WEBVTT - I Love Not Wearing Undies *Redacted* 😝 0:00:00.880 --> 0:00:04.480 Flex and Frooms Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:10.080 and Frooms catch up podcast. Oh my god, guys. On Monday, 0:00:10.160 --> 0:00:13.040 we have an announcement that you must tune into. This 0:00:13.119 --> 0:00:15.319 is very important for all the stakeholders involved with the 0:00:15.400 --> 0:00:20.119 lexin rooms alectually mark my words, guys. Also today we 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:24.400 chatted about how creative you are. Flexi has some wisdom 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:26.920 and some like new categories that she didn't come up with, 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:29.520 but she references if you want to try and figure 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:32.240 out where you are in your creative spectrum and also 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:33.960 are we smarter than a twelfth grader? We're going to 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:37.640 do a test from the BISMAN exam. Neither rustied business management. 0:00:38.200 --> 0:00:40.479 Bit of a regret they're doing theater studies, but it 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:45.560 is what it is. Let's go frumno through me, boommmy 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:51.440 lex Mom. You're listening to Flex and Frooms. I'm Kaita. 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:54.000 A friend of mine recently got into Pilate's right. She 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:57.480 started wearing lenkings to the gym and she asked me, what, honey, 0:00:57.520 --> 0:00:59.400 so I wear on the leggings And for her, I 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:01.120 want to give her a bit of a step by 0:01:01.200 --> 0:01:05.800 zep on what undies are appropriate in every phase of life. 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:07.200 I'm confused at the question. 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:10.399 She's like, what, honeyes I wear under leggings that you're 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:13.559 not going to see because she's like, I'm walking around 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:16.399 Bondi to Bronti and I see no undilines on the leggings. 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:19.399 What's everon wearing? Are they not wearing undies? Okay, to 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:23.960 which I say, a little cotton in a moment, seamless underwear. 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:26.800 They're praying at the sides, and yet they look fantastic. Okay, 0:01:27.040 --> 0:01:29.840 this is my guide to when and when not to 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:36.959 wear underwear. Oh, under a skirt, no undies, under baggy 0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:41.560 cargo pants? What kind of skirt? Any skirt? I love 0:01:41.640 --> 0:01:47.559 Not wearing undies number two cargo pants with a wide leg. 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:48.600 No undies. 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:54.280 You're putting polyester straight on coach, is it not? Let 0:01:54.320 --> 0:01:56.559 me not judge. It's not the Hygiene Olympics, but. 0:01:56.560 --> 0:01:58.280 Better than having polyester right up on the goop. 0:01:58.360 --> 0:02:00.000 Why are you wearing polyester underwear? 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:04.880 Well, because it looks good. Okay, Definitely wear undys to bed, 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:09.399 the tight ones the boy leg. I want to eat 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:12.560 in bed, stuck it all in. I like to feel 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:16.160 secure in bed. Anyone know wering undis to bed. What 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:19.200 is happening under there? It all feels like it's moving. 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:24.800 I don't want to get graphic, guys, but like I 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:30.120 like them to. You know, Okay, what do you think 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:33.680 undies are fall While they have all different purposes? 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:35.239 What is the function of underwear? 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:37.720 That is the question that's as old as time itself. 0:02:38.280 --> 0:02:40.880 For me, the function of underwear is to feel safe, 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:44.080 and to make the cuchie not rub on the jeans, 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:47.840 and to make sure when you're wearing shorts the short 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:51.799 scene doesn't ride up from front to back a a 0:02:51.800 --> 0:02:56.520 little padding. Undeas are to be taken off. There's so 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:59.800 many good things about undies. I love the feeling of 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:00.880 not having undies on. 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:03.160 I told my mum. 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:05.720 She's like, what what do you mean? You don't undy? 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:06.560 She was disgusted. 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:08.919 What about you? This is freaky. 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:10.760 I'm wearing undies right now. 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:14.519 Everybody, every like, everybody get in the rome is freaking out. 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:15.960 This is all joke. 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:19.000 This is all joke, guys. 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:21.840 Okay, if you're gonna stand around and say that freeballing 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:23.280 isn't amazing, you're a liar. 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:24.080 Free balling. 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:28.880 Free balling? Yeah, why can't I freeball? Hate wedgies? You 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:30.680 know I used to get wedgie in primary school. Okay, 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:32.960 so there's a bit of residual trauma there. My sister 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:34.800 used to rip my undy so hard that they would 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:39.200 rip in my asshole. The band would rip off, the bonds, 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:43.960 band would rip apart. Once my sister drew two eyes 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:47.480 above my bum crack and a smile, right, and then 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:49.440 went to school the next day and. 