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<v Speaker 1>I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the

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<v Speaker 1>land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboom

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<v Speaker 1>Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present

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<v Speaker 1>and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and

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<v Speaker 1>Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is the Rise and Concer podcast. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and

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<v Speaker 1>becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,

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<v Speaker 1>plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses

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<v Speaker 1>and being among Think of us as the perfect combo

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<v Speaker 1>of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No

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<v Speaker 1>matter where you are in your journey, We're here to

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<v Speaker 1>help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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<v Speaker 1>self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's

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<v Speaker 1>seat of your own life and stop letting life pass

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<v Speaker 1>you by.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you're in the right place.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello everybody, and welcome back to the potty. Today's episode

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<v Speaker 1>is a mini pep talk from me. It's almost think

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<v Speaker 1>of like you just got a voice message a VM

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<v Speaker 1>from me, which is my favorite way to communicate. My

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<v Speaker 1>team know this, and I was just feeling so called

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<v Speaker 1>on our road trip with Tim and Ivy, so Ivy

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<v Speaker 1>was asleep. Tim was driving, and I was like, Tim,

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<v Speaker 1>don't talk to me. I have just had this download,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just well, I was going through my emails

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<v Speaker 1>and I really wanted to do an episode ignore all

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<v Speaker 1>the driving sounds, but she just had to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just think I'm sending you a VM and also like

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<v Speaker 1>the audio isn't the best, but.

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<v Speaker 2>The message is really important.

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<v Speaker 3>She's very powerful.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very powerful, and I'm basically just sharing a recent

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<v Speaker 1>experience where I was given an opportunity that I hadn't manifested,

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<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't quite it. It wasn't quite there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of had this option to accept that standard

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<v Speaker 1>that level or hold out and be like, no, this

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<v Speaker 1>isn't it, so I'm not going to take this.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was just.

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<v Speaker 1>Very interesting, very divine. I had to share it with

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. It was definitely a manifesting moment where I'm like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that turned out better than I could have imagined, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was such a great reminder for me. So I

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<v Speaker 1>thought you guys would love it. But firstly, our weekly

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<v Speaker 1>recommendations t T.

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<v Speaker 2>I have two Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Number one is the rise Up.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually I'd just recommend this every week. Oh you

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<v Speaker 1>can did it in a while?

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<v Speaker 3>I did one. I did the Attract a New Opportunity meditation,

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<v Speaker 3>but the shortened version that Coop recorded.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I did that this morning too.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you so good?

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<v Speaker 3>It's really good? It was so amazing. And I have

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<v Speaker 3>set myself a challenge to wake up a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>earlier every day and start my day with a lemon

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<v Speaker 3>water and a meditation in bed. So I have been

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<v Speaker 3>really making sure I hit the rise at meditation.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's my wreck.

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<v Speaker 3>And we'll pop a sneaky link in the show notes

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<v Speaker 3>for a free week.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, because yeah, we're doing a seven day free trial.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>So make sure you guys have no excuse to check

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<v Speaker 1>out the rights app.

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<v Speaker 3>And my second recommendation is it ends with us. I

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<v Speaker 3>went on Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>You cannot take my recommendation.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so beautiful. I actually hadn't read the book,

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<v Speaker 3>so I didn't know quite what I was walking into.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew that like the themes and stuff were quite

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<v Speaker 3>deep and that sort of thing, and again like trigger warding,

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<v Speaker 3>it is a very heavy movie, so do your research

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<v Speaker 3>before going in. But oh my goodness, I was a

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<v Speaker 3>mess in the cinema.

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<v Speaker 2>It's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so beautiful, Like yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Not a beautiful no, no, it was beautiful, but like

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<v Speaker 3>such an important story to tell and told so well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I loved it too. I went and saw it

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<v Speaker 1>twice last week, once when at first it came out

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<v Speaker 1>on the Thursday, and then I got back from my

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<v Speaker 1>holiday and saw it with Center and Saturday night, and

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<v Speaker 1>then during the week I went and saw it with

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<v Speaker 1>other girlfriends. Oh my god, just because I loved it

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<v Speaker 1>so much. I did read the books and loved the

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<v Speaker 1>books and loved the movies. People have some really interesting

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<v Speaker 1>criticism that I'm like, I swear people just love to win.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the vibe I get with criticism of this movie.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, look, I get it, but also a piece

