1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,760 Speaker 1: Just before we head into today's episode, we'd like to 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: acknowledge and pay respect to Australia's Aboriginal and Torres Strait 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:09,960 Speaker 1: Islander peoples. They're the traditional custodians of the lands, the 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: waterways and the skies all across Australia. We thank you 5 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: for sharing and for caring for the land on which 6 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 1: we are able to learn. We pay respects to elders 7 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: past and present, and we share our friendship and our kindness. 8 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 2: She's on the Money, She's on the Money. 9 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 3: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast 10 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 3: for millennials who want financial freedom. Welcome back to our 11 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 3: International Women's Week celebration. We're spending our week talking to 12 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 3: women who have a wealth of insight and deep perspective 13 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 3: on this year's theme, which is breaking the Bias Jess. 14 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: We have been beyond excited to have these deeper conversations 15 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: instead of our regular scheduled episodes that really touch on 16 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: the values of our She's on the Money community, because 17 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: She's on the Money community isn't unique just because we 18 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: talk about money. It's really special because we openly share 19 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: our stories and our vulnerabilities, We share our hopes, we 20 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 1: share our dreams and we love that our community are 21 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: just as open as we are. 22 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 4: So from my perspective, I would say that we always 23 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 4: have each other's. 24 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 3: Backs, absolutely, and we're so thrilled to be joined today 25 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 3: by women who is absolutely acknowledging vulnerability, facing fears and 26 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 3: smashing it along the way. We have model and body 27 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 3: positive advocate Jess Quinn. Welcome to the show. 28 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 5: Thank you, thanks for having me. What an honor. 29 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I am genuinely so excited to have you. 30 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: We've obviously had a couple of chats historically and when 31 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: we were talking about or when we're going through the 32 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: brainstorming session of like who are we going to bring 33 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: to our community this week? You were friend of mine 34 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: for me and I was just sitting in the room 35 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: and I was like, Jess Quinn, we have to get 36 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: her on the show. I am obsessed. So welcome to 37 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: the show. This is mainly for me. 38 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 5: I love that. I love that. 39 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 6: I'm very honored to be here, especially on International Woman's Week. 40 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: As you say, we're reshaping it. We've just decided to 41 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: do whatever we would like. Love that before we get 42 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: into our questions, I have a whole heap of questions 43 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: that we have written down that we would love to 44 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: ask you about your illness and your childhood, and then 45 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 1: about your mindset and determination. But before we get there, 46 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: you and I were having a conversation before we started 47 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: the podcast off air, and I asked, how comfortable are 48 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: you with the term differently abled, disabled or disabled? And 49 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: how should I be referring to that? And our producer 50 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: Anna Lisa, who is just hanging out off screen or 51 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: off air at the moment, said this would be a 52 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: really good conversation to be having on the show. So, Jess, 53 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: can you actually talk us through that conversation that we 54 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: just had, because it was genuinely enlightening for us to 55 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 1: I guess hear from you exactly how you like to 56 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: be referred to. 57 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, for sure, And the first thing I would say 58 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 6: is thank you for asking. I think that's the best 59 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 6: thing anyone can do in that kind of situation, whether 60 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 6: it's whether you're talking to someone with a disability or 61 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,239 Speaker 6: someone who is different from you or has different lived experience. 62 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 6: I think that's the best thing we can do, is 63 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 6: just ask. And I think for a lot of people 64 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 6: that can be a little bit scary and intimidating, and 65 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 6: I don't really know why, as we discussed off air, 66 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 6: why that is such a thing, because it is the 67 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 6: most respectful thing is to just ask, because we don't 68 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 6: know each other's lived experiences. 69 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 5: So for me, I don't personally have a preference. 70 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 6: I often say differently able to myself, but that's just 71 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 6: because I'm in a I guess a bigger conversation around 72 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 6: my advocacy around normalizing being different, and I have this 73 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 6: mindset that you know, what makes me disabled when every 74 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 6: single person on the planet has something that is different 75 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 6: about them. So therefore, where does the line sit with 76 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 6: disabled in that sense? Because there's things that I can 77 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 6: do that are better than many abled body people and 78 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 6: vice versa. So I guess that's the reason I've adapted 79 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 6: to that differently abled is just because of the conversations 80 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 6: I often have. But I do often say disabled her 81 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 6: about my body, and it just depends who I'm talking 82 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 6: to and what kind of comes to my mind in 83 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:19,840 Speaker 6: the moment, to be truly honest, but it's such an 84 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 6: important conversation and something about disabilities or people in differently 85 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 6: abled bodies, if you like, is there, I think, And 86 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 6: I talked about this on my TikTok recently because someone said, oh, 87 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 6: you should follow a girl called Footlist Joe. She's an amputee, 88 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 6: speaks about similar things that I speak about. You guys 89 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 6: will be best friends, And I was like, just because 90 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 6: we bother missing your leg doesn't automatally mean that we're 91 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 6: best friends or that we know each other, whereas everyone 92 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 6: assumes that. But people with disabilities or differently abled bodies, 93 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 6: like I have no idea what it's like to be 94 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 6: a double amputee. I have no idea what it's even 95 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 6: like to be an amputee who's got a different form 96 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 6: of amputation from me. 97 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 5: Or what it's like to be hard of hearing. 98 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 6: You know, there's so many different layers of disabilities, which 99 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 6: I think is an important part of the conversation. 100 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's basically like someone saying, Hey, yes, you're blonde, 101 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:07,039 Speaker 1: I have another blonde friend. 102 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 4: You'd get along so well. Like it just sounds a bit. 103 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, that feels really ridiculous that someone would say that, 104 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,600 Speaker 1: But I can also see if you don't have an 105 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: understanding of that, they probably just put those two things 106 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: together and said, Okay, they have a shared lived experience. 107 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: Maybe they'll understand each other, which I mean kind of sweet, 108 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: but your shared lived experience of being blonde, like. 109 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't relate to someone else. 110 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 4: It's so funny, isn't Jess. 111 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 1: While we're talking about it, what do you think is 112 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 1: missing in the public domain about disability? 113 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 5: Wow? 114 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 7: So many things, I think just being open to the conversation, 115 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 7: I think we are getting there. 116 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 5: But something I'm really. 