1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: This is a podcast about failure with me. Lola Berry, author, nutritionist, 2 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: and yoga teacher join me as we get to know 3 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: these guests and learn about how their failures have ultimately 4 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:34,840 Speaker 1: shaped their dreams. Welcome to Fearlessly Failing with Lola Berry. 5 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 2: Hello, and welcome to Fearlessly Failing with Lola Berry and 6 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 2: Matt Sofo. Welcome. Hello. 7 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: You did nice intro. 8 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, keep going, so by the time everybody listens to this, 9 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: they'll definitely know that you will be in the US 10 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 2: of A, California, in the wonderful Los Angeles. 11 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: City of Land of Dreams, City. 12 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:10,039 Speaker 2: Of angel City of Angels. Yeah, you still don't sit close 13 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 2: enough to the mic though sometimes. 14 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: Sorry, Boss, I'm packing all my pod gears. So we're 15 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 1: recording this. I fly out tonight and we're recording this 16 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: in advance because we wanted to share why this has 17 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: happened and what's going on in a bid to Yeah 18 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: you know, oh, Boss is just checking the ball. You've 19 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:36,320 Speaker 1: been blaming me this whole time. 20 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to do that. 21 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,479 Speaker 1: But I mean, as in my vole's been down the hole, you. 22 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 2: Were down a little bit. But so let's get back 23 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 2: to this part. So you're in America and we are 24 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 2: recording this early, so I think we should probably talk 25 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 2: about it's how do you feel about that? 26 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: Well, because I fly tonight. I'm quite petrified right now. 27 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: I feel like it's that I have people, know, you know, 28 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: there's that mad scramble where you like got to do 29 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: everything right. Also, like you've got to do a COVID 30 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: test that is not free, by the way, So I 31 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 1: had to one hundred and fifty bucks to get a 32 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 1: travel COVID test. They've texted me my results, they have 33 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: an email of them. Yet I need to have a 34 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: hard copy for customs to get out of the Like, 35 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: there's just a lot of hurdle not hurdles, there's just 36 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: a lot of hoops to get out of the country 37 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 1: right now. So I still am kind of like in 38 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: that like the kind. 39 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 2: Of phase understandable. Yeah, okay, but maybe let's go back 40 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 2: a little bit because you're kind of jumping around us. 41 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 2: So two years ago or just over two years ago 42 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 2: when we met. 43 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:47,679 Speaker 1: We're getting to three years here October like the eleventh 44 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: or something is our three year anniversary? 45 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, something like that, is it? Yeah? Okay? Anyway, so 46 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 2: it always does that two and a half years ago 47 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: we met. We're sitting in the park and then you 48 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 2: tell me you have this dream that you want to 49 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:03,399 Speaker 2: go to America. 50 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. And then a week after and then a week after, Yeah, 51 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 1: I got my green card, didn't I. 52 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 2: You got to proof your green card and you. 53 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: Took me to Nobu that night. 54 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 2: I did to celebrate. 55 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I just met like the love of my life. 56 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: And then my dream that I've been working on just 57 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 1: so people listening. No, Like I didn't win it in 58 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: a lottery like I had, went down a legal path. 59 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: It was quite expensive, and it took me three years, 60 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: three years from applying for it and today flying out. 61 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: That's three year window. And obviously COVID knocked it asund 62 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: a little bit. Yeah, but yes, so I fell in 63 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: love with you, and next minute my dream of going 64 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: to America came true. 65 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 2: And I knew in my heart that at some point 66 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 2: we would have to spend a couple of months apart 67 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 2: from each other. 68 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: Oh, bossa, No, I'm. 69 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 2: Not getting sad. I'm very happy for I'm very proud, 70 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 2: very proud of you. I knew that this would like, 71 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 2: that this was coming. 72 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: I'm scared at the airport tonight. I'm scared that I'll 73 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: be like, oh sad and crying, but then I forget. 74 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: We've got FaceTime. We got like and I think it's 75 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: going to go quite quick. Like I think it'll go 76 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: quite yeah. 77 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 2: Okay, so let's start at the beginning. What was the 78 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 2: process in getting a visa like green card? Yeah, it's 79 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:24,679 Speaker 2: really hard. 80 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:29,599 Speaker 1: So I met I met five years ago with this agent, 81 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,239 Speaker 1: like and I had to meet a secret location and stuff, 82 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 1: and I was like, I really want to go to America. 