1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: We want to jump in before the episode starts to 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:06,199 Speaker 1: point out that this isn't part of our regular Friday programming. 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: We are having a couple of Fridays off to spend 4 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 1: with our new nephew Jack, So in the meantime we 5 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: have put together a deep dive series on Shany Grimman. 6 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: This is episode two. Shannie Grimmond was living out her dream. 7 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: The eighteen year old was working full time as a 8 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: YouTuber and signing lucrative deals with the world's biggest makeup brands. 9 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 2: Pretty much only been using this threat right here. It 10 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: is the Morphy Arshadow Pale. In three five zero. 11 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: She'd fallen head over hills with twenty three year old 12 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: accountant Jonathan Sower and things were moving fast. A new 13 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: friendship with fellow beauty blogger Michael Finch was blossoming and 14 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: she was just about to head up one of Australia's 15 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: hottest influencer clicks. But it wasn't long before the downfalls 16 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: of fame struck, with Shanny facing her first online controversy 17 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: and personal dramas after her home was targeted by thieves. 18 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: In this series, we explore the phenomenon of Shanni Grimmond, 19 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to Outspoken. I'm so excited to get 20 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: into part two of our Shany Grimmin deep dive. We 21 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: had such a great reaction to the first episode. Yeah, 22 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 1: we got a lot of messages from people saying they 23 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: felt so nostalgic listening and that they really miss SHARNI. Yeah, 24 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: that seemed to be an overwhelming response, and it is 25 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: testament to the fact that Shanny really felt like a 26 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 1: friend to so many people growing up watching her YouTube videos. Now, 27 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: when we left you, Sharny had just gotten into a 28 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: very new relationship with Jonathan Sour and after four months 29 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: of dating, Shanny and Jonathan officially moved in together. I 30 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 1: didn't know that things moved that quickly. So Sharny had 31 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: just moved out of her family's house and into a 32 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 1: townhouse when Jonathan thought, well, I'm sick of traveling forty 33 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: five minutes to see you, let's just move in. Here's 34 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: how Shany broke the news to her YouTube audience. 35 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 3: Have something very serious to talk about. 36 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 4: This little bug full fact little lunchkins moved into my 37 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 4: house about when I moved in pretty much because you 38 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 4: haven't been living in your own place. Now that he 39 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 4: like officially moved in like last week for me. Bought 40 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,239 Speaker 4: all his stuff there except his golf clubs because they're 41 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 4: not going to fit in my house. 42 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 3: They can set his old house. 43 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: With the young couple now living together, Jonathan became a 44 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: permanent fixture on Shanni's channel, and viewers loved seeing them 45 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: navigating living together for the first time. 46 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 2: I was so scared to fight in front of you, 47 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 2: Like I would literally get cramps in my stomach because 48 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,079 Speaker 2: I was holding your fart in for that long. 49 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: Shani also admitted to occasionally needing space from Jonathan and 50 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,959 Speaker 1: getting fed up from being together too often. She said 51 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 1: that she values having me time and likes to chill 52 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: by herself or with her friends. And this made me 53 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: remember that she was only eighteen at the time. She 54 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 1: just moved out of home for the first time, and 55 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,119 Speaker 1: she was in this serious relationship that went from one 56 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: to one hundred in the space of just four months. 57 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: And at the time, Jonathan was working full time as 58 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: an account and in a video, he admitted to being 59 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: jealous of Shanes's YouTube channel. Here's what he said. 60 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 3: I'm jealous. I'm kind of jealous about the whole YouTube thing. Yeah, 61 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,679 Speaker 3: because I can work from home. Yeah, I like you. 62 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 3: I never knew anything about YouTube until I met Shani, 63 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 3: and I still don't know a lot of things. That's literally, 64 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 3: it's like a whole other world. Hey it is, It 65 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 3: really is, and you can meet so many people. 66 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 5: I think everyone should starty YouTube channel. 67 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:26,519 Speaker 1: Ironically, after this admission, it wasn't long until Jonathan left 68 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,399 Speaker 1: his full time job to become Shanese manager and also 69 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: launch his own social media career. And it did make 70 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: sense because he did attract a large following just from 71 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: appearing in a couple of Shanese vlogs. At the height 72 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 1: of his fame, he had close to two hundred thousand followers, 73 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: and as Shannes's manager, one would assume that he took 74 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: a lucrative cut from her deals. Do you think they 75 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: would have been together as long as they were if 76 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: he hadn't made the move to a career in social media, Well, potentially, 77 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: I actually think the opposite. Maybe they could have been 78 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: together for longer because you know, early on, Shany was 79 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: already talking about feeling that she needed time to herself, 80 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: So with him quitting his job, presumably they saw even 81 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 1: more of each other and potentially got on each other's nerves. Now, 82 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: if you think back to this time, one of Shanny's 83 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: most famous catchphrases, and I think Michael Finch also had 84 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: a lot to do with his catchphrase becoming so popular, 85 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: was Bindy. 