117 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 6: Passionate about is and I could talk about this for 118 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 6: the whole podcast episode, but is accessibility. And I think 119 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 6: what many people who have spent most of their life 120 00:05:57,880 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 6: or all of their life so far and an abled 121 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 6: body don't understand is that the world is made for them. 122 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 6: The world has been built with them in mind, and 123 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 6: anyone with a disability is an afterthought. And for me, 124 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 6: it's different because I feel very independent in my disability 125 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 6: because I am able to get around. I don't need 126 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 6: too many assistive devices. 127 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 5: Or people helping me. 128 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 6: But I have many a friends who are in situations 129 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 6: where they need that, and so it's open my eyes 130 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 6: to realizing. You know, I go to a cafe and 131 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 6: I look around it and I'm like my friend in 132 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 6: a wheelchair literally could not get into this cafe, and 133 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 6: that's just something that we don't have a conversation around enough, 134 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 6: except maybe in the political space or people are talking 135 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 6: about it, but not as. 136 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 5: Often as I think we need to be. So that's 137 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:43,039 Speaker 5: something that stands out to me. 138 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 6: But I think the mission that I'm on is just 139 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 6: normalizing and that's really important to me because you know, 140 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 6: for most of my childhood, people with disabilities were painted 141 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:55,479 Speaker 6: in a way. You know, you'd see an ad on 142 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 6: TV and it was someone who had been in a 143 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 6: car crash and they end up in a wheelchair and 144 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 6: their life is sad, and they're painted in this way. 145 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 6: You know, the minute a person with a disability comes 146 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 6: on TV, the music drops and it's all sad, and 147 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 6: then someone in an able body pops on for whatever 148 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:11,239 Speaker 6: reason and their character and it's all uplifted and happy. 149 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 5: And it's just I guess, becoming aware of those narratives. 150 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 6: That we are placing on people without it actually being 151 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 6: accurate to the lives they're living. You know, everyone that 152 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 6: I know in a body that is differently abled is 153 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 6: living a very happy, wholesome life. 154 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 5: And yes they have a lot of struggles, but often 155 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 5: because they've had those struggles. 156 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 6: They have a great perspective, so I think that we 157 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 6: really need to continue to focus on changing that narrative 158 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 6: about what it actually means to live in a differently 159 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 6: abled body. 160 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: And Jess for those in the She's on the Money 161 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: community that are listening along and going, look this Jess 162 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: girl sounds incredible, But I haven't met her before. 163 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 4: Why is differently able to apply to you? 164 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 5: Like? 165 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 1: What is your story? How does this apply to you 166 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 1: in your situation? 167 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure. I was eight when I was diagnosed 168 00:07:57,960 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 5: with cancer. 169 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 6: So I lived the first eight years of my life 170 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 6: and a really I guess I was an able body 171 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 6: and I've really lived that to my advantage. 172 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 5: I was a really athletic, outgoing kid. 173 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 6: And then just before my ninth birthday, I broke my 174 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 6: fema bon and I ended up at. 175 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 5: The hospital and eventually they found out that I had an. 176 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 6: Osteosarcoma, and I went through about nine months of chemotherapy 177 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 6: and the decision was made ultimately to amputate my legs. 178 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 5: So I am an amputee. 179 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 7: I had a very unusual form of amputation called rotation plustig, 180 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 7: which is an important part of my story because it 181 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 7: differs from so many other experiences. 182 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 5: I won't go into detail of that. 183 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 7: I would recommend the listener's Google because it's really hard 184 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 7: to wrap your head around. 185 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 1: You can absolutely go on Jess's Instagram as well. You 186 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 1: have done a very good job of explaining it, and 187 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 1: to me, it's mind blowing, Like it is so cool 188 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: that science and medicine have come together to facilitate this, 189 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: Like it's epic. 190 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 5: It's amazing. I often think, I'm like, I would love 191 00:08:57,640 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 5: to be a fly on. 192 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 6: The wall in the conversation when some doctors and surgeons 193 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 6: were sitting around in a boardroom and decided. 194 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 5: To give this a go, Like how does that even happen? 195 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 6: But yeah, so I'm an amputee and I've now been 196 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 6: an appy two for twenty years, so a huge portion 197 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 6: of my life. 198 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: Wow, that is such a significant portion of your life. 199 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 1: But as you said before, I was eight when I 200 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 1: was diagnosed, and you know, I broke my leg and 201 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: I was so active before. Then do you mourn that 202 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: time when you were a child that you had such 203 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: freedom or is that something that you go, No, that's 204 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: not me anymore. It's a completely different narrative now. 205 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 5: A bit of both. 206 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:36,079 Speaker 6: I definitely went through a huge phase of mourning and 207 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 6: grief and all of the emotions that are around that 208 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 6: when I was youngest, particularly through my teenage years, and 209 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 6: then now I really struggle to relate to that person 210 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 6: because it's been twenty years and I only spent eight 211 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 6: years in enabled bodies, so I don't even know what 212 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 6: it feels like to get out of bed and have 213 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 6: four feet touched the floor, So I really struggle to 214 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 6: relate to that. Of course, I have my moments of envy, 215 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 6: you know, mostly when I see, you know, other people 216 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 6: living in their abled bodies and they're going for a 217 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 6: run so freely. Like that's when I probably feel those 218 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 6: emotions and not all the time, you know, like all 219 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 6: of us, we have all ups and downs. But I 220 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 6: think I don't fully relate to that person than it 221 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 6: was when I was younger because it just feels so 222 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 6: far away. 223 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 3: I guess I feel like being a kid is hard 224 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 3: enough as it is, right Like childhood and being a 225 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 3: teenager and trying to fit in is so challenging already 226 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 3: when you're in an abled body, and then for you 227 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 3: you're going through the extreme, you know, KEEPO is so 228 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 3: intense as it is, and then learning to walk in 229 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,599 Speaker 3: your new body and learning to function with a completely 230 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 3: different set of parameters. 231 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 4: How did that feel for you? 232 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, it was. It was huge, I think. You know, 233 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 6: I was really quickly wrapped up in this. 234 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 5: World that I didn't even know existed, and I was 235 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 5: living it. 236 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 7: You know, I was going through chemotherapy, as you've referred to, 237 00:10:56,000 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 7: and I was experiencing things that are just absolutely heartbreaking. 238 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 3: You know. 239 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 6: I would make friends in the hospital, only to come 240 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 6: to the hospital the next day and find out my 241 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 6: friends are no longer there. 242 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 5: And you know, there's the things that no eight year 243 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:08,320 Speaker 5: old should have to go through. 244 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 6: And my life was really tested very My cancel was 245 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 6: really aggressive and what I went through, so I was 246 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 6: living in this world really quickly, and so each days, 247 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 6: each phase I went through. 