1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yr 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing 8 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for 9 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow. 10 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. 11 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 3: She's on the Money, She's on the Money. 12 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 2: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast 13 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 2: for millennials who want financial freedom. Welcome back to another 14 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 2: one of our money daries where we get to talk 15 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 2: to one of our incredible She's on the Money community members. 16 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,119 Speaker 2: All about our journey Now this week, I do want 17 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 2: to give you guys a little content warning before we 18 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 2: get started. This episode talks about mental health concerns including 19 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 2: BPD and PTSD, and we also talk about addiction. So 20 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 2: let's jump straight into it. We got a message this 21 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 2: week and it went a little bit like this dear, 22 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 2: she's on the money. I was homeless at seventeen and 23 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 2: navigated that system for over a year before getting into 24 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 2: a more secure position, only to move back in with 25 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 2: my dad and then need to leave again. After things 26 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 2: got incredibly tough, I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder 27 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 2: PTSD and IBS, and this helped me to start turning 28 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 2: a corner. I'm now the most stable I have ever been, 29 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 2: and I'm receiving NDIS support. I've been working on a 30 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 2: budget with my occupational therapist. I finally have savings and 31 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 2: even have an emergency fund for my CA money. Diarist, 32 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 2: welcome to the show. How exciting. 33 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 4: Thank you so much for having me guys, it's an 34 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 4: absolute privilege. 35 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, no, it's a privilege to have you on. 36 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 2: I am so excited to learn a bit more about you. 37 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 2: That sounds like a journey. So do we want to 38 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 2: just start at the start with first things first? If 39 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 2: I asked you to give yourself a grade, what would 40 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 2: you grade your money habits from A through to F. 41 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 4: I thought about this a lot. I probably say I 42 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 4: give myself a C. I feel like I'm pretty average, 43 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 4: but do try my. 44 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 2: Best all right, let's learn a little bit more about it, 45 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 2: my friend, can you tell us a little bit about 46 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 2: your money story. 47 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 4: I guess I'll kind of start from the start from seventeen. 48 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 4: I mean, I kind of always grew up with very 49 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 4: little money, and my mom is a single mom. I 50 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 4: did have my dad in my life for a little bit, 51 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 4: but he wasn't financially contributing at all. It was just 52 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 4: my mother's income, and her income was the disability support 53 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 4: pension and we lived in housing commission and it was 54 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 4: very tough growing up. Money was always kind of a 55 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 4: thing we didn't speak about, and if it was spoken about, 56 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 4: it was usually out of frustration on my mom's part, 57 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 4: the stress that she was going through trying to manage 58 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 4: myself and I also have two siblings, so money was 59 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 4: very tight, and it was kind of something we didn't 60 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 4: ask for. So even if I needed it for my Mikey, 61 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 4: for example, to get to school, it was just not 62 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 4: something I asked for. I was just fair of vague 63 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 4: because it was just better to do that and it 64 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 4: was just less stress in the home. And then things 65 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 4: continued that way as I got older, and it was 66 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 4: when I hit seventeen that I was pretty much just 67 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 4: couldn't cope with the family life anymore, and the home 68 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 4: life was getting really bad, and I had spoken to 69 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 4: a couple of support workers at the time and they 70 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 4: encouraged me to move out and to try and find 71 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 4: some independence and a safer environment. My family home life 72 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 4: was heavily affected by drugs at the time, and my 73 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 4: mom was getting a lot worse with her own mental health. 74 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 4: So that was and I decided to take the leap 75 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 4: and move out. I managed to find some amazing connections 76 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 4: through a couple youth organizations. They were really good and 77 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 4: got me into a refuge and that was in Burwood, 78 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 4: which was quite nice. So it was a nice little refuge. 