1 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:09,039 Speaker 1: hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm 3 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 1: Sophie Torbah and coming up on today's show, Mitch Orville 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: slam for bizarre video showing sun getting dangerously close to 5 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: a crocodile, controversial tread why fired over racist video, the 6 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: food court debate, and Jade Tunci's baby Joy. But first, 7 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: can we be credited for Shanni Grimmin's return to social media. 8 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: Off the back of our deep dive on Monday into 9 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 1: the Og, YouTuber Shani said this, I'm a little bit 10 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:42,480 Speaker 1: flustered right now because I just got sent a podcast 11 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: about me and my whole career online, and I was 12 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: really scared it was going to be hate. And that's 13 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 1: why I stopped posting in the first place, like about 14 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: my personal life, because I just get so worried I'm 15 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: going to offend someone, or that someone's going to talk 16 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: badly about me, Like I just I get so scared. 17 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: But everything was really positive and it actually made me 18 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: feel so. 19 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 2: Just I don't know if you cry. I just really 20 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 2: miss posting, and I think it was just like the 21 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 2: little reminder that I needed to connect with you guys 22 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 2: again and be more open again. I think I went 23 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 2: through a lot at a certain stage in my life 24 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: and I was just really afraid of what people would 25 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 2: think about me and say about me. So now I 26 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 2: feel I just feel reinspired again to be more open, 27 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 2: I guess, but I do feel like the easiest way 28 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 2: for me to kind of talk about my life is 29 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 2: on TikTok doing all the little get ready with to me. 30 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 2: So I'm going to do one this week, and I 31 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 2: want to update you on what's been happening in the past. 32 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: Couple of months. 33 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 2: It's been a crazy ride hole lay but yeah, feeling 34 00:01:53,840 --> 00:02:00,559 Speaker 2: good and just feeling so grateful for everything say first 35 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 2: started social media, like it was just such a full 36 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 2: circle moment listening to that podcast and just being reminded 37 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 2: of the connection that I have with you guys and 38 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 2: everything that I've done since I was sixteen fifteen when 39 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 2: I first started. 40 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 1: It's so crazy. 41 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 2: I'm actually like getting a rash on my face because 42 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 2: I'm lasted. 43 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: I saw Shane's video pop up and she mentioned the podcast, 44 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:34,959 Speaker 1: and my heart dropped. I was like, Oh my gosh, 45 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: what is she going to say? But I was so 46 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 1: pleased to see that she actually enjoyed the episode, and 47 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: we've had so many people messaging us saying that Shanny 48 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: is their Roman Empire. It was really nice to see 49 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: this response from Shanny because I think sometimes our podcast 50 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: gets a bad rap for potentially being hard on influencers, 51 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: and our podcast does stem from the fact that we 52 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: really enjoy influencer culture, and for so many of us, 53 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 1: Shany Grimmon was the first influencer that we followed, and 54 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: I'm really excited that this might have inspired her to 55 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 1: actually be sharing more content. She did say that she'll 56 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 1: be opening up more on TikTok. I personally would like 57 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: a full YouTube return, though, yes, I want to see 58 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: her back on YouTube, but I'd be happy with TikTok 59 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: videos too. I wonder if she'll start sharing all about 60 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 1: her period and sex life like she did back in 61 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: the day on tumblau. I would love that set of 62 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: content back, but I don't think her boyfriend Jacob would 63 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: particularly like it. I hope it wasn't too awkward for 64 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: her seeing those clips of her ex boyfriend. I think 65 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: that maybe enough time has passed that it's sort of 66 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: funny now. Yeah, well, it was around eight years ago. 67 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: I think she's over him. Yeah, definitely. Dragon the Cheek 68 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: ever had fantasies about you together. 69 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 2: Imagine having a podcast where you've gone what you're saying, 70 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 2: you're just laughing at yourself. Just wait, just calm yourself 71 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: and then talk. 72 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:59,119 Speaker 1: Jade Tunci and her husband that Lockie Bricky have announced 73 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: the arrival of baby boy on Sunday night. Jarda revealed 74 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: the news to her half a million Instagram followers, sharing 75 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: a carousel of very cute photos. Now in the post, 76 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: she also revealed his much anticipated name, writing, hello world, 77 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: my name is Fletcher ted Brickey. I arrived on my 78 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: dune date June thirteenth, so you know I'm going to 79 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 1: be very reliable. What do you think about the name, Amie, 80 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: I don't mind it. I think it's nice to actually 81 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: see a pretty traditional name from an influencer. I'm wondering 82 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: are they gonna call him Fletch? 