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:51.000 I was wearing low rise jeans. 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:55.480 I didn't realize everyone could see their eyes. It was 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:56.360 two thousand and four. 0:03:57.080 --> 0:04:01.920 I was like, what's on your back? What? Oh my god, 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:03.400 too little us. 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:09.440 If you are someone who identifies as creative or prefers 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:11.600 not to for fear that someone will try and make 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:14.680 you calculate how creative you are, or measure you against 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:17.680 your best creative friend, or compare you against the virtuo. 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:20.320 So this is for you. It's really hard to be 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:23.600 self aware about your creative abilities. But here's something that 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:26.599 can help you get back on track. Maybe it's from 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:29.320 this book called one hundred and seventy seven Mental Toughness 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:30.000 Secrets of. 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:31.080 The World Class. 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:34.160 It's about the thought processes, the habits and philosophies of 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:39.279 the greatest ones. It's by Steve Sebold Sie Bold. But 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:42.360 this is also reference on a TikTok by Couture and steal. 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:47.320 So basically there are five tiers of creativity, kind of 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:50.080 like the food pyramid, how you've got the most populated 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:51.720 at the bottom, and then at the very tip it's 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:55.640 the least populated. So the most populated people would be 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:58.360 those who are creating not to lose. The people who 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:01.680 feel as though if they start, they'll fail because they 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:04.840 won't be exceptional straight away. The kind of people who'll say, 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:07.440 you know, I'm not good enough, I'll start tomorrow, or 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:10.520 has so many potentially great ideas but just doesn't execute 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:11.960 on them. So they're kind of just like I think, 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:13.480 it's a lot of people who are like, you know what, 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:16.479 I could in a different life, or I could, but 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:19.359 I couldn't make that tea took one hundred percent one 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:21.920 hundred percent okay, and then the next up. So the 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:25.520 second least populated is people who are creating to cruise. 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:29.080 And I felt like this Sometimes it's when you get 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:33.480 kind of like inconsistent with your output. You start something, 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:35.680 you don't get the validation you're hoping for, and so 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:37.320 it makes you question whether or not you want to 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:40.680 continue doing it, and so other ideas I've just pushed through. 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:42.520 Like I remember when I first made up my conversation 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:45.719 card games like twenty nineteen, and like the only reason 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:48.200 why I popped off immediately is because for the two 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:50.560 years prior, I'd been playing the game every day on 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:52.920 Instagram before I even realized it was going to be 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:53.440 a game. 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:56.400 Interesting, So it was like, oh, that's I was. 0:05:56.960 --> 0:05:59.040 I was doing it. I didn't realize. 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:00.680 And so when I have new ideas that I want 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:03.559 to execute, sometimes I'm like, babes, it takes a minute 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:05.240 for things to really hit, you know what I mean. 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:07.840 And then the next tier is people who are creating 0:06:07.880 --> 0:06:11.520 to improve. These are inspired people who maybe have like 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:13.960 a belief altering event. You listen to an album that 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.000 really changes your life, like, no, I'm going to do 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:18.320 it today. I'm going to make something. Or you read 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:20.320 a really amazing book You're like, you know what, that's it. 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:22.000 I'm going to write this book. I'm going to do 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:25.000 this thing. You feel empowered based on something else that 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:28.640 you've consumed. And this is people in this kind of 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:30.560 phase of creativity get a lot of support and a 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:33.200 lot of traction, and that motivates them to keep on continuing. 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:35.600 So it's like when we get really good feedback for 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:37.159 the show, like damn, like we. 