1 00:00:10,669 --> 00:00:14,869 Speaker 1: My Herd podcasts, hear more kids podcasts, playlists, and listen 2 00:00:14,909 --> 00:00:18,469 Speaker 1: live on the Free I heard a Willem Woody. 3 00:00:18,349 --> 00:00:21,589 Speaker 2: Brought you by Glowbird one hundred thousand dollars giving away 4 00:00:21,628 --> 00:00:23,348 Speaker 2: another person in the drawer right up next with the 5 00:00:23,389 --> 00:00:26,589 Speaker 2: one in three chance of winning outrageous cash one hundred game. 6 00:00:26,629 --> 00:00:29,109 Speaker 2: We've never given away one hundred grad beforewards Life Chase Oil. 7 00:00:29,229 --> 00:00:30,709 Speaker 3: It is all thanks to Mission Possible. 8 00:00:30,709 --> 00:00:33,388 Speaker 2: The final reckoning right now though, is unhealthy if your 9 00:00:33,388 --> 00:00:37,509 Speaker 2: partner can track your location. The survey's done forty seven 10 00:00:37,589 --> 00:00:39,668 Speaker 2: percent of people. It's actually more than that, it's fifty 11 00:00:39,668 --> 00:00:42,468 Speaker 2: eight percent of people in this survey conducted by e 12 00:00:42,549 --> 00:00:43,269 Speaker 2: Safety Commission. 13 00:00:43,309 --> 00:00:44,869 Speaker 3: I didn't even know they existed, but they're out there 14 00:00:44,869 --> 00:00:45,989 Speaker 3: doing surveys. Good on them. 15 00:00:46,269 --> 00:00:48,909 Speaker 2: They've found out that fifty eight percent of people expect 16 00:00:48,989 --> 00:00:51,509 Speaker 2: that you can track your partner whenever you want. You 17 00:00:51,549 --> 00:00:54,469 Speaker 2: should be able to expect that in a relationship these days, 18 00:00:54,629 --> 00:00:55,389 Speaker 2: which again. 19 00:00:55,229 --> 00:00:56,629 Speaker 4: The expect word is very strong. 20 00:00:57,029 --> 00:00:59,389 Speaker 2: You and I have just spoken, however, that we do 21 00:00:59,509 --> 00:01:01,789 Speaker 2: track each our partner's location. They track us, and I 22 00:01:01,869 --> 00:01:03,909 Speaker 2: think that changed once we had kids. And it also 23 00:01:04,029 --> 00:01:06,189 Speaker 2: means a lot less comms it's just that where are you, 24 00:01:06,269 --> 00:01:08,229 Speaker 2: what are you doing? Message that it's deleted for us, 25 00:01:08,269 --> 00:01:11,309 Speaker 2: which is really nice. It does start to get it 26 00:01:11,349 --> 00:01:15,669 Speaker 2: does start to get manipulative. I think though, when you're 27 00:01:15,789 --> 00:01:19,189 Speaker 2: using that information in a way that to hold it 28 00:01:19,229 --> 00:01:20,189 Speaker 2: against the person that you're with. 29 00:01:20,269 --> 00:01:20,869 Speaker 3: That's when it starts to. 30 00:01:21,829 --> 00:01:23,669 Speaker 1: I thought you said you're at work, it's quite clear 31 00:01:23,669 --> 00:01:25,069 Speaker 1: that you're at the pub like that. 32 00:01:25,629 --> 00:01:26,749 Speaker 3: I think that would be annoying. 33 00:01:26,909 --> 00:01:28,949 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think, yeah, I think that would be annoying. 34 00:01:28,989 --> 00:01:30,189 Speaker 3: And say, oh, I think I left my phone at 35 00:01:30,189 --> 00:01:30,909 Speaker 3: the pub. 36 00:01:31,069 --> 00:01:34,029 Speaker 2: Yeah, or even yeah, yeah, I think I think checking 37 00:01:34,109 --> 00:01:35,909 Speaker 2: up on them, I don't know. 38 00:01:36,109 --> 00:01:37,789 Speaker 3: I think you're in a bad spot. 39 00:01:38,069 --> 00:01:40,349 Speaker 4: If you need to check up on where your partner 40 00:01:40,429 --> 00:01:42,069 Speaker 4: is interesting, I. 41 00:01:42,029 --> 00:01:44,069 Speaker 2: Think that's a bad spot. I think that's a bad thing. 42 00:01:44,149 --> 00:01:45,429 Speaker 2: Tianna's called what are your thoughts? 