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Speaker 2: Kathy has caught up with the predicament by Kathy.
Speaker 4: Hi, Hey, you going?
Speaker 1: What's there?
Speaker 5: What's the issue we can help you with?
Speaker 4: Kathy, I just had a dating as a younger man
Speaker 4: twenty five.
Speaker 2: Years my ju young girl twenty five years.
Speaker 4: It's just, you know, there's so much opposition to us
Speaker 4: dating from family, and you know, should I continue to
Speaker 4: go down that path?
Speaker 5: Okay? So you're sixty one, here's thirty seven. How long
Speaker 5: have you been dating? And how serious is it?
Speaker 4: Well it's just started ten.
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: And how your kids do the same age?
Speaker 4: Is that?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Very close to the same.
Speaker 2: Mate. When you say your kids have a problem with it,
Speaker 2: I mean they're adults. We're talking thirty seven We're not
Speaker 2: talking twenty two, We're not talking seventeen. We're talking thirty
Speaker 2: seven years old. Yeah, And what has their response been,
Speaker 2: like you say that they're annoyed by it. Have they said,
Speaker 2: you know, if you're going to date him, we're not
Speaker 2: going to speak to you anymore. Or are they just
Speaker 2: unhappy with the situation.
Speaker 4: I'm just unhappy with the situation. And it's across the board.
Speaker 4: It's both sides of the family.
Speaker 1: I can see that, to be honest. I mean, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't want my mum to be dating someone the same
Speaker 1: age as me, even if I'm thirty, forty or fifty.
Speaker 1: The fact that they're the same age is what gives me.
Speaker 1: I think it's fine. I think this is beautiful and
Speaker 1: you can have your love, but it is weird.
Speaker 5: You live your best life. I am here for this.
Speaker 5: I am your cheer girl. I reckon. There is absolutely
Speaker 5: nothing wrong with this. Actually, to the point that I
Speaker 5: just did some due diligence. So I've done a little
Speaker 5: bit of googling to make you feel better. R Paulsen
Speaker 5: and holand Taylor thirty one years difference. Heidi Klum and
Speaker 5: Tom call it sixteen years. Aaron Taylor Johnson Sam Taylor
Speaker 5: twenty three years, all successful, loving relationship, all billionaires as well.
Speaker 2: I though, no, people usually have more of an issue
Speaker 2: when the woman is older than this and the man.
Speaker 2: But like, I just keep coming back. I understand why
Speaker 2: your kids are a bit like, oh, mom, really, But
Speaker 2: if they're not turning around and saying like, we're never
Speaker 2: gonna speak to you again, they're gonna get over it. Eventually,
Speaker 2: They'll get over it at the end.
Speaker 4: Of the day.
Speaker 5: I would want to see my parents happy at the
Speaker 5: end of the day, like if they're If my mom
Speaker 5: had come to me and said, look, I'm dating someone
Speaker 5: you went to school with, I'd be like, weird, flex mum.
Speaker 5: But but if you are that happy, we live one
Speaker 5: life and love doesn't come easily. So if you have
Speaker 5: found it and you think it's genuine and you think
Speaker 5: it's real, I salute that.
Speaker 1: Okay, hold on, Kathy, is this a Is this a trend?
Speaker 1: Have you only ever dated a younger man? Or is
Speaker 1: this your first ever time snatching from a cradle?
Speaker 4: No? Oh, yes, there's always been younger than always been younger.
Speaker 2: Okay, is this the most considerable age gap? Like this
Speaker 2: the biggest age gap you've gone.
Speaker 4: For probably not.
Speaker 2: Oh, Kathy, you've.
Speaker 5: Got bigger Kathy?
Speaker 3: How big?
Speaker 1: How big?
Speaker 4: I had many many twenty one year old twenty something?
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, I'm glad that he is thirty seven. No,
Speaker 2: I think twenty one's a bit young. But look, thirty
Speaker 2: seven adults though they can send him, I know, but
Speaker 2: but thirty seven, you live to twenties. You are an adult.
Speaker 2: You can make decisions for yourself. Like, he's not a kid.
Speaker 2: He's well and truly on his way to forty. I
Speaker 2: think it's fun.
Speaker 1: I love this, Kathy. I want a reality show, Kathy
Speaker 1: and Kathy and the Boys in the Cradle. The Cradle
Speaker 1: O Kathy, Well, woman, go live your best life. I say,
Speaker 1: I've changed completely.
Speaker 3: Yeah, enjoy yourself, Kathy.
Speaker 5: Lock that shit down.
Speaker 1: Oh no, worries. I think that was the first ever
Speaker 1: Unana ask and cut advice.
Speaker 2: We've never get it.
Speaker 5: I get the where the kids her kids, sorr. I
Speaker 5: feel a bit weired it out by it because their
Speaker 5: dad could be younger than them, essentially, so like when
Speaker 5: your dad's stepdad's younger than you. It could be problematic,
Speaker 5: but at the end of the day, we all live
Speaker 5: we're all going to die. Let's just have fun along
Speaker 5: the way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, look unanimously weird but fine.
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