 2: being more more matey. And I think, especially you know,
Speaker 2: when other person's trying to figure out like, what is this?
Speaker 2: Is there a spark? There is there not for that
Speaker 2: spark to develop quicker? I think, yeah, you may, maybe
Speaker 2: you do have to be more flirty.
Speaker 1: There is also the chance, guys, just got to throw
Speaker 1: this out there, that you just haven't met the one
Speaker 1: yet and that's why you're not in a relationship. Same
Speaker 1: reason I've been single so long. Well, I think it's
Speaker 1: the reason I've been single for so long because I
Speaker 1: just haven't met my person yet. And that is why
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 2: And I think it's credit to this girl who's put
Speaker 2: the question in that she's obviously an absolute legend, and
Speaker 2: normally when you don't have a spark with someone and
Speaker 2: you've gone on a date, you would just move on
Speaker 2: and not see that person again. Because she's such a legend,
Speaker 2: They're like, hey, let's well, you know, we don't have
Speaker 2: a romantic connection, but let's be friends.
Speaker 1: Also, just so you guys know, because I think there'll
Speaker 1: be a lot of people that listen to this, being like,
Speaker 1: I feel the same thing. That's exactly me. I feel
Speaker 1: that incomplete transparency, Matt, how many times have I come
Speaker 1: over here to you and Laura and been really down
Speaker 1: and said what's wrong with me?
Speaker 2: Twice a day for the last three months.
Speaker 1: But really, sometimes you get so defeated because you do
Speaker 1: get in that mindset where you're like, Wow, what's wrong
Speaker 1: with me? What's wrong with me? Something's wrong with me?
Speaker 1: Because everyone wants to be my friend. Everyone says I'm great,
Speaker 1: but no one wants to actually have this relationship. But
Speaker 1: and you're you guys are always saying to me, you know,
Speaker 1: it's not that there's nothing wrong with you, it's just
Speaker 1: that you haven't met the one so and you should
Speaker 1: never change for anyone. I don't want this girl to
Speaker 1: be like, oh, well I need to hide who I
Speaker 1: am for six months in a relationship. That's absolutely not
Speaker 1: Whatwa's saying. And no one should ever do that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. You know, I think about Laura and my relationship,
Speaker 2: and in the early days, you know, we were definitely
Speaker 2: ourselves in front of each other, but you know, there
Speaker 2: were certain things that we didn't do because we were
Speaker 2: really trying to impress the other person. Like if Laura
Speaker 2: farted back in the day as much as she did now,
Speaker 2: I don't think we would have ended up together.
Speaker 1: And like Laura wasn't letting it rip day one was she.
Speaker 2: She definitely didn't, and thank goodness that she held back.
Speaker 1: All Right, that's enough.
Speaker 2: It's like a champion bridge, it really does.
Speaker 1: I know that. But I wouldn't throw on ato the
Speaker 1: buse like you.
Speaker 2: Do every every day.
Speaker 1: It's all right, let's go on to the big question. Hey, ladies,
Speaker 1: slash Matt, I would really appreciate your advice.
Speaker 2: How did that person know that I was going to
Speaker 2: fill in? I'm just improving my sorry, continue continue break good,
Speaker 2: good improv I'm.
Speaker 1: Good on my toes. So I've been with my boyfriend
Speaker 1: for eight months now, and we have a beautiful relationship.
Speaker 1: He's caring, loving, and emotionally mature. Well that is rare. However,
Speaker 1: I've recently been getting the feeling that he and my
Speaker 1: housemates slash friend are kind of into each other. It's
Speaker 1: great that they get along so well, but I've been
Speaker 1: noticing a bit of a flirty vibe, for example, lots
Speaker 1: of eye contact, my housemate getting close to him, or
Speaker 1: feeling like they're trying to impress each other. Now, I
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm just reading into things and they're
Speaker 1: just friends. My boyfriend has said on multiple occasions that
Speaker 1: he loves that they're all real friends now, but it's
Speaker 1: been making me feel quite uncomfortable. Do you think my
Speaker 1: insecurities are getting the better of me and I'm just
Speaker 1: overthinking this? Or is there actually something more there that
Speaker 1: I should be worried about? Do I bring it up
Speaker 1: with him or her? Please help?