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<v Speaker 1>of content cannot be perfect, and I feel like people

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<v Speaker 1>just like the overarching you know what they've tried to do,

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<v Speaker 1>the messaging, the fact that a story like this is

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<v Speaker 1>even being told in such you know such like like

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<v Speaker 1>this is literally such a huge movie. It's such a

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<v Speaker 1>huge thing with huge stars. It's so good that a

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<v Speaker 1>story like this is being told. Yeah, and so much

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<v Speaker 1>light has being shine on it. Of course, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>things can be done differently, and there's always room for that,

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<v Speaker 1>but like the overall message and you know what the

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<v Speaker 1>actors are and how they're promoting.

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<v Speaker 2>It and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's been done really well, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's like so good that we're even having conversations about it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I also loved it, and I do recommend it's

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<v Speaker 1>such a good film. My recommendation is, well, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a recommendation, but it's just like, well, I definitely recommend

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<v Speaker 1>it ends with us. But I think I'm gonna start

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<v Speaker 1>getting up at four am.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you're gonna come into the four am club. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well. I got up at four am this morning because

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<v Speaker 1>I dropped my cousin to the airport. Yeah, she stayed

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<v Speaker 1>with us over the weekend. And I then went for

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<v Speaker 1>a walk before my gym class, my five forty five

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<v Speaker 1>gym class, and it was so nice, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel a little bit tired this morning, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was so nice.

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<v Speaker 2>It was fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I just went to bed earlier and I had a

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<v Speaker 1>whole extra hour in the day.

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<v Speaker 2>And I do sometimes find.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have enough time to do a meditation or

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<v Speaker 1>listen to a podcast or give back to myself. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, there is an hour in the morning when

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<v Speaker 1>I vis asleep, even to him sleep that I could

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<v Speaker 1>be taking for myself, and I think I want to.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think that, like, let's see what happens. But

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<v Speaker 1>just today I'm like, I think I want to start

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<v Speaker 1>working out at four am. I know it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a struggle at the start to then get my

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<v Speaker 1>body clock in the four am club, and I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I need to start doing it, especially because

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<v Speaker 1>it is getting lighter and warmer. Yeah, it's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>easier to get out of bed in Queensland. Sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought beck Stewart had recommended she started reading The five

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<v Speaker 1>Am Club as well. At the book and that he

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<v Speaker 1>says you need to do something for your mindset, your

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<v Speaker 1>soul set, your heart set and your health set before

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<v Speaker 1>you start your day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that's my next thing I want to try

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<v Speaker 2>and do.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, have you read the book?

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't yet, It's on my list.

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<v Speaker 1>Read the book. It's a really interesting way that he

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<v Speaker 1>do it. He tells it as a story, so it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like the usual personal development book and I actually

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<v Speaker 1>found it a little bit difficult because I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>get to the point, just tell me what I need

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<v Speaker 1>to do. But I've been like hanging on for the tools.

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<v Speaker 1>But he tells it in a story. I love that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, I would recommend you read the book to

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it. But yeah, it's yeah, it's really

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<v Speaker 1>good and I'm like, I think I am going to

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<v Speaker 1>join the four I Am Club. We'll report back to us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, all right, let's get into this littill.

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<v Speaker 4>BM For me, my loves, this is your reminder to

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<v Speaker 4>hold your vision, but not only hold your vision.

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<v Speaker 2>But hold the standard of your vision.

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<v Speaker 1>At the start of twenty twenty four, I had this huge.

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<v Speaker 2>Goal that I really wanted to shift.

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<v Speaker 5>My personal brand away from less you know, influencing, taking

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<v Speaker 5>on brand collaborations, and I really wanted to move more

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<v Speaker 5>into the public speaking space.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, this feels very natural for me because I have

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I say, I could talk under water, but I

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<v Speaker 1>really felt this just next level of you know, speaking

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<v Speaker 1>on stages and really sharing my story and really captivating people.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think.

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<v Speaker 1>This felt so good to me and integral to me

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<v Speaker 1>because I truly believe storytelling is what changes lives, like

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<v Speaker 1>if I think back to any time that I have

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<v Speaker 1>gone out and been courageous, I've made a big decision

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<v Speaker 1>in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>I've changed my life.

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<v Speaker 5>It's because I have heard a story from someone else

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<v Speaker 5>either doing a similar thing or you know, they have

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<v Speaker 5>changed my emotional state to the point where I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I can do it too.