83 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 84 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: I thought the name was pretty cute and he is 85 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,559 Speaker 1: a gorgeous baby. I wonder if ted as the middle 86 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: name is from ted Lasso, because I feel like that 87 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 1: name is getting a resurgence. Our family's cat is called 88 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: Teddy after ted Lasso. Now in the announcement post, Jarda 89 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: took the opportunity to thank the midwives who helped bring 90 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 1: Fletcher into the world, and she also added that Fletcher's 91 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: favorite activities include snuggling with his dad, eating with Mum, 92 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: and having his nails done at the Milks salon. And 93 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 1: this was backed up with a photo of Lockie cutting 94 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:06,159 Speaker 1: his son's nails while ja Day was breastfeeding him. I 95 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 1: didn't know until some of my friends started having kids 96 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 1: just how sharp baby's fingernails are and the fact that 97 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: you actually have to cut them. I'm learning so many things. Yeah, 98 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: and there's been so many disasters. I've heard of of 99 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: some friends I know who they've gone to cut the 100 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 1: baby's fingernails and they've just cut their fingers because they're 101 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: so tiny. 102 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 4: Ugh. 103 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: Now, influences were out in force to congratulate jar Day, 104 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: so for Dofa wrote crying so so happy for you guys, 105 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: whilst Tammy said, oh my goodness, he is so beautiful. 106 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: Congratulations guys, and my favorite, Sammy Robinson wrote balling my 107 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 1: eyes out. I always find it interesting when these influencers 108 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: have huge life moments or announcements to see who their 109 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: influencer friends are Yeah, sometimes I didn't pick them being friends. 110 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 5: No. 111 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: I think sometimes though influencers or well known people will 112 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 1: drop into the comments and it's more of like an 113 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 1: ass kissing exercise that you can tell that they're not 114 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: actually friends. But it's like, please notice me, like I 115 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 1: want to be friends. I don't know if it's that, 116 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 1: but I think that's just day to day life, like 117 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 1: for normal people sharing on Instagram, Like you know, when 118 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: your birthday rolls around, it's almost the weirdest assortment of 119 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 1: people who wish you were happy birthday. Even Yeah, it's 120 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: those milestone posts on Instagram, like when you get married, 121 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: or you get engage, or you have a child. And 122 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: what I always think is, oh, so you guys can 123 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: see my other content I'm sharing, but you're choosing not to. 124 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: Hello guys. So we are off on a family holiday 125 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 1: up to the Northern Territory and our flight is tonight. 126 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 1: So I am just getting ready to head off after 127 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 1: nine years together. Gold Coast influences, Chloe Zepp and Mitchell 128 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: Orville are officially engaged. Whilst on a family get away 129 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 1: in the Northern Territory. Mitch pops a question on a beach. Now, 130 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: so do you think Chloe had an inkling this was 131 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: going to happen because they have been together for such 132 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: a long time. Now, Look, she surely knew it was 133 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: going to happen at some stage because they have been 134 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: together since she was sixteen years old and Mitchell was eighteen. 135 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: They actually met through Instagram, with Chloe admitting that she 136 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: was spamming Mitch's photos so that he would notice her. 137 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 1: And at the time, he had quite a profile because 138 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: he had launched his YouTube series Angry Dad and it 139 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: was exploding in popularity. I remember just how popular he 140 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 1: was because he was even going to clubs and doing 141 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: meat and grease. Yeah, there were so many little girls, 142 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: I think, all teenage girls who had a crush on him. 143 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 1: It wasn't long until they started chatting. Mitch slid into 144 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: her DMS and they randomly cross paths at an airport 145 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: and from that time on they were pretty much inseparable. 146 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: Teenage Chloe, she lived with her parents on the Gold Coast, 147 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: but she quickly uprooted her whole life to move to 148 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: Melbourne with Mitch and his family. When I saw the 149 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: engagement announcement, I couldn't help but think back to that 150 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: time that they split up, and I've always wondered, is 151 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: it super awkward? Because I've known of different friends who've 152 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: had this happen where they they've broken up for a 153 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: year or two, got back together, and then everyone's kind 154 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: of at the wedding and everyone feels a bit awkward 155 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: because their whole story is being told, but no one 156 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 1: ever knows whether to reference the breakup. 