Speaker 2: It's hard to answer this one without knowing exactly what
Speaker 2: is happening, you know, if I would love to know
Speaker 2: if it is just a cheeky little eye and like
Speaker 2: a little shoulder tap here and there, or if it's
Speaker 2: something a little bit more sinister. But I'm gonna I'll
Speaker 2: interpret this one and think it's exactly as she stated
Speaker 2: in her question. I think she is being a little
Speaker 2: bit insecure here. I think she is letting it get
Speaker 2: the better of her. And I think what she's got
Speaker 2: is something that's quite rare, And I think it is
Speaker 2: really hard to find someone a partner who gets along
Speaker 2: with your friends really well, and that's what she's got.
Speaker 2: Like this is she's got what so many people want
Speaker 2: and the fact that they can all get get along together.
Speaker 2: She should really try and embrace that. Although I think
Speaker 2: if it is giving her issues at the moment, she
Speaker 2: does need to raise that because what you don't want
Speaker 2: to have happen is that frustration with the potential flirting
Speaker 2: with her housemate that could so easily eat away at
Speaker 2: her inside. And if something else happens outside of flirting,
Speaker 2: like let's say he's done something wrong, it will be
Speaker 2: so easy for that frustration to then be vented through
Speaker 2: other things, and then he'll be going, well, why is
Speaker 2: she so annoyed? And I did such a tiny little
Speaker 2: thing wrong and all of a sudden, she's blowing it
Speaker 2: way out of proportion. He doesn't realize that behind the scenes,
Speaker 2: there's this internal frustration insecurity that's been eating away at her.
Speaker 2: So I think I think the most important thing here
Speaker 2: is is making sure that you have strong communication with
Speaker 2: your partner. So I think she does need to sit
Speaker 2: down and talk to him and not do it in
Speaker 2: a way where she's blaming him and putting it on him,
Speaker 2: because because really maybe he's not doing anything wrong, So
Speaker 2: she can't do it in a way which is attacking
Speaker 2: towards her partner. Otherwise he's just gonna arc up and
Speaker 2: it'll turn into a huge argument. I think she needs
Speaker 2: to be honest and say, hey, sometimes I'm feeling a
Speaker 2: little bit insecure about how you're acting with you know
Speaker 2: so and so. So by having that conversation with him,
Speaker 2: by bringing it out into the open, she's really allowing
Speaker 2: him to put her mind at ease.
Speaker 1: I have a few feels here again, Like Matt said,
Speaker 1: it's really hard for us to give really honest advice
Speaker 1: when we don't know the extent of the flirting and
Speaker 1: the situation. And she said they get close. What is close?
Speaker 1: Is she massaging his neck? Is she touching him and
Speaker 1: she's talking?
Speaker 2: Is massaging of the neck? Is that wrong?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, it is.
Speaker 1: It is wrong, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, now you are holding back. I was like, no,
Speaker 2: come on, and your partner's massaging your No, that's.
Speaker 1: What I was trying to picture me, massage in your neck.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, yes, that's wrong. I was like, you
Speaker 1: just wouldn't do it. So what's the closeness? Is it
Speaker 1: like a hit on the shoulder when you've made a
Speaker 1: funny joke or you're laughing at him. Is it like
Speaker 1: that they just sitting next to each other and the
Speaker 1: couch too closed, or are they touching and massaging each
Speaker 1: other's neck like what is closeness and otherwise the only
Speaker 1: other thing you've really said is eye contact. I hope
Speaker 1: they're having eye contact.
Speaker 2: Surely right because they're getting along, they're friends. Eye contact
Speaker 2: doesn't justify either one of them pushing past that line
Speaker 2: of that, you know, the boundary of friendship.