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<v Speaker 1>And stories really evoke emotion, and I really think they're

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<v Speaker 1>the catalysts two changing lives. And that's you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>truly believe that's like marketing one oh one is like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't sell the product, sell the story, sell the emotion,

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<v Speaker 1>sell them what you're going to get at the end.

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<v Speaker 2>That was a big tangent.

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<v Speaker 1>But storytelling so important, and it was twenty twenty four.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's funny because I have.

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<v Speaker 5>Always not been opposed to events, but in the influencer space,

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<v Speaker 5>I just felt like events were quite surface level sometimes,

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<v Speaker 5>especially influencer events, like you know, you go that's put

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<v Speaker 5>on by the brand, and you would meet various people,

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<v Speaker 5>they all have their own agendas, and that's fine, like

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<v Speaker 5>that's networking. But I just I don't know, I just

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<v Speaker 5>felt like a bit like I was like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know if this.

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<v Speaker 1>Is like worth my energy I also am someone who

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<v Speaker 1>I have a super close circle, and I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a large group of friends, so I don't feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I need more friends, like it's always good to have

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<v Speaker 1>people in the industry. So I had this kind of

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<v Speaker 1>weird relationship with events where I didn't love going. But

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<v Speaker 1>then it's like, you know, COVID happened and there wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>any events, and then we kind of moved into this

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<v Speaker 1>new direction and I feel like events are picking back up.

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<v Speaker 1>And in twenty twenty three, I started going to a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of retreats, so not just events, but like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>three day retreats where it was either hosted by someone

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<v Speaker 1>or a brand, and you really got to dive deeper.

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<v Speaker 1>And I found that I had such transformation from these

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<v Speaker 1>retreats and I got so much out of them, and

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<v Speaker 1>I started to you know, like events again and was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>they actually can.

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<v Speaker 2>Be super powerful.

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<v Speaker 1>You just have to have the right people, the right intention,

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<v Speaker 1>and you need to be able to you know, go deeper.

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<v Speaker 2>And really impact people. So I started like events again.

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<v Speaker 1>And at the end of twenty twenty three, I was

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<v Speaker 1>speaking to my manager, so she handles any brand deals

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<v Speaker 1>I have, like my collaboration, you know with liskd if

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<v Speaker 1>I work with a brand, but also she handles anything

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<v Speaker 1>like speaking arrangements, which I've done a couple here and

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<v Speaker 1>there over the years, but like nothing consistent.

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<v Speaker 2>And so we had a conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>I said to her, I'm really feeling a pull to

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<v Speaker 5>in person events and speaking them and leading them, Like

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<v Speaker 5>I even have such.

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<v Speaker 2>A poll to retreats.

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<v Speaker 1>I am hosting our Rise and Concer Manifestation retreat soon.

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<v Speaker 2>It is a solut retreat. And then we also just

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<v Speaker 2>launched our.

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<v Speaker 1>Naked Harvest Wellness from Within retreat that I believe is

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<v Speaker 1>also sold out, and I'm just so excited for them

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<v Speaker 1>and they feel so good.

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<v Speaker 2>But then on my personal.

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<v Speaker 1>Brand side, I was like I really want to start, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>doing speaking arrangements and not just like getting asked to

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<v Speaker 1>speak at an event, but getting paid for it, like

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<v Speaker 1>that Energy exchange where you know, someone is like we

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<v Speaker 1>need Georgie to share her story to impact people. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's not me just like going there to share, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to plug my brands, but it's like I'm getting paid

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<v Speaker 1>to show up and change people's lives, Like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Is what I want. So I got really clear on

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<v Speaker 2>that at the end of last year. So then that

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<v Speaker 2>was one of my.

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<v Speaker 5>Manifestation goals in twenty twenty four, I said to my manager, like,

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<v Speaker 5>that's what I'm focusing on. We changed my media kit,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, we did some very things and I, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>put on.

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<v Speaker 2>My vision board.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got like this woman speaking on stage. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>crazy because it's mid year and I already have like

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<v Speaker 1>I've already done two big speaking arrangements. I'm just about

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<v Speaker 1>to do my third at the fit Her Expo, which

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<v Speaker 1>is the biggest health and wellness expo. And then also

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<v Speaker 1>I have two already locked in coming up. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>crazy because again I've done some very.