83 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: And he was like the best advice that I can 84 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 1: give you. So he's like an agent to the stars, right, Yeah. 85 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: And he met little old me in this like hidden 86 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: location in Melbourne. He was in Melbourne for work and 87 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: I was like, I really want to go to America. 88 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: And he goes, my best advice I can give you 89 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: was stop dipping your toe in. He goes, you're just 90 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: going in on esthera, which is like a travel visa's 91 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 1: that you can't work on, that you can't make us 92 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 1: dollars on that you can't really build any tracks. And 93 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 1: I was like, and he's like, I'm going to put 94 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 1: you in touch with a lawyer that can help you 95 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 1: get like either an actor's visa or a long term 96 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 1: green card. And the reason why one of the green carters, 97 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 1: I have multiple jobs, like I am a yoga teacher, 98 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: I'm an author, I'm trained to be an actor, I 99 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: want to be a TV host. There's like all these 100 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 1: different facets, but if you go in on a visa, 101 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: you can only make money from that one vocation. Yeah, 102 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 1: and that was what led me to go for the 103 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 1: harder thing, which is the green card. And this strip 104 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: is officially what's called activating it. 105 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 2: Yep. And how long does that whole process take you 106 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 2: to do? 107 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 1: Oh, I got rejected, So it's like twenty kilos of paper. 108 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 1: I sent a twenty kilo box to America and my lawyers, 109 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: my immigration lawyers, and then my first case got rejected. 110 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: So you get one green card in a lifetime. Just 111 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: to put that into perspective, So as much as I'd 112 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 1: love to stay in paradise that we are now, I 113 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: would lose it for my life, like you don't get 114 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: it back. So I got rejected the first time. It 115 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: was meant to take about a year, and then finally 116 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 1: got it when you and I met, But that was 117 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 1: probably seeing the eighteen month mark of going for it. 118 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: So that was the second application. Yeah, and I was 119 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 1: like homeless for a little while because I thought I 120 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 1: wouldn't be very long, so poor old dad copped me 121 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 1: living with him, like six months, and then COVID happened. 122 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 1: I was booked on a flight March thirteenth, at the 123 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: very beginning COVID, and every day it was getting worse 124 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 1: and worse. Do you remember the flight wouldn't confirms. We 125 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: march down Tallamarine and asked what was going on. They're like, oh, 126 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 1: it's a tax issue, do you remember? And I was like, 127 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: stuff this, I'm talking to my lawyers. I'm pausing it. 128 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: And I canceled my flight then, but then I rebooked 129 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: to fly before it. You've got green cards, got really 130 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 1: weird expiries, and you've got really short windows to get 131 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,359 Speaker 1: in because you have to have full blown medicals. And 132 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm to go closer to when the 133 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 1: entry visa expires. And so I had two flights, maybe 134 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: even three booked, and they all just get getting canceled. 135 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: One n't remember that. I'd like gear up to go, 136 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: and then you get an email your flight has been canceled. 137 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: In a week's time, and so that happened. I had 138 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: to go through a whole other legal process to get 139 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: a new entry visa reinstated, and that's where we are now. 140 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 2: But I think go back a little bit more because 141 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 2: I think people don't understand like the visa process and 142 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 2: how it works. Because you were approved in two thousand 143 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 2: and nine team, and then you were given your case 144 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 2: file number, which you had to then go have an 145 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: interview found that Sydney, and that took a whole twelve months. 146 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 2: So I think that you got that in October and 147 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 2: November twenty nineteen, but you didn't get your appointment with 148 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 2: the consulate. 149 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: Until January the following January. 150 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:57,239 Speaker 2: The following year. So yeah, so it was a whole 151 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 2: It was a whole twelve months between getting approved for 152 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 2: the and then we flew to Sydney together and you 153 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 2: had your interview with the consulate and that's when it 154 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 2: was officially approved. 