79 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 4: It wasn't far from where I was used to and 80 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 4: I spent maybe six weeks there before getting into some 81 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 4: commission housing myself and I moved in with another person 82 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 4: at risk at the time, and that was quite good 83 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 4: and I kind of fell on my feet a little 84 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 4: bit more. And it was kind of around this time 85 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 4: that things started to feel a little bit better. But 86 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 4: then something quite wasn't right. I started to feel like 87 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 4: really negative all the time, My emotions were fluctuating. Things 88 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 4: were too overwhelming I was trying to juggle a diploma 89 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 4: at the time while also trying to juggle finding accommodation 90 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 4: while also juggling the way I was feeling. And I 91 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 4: reached out and got some support, which was the best 92 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 4: thing I did. I said to my GP, I just 93 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 4: don't know what's going on, and I need someone to 94 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 4: talk to, and she pointed me into the direction of 95 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 4: a psychiatrist who could do a diagnosis. And that was 96 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,559 Speaker 4: when I saw that psychiatrist and the diagnosis was given 97 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 4: to me, which was actually borderline personality disorder. It does 98 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 4: get confused with bipolar disorder quite a lot. It is 99 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 4: similar in a way, but a little bit different. And 100 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 4: I also got diagnosed with CPDSD at the time and 101 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 4: I've just been since that diagnosis working through getting different 102 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 4: therapies and finding what's worked for me. And unfortunately I 103 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 4: did have to leave my diploma and differ from the 104 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 4: study at the time, it all got too much, and 105 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 4: that's when I was also going through the process of 106 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 4: being diagnosed with IBS. The IBS presented as just like 107 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 4: vomiting every single day and going to the bathroom too frequently, 108 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 4: which made it hard to diagnose because they couldn't really 109 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 4: do a test and figure out what it was. It 110 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 4: was just going to the hospital every couple weeks and 111 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 4: different routine tests, different blood tests, different scans to try 112 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 4: and figure out what was happening. I got to a 113 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 4: really low weight, thirty nine kilos was the lowest I 114 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 4: got to. And then that was when my GP said 115 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 4: I had to either stop my studies, pull the plug, 116 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 4: and just focus entirely on my recovery or I was 117 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 4: going to end up in hospital. And I decided I 118 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 4: was going to just stop because I couldn't cope. And then, yeah, 119 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:21,359 Speaker 4: that was that, and I got pretty much told I 120 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 4: had to leave my studies. And that was when I 121 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:27,040 Speaker 4: just decided to fully recover and put all my energy 122 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 4: and all my capacity into just focusing on myself. And 123 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 4: that's when I reached out for that NBIS funding to 124 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 4: help me get some more therapy. 125 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so glad you did that. I'm so glad 126 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 2: you did that. I've heard that INDIS funding is really 127 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 2: hard to secure. Did you find that a challenging process? 128 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, that took about a year in itself, and that 129 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 4: was with support as well. That's with someone helping me 130 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 4: the entire process, helping me write reports, helping me, you know, 131 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 4: tell my therapists that I already had in place, what 132 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 4: reports to write, what language to use because they are 133 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,359 Speaker 4: very particul and the language they need. And I was 134 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 4: still knocked back once because my condition had only been 135 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 4: diagnosed at seventeen, so they didn't believe the permanency of it. 136 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 4: But we obviously provided more evidence and that was put 137 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 4: through when everything was okay. But I am very lucky 138 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 4: to be approved because it is really hard and it 139 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 4: did take a long time. 140 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy. It breaks my heart that it takes 141 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 2: so long to get approved. What did you do in 142 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 2: that twelve months while you were, you know, struggling to 143 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 2: get on support, because being unsupported when you're going through 144 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 2: situations where you have BPD and you have PTSD and 145 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 2: IBS is debilitating. Like how are you surviving, my friend? 146 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 4: Not well? I kind of just like my strong point 147 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 4: is resourcefulness. I just tried to utilize everything that I 148 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 4: could and I don't have family support, so I just 149 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 4: have my little brother, so he has been a big 150 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 4: part of my journey and always someone I can rely on. 151 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 4: And I relied on my doctor my GP a lot 152 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 4: She's absolutely incredible, and I relied quite heavily on my 153 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 4: psychologist that I was able to see with the Medicare sessions, 154 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 4: so that was still something I could access at the time, 155 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 4: which made the absolute word of difference, even if it 156 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 4: wasn't for you know, every week. It was only once 157 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 4: a month that I could do because of the limit 158 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 4: of sessions, but it was still something. And Lifeline was great. 159 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 4: All those kind of little services that you can use 160 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 4: and utilize, and you definitely shouldn't feel any shame utilizing 161 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 4: them because that's what they're there for and they are 162 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 4: really great. 