1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Jum vision with and Amanda. 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 2: Hello, Sarah Fergus, Hello, can you hear us? 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: Oh? I can hear you? And I'm you. You've gone 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: away and I was so enjoying seeing Jonesy and Amanda. 5 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 3: Hi God, Hello, have we disappeared off your screen? That's 6 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 3: a tragedy. 7 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 2: Well you you're back, now we're back. 8 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: Can I Can I firstly say, I know you're recording, 9 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: but can I first say I am so thrilled. 10 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 4: Hello, Jimmy, Jimmy, Jimmy the Millennial. He's walked out, he's. 11 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 5: Joking, he's joking, he's doing our technical things. 12 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 1: Okay, Can I just say and I please record away, 13 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: record away, because I am so thrilled to be talking 14 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,959 Speaker 1: to Jonesy and Amanda. 15 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 3: Oh you lovely? 16 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,319 Speaker 5: Actually, can I begin by saying I was at your 17 00:00:56,400 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 5: wedding of sorts. I was working on a television program 18 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 5: and we were covering the wedding, and I was on 19 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 5: a double decker bus outside the abbey, standing next to 20 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:09,559 Speaker 5: Dame Edna Everage, and all the carriages that came past, 21 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 5: Princess Diana and Charles looked up and waved, and you 22 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 5: came by. 23 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 3: It was the most thrilling day. 24 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: But I mean, I do think it's really cool that 25 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: we're all talking today, don't you. I Mean, I don't 26 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: know what time you guys got up this morning, but 27 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 1: you know what, I think it is cool because we've 28 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: all been around so long, haven't we. I mean, I know, honestly, Amanda, 29 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: you've won every kind of award possible. 30 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 2: You know. 31 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: I just know that it's extraordinary what you've achieved. And 32 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: I've always wanted my own radio show, by the way, 33 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: So if you just want to put it out there 34 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: that you know, I can be for high really I 35 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: can just sort of. 36 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm surprised you haven't been off at one. 37 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 5: You've really you know, you were such a great chatter, 38 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 5: You've got a brilliant story. 39 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 3: You expressed yourself beautifully. 40 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 5: I'm really surprised you haven't been offered one. 41 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: But maybe I can be a contributor. 42 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 2: Yes, it could be a thing. I'd be happy for that. 43 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe maybe a Jonesy and Amanda could could sort 44 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: of beam in to Fergie here in England for the 45 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,519 Speaker 1: monthly sort of British chat type thing. 46 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 2: I like it. 47 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: I like it. I like it. 48 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 4: Can you back announce? John Cougar Mellencamp. If you could 49 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 4: do that, then we. 50 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: Then we're ready or rock set or any of. 51 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 1: A bit seriously. So, in fact, I was just checking 52 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 1: before I came on, because of course I had to 53 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: do what you do, WHI is read the blurb and 54 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 1: does anyone call you Brendan? 55 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Amanda does what I'm in trouble. 56 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: That's true. 57 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:44,519 Speaker 3: And your mother, I think. 58 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 2: My mother she says, oh, Brendan, please, do you have to. 59 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 3: Mean your wife doesn't call you Jonesy. 60 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 2: No, she doesn't. 61 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 4: She calls me, mister Jonesy, you're sexy. 62 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, that will work time now. 63 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 4: But you know what I'm so, you know what, Sarah, 64 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 4: I'm just and I've never read a historical romance before. 65 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 4: My wife loves them, and I've just been tearing through 66 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 4: this and just as prove. 67 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 2: This is where I know it's a bit eager to we. 68 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 4: Only just got it's one of our own things for 69 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 4: a book back. But look, this is where I'm up to. 70 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 4: This is in this is in the space of this morning. 71 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 4: You know, when I got up. 72 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 3: It's a great breed, it really is. 73 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 2: It's and you know, I look at Margaret, the heroin 74 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 2: in the book. But what a time to be. 75 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 4: You've got to be married after and you've become your 76 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 4: mora or less livestock. And I have such sympathy for it, 77 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 4: but I guess that's the way it was. 78 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: Well, if I can help you out, firstly, I apologize producer, 79 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: you didn't get the book, but you know that's not 80 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: my partnership. But I apologize for that because I know 81 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: how annoying it is when you don't get the blurb 82 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: enough time to interview. So I'm going to help you 83 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: out a bit so that it's easier. The point of 84 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: this is that I decided fifteen years ago to write 85 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 1: a novel. Of course, you can fly helicopters, you can 86 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: marry a prince, you can bring up two beautiful girls 87 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: and now a grandma, and I decided, right, that's it, 88 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: I'm going to write a novel. Okay, But then it 89 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: was the pandemic that pushed me into writing this novel 90 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 1: about this very feisty redhead who is very resilient and 91 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: very courageous and y's of course, it's in our family DNA. 92 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 1: So I then decided to research the Ferguson family DNA. 93 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: And when I researched it, would you believe that one 94 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 1: of our I say, oh, because my sister, Jane Ferguson 95 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: is Australian really and I love her and she's I know, 96 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 1: you know her, and she's always been around. And the 97 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: reason why I love Australia so much is I want 98 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 1: to thank the Australian people for giving my sister such 99 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 1: a great life. And I'm really passionate about saying that, 100 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: by the way, but I just want to go back. 101 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: That makes me feel really good to say that thank you. 102 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: But just going back, when I researched all the DNA 103 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: as to why I am this character? Who I am? 104 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 1: What is this person, Sarah that you're talking to? I 105 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 1: realized that actually being a strong redhead is in the 106 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 1: line of the family and the ancestors go back to 107 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: the fifteenth century and it's and I guess Lady Margaret 108 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: was an unspoken voice. Lady Margaret Montaque Douglas Scott is real, Jonesy. 109 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: The lady you're reading about is reel. I fictionized it, 110 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 1: but actually, why was it in eighteen seventy that all 111 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: her brothers were talked about but she wasn't talked about 112 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: because she was a woman, she honestly matters. She had 113 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 1: to go and sew and just sit down and shut 114 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 1: up and marry this boring man she didn't want to marry, 115 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: and she wasn't allowed to have her own voice. Now, 116 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: that's why I find it very interesting because in fact, 117 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 1: her heart for a compass. The book is now about 118 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: modern women right now that need to keep fighting for 119 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: their own voice. So, although it's a miracle, you know, 120 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 1: thank you for reading it as you have. But although 121 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 1: it's historical, how interesting it is that it's quite modern 122 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:13,119 Speaker 1: as well, because it's dealing with all these terrible things 123 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 1: on social media about cyber bullying and trolling and everything else. 124 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 1: But actually it's dealing about Sarah at sixty one who 125 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 1: suddenly found a little bit of her voice. 126 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 5: It's there were many parallels to you. I remember she's 127 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 5: called a lady Margaret is a Titian head beauty who's 128 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 5: a breath of fresh air. When she arrives on a 129 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 5: London scene, this was you, I remember so clearly. 130 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: It was you. 131 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 5: There's a great scene in the book where she has 132 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 5: to curtsey before the Queen. She's had to learn how 133 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 5: to do it. All of these are your life experiences too. 134 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 5: Is that a terrifying moment the first time you have 135 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 5: to do that? 136 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: You know, it's so funny because I remember as a 137 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 1: very young girl, and I by the way, I just 138 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: let my hair out so you can see it's still. 139 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: It really is beautiful. It was it wasn't a penny 140 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: tail because it's anyway, just quickly to say that. My 141 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: mom told us, told my sister Jane and I that 142 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: as she said, remember whenever you meet the Queen, don't 143 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: curtse you near cork don't curts you near furniture because 144 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 1: you might hit a corky. And she's absolutely right, because 145 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: if you think about it, to learn the rules of 146 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: when you walk in and you got to curtsy. You know, 147 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 1: if you're go into near furniture, you're going to fall 148 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: flat on your face, or if you if the dogs 149 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: are there, you're going to trip over a corky. You know, 150 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: you just got to think about everything. And and it 151 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: was Mum who brought us up to really understand the 152 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 1: sort of protocols. And then when I got married to 153 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 1: the wonderful Andrew. You're on the twenty third of July. 154 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Amanda, but you were there, so you know 155 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: what I've of course, you know the day stopped, didn't it. 156 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: The whole nation stops for me for the wedding. And 157 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: there's me coming down the country girl with the guardenias 158 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: in my hair, with the tiara behind the guardeniers, and 159 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: coming back a princess. I mean, I mean, I've lived 160 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: every girl's dream, and at sixty one to say I'm 161 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: so grateful, I don't know really how to thank. I mean, 162 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful for everything that I've done, whether it 163 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 1: be the left road or the right road or the 164 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 1: meanderings of my experiences. But I'm so grateful to be 165 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 1: here today, right now, talking to you. And it's been 166 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 1: in a journey of why I wrote Lady Margaret, because 167 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: thanks to Lady Margaret, I was able during the pandemic 168 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 1: to escape into the