86 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: Ah fucker dark Bindi. 87 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 1: Bindi is the name of the puppy that Shanny got 88 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 1: in twenty fifteen, and she is still a regular fixture 89 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: on Shiny Grimman's social media accounts. But ironically, the catchphrase 90 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: almost didn't happen because when I was scrolling through the archives, 91 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,919 Speaker 1: I was shocked to discover the Bindi's first name was 92 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: actually Audrey. 93 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 3: You guys are gonna love her. Look how little she is. 94 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 3: This is Audrey. She's so beautiful. 95 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:54,239 Speaker 2: She's a toy poodle across Shipsy, across maltees, and she's 96 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 2: just so little. 97 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: I was so confused at first, thinking is this a 98 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: different dog? But I can and confirm this is in 99 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: fact Bindi. Underneath the YouTube video, one follower wrote, your 100 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: puppy is adorable, and I personally think Bindy would suit 101 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: her more. It's not clear if this comment inspired the 102 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: name change, but I like to think that it did. 103 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 2: Now. 104 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 1: Shani purchased Bindy right as she moved into her new 105 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 1: home with Jonathan, so they were immediately this cute little family. 106 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 2: Good morning, guys, I'm going to be logging today, and. 107 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 3: Bindy says, good warning, Binny. Hey, Oh, she's so cute. 108 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 3: I let her sleep with me every night and she 109 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 3: like cuddles up into my chest. It's so cute. Look 110 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 3: at her. 111 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 4: Oh, Louie, baby, when is your one over there? 112 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,359 Speaker 1: After a couple of months of Jonathan and Shanny living together, 113 00:05:55,760 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: without warning, Shanny disappeared from YouTube over too, and this 114 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 1: was a huge shock to her followers. This absence led 115 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 1: to a lot of confusion and speculation from her followers. Yeah, 116 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:13,040 Speaker 1: and Shanny did eventually make an anticipated return to YouTube 117 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: with a dramatic tell or video revealing that she had 118 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 1: been robbed. Here's what she said. 119 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 3: So my house was broken into one month ago. 120 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 2: So I was in New Zealand with my boyfriend on 121 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 2: a holiday. I honestly, never, ever, ever would have thought 122 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 2: something like this would have happened. 123 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: This incident really rocked Shanny. She no longer felt safe 124 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 1: being on her own or being in this house. The 125 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: robbers had actually stolen her house keys and car keys. 126 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: Luckily they didn't end up taking the car, but it 127 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: did lead to a lot of anxiety that the robbers 128 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 1: could be back at any moment, so Shany and Jonathan 129 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: only lasted a few days in the rental before moving 130 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: back in with Shanni's family. Positive to come out of 131 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: the ordeal was that it brought Shanni and her family 132 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: a lot closer together. The downside for her followers was 133 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: that at her mom's house she could film, so her 134 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: camera and makeup had been stolen and her mom had 135 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: no backdrops to film in front of. Shannie did preface 136 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: that she also wasn't emotionally stable during that time to film. 137 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 2: I remember asking mom how much did they take? And 138 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 2: she said everything? And at this point I didn't really 139 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 2: know how it happened. I didn't know anything about it. 140 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 2: All I knew is that they took absolutely everything I had, 141 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 2: like no idea who it could have been, because no one, 142 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 2: or not many people at all, knew where I lived. 143 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 2: I never told anyone where I lived after the break in. 144 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 2: I have trust issues. I can't trust anyone. I honestly 145 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 2: question the littlest things, like if someone wants to be 146 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 2: my friend, and I'm like, do they really want to 147 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 2: be my friend or are they using me like for 148 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 2: followers or something like. I honestly just I can't trust 149 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 2: anyone and I have trust issues now, which really sucks. 150 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: This ordeal really shaped Shanny as a person going forward, 151 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: and it made her question a lot of her interactions 152 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 1: with people. She has spoken a lot about suffering from anxiety, 153 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: and this incident really exacerbated that. What also led to 154 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: a lot of debates about influencer privacy. So months earlier, 155 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 1: Sharni had shared an extensive house tour, showing her followers 156 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: through every room of the house, even the garage where 157 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: her car was parked, and the different entry points into 158 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: her house. 159 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 3: Let's start with my landroom. 160 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 2: So my front door is right here, and this is 161 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 2: the first thing that you see when you walk into 162 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:37,559 Speaker 2: my house. 163 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 3: It's all black and plain. I need to add some 164 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 3: color and staff the laundroom. 165 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:44,559 Speaker 2: We have a staircase that goes all the way up 166 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 2: to my three rooms and my bathrooms and staff by I'll. 167 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 3: Show that later. 168 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: The public began questioning whether influencers were putting themselves in 169 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: danger by oversharing. Now. Following the incident, Sharni released another 170 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 1: vlog urging her followers for privacy, and it came to 171 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 1: her new rental. 