WEBVTT - MINI! She has a 25 YEAR age gap with her partner 💅

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<v Speaker 1>Skirls Shall we do it? Shall we do some advice?

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<v Speaker 2>Bring it?

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<v Speaker 1>Every Thursday?

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<v Speaker 3>Let's go ask So ask gunkat is where we answer

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<v Speaker 3>all your deep you're dark and you're burning questions and

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<v Speaker 3>we have a good one today.

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<v Speaker 2>Kathy has caught up with the predicament by Kathy.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, Hey, you going?

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<v Speaker 1>What's there?

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<v Speaker 5>What's the issue we can help you with?

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<v Speaker 4>Kathy, I just had a dating as a younger man

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<v Speaker 4>twenty five.

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<v Speaker 2>Years my ju young girl twenty five years.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just, you know, there's so much opposition to us

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<v Speaker 4>dating from family, and you know, should I continue to

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<v Speaker 4>go down that path?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay? So you're sixty one, here's thirty seven. How long

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<v Speaker 5>have you been dating? And how serious is it?

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<v Speaker 4>Well it's just started ten.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>And how your kids do the same age?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Very close to the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Mate. When you say your kids have a problem with it,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean they're adults. We're talking thirty seven We're not

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<v Speaker 2>talking twenty two, We're not talking seventeen. We're talking thirty

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<v Speaker 2>seven years old. Yeah, And what has their response been,

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<v Speaker 2>like you say that they're annoyed by it. Have they said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, if you're going to date him, we're not

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<v Speaker 2>going to speak to you anymore. Or are they just

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<v Speaker 2>unhappy with the situation.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just unhappy with the situation. And it's across the board.

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<v Speaker 4>It's both sides of the family.

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<v Speaker 1>I can see that, to be honest. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't want my mum to be dating someone the same

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<v Speaker 1>age as me, even if I'm thirty, forty or fifty.

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<v Speaker 1>The fact that they're the same age is what gives me.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's fine. I think this is beautiful and

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<v Speaker 1>you can have your love, but it is weird.

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<v Speaker 5>You live your best life. I am here for this.

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<v Speaker 5>I am your cheer girl. I reckon. There is absolutely

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<v Speaker 5>nothing wrong with this. Actually, to the point that I

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<v Speaker 5>just did some due diligence. So I've done a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit of googling to make you feel better. R Paulsen

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<v Speaker 5>and holand Taylor thirty one years difference. Heidi Klum and

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<v Speaker 5>Tom call it sixteen years. Aaron Taylor Johnson Sam Taylor

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<v Speaker 5>twenty three years, all successful, loving relationship, all billionaires as well.

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<v Speaker 2>I though, no, people usually have more of an issue

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<v Speaker 2>when the woman is older than this and the man.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, I just keep coming back. I understand why

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<v Speaker 2>your kids are a bit like, oh, mom, really, But

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<v Speaker 2>if they're not turning around and saying like, we're never

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<v Speaker 2>gonna speak to you again, they're gonna get over it. Eventually,

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<v Speaker 2>They'll get over it at the end.

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<v Speaker 4>Of the day.

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<v Speaker 5>I would want to see my parents happy at the

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<v Speaker 5>end of the day, like if they're If my mom

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<v Speaker 5>had come to me and said, look, I'm dating someone

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<v Speaker 5>you went to school with, I'd be like, weird, flex mum.

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<v Speaker 5>But but if you are that happy, we live one

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<v Speaker 5>life and love doesn't come easily. So if you have

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<v Speaker 5>found it and you think it's genuine and you think

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<v Speaker 5>it's real, I salute that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, hold on, Kathy, is this a Is this a trend?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you only ever dated a younger man? Or is

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<v Speaker 1>this your first ever time snatching from a cradle?

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<v Speaker 4>No? Oh, yes, there's always been younger than always been younger.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, is this the most considerable age gap? Like this

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<v Speaker 2>the biggest age gap you've gone.

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<v Speaker 4>For probably not.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, Kathy, you've.

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<v Speaker 5>Got bigger Kathy?

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<v Speaker 3>How big?

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<v Speaker 1>How big?

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<v Speaker 4>I had many many twenty one year old twenty something?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, okay, I'm glad that he is thirty seven. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I think twenty one's a bit young. But look, thirty

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<v Speaker 2>seven adults though they can send him, I know, but

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<v Speaker 2>but thirty seven, you live to twenties. You are an adult.

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<v Speaker 2>You can make decisions for yourself. Like, he's not a kid.

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<v Speaker 2>He's well and truly on his way to forty. I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I love this, Kathy. I want a reality show, Kathy

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<v Speaker 1>and Kathy and the Boys in the Cradle. The Cradle

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<v Speaker 1>O Kathy, Well, woman, go live your best life. I say,

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<v Speaker 1>I've changed completely.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, enjoy yourself, Kathy.

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<v Speaker 5>Lock that shit down.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, worries. I think that was the first ever

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<v Speaker 1>Unana ask and cut advice.

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<v Speaker 2>We've never get it.

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<v Speaker 5>I get the where the kids her kids, sorr. I

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<v Speaker 5>feel a bit weired it out by it because their

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<v Speaker 5>dad could be younger than them, essentially, so like when

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<v Speaker 5>your dad's stepdad's younger than you. It could be problematic,

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<v Speaker 5>but at the end of the day, we all live

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<v Speaker 5>we're all going to die. Let's just have fun along

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<v Speaker 5>the way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, look unanimously weird but fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah agreed. If you want advice to the pick up

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<v Speaker 1>where it's get you on, get some great advice like that. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>standing by on zoom. Look he's just popped up, Jason.

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<v Speaker 1>Jason will be one set. Yeah, he's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>is in all that is a triple threat? Isn't he

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<v Speaker 1>him dancing on that?

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<v Speaker 5>His abs is very quadruple threat? Those abs are threats?

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<v Speaker 1>How can I out with those things? Jason Derrillo standing

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<v Speaker 1>by and he's on the pickup with us next