WEBVTT - FULL: It's The Polite Kidnapper 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.960 Hello. This is Christian here from his favorite arm chair 0:00:04.160 --> 0:00:06.720 in his house. Do you have a favorite chair? I 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:09.119 think we all do. This is my favorite chair right now. 0:00:09.920 --> 0:00:14.440 I wrote children books sometimes from this chair. I wrote 0:00:14.480 --> 0:00:16.680 some of No one listens to your Dad's show anyway. 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:19.599 I just want to take this moment to say thank you. 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:23.680 The show you're about to hear is the last Breakfast 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:27.000 show for about two weeks. Me, Jack and Patsy's are 0:00:27.040 --> 0:00:30.480 on a little break right now arrest and I'm really 0:00:30.480 --> 0:00:33.160 looking forward to it and looking forward to getting back 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:35.640 because we've got some cool stuff when we come back. 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:39.680 Sorry one of those youth team leaders. Yeah, hey, guys, 0:00:39.800 --> 0:00:42.879 you want some cool stuff, but it is. It's really exciting. 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:46.240 What about the Olympics? And then who's calling? Christian coming 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:48.960 back as well for the third time, which is insane 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:50.960 when originally when I moved to Australia, I wasn't sure 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:51.760 I was ever going to do. 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:53.000 It, but we are. 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:56.840 But anyway, before we head off into a little break, 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:58.720 I just want to say thank you so much for 0:00:58.760 --> 0:01:02.400 all your emails, just listening to it. Wherever this finds 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:04.480 you in the world, and however you are right now, 0:01:05.000 --> 0:01:07.840 just knowing you're there and that you care about what 0:01:07.880 --> 0:01:11.720 we do and you enjoy it means the world. Thank 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:17.160 you for buying my book and most importantly the emails 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:20.920 you sent about what it's got you thinking about your 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:21.759 stories as well. 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:23.200 I have just loved that. 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:25.280 I didn't know that was going to happen. I had 0:01:25.400 --> 0:01:29.520 no idea, and the last three and a bit weeks 0:01:30.040 --> 0:01:33.760 since it came out have been just life changing for me. 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:37.480 I think I'm going to do something, a podcast or 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:42.039 something involving whatever's come out of the book. I don't 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:43.959 know what it is yet. Maybe I'll find it while 0:01:43.959 --> 0:01:46.319 I'm away on holiday, but i am I'm going to 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:50.520 stay wherever I'm wherever I've stumbled into. But thanks so 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:54.160 much all those emails. I love every single one of them. 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:56.640 They mean the world to me. Thank you very much 0:01:56.680 --> 0:02:00.160 for the love that you're showing Jack as well. Two 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:03.520 days ago, Wow, man, did you hear that twenty second 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:07.320 of June? What he did, what he managed to find 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:09.680 his way to talk about when he was in so 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:14.000 much pain about his friend. I never been proud of Jack. 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:17.720 Jack's a really really, really really funny guy, very clever, 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:19.800 funny guy, and I love working with him, but that 0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:24.359 was something else. And then Matthew, Wow, Matthew a week ago, 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:27.320 the dad who called in telling us about how he 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:31.079 was struggling because his daughter was struggling. And then three 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:33.799 weeks ago me talking about my struggles that I'd never 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:38.360 ever talked about, of anxiety and panic attacks. So it's 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:42.520 been since the start of the show this year, an amazing, 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:46.240 an amazing ride. That's what it is, a ride. And 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:49.600 thank you for being along the way with us and 0:02:49.680 --> 0:02:51.920 always been there. I hope you're well. I hope the 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:54.640 show brings you as much joy as it does to 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:56.840 us making it and having it in our lives. I 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:59.320 really do so. I don't know really anything else to 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:02.520 say other than those two words, thank you. That's all 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:04.600 I really can say. I wish there are more words 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:09.359 about gratitude. Sometimes our language, which is wonderful, is limited, 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:11.880 isn't it the vocal? But it's limited. I need more 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:14.480 words to actually try and prove to you how grateful 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:18.160 I am. But I am. The mere fact that I'm 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:21.160 not saying this in my radio studio, that I actually 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:24.000 want to do it from my comfortable chair feels like 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:27.480 I'm inviting you into my comfortable space. That's how grateful 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.760 I am. So take care. I hope finds you are 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:33.440 as always. You know my email Christian at Christian O'Connell 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:37.480 dot com dot au his Friday show, Take Care, speak 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:41.280 to you live very very soon. Bye bye from my 0:03:41.440 --> 0:03:46.200 chair to wherever you listen to me. It really is 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:49.120 an amazing chair. Even just looking around me at some 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:49.760 of these books in. 