155 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and Trump was in power then, was that mind? 156 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 2: Bus? 157 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: I put it on an aeroplane. Trump was in power then, 158 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: So I remember I walked into the US Embassy in Sydney. 159 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 1: So you can only do green Guard stuff in Sydney. 160 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: You can't do Green Guard stuff at the other embassies 161 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 1: in Perth, Melbourne, whatnot, and you like swear on like 162 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: you're on soler in America and soil and I remember 163 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: there's just frames of Trump everywhere. 164 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 2: Trump. 165 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but yeah, that process was really fun 166 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: because you hand your phone over. You were just waiting 167 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: for him for two hours. 168 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:46,319 Speaker 2: Yeah. The security guard was like, what are you doing here. 169 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 1: Because in the middle of the city it's Martin Place. 170 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 171 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it is. It is a very lengthy process 172 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: and even now I'm like, oh my god, Like the 173 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: only reason this episode will be released is if everything 174 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: goes right at the border, Like I've got handover fifteen 175 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: kilos of paperwork of sealed Manila folders I've got to like, 176 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: and even getting out of Australia that's a whole nother, 177 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: Like I've got paperwork for that. Like, it's a really 178 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 1: full on process. And so this episode, if you're hearing it, 179 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 1: that means I've achieved the goal of activating the Green Guard. 180 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 1: But if you're not hearing it, well, I've hit a hurdle, 181 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: and I've hit so many hurdles. It hasn't been straight 182 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 1: forward at all. 183 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, So okay, so you have worked in the US before, 184 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 2: so you've done a little bit of not making money though. 185 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 2: Not making money though, but like you've done. 186 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 1: You legally can't work on a NESTA. So I just 187 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: went in and I talk on TV shows and stuff, 188 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:48,839 Speaker 1: but I'd never money. Yeah, I just look for free 189 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: because it was so much fun. The film sets over 190 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: their boss are incredible. Like I filmed a show and 191 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 1: it was filmed on the Universal Lot and so like 192 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: you're driving past like where they film westerns and there's 193 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: all like mock sets and shop fronts, and I remember 194 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 1: the first time I went there, they're like, oh, sorry, 195 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 1: if you hear loud sounds, we've got the volcano going 196 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: off erupting on the sound stage next door. Very Hollywood. 197 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 2: So the average person on a normal you know, esther whatever, 198 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 2: you can't earn money. That's very important because you actually 199 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:28,079 Speaker 2: get kicked out and you can't get let back in. 200 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 2: But if you want to work, you need a working 201 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 2: visa or a green card or an O one or something. 202 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. And like if people listening to this, 203 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: like I'd be happy to connect people with my lawyer. 204 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: He's been unreal because it's it's a hard process. It's 205 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 1: also like to be completely open, it gets to be 206 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: quite a costly process. Even the flight's over now have 207 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,199 Speaker 1: being like eight grand, like really expensive. 208 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and what do you hope to achieve like 209 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 2: this trip? 210 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: I'm calling this my admin trip boss. So I want 211 00:10:59,920 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: to get the green cards. So you get a physical 212 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: it's like a driver's license, but it's like the statue 213 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 1: of Liberty next to your head and the American flag. 214 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:10,679 Speaker 1: I want to get my driver's license. You get your 215 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:13,319 Speaker 1: Social Security number, like, so you start to like open 216 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: bank accounts, like you start to build a bit of 217 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 1: a set your life up, set your life up. I've 218 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 1: got a three month lease, so I can kind of 219 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: like ground and build a bit of a routine and whatnot. 220 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to try and take meetings, but in America 221 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 1: at the moment, I haven't been able to get a 222 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: meeting without being vaccinated. So it's like no vax, no 223 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 1: meeting basically. So that's something that I'm going to have 224 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 1: to do when I land in America. 225 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 2: Yep. So you're going to get vaccinated as soon as 226 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 2: you get there. 227 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I am. And I know that's probably going 228 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: to ruffle some feathers, but I what's wrong? 