172 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 2: So on a serious note, a few people have been 173 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 2: commenting on my Instagram photos so for everyone to see 174 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 2: and saying I. 175 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 5: Know where you live. 176 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 3: I saw you drive into a new place there. 177 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 2: It's honestly so disrespectful and so frustrating. 178 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 3: How would you like if I went around telling people 179 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 3: where you lived? 180 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 2: Like this is probably how I got broken into people 181 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 2: seeing me drive into my house and telling their friends, 182 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 2: and then it gets around to other people, like it's 183 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 2: so annoying, Like you have to let. 184 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 3: Someone have their privacy once in a while. 185 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 2: Just because I have followers on Instagram or YouTube, it 186 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 2: doesn't make me any difference for you guys. 187 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: Even eight years on, influencers are still facing the same 188 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: issues when it comes to their privacy. Johnnie's best friend 189 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: Chloe Zepp had the same issue when she and her 190 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: now fiance Mitch brought a property on the Gold Coast 191 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 1: because as soon as they posted a photo in front 192 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 1: of the Soul sign, which I want to preface did 193 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: actually have the address blurred out, it didn't take long 194 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: for followers to track down the address on real estate 195 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 1: dot Com, and Mitch said that he even had followers 196 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: messaging him the address saying we know where you live. 197 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: A year on and the couple were also dramatically robbed 198 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: in a home invasion. So we're still at a point 199 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 1: where influencers have to be so careful about their safety. 200 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 1: It's a hard one because obviously Molly May as well 201 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 1: in the UK, she got robbed, and I know that 202 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: stopped her from posting a lot, but then suddenly she 203 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: was just sort of like, well, fuck it, I'm going 204 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: to share my home account. Like it sort of restricts 205 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: a lot of influencers from being able to do their 206 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: job when they do have to really consider, you know, 207 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:45,719 Speaker 1: parts of their life that they're sharing online. Yeah. Now, 208 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: five months on from the robbery, Shannie ended up posting 209 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: a YouTube video revealing she knew who broke into her house. 210 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: So she explained that straight after the robbery, she received 211 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: a message from a random girl saying she does to 212 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 1: note the truth now. The girl was fearful that the 213 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 1: robbers would come after her if they found out she 214 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: told Shanny. Shanny ended up convincing her to confess, and 215 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: she revealed that a group of eighteenagers had committed the robbery. Now, 216 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 1: the kids were aged sixteen to seventeen, with half of 217 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: them guys and half of them girls. Now, Shanny took 218 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: this message to the police, who said the message wasn't 219 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: enough proof to convict them. So Shanny started doing some 220 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 1: investigating of her own. So she and Jonathan jumped online 221 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: and at this stage they knew the names of the robbers, 222 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 1: so they trolled through their social media accounts and found 223 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 1: photos of the robbers wearing their clothes. One of the 224 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 1: robbers even brazenly captioned his post, I robbed you Now. 225 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: After that, Shanny started receiving an influx of messages from 226 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:53,079 Speaker 1: followers saying the group had been bragging at underage house 227 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: parties that they stole Shany Grimmin's makeup. Now, Sharny chose 228 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:00,160 Speaker 1: not to reveal the robbers' names in her videos. She 229 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 1: said it was clear they were after airtime and attention. 230 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 1: Now that she had photos of the robbers, though wearing 231 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 1: her clothes, she took that information to the police, who 232 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: again said they couldn't do anything about it. They said 233 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 1: they needed a confession. Isn't this just so ridiculous? Like 234 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 1: I understand that this is how the justice system works, 235 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: but you almost got to catch people in the act 236 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: robbing your house or have CCTVD vision of it. 237 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 238 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 1: Now, shortly after the robbery, the gang ended up breaking 239 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: into her house for a second time. Luckily, Shanny and 240 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: Jonathan had moved out of the townhouse and they were 241 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: staying at her mum's house. Sharnie arrived at the townhouse 242 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: to discover a note on the door from police saying, 243 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: your door was left wide open. This street has been 244 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 1: broken into. So again, this group had targeted Shanny and 245 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: it was easy for them to do so because they 246 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:56,439 Speaker 1: still had her house keys and car keys, so they 247 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: were coming and going as they pleased. Now, months after 248 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 1: the incident, when Sharni posted her video revealing that she'd 249 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 1: been robbed that night, she received a Facebook message from 250 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: one of the female robbers. Here's what she said. 251 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 2: Love your new video without emoji. Hope you look after 252 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 2: your makeup a bit better next time. Splantyr face emoji 253 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 2: if you want to drag me into it deep the 254 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 2: person that the main person that did it is going 255 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 2: to be more than happy to continue the drama. 