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:52.520 Here that I've got, Yeah, I was just rid. 0:03:52.600 --> 0:03:56.160 I was not my favorite notepad and my favorite notepad 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:58.600 Jesus taking ages as intro in it. I podcasts that 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:02.280 have got long intros. Anyway, I told you I need 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:03.760 a break. Bye bye. 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:20.960 A Christian A Connall Show podcast, The Rainbow of Fries, 0:04:21.560 --> 0:04:24.640 some more Sessions on the Couch, The Christian No Connall 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:27.080 Show on Gold one four point three. 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:30.000 Good morning. The atmosphere this morning from Jack and Pats 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:32.919 will be electric. I tell you why they don't have 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:35.320 to be in a studio with me for two whole weeks. 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:37.840 You're really excited about a break as well. We love 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:40.960 doing the show, but everybody loves the holidays. 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:43.280 And I tell you I'm super excited. I hope I 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:46.480 don't resent these words, right because obviously COVID can come 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:49.680 along and shut us down in my but we're all 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:52.240 going well. Me and my family are getting on a 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:55.039 plane next Thursday. We're going to Queensland. We're going to 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:56.760 an island. 0:04:57.600 --> 0:05:02.600 Specific, Hayman, it's one of them. 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:08.280 It isn't a mystery holiday. I just I just I 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:11.400 just don't want to get excited until I'm actually at 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:12.680 checking into our hotel. 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:14.479 You don't want to tell the people in case the 0:05:14.520 --> 0:05:16.920 people of Melbourne start following Beatlemania. 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:19.400 Certainly we're a great big convoy going up. 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:22.560 But yeah, but you've had terrible luck with the past. 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:25.440 Three three times, and everyone's got a story like that 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:27.839 about being shut down. But I really hope me and 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:30.600 the family can go away and fly away and go 0:05:30.680 --> 0:05:32.880 on holiday. I love it. It's got so much here, 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:34.720 but I am looking forward to it. You're off to 0:05:34.800 --> 0:05:35.720 the bush today. 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:38.600 Yeah, And I thought regional Victoria is the safest way 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:40.600 to know that we can at least go and come 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:41.440 back well and try. 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:43.960 If we can't go to Queensland, you might get knocking 0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:47.800 at all. We'll all be there next Thursday. Okay, and Patsy, 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:48.400 what are you doing. 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:51.680 We're doing some staycations around Melbourne but this weekend we're 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:54.960 going glamping. The last want to do that has taken 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:58.200 control of organizing my week because it's my birthday this weekend. 0:05:58.440 --> 0:05:59.839 I hope you've both organized. 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:01.920 Oh yeah, I've got you a gift, lovely. 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:06.479 It's this week. Yes, I thought it's four weekends time. 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:10.159 Anyway, we're going glamping. But I hope he understands the 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:14.320 difference between camping and glamping because there's a big difference 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:14.960 with packing. 0:06:15.160 --> 0:06:17.760 Do I pack a hair dryer for glamping or dry 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:18.839 shampoo for camping. 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:21.960 It's a big decision and it weighs on his show. 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:25.040 I think even in glamping you don't have power points, 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:26.400 hair dry. 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:28.000 Power isn't there? 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:31.200 Well, I think it's just like a really nice tent, 0:06:31.279 --> 0:06:32.159 comfortable tent. 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:35.560 Multi socket point and stuff like that for your GHD 0:06:35.680 --> 0:06:38.760 air stream. Going is getting a spirit? How long came? 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:40.960 Do you? Do you feel about Chris organizing everything? 