248 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:22,079 Speaker 5: You know, losing my leg and all of that. 249 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 6: As much as it was really hard, it was also 250 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 6: just the world that I was now living in and 251 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 6: then adapting to it afterwards. It was kind of the 252 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 6: opposite of that, because I'd been living in this really 253 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 6: horrible environment for so long and we didn't know if 254 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 6: I would come out of it. To then be able 255 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 6: to come out of it, everything was just amazing. 256 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 8: You know. 257 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 6: I was just stoked to be back at birthday parties. 258 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 6: I was just stoked to be able to go to school, 259 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 6: you know. 260 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 5: So there wasn't that, I guess fair, or any thoughts 261 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 5: of the future. 262 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 6: On how it would impact my life because I was 263 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 6: so young a naive, which is something I'm really grateful for. 264 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 6: I don't know how people go through it in an 265 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 6: age when they have an understanding of the future and 266 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 6: they have an understanding affair and all of that kind 267 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 6: of stuff. 268 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 5: For me, I'm really lucky that I was so young. 269 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 5: But yeah, there was a huge adaptation process. 270 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 7: And then I became a teenager and we all struggle 271 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 7: with our bodies, and I had, I guess, a double. 272 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 1: Whammy as somebody who also struggled as a teenager, like 273 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 1: you definitely had the double whammy. Like I was just 274 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: self conscious. I can't imagine going through a situation where 275 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 1: you're already just so self conscious about how you look 276 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: and how other people look, to then go, ah, there's 277 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: this other thing overlaid over the top of it that's 278 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 1: making me feel very different to other people. How when 279 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 1: it comes to mindset, have you always had the positive 280 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:44,199 Speaker 1: mindset that I see on TikTok and Instagram and online 281 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 1: and on socials, like, is that who you've always been? 282 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:48,119 Speaker 5: Definitely. 283 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 6: I remember nurses in the hospital talking to my parents 284 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 6: about my attitude, and I was just the happiest, bubbliest kid, 285 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:56,439 Speaker 6: and I think, you know, it's the kind of nature 286 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 6: nurture conversation. 287 00:12:57,520 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 5: I think. 288 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 6: I'm just I'm that way because of what I was 289 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 6: surrounded by and because of the support I had and 290 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 6: all of that kind of stuff, and it was. 291 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 5: Just in me. Whereas I'm not going to say I've 292 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 5: been like that my whole life. 293 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 6: I really struggled through my teenage years and I've really 294 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 6: struggled in the last couple of years again with some 295 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 6: stuff that I've been through, And so I don't want 296 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:17,439 Speaker 6: to paint the picture that I'm positive poly one hundred 297 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 6: percent of the time, because my situation and other situations 298 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 6: that arise really do get me down. But I naturally 299 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 6: have a outlook on life that I read a quote 300 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:28,839 Speaker 6: once and it doesn't matter if there's water, if the 301 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 6: glass is half full or half empty. 302 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 5: All that matter is that there's water in the glass. 303 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 6: And that's kind of how I've looked at life, I guess, 304 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 6: but yeah, I have my days, as we all. 305 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:39,839 Speaker 3: Do, one hundred percent. And I feel like people like you, 306 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:43,839 Speaker 3: who we spoke about just before, around how the picture 307 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 3: is painted of people who are differently abled in traditional 308 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 3: media and historically has been done that way. I feel 309 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 3: like having people like you, and there are so many 310 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 3: others in this space as well, really showing your truth 311 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 3: and your journey. And you know, there are bad days, 312 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:01,439 Speaker 3: and everybody has bad days, and just because your experience 313 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 3: is maybe different from mine doesn't mean that you do. 314 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 4: Need to be positive all of the time. 315 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 3: I think there's so much power in publicly sharing that 316 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 3: journey so that people can have a better understanding. 317 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 4: At what point did you realize? 318 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 3: I guess that you had the power to make that 319 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 3: impact because you've got a pretty decent following online. Now 320 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 3: you've absolutely touched the lives of so many people, and 321 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 3: I have no doubt that there are many little girls 322 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 3: out there going through experiences similar to yours that look 323 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 3: in you go oh my gosh, like it's okay, Like 324 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 3: there's someone like me out there, and being able to 325 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 3: identify with someone publicly so important. And that's why representation 326 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 3: absolutely needs to continue to shift. Did you set out 327 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 3: with the intention to be that person or was it 328 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 3: kind of just an organic thing that happened. 329 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 5: It was definitely organic in terms of social media and 330 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 5: all that kind of stuff. 331 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 6: I had a photo shoop that went viral of the 332 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 6: night and just found myself with this audience that for 333 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 6: a long time I didn't really know. 334 00:14:57,640 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 5: What to do with. 335 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 6: But in saying that and without sounding to woo woo, 336 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 6: I always had this feeling inside of me that I 337 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 6: was going to use my story in some kind of way. 338 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 5: I just didn't know what that looked like. 339 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 6: And then I fell into the space of social media, 340 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 6: and it's been a challenge at the best of times, 341 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 6: as social media is, but it has given me this 342 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 6: platform where I can reach people, and I can share 343 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 6: my story and I can live my truth in the 344 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 6: hopes of being, as you say, that person that we 345 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 6: don't see enough out there. So yeah, a bit of both, 346 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 6: But definitely I didn't imagine ever becoming what it has become. 347 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 6: And I just knew that if I could just tell 348 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 6: my story, hopefully I could reach one person. And I'm 349 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 6: just really lucky that I've been able to reach more 350 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 6: than one. 351 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: I guess, my friend at that does not sound woo 352 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 1: woo at all, Like I haven't even gone through the 353 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 1: types of experiences that you have. And when it comes 354 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: to financial literacy, and you know, now, I feel like 355 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 1: I've found my quote calling and this feels really good 356 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 1: and it nourishes everything I do. I always knew that 357 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: I wanted to do something something impacted others. I wasn't 358 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 1: sure how I was going to do that. I wasn't 359 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: sure what that looked like. And I guess that's why 360 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: I fell into psychology, and I was like, you can 361 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 1: impact people in psychology. Didn't work out for me, that's 362 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 1: absolutely fine, But I feel like some people just have 363 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: this underlying sense of no, I don't know what it's 364 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 1: going to be, but it's going to be some kind 365 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 1: of advocacy. It's going to be some kind of impact, 366 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: because that's where I get my joy from. How did 367 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 1: you get the confidence to step into this advocacy space. 