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Speaker 1: The Willow Woody podcast that bite sized.

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Speaker 2: What does your dad cry over? I'd love you to

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Speaker 2: join the show because you became a father last week

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Speaker 2: to little Remy Jean Whitelaw and a day or two

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Speaker 2: after your beautiful partner me and gave birth, you came

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Speaker 2: into the studio and you were you were struggling to

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Speaker 2: hold on to the tears which just absolutely flowed out

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Speaker 2: of you, and all of a sudden you were just

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Speaker 2: holding me and crying. I can't stop crying. You're just crying.

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Speaker 2: He is a dad, which is bloody huge. We're not

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Speaker 2: going to talk about it just yet, though, eyes crying.

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Speaker 2: Are you going to cry again? You are again? You

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Speaker 2: can't say baby, You're gonna start crying. It's happening again,

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Speaker 2: all right, cheeiz mate, you got to get yourself together

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Speaker 2: here as the Tis shares, why would you put by Sorry,

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Speaker 2: there's a selection of our favorite ones that occurred across

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Speaker 2: the two hours, and there was the amazing thing was though,

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Speaker 2: like it's I know instinctively you're sitting there going I

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Speaker 2: can't stop crying. I can't stop crying, and you're sort

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Speaker 2: of like looking at through a lens of the fact

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Speaker 2: that it's going to be embarrassed about or shy about.

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Speaker 2: But I think every single person that I had an

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Speaker 2: interaction with on the weekend said to me that how

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Speaker 2: beautiful it was to see a dad crying about the

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Speaker 2: fact that they were really happy about the fact that

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Speaker 2: they were a dad, Like it's it's so rare that

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Speaker 2: dads show emotion, And I just think, and don't you

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Speaker 2: agree with me that more dads should be crying.

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Speaker 1: Oh. I like that.

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Speaker 3: I was able to really lean into how I truly

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Speaker 3: was feeling, which which was I was at a point

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Speaker 3: where I was so happy that I there was there

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Speaker 3: was such an outpouring of emotion of happiness that that

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Speaker 3: I couldn't control my tears at all. And I mean

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Speaker 3: that audio there is just in the show. But I

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Speaker 3: gave myself a pep talk in the car before I

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Speaker 3: walked up. And this is where it's interesting. I think

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Speaker 3: this is where I've been ingrained as as a male

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Speaker 3: in this society, that that'd be a bit embarrassing if

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Speaker 3: you cried, and I gave myself a pep talk, was like,

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Speaker 3: come on, mate, pull yourself together, Like, don't don't cry

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Speaker 3: when you get up there, just hold it. Together like

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Speaker 3: you know you can. You don't have to cry effectively.

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Speaker 3: And then I saw you going to get yourself a

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Speaker 3: cone butcher out the back there at the office. And

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Speaker 3: as soon as I saw.

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Speaker 2: You, a finite number of con butchers in this building.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be seen as someone who SLINKs

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Speaker 2: off and grabs him in my spare time. But yes, fine,

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Speaker 2: I was out there going to hear go.

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Speaker 4: I got left, and.

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Speaker 2: Now you came out and grabbed me and you started crying.

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Speaker 3: I grabbed you, and I mean it's funny like and

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Speaker 3: grabbing you.

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Speaker 1: It was.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I was happy because I loved my daughter, but

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Speaker 3: because I was expressing that happiness and emotion around loving

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Speaker 3: my daughter. I think that hug with you was I wiz,

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Speaker 3: here we go. I love you so much, like it's

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Speaker 3: it's my love for everything has heightened because of how

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Speaker 3: hug you was just a nice moment. I just wanted

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Speaker 3: you to know how much I love you. And oh wow,

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Speaker 3: we here we are again?

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Speaker 2: Is this trception and through it?

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Speaker 5: Is this just going to be my life now?

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Speaker 2: Just cry at the drop of bad.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: Seeing you that made me want to cry. And then

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Speaker 3: I mean even I walked through that, I had to

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Speaker 3: obviously excited that the baby had arrived. And it was

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Speaker 3: a moment that I walked through the sales area and

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Speaker 3: they just started clapping and I burst into tears, and

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Speaker 3: they and their face like they had this look on

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Speaker 5: It's gone wrong.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, sensitive to loud noises, Yeah, but yeah, it's but

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Speaker 5: I'm glad it's been yeah received well, but but I'm

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Speaker 3: And I drove back to the hospital and I mean,

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Speaker 3: all I was thinking about was seeing my baby girl

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Speaker 3: again when I left the show on that Thursday. But

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Speaker 3: but I'd be lying if I said there wasn't like

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Speaker 3: a pang of oh gee whiz mate, you probably could

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Speaker 2: Of course, because that's the that's the natural instinct, is

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Speaker 2: it do, And particularly as a dad to be like, well,

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Speaker 2: And that's why I want to take calls on that

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Speaker 2: right now, What does your dad cry over We're gonna

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Speaker 2: we'll play some more of that audio of you up

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Speaker 2: next Worlds. If you haven't seen it yet, head alo

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Speaker 2: to Will and Woody on Instagram because the comments are

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Speaker 2: saying exactly the same thing. And the funny thing is

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Speaker 2: for me is like, I'm sure you had that blissful

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Speaker 2: newborn cry and Remy's you know, I'm unaware of that.

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Speaker 2: I am already guarded around crying in front of my daughter.