229 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 2: Sex just checking? 230 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 1: Ah, he's checking the audio. But yeah, I can't get 231 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: into any acting classes. I can't get a meeting, I 232 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 1: can't record podcasts in real life, which I really want 233 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 1: to do until I'm fully vaccinated. So my plan is 234 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: land have a day of rest to kind of late 235 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 1: the body, kind of like find a bit of balance, 236 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:14,319 Speaker 1: and then vaccinate dose one straight away and I'll isolate 237 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 1: until I have dose two. I know that sounds really OCD, 238 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: but I know that COVID is still prevalent in America, 239 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 1: and I just I know we live in a bubble 240 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 1: here in Australia, but especially here in Byron Bay, where 241 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: it's much less. 242 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't exist, no. 243 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:33,719 Speaker 1: No where is there very much so does and even 244 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: when you're vaccinated, you can still pick it up. And 245 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:39,559 Speaker 1: so I just want to be really just hyper aware, 246 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:41,199 Speaker 1: to be completely honest. 247 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 2: Yeah that's good. And you are writing a new book. 248 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 1: I am, So we'll be doing manuscript edits. I just 249 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 1: got a text from my publisher just then, and we'll 250 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: be doing manuscript edits the whole time I'm away, So 251 00:12:56,280 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 1: it'll be pretty much a book writing and podcasting trip 252 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 1: and well not trip but like and. 253 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 2: Yes, setting it your life in America. 254 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and I will miss you. 255 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 2: I'll miss you too. And on the book thing, will 256 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 2: you come back to two of the book or maybe 257 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 2: do something around the book? 258 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: Yes, So the book comes out on the first November 259 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: and I will be back on Australian soil to promote 260 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: that book. And to date confirmed yes, November one. No, 261 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: I've been told November one, so I'm rolling with it. 262 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 1: I've just seen the mock of the cover, which is 263 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: really exciting. So as soon as I'm allowed to release 264 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: the cover and pre sales and whatnot, I'm so wrapped 265 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 1: to be coming back to Australia and promoting that little 266 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 1: baby because it's been such a huge journey, as you know, 267 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: you know, and you know yourttle heart's in a book. 268 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:53,319 Speaker 2: Of course. Of course, now leaving the country though, there 269 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 2: is a process to leaving Australia, so the average person 270 00:13:56,559 --> 00:14:00,959 Speaker 2: just can't leave without a reason. And you had to 271 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 2: apply for the book like border force to allow you 272 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 2: to leave the country. 273 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I got rejected, but rejected, Yeah, you have 274 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 1: to sign a start deck. I got a justice of 275 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 1: peace to witness mine as well. And you have to 276 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 1: commit to staying out of the country for three months, 277 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: which I definitely will be doing. And you have to 278 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 1: have a very valid reason to me leaving. Apparently, I've heard. 279 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 1: I had a meeting my manager last week and she said, 280 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 1: Lauren said that that's got even stricter in the last 281 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: kind of like a week. Yeah. So yeah, like it 282 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: was hard for me. I got rejected first round. Contact 283 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: my lawyer straight away. There are lawyers that are specifically 284 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 1: helping people with their travel exemption. Yeah, so you can 285 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 1: get help for that. And again, if anyone's listening in 286 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 1: that boat, I'm more than happy to connect you with 287 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 1: that because it was a different lawyer which was specific 288 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: for the exemption. 289 00:14:57,440 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, that's interesting. 290 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: And you got to a COVID test which you touched on. 291 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 2: How'd you go yesterday doing your tests? 292 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 1: It was my first COVID test. It's just the one up. 293 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: The schnollers ain't no fun. You get really watery. 294 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 2: Eyes, it hurt or is it just uncomfortable? 295 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 1: Just uncomfy? And the throat one's fine. 296 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 2: How would you liken it too? When you got your 297 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 2: ears cleaned, Oh. 298 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 1: My god, lost nose? I get really dogs. I've got 299 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: dodge years, so my ears get blocked sometimes when I swim, 300 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: and I had to get them syringed in Burron about 301 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: what two months ago. I've never been more pain. 302 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 2: I've never seen you cry like that. 303 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 1: And we got to the car and I just like 304 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: hysterically burst because it didn't unblock the either. Just I 305 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: was in a world of pain and it was horrible. 