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:43.320 Very I'm very uneasy about it. 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:46.120 I bet Chris is this part. I think I've got everything. 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:48.880 I hope we've got the sockets, the power, the generator. 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:50.920 All right, Patsy, let's get into double thumbs up. What's 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:51.719 it for you this week? 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:55.000 Yes, speaking of tripping around. We are spending our holiday 0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:57.560 school holidays within Victoria, which is great now we've got 0:06:57.560 --> 0:06:59.719 a bit more freedom. There's a few things that we're 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:02.599 re visiting which some local families might like to get to. 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:06.920 One is Sovereign Hill and their winter wonder Lights that 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:10.000 starts again this weekend. They couldn't do it last year 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:12.840 because if COVID, so it is back better and is 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:13.160 it good? 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:14.400 It's brilliant. 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:16.360 So I think about our first six months here and 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:17.160 we love that. It's great. 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:20.080 Yes, and Audrey's studying colonial history at school, so this 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:21.640 year I think she'll really appreciate it. 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:23.520 I remember that, does she have the Colonial day where 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:26.240 you have to dress in that funny hat and the 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:27.160 overalls and stuff. 0:07:27.160 --> 0:07:28.280 No, I hope we don't have that. 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:31.280 But it's great because if you're not sure of what 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:33.160 they do, they project all these beautiful lights on the 0:07:33.160 --> 0:07:36.160 buildings at night. They have fake snow, and they have 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:40.400 mine not for the kids, and hot marshmallow. 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:44.600 I would some of this delicious warm booths. 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:46.440 That's if you're about to give it away for free 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:49.760 on its not for kids. 0:07:49.720 --> 0:07:51.960 Anyway, that's fun. You can go online to their website 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:53.960 and book tickets. The other is the winter Village in 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:57.040 fed Square that we're going to do. They've got ice 0:07:57.080 --> 0:07:59.640 skating and igloos. If you've walked past there you would 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:01.960 have seen them. These igloos you can book out and 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:04.720 have hot drinks and they're all decked out with rugs 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:07.280 and stuff. It looks really cool. So I'm excited about 0:08:07.280 --> 0:08:09.360 the ice skating. They've got those things luckily that you 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:10.000 can hold onto. 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:12.600 Oh right, yeah, that little penguin thing so you don't 0:08:12.640 --> 0:08:13.040 fall over. 0:08:13.400 --> 0:08:13.600 You know. 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:15.920 Those I don't know, so I think like an old 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:18.280 person would have around the stroller like a zimmer frame 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:22.600 grown ups and children. I've had to use it. 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:25.240 And this week quickly I've been back at Camart. Couldn't 0:08:25.240 --> 0:08:26.920 wait to get back in the news. 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:28.240 They must have missed you. 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:31.160 The world has returned to normally, and they've got this 0:08:31.280 --> 0:08:34.800 fantastic range of jeans, their own jeans and Coo jeans, 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:37.640 and it was like being teleported back to the eighties. 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:42.000 These yolk jeans like eighties styles what that means. Yolk 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:43.760 jeans were like yokels. 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:45.160 No no, no, they. 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:52.360 Had rangers around here. 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:54.280 They're got like a. 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:57.160 Fitted waist and then they sort of balloon out very eighties. 0:08:57.200 --> 0:08:58.360 Anyway, they're twenty bucks. 0:08:58.440 --> 0:08:59.880 I couldn't they've been in there, so it's no. 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:04.720 Check it out. 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:08.440 It's all this eighty stuff. It's like going back to future. 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:12.080 The Christian O'Connell Show podcast. 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:13.800 As always, everything we talk about East Friday you can 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:16.720 find out in the details on our show Facebook page 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:19.040 Christian O'Connell Show, Jackie Boy, what is it for you 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:20.040 getting the double thumbs up? 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:22.240 Because we're out of lockdown at the moment. I'm back 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:25.000 in the gym again and I find with Frank, my 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:27.840 great pet, who I love and speak about often on 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:31.280 the show. There's always a bit of time between exercises 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:32.120 where we have to just. 