256 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 3: Excuse me, is. 257 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 2: She literally threatening me that she's going to like break 258 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 2: into my house again? She literally just dobbed that person 259 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 2: in and said that he's the one that did it 260 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 2: and I've got it in writing. 261 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: It quickly became apparent that the girl was incredibly jealous 262 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 1: of Shanni's success and lifestyle, so she had been following 263 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: Shanni for some time and was training to become a 264 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 1: makeup artist herself, so in a follow up message, she 265 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: told Shanni to get a real job and stop bumming 266 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 1: around home making YouTube video like it's an actual job. 267 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:04,679 Speaker 1: She then asked Shani why she doesn't do a makeup 268 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 1: course and said she wasn't smart enough and that it's 269 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: harder than it looks now. These robbers kept popping up 270 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 1: in random places, with Shany confronting one of the robbers 271 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 1: brothers at a music festival. The robber's friends also continued 272 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 1: to dob them into Shanny, confirming they used Shany's car 273 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 1: during the robbery to take car loads of her belongings 274 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: to a house and it had been planned for a 275 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: very long time. To me, this just confirms that they 276 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 1: were scouting out her house through her YouTube videos, and 277 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: they also knew that it was a good time to 278 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: strike because they could see on her Instagram that she 279 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: was away in New Zealand with Jonathan. It's just so 280 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 1: messed up that the police couldn't do anything about it. 281 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 1: It wasn't just some random robbery. These people were clearly 282 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 1: targeting her, as we said, because they were jealous. I mean, 283 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: imagine if it had escalated further. 284 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 2: Well. 285 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 1: I think because the role or the job of an 286 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: influencer was perceived so differently at the time, I don't 287 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: think that the police took her level of fame seriously enough, 288 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 1: and if anything, they probably blamed her for putting that 289 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: information readily out there. 290 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 2: The first question is did you do it to fit 291 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 2: into the Kylie Jeda trend? 292 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: In this series, we touched on the shiny grimm and effect, 293 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 1: but what about the Kylie Jenna effect that was simultaneously 294 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 1: happening In twenty fifteen, at seventeen years old, Kylie started 295 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: setting the beauty standards when she went public with her 296 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: lip fillers. At the time, she denied getting the procedure done, 297 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: but after intense public scrutiny and backlash, she was forced 298 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: to reveal the truth on an episode of Keeping Up 299 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 1: with the Kardashians Now. The day she revealed the news 300 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: to the world, the number of Google searchers for the 301 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: procedure shot up by seventy percent. I remember at the 302 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 1: time she just kept saying, Oh, no, I've just been 303 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 1: overlining my lips and I was like, no, Well. It 304 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: really did spark an obsession with her lips, and she 305 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 1: used that to her advantage because she launched her Kylie 306 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: lip kits six months later. I remember those as at 307 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:09,239 Speaker 1: the time, Snapchat was just massive, and Kylie would always 308 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: be posting about the lip kits like she was such 309 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 1: a genius. It's easy to see why she became a 310 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 1: billionaire so quickly, because she really utilized social media marketing. Yeah, 311 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: because she was younger, she really seemed to understand the 312 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: power of social media more so than her other sisters. Now, 313 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 1: two weeks before Kylie admitted to getting lip filler, a 314 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: trend called the Kylie Jenner lip Challenge went viral. Do 315 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 1: you remember this, Oh well, I feel like this was 316 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 1: the year of There was always some kind of challenge 317 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 1: style scenario, but I remember the name, but I can't 318 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 1: remember what people were actually doing. So basically, people tried 319 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 1: to emulate her lips by inserting their lips into a 320 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 1: shot glass and then sucking the air to create a vacuum, 321 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: so it created so much pressure that people's lips would 322 00:16:55,640 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: temporarily swell. Now, Kylie's admission also led to normalization of 323 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:04,239 Speaker 1: lip fillers, with young women heading into clinics in their 324 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: droves to have the procedure done. A bit of a 325 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 1: fun fact, I was working at Channel seven at the time, 326 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 1: and I did this investigation into the rise in young 327 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 1: women getting lip fillers. Yeah, and we did use Kylie 328 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 1: Jennet in the story as as a key motivator, because 329 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 1: you've got to remember that in twenty seventeen, it was 330 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:28,640 Speaker 1: really new. Like I remember it being quite shocking when 331 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 1: Kylie admitted she'd had lip fillers. Now no one cares well. 332 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:36,160 Speaker 1: Shany Grimman was one of those teenagers who ended up 333 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 1: heading in to visit her local injector. 