157 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 158 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: I have been to a wedding like that and the 159 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: couple are like, oh, yeah, we've been together for six years, 160 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: and you're like, well, do you deduct the year that 161 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: you broke up? Like it would be very awkward, particularly 162 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: having this Well, it wasn't a breakup video as such, 163 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: for those who haven't seen it. It was a video 164 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 1: where they explained that they were moving out from one another, 165 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: and it was after Chloe went to the US and 166 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: broke up with Mitch while she was there, but then 167 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 1: when she returned, they had a proper discussion and thought, look, 168 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: we still want to be together, but we don't want 169 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: to be living like this married couple. And that was 170 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: three years into their relationship, and not long after they 171 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 1: then seem to fall madly back in love and then 172 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: announce that they were pregnant. Well, if you think about 173 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:55,119 Speaker 1: the life they were living when they broke up initially, 174 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: it was a very different one. I mean this was 175 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: before Mitch had come out and spoken about his sobrit 176 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,959 Speaker 1: and his issues with drugs. So I think clearly there 177 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 1: was a lot going on in this relationship. I mean, 178 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: even looking at them now, they've turned to God. They 179 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: are completely different people than they were back then. I'm 180 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: guessing that this proposal has taken place now because Mitch 181 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 1: and Chloe are very much ingrained in the church and 182 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: being around that community. I wonder if there was pressure 183 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 1: on them to, you know, somewhat make it official. They 184 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,599 Speaker 1: do have two kids together. The proposal video itself was 185 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 1: really cute, and you could tell that Chloe was genuinely surprised. 186 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:34,439 Speaker 1: I really liked it because their son Artie was involved, 187 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: so he was just watching on as it all unfolded. 188 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: So Chloe and Mitch were enjoying a drink and then 189 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: he just suddenly got down on one knee. Yeah, she 190 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: did this little cute, excited jump that I feel like 191 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: a lot of people do when they get engaged. So 192 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: it did look quite genuine. Have you heard people saying 193 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 1: that they think that they've released this video to take 194 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:55,559 Speaker 1: the heat of all of that tiny truck tribe stuff 195 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: going on. I can see where people are coming from 196 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: with that theory, but in this instance, I think it 197 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: is just a coincidence. I don't think he's going out 198 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: there thinking, let's get a ring quickly. We'll do it 199 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 1: now so we can not get this heat. I'm sure 200 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: the company that have brought Mitch and Chloe over to 201 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 1: the Northern Territory are pretty happy with this engagement, because 202 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: the place where he got down on one knee looks 203 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 1: absolutely beautiful. So he shared the video of the proposal, 204 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 1: writing We're getting married special place forever, and he tagged 205 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 1: the name of the tour company. Yeah, this tour company 206 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: was tagged everywhere, and every single Instagram story they uploaded, 207 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: we saw the name of this company. However, they didn't 208 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: seem to be able to find the gifted or paid 209 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 1: promotion tool, which I assume is what this is. I mean, 210 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: we've recently seen Steph cles Smith go on a all 211 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 1: expenses paid trip to Fiji with Luxury Escapes, except she 212 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 1: has actually had the decency to write hashtag gifted trip. 213 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: I was really surprised to discover that there was no 214 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 1: sponsorship deal with this engagement ring, just this Northern Territory company. 215 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:00,559 Speaker 1: There was too much going on. Maybe they specified that 216 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 1: there couldn't be too many brands involved. So mich shed 217 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 1: on his Instagram story that their holiday got brought forward 218 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 1: by twelve days, which really reaked havoc on the ring prep. 219 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 1: So he had sourced a stone, but he was getting 220 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:15,599 Speaker 1: a jeweler called Drip City to make it into a 221 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: ring for him. I did have a bit of a 222 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 1: stalk and it looks like your stereotypical Gold Coast jeweler. 223 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 1: I was actually quite surprised. It was very tacky and 224 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: the stone apparently only arrived on Friday, but they were 225 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 1: set to leave on their holiday on Tuesday, so there 226 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: wasn't much time for them to get this ring together. 