368 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 1: It's not something that you know a lot of people 369 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 1: would be confident to do. You're opening yourself up to 370 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: a lot of criticism. A lot of people online aren't 371 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 1: as kind as I believe they should be. But how 372 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: did you take those first few steps towards becoming this 373 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 1: advocate that you are now. 374 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 6: I think because I fell into the space in a 375 00:16:57,120 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 6: space I didn't understand completely. I never really associated the 376 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 6: number of followers with actual people. 377 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 9: I just have the confidence to kind of just yell 378 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 9: my life away, and I was just telling my truth, 379 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 9: you know, I was just telling my story, whether it 380 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 9: would be you know, I was at the gym that day, 381 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 9: and I didn't really realize when I first started that 382 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 9: I was inspiring other people because I was just living 383 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 9: my life. 384 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 6: And I guess there is a whole other conversation we 385 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 6: could have on inspiration porn around that, because it is 386 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 6: a thing. But I think because of my unique surgery 387 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 6: that I went through as a kid, I've always been 388 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 6: put in scenarios where I have had to talk about 389 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 6: it and I have had to speak up because I've 390 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 6: kind of been a guinea perg if you like. 391 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 5: And you know, as a kid. 392 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 6: I was going to conventioning things with my surgeon and 393 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:43,680 Speaker 6: just showing my leg or I would have an appointment 394 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:45,479 Speaker 6: and I would have fifteen doctors in the room, not 395 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 6: just one, because I was a medical rarity, if you like. 396 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 6: So I've kind of always been in the space where 397 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 6: I guess my life has always been shared with other people, 398 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:55,160 Speaker 6: and because of. 399 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 5: That, I think I just feel comfortable. 400 00:17:57,440 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 6: And I think because I went through such a hard 401 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 6: time as a teenager becoming comfortable in my skin. 402 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,879 Speaker 5: I am now just confident enough to share that with others. 403 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:08,879 Speaker 1: I guess that's a weight to carry, though at the 404 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 1: same time as you know, going, oh, I can share this, 405 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 1: like that could be a burden. 406 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 5: Do you ever. 407 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:18,119 Speaker 1: Find that, you know, sharing so much of your life 408 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: and sharing so much of yourself which is arguably incredibly personal, Like, 409 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 1: do you find that that is a burden sometimes or 410 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 1: does it feel too heavy? 411 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna be honest, and I've probably not talked 412 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:32,919 Speaker 6: about this a lot recently, but I am in a 413 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 6: space at the moment where it's really heavy, and I 414 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:37,879 Speaker 6: want to be honest because I know she's on the 415 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:39,680 Speaker 6: money is a really safe space, and I think it's 416 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 6: important we talk about this because you know, I'm on 417 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 6: tiktop now and I am seeing every second postacy is 418 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 6: hard to become an influencer. Look at my PR package. 419 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 6: Just look at this and really glorifying the space, which, yes, 420 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 6: there are so many perks of it, but the weight 421 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:56,480 Speaker 6: that you carry being in the public or if you're 422 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 6: an advocate, sharing something that is really heavy, something that 423 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 6: isn't just unique to you, is a real big burden, 424 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 6: and especially if it's something personal, because you know, I 425 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 6: struggle to separate. I guess my public life with my 426 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 6: private life, and I am really private online, which some 427 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 6: people who followed. 428 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 5: Me will be like, no, you're not. But I don't 429 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 5: share many. 430 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 6: Things outside of my leg and those experiences. You know, 431 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 6: I'm not sharing my family or my partner. I'm really 432 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 6: specific on my advocacy. But even then, it's really hard 433 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 6: for it to not be heavy, because you know, I 434 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 6: see a therapist because I think it's really important to 435 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 6: do so, and you know, I have all of these 436 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:36,199 Speaker 6: conversations where I'm constantly actually reliving the trauma that I 437 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,359 Speaker 6: went through as a kid. And I've been in this 438 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 6: space for probably six years now, in the social media space, 439 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,240 Speaker 6: and it's only something I'm just realizing now that. 440 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,920 Speaker 5: You know, some days I got to posset something and 441 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 5: I'm like, you know. 442 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 6: What, I don't I actually don't need to talk about 443 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,639 Speaker 6: this today. It's it's also MySpace, and I get to 444 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 6: set those boundaries, which is really important, but when you 445 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 6: really want to keep advocating, it's really hard to stop. 446 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 6: And you know, I had a situation last night where 447 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 6: I spoke out about something that is really important to 448 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 6: me and ninety five percent of the people, actually ninety 449 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 6: nine percent of the people came back in a really 450 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 6: positive manner except for one. And that one caused me 451 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 6: so much anxiety and made me question everything that I'm doing. 452 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:19,360 Speaker 5: Which is ridiculous because we all know not to worry 453 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 5: about the one. There's always one. 454 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,120 Speaker 1: But so easy to tell a friend, right, Like if 455 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 1: you and I had this conversation, and I'm very very similar. 456 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: I struggle a lot with the burden that visibility gives us. 457 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:33,159 Speaker 1: And I mean, you've got it completely different to me, 458 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 1: but in this influencer space, like I never set out 459 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:39,160 Speaker 1: to be an influencer, and it can be really heavy 460 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,120 Speaker 1: when people trust you, and I get that, and I'm 461 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:45,159 Speaker 1: so grateful to have that level of trust, especially with 462 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 1: my community, but that means they often open up in 463 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:52,400 Speaker 1: a way that you wouldn't usually to someone online. And 464 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 1: you know, for me, especially on TikTok, where people are 465 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 1: so nasty, they are nasty pasties and it is not fun. 466 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 1: It's so easy to say to a friend, Oh, you 467 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 1: just don't care about the haters, But then lady, you're like, 468 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, are they right? Like they're crazy, but 469 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 1: are they right? And it's it's awful, Like it's an 470 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:13,680 Speaker 1: awful feeling to have where one person, even though you're 471 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 1: saying ninety nine others, was so positive and so supportive. 472 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:21,119 Speaker 1: It's funny how even one small comment can knock you 473 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 1: off your perch completely totally. 474 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:25,440 Speaker 5: And I related that so much. 475 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,440 Speaker 6: And if I relate to what you're saying about TikTok, 476 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 6: because I knew on that and I have never received 477 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 6: so many discusting comments in my life. And I think, 478 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 6: especially being someone in a different body, people just think 479 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 6: they can comment. 480 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 5: As much as they like on that. 481 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 6: But I also think with the social media conversation, and 482 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,119 Speaker 6: it's something that I used to talk about in the 483 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 6: way to encourage others to not get. 484 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:44,159 Speaker 5: Caught up in it. 485 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,919 Speaker 6: But something I've realized that influences or my experience I 486 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:51,120 Speaker 6: have gotten caught up in is the is the instant gratification. 