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:38.960 Really do do that, Let's keep going. 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:42.720 Then you have the two tiers, which I just feel 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:46.840 like these are exceptional people, and I think most of 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.000 us are hoping to get to this peak eventually. 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:51.120 So you got people who are creating to complete. 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:55.240 And these are just the creative geniuses, big ego type 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:58.280 people that think they can be the best. They're really 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:03.599 motivated by gratification. They've got positive self talk. You see 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:06.120 those people who are always cooking. I don't know about you, 0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:08.520 but I've seen some people on the internet where I'm like, damn, 0:07:08.920 --> 0:07:10.040 you just don't let up. 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:11.440 Every day you. 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:13.880 Are making the thing that you are inspired by. You're 0:07:13.920 --> 0:07:17.480 putting in the work. You're really inspired. And it's almost 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:18.680 as if like they don't really care if they have 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:19.239 an audience. 0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:20.440 They just know that they're good. 0:07:20.560 --> 0:07:22.000 They just know it interesting. 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:24.680 And then you have the very top tier of creativity, 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:28.600 the most like peak God Tear, and those are people 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:33.440 creating to express. So if the bottom tier is people 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:38.240 creating not to lose, these people are creating to express, 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:41.119 so they become art in themselves. They believe they can't fail, 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:44.040 they can only learn, they can only grow, They're only 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:46.360 competing with themselves, and they've got complete faith in their 0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:49.120 self image. For me, for you personally, in where you 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:51.520 are in your life at this very present moment, what's 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:53.400 your relationship to creativity? Do you feel like you're a 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:56.240 creative person? How does that work for you? Beautiful? 0:07:56.400 --> 0:07:58.880 Well, right now I'm creating artwork on the back of 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:01.720 our sheets. If you hear little scribbling noises throughout our 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:04.320 recordings is because I literally am incapable of not drawing 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:07.720 when we're here. I've done a whole bunch of overlapping 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:10.920 hearts and that really good drawing now and like drawing 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:12.680 the bits. Yeah, thanks queen. 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:15.040 Yeah, it's the introduction of the color. Is working really 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:15.360 well for you? 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:17.440 Yes. So I've always been a drawer since I was 0:08:17.440 --> 0:08:19.440 a little kid. I would just go into my room 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:22.200 and draw for my relatives that came over, and gave 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:23.320 them presents of drawings. 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:24.880 So I would say I've. 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:28.960 Always been like a very what's it called, like making 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:32.920 things creative, lots of drawing and writing and expressing myself. 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:34.360 That's what you call consistency. 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:37.079 There was some consistency there because I really enjoyed it. 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:38.520 So I think for the first kind of a few 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:41.400 years of my life, it was very much the top tier. 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:44.920 I'm not gonna lie. It was giving incredible school projects 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:47.720 that would really blow the socks off the teachers and whatnot. 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:48.520 Oh you're one of those. 0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:50.840 Yeah, an amazing person to be Early on, I could 0:08:50.920 --> 0:08:53.719 never fathom when I saw these really creative people who 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:57.000 really put everything, not even putting everything into it, but 0:08:57.480 --> 0:09:00.719 definitely weren't cruising. Definitely were And I don't even know 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:03.600 if I observe these people to be talented or just committed. 0:09:04.080 --> 0:09:05.839 No, you had to see my year five projects. I 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:09.839 literally go back and I'm I'm astounded. I peaked, you 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:12.120 know how, Like, Okay, so withdrawing, you have to keep 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:14.840 practicing to actually get good, Whereas there's a point when 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:16.920 like you're all in year five and so you can 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:18.520 only be so good. Yeah, I must say, oh it 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:18.920 was the best. 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:19.559 That's the best. 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:22.080 Thing costs. And I will say, in my early twenties, 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:24.600 I think I was operating on the highest field, which 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:26.119 is just literally creating stuff. 