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<v Speaker 5>Speaking but all these speaking arrangements are paid like my

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<v Speaker 5>full fee.

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<v Speaker 1>They are like really they feel like really big deals

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<v Speaker 1>to me, and they feel really exciting and really aligned.

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<v Speaker 5>And I haven't reached out to anyone. They have always

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<v Speaker 5>been reaching out to me. They have always felt easy

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<v Speaker 5>and flowy.

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<v Speaker 1>They haven't like previously when I go to events, I

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<v Speaker 1>usually get home and I'm just like drained, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I really limited events. But the first two I've

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<v Speaker 1>already done. Yes, you know, like it's definitely it takes

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of energy. But it feels so could and

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<v Speaker 1>it feels so exciting, and it's crazy because there's just

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<v Speaker 1>such a shift in my energy and obviously, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know how to protect my energy now I.

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<v Speaker 2>Have grown and evolved.

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<v Speaker 1>But my whole point of this brand is that was

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<v Speaker 1>my manifestation goal. And we had another you know, another

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<v Speaker 1>speaking arrangement pop in the.

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<v Speaker 2>In box and ask me. And it feels really exciting,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, they have asked me to speak, and

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<v Speaker 2>we sent the.

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<v Speaker 1>Rates and they came back and they were like, oh, look,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we don't have the biggest budget called Georgie

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<v Speaker 1>basically half my rates and it is a brand that

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<v Speaker 1>it feels very exciting and it feels very like.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I would love to do.

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<v Speaker 1>A speaking you know thing for this brand, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to, you know, for that to be like

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<v Speaker 1>it feels like an accomplishment once I finish it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I noticed, I just noticed I kind of had

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<v Speaker 2>this decision.

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<v Speaker 1>And in saying that, you know, I had a talk

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<v Speaker 1>of Jacyntha and she's like, Oh, it's completely up to

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<v Speaker 1>you if you want to harve your rais or and whatnot.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it is an exciting opportunity, but I had to

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<v Speaker 1>go back to the energy and the intention.

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<v Speaker 5>And you know, my big thing with doing these spinking

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<v Speaker 5>arrangements is, yes, I want to go out there and

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<v Speaker 5>I want to share my message, but I wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>feel like a really great energy exchange where I want

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<v Speaker 5>to show up on the day and just give my

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<v Speaker 5>absolute all and just like it feels so good energetically

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<v Speaker 5>because it is such a big energetic thing for me

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<v Speaker 5>with events, so and like my rate really is very reasonable,

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<v Speaker 5>so it being.

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<v Speaker 1>Halved, I just was like, look, this is exciting, it's

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<v Speaker 1>in line with.

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<v Speaker 2>My goals, but it just doesn't feel good.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like energetically, if I drop this standard,

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely would still show up and give my best.

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<v Speaker 1>But again I'm like, I know that I can have

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<v Speaker 1>my manifestations in the full form, and I can have

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<v Speaker 1>them in the full exchange.

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<v Speaker 2>I can have exactly what I want like that. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what I teach you guys, That's what I preach.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I did notice it's like the universe kind

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<v Speaker 1>of dangling a carrot and kind of being like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>are you gonna lower your standards? Are you're gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>less just because it's exciting and shiny, and so I said, too, Jacinta,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, we're going to We did, like

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<v Speaker 1>lower it the tiniest bit because I do understand budget

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, things happening in the economy right now

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<v Speaker 1>and all that sort of thing, and like, I'm a brand,

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<v Speaker 1>so I do get it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I said, look, this is the best rate we

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<v Speaker 2>can do. This feels really good.

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<v Speaker 1>For Georgie, and especially like the level of this brand,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I knew.

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<v Speaker 5>They did have the budget, if that makes sense. Like

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<v Speaker 5>I'm I'm an insider, I've got my own brands.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in the industry for a very long time,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I just was like energetically, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this still feels like a really great exchange.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just was like, no, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 2>lower the standard.

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<v Speaker 1>Because if it's not this opportunity, there's gonna be another one.

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<v Speaker 2>Because that's my truth, that's the reality I live.

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<v Speaker 1>In, and I feel like sometimes it's really easy to

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<v Speaker 1>get excited about things and kind of just accept less

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<v Speaker 1>even though that's not the exact desire because it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like half fits or it's like kind of what

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<v Speaker 1>you want it to be, just like Yep, I'll take it,

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<v Speaker 1>and look, there's a time and place for that.