Speaker 1: What more would you want than your friends to get
Speaker 1: along with your partner. It's like everybody's dream. No one
Speaker 1: wants their friends to hate their partner and their partner
Speaker 1: to hate their friends, and there's always an awkwardness. So
Speaker 1: first up, it sounds like you've got a pretty good situation. Secondly,
Speaker 1: you've been with him for eight months now. I hope
Speaker 1: by this point you're at a point where you either
Speaker 1: trust him or you don't. That's what I would like
Speaker 1: to think. I would be out after eight months of
Speaker 1: a relationship. I'd like to know that I'm comfortable in
Speaker 1: my relationship, that I trust my partner. So that's a
Speaker 1: little bit of like a red flag for me, the
Speaker 1: fact that you're unsure. Another point is this is your
Speaker 1: friend and your housemate. I feel like you two should
Speaker 1: have a relationship where you know that you can trust
Speaker 1: your friend. Like seep down, you really think that your
Speaker 1: friend and your partner have something going on. That's one
Speaker 1: hundred percent of flag that you need to sit down
Speaker 1: and have a conversation, because if you are feeling like that,
Speaker 1: even if they're not doing something wrong, there's something that
Speaker 1: needs to be spoken about because there's an insecurity and
Speaker 1: an unsettling feeling festering within you, and if you let
Speaker 1: that fester, like you said, Matt, you're going to implode.
Speaker 1: Everything that wouldn't have normally been an issue is going
Speaker 1: to become an issue. So I think probably nothing is
Speaker 1: going on. I think you're just at a point where
Speaker 1: you're still a little bit nervous about the relationship and
Speaker 1: maybe not completely comfortable with him yet. So sit down
Speaker 1: and have the conversation, and also don't accuse him of anything.
Speaker 1: Be like, babe, tell me I'm crazy, But do you
Speaker 1: ever feel like, I don't know, is Sarah flirting with
Speaker 1: you sometimes? Or am I not you? You could say
Speaker 1: it like that and he's going to be like, babe, ye, don't.
Speaker 2: Be ridiculous, there's nothing there.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And then, because what you want to avoid is it
Speaker 2: worst case scenario here would be having a fight with
Speaker 2: your housemate and making your environment at home, be one
Speaker 2: that you don't want to live in anymore, or then
Speaker 2: you know, potentially having an argument with your boyfriend and
Speaker 2: pushing him away. You know you don't want it to
Speaker 2: be awkward for him to come to your place, because
Speaker 2: I think you really need to jump on this really
Speaker 2: quickly before it grows into being an thing more severe.
Speaker 1: The other thing is, well, I think this happens to
Speaker 1: me a lot too, because obviously, as I'm single, all
Speaker 1: of my friends are in relationships. A lot of them
Speaker 1: are married, engaged kids. I find myself often in these
Speaker 1: weird friendships. So it's not that I'm not I don't
Speaker 1: mean it's weird, but all my friends are couples now.
Speaker 1: None none of those friends would ever ever question whether
Speaker 1: something was going on with me and their partner. I
Speaker 1: hang out with you guys all the time. I would
Speaker 1: text Matt like I text Matt today about today. I
Speaker 1: don't tell Laura, I don't message Laura and say I'm
Speaker 1: just text Matt about this. So we can have a
Speaker 1: relationship like that, because as friendship is, trust ultimately comes
Speaker 1: down to trust. We all trust each other. Everyone in
Speaker 1: my life trusts each other. Otherwise there's no point the
Speaker 1: friendship's not going to happen. The relationship is not going
Speaker 1: to happen. It's going to be disaster totally.
Speaker 2: So at the end of the day, the person who
Speaker 2: submitted this question, they really need to figure out if
Speaker 2: this this thought, this fear that she's having at the
Speaker 2: moment with her partner and housemate, is that coming from
Speaker 2: a deep sea insecurity that's maybe coming from a previous relationship,
Speaker 2: or is her partner or housemate actually doing the wrong thing?
