WEBVTT - Mini! Britt's dad is on to discuss catcalling

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<v Speaker 1>It is to pick up around the country. Tuesday Afternoon, Britt,

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<v Speaker 1>Laura and Mitch thanks to Chemist Warehouse heading today Great

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<v Speaker 1>Savings every Day.

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<v Speaker 2>So we've just been discussing this viral TikTok that has

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<v Speaker 2>been making the rounds, and it was from a woman

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<v Speaker 2>who was cat called, and off the back of the

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<v Speaker 2>cat call, she had a really amazing clap back. This

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<v Speaker 2>is what she had to say.

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<v Speaker 3>This man just cat called me out the front of

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<v Speaker 3>a construction site, and so I yelled back at him, sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have any change. The way that all the

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<v Speaker 3>men on the construction site started laughing at him and

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<v Speaker 3>pointing out him and made him feel so shit. It's

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<v Speaker 3>that simple.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, don't have any change.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, Laura.

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<v Speaker 5>This has got me thinking back to a story when

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<v Speaker 5>I was younger, because my dad, Tony Hockley, is a

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<v Speaker 5>build he has been his whole life. And I remember

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<v Speaker 5>being cat called once when I was walking past the

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<v Speaker 5>construction site and it was my dad's construction site and

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<v Speaker 5>it was somebody else that cat called me.

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<v Speaker 4>Bret.

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<v Speaker 2>How old were you at the time.

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<v Speaker 5>I must have been somewhere, like I'm trying to remember myself,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe between seventeen and twenty five, like I honestly I

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<v Speaker 5>was young. I was on a twenty It was next

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<v Speaker 5>with shopping center. I even remember the place like it

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<v Speaker 5>was so long ago, and I remember every day was

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<v Speaker 5>helpping in to see your dad. Yeah, and my dad

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<v Speaker 5>ended up sticking up for me, And I wonder if

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<v Speaker 5>he remembers that story like I remember. So we've called.

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<v Speaker 1>Him all right, it joins us now Tony Hockley, BRIT's dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello mate, welcome to the pickup.

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<v Speaker 3>Dad.

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<v Speaker 5>We were just talking on the radio about like cat

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<v Speaker 5>calling and how it's more times than not from a

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<v Speaker 5>construction site, like all these builders yell out and they

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<v Speaker 5>think it's funny in a woolf whistle and like yell

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<v Speaker 5>out different derogatory things to women walking past women and girls,

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<v Speaker 5>I should say, and got me thinking I remember and

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<v Speaker 5>I can't remember, like I was under twenty five. I

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<v Speaker 5>know that I remember walking past a job site and

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<v Speaker 5>some guys on the construction site cat called me and

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<v Speaker 5>started yelling out at me. And then I remember you

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<v Speaker 5>poking your head out and it turns out it was

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<v Speaker 5>your construction site and they didn't know that I was

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<v Speaker 5>your daughter. They obviously.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you. Yeah, I know where I was. It was

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<v Speaker 4>the only where they used to sell a sort of

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<v Speaker 4>stuffed potatoes for lunch. Were you together, Yes, that's exactly

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<v Speaker 4>you were. You were there with Sheridan and your mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, and.

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<v Speaker 4>We were we were building a high rise. These guys

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<v Speaker 4>were sort of whistling and carrying on, and I wandered

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<v Speaker 4>over to see what was going on. Actually I heard

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<v Speaker 4>somebody say, hey you, so that's Hawker's that's Howker's wife

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<v Speaker 4>and kids. That got my my interest, so I wanted

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<v Speaker 4>over there. And but yeah, everybody was very very streepy.

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<v Speaker 4>Should be out the whole team.

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<v Speaker 5>And did you say any because I guess I never

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<v Speaker 5>found out what happened on the other side of that,

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<v Speaker 5>Like we I saw you prop your head out and

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<v Speaker 5>then they all of a sudden there was no noise

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<v Speaker 5>coming anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>Well no, no, they all knew better. But basically what

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<v Speaker 4>it did happened. You know, I said to these guys,

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<v Speaker 4>look if you because they all said, oh, sorry, sorry,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, and I see, well made. It doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't matter. It's is that that's my daughter's and

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<v Speaker 4>my wife. But if you wouldn't do it, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>if you're apologizing now because it's me, What about someone else's. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>you know they're going to be fair income, pretty faired

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<v Speaker 4>in So anyway, that was how it's how it went,

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<v Speaker 4>and look at it. It made me realize and prior

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<v Speaker 4>to that, to be honest proud of that. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't think I mean a wolf wish. I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>think was such a big deal yelling at the other

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<v Speaker 4>stuff that the owner can get a bit. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>it's bloody raucus at times. You know that's not on

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<v Speaker 4>and that's never going on. But when it was my daughter,

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<v Speaker 4>it made me think about it in a different perspective,

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<v Speaker 4>someone else's. This is someone else's daughter, someone else.

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<v Speaker 5>What every single woman is somebody's wife or daughter or sister.

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<v Speaker 1>So why should it matter if you know that?

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<v Speaker 5>Do you find dad now because you've been thirty forty

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<v Speaker 5>years on the job site, do you see in like

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<v Speaker 5>colleagues and other people, do you see a difference in

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<v Speaker 5>how often it's happening, Because I know for me, obviously

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<v Speaker 5>it happened a lot more when I was younger. But

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if that's just an age thing or

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<v Speaker 5>if it's actually people are moving with the times and

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<v Speaker 5>hopefully developing some level of respect. Do you see it's

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<v Speaker 5>not happening as much.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Absolutely. I can't remember the last time that I

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<v Speaker 4>either heard something that was yelled enough, you know, for

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<v Speaker 4>the person and the woman girl that's amazing, good looking

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<v Speaker 4>women's walking down the street and are working together. I say, gee,

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<v Speaker 4>well look at you. Look. But I haven't heard anybody

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<v Speaker 4>yell or make somebody feel uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, I think that the big lesson in

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<v Speaker 2>this as well is is that, I mean, it's great

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<v Speaker 2>for us to have conversations like this, but it's when

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<v Speaker 2>other men police the behavior that's happening around them that's

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<v Speaker 2>what has the biggest impact. You're a good man, mister,

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<v Speaker 2>you are by the man.

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<v Speaker 5>You are a good man.

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<v Speaker 4>Child.

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<v Speaker 5>I love you. Thanks for protecting me.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, everybody. Over the weekend, I have my big

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<v Speaker 1>birthday bash, my celebration. One of my co host, Laura

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<v Speaker 1>was missing in action.

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<v Speaker 3>God stop it.

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<v Speaker 5>One of them stepped up to the plate and had

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<v Speaker 5>to do a speech.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh boy, you don't know about this, Laura, but grabbed

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<v Speaker 1>the microphone and took over the party. And I'm not surprised.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we'll talk about the truth later.

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<v Speaker 1>I went down at a party after this, on the

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<v Speaker 1>pickup