novel to and to write how 169 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 1: I felt on that particular day. And James, you'll feel 170 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: that when you read it. Even more is that you'll 171 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: feel my every line is how I felt. How did 172 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,719 Speaker 1: I feel constrained or how did I feel this? Or 173 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 1: was the pandemic affecting me in this way? And why 174 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 1: did I write that chapter? Because of maybe my experiences 175 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 1: during a pandemic. But I put it in eighteen seventy 176 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 1: because and. 177 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 4: There is a lot of reflections there where I think 178 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 4: of you. I know that when you married Andrew, you 179 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 4: truly loved Andrew, You were betrothed to him, and it 180 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 4: wasn't made that you had to marry him. 181 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 2: Were you you? 182 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 1: You? 183 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 4: You weren't like he wasn't like Lord Ponsonby in the book. 184 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 4: But there's also there's also parts where Margaret finds herself 185 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 4: as the subject of the press, which you certainly have 186 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 4: been over the time as well. So it must have 187 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 4: been Was that cathartic to write that or was it, 188 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 4: at the same time a bit triggering. 189 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: Well, firstly, I really appreciate that you that you say that, 190 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: because I believe in nineteen eighty six it was the 191 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 1: greatest moment of my life walking down that are at 192 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 1: Westminster Abby and I had my handsome prince I had 193 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: he's also a sailor, he had a sword. I mean, 194 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: you couldn't write it could fairy tale. And I to 195 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: this day and you've heard me say publicly it was 196 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: the greatest greatest moment of my life. I mean, of 197 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: course everyone says, no surely having the children and surely 198 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 1: knew the No it was because he you know, he 199 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 1: was my you know, I've absolutely totally fell in love. 200 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 1: It was a great love story. And I guess that's 201 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 1: why we're best friends now, you know, we just it 202 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: was just really extraordinary. Now, then what happens is, of 203 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 1: course you then are the breath of fresh air and 204 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: you come into public life, and of course then you know, 205 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 1: the dealing with the press is at that time, during 206 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 1: the eighties, Diana and I had a very very difficult time, 207 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: and I think everybody forgets that we were really good 208 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: press fodder. We were really were. And she was my 209 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 1: best friend from the age of sixteen she was fourteen, 210 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 1: and you know, she was an accepttional woman in my 211 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 1: life and my best friend. And and in fact, she 212 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 1: gave me the material to wear at her wedding that 213 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: she said, go and make it up, you know, into 214 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: a dress. And I think that we never did let 215 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 1: daylight get between us, but everybody wanted to sort of 216 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: make sure that we weren't as strong as we were, 217 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: and we always were. And I think that's why it's 218 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: so beautiful to remember her like we do. And of 219 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 1: course I miss her tinkling laughter because she was so 220 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: so funny. But I think about her every day because 221 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: she's the only other woman in the world that can 222 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 1: know what it was. So yes, and then the press. 223 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: Then you take the press in the eighties, which was 224 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,680 Speaker 1: just coming out as attacking or whatever else. So there's 225 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 1: always there's always I mean J. M. Barry wrote it 226 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: when he wrote about sewing the shadow onto Peter Pan's foot. 227 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: You know, the shadow is always with us, so there's 228 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,079 Speaker 1: always got to be one. But like Rambo, you always 229 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: got to be It's always the negative and then the positive. 230 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: You know, otherwise doesn't work. You can't see the light 231 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 1: without the shadow. And I think you now take social 232 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: media today in the cyber bullying, the trolling and the 233 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: anonymous trolling and all this horrible stuff, and oh my goodness, 234 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: can you imagine. You know, it's so hard, and I 235 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: think that, yes, it was very hard. Then I think 236 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: it's the most important thing we can do right now 237 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: is keep our own truth. So anyone who's listening, you 238 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: have to keep your voice and don't let anyone take 239 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: your voice. I think my voice is stronger now because 240 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:42,439 Speaker 1: of Lady Margaret, and I have vicariously lived through Lady Margaret. 241 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 3: Yes, you must be a very strong role model for 242 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 3: your girls. Is this what you tell. 243 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 5: Them as they make they navigate their way through social media? 