227 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: Mitch wrote on Instagram, the most stressful week. Just wanted 228 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,319 Speaker 1: to say a huge thank you to Drip City Jeweler 229 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 1: for bending over backwards to get it done in time. 230 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 1: Well are you sure this isn't spots? Let me finished, 231 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 1: she said, couldn't have asked for a better experience. Extremely grateful, 232 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 1: not sponsored, just appreciative. So he didn't point out it 233 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: is not sponsored. Well, normally it is a better option 234 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,439 Speaker 1: to actually get the diamond brought in from somewhere else 235 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 1: because often it's cheaper and you get a better quality diamond. 236 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: But this, this just sounds so stressful. Yeah. I was 237 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 1: really happy also to see that this diamond wasn't an 238 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: oval diamond. It seems to be the only ring that 239 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,559 Speaker 1: we're seeing influences and celebrities get. So this was actually 240 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 1: a large rectangular diamond with a white gold band, And 241 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 1: Mitch has specifically designed the ring with a diamond crucifix 242 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 1: built into the side of it. Well, to me, that 243 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:25,199 Speaker 1: indicates that obviously marriage is more of a priority to 244 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 1: him now that he is involved in the church. He 245 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: shared a close up of the cross on Instagram, writing 246 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: Jesus Cross is holding the stone together. He then went 247 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: on to provide what he says is an interesting stat 248 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 1: So he wrote, one in two couples statistically get a divorce. 249 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 1: In today's society, one in one thy five hundred couples 250 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 1: who pray together, and in divorce, those who pray together 251 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 1: stay together. Now, I'm guessing if that stat is true, 252 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 1: it is due to the fact that strict religions forbid divorce. 253 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: So I mean, many people who probably should get a 254 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 1: divorce and want to gain a divorce can't because it 255 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: goes against their religion. So I don't know if I 256 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: will be preaching that stuff. He really has become a 257 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 1: poster child for the church. I keep seeing on TikTok 258 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: these clips from a podcast called Church gal Podcast, which 259 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: he was recently on. I can't say that's on my rotation, no, 260 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:19,439 Speaker 1: but he was really getting into talking about his beliefs, 261 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 1: and he was saying how Chloe has just it's blown 262 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: his mind how into Bible reading she is. And it's 263 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: just as I said, it's just such a different life 264 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: that they are now living. If you think back to 265 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 1: when they first were sharing a lot about their lives 266 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:37,239 Speaker 1: online in Melbourne, like they were staying up late eating KFC, 267 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: playing like I'm I mean, it's probably better what they're doing. 268 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: In saying that Chloe was always very spiritual, so it 269 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: does make sense for her to then fall into this now. 270 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: The Blue Tick Brigade were out in force to congratulate 271 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: the couple. Former best friend Shany Grimman wrote, congratulations to 272 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:59,439 Speaker 1: you both, so magical, while Sophie Kaisher wrote, Wow, congratulations 273 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 1: beautiful humans love this so much? 274 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 5: What is that? 275 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: Just remind me of South Park where we were Megan 276 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:12,079 Speaker 1: Markwood Harry my book where Mitch Orvil's mum Sharon, She 277 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 1: did give a bit of an insight into the fact 278 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 1: that the family were finally relieved that this engagement has 279 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 1: taken place. She wrote, couldn't be happy at best news 280 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 1: and we have waited a long time for it. Definitely 281 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: worth the three am FaceTime call. Blessings and love to 282 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: you always. So do we think they're going to get 283 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 1: married in a church? Then I will be putting money 284 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 1: on it at this stage. 285 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 5: Well. 286 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: While his proposal provided some very wholesome content, it wasn't 287 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: long before a controversy struck. As we mentioned, Mitch and 288 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 1: Chloe are on what looks like a sponsored trip to 289 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 1: the Northern Territory and it hasn't been good pr for 290 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: the retreat itself, so Mitch Orvill decided to share a 291 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 1: video of his son playing very close to a salt 292 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 1: water crocodile. I couldn't believe it when I saw his 293 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: Instagram story. I was half asleep when I on this, 294 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 1: and I was like, holy fuck, is that a crocodile, 295 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: because in the video, which he posted to his Instagram story, 296 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 1: Mitch is seen walking hand in hand with his small 297 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 1: son and he proceeds to pan to a crocodile which 298 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 1: is looming in the water just meters from them, and 299 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 1: over the video, he wrote on the beach of the retreat, Well, 300 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 1: so there was no actual mention to how close this 301 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: crocodile was like, Oh, this is just you know, it's 302 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: so normal. We're just walking along the beach and there's 303 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: just a family crocodile. Oh. It literally looked like this 304 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: crocodile was sizing up his son and getting ready to attack. 