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<v Speaker 2>I've definitely done that along my journey.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think there is such this incredible power with

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<v Speaker 1>holding your standard and being like, no, Universe, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for showing me that it's a pility, but I want

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. I want it in this you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in this way, at this energy level, because that's what

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<v Speaker 1>feels good for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's the vibe.

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<v Speaker 5>So anyway, we went back to them, we were like, no,

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<v Speaker 5>this is the rate, this is the best we can do.

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<v Speaker 1>We do completely understand if you want to go with

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<v Speaker 1>someone else. And that's like I just had to wear that.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's crazy because last night.

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<v Speaker 2>I woke up in the middle of the night and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like I should have just.

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<v Speaker 1>Gone half and I should have just got this opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>because it's really exciting and it's a great opportunity to

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<v Speaker 1>practice my public speaking and blah blah blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was even going to message to Center and

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<v Speaker 1>say just email them and like say we'll do half

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<v Speaker 1>the rate.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I was like.

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<v Speaker 1>Got up in the morning and I was like, no, Georgia,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not the vibe. Like stop, and I had to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, remember your mission, remember your why Energetically does

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<v Speaker 1>that feel good to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Know?

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<v Speaker 5>You're doing it out of a scarcity mindset, a scarcity

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<v Speaker 5>energy which matters.

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<v Speaker 2>So no, that's not the answer. You need to hold

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<v Speaker 2>the standard.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to hold the vibration of what you want

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<v Speaker 1>and if not, this somethink better. So anyway, had this

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<v Speaker 1>full pep talk with myself, had to practice what I preached.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just got a text from JR Center not

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<v Speaker 1>only has the brand come back, and being like, oh good,

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<v Speaker 1>I spoke to my boss and we're happy to lock

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<v Speaker 1>this in.

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<v Speaker 2>But they said, we'll just pay her full rate.

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<v Speaker 1>So I even offered them a discount and they're like, ah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all good.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll pay her full rate. And I was like, if.

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<v Speaker 1>This isn't the universe rewarding me and being like that

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<v Speaker 1>was a test and you absolutely passed it, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what it is?

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<v Speaker 2>Like how wild is that? My loves?

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<v Speaker 5>And so I wanted to jump on here and send

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<v Speaker 5>you this VM and say one hundred said, hold your

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<v Speaker 5>vision and hold the standard and make sure that you're

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<v Speaker 5>not accepting.

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<v Speaker 2>Less out of scarcity.

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<v Speaker 1>You can absolutely accept less if energetically it's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>this feels really good to me.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you're just accepting less out of scarcity and

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<v Speaker 2>out of you think that's.

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<v Speaker 5>All your worth, or you know something better isn't coming,

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<v Speaker 5>or you're just like worried, like you're feeling unstable, this

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<v Speaker 5>could be such a great practice moment for you to hold.

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<v Speaker 1>The vision, know your standard and lock in and be

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm locking in universe, like show me. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is I truly was happy with if they

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<v Speaker 1>came back and they were like, it's not you. I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like cool, that's like it's good to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously it's not meant to be. And I was at

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<v Speaker 1>peace with that.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's because I.

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<v Speaker 1>Detached from it, Like that's the last step of manifesting.

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<v Speaker 1>It's surrender and detachment. I had detached from it, so

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<v Speaker 1>there was no weird, funky energy where I was like

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<v Speaker 1>trying to hold on to it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was trying to make something work.

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<v Speaker 1>And I truly believe that's why they came back like well,

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<v Speaker 1>buy it all right, Like I don't even really understand that,

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<v Speaker 1>like it doesn't make logical sense.

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<v Speaker 2>But also this stuff doesn't what I teach you doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyway, I went on a whole other rant.

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<v Speaker 1>I just really wanted to tell you this story and say,

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<v Speaker 1>you get to hold the.

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<v Speaker 2>Vision, you get to hold the standard.

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<v Speaker 1>You are so deserving, you are so worthy, and absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>everything is happening for you, so you have.

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<v Speaker 2>To trust it. Okay, my loves.

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<v Speaker 5>I hope you have an amazing day or night whenever

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<v Speaker 5>you're listening, and I'll chat to you in the next episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye.

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