163 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent. Oh my gosh. So the next 164 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 2: question is what do you do for work and how 165 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 2: much money do you earn? We know you have the 166 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 2: NDIS supporting you. From my understanding, you've got senseling, but 167 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 2: you do a few things on the side as well. 168 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 2: What's that. 169 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 4: Well, I'm unemployed, but I do volunteer for a shelter, 170 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,680 Speaker 4: and that shelter I work with the cats, so I 171 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 4: have three cats at home myself, and I am a 172 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 4: massive animal. 173 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 2: Lover and friend. 174 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 5: Same. 175 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 4: Yes, I've heard much about your babites. 176 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 2: It's all I talk about. It is literally all I 177 00:08:59,120 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 2: talk about. 178 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 4: It is my first point of conversation. If I meet someone, 179 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 4: I'm like, you got pets. 180 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 2: I get especially excited when I hear they have cats, 181 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 2: because I'm like, oh, we're both cat people. Are nice? Nice, 182 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 2: we must be good people. 183 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 4: Yes, everyone's pretty solid. Who loves cats? Yeah? 184 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 2: Exactly. It frustrates me when they're like, oh, I don't 185 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 2: really like cats. I'm like, you've never met a good cat? 186 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 4: Then? 187 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 2: Full stop, end of story. 188 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, no argument, Like, absolutely not you If you're not 189 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 4: a cat person, you haven't had your own cat. 190 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, you just have made a good one. So meet 191 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 2: mine and you will love them. 192 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 4: I definitely agree. And other than that, I do dog 193 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 4: walking sometimes my OT helps set that up, so I'm 194 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 4: hoping to continue doing that as I go into my 195 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 4: bachelor's degree, which I was just accepted for. Congratulations, that's 196 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 4: so exciting. I'm like just over the moon, to say 197 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:49,839 Speaker 4: the least. This is what I've been working towards, and 198 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 4: my focus is going to be pretty much entirely on 199 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 4: that and my supports and hopefully are continuing to grow 200 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 4: and see where it takes me. 201 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 2: I'm obsessed, what are you going to be? 202 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 4: My bachelor of Health Science, So I'm going to be 203 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 4: majoring in disability and Inclusion and psychology for Allied Health. 204 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 2: Beautiful. You couldn't be a better person to be doing that. 205 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 2: That industry absolutely needs you. I'm so excited for you 206 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 2: to do that. You mentioned before that you are working 207 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 2: through or you were working through your budget with your 208 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 2: occupational therapist. What is currently your big money goal? What 209 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 2: are you working towards? 210 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:25,680 Speaker 4: My big money goal would be to go on a holiday. 211 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 4: I have never been on a plane, so that is 212 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 4: something that I would like to do, and Bali is 213 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 4: my big destination. So I've been working through some small 214 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 4: goals with my OT and you're working towards staying from 215 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 4: the home for a few days, and I'll eventually build 216 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 4: up to being comfortable from being away from my cats 217 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 4: for a week while I go away. And working towards 218 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 4: that savings goal has been really good. But another one 219 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 4: of my big savings goals is just having money for 220 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 4: myself and my cats that if anything goes wrong, I 221 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 4: can be there and I can provide that. And it's 222 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 4: already proved to be beneficial to me. My cat Nala 223 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:03,080 Speaker 4: actually needed to have tail partially amputated which was completely 224 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:05,559 Speaker 4: out of nowhere, and she was okay, she wasn't in 225 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 4: any pain, but they noticed it when she went for 226 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 4: her teeth cleaning. I said, there was a little scab 227 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 4: on her tail. Do you guys just mind shaving it 228 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 4: while she's under having a little look? And then yeah, 229 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 4: when they had a look, there was a little bit 230 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 4: of bone exposed on the end. Yeah, and she needed 231 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 4: that amputated. So that's been amputated. But I didn't have 232 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 4: to stress when they called me. I was like, oh 233 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 4: my baby. It wasn't all money. Yeah, it was oh 234 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 4: my baby. But then I could still cover that there 235 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 4: was no question about her treatment. 