Speaker 2: And by the sounds of it, I don't think either
Speaker 2: one of them has crossed the line.
Speaker 1: Radio Matt, We're going to throw in one extra question
Speaker 1: just because we've got you as such a special guess
Speaker 1: and we really want to utilize your wisdom.
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Speaker 2: I used to have abs before I was a dad.
Speaker 1: Heykay, I have a dilemma for ask guncut Radio Guys.
Speaker 1: I've been with my boyfriend for a year before we
Speaker 1: became official. We were fuck buddies for about six months.
Speaker 1: We got into the relationship mainly because it just seems
Speaker 1: like the next thing to do, even though neither of
Speaker 1: us really wanted it. He is the best guy and
Speaker 1: I absolutely adore him. However, I go through these periods
Speaker 1: where I doubt if I want to be in a relationship,
Speaker 1: as I'm only twenty years old and we kind of
Speaker 1: have always just been in a relationship. I have this
Speaker 1: restless feeling like I want to be by myself. My
Speaker 1: question is is this a situation of the grass is greener?
Speaker 1: Or is this doubting a sign that he's just not
Speaker 1: for me? Oh? Ps. We broke up for six weeks
Speaker 1: mid year. We got back together because I asked him
Speaker 1: over when I was drunk, and we've been back to
Speaker 1: normal ever since.
Speaker 2: Please out the old drunk text. Come over. It'll get you.
Speaker 1: It does get your gets everyone.
Speaker 2: Look how old is she she is?
Speaker 1: She's only twenty, she's twenty.
Speaker 2: She's very young, Yes, very But I think when you're
Speaker 2: young you sometimes don't appreciate how good you have it.
Speaker 2: Like I think, I think back to twenty year old Matt,
Speaker 2: and I was an idiot. But it's an idiot. I
Speaker 2: had no idea what was going on.
Speaker 1: Yes, but I don't know who you were with when
Speaker 1: you were twenty. Maybe you had a good but imagine
Speaker 1: if you were still with them now.
Speaker 2: When I was younger, I knew that I wasn't in love.
Speaker 2: But it sounds like she's got this guy who they
Speaker 2: get along with really well. She adores him. He's amazing,
Speaker 2: he's a great guy. So I think there is a
Speaker 2: tendency when you're young to want to always try and
Speaker 2: find someone better the grass is greener, Like I think
Speaker 2: everyone's trying to find that perfect partner when I don't
Speaker 2: think they exist.
Speaker 1: All right, I controversially, I'm going to disagree with you,
Speaker 1: not disagree with you, but I'm coming in with a
Speaker 1: different opinion. I agree with you, Dad.
Speaker 2: You could argue that having a different opinion is disagreeing.
Speaker 1: No, because I agree with what you're saying to a
Speaker 1: sense I do because I remember being like that. I
Speaker 1: remember I was in a relationship for eight years from sixteen.
Speaker 1: I remember hitting that age and having those feelings. Is
Speaker 1: this it is this me the rest of my life?
Speaker 1: Am I really never going to experience anyone else, any
Speaker 1: other flirting, dating, one night stands? Am I just going
Speaker 1: to be with this person? And he was amazing? But
Speaker 1: I had those feelings. I did stay for a few
Speaker 1: more years because I buried those feelings and thought, no,
Speaker 1: I do have a great partner. I do adore him.
Speaker 1: I will never find someone that loves me as much,
Speaker 1: so I stayed. The thing is, you are only twenty.
Speaker 1: You haven't probably had another serious relationship, and I don't
Speaker 1: think within one year. So I had those thoughts after
Speaker 1: four to five years. I don't think after one year
Speaker 1: you should be having these doubts about your partner. I
Speaker 1: think that's still like a honeymoon phase, especially when you're young.
Speaker 1: I think you should be obsessed with your partner and
Speaker 1: you still want to spend all your time with them.