305 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: And I just think the stupidity to take your child 306 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 1: that close to a dangerous animal. It I just can't 307 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 1: get over it. I mean. And he was also taking 308 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: the time to whip his phone out and film this. 309 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 1: It's not like he's concentrating on the situation and making 310 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 1: sure if the crocodile does come out of the water 311 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 1: that he can quickly pull him to safety or anything 312 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 1: like that. Well, if you've ever seen a wildlife show 313 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: on TV or in person, do you know just how 314 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 1: fast a crocodile moves? Yeah, Well, prior to this post, 315 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: mitchshed a photo cuddling up to his son and wrote, 316 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: off to see some huge croc So to me, it's 317 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: clear he intentionally took his son to see them and 318 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 1: they were just innocently walking across this beach and a 319 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: random croc came up to them. That being said this island. 320 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: That being said, this island is full of crocodiles, because 321 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 1: the next day Mitch also posted a video of their 322 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 1: family driving along a dirt road with two enormous crocodiles 323 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 1: blocking their path. And then in another video, their son Aarti, 324 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 1: is shown just casually posing with a snaker around his neck. 325 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: Oh this is I mean it clearly was one of 326 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: those shows or what? 327 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 328 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, but the beach wasn't This does not sound like 329 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 1: a place that I would want to venture to. No, 330 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 1: and particularly when you have young children. Perth Now have 331 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 1: been reporting on this story, and they have been reporting 332 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 1: that the Teewi Council has been warning visitors about crock attacks. 333 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 1: So they said crocodiles are common on the Tewi Islands. 334 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 1: Must always assume that saltwater crocodiles are present in any water. 335 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 1: Don't become complacent crocodile danger is real and attacks can 336 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 1: be fatal. Saltwater crocodiles can attack people in boats, and 337 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: the smaller the boat, the greater the risk. So it 338 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 1: is quite clear that these crocodiles do pose a risk 339 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 1: to tourists there, and despite the fact that I'm sure 340 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 1: the people that they're staying with or the company they're 341 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 1: staying with, are pretty chilled about it and saying, oh, 342 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 1: don't worry too much, but this is a very dangerous situation. Well, 343 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 1: a number of listeners in our Facebook group shared their 344 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: personal experience at Teewe Island, so l ro it is 345 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 1: kind of a different world, to be honest. Crocodiles are 346 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 1: always in front of the retreat. You'll be eating your 347 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: brecky or having a swim in the pool, and the 348 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 1: water's edge will only be fifty meters away, and you'll 349 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 1: see a few crocodiles at a time. Usually I definitely 350 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 1: didn't walk along the water's edge myself, but I suppose 351 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 1: what I'm saying is, in that world, I can see 352 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 1: how they would feel safe enough to do so. After 353 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,919 Speaker 1: being there myself and having the staff so reassuring and 354 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 1: comfortable with the crocodiles. Another listener called Cassie said, I 355 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:08,439 Speaker 1: lived in the territory for twenty years. I've been on 356 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: a million croc tours. The crocs out at Teewee are massive. 357 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: I could legit be a croc wrangler at this point. 358 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 1: This is way too close. Also the fact that Kroc 359 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: looks young. It would be faster than predicted. Now. This 360 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 1: trip definitely is ending on a low because Mitch and 361 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:29,479 Speaker 1: Chloe are also stranded in the Northern Territory. So on 362 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:32,920 Speaker 1: Wednesday they arrived at the airport with Mitch showing photos 363 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 1: of his kids weighing themselves on the luggage machines. But 364 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 1: their fun time didn't last long because it was followed 365 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: up with a photo of Sonny with the caption flight 366 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:45,360 Speaker 1: canceled twelve fifteen pm, delayed to six pm, then canceled 367 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:48,639 Speaker 1: at five pm. He tagged Virgin Australia and said you 368 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 1: owe us a babysitter and a night out now. He 369 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: followed this up on Thursday with another post riding, Nah, 370 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 1: what the fuck Virgin Australia canceled our flight yesterday and 371 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 1: said the latest day get us on another flight is Saturday. 372 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 1: Is this a joke? Or am I tripping the flight 373 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: was Wednesday. Not good pr for Virgin Australia here because 374 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 1: he also followed it up by sharing that his inbox 375 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 1: was full of followers saying never fly Virgin out of Darwin. 