487 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 6: Because you know, I'm telling my story and let's put 488 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 6: two posts next to each other, and. 489 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 8: One talking about my lifestyle and one talking about my leg. 490 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 8: The one about my leg does the times better? And 491 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 8: so therefore, how do I not attach my worth to 492 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:07,159 Speaker 8: my story so deeply when I'm getting that validation. And 493 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 8: that's something that I'm working through on my own, because 494 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,360 Speaker 8: you know, instant gratification. 495 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 6: Is something that I try to speak about in a 496 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 6: way that we shouldn't get caught up in. But when 497 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 6: it's your job and you know your KPI, if you like, 498 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 6: is your story and it's something so raw about yourself, 499 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 6: how do you then detach yourself from that being the 500 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 6: only part of your identity. And that's something that I 501 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 6: think is also really important in the social media space. 502 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: And I find that so interesting more on a personal 503 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 1: level because I obviously have discovered you because of your advocacy, 504 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:41,680 Speaker 1: but I now follow you because of your personality. Like 505 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:43,960 Speaker 1: to me, we sat down as a team and we're 506 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: having this conversation about you know, diversity and bringing diverse 507 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 1: people to the table and people who are advocating, and 508 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 1: you came up, but you only came up after we 509 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,120 Speaker 1: were talking about advocates. I'm like, oh, Jess as an advocate, 510 00:22:56,680 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Oh my God, sh'd be perfect because. 511 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 4: It was isn't the first thing I thought of. 512 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: But I can see how if people aren't as involved 513 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 1: in your personal life and they're may be just really 514 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:11,680 Speaker 1: pervy and don't understand being differently abled and don't understand 515 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: how that could work. How I guess the draw card 516 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 1: is very different to who you are as a person. 517 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 1: And to me, like the important part is who you 518 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 1: are as a person, but that's not always what people view. 519 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:25,159 Speaker 5: Totally undred percent. 520 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 7: And I think especially when I'm trying to keep my 521 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 7: private life reasonably separate, you know, if I share everything 522 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 7: on social media, there'd be parts of my life that 523 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 7: other people link with, whether it's the effect that I 524 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 7: like skincare or whatever it might be, you know, Whereas 525 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 7: because I just share my advocacy, it's hard to not 526 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 7: let that become the whole part of my identity. 527 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: Jess, I am equally as obsessed with skincare, but it 528 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,959 Speaker 1: turns out that's not what everybody wants to see on 529 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 1: social media. So let's go to a break, because we 530 00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 1: have a number of questions for you about the beauty 531 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: industry and bias and unconscious bias and how that impacts you. 532 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,400 Speaker 1: So don't go anywhere. We will be right back. 533 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,320 Speaker 3: And we're back and talking to Jess Quinn, who is 534 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 3: a model, an author, body positivity advocate, all around outstanding gal. 535 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:10,439 Speaker 3: But we were chatting just before about how social media 536 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 3: people can be really mean and they forget that there's 537 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 3: a person sitting behind that screen reading their comments. And 538 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 3: I think as a woman, there are certain standards that 539 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:23,640 Speaker 3: we are held to, particularly when it comes to beauty 540 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,879 Speaker 3: or you know, what the ideal woman looks like, that 541 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:30,520 Speaker 3: have existed for so long, and now we're in a 542 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:33,399 Speaker 3: place where people like you are really working to break 543 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 3: that bias and show that beauty comes in all different 544 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 3: shapes and different sizes. But let's talk about difference and 545 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 3: otherness in this industry. Because you're saying you love skincare, 546 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 3: and you know the influencer the industry really leans into 547 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 3: that side of things. What has your experience been like 548 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 3: in that space? Have people and brands and businesses always 549 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,919 Speaker 3: been really open and accepting to you? Is that something 550 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 3: that you really had to carve away at I've. 551 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 6: Been really lucky to be really ecc in this space, 552 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 6: and why that is, I'm not sure, but I'm very 553 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,919 Speaker 6: grateful for that, I think. You know, I also live 554 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 6: in New Zealand, which is a lot smaller. Therefore, you know, 555 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 6: there is not as many people in this space. So 556 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,399 Speaker 6: I think that has been, I guess, an advantage that 557 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 6: I can't ignore, but I think it's definitely. 558 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 5: Been a challenge. 559 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 7: You know, I have a modeling agency in America that 560 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 7: I clearly haven't worked with friend all years because you 561 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 7: know starting And I also have one in Australia, same reason, 562 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 7: haven't worked with them for a while. But it has 563 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 7: been interesting to navigate those different markets, and that's more 564 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 7: probably on a modeling scale rather than an influencer scale. 565 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 7: But you know, in terms of social media and brand 566 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 7: deals and that kind of stuff, I have been really 567 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 7: lucky in that space. But I have to acknowledge that 568 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 7: I have come in at a time where brands are 569 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 7: forcing themselves to be diverse. Therefore it is easier to 570 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,480 Speaker 7: get work when they need that representation. I guess, so 571 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 7: that has been great. But at the same time, I 572 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:01,719 Speaker 7: am very good at seeing the difference between brands who 573 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 7: are doing it to tick a box and brands who 574 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,159 Speaker 7: are doing it because they genuinely intend to make a 575 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 7: change and to help and to represent. And tokenism is 576 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:11,880 Speaker 7: something that I have experienced. 577 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 1: I was about to ask that I was about to 578 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 1: be like, Okay, so totally and that's such a great thing, 579 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 1: and I adore seeing so much diversity, but a mile off, 580 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,680 Speaker 1: just as a consumer, I can see it as being 581 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 1: tokenistics sometimes as the model, like how are you dealing 582 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: with that? How are you taking that on board? Because 583 00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 1: I would be genuinely offended if someone was like, we 584 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:37,840 Speaker 1: just needed. 585 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 4: A financial advisor, Like, oh. 586 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 1: Like, I can't imagine if it was something even more 587 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 1: personal about me. 588 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,400 Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean you turn up to a photo shot 589 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 10: or I've done a few runway shows and you know, 590 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 10: there is a very thin, white blonde model lineup and 591 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 10: then you who is. 592 00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:00,920 Speaker 5: An amputee and you're like, okay, you know. 593 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,560 Speaker 7: I'm clearly standing out here, which you know, and people 594 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,439 Speaker 7: think I would be really offended. And I've had this 595 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 7: conversation around tokenism a bit, and to be honest, I 596 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 7: think a step forward is a step forward, regardless of 597 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 7: how far forward. And I think, you know, I could 598 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,439 Speaker 7: do that runway show and there is someone in the audience. 599 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 7: There could be one person or one young person watching 600 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 7: that who sees me and feels better about themselves. 