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:35.720 Keep magic happens so many and women who have a 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:39.040 trainer it's fascinating, right, It's like they've become like a 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:41.880 very close friend of yours. It's all in between the 0:09:41.920 --> 0:09:44.400 exodes when you're just chatting in quite an intimate way. 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:46.640 Well, you know, mum's going to Frank now as well, 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:51.120 and she actually treats him as a therapist. Yeah, Frank 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:53.320 knows more about my mum and dad's relationship than I 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:53.839 ever need. 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:57.600 I love that. That's great and so what there's always 0:09:57.679 --> 0:10:00.560 trying to be a next stage to you, your trainer? 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:02.319 What is you? Are you and Frank going on a 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:02.800 date yet? 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:04.800 Well, we went to the comedy festival together. That was 0:10:04.800 --> 0:10:08.240 the first time that we ever met outside of a gym. 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:13.560 Now we're thinking, we're thinking Bianca and I suggesting a 0:10:13.559 --> 0:10:15.560 weekend away with the two couples. 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:20.960 Oh wow, weekend aways with other couples. It's really hard. 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:24.040 Even with best friends, you spend too much time with 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:26.320 them and then you find out too much about you know, 0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:27.960 what areas that you don't like about? 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:29.199 What about a day trip? 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:30.440 Better? 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:33.200 Better, safer? See how the day trip goes? Don't go 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:34.800 all in. It's too much either way. 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:36.520 This is where my double thumbs up. He's coming to. 0:10:36.679 --> 0:10:40.840 Frank loves his non fiction science. He type books a 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:43.640 lot of books about how it gets stronger and be fitter, 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:45.160 and he's never read. 0:10:45.040 --> 0:10:47.400 How much stronger does he want to get? Well? 0:10:47.400 --> 0:10:51.240 He wants to be one of Australia's top ten powerlifters. Wow, 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:54.120 he's hurrying around number twelve at the moment. He's never 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:56.959 read fiction. And he said, if you were to. 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:59.600 Work out scenes and Charles Dickens muck yeah. 0:11:00.280 --> 0:11:03.280 He said, if you would recommend any fiction book, So 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:05.520 I got to start somewhere. What would you recommend? And 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:07.720 he said, what's your favorite fiction book? Which is a 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:12.520 tough question to answer, but always I answer this question 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:16.360 with the book Child forty four, which I read three 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:19.200 years ago. I actually remember, just as we were starting 0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:21.199 this show, I read that book and I actually it's 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:24.920 a brilliant It's so good, and I had the distinct 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.360 memory at the end of it of going, that is 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:31.199 the best book I think I've ever read. Child forty four. 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:33.760 So I'm recommending it to anybody who doesn't get into 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:36.240 fiction and he's looking for their first way in Child 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:39.800 forty four by Tom rob Smith is the author's name. 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:42.360 If you're looking rather one, So Frankie boy, yep. You've 0:11:42.360 --> 0:11:44.840 probably seen the movie Fight Club. The book came from 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:48.680 by an amazing writer, Chuck Palahunic. He is an incredible writer. 0:11:48.800 --> 0:11:51.520 The book. It doesn't seen the movie. The book actually 0:11:51.600 --> 0:11:56.000 is even better. It's such a great book, and he's 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:58.480 such a great writer. Chaplain And I actually bought Jack 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:01.240 his book about writing, which was a constant, like best friend. 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:02.760 It was like a personal trained to me. Last year 0:12:03.040 --> 0:12:05.000 when I was writing the book. He's a brilliant writer. 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:08.360 But Fight Club, Frank like that. It's rip guys fighting. 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:10.400 It's a good start to entry book. 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:11.480 He loves his UFC. 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:12.200 Right, Okay. 0:12:13.760 --> 0:12:15.520 It's hard to read a book that you've seen the 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:17.880 movie of though, because you know, I know, because. 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:19.680 You think you can't help but think about Ed Norton 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:22.440 and that. But you'll get into their world. It's slightly different. 