334 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 3: Yes, I got my lips done. They are extremely, extremely 335 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 3: swollen at the moment, so they're not going to be 336 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:47,439 Speaker 3: this big in a few days. Don't worry people like 337 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 3: freaking out, Oh my god, what did you do to 338 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 3: your lips? Don't worry. The swelling will go down. 339 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 2: I would never make my lips look fake except right now, 340 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 2: because there's nothing I can do about it. 341 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:00,919 Speaker 1: It's interesting that Shany is prefacing in this grab that 342 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 1: don't worry, my lips aren't going to look fake, They're 343 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 1: going to look natural. Because this really, as you touched 344 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 1: on Amy, was the first time we were openly hearing 345 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:12,240 Speaker 1: women speak about the cosmetic procedures they were choosing to 346 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,880 Speaker 1: get done, because in the past, there was a lot 347 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 1: of shame and secrecy around it, and women in the 348 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: public eye would often deflect and just have to pretend 349 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 1: that they hadn't had anything done. It's also the age 350 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 1: factor as well. I think we're surprising hearing someone who's 351 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 1: a teenager talking about cosmetic surgery. Yeah, that's very true, 352 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 1: because it was something that we just sort of thought 353 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 1: that older women did. Also because most teens probably didn't 354 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 1: have the money to actually do it. But because of 355 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:44,160 Speaker 1: the rise of YouTubers and influencers, I think young women 356 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 1: were getting more and more money and they were able 357 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: to make these decisions for themselves, and that was the 358 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 1: real issue because teenagers couldn't afford it. Unfortunately, they were 359 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:57,679 Speaker 1: going to places where people weren't experienced in using lip fillers, 360 00:18:57,680 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 1: which ended in a lot of people having their lips 361 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 1: overfilled or botched. There was very fierce debate raging at 362 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:08,200 Speaker 1: the time whether this openness was a good or bad thing, 363 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 1: because some people felt it was unethical for influences to 364 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:16,640 Speaker 1: normalize the practice to impressionable teenagers because at the time, 365 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: many influencers would vlog their procedure in the chair and 366 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: they do q and as about the experience, and there 367 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 1: was this fear that by normalizing a procedure like lip injections, 368 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:30,679 Speaker 1: it would create unrealistic beauty standards and cause people to 369 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 1: develop an obsession with perceived flaws. Well, on the other hand, 370 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,400 Speaker 1: there were others who believed that the openness helped break 371 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 1: down stigma and also empowered women to make decisions about 372 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 1: their body without judgment. And unsurprisingly, Shani was incredibly open 373 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: about her lip filler journey. She wasn't new to the 374 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:53,719 Speaker 1: world of cosmetic work because she previously had created a 375 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 1: series of YouTube videos about getting veneers, and she was 376 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,840 Speaker 1: just so open about her life, so this wasn't something 377 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:03,400 Speaker 1: that she was going to try and conceal and hide. 378 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 1: I also think that she was so open about it because, 379 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 1: as we say, at the time, because of Kylie Jennet, 380 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 1: there was so much interest in the procedure, and I 381 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:14,359 Speaker 1: think she probably knew it was a clever way to 382 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:17,159 Speaker 1: get extra views and engagement on her videos, so she 383 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 1: did do a sit down Q and A answering followers questions, 384 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,919 Speaker 1: and many were intrigued to find out if the procedure 385 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: was painful and how much it cost, and whether she 386 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: was happy with the results. She was also asked if 387 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 1: she was motivated by Kylie Jennet to get it done. 388 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 1: Here's what she said. 389 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 3: I would never. 390 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,920 Speaker 2: Change the look of my face, or body or anything 391 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 2: just to fit into a trend. I don't necessarily follow trends. 392 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:43,160 Speaker 2: I just do what makes me happy. I know that's 393 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 2: so cliche to say, but basically, one side of my 394 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 2: lip was really big and the other side was really thin, 395 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,080 Speaker 2: so I just wanted to even out give them a 396 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 2: natural plump and make them look naturally juicy. 397 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:56,679 Speaker 1: I feel for Shanny because after watching a lot of 398 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:59,399 Speaker 1: her early vlogs back, it's clear that she received a 399 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:01,959 Speaker 1: lot of hate comments about the size of her lips, 400 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,919 Speaker 1: and it would be really hard not to be impacted 401 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 1: by those comments and feel like you had to change yourself, 402 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: particularly when you're being built up as this it girl 403 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 1: of YouTube and you have to live up to these 404 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 1: very high beauty standards that are coming out because it 405 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 1: was the it thing to have full lips. And that's 406 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 1: the funny thing that there will be all these people 407 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 1: online that will hate on an influencer for the way 408 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: that they look, and then when they go and change 409 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 1: something about themselves, it'll be like, oh my god, they 410 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 1: used to look so much better before. They really can't 411 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: win sometimes. 