601 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 6: So, yes, it would be better if there was fifty 602 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 6: percent or sixty percent of. 603 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 5: Models who were diverse in some kind of way. 604 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 6: But at least there's one, you know, And so I 605 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 6: think we have to as much as yes, there are 606 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 6: brands out there doing it a lot better, we have 607 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 6: to also recognize the brands that are trying. And even 608 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,719 Speaker 6: if it's a tich box, which I don't agree with that, 609 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 6: even if there's a tech box, we have to see 610 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 6: it from the young person looking at that, going oh wow, 611 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 6: there's different bodies out there, even if they're only seeing 612 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 6: one different body. 613 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 5: And that's something that I think is really important. 614 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:52,199 Speaker 10: I know. 615 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 7: I spoke up recently Victoria's Secret Models Victoria Secrets who 616 00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 7: as a brand, I have spoken very politiciar. 617 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 4: And I'm not afraid to no, keep that up, my friend. 618 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 7: Oh no, I don't agree with pretty much everything that 619 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 7: they do, but they are trying to rebrand and they've 620 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,919 Speaker 7: recently just announced a model with down syndrome, and I 621 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,120 Speaker 7: spoke up and shared it saying this is a really 622 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 7: great step forward. This is awesome, and I had a 623 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 7: lot of comments saying this just doesn't seem right, this 624 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:22,680 Speaker 7: seems tokenistic, This seems you know, they've already done their harm, 625 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:23,360 Speaker 7: they can't. 626 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 5: Move forward, blah blah blah blah. And I agree with that. 627 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 6: But at the same time, there is young people with 628 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 6: Down syndrome out there who will look at this young 629 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 6: woman in a position that wouldn't have been painted in 630 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 6: that like many years ago, and to me, that's a 631 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 6: big achievement. And we have to create space for these 632 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 6: brands to take that step forward instead of shutting them down. 633 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 5: Oh, you're not deaverse enough. Oh now you're not doing 634 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 5: this enough. Now you're not doing that, you know. 635 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 6: I think we need to create the space for it 636 00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 6: to actually just be okay, to take even half a 637 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 6: step forward, you know. 638 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, and small steps, they're still steps, right, And it's 639 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 1: such a beautiful mindset that you have that you're like, 640 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm going to push their tokenism to 641 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: the side because I'm still having an impact, even if 642 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,479 Speaker 1: it's just one person that sees a photo a year later, like, 643 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 1: they're going to have been impacted by the work that 644 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,719 Speaker 1: I'm doing. And I just think that not many people 645 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 1: would see things the way that you do. They might 646 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 1: be offended that they're the token I guess ring in, 647 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 1: but that's not how you're seeing it at all, And 648 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:20,320 Speaker 1: I just have so much respect for that, especially in 649 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 1: a world where you know, we're seeing so many different 650 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 1: brands being thrown under the bus on a weekly basis 651 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 1: for not being diverse, because you know that if they 652 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 1: then start to be diverse and start to take those 653 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 1: small steps and start to include more diverse models in 654 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 1: their marketing, or you know, expand their size range or 655 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 1: do something that is good for the greater good, they're 656 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 1: going to be slammed as tokenistic anyway, because the first 657 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 1: step is always the step that is. 658 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 4: Most harshly criticized. 659 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:50,280 Speaker 1: And yeah, I really really respect the way that you're 660 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,600 Speaker 1: viewing that, because you know it could go one of 661 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:53,680 Speaker 1: two ways, right. 662 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 5: Oh for sure, for sure, Yeah, I fully agree. 663 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 3: I feel like Victoria's Secret is also a really great 664 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 3: example of a brand that did absolutely the bare minimum, right, Like, 665 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 3: they built up this fantasy woman who, as you said, 666 00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 3: they all looked the same, they were all tall, they 667 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,880 Speaker 3: were all really skinny, they were all this quote unquote 668 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 3: idealistic woman. And the reason that brand really toppled over 669 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:19,360 Speaker 3: was because at some point everyone just turned around and went, actually, 670 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 3: that's not good enough, And I want to talk about 671 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 3: In twenty eighteen, you really spearheaded a movement that demanded 672 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 3: that magazines disclose retouching, right, because that really contributed to 673 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 3: that idealistic person where women were aspiring to look like 674 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 3: someone who didn't even look like that themselves. 675 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:37,719 Speaker 4: They don't even exist. 676 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, like, it's so unattainable and it's just setting us 677 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 3: up to fail, which is really really horrific. I wanted 678 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,040 Speaker 3: to talk about what the response was like when you 679 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 3: first started opening up that discussion and how far along 680 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 3: that kind of got. 681 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's still something I'm really deep in and really 682 00:30:55,320 --> 00:31:00,240 Speaker 6: passionate about and share all the time because I keep thinking, Okay, 683 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:01,960 Speaker 6: I'm going to stop talking about this because I feel 684 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,880 Speaker 6: like we've made our change, and I see things and 685 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 6: I'm like, we are no. 686 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,960 Speaker 4: Way, never even close. 687 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,760 Speaker 5: And you know, I at. 688 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 6: The beginning I had I'm sorry, I still have a 689 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 6: really great response. It has been, for the most part, 690 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 6: and I have to look at the most part, a 691 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 6: really great response, but it definitely bought up some really 692 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 6: interesting conversations, especially when I first started speaking really publicly 693 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 6: about it, and I did a lot of media and 694 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 6: the hit back I got and not bad hit back, 695 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 6: but just you know, I'd be on a presentation, a 696 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 6: kind of TV news show, and you know, you'd have 697 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 6: the middle aged man presented being like, how is it 698 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 6: any different from the makeup you have on your face 699 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 6: right now? And I'm like, Okay, this is like a 700 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 6: really deep conversation that we. 701 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 4: Had to get eat. 702 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, And there are so many layers to all of this, 703 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 6: and it's definitely been challenging. I'm working on a project 704 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 6: at the moment that will hopefully educate because then we 705 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 6: can create the change, because I think that's the issue 706 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,040 Speaker 6: is we actually don't know the depth of what is 707 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:02,800 Speaker 6: being caused and how it's impacting us and young people, 708 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 6: and I just I just don't think it's right that 709 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 6: we especially in photoships. You know, you see these really 710 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,680 Speaker 6: diverse photowships get there a photoshops, so it's kind of 711 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 6: like you can be curvy, but wait, that curves a 712 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 6: bit much, and this curves a bit much. Or you know, 713 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 6: when I got photoshopped, it was they removed half of 714 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 6: my moles. I had quite a few moles, and it 715 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 6: was like you can have some of your moles, but 716 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 6: actually the amount that you have was just like a 717 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:23,720 Speaker 6: bit too much relp. 718 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 1: Just like for the audacity to take that initiative to 719 00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 1: do that, like, I feel awkward. I was out the 720 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,200 Speaker 1: other night for a drink with one of our team 721 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 1: members on a Friday night. We had a really good 722 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,959 Speaker 1: week at work, Malay, let's go get a drink, and 723 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 1: I wanted to change the lighting on the picture. 