236 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 2: How empowering is that because that is such a stressful thing, 237 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 2: Like the VET is so expensive. I remember being in 238 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 2: university and I had my cat, Bailey for the first time, 239 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 2: and Bailey was already a massive financial undertaking. I think 240 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 2: I've spoken about it on the podcast before. I think 241 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 2: I had like maybe three hundred dollars in my account 242 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:54,200 Speaker 2: or just under and Bailey was a rescue and the 243 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 2: rescue cost was two hundred and fifty dollars. And I 244 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 2: still did it because I was like, I really need him, 245 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 2: I really want you know this support. And I think 246 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 2: that one thing people don't understand is that if you 247 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 2: have mental health issues, pets are therapy in a way 248 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 2: and they can be so powerful. And I just knew 249 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 2: that I needed him, so I got him, and knowing 250 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 2: that I had vet bills coming up, knowing that I 251 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 2: had to pay for these things, and I didn't realize 252 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 2: how expensive teeth cleaning for an animal was, Like I 253 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 2: just it blew my mind. So it's one of those 254 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 2: things that you don't realize but is also for me 255 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 2: a mental health cost because I was like, well, I'm 256 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 2: not going to not have my cat. He is my 257 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 2: saving grace and I'm sure that's absolutely the same thing 258 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 2: for you. So to just feel empowered around vet bills 259 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,319 Speaker 2: as well, it's just it's crazy to think how much 260 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 2: they add up and so quickly, and obviously you're not 261 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 2: going to look after them. But also the idea that 262 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 2: you were able to go, oh, my baby, instead of oh, 263 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 2: how am I going to afford this? Is just it 264 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 2: makes my heart so happy to know that you're in 265 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 2: that position, because regardless of what financial position you're in, 266 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 2: knowing you have a bit of a buffer, a bit 267 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 2: of an emergency fund to when unexpected things pop up 268 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 2: can be absolutely life changing. 269 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 4: One hundred percent. And that's what Nala was for me. 270 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 4: I got her when I was seventeen, so she was 271 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 4: my absolute little angel, my saving grace all throughout everything 272 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 4: that happened through Commission Housing, and I couldn't be withouts. 273 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 4: So she's definitely worth it. 274 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. 275 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: All right. 276 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 2: Next question I've got is do you invest? If so 277 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 2: what in? 278 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 4: No? Currently not. Unfortunately, I do have one hundred and 279 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 4: forty dollars in a bank account that I've labeled investment funds. 280 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 2: Oh exciting. She's got plans, so. 281 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 4: I've got plans. I've bought the investing book so I'm 282 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 4: going to read it as well, and I've spoken to 283 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 4: my support worker who said she's going to help me 284 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 4: set up my super and I can make my own 285 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 4: contributions to the super myself because there's nothing going in 286 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 4: so I want to make my own contribution. Yeah. 287 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 2: That's so smart, and it's one of those things that 288 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 2: can make you feel even more financially secure. And I 289 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 2: think a lot of people who currently aren't employed do 290 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 2: forget to care about and obviously, in your circumstance, it 291 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 2: might be a while before you fully employed and do 292 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 2: earn super so you can put yourself ahead by considering that, 293 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 2: and even just small amounts so for a long period 294 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 2: of time can really add up but also make you 295 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 2: just feel so much more secure, make you feel like 296 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 2: you're building towards a secure financial future. And it's just 297 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 2: there's something so powerful about that, even if it's just 298 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 2: small amounts over that long period of time exactly. 299 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 4: And that's what motivated me to look into it was 300 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 4: hearing you talk about, like, you know, from small things, 301 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 4: big things grow, and I just had a thought, like, 302 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 4: you know, why can't I just put you know, twenty 303 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 4: dollars a fortnite, fifty dollars a fortnite, just towards that 304 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 4: and see it slowly grow and have that to look 305 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 4: at as well and know that that's there for me. 306 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 4: Even though I haven't been working and contributing, I'm still 307 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 4: making my path. 308 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my gosh, you have the best mindset around 309 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 2: this ever. I'm obsessed. All right, let's put a break 310 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 2: on this for a hot second. We'll head to a 311 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 2: break and when we come back, we'll dive right in. 312 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 2: All right, money Diarist, We are back, and I can't 313 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 2: wait to dive back into this conversation. The next question 314 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 2: I want to know is do you currently have any debts, 315 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 2: If so, what are they. 316 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 4: Yes, I do have my debt from when I did 317 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 4: my diploma and didn't complete it. But I did get 318 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 4: one credit point for that for my bachelor so it 319 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 4: thing so money win. Before it was just a debt, 320 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 4: Now it's I actually got a credit point for it. 321 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 4: So not a money lost our. 322 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 2: Money or not the biggest money lost yet the money 323 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 2: loss university can add up. I know that for sure. 324 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 2: Like it is crazy. 