412 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 3: Well. 413 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 1: A couple of other burning questions that she received were 414 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 1: about whether it felt different for her to kiss and 415 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: what Jonathan thought of them, and she tactfully explained that 416 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 1: Jonathan didn't really have an opinion because he didn't know 417 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: what to expect, but she did admit that when she 418 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 1: got home and she was all swollen from the procedure, 419 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 1: his first reaction was, holy shit, what have you done? 420 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 1: But she prefaced that he really likes them. Now. It's 421 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:01,119 Speaker 1: really interesting to watch the Q and A back with hindsight, 422 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 1: because at the time she was quite adamant that she 423 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: wanted to keep her lips looking very natural, and she 424 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 1: talked glowingly about her injector. However, as the years went on, 425 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 1: Sharni suffered quite badly with filler migration, and she ended 426 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 1: up having to get them dissolved and subsequently filled again 427 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 1: by a new injector who she trusted. So she explained 428 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 1: that in her teenage years she would visit random injectors, 429 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 1: which she regretted and advised others not to do now. 430 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 1: Shortly after going public with her lip filler, Shanny was 431 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: rocked by her first controversy. So before heading to a festival, 432 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 1: Sharni uploaded a snapchat story of her brother and an 433 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 1: acquaintance playing with nerf guns, which sounds pretty innocent. The 434 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 1: only catch was in the background of the shot was 435 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:52,400 Speaker 1: a Nazi flag hanging on the wall. Now, the backlash 436 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 1: was swift, with followers accusing Shanny of being racist and 437 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 1: calling for her to be canceled. Now, I don't think 438 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: the word canceled was actually used at the time, but 439 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 1: this post did deeply affect a section of Shanny's followers 440 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: and there was a lot of anger and feeling like 441 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 1: she shouldn't be able to continue sharing YouTube videos. She 442 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: was on the front foot, though. She released a YouTube 443 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 1: video entitled The Truth Behind the Rumors so she could 444 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,920 Speaker 1: explain her side of the story. So she started the 445 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 1: video saying this. 446 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,000 Speaker 2: So firstly, I just want to say I would never 447 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 2: support or have any sort of association with any group 448 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 2: like the Nazi. I am not racist in any way, 449 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,640 Speaker 2: shape or form. I do not discriminate against any nationality 450 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 2: or race. 451 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:39,199 Speaker 3: I'm not that kind of person. 452 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,719 Speaker 1: She went on to explain that she was at a 453 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: friend of a friend's apartment and they went there to 454 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 1: hang out before the festival. She confirmed that she was 455 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:51,400 Speaker 1: only there for ten minutes and in that time snapchated 456 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 1: her brother and friend playing with the nerf guns. She 457 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 1: explained that when she uses Snapchat, she doesn't look back 458 00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 1: at the videos, she just posts in real time anyway. 459 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 1: Shanny says that they then ended up leaving the apartment 460 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,680 Speaker 1: to go to the festival, and two hours later, her 461 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 1: brother text her saying, there's a Nazi flag in your background. 462 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,200 Speaker 1: Shani immediately removed the posts and explained that she never 463 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 1: intentionally posted the flag. In fact, she had no idea 464 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 1: it was even in the background, and it was quite 465 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,960 Speaker 1: clear listening to the video that Shanny didn't have much 466 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 1: knowledge of the flag's meaning at the point. 467 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 2: I didn't one hundred percent know the meaning of this flag. 468 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 2: I did know that it was not a good flag, obviously, but. 469 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 3: I do know the meaning now. 470 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 2: But I still feel like that the fact that I 471 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 2: didn't know the true one hundred percent meaning behind this 472 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 2: flag isn't really necessary to the reason why it was up. 473 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,400 Speaker 3: I just generally did not see the flag. 474 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 1: She confirmed that she had since educated herself on its 475 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: meaning and was very apologetic to the followers she had upset. 476 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,439 Speaker 1: She also reiterated that she had nothing to do with 477 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: the person who hung the flag and had no idea 478 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 1: why it was up in the person's house, and that 479 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 1: she's not friends with this particular person. Shanni got really 480 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:04,800 Speaker 1: teary in this video, and it was clear that she 481 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:08,879 Speaker 1: was very apologetic. She sounded very genuine, and to me, 482 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:12,440 Speaker 1: this is a teenage girl who made a mistake. I 483 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 1: believe what she said in this video. I think that 484 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 1: she had no idea that the flag was there and 485 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: clearly wasn't aware of the flag's history. It is interesting 486 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 1: to take a look at this video from a PR 487 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 1: perspective because in twenty twenty four we're so used to 488 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 1: seeing influencer apology videos, but this was one of the 489 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: first of its kind in twenty fifteen. I think she 490 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 1: handled herself really well because she didn't try and shy 491 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: away from the controversy. She tackled her head on, and 492 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,680 Speaker 1: she acknowledged where she went wrong and that she'd educated 493 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 1: herself and apologized. And this is why this incident really 494 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:50,479 Speaker 1: didn't affect her sponsorship deals going forward, because it was 495 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: clearly a case of her being in the wrong place 496 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,439 Speaker 1: at the wrong time. Now, Shanni's newfound fame led to 497 00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 1: a lot of jealousy within her school friendship group and 498 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: bubbled over on a trip to Splendor when she discovered 499 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 1: she was being mocked on snapchat. 