724 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 4: And I held my phone in front of her and 725 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:42,720 Speaker 4: I was. 726 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 1: Like, all right, Rache, is that alright if I just 727 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 1: changed the lighting? And she's like, yeah, that's fine. I 728 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 1: was like, I felt so uncomfortable. But the fact that 729 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 1: an entire agency just was like, do you know what, 730 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 1: We're just going to erase these parts of Jess that 731 00:32:56,240 --> 00:33:01,640 Speaker 1: make jest Yess. That to me, that's audacious and incredibly rude. 732 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 1: But the fact they didn't even ask for permission, what 733 00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 1: I know. 734 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,240 Speaker 7: I've spoken to other models about it before as well, 735 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 7: especially you know, because photoshop photoshop is it as a 736 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,760 Speaker 7: brown but image retouching happens post off, but it actually 737 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 7: also happens during the ship. 738 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 5: You know, they're wearing maybe. 739 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 6: A size large T shirt when they maybe fit as 740 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 6: small and then they pull it in in different ways 741 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 6: to get the fit right. So often wear buying clothes 742 00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 6: that actually don't fit like how it fits on the model. 743 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I read the. 744 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 6: Thing once about Victoria Secret and they would put push 745 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 6: up bras on the models underneath the bikinis and then 746 00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,479 Speaker 6: remove the push up bra in photoshop so that it 747 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 6: looks like they have these really kerky boobs like Graveny 748 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 6: does not trink My birds. 749 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 4: Like that neither. 750 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 3: How are they so big but still so perky? 751 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 4: Literally totally, I don't. 752 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 5: Know what they figured out that we don't know, but it's. 753 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 1: It's invisible bras. 754 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 5: Totally. It just goes really deep, I guess. 755 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 7: And so my conversation that I am still having is 756 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:05,520 Speaker 7: a around education and be around disclosure. You know, do 757 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 7: what you want to your image as a brand, as 758 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,239 Speaker 7: an influencer, whatever you want, but please disclose it, you know, 759 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 7: because there is young women out there who are comparing 760 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 7: themselves to that image and wondering why they're not good enough, 761 00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,760 Speaker 7: comparing themselves to a body that actually. 762 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 5: Doesn't exist, which is just so detrimental. 763 00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,280 Speaker 6: And I don't know if people understand the direct correlation 764 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 6: that it's having with mental health issues and so many 765 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,080 Speaker 6: things that young people are going through at the moment, 766 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,240 Speaker 6: and I just don't know it's something that we can stop, 767 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:33,520 Speaker 6: you know. 768 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,720 Speaker 1: All right, Let's loop this conversation background to the purpose 769 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 1: we've asked you to be here today for, and that's 770 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:44,840 Speaker 1: International Women's Day and celebrating that, celebrating you and celebrating 771 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 1: the impact that people are having in their space, and 772 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:50,880 Speaker 1: you know, even just how far women have come, like 773 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 1: it blows my mind even talking to people like my 774 00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:57,840 Speaker 1: mum who weren't afforded the same opportunities that I am today, 775 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:00,840 Speaker 1: and you know the fact that she says things like oh, 776 00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,400 Speaker 1: I would have embraced that with open arms, like oh, 777 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,840 Speaker 1: if that opportunity had existed for me, I would have 778 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 1: smashed it out of the park. And it just breaks 779 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 1: my heart that she wasn't afforded these things, and in 780 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 1: twenty twenty two, we are that we've still got so 781 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 1: far to go. So I would love to know from 782 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 1: your perspective, what does equality look like. 783 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 6: This is such a big question because it is such 784 00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 6: an important question, and I do think. 785 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:32,440 Speaker 7: Equality is allowing opportunity for people to live their truth 786 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,279 Speaker 7: and to live their truth without judgment, and to live 787 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 7: their truth in a world where it is safe for 788 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:38,719 Speaker 7: them to do so. 789 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 6: And I think for many of us who and I'm 790 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,840 Speaker 6: going to include myself in this, who have lived a 791 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:48,080 Speaker 6: really privileged life, don't actually know the depth of what 792 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,319 Speaker 6: that means, because there are so many people out there 793 00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,360 Speaker 6: who experienced things, and many women in different cultures that 794 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 6: experience things that we will never even understand. 795 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 5: And so I think we often think we've got into 796 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:00,200 Speaker 5: a place where. 797 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,240 Speaker 6: And yes, I agree, we've made so many steps forward, 798 00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:04,920 Speaker 6: but I think we think we're maybe further along than 799 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:08,560 Speaker 6: we are because of our own personal experiences and the 800 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,399 Speaker 6: reason I mean, I'm considered a minority because I live 801 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:15,920 Speaker 6: in a differently able or disabled body. But my disabled 802 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:20,239 Speaker 6: body has pretty much never stopped me getting any form 803 00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:24,960 Speaker 6: of opportunity. It's never really hugely impacted my friendship groups, 804 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 6: it's never hugely impacted my career or my dating life 805 00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 6: or anything like that. And there are so many people 806 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,920 Speaker 6: out there who don't have that experience, And until all 807 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,880 Speaker 6: of those people feel like their opportunities are the same, 808 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,239 Speaker 6: then I don't think we've reached that sense of equality. 809 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 6: And I think it's really hard because I do think 810 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,800 Speaker 6: it looks really different for a lot of people. Therefore, 811 00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:51,160 Speaker 6: I don't believe there's one one easy answer, one easy outcome. 812 00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,719 Speaker 6: But I think we have come such a long way 813 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,239 Speaker 6: and as you say, actually such a short space of time, 814 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 6: which gives me so much hope that we can continue 815 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 6: to create those opportunities as long as we keep speaking 816 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 6: and having these really open conversations about people or two 817 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 6: people with different loved experience from. 818 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,240 Speaker 4: Us, Jess, I couldn't agree more. 819 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:13,239 Speaker 1: And to link this to somebody else who works in 820 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,760 Speaker 1: the same advocacy space as you do by not saying 821 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 1: you would be friends just because you're in the same 822 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 1: advocacy space, although he does sound like a pretty sick 823 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:24,239 Speaker 1: human that I would like to know even better. But 824 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,719 Speaker 1: in his incredible speech after being named Australian of the Year, 825 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:31,960 Speaker 1: Dylan Orcott actually spoke about the die statistics of underemployment 826 00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:34,799 Speaker 1: of people with different abilities and the ingrained ableism in 827 00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,319 Speaker 1: the workforce. Do you have a view on that and 828 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:41,160 Speaker 1: what can be done by businesses to be even more inclusive? 829 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:43,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I agree. I would love to be best 830 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:44,360 Speaker 5: friends with Dylan. 831 00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 7: We have made a few conversations I love everything that 832 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 7: he advocates for and stands for. 833 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,400 Speaker 5: I think it's a really important conversation. 834 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:56,719 Speaker 6: And again, it's something that I haven't experienced too much 835 00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,360 Speaker 6: in my life because. 836 00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 5: I really haven't been overly huld back by my disability. 837 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 7: And that's something that I am really in a minority 838 00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 7: for because a lot of people living in disabled bodies 839 00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,120 Speaker 7: or differently abled bodies. 