244 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:53,599 Speaker 3: Are these the lessons you want them to know too. 245 00:12:55,960 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: Amanda, That's a very interesting question, because I even today, 246 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: if I may give an example, is my youngest rang 247 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: me up and had a few sort of as I 248 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: call them, pooh traps, because if you read, Amil, when 249 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: Piglet is always putting traps up for Piglet to trip into. 250 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:18,599 Speaker 1: And if you think about life, you know, yes, you 251 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 1: can make it huge, or you can or you can 252 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: really see the shadow of the mind. And so she 253 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: rang up with a few Pooh traps. Piglet set a 254 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 1: few Pooh traps, and and I said, hm, hmmm. Put 255 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 1: put the shadow in the back of the car, not 256 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: in the front of the car. You're driving the car. 257 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 1: You can choose to be enjoy. But put put that 258 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:44,680 Speaker 1: that self doubting, little naughty voice in the back behind you, please, 259 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 1: and it'll always be there because as we said with 260 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 1: Peter Pan, but but you drive the car, you choose 261 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: to be enjoy, you choose to see the sun in 262 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: the trees or you choose whatever you want to choose. 263 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 1: But that noise that voices blah blah. 264 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 4: And in reading the book, it seems to me like 265 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 4: eighteen sixty five being a royal to now being a royal, 266 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 4: not much has changed. 267 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 2: It's it's it's hard. 268 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: I don't think it's just about royal life, Jones. I 269 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 1: think it's about people in public life. I think people 270 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 1: on a platform have a duty and whether it be 271 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 1: a beautiful voice and you like, I always remember Fergie 272 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 1: from you know, when I am and Fergie the other 273 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 1: wise and the other when I am said when I 274 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: am said on an aeroplane. Once he went, oh my gosh, 275 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: there's the real Fergus, and I said, anyway, But I 276 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 1: always remember she brought out an album called Duchess with 277 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: a T in it, right from Duchess County, and so 278 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: I rang her up and I said, no, no, no, no, no, 279 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 1: no no no. It may have a T in it, 280 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: it may be Duchess County, but no, no, no, no no. 281 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: You're Fergie and I'm Faggy and I'm a Duchess. But 282 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 1: you can't use that on your album cover. So I'll 283 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 1: tell you what in payment you have to sing at 284 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 1: a concert for me and we'll raise a lot of 285 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: money for funds for education of children globally. Will you 286 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 1: do it? And we raised a million dollars and she 287 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: sang and she said because my mother was a teacher 288 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: and my mother would love it if I raised money 289 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: with my voice to help children globally. And that is 290 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: using your platform to do good. And I think that 291 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: is really fascinating. Really hands up to a Fergie for 292 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: doing that, because I was a bit geeky to ring 293 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: her up, but I thought why not, you know, and 294 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: it was a great, great story. So going back to 295 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 1: your question, Joseie, Yes, I think if you are putting 296 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 1: on a public stage, whether it's because you've got a 297 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 1: beautiful voice or a great actor or it's not that 298 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 1: it's not you have to, but if you do do it, 299 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 1: what a great blessing you can give. You can do 300 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: a lot with being on the on the public platform. 301 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 4: Well, and you certainly know the public platform better than anyone, 302 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 4: but you must there must be times when you get 303 00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 4: calls from journalists or whenever you do an interview you 304 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 4: just think, oh God, what are they going to throw 305 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 4: at me here? 306 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 2: And we're not those sort of people that will throw. 307 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 4: Anything at you, but you know it must be you 308 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 4: must sort of think, oh, I can't deal with this. 309 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 4: Do you ever feel that you just want to hide 310 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 4: away and just you know, disappear. 311 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: I did, gensy, I did. I did. I did for 312 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: many years, and I did have to really seek help 313 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: for you know, when when some of the headlines were 314 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 1: pretty cruel about my weight. You know, I had to 315 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: really seek help and it was really hard, and you know, 316 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 1: but I've come back from it. And so now it's 317 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 1: sixty one to have a first time novel and to 318 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 1: be able to talk very vocally, and if you ask 319 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 1: me any question I would I wouldn't say no. I 320 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: would simply say, you know what, that's so kind of 321 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: you to ask. And I understand you have to ask 322 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 1: that question, but would you be kind enough to let 323 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 1: me talk about the novel? So it's the way you 324 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 1: do it, and so now I can do that with 325 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 1: the confidence to do that. In the past, I didn't, 326 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:25,919 Speaker 1: So I got frightened and I went into fear. And 327 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:28,160 Speaker 1: when you go into fia, then you sort of shut away, 328 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 1: which is easy to do. You know, you hibernate away 329 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 1: because you don't want to. You don't want to be 330 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 1: hurt anymore. 