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:26.320 That's great. Also, the best book about men there will 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:29.520 ever be, hands down, High Fidelity by Nick. Yeah, that's 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:33.200 a great start there. It's funny, it's honest. Yes, it's 0:12:33.240 --> 0:12:36.319 really really good. That and then one of the funniest 0:12:36.320 --> 0:12:38.240 books ever, Confederacy of Dancers. 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:40.640 Yes, you've gifted that to me, which I haven't read. 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:42.439 Oh you sure you'd love it. It's an incredibook. That 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:43.319 would Those would be my. 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:48.559 Three Christian Christian O'Connell show podcast. 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:51.120 We're doing double thumbs up Friday, all right for me? 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:53.520 This week? Then kids and I start to watch a 0:12:53.559 --> 0:13:01.479 new show together on Netflix. World's most Amazing Holiday Vacation Rentals. Yeah, 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:03.240 this is each week they go to a different country 0:13:03.360 --> 0:13:05.280 right now that hopefully we will go. I don't know 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:07.320 when where we don't go into these countries. 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:10.560 I'll travel overseas, but we can through our TVs, right, Yes, 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:12.040 we can stream on holiday. 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:15.400 Do you remember that? Anyway, Each week they go to 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:17.840 a different country and they go to three different prices, 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:20.400 so they go too cheap, they go to mid market, 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:22.160 and then they go to You're never going to book 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:25.000 that one, but it looks great. It's just kind of like, 0:13:25.080 --> 0:13:27.400 I don't know, this is something exciting about thinking about 0:13:27.400 --> 0:13:30.200 when we can travel again, even just seeing other cultures 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:32.160 and where you might be able to stay outside of 0:13:32.200 --> 0:13:35.439 a hotel. It's brilliant. The first episode is Barney. We've 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:38.480 not yet been to Barley, and the first episode is brilliant. 0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:40.240 I made so many notes at different places that you 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:41.840 might not know away from all the sort of main 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:44.320 place that Semniak as well. So yeah, I can't recommend 0:13:44.360 --> 0:13:47.200 that enough. Other one that's back for season two. The 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:49.520 first season was brilliant. If you're looking for something easy, 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:52.720 smart and stylish. Each episode is just like half an 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:55.200 hour lupan. That's a great show. It's back for the 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:58.440 second season. And also I mentioned this yesterday. If you 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:03.160 want to go and see a fun, fun movie, Okay, 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:08.720 Fast Furious nine. All right, it's dumb, fun it is, 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:12.520 and we know what to expect. However, I'll just be honest, right, 0:14:12.640 --> 0:14:14.440 I really really really enjoyed it. 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:14.560 Now. 0:14:14.640 --> 0:14:16.880 When I left there, I was buzzing and looking at 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:19.960 all the other I'll be honest. Men, you know, got 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:21.080 a lot of couples there. 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:23.119 Nice guy moms and baby sessions. 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:26.000 No, just guys my age. When the lights went up 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:28.000 at the end, we're almost we almost didn't want to 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:30.240 see each other. It was just a load of middle 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:33.480 aged dads. It's like middle aged dad born Fast. 0:14:34.560 --> 0:14:37.360 Now I bout out it Fast and Furious three. Do 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:39.400 I need to watch the other ones before I go 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:40.400 into number nine? 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:44.360 Five and nine? That's all you need. Go back to five. Yeah, 0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:47.760 brilliant one. That's where the safe gets dragged through a city, 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:50.880 no spoilers. That is roughly hit and then nine the 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:54.480 one I saw this week. That is an amazing movie. 0:14:54.560 --> 0:14:57.360 So double thumbs up for me, Fast Furious nine. If 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:58.600 you haven't got into any of the movies and you 0:14:58.640 --> 0:15:00.480 just want to get into them, go straight five. You 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:02.920 don't need the backstory. It's in every movie. They always 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:04.960 like to do these flashbacks. There's so much. I think 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:08.880 they call it a movie writing exposition where they keep 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:13.120 explaining what happened before. So Vinn Diesel, the star of it, 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:15.880 of course, can carry any movie franchise. He will go, 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:19.040 oh god, yeah, my brother second cousin, do you remember that? 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:22.800 And it's like he's explaining the universe to any bozos. 0:15:22.800 --> 0:15:24.520 You've never seen it before. He might at a wink 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:26.520 the camera and go, you got it with your thumbs up. 