Speaker 1: They broke up after six months. They only got back
Speaker 1: together because she booty called him. I reckon, if you
Speaker 1: are actually having all these doubts, I think you probably
Speaker 1: need to go and explore them. This isn't you having
Speaker 1: doubts when you're thirty five, married with kids and you're like, eh,
Speaker 1: this is like you're twenty years old. You've broken up
Speaker 1: with him already. My advice would be, don't rush out
Speaker 1: and end it, but really you need to sit within yourself.
Speaker 1: You don't need to have the conversation with him yet.
Speaker 1: You need to sit in yourself and say, why am
Speaker 1: I having these doubts?
Speaker 2: What is it?
Speaker 1: Is it because I just want to have sex with
Speaker 1: someone else, or is it because he and I fight
Speaker 1: all the time? What is the reason that's pushing you
Speaker 1: in that direction?
Speaker 2: Okay, totally, because I think when she talks about saying
Speaker 2: she wants to just be by herself, you know, is
Speaker 2: that her saying that, well, I really just want to
Speaker 2: know see other guys or is it a case of
Speaker 2: I really want to go traveling and I can't go
Speaker 2: traveling because I've got my partner. He doesn't want to travel,
Speaker 2: so he's really holding me back from doing the things
Speaker 2: that I really want to do. I think sometimes when
Speaker 2: you're younger, you do see a relationship as being you know,
Speaker 2: almost like the shackles.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: It's like I think growing up in BONDI I remember summer,
Speaker 2: everybody would be like, well, you don't want a relationship
Speaker 2: for summer, because you know, that's when you want to
Speaker 2: that's when you want to have fun.
Speaker 1: The girls are like, oh, I'm so glad I get
Speaker 1: to have a summer love. Guys are like, don't be
Speaker 1: relationship because I want to fuck around.
Speaker 2: And then it comes to winter and everyone's like, well,
Speaker 2: got to find a partner now exactly shack up for winter. Look,
Speaker 2: I think it totally depends on what her motivation is
Speaker 2: for wanting to be single. Is it because she just
Speaker 2: wants to be free and footloose, or is it because
Speaker 2: he's really holding it back from doing things that are
Speaker 2: going to allow her to grow as a person.
Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent. All I can really suggest you're
Speaker 1: doing this is figure out the reason on your own.
Speaker 1: Is it because you actually just want to go and
Speaker 1: date and experience other people, or is it because you
Speaker 1: just fight NonStop? He annoys you all day, You don't
Speaker 1: agree with anything he says, and you're together just because
Speaker 1: it felt like what you should do because you did
Speaker 1: say that. You did say, ah, it felt like the
Speaker 1: next thing we should do, Which is which brings me
Speaker 1: to a point that I feel very passionate about society
Speaker 1: putting this on this path of oh, this is what
Speaker 1: I should do next. Society says, we've been seeing each
Speaker 1: other six months, now, we better be in a relationship.
Speaker 1: We've been together for four years now, we better get engaged.
Speaker 1: And I think this is actually, ironically a really good
Speaker 1: time in because this is the episode that Laura and
Speaker 1: I are going to be talking about this week, and
Speaker 1: that is society's pressures timelines why we feel the need
Speaker 1: to do things a certain way because society says we
Speaker 1: need to own the house by thirty, and society says
Speaker 1: we need to be married, we need to be in
Speaker 1: this relationship, we need to have a baby after we
Speaker 1: get married. So I think that this girl's in this
Speaker 1: place of feeling like, oh, well, I've been within six months.
Speaker 1: I better just go and get on with this timeline.
Speaker 2: I can. I ask you a question. When you were younger,
Speaker 2: did you think that you were sometimes in love and
Speaker 2: then in hindsight, you look back and you realize that
Speaker 2: you weren't actually in love.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, absolutely all the time. But you don't
Speaker 1: know that until you experienced another relationship, and then you're like,
Speaker 1: this is how it should be. This is love, this
Speaker 1: is how I should be treated. I think all these
Speaker 1: things come with experience. It's like anything in life. How
Speaker 1: do you know unless you've got anything to compare it to.
