WEBVTT - You've Been Interpreting Your Dreams All WRONG ☁️  ❌  😔

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch up podcast. It is Flex and Rooms

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<v Speaker 1>on Kata. Is there anything more boring than hearing someone

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<v Speaker 1>talk about their dream I actually find it quite interesting, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, though, if you're part of the community

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<v Speaker 1>who likes to look at the science and symbols and

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<v Speaker 1>interpretations of your dreams, I have something for you, and

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<v Speaker 1>I will say on paper verbally, you are interpreting your

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<v Speaker 1>dreams wrong. According to men and his symbols Carl Jung.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll find it if you google it. I'm a dreamy girly,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a dream interpreter, a dream haver, a lucid dreamer.

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<v Speaker 1>I take it quite seriously. But what I can't get

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<v Speaker 1>to the bottom of is what dreams actually mean. Why

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<v Speaker 1>do they happen? Why do we have them? It's inconclusive,

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<v Speaker 1>which is quite annoying for me, because we know everything

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<v Speaker 1>about Mars and everything about the moon. Tell me about

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<v Speaker 1>my dreams? Anyway, listen to this. The reason why you

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<v Speaker 1>might struggle to interpret your dreams lies and this fact.

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<v Speaker 1>A story told by your conscious mind has a beginning,

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<v Speaker 1>a development, and an end. But the same is not

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<v Speaker 1>true of a dream. It's dimensions in time and space

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<v Speaker 1>are quite different. To understand it, you must examine it

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<v Speaker 1>from every aspect, just as you may take an unknown

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<v Speaker 1>shape and turn it over into your hands until you're

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<v Speaker 1>familiar with what it is. So when you see something

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know for the first time, you take the

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<v Speaker 1>time to really look at it from every angle before

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<v Speaker 1>you draw this conclusion about what it is or what

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<v Speaker 1>it might not be. And so then I really thought

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<v Speaker 1>about what happens when we dream. We're quick to first

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<v Speaker 1>say this is a nightmare. It's a good dream. Correct.

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<v Speaker 1>We rush to say it's a good dream, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>bad dream. It's a dream I enjoyed, it's a dream

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't enjoy. And because there's no clear beginning, middle,

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<v Speaker 1>and end, we attach ideas to certain themes. Right, it

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<v Speaker 1>was dark, therefore it was scary. I saw a friend

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<v Speaker 1>from high school. Therefore it was an anxiety dream. But

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<v Speaker 1>the tip that I learned in this book is the

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<v Speaker 1>dream interpretation, and it has to be unique to you.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't be going to dream interpretation dot Com and

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<v Speaker 1>being like, what is what I mean? The dream interpretation

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<v Speaker 1>lies exactly in what is happening? One more time, The

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<v Speaker 1>way to interpret your dreams lies in what is happening. So,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, I had a dream the other day it

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<v Speaker 1>was like the end of the world, the Walking Dead vibes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm with three of my friends and we're on

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<v Speaker 1>like this motorway highway. It's desolate. We've got our backpacks on.

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<v Speaker 1>We're walking, walking, walking, looking for a shelter or something.

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<v Speaker 1>We come across this petrol station that's been abandoned, but

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<v Speaker 1>there's flower here, and we get inside and immediately my

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<v Speaker 1>friends like, oh my god, this is amazing, our saving, grace,

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<v Speaker 1>our salvation. There's flower. And they all turn to me

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, what do we do with the flower?

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, what do you mean, what do we do

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<v Speaker 1>with the flower? We make bread with the flower? I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to make bread. One by one,

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<v Speaker 1>they all start ripping into me. You spent all this

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<v Speaker 1>time talking about the apocalypse and you don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>how to make bread. What were you doing? Why are

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<v Speaker 1>we here? La la la la. So I wake up

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<v Speaker 1>and using my little book, I'm like, what is happening

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<v Speaker 1>in the stream. I'm like, exactly what is happening? I

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<v Speaker 1>spent all this time talking about the apocalypse. Not prepared,

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<v Speaker 1>not even a little bit. I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>purify water. I don't know how to make bread. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how to survive with electricity. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know how to do permaculture, bab I can't even get

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<v Speaker 1>a plant carrot. They should have apocalypse training. They've called

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<v Speaker 1>some meal kits all hello fresh right in the apocalypse,

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<v Speaker 1>keep it going, keep history alive. My hand up, jeers,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, though, and then and then I'm like, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>then why are my three friends mad at me? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like one of the three friends I've had

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<v Speaker 1>for the longest time, two of them I've known since

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<v Speaker 1>high school. And I was like, it's a theme, Like

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<v Speaker 1>they're often always upset with me in my dreams. What

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<v Speaker 1>is that about? Because they're quite reasonable, sensible people. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, if I really deep it, like if

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<v Speaker 1>I go into my heart and soul, those two friends

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<v Speaker 1>are the first people outside of my family that existed

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<v Speaker 1>as a moral compass, Like outside of my mum telling

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<v Speaker 1>me like this is good and bad or my brother's

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<v Speaker 1>being like that's wrong or right. They you are the

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<v Speaker 1>ones who were like, hey, some things are good. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we shouldn't do that, maybe we should be sensible. So

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<v Speaker 1>then in my brain, my subconscious is like, Okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about being sensible, living up to expectation, understanding why

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<v Speaker 1>you are are not doing things. That is the dream.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not about the apocalypse, it's not about the bread.

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<v Speaker 1>That is what happened. But by focusing on what exactly happened,

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<v Speaker 1>not the stories we tell ourselves about what the dream symbolizes,

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<v Speaker 1>there in lies the meeting. Yeah, I think I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, practice because there's something there. Your subconscious isn't

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<v Speaker 1>really trying to hide things from you. It just doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what's important to you. And the interpretation lies in

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<v Speaker 1>what you are trying to see in it. And so

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<v Speaker 1>like I feel really validated by being like, it's dark,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's a nightmare because I'm afraid of the dark.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just easy. But if we look past the doc,

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<v Speaker 1>if we go what do we see? Meaning? As we

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