43 00:01:45,469 --> 00:01:50,269 Speaker 4: Tiana? Yes, yes, Tiana, you're on the air. 44 00:01:51,509 --> 00:01:51,709 Speaker 3: Hi. 45 00:01:51,869 --> 00:01:52,829 Speaker 4: How are you good? 46 00:01:52,869 --> 00:01:53,109 Speaker 3: Good? 47 00:01:53,149 --> 00:01:54,109 Speaker 4: What do you think about this? 48 00:01:54,269 --> 00:01:55,909 Speaker 3: Let's get into it, shall we. 49 00:01:55,909 --> 00:01:57,949 Speaker 5: Well, I'm going to be married for a year, but 50 00:01:57,949 --> 00:02:00,469 Speaker 5: I've been with my partner thro the five and never 51 00:02:00,669 --> 00:02:04,509 Speaker 5: once have we spoken or even thought about like tracking 52 00:02:04,549 --> 00:02:04,989 Speaker 5: each other. 53 00:02:05,589 --> 00:02:07,229 Speaker 3: Yeah, would you would you not do it? Why? Why 54 00:02:07,269 --> 00:02:08,549 Speaker 3: would you not do it, Tianna. 55 00:02:10,149 --> 00:02:12,789 Speaker 5: I just think that if I'm tracking my partner, there's 56 00:02:12,829 --> 00:02:16,189 Speaker 5: no trust, and if there's no trust, then there's not 57 00:02:16,309 --> 00:02:19,269 Speaker 5: much solid foundation to work off. 58 00:02:19,069 --> 00:02:21,349 Speaker 1: There what about the situation to this? So this is 59 00:02:21,349 --> 00:02:23,629 Speaker 1: why me and my wife started doing it. So I'm 60 00:02:23,629 --> 00:02:26,508 Speaker 1: not sure if your husband is good with his phone, 61 00:02:26,549 --> 00:02:29,469 Speaker 1: but a lot of the time I just leave my 62 00:02:29,549 --> 00:02:31,909 Speaker 1: phone somewhere, or she'd try to call me or text 63 00:02:31,909 --> 00:02:34,109 Speaker 1: me and wouldn't know where I am. So it was 64 00:02:34,149 --> 00:02:36,509 Speaker 1: great for us that she could just look on this 65 00:02:36,629 --> 00:02:38,669 Speaker 1: app and go like, oh, you're at work, great, done, 66 00:02:38,749 --> 00:02:39,989 Speaker 1: don't need to try and get onto him. 67 00:02:40,029 --> 00:02:41,269 Speaker 4: Does that appeal at all? 68 00:02:42,869 --> 00:02:43,509 Speaker 6: Not really? 69 00:02:43,629 --> 00:02:46,469 Speaker 5: Like my partner's always on the road, you know, like 70 00:02:46,629 --> 00:02:50,109 Speaker 5: quoting his a plumber tradee. So never I don't know, 71 00:02:50,149 --> 00:02:53,069 Speaker 5: I've never felt the need to know exactly where he is. 72 00:02:53,109 --> 00:02:55,149 Speaker 5: But we do speak about, you know, where are you 73 00:02:55,229 --> 00:02:58,269 Speaker 5: working today? Where are you working tomorrow? And I sort 74 00:02:58,269 --> 00:03:00,589 Speaker 5: of know it like a gist, you know. 75 00:03:00,869 --> 00:03:03,788 Speaker 2: It's the pinpointing it starts to get yeah, yeah, yeah, 76 00:03:03,789 --> 00:03:06,709 Speaker 2: thanks Tianna. Thanks to call my m spinally's pillow. I 77 00:03:06,749 --> 00:03:10,029 Speaker 2: know some of the people outside were pretty pumped about this. 78 00:03:10,069 --> 00:03:13,189 Speaker 3: What do you think, Jay, I just. 79 00:03:13,589 --> 00:03:15,989 Speaker 7: Don't ever think that anyone needs to know where I 80 00:03:15,989 --> 00:03:16,589 Speaker 7: am except for me. 81 00:03:17,669 --> 00:03:17,909 Speaker 4: Yeah. 82 00:03:18,029 --> 00:03:19,989 Speaker 2: Nice, I would never share it, Like, I don't even 83 00:03:19,989 --> 00:03:22,429 Speaker 2: think I would probably consider someone that asked. 84 00:03:22,149 --> 00:03:23,228 Speaker 7: Me for it. 85 00:03:23,309 --> 00:03:26,309 Speaker 2: So there's certainly this word that people would expect it 86 00:03:26,389 --> 00:03:29,309 Speaker 2: of you in a relationship with instant red flags. 87 00:03:28,989 --> 00:03:29,228 Speaker 3: Isn't it. 88 00:03:29,669 --> 00:03:32,389 Speaker 4: I'd probably laugh, Yeah, it expected it. 89 00:03:32,469 --> 00:03:34,749 Speaker 3: Expect is a strong word. I need to know where 90 00:03:34,789 --> 00:03:35,109 Speaker 3: you are. 91 00:03:35,869 --> 00:03:37,189 Speaker 4: And again, this is the. 92 00:03:37,149 --> 00:03:39,429 Speaker 2: Reason that the E Safety Mission's looking into this is 93 00:03:39,469 --> 00:03:42,989 Speaker 2: because there is obviously very clear links between tracking someone 94 00:03:43,029 --> 00:03:45,669 Speaker 2: and having a sense of increased coercive control over them. 95 00:03:45,909 --> 00:03:48,189 Speaker 4: So it's not it can be nasty, no doubt about. 