325 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 4: So I think it's about eight grand that's in there. 326 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 2: I think, yeah, that's all right, That is okay. That 327 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 2: is debt that is contributing towards your super financially secure future, 328 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 2: which I'm really excited about. I want to know obviously 329 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 2: you're getting good at budgeting, You've started to change your 330 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 2: life absolutely. What is your best money habit. 331 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 4: I'd have to say it'd be resourcefulness. Growing up, it 332 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 4: was very common for my mum to utilize services like 333 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 4: Saint Phinni's and Selvo's to help with grocery costs and 334 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 4: food bills, so we had food to get on the 335 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 4: table and that was something that I did utilize when 336 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 4: I was homeless and when I was struggling for money, 337 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 4: was utilize those services when I didn't have enough to 338 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 4: meet ends meet, and I would try my best just 339 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 4: to have enough to cover rent, roof, over my head bills, 340 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 4: enough money for my cats, and try and use all 341 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 4: the resources that I had available to me and reach 342 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 4: out when I needed to. So that would, i'd say, 343 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 4: would be my best money habit. And I'd say, now 344 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 4: that I'm not having to reach out to those services 345 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 4: anymore and I do have that, I would say that 346 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 4: my best money habit would probably be it's a bit tough. 347 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 4: I'd say, it's still resourcefulness, but it's a little bit different. 348 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 4: It's not resourcefulness there I'm seeking other support. It's more 349 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 4: that I'm like seeking support from donations or whatever. It's 350 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 4: more that I'm seeking support from my OT and how 351 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 4: to budget better. I'm seeking support from you guys in 352 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 4: regards to like, you know, different tips and tricks. So 353 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 4: I like, it's just kind of learning as much as 354 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:04,120 Speaker 4: I can to better my situation. 355 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 2: Resourcefulness is very, very powerful, and I feel like that's 356 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 2: one of the best money habits to have because it 357 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 2: doesn't matter what you've got. If you know where to 358 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 2: go and how to get it and the services to 359 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 2: lean on, you will always be okay. Money diarist, I 360 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 2: want to know, on the flip side, what's your worst 361 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 2: money habit, though. 362 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 4: I'd say it's kind of my guilty pleasure. I love 363 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:29,920 Speaker 4: fresh fruit and vegetables and everything fresh and everything good 364 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:33,120 Speaker 4: quality produce, so that's something growing up I didn't have. 365 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 4: So now when I go to the grocery store, I 366 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 4: want the freshest fruit. I don't want frozen veg so 367 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 4: I have to try and make sure I'm sticking to 368 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 4: my meal plan and sticking to my budget, otherwise I'll 369 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 4: end up buying copious amounts of fruit and vegetables and 370 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 4: then having too much food waste in the end of it. 371 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 4: So that's probably my worst money habit. But I actually 372 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 4: found out that coals and wool worse do a director boot, 373 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,199 Speaker 4: and that's kind of where I end up picking up 374 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 4: too much stuff as coals will worse, and then the 375 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 4: little treats at the ends of the aisles that kind 376 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 4: of bits. So I've done the director boot where they 377 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,200 Speaker 4: just bring it to my boot and then I do 378 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 4: my main shopping at aldi where I don't get that temptation. 379 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, and then I'm doing the rest just 380 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 4: direct to my boots, so I'm not even going into 381 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 4: the shop. I'm not looking at the treats, so I'm 382 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 4: not looking at the things I don't need. 383 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:25,360 Speaker 2: See resourcefulness, resourcefulness, She's a smart woman. I love it. 384 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 4: So I'm slowly working on this. But yeah, fresh fruit 385 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:30,880 Speaker 4: and vegetables and all those little treats from the grocery 386 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 4: store is my little weakness. 387 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:35,359 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. I feel like I can resonate with 388 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:37,920 Speaker 2: that as well, Like there's nothing better than fresh fruit, 389 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 2: so I can see exactly where you're coming from. 390 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 4: Like a punnet of raspberries. 391 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, when they're not seven dollars, it's summer, so it's okay. 392 00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:48,120 Speaker 2: But when they're seven dollars upon it like, I can't 393 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 2: even justify that. No, absolutely not. I will have frozen 394 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 2: berries until they come back in season. Money diarist. You 395 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 2: were saying before that you grew up in a house 396 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 2: where your parents were drug users. They said, rated you 397 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 2: lived with your mom, it was a little bit tumultuous. 