500 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 5: So basically what happened is something really bad made me 501 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 5: feel like shit, So I ended up going home really early. 502 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,920 Speaker 5: So someone that I was really really really close friends 503 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:21,359 Speaker 5: with put up snapchats of her friend mocking me, so like, hey, guys, 504 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,480 Speaker 5: welcome back to my channel, like I'm YouTube famous. Here's 505 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,159 Speaker 5: my coupon code for the bus because I'm getting a 506 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 5: bus to Slender and just being. 507 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 3: The biggest asshole. 508 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,159 Speaker 2: And this person that I was really close friends with 509 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 2: was like laughing at her and everything, like condoning her, 510 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 2: like putting it on her own snapchat. It made me 511 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 2: so angry because I don't think you should be friends 512 00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 2: with people that make you feel like shit about yourself 513 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:45,360 Speaker 2: or about what you do. I was just like so shocked, 514 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 2: and like, I know, I just couldn't get my mood 515 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 2: back up again. 516 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 3: But that's done. 517 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 5: I don't have time for that in my life anymore. 518 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 1: It's clear that this reaction stemmed from jealousy. Shanny was 519 00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 1: being offered so many amazing opportunities and allso being gifted 520 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: free products, and this whole influencing thing was a completely 521 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 1: new phenomenon. So I can kind of see both sides. 522 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 1: I can see why her friends probably had their noses 523 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: out of joint, and I can see also why it 524 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 1: would have been incredibly difficult for Sharni to navigate this 525 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 1: new found fame on her own. 526 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 3: Well. 527 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 1: At that stage as well, it was probably seen as 528 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 1: being a bit embarrassing talking to a camera in public. 529 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I still think that there is a lot 530 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,960 Speaker 1: of judgment. It depends where you are in the world. 531 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 1: Like if you're in the US filming, I think, or 532 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,160 Speaker 1: even in Sydney, no one really cares what you're doing. 533 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 1: But if you were to walk down the street in Adelaide, 534 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 1: I feel like you'd get a similar reaction. Yeah, it 535 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 1: is no surprise that at nineteen Shanne started befriending fellow 536 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 1: YouTubers who were going through the same experiences as her, 537 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 1: because clearly her friends weren't able to relate to what 538 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: was going on. This is where Michael Finch entered the scene. 539 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 1: So Shanni and Michael, they were such an unbeatable jew way. 540 00:27:55,800 --> 00:28:00,200 Speaker 1: They instantly had this chemistry when they'd film together. They 541 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: sparked up a friendship online and it's pretty cute because 542 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 1: they both used to watch each other's YouTube videos and 543 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:10,359 Speaker 1: they started messaging each other from there. And at the time, 544 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,919 Speaker 1: Michael was living in Regional Victoria and Shanny was in 545 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 1: Brisbane and they met in person for the first time 546 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,440 Speaker 1: when Sharney was visiting Melbourne. So Michael ended up doing 547 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 1: her makeup and they ended up going out clubbing together 548 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,800 Speaker 1: and really hit it off. Funnily enough, this is also 549 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,879 Speaker 1: the night that Shannie and Michael met Lily Brown, so 550 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:34,000 Speaker 1: shortly after, Michael visited Sharnie in Brisbane for a sleepover. 551 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 1: And a bit of a fun fact, the first video 552 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 1: of Sharnee on Michael's channel is from this sleepover, and 553 00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 1: it was only the second time they had met, and 554 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 1: you couldn't tell because they had this instant chemistry on 555 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 1: camera and it was like they'd known each other their 556 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 1: whole lives. They razzed each other up and they were 557 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:54,280 Speaker 1: playfully rude to one another, and Michael literally at one 558 00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 1: stage burped in Charny's face, and he also dropped that 559 00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 1: Sharny had been farting around him for their entire stay, 560 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 1: So it's clear that they were comfortable around each other 561 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: from day dot and it wasn't long before Michael moved 562 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 1: to Brisbane to be closer to Shanni and his other 563 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 1: YouTube friends, and by this stage they had formed a 564 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 1: formidable influencer click Teenagers were absolutely obsessed with this friendship group, 565 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: which consisted of Lily Brown, Rannie Brands, Beat Sky, Wheatley, 566 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 1: and of course Michael and Shanni. And at the time, 567 00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 1: Shanni and Michael's growth was enormous, so people saw it 568 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 1: as almost opportunistic for Lily Sky and Rannie to be 569 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:38,760 Speaker 1: in their videos. It kind of grew their following instantaneously, 570 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: and it was at a time when beauty influencers could 571 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:45,959 Speaker 1: really make or break brands, and brands were paying out 572 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 1: enormous paychecks for their endorsements. It's crazy to think that 573 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 1: the biggest brands at the time were Anastagia, Beverly Hills, 574 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 1: and Morphy. It was the days when everyone was using 575 00:29:56,480 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 1: tart shaped tape and Becker highlighter, and because there was 576 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 1: so much money to be made, some followers did speculate 577 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 1: on the genuineness of this friendship and whether these three 578 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 1: girls were in fact using Michael and Shanny to grow 579 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 1: their careers. 