306 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 1: I would never wish blocked is on anybody ever. 307 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 2: And because you we drove the city with you. 308 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't want to perforate my ear drum. 309 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 310 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 1: And then we got trapped in Sydney because we were 311 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 1: in the floods. Oh, we've had some good adventures, boy, 312 00:15:58,560 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 1: haven't we? 313 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 2: Just we have? How do you feel in general leaving Byron? 314 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 2: We have had a nice six months here together. 315 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard to leave paradise. It's hard to 316 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: leave the love of my life. It's a great way 317 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 1: of living here. Like I miss my Pilates teacher, you know. 318 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: Like I've got such a nice We've got such a 319 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 1: nice gang. We've got the Woods Boys. We've become really 320 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 1: good mates. Shout out to Andy and Sam from Woods 321 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 1: in Bangalow. We've just become like part of a little 322 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: crew here and it feels so nice, but also like 323 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 1: I need to come back to the OG dream and 324 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 1: like a really good made of mind. Tim was like, 325 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 1: this has been your dream for like ten years long. Yeah, so, 326 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: and I've got to be just for everyone listening, I'm 327 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 1: going to go with zero, Like, I don't have a 328 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 1: meeting locked in, I don't have an agent over there, 329 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: I don't like, I don't have a plan other than 330 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 1: to get the green card, yeah, the physical green card. 331 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 2: So but I think once you get that that will 332 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 2: open up for you. 333 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because you're hireable, you start to enter the 334 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 1: country as a permanent citizen. And then when you enter 335 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 1: the country as a permanent citizen, basically you live like 336 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:15,239 Speaker 1: an American and at the five year mark you can 337 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 1: apply to naturalize, which means you have dual passport, be 338 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:24,360 Speaker 1: Australian and American, which is definitely something I'm very interested in. 339 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 2: Of course. And obviously once the borders do open up 340 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 2: and it's a lot easier to travel, will you becoming 341 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:34,120 Speaker 2: like back and forth to Australia and still dipping your 342 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 2: toe and working. 343 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 1: You are such a good interviewer so Boss and I 344 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:38,920 Speaker 1: have a. 345 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 2: Dream to be coming back to Buyron. 346 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:42,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, we have a dream to be fifty to fifty 347 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 1: fifty percent Byron Bay. Initially probably fifty percent Los Angeles, 348 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 1: although I really love New York as well, and I 349 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 1: think you, I know you've been to LA but not 350 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:55,919 Speaker 1: New York. I think you're gonna love, love, love New 351 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: York like so much. So yeah, I think the goal 352 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 1: is fifty percent Byron just like a Hemi Hemsworth, you know, 353 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 1: fifty percent Byron Bay and then fifty percent LA or 354 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:13,360 Speaker 1: New York or wherever you and I end up. But 355 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: we all. The only hurdle we've got there is we're 356 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 1: obsessed with animals and we want to get some pets soon. 357 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 1: So I don't know how we're gonna where we're gonna, 358 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 1: but I feel like you'll be the Byron base and 359 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: then you'll be like, Yo'll meet you in Hawaii. 360 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 2: That'd be nice. 361 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:31,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm hoping once I'm vaccinated. Really, I've got a 362 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 1: friend male that lives in Hawaiian I really want to 363 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:36,880 Speaker 1: see her. So I'm hoping after I'm vaccinated, I can 364 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:37,880 Speaker 1: hopefully jet. 365 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 2: To Hawaii, and yeah, that'll be nice. 366 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: I love Hawaii. It's so healing the mountains. It's got 367 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 1: a very similar field of Byron. Like they say in Hawaii, 368 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 1: when you swim in the ocean, she heals your heart. 369 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 2: Oh that's nice. But this trip will be ninety percent. 