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:26.439 That I liked. 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:28.400 Yeah, it's beautiful when you do that. It was such 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:29.520 such a beautiful time. 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:31.520 I don't know if it was the same for you, 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:34.440 but the time where audience feedback felt incidental. 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:36.719 Yeah, literally see it, don't see it? 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:41.240 I like it? Yeah, I like it. Nothing is better 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:43.079 than that. And I'm always trying to get back to 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:45.600 that from phase because it's when you create the best stuff. 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:47.319 And it's also when if you create something like that 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:49.640 and a fobbs you honestly do not give a rats. 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:52.120 Ask, doesn't hear you? Like whatever, I make something you 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:52.480 right now? 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:55.920 Yeah, Whereas now you make something that you're not one 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:57.959 hundred percent keen on me because the you know, some 0:09:58.120 --> 0:10:01.800 realities have set in and and it really hurts your feelings. 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:05.160 So I'd say sometimes I am operating from the lowest 0:10:05.240 --> 0:10:08.439 level purely because it's my job now. So you know, 0:10:08.559 --> 0:10:09.839 it's easy to feel like you've had a lot to 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:12.079 lose and you have to like keep up a rats race. 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:14.880 But I try and not let myself create from that 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:16.760 place because that's when it becomes unfun, and I think 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:19.719 that's where burnout happens. Of course that's easier so than none. 0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:21.959 Sometimes you just have to pull your socks up. But 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:24.760 I think especially with like comedy or trying to be 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:27.760 funny and stuff. You have to actually be enjoying yourself 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:30.840 for it to be to come across as like genuine 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:32.360 and actually funny. 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:35.120 What about you, babe? I feel it. 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:39.160 I feel like what I'm doing now is I'm trying 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:44.400 to recycle or get rid of anything that I'm doing 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:46.840 that's in that creating to not lose space or creating 0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:50.319 to cruise because we don't have to create realistically, we 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:52.360 don't have to do all the things that we do. 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:54.600 There are key elements of our jobs that are definitely 0:10:55.160 --> 0:10:58.840 non negotiable. But I think I personally spend a lot 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:00.680 of time doing things I don't do that I wrote 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:04.720 it my creativity, So it's like re rejigging that focus 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:08.160 and being like, Okay, just do what is inspiring to you. 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:12.120 Just do that because realistically, and it's been proven time 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:13.400 and time again, that eats. 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:14.120 It eats. 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:19.520 That stuff eats and it feels good when it's like 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:21.080 you said, I don't think we can tap back into 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:23.719 what it is to be twenty and having all this 0:11:23.840 --> 0:11:26.880 like huboric and confidence or whatever, but we can definitely 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:30.040 tap into the feeling of creating from a more pure 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:34.120 place that's for or a more like egocentric place, really 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:38.880 like making for you, not for the imaginary spectator who 0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:40.679 might see it and might like it, but you being like, 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:41.719 oh I like that. 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:44.080 Yeah, I want to watch it again and again and again, 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:46.120 and yes, I will watch it again and again. 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:49.240 This is really amazing. So to reiterate, the book that 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:52.240 we reference is one hundred and seventy seven Mental Toughness 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:55.000 Secrets of the World Class and this was also referenced 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:57.240 by TikTok creator Coture and Steal. 0:11:59.200 --> 0:12:04.920 You're listening to Flex and Rooms friendship Situationship Off the Dome. 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:08.000 Does that say anything to us? I'm not quite sure. 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:11.640 But I've been thinking about how I've been reading Giang 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:15.679 Yankovic's book called Just Friend Too, and she talks a 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:18.360 lot about the formative friendships that she's created in her 0:12:18.440 --> 0:12:22.679 lifestyle and how over the course of her journalistic career 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:25.000 or writing careers, You've spoken a lot about the way 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:28.480 that friendships have impacted her. And I've been thinking about 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:32.120 how I am a big fan of the acquaintanceship m H. 