580 00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 2: Now. 581 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: Earlier in this episode, we touched on Shari's catchphrase bindy, 582 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 1: and it really was Michael who made the catchphrase what 583 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 1: it was. He was obsessed with Shannie's little dog. Let's 584 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 1: throw to some of their most iconic catchphrases, Get in. 585 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 3: There, bindy, way back on the butler. 586 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying ells fucking serious. 587 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 3: That's a problem that like I kind of stop. 588 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:42,400 Speaker 1: These catchphrases were so big the Beginning Boutique jumped on 589 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 1: the opportunity and they offered Shanni and Michael a collaboration 590 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 1: which would see their catchphrases emblazoned on merchandise. So they 591 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 1: were that said thank you, not a problem and see you, 592 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: and Shani originally had her own label SG the label, 593 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: but she then rebranded when she and Mike started making 594 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:05,240 Speaker 1: their joint merchandise. I actually have a pair of socks. 595 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: I don't actually think they were from beginning boutique. I 596 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 1: think Michael also released his own merch just by himself 597 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,480 Speaker 1: that say, c what if they'd be worth anything now? 598 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 1: I doubt it. But one thing that I really loved 599 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 1: about Shanny and Michael was that they had such a 600 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 1: wholesome friendship. They traveled quite a lot together and it 601 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 1: wasn't just for brand trips. They actually genuinely enjoyed traveling 602 00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:30,960 Speaker 1: the world together. And one of my ultimate favorite YouTube 603 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,400 Speaker 1: videos to this day is Shanni and Michael in Bali, 604 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 1: and it was the first time that Michael had ever 605 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 1: traveled overseas, and you can tell he is just so 606 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,959 Speaker 1: young in this video because he knew nothing about Ballei 607 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 1: or the rest of the world, and Shani kept quizzing 608 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 1: him on what barley belly was, and he was very 609 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:54,120 Speaker 1: confused about whether you could get barley belly from the 610 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 1: water from the tap or whether it was the water 611 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 1: in the pool or the water in the ocean. I 612 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 1: need to remember that Michael Finched was a boy from 613 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 1: Country Victorious, and he also dropped out of school very early. 614 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 1: Now Shiny really highlighted Michael's lack of understanding when it 615 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 1: came to geography. 616 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 4: In this clip, Michael literally just asked the best question, 617 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 4: you know how He's like really good with geography and 618 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 4: all of that good stuff. He's like, don't film this, 619 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,000 Speaker 4: but can I ask your question? 620 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 3: He said, are we like still in the world like 621 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,080 Speaker 3: that little blue ball? Are we like there? 622 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 4: And I'm like, well, yeah, Bali is in Earth. 623 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 3: So he learned something you know every day, can't you. 624 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 2: I just thought, no, honest to god, I honestly thought 625 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 2: like it was just another island. 626 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 3: We are in another island. 627 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, but like did we leave the blue ball? 628 00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 1: Obviously not no. 629 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 4: Because only humans live on Earth. They don't live in 630 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,320 Speaker 4: any other planets maybe like Aliens. 631 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 5: This is why I don't fly anywhere, because it just 632 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 5: confuses me. 633 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 3: And I saw, literally this is how you learn you fly. 634 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 4: I still don't know where I am. We're in a 635 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 4: country near Australia that we're in an island. 636 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 3: Well, same thing. 637 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 1: Okay, Hey, this is iconic. I love this so much, 638 00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 1: like it never gets old. He comes across as someone 639 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 1: that you would just love to travel with. I mean 640 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 1: maybe someone that you would have to kind of help 641 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 1: along the way. Though Yeah, I feel like you want 642 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 1: him in a group situation, like you definitely want to 643 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 1: travel with him, Shani and maybe another person maybe not 644 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 1: Sky Oh as in that US trip they went on 645 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:33,480 Speaker 1: looked pretty horrendous because they were all competing to be heard. 646 00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 3: Now. 647 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 1: While Shanny's friendships were flourishing, the same couldn't be said 648 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 1: about her relationship with Jonathan, and while they look like 649 00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,719 Speaker 1: the definition of couple goals online, behind closed doors it 650 00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 1: was a very different story. So Sharani broke the Internet 651 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:53,040 Speaker 1: in twenty eighteen when she posted a YouTube video entitled 652 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 1: we Broke Up. This is where We'll leave you for 653 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: today's episode. In next week's final installment, we explored the 654 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,239 Speaker 1: chaos that erupted when Shanni pulled the pin on her 655 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 1: three year relationship with Jonathan Soer. We also discussed the 656 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 1: demise of the Hottest Influencer Click, Shanny's moved to Melbourne 657 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 1: for footballer Tommy Bug, and her entrance into the business world. 658 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,920 Speaker 1: If you did enjoy today's episode, we would love if 659 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,440 Speaker 1: you could leave us a five star review, as it 660 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 1: really does help the podcast out. Also, if you'd like 661 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 1: to follow Outspoken on Instagram and TikTok, we're at Outspoken 662 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 1: Underscore the Underscore podcast. You can also follow Kate, Sophie 663 00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 1: and I on Instagram. 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