370 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,680 Speaker 2: You still will be working, you will be writing, you'll 371 00:18:56,720 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 2: be doing your thing, just based from La. Yeah, it's 372 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 2: not a holiday, it's not a. 373 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:05,880 Speaker 1: True and look, to be honest, I would have pushed out. 374 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 2: I know. 375 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: I did push it out as legally as far as 376 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:11,400 Speaker 1: I could, but and I tried to get a second 377 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:15,360 Speaker 1: extension on my entry visa because life is so wonderful here, 378 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:19,440 Speaker 1: but I wasn't able to. So I have legally done 379 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 1: everything I can to say stay in Australia, but also 380 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: like I need to weigh up the big dreams as well, 381 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 1: and I just wasn't willing to give up my green card. 382 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 1: That it worked, and it's going to end up costing 383 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: by the end of this trip. If you include the 384 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 1: cost of this activation trip, which is kind of what 385 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 1: it legally is, it's probably going to be what eighty 386 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 1: grand really all up, like all up, Like second, remember 387 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 1: I had to have Menikeols all over again. This the 388 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 1: flights alone eight thousand, and I've paid for full travel 389 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 1: insurance for the whole time I'm away. 390 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 2: I've bought some nice Snell bags. 391 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 1: He knows how much I love my desire. 392 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:01,879 Speaker 2: You could have bored it leaving them all here. I 393 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:03,400 Speaker 2: could have bought a defender for that. 394 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,679 Speaker 1: Don't don't do that to me. 395 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:10,199 Speaker 2: What's your advice for anyone that wants to follow in 396 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 2: your footpath and go to America or work in America 397 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 2: or look at a visa? What's your advice do it for? 398 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 1: You? Don't because everyone's got an opinion on it, Like 399 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: so many people are like you're going to die, Like honestly, 400 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: some people have said that, like why would you want 401 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: to go there? Why, like especially COVID, why would you 402 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 1: want to And I'm like, I'm not dummy, Like I 403 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 1: understand there's a risk, and I I don't really want 404 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,120 Speaker 1: to go right now because it doesn't feel like it's 405 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 1: going to be the safest place for me to be. 406 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 1: And like, I do have a book that I want 407 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 1: to work on here, and I want to be planning 408 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:47,639 Speaker 1: and working really hard on. But at the same time, 409 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: I'm also aware that you know, sometimes you've just got 410 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: to follow that true calling that's inside your heart and jogs. 411 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: We call it dama. You know, I talk about that 412 00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 1: all the time. But my advice would be work with 413 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 1: a lawyer will be the first thing I say, because 414 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:03,880 Speaker 1: it just And also you can go into the Green 415 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 1: Card lottery, which is drawn recently really so once a 416 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 1: year the lottery is drawn. 417 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:12,400 Speaker 2: But even in that lottery, if you get picked, there's 418 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 2: still a whole year process. 419 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, which I had no idea. 420 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,880 Speaker 2: Ahead of that until you get your interview and then 421 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 2: you can leave and stuff like that. So a lot 422 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 2: of people think it's easy. Is it easy? 423 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 1: No? No, I would say it's one of the hardest 424 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 1: career things I've ever tried to do. And again, you're 425 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 1: going over zero, like ground zero, so you know, it's 426 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,400 Speaker 1: not easy. It's a lot of paperwork, it's a lot 427 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 1: of time, it's a lot of like nitty gritty stuff, 428 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 1: and even flying out that's hard to at the moment. 429 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 1: That's because of COVID though. 430 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're going to miss me. 431 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 1: So much, sexy legs. I think it's gonna be hard 432 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: to not have you in the bed with me. 433 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 2: I know, I was thinking that. I was like, we're. 434 00:21:57,840 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: Little We love a little spoon, don't. 435 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 2: We this morning? Who am I going to warm up 436 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 2: to be good? Actually? Yeah, you're going to be good 437 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 2: in summer because I won't have a hot body next 438 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 2: to me. 439 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 1: But I get back in time for so the plan 440 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,919 Speaker 1: is to be half here, half now. So I will 441 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 1: be coming back for a book tour and another really 442 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,400 Speaker 1: exciting thing that we're launching. 443 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 2: Soon, which not all talk about yet, do you reckon? 444 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 1: I don't yet. Something really cool is coming really soon 445 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 1: and as soon as I can talk about it, you 446 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:34,919 Speaker 1: guys will be the first. Not I'll definitely launch it 447 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:37,159 Speaker 1: on a well we've got a podcast all about it. 448 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's why I was like live for that. 449 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 2: So and I'm going to loller coffee product that's finally. 