376 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: Also again not really great publicity for the Tewee Islands. No, no, 377 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 1: not at all. So you might be able to get 378 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 1: engaged over there on a beautiful beach, but you could 379 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 1: lose one of your kids in the process from a 380 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 1: croc and then you're not able to fly out of 381 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 1: the destination. I mean a rock review there. I'm sure 382 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,439 Speaker 1: it's beautiful, but got everyone gives adelaide a bad rap. 383 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 4: So a recent video of mine seems to have upset 384 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 4: members of a certain community. 385 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: A self proclaimed tradwife has lost her marketing job after 386 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,959 Speaker 1: making headlines for using the N word. In a viral 387 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: TikTok video, Lily Gaddis shared a video of her cooking 388 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 1: in her kitchen, was decked out in an apron and 389 00:19:56,240 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: small crucifix around her neck. Now. In the TikTok Lily 390 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: discussed her views on women being labeled gold diggers. Let's 391 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 1: have a listen. 392 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:09,159 Speaker 6: I'm sick and tired of all girls getting blamed or 393 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:13,400 Speaker 6: like guys, certain guys thinking that all girls are gold diggers. 394 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 6: I don't know if it's because you get your information 395 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:20,639 Speaker 6: from those street interviews in like Miami at three am, 396 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 6: outside of the nightclub. You're getting the opinion of some 397 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 6: dumb horrors and immigrants fresh off the boat looking for 398 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:32,159 Speaker 6: a green car. Yes, they are probably gold diggers, but 399 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 6: that's the exception. 400 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 2: I'm the rule. 401 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 6: Everybody I know who's married right now, they're married to 402 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:42,440 Speaker 6: brocasters and they don't care. We don't give at money. 403 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:46,439 Speaker 1: It's definitely very jarring to hear that, particularly because I 404 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: thought that we'd move to a place where people don't 405 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 1: speak like this online anymore. 406 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 4: Yeah. 407 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:55,440 Speaker 1: Well, the video received immediate backlash online and people were 408 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 1: calling to cancel Lily, And I think what shocked most 409 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 1: people was just how easily the N word rolled off 410 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 1: her tongue, and it led many people to think, well, 411 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 1: obviously she uses this word often. I'm also confused how 412 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 1: this woman is marketing herself as a trad wife, yet 413 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 1: she has a job in marketing that she's subsequently been 414 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,439 Speaker 1: fired from. Yeah, I found that weird too, So she 415 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:20,919 Speaker 1: does put up a lot of tradwife content of her 416 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 1: cooking in the kitchen, but she said she more views 417 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 1: herself as a traditional wife in the sense that she 418 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: does like to cook and look after her man, and 419 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 1: she has traditional views. But she did have a part 420 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 1: time job, so she'll posting this video, so she's a 421 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 1: wanna be trad wife. Well apparently maybe that's why she's 422 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 1: made these offensive comments so she can get rid of 423 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:39,840 Speaker 1: her job. Who knows. 424 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 5: Well. 425 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: The most bizarre thing about this whole saga is everyone 426 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 1: was expecting Lily to release one of those typical influencer 427 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 1: style apology videos talking about doing better and educating herself. However, 428 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:55,440 Speaker 1: this is what Lily had to say. 429 00:21:56,440 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 4: So a recent video of mine seems to have upset 430 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 4: members of a certain community, and this of the backlash 431 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 4: just really made me, you know, just really do a 432 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 4: deep dive, like do a soul search. And after all that, 433 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:13,640 Speaker 4: I still couldn't find a care. 434 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 1: I don't know what to say about that. It's just 435 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 1: so disrespectful, and she's just giving a clear fu to 436 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 1: anyone who was offended by that. I just hate it 437 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 1: because it's clear that she's trying to be purposely confrontational 438 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 1: and she's wanting to appeal to this right wing market 439 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 1: that we are seeing emrge on TikTok at the moment. Well, 440 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,679 Speaker 1: from what I've read about her, since it almost sounds 441 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 1: like she went out of her way to make one 442 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 1: of her offensive videos go viral and now she's ultimately 443 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,880 Speaker 1: got what she wanted. Well, it gets even worse because 444 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:50,240 Speaker 1: after her non apology, Lily then argued that her First 445 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: Amendment rights were under attack, posting if my freedom of 446 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 1: speech is taken, they'll be coming for yours. Next, she 447 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:01,719 Speaker 1: followed up by sarcastically things thanking the black community, writing, 448 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 1: thanks Black community for helping to launch my new career 449 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 1: in conservative media. You all played your role well, like 450 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: the