331 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 5: But I think the whole world is turning, isn't it. 332 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 5: We even saw someone Biles at the Olympics. The whole 333 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 5: world is much more aware of bullying, of public shaming 334 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 5: and giving. And you are so clever to use your 335 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 5: platform to say I've survived this. I saw Monica Lewinsky 336 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 5: recently talk and she said, I've survived this. As you say, 337 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 5: get in the back of the car. I'm driving the 338 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 5: car here. I think they're very powerful messages. 339 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 1: Well, yes, Amana, I do. And Simona bas Is a 340 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 1: really good example because then went on to win the bronze. 341 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 1: You know, good for her, good for her, bless her, 342 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 1: you know. 343 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 3: The strength that would have taken. That's right, yes. 344 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: And then I liked also the Katari Basherom who then said, look, 345 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 1: we both jumped to thirty seven in the high jumped 346 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 1: and listen, let's do we want to go on and 347 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:28,439 Speaker 1: on and on? Or why don't we hug mister very 348 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: good looking Italian tam Berry And why don't we hug 349 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: and share the girl together? Isn't that the spirit of collaboration? 350 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 1: Isn't that what we really should be about. So yes, 351 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 1: one hundred percent agree with you, and I think it's 352 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: with you talking to you right now. I'm completely with you. 353 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 1: I'm completely respecting you. I know, Jonesy, I know man, 354 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 1: I've read about you, I've researched you before coming on 355 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 1: because that you are owed that respect. And I believe 356 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:00,960 Speaker 1: that in life, it doesn't matter where you're from, no race, creek, color, 357 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:05,399 Speaker 1: or any other denomination. You don't have to judge another 358 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: to feel better in yourself, just own it. 359 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:12,360 Speaker 5: Tell you what I wish this pandemic wasn't here, because 360 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,479 Speaker 5: I would love you to come to Australia right now 361 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 5: and we have dinner together. 362 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 3: It would be brilliant. I just think you're wonderful. 363 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 1: Well, good news for you is I've decided to spend 364 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: a lot of time in Australia and I've decided to 365 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 1: as soon as the pandemic is clear and we can come. 366 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 1: So I think it'd be really cool that you know 367 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:37,159 Speaker 1: that we spend time together and we have a lovely dinner, 368 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,639 Speaker 1: but also we do things together. You know you can. 369 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 1: I sort of really want to shout out for First Nation, 370 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 1: and I really want I've got a children's book coming 371 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 1: out in September called Charlie Blue and Larry that the Lamppost, 372 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: which is about the adventures of a little boy that 373 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 1: actually is indigenous and his first nation and he goes 374 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: with his dog into the stars and the skies at night. 375 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:03,919 Speaker 1: So we could bring that together and we could go 376 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 1: and research and have fun together. 377 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 2: I love that. 378 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:07,000 Speaker 1: I love that. 379 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 3: There's a great connection. 380 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 4: There's always a space for you here. You know, Jonesy 381 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 4: and Mike, Amanda Mike. There's a Fergie Mike in there 382 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 4: as well. 383 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 1: But Jones, could you can you get my name put 384 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 1: on them. 385 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 3: We're going to get our people to work on it now. 386 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 2: People are working on it. And as I read, as 387 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:28,479 Speaker 2: I read this book, where's the sex scene? Where will that? 388 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:29,920 Speaker 2: Where's that coming up? Is that? 389 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 1: Why don't we leave it to your imagination? 390 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 2: Yes? 391 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 3: Yes, I read a lot. 392 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 1: And I'm not saying I'm not saying because you've got 393 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: to finish book. I'm not saying it's in there or 394 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 1: not in there. This I deliberately want you to use 395 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: your mind and your brain and to really look at 396 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 1: and lift the part rather than giving it to you 397 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 1: on a plate. 398 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 399 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 4: Well, I read a lot of books, Sarah, and I'm 400 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,639 Speaker 4: seven chapters in and I started reading this this morning, 401 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 4: so it's. 402 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 3: A it's a it's a. 403 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 2: Really Sarah, congratulations. It's great. 404 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 4: You can buy the book brand new book Her Heart 405 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 4: for a Compass in all Good bookstores right now. 406 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 2: Sarah Ferguson, it has been such a treat to have. 407 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 1: You loved it. 408 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 409 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 1: No, I mean and and please say best wishes to 410 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 1: your wife, Yes, and Amanda. I'm really really proud to 411 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 1: talk to you, and congratulations on all your amazing achieve. 412 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 5: Obviously you're wonderful and I'll hold you to that when 413 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:37,680 Speaker 5: you come to Australia. 414 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 3: Thank you so. 415 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 1: Much, Thank you so much for the time. Tonight's