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Speaker 2: I already noticed the fact that I'm like, I can't

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Speaker 2: show her that I'm upset, Like even if I'm upset,

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Speaker 2: even if I get home from work and I'm fustered

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Speaker 2: upping about. So it's obviously something that gets ingrained so

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Speaker 2: early on. But every now and then your dad lets

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Speaker 2: a crack, lets himself crack a little bit, and you

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Speaker 2: get to see him cry over something, and often it's

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Speaker 2: something that you just never expect, and they're often small,

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Speaker 2: trivial things that take them back to a place or

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Speaker 2: remind them of something. I remember my dad always used

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Speaker 2: to cry at Love actually over Christmas, and that scene

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Speaker 2: with Alan Rickman pleading with Emma Thompson.

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Speaker 2: So thirty one O six ' five. If it tells

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Speaker 2: what your dad cries over, I'd love to hear from

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Speaker 2: you right up next' s wiling, What do you hope

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Speaker 2: you having a great drive home? At least send a

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Speaker 2: kiss talking dad's crying or if you're a dad happy

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Speaker 2: to have men? What you cry over? What does your

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Speaker 2: dad cry over? We're talking about it because we're celebrating

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Speaker 2: dad's crying. After Woods came into the studio last week

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Speaker 2: and told us all about the birth of his brand

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Speaker 2: new daughter and cried and like openly cried about it.

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Speaker 2: And it was so good to just sit here and

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Speaker 2: really happy about.

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Speaker 4: I got left one on one with Remy for the

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Speaker 4: first time, and it was a pretty one sided conversation.

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Speaker 4: But we were just talking about the adventures that we're

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Speaker 4: going to go on, and I was telling her that

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Speaker 4: and I'd really like her to come to that, but like,

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Speaker 4: it's not a free ride. She's going to have to

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Speaker 2: It was really nice, Mane. And as I said, I

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Speaker 2: can't think of a single person on the weekend who

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Speaker 2: didn't tell me how beautiful that was. And I know

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Speaker 2: I'm a very unapproachable person, so people don't often approach me,

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Speaker 2: but I had a lot of strangers come up to

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Speaker 2: You can still see it instagame Wheel and Woody and

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Speaker 2: just said, truly how much it cut everybody at the

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Speaker 2: that's because it was a dad crying, which is rare,

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Speaker 2: and it was beautiful to see. So look for one

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Speaker 2: and six five and often these can be things that

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Speaker 2: you can laugh about as well, whether the team losing

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Speaker 2: the Grand Final, Chris, what did your what did your

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Speaker 2: dad cry about?

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Speaker 6: You?

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Speaker 1: Guys?

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Speaker 3: Congratulations with mate, Thanks so much, mate, I appreciate that.

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 1: Well, old man, we're watching the bat at one thousand

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Speaker 1: yesterday as.

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Speaker 6: We do, and one of the one of the drivers

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Speaker 6: got out and you started balling on camera, missus hugging him.

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Speaker 6: And then I turned over to my old man and well,

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Speaker 6: him It made me feel like absolute ship watch.

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Speaker 1: All the time with everything.

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Speaker 2: But so much you could be the only person to

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Speaker 2: have ever cried watching them.

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Speaker 3: Let's go to actually now, Ashley, when did your dad cry?

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Speaker 1: So? I come from a house full of female so

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Speaker 1: he cried when he found out my sill was pregnant,

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Speaker 1: so the first grandchild. And then he cried again when

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Speaker 3: And then he.

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Speaker 1: Cried again when he was born because he was born

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Speaker 1: for six weeks and it was during COVID. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: so they are all able to see him after six weeks, and.

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Speaker 6: I just lost it.

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Speaker 2: The stuff's awesome.

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Speaker 1: The grand kid, yes, very healthy boy, so beaut' very proud.

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Speaker 2: Well, congrats Ashley. It's the pride thing. The pride thing

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Speaker 2: always is the dad going, doesn't it.

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Speaker 3: I haven't had tears from Dad yet.

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Speaker 6: Dad.

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Speaker 3: Dad loves Remy, He's held her a few times, he

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Speaker 3: loves it, hasn't cried, hasn't cried, And my dad's not

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Speaker 3: the confectionary aisle, and he sees yet a sea of

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Speaker 3: those yellow tags. He genuinely cries every single time.

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Speaker 2: Dane, Dane's going on there, Dane.

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Speaker 6: Congrats and made hashtag team Pram. I'm pram all the way. Brother.

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Speaker 6: You keep using that pram.

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Speaker 3: It's practical, isn't it, Dane? Did you just check your

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Speaker 3: jackets under there? You're shopping?

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Speaker 6: It's the best. And I tried to the sling, but

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Speaker 6: I'm a big guy, and I freaked out if I

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Speaker 6: tripped over and hurt the baby. Nup. Pram all the way.

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Speaker 2: Yea, everybody, you've had your peace crive out.

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Speaker 6: Made my old man that he seventies sees from the

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Speaker 6: older men. Don't cry, mate. He used to cry at

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Speaker 6: the theme song to Ghost.

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm chained Melody the Righteous Brothers. Yeah, that's a

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Speaker 2: beautiful song.

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Speaker 4: That's a beautiful I've cried that song every time, Dane, every.

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Speaker 6: Single time that song come on, tears without fail without fail?

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Speaker 3: Good son?

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Speaker 5: Is your is your?

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Speaker 3: Is your dad still with us?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Mane he is.

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Speaker 6: He's I'm pretty sure a sense from me. I think

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Speaker 6: they played the song with his mum's funeral. But I

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Speaker 6: used to become a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit of steaky boss.

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Speaker 6: I used to play the song before I ended, ask

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Speaker 6: him something, Ho, what are.

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Speaker 2: You done with that?

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Speaker 3: Why not check out more from Willen Woody on The

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Speaker 3: Full Show podcast.