puppets you are. It makes me so mad. And 451 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,959 Speaker 1: the most disturbing thing is since this story has gone viral, 452 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 1: she has gained over sixty thousand followers on X Doesn't 453 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:23,400 Speaker 1: that say a lot about the demographic that is on X. Well, 454 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,880 Speaker 1: she's deleted the TikTok, so the TikTok's gone now she's 455 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 1: focusing all of her attention on the toxic people on X. Well, 456 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: that just speaks volumes because it's clear that TikTok and 457 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 1: its younger community on there would have been appalled by 458 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: the comments that she was making. That's why she's had 459 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 1: to eat. Either she has been banned from there or 460 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 1: she's chosen to get off the platform. But I mean, yeah, 461 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: it does speak volumes about what the conversations that are 462 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,919 Speaker 1: taking place on Twitter, and it just shows you that 463 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 1: anytime someone says, oh, this person's been canceled blah blah blah, 464 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 1: she's obviously been canceled on TikTok, but then she's being 465 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 1: applauded on x and it shows that this notion of 466 00:23:58,920 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 1: being canceled is just bok. 467 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 5: I go reserve the table at a fruit court were 468 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 5: literally wit to garter. 469 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 1: It was he TikToker. Chloe Barradinski has sparked a bait 470 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 1: around food court etiquette after getting into a stoush with 471 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,679 Speaker 1: a fifty year old man over a table. Let's have 472 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: a listen, guys, who is in the rom here? 473 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 3: Okay, so it is peak for lunchtime at the food court, Like, 474 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 3: no table's breath absolutely packed, No pad left on a 475 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 3: table here, right, And I was like, oh, maybe someone's 476 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:30,639 Speaker 3: just left it. I left it as is because I 477 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 3: was like, you'll probably come back and collect it. Once 478 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 3: he realized this, he came back with this food and 479 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 3: you're so rude. 480 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 5: He's like, I've reserved this table. I go reserve the 481 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 5: table at a fruit court were literally winter garter a 482 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,800 Speaker 5: food court. I was like, I'm sorry, you can't reserve tables. 483 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,640 Speaker 3: He was like, well, like put my note pad here 484 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 3: to go and order my food. And I've come back 485 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 3: and now you're sitting here. I go, yeah, it's a 486 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,119 Speaker 3: fruit court. He's like, what are these your rules? I 487 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 3: was like, are they your rules? And he was like, 488 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 3: fifty year old man, so rude. 489 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 1: He's so over roots to me. 490 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 3: And I was like, you can still hear if you want. 491 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 2: I don't mind. 492 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:04,400 Speaker 3: You can sit on the other side. 493 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 5: He's like, I don't want to sit with you. And 494 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 5: I was like, okay, well, I guess you have to 495 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 5: find a new table. 496 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 2: Then. 497 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 1: Now, outspoken Facebook community members requested our opinions on this. 498 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 1: What are the food court rules? So look, I have 499 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: to agree with Chloe here. If I was at a 500 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 1: food court and I saw an old notepad on the table, 501 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:28,159 Speaker 1: I would not think that this was someone's way of 502 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:32,160 Speaker 1: barsing a table. It kind of reminds me of when 503 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 1: you go on holiday to a resort and people use 504 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: towels to bars tables as in. I think that a 505 00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:44,360 Speaker 1: towel is a recognizable way that someone is barsing that spot. However, 506 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 1: if I was to see a notepad, I would just 507 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,920 Speaker 1: assume that someone had left that behind. If someone maybe 508 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 1: left their keys and their phone on the table, maybe 509 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: I'd think, oh, okay, someone has been sitting here, or 510 00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 1: a jacket or something. I was gonna say a jacket. 511 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,159 Speaker 1: There has to be some big But the fact is 512 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 1: you're not, Like in food court etiquette rules, that's not allowed. 513 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 1: The only time you can actually reserve a table is 514 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 1: if you have a friend awkwardly sitting there like you're 515 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 1: off trying to get their food. You can't reserve a table, 516 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: especially in the you know, the chaotic lunch period. It's 517 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: just rad It reminds me of when you're at a 518 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 1: cafe or a restaurant and all of the tables are 519 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 1: packed and there's like a few of you waiting around 520 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 1: to get the first available table, and there's that awkward 521 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,880 Speaker 1: sort of run that you do in order to get it. 522 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,359 Speaker 1: I don't know why that just kinded me, but I 523 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 1: know one of our friends her mom has a tactic 524 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: where if it's packed and she's waiting for a table, 525 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 1: she will awkwardly stand there over people like who are 526 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,440 Speaker 1: eating to make sure they feel uncomfortable so they will leave. 