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:36.160 I think that it is sacred in nature. It is 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:39.800 I think the purest form of friendship transaction. No, you 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:41.640 can dip in and dip out of a dynamic and 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:44.679 nobody's feeling hard done by it. You know, those people 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:47.160 like party friends are a great example. No party friends, 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:49.480 she's checking for you mad because you didn't check it 0:12:49.480 --> 0:12:51.280 on the weekend, or that you haven't seen each other 0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:53.000 in three months because they've been no parties. 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:56.000 They just kind of get what the dynamic is. But 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:58.400 I feel as though when there's a bit of. 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:01.160 A gray area and you can't assign a friend to 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:04.480 an environment like a workplace friend or a party friend, 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:07.040 people don't like the gray area. It makes them feel 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:10.160 uncomfortable or they want to try and yeah, what are 0:13:10.240 --> 0:13:10.800 we what is this? 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:12.520 What are we doing? So they want to try and 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:15.959 escalate it really like really quickly, or they pull back 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:16.920 out of insecurity. 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:19.400 And I was like, yeah, what happens when you are 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:22.360 in that grey area of acquaintance to potentially good friend? 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:26.280 Because I've been thinking a lot about get really like 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:30.880 building acquaintanceships and doing that in a way that's not 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:34.760 leaving someone high and dry. I feel like you're good 0:13:34.760 --> 0:13:36.760 at that, but I want to be better at it 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:39.040 because and I feel like what ends up happening for 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:42.880 me is that I end up making acquaintanceships that escalate 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:45.719 into more And I think that's because it's just like 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:49.120 the nature of like the subject matters and the conversations 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:50.839 and how a lot of the friends that I have 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:54.319 are interconnected, So like I might have an acquaintance with 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:57.360 through me whose froom is really really close friend, and 0:13:57.440 --> 0:13:59.640 I'm like, I don't want to be their really close friend. 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:02.400 I like being through me's friend and their acquaintance. But 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:04.640 when you start to like mix it up, it's kind 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:06.080 of like, let's just copy and paste, copy and paste, 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:07.719 Like no, no, no, no, no, no, orry, I don't 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:08.320 want to I don't want to. 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:10.079 Copy and paste. I just want to keep this in 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:12.199 its own little space for me. 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:15.160 And I'm kind of reckoning with this idea of like 0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:18.040 what about when you have incompatible friendship needs with someone? 0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:21.600 So what if I'm in a period of wanting acquaintanceships 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:25.040 and I'm dealing with people who want real best friendships. 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:27.040 How do you temper the expectations. 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:27.800 I don't think you do. 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:30.080 I think people just don't get their needs met and 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:31.560 they're kind of like, oh, I don't like the way 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:32.680 this friendship's playing out. 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:36.720 Oh some un comfyed is it is really See, I 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:38.680 feel like with our job you get the chance to 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:40.760 meet a lot of different people, but yeah, it's harder 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:43.000 to have the incidental Well it isn't It isn't like 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:44.800 it's easy to go to events and see people, but 0:14:44.960 --> 0:14:47.400 like you miss the opportunity to in a really low 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:49.360 stakes way create the hours. 0:14:49.560 --> 0:14:50.520 Yeah, a little chat. 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:53.040 And because of the industries that we work in, where 0:14:53.040 --> 0:14:57.520 they hyper personalized and hyper social, I think that we're 0:14:57.560 --> 0:15:02.680 all impacted by parasocial relationships. Like in our industry, acquaintanceships 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:06.160 feel closer or they appear closer because of the industries 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:06.960 that we're in as well. 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:08.480 So I'll have people. 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:11.720 Assume that I'm really close with someone who's an acquaintance 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:14.240 of Frou and I professional acquaintance, And then it feels 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:16.920 strange that to say in plain English, oh no, we're 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:17.600 not friends. 0:15:18.160 --> 0:15:19.200 Because I'm shading. 