398 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 2: Your mum relied on support growing up. Am I right 399 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,439 Speaker 2: in assuming that you're one of the first in the 400 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:11,959 Speaker 2: family to go to university and do a degree. 401 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, in my immediate family, so I do believe. Yeah, 402 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 4: my auntie did a degree, but in my little immediate circle, yeah, 403 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 4: that I'm the first one to go do it. 404 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 2: Actually, is that exciting? Because I feel like you're changing 405 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 2: the narrative of what your future is going to look like. 406 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:29,120 Speaker 4: Is it is exciting? I am very excited. Yeah, I've 407 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 4: told my mom and I've told my brother. I'm yet 408 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:34,199 Speaker 4: to tell anyone else, but I really I know, and 409 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:36,360 Speaker 4: you know, but I'm just keeping it on the low 410 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 4: because yeah, I don't know. I'm still a bit shell 411 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 4: shocked by it, not sure if it's really true. 412 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 2: No, you'll absolutely smash it. I'm so excited to see 413 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:46,360 Speaker 2: where you go and what you achieve. But the last 414 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 2: question I have for you is I want to know 415 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 2: what your grade would be now that we've gone through 416 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 2: your money story. And your money story is powerful, so powerful, 417 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 2: like not only you going through mental health issues IBS 418 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 2: is so devilitating, grown up in a situation that is 419 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:04,919 Speaker 2: not exactly conducive to being the most successful person. But 420 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 2: you are going on to do a degree. You were 421 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 2: homeless at seventeen. You currently have three cats which are 422 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 2: all financially dependent on you, and you can look after them. 423 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,200 Speaker 2: You have an investing account. You haven't started investing yet, 424 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,399 Speaker 2: but it's called investment account and you've got money in it, 425 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 2: which is epic. You are one of the most resourceful 426 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 2: people we have met. Do you really think you're only 427 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 2: a C. 428 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 4: I would say I'm more a B because of how 429 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 4: resourceful I am, But I just feel like I'm so 430 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 4: excited to be able to earn my own income and 431 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 4: to see how I grow once I do, because I 432 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 4: feel like I'll be able to just set myself up 433 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 4: for the future that I never thought I would have. 434 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 4: So it's just really hard to be like, you know, 435 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 4: I have to accept great when I only have so 436 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 4: much to work with, and I am doing really good 437 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 4: with what I have, but I'm extremely excited for my future. 438 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,440 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, No, I'm so proud of you. And 439 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 2: that's why I ask, because I'm like, you're not a C. 440 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 2: You are absolutely smashing it out of the park, and 441 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,919 Speaker 2: I feel like maybe a bit of comparison of what 442 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 2: other people are doing and where their circumstances are as 443 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 2: leading you to maybe not be as strong in your 444 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,680 Speaker 2: opinion of how well you're doing. And I just want 445 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 2: to remind you that you are doing so well and 446 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 2: it makes me so proud to see where you are. 447 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 2: But last question before we leave, I want to know 448 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:19,679 Speaker 2: if there are people listening to this that are in 449 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 2: similar situations to the situation you found yourself in at seventeen, 450 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,400 Speaker 2: what advice would you have for them. 451 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 4: The biggest thing is just to reach out. It is 452 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 4: to understand that you're not alone and that there are 453 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 4: services out there that can help you. And even if 454 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 4: you just google what to do when homeless, because that's 455 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:40,439 Speaker 4: exactly what I did, and there will be resources that 456 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:43,400 Speaker 4: come up. There's this thing called ask Izzy as well, 457 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 4: which is a government resource that you can just type 458 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 4: in your situation if you need food, if you need shelter, 459 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 4: if you need assistance, and it will direct you to 460 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:54,679 Speaker 4: your nearest point of access, and just don't stop and 461 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 4: don't give up, because you are worth it and it 462 00:21:56,960 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 4: will get better. It just takes a long time, unfortunately, 463 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 4: a lot of waiting and a lot of pushing, but 464 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 4: you've just got to advocate for yourself. Oh I love that. 465 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 2: LL make sure that the resource ask Eazy is in 466 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 2: our show notes because that's something we haven't spoken about 467 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 2: on the podcast before. So what a good contribution. Again. 468 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 2: I'm insanely proud of you. 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