Speaker 2: It's like when I fell in love with Laura, I
Speaker 2: then thought to myself, all this this is what love is.
Speaker 2: This is what I've been searching for for so long.
Speaker 1: Bless your soul.
Speaker 2: If only I had met Laura when I was a younger.
Speaker 1: Guy, if you've met when you were younger, one hundred pcent,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't be together now. You would have fucked it
Speaker 1: and you had been too nice. Laura liked bad guys
Speaker 1: with red.
Speaker 2: I would have been too sweet, innocent and fragile to
Speaker 2: be You.
Speaker 1: Would have fucked your over in summer. Anyway, you just admitted.
Speaker 2: That we offer. Laura and I often often asked the
Speaker 2: question to each other, like, would we have fallen in
Speaker 2: love if we met each other when we were in
Speaker 2: our early twenties.
Speaker 1: Well, Laura always tells me no, She goes await Matt,
Speaker 1: and I never would have worked it by man in
Speaker 1: before the bag. What does she tell you?
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, not as blunt as that.
Speaker 1: Well, guys, that's it. Thanks so much for coming in
Speaker 1: and feeling in for Laura. How do you feel that
Speaker 1: when I.
Speaker 2: Don't want to sound arrogant, but I think that was perfect.
Speaker 2: I think, you know, I think Laura's Laura's a strong
Speaker 2: nine maybe on a good day, nine out of a half
Speaker 2: out of ten. And you know I think, and I'm
Speaker 2: sure I'm not alone here that that was a ten
Speaker 2: out of ten effort.
Speaker 1: Guys.
Speaker 2: I hope you was it as good for you as
Speaker 2: it was for me.
Speaker 1: I can't tell you that while Laura's here.
Speaker 2: What one wing for yes, two wings for no? Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I enjoyed.
Speaker 2: It was good fun. Thank you everyone for letting me
Speaker 2: join you for one episode.
Speaker 1: Dr Matt.
Speaker 2: Laura will be back. It's only for one episode, so
Speaker 2: don't panic. Also, can I can I just say if
Speaker 2: you were a fan, maybe leave a review maybe in
Speaker 2: the Facebook group pash my ego?
Speaker 1: Are you talking about Live on cutz Facebook group?
Speaker 2: Or hang on? That's what I thought, Laura said. Laura said,
Speaker 2: I can give another plug in here, but I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna take it. It's, you know, the fact that I
Speaker 2: do another podcast called The babbyl You know, I could
Speaker 2: promote it, but I'm not going to be that desperate.
Speaker 2: You know, guys, every Thursday, every Monday, Britt. You can
Speaker 2: listen to it if.
Speaker 1: You want, Guys.
Speaker 2: It's a great pop culture book cut podcast interviews with
Speaker 2: some really amazing guests.
Speaker 1: Guys, if you did love that and you do feel
Speaker 1: like you want to give man a listen. He does
Speaker 1: have his podcast The Babble. Here you go, mad, there's
Speaker 1: your plus. I have been on it. Go listen to
Speaker 1: that episode I did. I forgot for a minute I
Speaker 1: had done it.
Speaker 2: Can I just say that was our best rating episode ever, Britt.
Speaker 1: Guys, thank you so much for listening. Don't forget. We've
Speaker 1: got our Facebook discussion group. There are so many good
Speaker 1: chats going on in there, so jump on in and
Speaker 1: you can ask any questions you want in there. There's
Speaker 1: absolutely no way we can get to all of your
Speaker 1: questions on here. We do read them all physically, we
Speaker 1: cannot answer them, so if you don't want to be anonymous,
Speaker 1: throw them in the group. Everyone is so amazing at
Speaker 1: supporting and giving their answers, and there are some guys
Speaker 1: on there that give their opinions too. Matt, you need
Speaker 1: to give your opinion more.
Speaker 2: Oh, I will be there. I promise I'll stop being
Speaker 2: anonymous and just reading them and not writing anything. I
Speaker 2: will now respond to those questions in the Facebook group.
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