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:22.920 It's such a mean thing to say. I don't really 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:24.320 know them like that. I don't really know them like that. 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:26.720 I'm just I'm a fan. I'm a fan of comment fan. 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:28.400 I don't know. It's something to ponder. 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:31.040 Let's figure out some more terms for friendships because they 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:34.760 are as complex, if not more complex than romantic relationships, 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:36.160 and I don't think we're doing them justice in the 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:38.600 way that we discuss them. It's very binary, like what 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:40.320 to do when you want to make friends, what do 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:41.440 you want to do when you want to break up 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:42.480 with a friend, and nothing in between. 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:47.120 Literally, we are currently on the quest to become smarter 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:50.840 than literal school children. We've been doing the HSC exams, 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:53.440 including maths and food tech. That was last week and 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:56.640 the year before, sorry, the week before. My god, I 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:59.240 feel like since I left school, I can't imagine going 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:02.280 back for a whole day and learning the whole day, Like, 0:16:02.360 --> 0:16:03.080 how did we do that? 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:04.440 I don't think we did. 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:08.480 We didn't, but I love we were there play lunch. 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:10.680 She definitely were there. But I think high school dynamics, 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:14.160 mirror's office dynamics. Everyone just hanging out and like doing 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:16.760 incidental learning and working in between hanging out. 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:21.640 God, okay, time to work, all right, absolute heaven? 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:25.120 Look okay, Mickey sprinted out the bis Man exam Business Management. 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:26.880 I didn't do it in school, did you flex? 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:27.520 I did not know? 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:30.600 Did you do it? Bis Man couldn't even pay me? 0:16:30.680 --> 0:16:35.040 But if I went back, I would I'd study business, economics, history, 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:35.840 none of. 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:38.240 These fun subjects. I was like, I'm going to do 0:16:39.040 --> 0:16:43.360 I'm going to do design. I'm going to do would work. 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:45.840 Everyone's like, you should have done drama. People who meet 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:48.040 me now that you didn't do drama. I was like, what, No, 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:51.040 I don't see you doing drama, not at all. Anyway, 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:52.400 take school seriously, people. 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:55.760 I say redacted. Okay, so we have the bis Man exam. 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:59.240 Let's start with question one? What method of communication would 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:01.360 be most efficient for a business to share a weekly 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:07.080 staff meeting agenda? Email, letter, mammoridium or noticeboard? Come on, guys, 0:17:07.240 --> 0:17:08.919 eat an email that's correct, but. 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:11.880 Bring back a noticeboard because I feel as though give 0:17:11.880 --> 0:17:13.880 people agency and seeking out information. 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:17.359 Okay. Two? What type of question is most effective when 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:20.240 trying to obtain more information from a customer about their needs? 0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:24.320 Closed communication? Oh, a close question, open question or reflect 0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:27.119 question or repeated question. It's be open question and. 0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:29.880 I think it's a reflective question though if you really 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:33.919 think about it, Like, not business from a HC perspective, 0:17:34.400 --> 0:17:37.240 but like, here's an open question for me. 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:40.280 What do you what do you eat for? 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:43.160 What did you eat for breakfast today? A smoothie exactly. 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:46.760 That's an open question. If I was starting a business 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:51.520 about smoothies, A reflective question is what do you hate 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:54.960 most about making smoothies every day? That would teach me 0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:57.600 way more about your relationship to smoothies and the fact 0:17:57.600 --> 0:17:58.560 that you had a smoothie. 0:17:58.920 --> 0:18:01.400 So is it education the curriculum? 0:18:01.560 --> 0:18:02.680 Is it open or reflective? B? 0:18:02.840 --> 0:18:04.800 ORC? They say open, but I say they're lying. 0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:08.480 Okay, I'm correct. Three What category of sign has a 0:18:08.560 --> 0:18:11.639 yellow background and a black triangle around the symbol? A emergency, 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:14.040 B mandatory, C prohibition. 0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:16.040 And D warning warning warning. 0:18:16.920 --> 0:18:19.680 I would potentially go with emergency, but it's warning. And 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:22.959 number four the final one. We've got a clean streak here, girls. 0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:26.440 Which of the following would create the most environmentally sustainable workplace? 0:18:26.520 --> 0:18:29.679