840 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,279 Speaker 5: Do experience it a lot. And I think the best 841 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 5: thing we. 842 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,640 Speaker 6: Can do, and it probably wraps in with what you 843 00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:17,719 Speaker 6: were saying at the start around the open dialogue we 844 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:21,399 Speaker 6: had around language is to be really inclusive in that 845 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,760 Speaker 6: and something I speak a lot about is diversity and inclusion, 846 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:26,840 Speaker 6: but in the sense that you can't have one without 847 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,760 Speaker 6: the other. You know, we can be as diverse as possible. 848 00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,960 Speaker 6: We can hire people of the different ethnicities, of different abilities, 849 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,959 Speaker 6: whatever it might be. We can hire people different from us. 850 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,040 Speaker 6: But if we aren't including them in a way that 851 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 6: we're actually giving them equal amounts of opportunities, that we're 852 00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:43,879 Speaker 6: actually giving them a voice at the table, then are 853 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,400 Speaker 6: we really being diverse or are we just checking a box? 854 00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,000 Speaker 5: And that's something I feel really passionately about. 855 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:53,480 Speaker 6: Because I would argue that many businesses and many people 856 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,280 Speaker 6: these days are just checking the box because they aren't 857 00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:59,839 Speaker 6: actually being inclusive. And I honestly think inclusivity can look 858 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:03,640 Speaker 6: small as having a conversation with someone who is different 859 00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:05,480 Speaker 6: from you and going out for lunch with them and 860 00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 6: you in your lunch break at work. You know, it 861 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,239 Speaker 6: doesn't have to be these huge, big players, but it's 862 00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 6: it's seeing each other as humans, regardless of the way 863 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 6: we differ. And I think that that is really important 864 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,719 Speaker 6: because there are workplaces out there who I just don't 865 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 6: think are making it as welcoming as it should be 866 00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:22,719 Speaker 6: and making it as accommodating as it should be. You know, 867 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 6: there's there's different cultures who might have different dress codes, 868 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:27,600 Speaker 6: and they need to create that really safe space for 869 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 6: people to be able to show up as they are. 870 00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:31,480 Speaker 6: Because when you can show up exactly as you are, 871 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 6: you can put your best foot forward, you can put 872 00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:35,319 Speaker 6: your best work forward, you can create your best relationships, 873 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,440 Speaker 6: Whereas if you're being held back or not feeling like 874 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 6: you can truly show up as you, then you don't 875 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:44,120 Speaker 6: have those opportunities to do that. And yeah, that's something 876 00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:46,800 Speaker 6: I strongly believe. I work for myself, so I haven't 877 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:50,000 Speaker 6: experienced it hugely. My boss being myself, is really great 878 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 6: and very accommodating. 879 00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,319 Speaker 1: What's the dress code at your workplace, Laud? 880 00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:55,520 Speaker 4: Currently I have in track fans and a hoodies, so 881 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,440 Speaker 4: very nice. That's usually in my dress code. 882 00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,800 Speaker 5: Many brothers around here. 883 00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,640 Speaker 1: No, since COVID, I don't even know what that word 884 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 1: is anymore, Jess. I feel like this has been such 885 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,799 Speaker 1: a beautiful chat that a lot of our community are 886 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,680 Speaker 1: going to get a lot out of. So thank you 887 00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:17,279 Speaker 1: so much for joining us. But before we go, you 888 00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,640 Speaker 1: mentioned before that right now is a little bit tough 889 00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,200 Speaker 1: on social media for you. You're you know, feeling it 890 00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,680 Speaker 1: a little bit harder, a little bit heavier than you 891 00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:29,480 Speaker 1: have historically. And I think a really nice place to 892 00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 1: leave it would be a question, and that question is 893 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,080 Speaker 1: what would you say to people who are going through 894 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:38,200 Speaker 1: a similar period, whether that is work or life for 895 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,799 Speaker 1: their relationship, where they've just got it a little bit 896 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 1: rough and they just feel like they aren't as bright 897 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:44,719 Speaker 1: as they usually are. 898 00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 5: I'd say, take time for you. 899 00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,880 Speaker 6: I think the best thing we can do is actually 900 00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:52,120 Speaker 6: just slow down, you know, I delete social media. I 901 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:54,120 Speaker 6: sit on the couch sometimes like we live in a 902 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 6: world where it's hustle, hustle, hustle, but it's also okay 903 00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:58,919 Speaker 6: to not do that all the time. And yes, most 904 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:00,920 Speaker 6: of us have to show up to ninety five. I 905 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,920 Speaker 6: respect that, But trying to do those small things for 906 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 6: you that make you feel like you again, I think 907 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 6: are really important and not feeling like you have to 908 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:11,319 Speaker 6: be a voice and advocate for everything, because there is 909 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 6: a lot going on in the world at the moment 910 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:16,200 Speaker 6: and it can be really hard to handle that when 911 00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,919 Speaker 6: we haven't actually fully wrapped our head around around what's 912 00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 6: going on. So definitely taking that time and showing up 913 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,840 Speaker 6: for yourself is I think the most important thing we 914 00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,560 Speaker 6: can do. And knowing that it will get better, because 915 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:30,439 Speaker 6: you know, I have been in places in my life 916 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:33,040 Speaker 6: where I couldn't see a light at the end of 917 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:34,759 Speaker 6: the tunnel. In fact, I didn't actually want to be 918 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,759 Speaker 6: in that tunnel anymore, but I knew that I could 919 00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,120 Speaker 6: hold on because I knew there was a life out 920 00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:42,960 Speaker 6: there for me that was just amazing. And I think, 921 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,320 Speaker 6: no matter what place you're in right now, just holding 922 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:47,880 Speaker 6: on to the hope that things will get better because 923 00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:49,600 Speaker 6: they always do it, or at the very least you 924 00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:50,320 Speaker 6: get stronger. 925 00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,400 Speaker 1: I love that so much, and thank you for sharing 926 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,040 Speaker 1: that with our community, because not everyone is on the 927 00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:59,279 Speaker 1: same journey at the same time. But to wrap this 928 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:02,960 Speaker 1: up completely, yes, coming back round to why you're here, 929 00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,879 Speaker 1: it's International Women's Day, or according to She's on the Money, 930 00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,280 Speaker 1: it's International Women's Week. 931 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:08,959 Speaker 4: How are you celebrating? 932 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:11,359 Speaker 7: I love, I love the International Woman's Week, and that's 933 00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:12,800 Speaker 7: one of the things I'm going to do to celebrate. 934 00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:14,080 Speaker 5: I'm going to celebrate it for a. 935 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,480 Speaker 7: Whole week, but I'm going to connect with other people 936 00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:20,280 Speaker 7: who have stories that are different from mine and different 937 00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 7: lived experiences, and use this week as a time to 938 00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,080 Speaker 7: remind myself of all of the different humans that create 939 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:28,120 Speaker 7: our world, because I think that's one of the most 940 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:30,319 Speaker 7: important things we can do to remind each other that 941 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:30,799 Speaker 7: we're all. 942 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,560 Speaker 3: Human thousand percent. And if people want to learn more 943 00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,759 Speaker 3: about your journey and about your story, they can find 944 00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,400 Speaker 3: you on Instagram, on TikTok. We'll link it all down below. 945 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,319 Speaker 3: You also have your book Still Standing What I've Learned 946 00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:44,359 Speaker 3: from A Life Lived Differently, which is such a great read. 947 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:48,160 Speaker 3: I personally have read it and I so thoroughly enjoyed it. 948 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:52,160 Speaker 3: I recommend it to everybody listening. 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