96 00:03:48,189 --> 00:03:50,309 Speaker 2: They're not you and I either. Woods where Freemen uh 97 00:03:50,509 --> 00:03:52,549 Speaker 2: Junior produce your analyst? What do you think about this? 98 00:03:52,869 --> 00:03:54,109 Speaker 2: You also have a strong opinion. 99 00:03:54,509 --> 00:03:56,709 Speaker 7: I actually don't mind it, but I think it has 100 00:03:56,749 --> 00:03:59,229 Speaker 7: to be done in like a mutually kind of like 101 00:03:59,709 --> 00:04:01,989 Speaker 7: respectful capacity. You have to know them for a bit 102 00:04:02,069 --> 00:04:05,149 Speaker 7: and you have to trust them, and like it can't 103 00:04:05,189 --> 00:04:06,789 Speaker 7: be for the wrong reasons, like I don't want you 104 00:04:06,829 --> 00:04:09,749 Speaker 7: tracking me, same as you, Woody, Like I don't want 105 00:04:09,789 --> 00:04:13,029 Speaker 7: you tracking me because you want to know, like what 106 00:04:13,109 --> 00:04:15,189 Speaker 7: I'm doing at all moments. I want you tracking me 107 00:04:15,269 --> 00:04:17,229 Speaker 7: to know, Hey, she's going to be like twenty minutes late. 108 00:04:17,269 --> 00:04:19,589 Speaker 3: You know, I would love to track you a baby? 109 00:04:20,308 --> 00:04:22,709 Speaker 3: Can we can we organize that because that'd be good. 110 00:04:22,909 --> 00:04:24,988 Speaker 3: It's a good content. Can trust me, you can track me. 111 00:04:25,029 --> 00:04:25,549 Speaker 4: It's fine. 112 00:04:25,869 --> 00:04:26,948 Speaker 7: I've got no I'm going nowhere. 113 00:04:26,988 --> 00:04:29,829 Speaker 3: Weird, we'll find out on Monday. 114 00:04:30,509 --> 00:04:32,868 Speaker 4: Let's go to Let's go to Dana here nothing. 115 00:04:32,869 --> 00:04:35,029 Speaker 3: I've been checking a weekend. I've got a life as well. 116 00:04:35,909 --> 00:04:36,229 Speaker 4: Dana. 117 00:04:36,349 --> 00:04:38,309 Speaker 2: You put that up is like a widget on our 118 00:04:38,349 --> 00:04:40,149 Speaker 2: socials is analyst right now? 119 00:04:40,509 --> 00:04:42,749 Speaker 4: We might cross a few lines there. That might cross 120 00:04:42,789 --> 00:04:44,989 Speaker 4: a few Dana. 121 00:04:45,269 --> 00:04:47,829 Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on sharing your location with your partner? 122 00:04:48,629 --> 00:04:51,308 Speaker 6: Well, for us, it's really convenient because like me and 123 00:04:51,349 --> 00:04:53,509 Speaker 6: my family, a lot of us do uber and awdash. 124 00:04:53,669 --> 00:04:55,989 Speaker 6: So will you share with our partners so that if 125 00:04:55,988 --> 00:04:58,349 Speaker 6: anything goes wrong then know how to find us real quickly, 126 00:04:58,988 --> 00:05:01,349 Speaker 6: and like we have kids and stuff like that, So 127 00:05:01,389 --> 00:05:03,949 Speaker 6: for us, it's a safety thing. People know where we are. 128 00:05:04,349 --> 00:05:06,429 Speaker 6: We have like a big family one so that everyone 129 00:05:06,469 --> 00:05:09,509 Speaker 6: can find each other if anything goes down they need 130 00:05:09,509 --> 00:05:10,069 Speaker 6: a rescue. 131 00:05:10,669 --> 00:05:10,989 Speaker 3: I saw it. 132 00:05:11,109 --> 00:05:12,589 Speaker 2: I actually saw a kid the other day get off 133 00:05:12,629 --> 00:05:16,109 Speaker 2: the tram and they were they were on a FaceTime 134 00:05:16,149 --> 00:05:19,628 Speaker 2: call to their parents and they met that there, but 135 00:05:19,669 --> 00:05:20,989 Speaker 2: their mum and dady was waiting for them like one 136 00:05:21,029 --> 00:05:22,589 Speaker 2: hundred meters down the road. So I assumed that the 137 00:05:22,629 --> 00:05:25,229 Speaker 2: idea was just as soon as you're walking alone in 138 00:05:25,229 --> 00:05:26,989 Speaker 2: the dark, your video. 139 00:05:26,749 --> 00:05:27,589 Speaker 3: Call me immediately. 140 00:05:27,988 --> 00:05:29,869 Speaker 2: I imagine we were to say that when our girls 141 00:05:29,869 --> 00:05:32,749 Speaker 2: grow up, my girl have five or six hair tags 142 00:05:32,789 --> 00:05:33,229 Speaker 2: on her at the same 143 00:05:33,269 --> 00:05:36,909 Speaker 3: Time, five or six straw I reckon