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:27.520 Okay, now let's dry. 0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:31.000 I move on. Every other scene is driving, not all 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:33.920 scenes anyway, Fast Furious nine. That's mine and one final 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:36.360 one for me as well. I'm midway through reading a 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:38.360 book about one of the most important things as parents, 0:15:38.360 --> 0:15:40.040 as mums and dad's we can try and install in 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:43.200 our kids resilience. And the only reason I know about 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:47.440 Hugh van Damn Hugh van kylen Berg right, I've actually 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:49.240 put him in my phone because I gave up trying 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:51.560 to spell his surname. He's genuine year as Hugh van 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:54.840 dam His lovely brother Josh is Josh van dam It 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:55.760 was easy to write that. 0:15:55.840 --> 0:16:00.040 Then Van van kylen Burg Shew and Josh. 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:03.400 From the Resilience Project Hughes book. We brought my wife 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:04.960 and I brought about a year ago. I thought it's 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:06.760 one of those books it's good to show everyone. Just 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:08.200 have it on a table, like those kind of pouance 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:10.320 We are you read it? No, not yet. And then 0:16:10.360 --> 0:16:12.400 I met them. I was invited on their brilliant podcast 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:15.200 called The Imperfects that they do with the awesome Ryan 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:17.520 Shelton and I've never met the two boys before, and 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:19.760 I did the podcast with them, but which didn't feel 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:22.640 like a podcast. We had a really big, deep chat 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:23.800 at the end of it. I don't know if there 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:26.200 was a good sign of our chat. They're quite new 0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:28.360 dads and I'm a little bit further down the line. 0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:30.520 They were actually in tears. And then we had a target. 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:32.480 It's like two o'clock in the afternoon in the back 0:16:32.520 --> 0:16:34.680 of a warehouse in Carton, and lots of scenes like 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:36.600 that with men just hugging that they've just met. But 0:16:36.920 --> 0:16:38.800 it's called The imperfect So my episode is up with 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:41.440 them this week. But the point was the Resilience Project. 0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:44.640 I'm halfway through read it now. It's brilliant. It's about empathy, 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:47.920 but most importantly it's about resilience and how we need it. 0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:49.880 And most importantly our kids, and we're doing them a 0:16:49.960 --> 0:16:52.240 huge disservants at the moment. And I know that my 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:54.280 wife and I have been guilty and maybe you are pacted. 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:59.160 I don't know about sometimes over correcting and fixing everything 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:02.520 that everything is kind of like in bubble wrap, and 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:05.919 you're letting them down. They need to scrape their knees 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:08.280 because actually when they do go out into the big 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:10.760 wide world and how amazing it is, there is struggle 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:12.800 and they're going to need to have great and determination 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:15.640 and resilience. And this book is actually about how how 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:17.200 you foster that? How do you do That's about what's 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:19.359 that look like? So can't recommend it enough. It's called 0:17:19.359 --> 0:17:21.720 the Resilience Project. The book was the best set up 0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:24.640 for a reason. Hugh Van Dam and Josh Van Dam 0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:25.119 google it. 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:28.040 The Christian O'Connell show podcast. 0:17:28.320 --> 0:17:30.520 I get it, Yes you are. 0:17:30.840 --> 0:17:34.640 You're so ready for a two week break. Jack's got 0:17:34.640 --> 0:17:38.200 a candor shoe after the show Patsy for a Man 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:42.160 at Country Roads. This is how I dress right when 0:17:42.160 --> 0:17:44.120 I'm at home, in private, when I come here after 0:17:44.160 --> 0:17:46.000 put my cool clothes on. Because then with the cool kids, 0:17:46.080 --> 0:17:48.640 the grievy gang, you've come as me. Have you got 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:50.720 the wrong out of it? That is what they called 0:17:50.800 --> 0:17:53.480 dad work. I mean, you look all grown up, but 0:17:53.760 --> 0:17:54.919 you don't rush into it. 0:17:55.040 --> 0:17:57.280 Jack, I did not know this was dad wild. This 0:17:57.440 --> 0:17:58.000 is brand new. 0:17:59.080 --> 0:18:01.760 You know it's greens country road. The collars go up, 0:18:01.800 --> 0:18:03.760 by the way. I'm guessing you've got a rugby shirt 0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:06.480 you wear over the shoulders. You look like sadly me. 0:18:07.000 --> 0:18:09.080 You don't rush to this when you started teasing me, 0:18:09.119 --> 0:18:10.760 did you notice I put the collar back? 0:18:12.400 --> 0:18:14.000 He came in with it all up like he just 0:18:14.000 --> 0:18:16.520