450 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god, we have to shoot that before I 451 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 1: leave today. Ship we're really running out. It's finally in 452 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: the factory today, so we've got to take photo. That's 453 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,880 Speaker 1: all right, We'll make it all happen. We've got a day. 454 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 2: That's fun. 455 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have my I want to have my one 456 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:58,360 Speaker 1: last Woods banana bread. 457 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 2: Okay, let's go now then do you want to go? 458 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 1: Yeah? I love you Bosco and although we'll be looking 459 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 1: at each other not in real life for the next 460 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: little while, my love for you is only going to grow. 461 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 2: Strip you be stronger too. 462 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:16,920 Speaker 1: Go to the farmer's markets for me, boss, I reckon, 463 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:18,920 Speaker 1: he's going to slack off on the farmer's markets while 464 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 1: I'm away. 465 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 2: I think. I think the first maybe few weeks, I'll 466 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 2: slack off, and then you'll want and then I'll get 467 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 2: back into a routine of. 468 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,560 Speaker 1: And don't go buy that cookies and cream ice cream. 469 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 1: I know what you do when I travel, You buy 470 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: a family tub. 471 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:36,679 Speaker 2: So good though that was I only did that once. 472 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,199 Speaker 1: My god, he really I've messaged a few of his 473 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:45,680 Speaker 1: really good mates and I'm like, check in, and Ilius wrote, 474 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 1: don't worry. I won't let him stay in the studio 475 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 1: all day long, because you could easily do that. 476 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 2: I know, I know. I've never lived alone, so this 477 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 2: will be my first time living alone. 478 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 1: And I guess living with me, I'm full on, let's 479 00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: call a space. 480 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 2: I think the first few weeks will feel like a holiday, 481 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 2: and then I'll miss you, and then I'll probably get 482 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 2: into a routine. 483 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 1: Jane, our very good friend, said to me, how do 484 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 1: you think you'll go alone without Matt, And I was like, oh, 485 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 1: I'm a wolf, Like I click into wolf mode, which 486 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 1: is like when I'm lying, she goes yeah for a 487 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,919 Speaker 1: week and then you're going to miss it. And I 488 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 1: was like, cuche, you're very right, You're very right. 489 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 2: Now, I think that Look, at the end of the day, 490 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:26,119 Speaker 2: we knew that this was happening for the last two years. 491 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we have felt very prepared and even 492 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,679 Speaker 1: though like it's scary to be doing it during a 493 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 1: pandemic and when then so much uncertainty in the world, 494 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 1: Like I think about when I was meant to go 495 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:40,320 Speaker 1: last March, and that would have been so much scarier. 496 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:45,639 Speaker 1: Whereas now, you know, like I've been mentally preparing for 497 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 1: it for quite a while. I've still bitten off all my. 498 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 2: Nail I know you have. I also knew getting into 499 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 2: a relationship with you, how much you would have to 500 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 2: travel in your life. 501 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 1: I've traveled so much. 502 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,640 Speaker 2: Byron traveled probably like fifteen times in the last six. 503 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:00,960 Speaker 1: Months since I've been Viarron, always on a flight. 504 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:05,120 Speaker 2: So yeah, I think you've two two or three times 505 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 2: a month you've traveled since we've been here. In the 506 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,679 Speaker 2: last six months. So that's and like I knew that 507 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 2: from the start. I was like, oh, this girl's always 508 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:15,320 Speaker 2: going to have to travel and I'll just be at 509 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 2: home taking care of the. 510 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,679 Speaker 1: Dogs and picks me up from the airport. 511 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 2: You do. 512 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, don't you waiting there? I'm going to miss you. 513 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:24,919 Speaker 1: This is probably a bit of no share. I love 514 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 1: the smell of his neck. I hug give you a 515 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 1: little hugg in your nook, don't I. 516 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,919 Speaker 2: That's cute. Now all right, let's wrap it up. 517 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 1: Sorry, let's go have too much, too much love boss 518 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:34,920 Speaker 1: too much. 519 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 2: Let's go have a banana bread and coffee. Yes, please, 520 00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 2: love you too. Bye bye. 521 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 1: That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always, 522 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 1: thank you to our guests, and let's continue the conversation 523 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 1: on Instagram. I'm at Yamo Lolla Berry. This potty my 524 00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: word for podcast is available on all streaming platforms. I'd 525 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:05,359 Speaker 1: love it if you could subscribe, rate and comment, and 526 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 1: of course spread the love.