527 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 1: I think that you have to be over forty in 528 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 1: order to get away with doing that. I remember recently 529 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,879 Speaker 1: we went to Yochi and we secured our table. It 530 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 1: wasn't like there was a massive lineup that was at 531 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 1: a chaotic time, and I think they're about four of us, 532 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:02,439 Speaker 1: and we all wanted to go up and get our 533 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 1: Yochi at the same time. So we were like, oh, 534 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 1: let's just leave keys on the table, like that's obviously 535 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:08,879 Speaker 1: a sign that we're taking it. 536 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:09,120 Speaker 5: Now. 537 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,760 Speaker 1: We're sounding like this fifty year old man. But anyway, 538 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,440 Speaker 1: I think it was acceptable at Yochi. So we got up. 539 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 1: Then we returned to the table and my keys were gone, 540 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 1: and I was like, holy fuck, like someone stolen my keys, Like, 541 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm going to go back to my 542 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 1: current it's going to be gone. What had happened is 543 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,400 Speaker 1: one of the concerned gen Zettas who was dining there 544 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 1: had thought that someone had left them behind. They didn't 545 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,399 Speaker 1: realize that that was the universal sign that you were 546 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 1: barsing a table and they had given them to the staff. 547 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 1: So maybe what we are witnessing here is generational confusion. 548 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 1: So in this instant, it's a fifty year old man 549 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,359 Speaker 1: who thinks is acceptable to bars a table with a notepad. 550 00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 1: Maybe that was the dumb thing back in the day, 551 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: Like you know how we're thinking, like how fuck can 552 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,919 Speaker 1: these genzettas not realize that we're barsing the table with 553 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:56,840 Speaker 1: our keys, our item, our property. Thing with the notepad 554 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:58,920 Speaker 1: is that I think he left it there because if 555 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 1: someone stolen it would be that big of a deal. 556 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 1: If you left your phone and keys there, it might 557 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:07,399 Speaker 1: be a different story. Also, I mean, my issue with 558 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 1: the way that this man has handled the situation is 559 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 1: that Chloe has said, heye, feel free to sit down, 560 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 1: like she's been quite polite, probably a bit half apologetic, Sorry, 561 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,200 Speaker 1: I didn't realize you were here, And he's come back 562 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 1: with saying, you know, it's obvious that I was barsing 563 00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,880 Speaker 1: this table. I don't want to sit with you. I mean, 564 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,120 Speaker 1: why would she want to sit with this guy anywhere? 565 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 1: Actually loved that she had the nerve to say that, 566 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 1: will just sit with me. The fact was like, I 567 00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: don't want to sit with you? Is a rude? Is 568 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 1: that not the worst though? When you're at those trendy 569 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 1: cafes and they've got those like large tables sitting, yeah, 570 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 1: the shared seating. You're like sitting there with friends, and 571 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,959 Speaker 1: then people sit directly next to you and you're like, well, 572 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 1: I'm kind of trying to have a private conversation. That 573 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 1: happened to us recently, and this group of dads sat 574 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 1: down with us and they had kids, and I could 575 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 1: tell that, like we were still having our quite large, 576 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 1: inappropriate conversation, and you could tell that the dads were like, 577 00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 1: holy fuck, we should not be sitting here. Well, it 578 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,480 Speaker 1: wasn't that it was inappropriate for the kids to hear. 579 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 1: But sometimes I think, you know, when you have a 580 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,959 Speaker 1: really good catch up with friends and you think far 581 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 1: out what we're saying is pretty entertaining, like some of 582 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 1: the gossip that we're talking, so you're someone that they're 583 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 1: lucky to be listening. Yeah, sometimes I think that. Sometimes 584 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, sometimes when you get sat next 585 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 1: to an elderly couple or not elderly, like a couple 586 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 1: that's been married for say twenty years and you can 587 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 1: tell they've just run out of conversation. They're in that 588 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,960 Speaker 1: phase where they're just comfortable sitting in silence, but you 589 00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 1: can tell they're listening to every word of your conversation. 590 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 1: I get confused about that because I was going to 591 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 1: say that that's my personal nightmare to have nothing to 592 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,440 Speaker 1: talk about with my partner. But then I also think 593 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 1: that there's this really nice comfort in just being able 594 00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 1: to sit in silence, particularly when you are older and 595 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 1: you've heard each other's stories by then, like you're over it, 596 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 1: you probably do want to just people watch, have a 597 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 1: bit of a listen in to the conversation. We were 598 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,480 Speaker 1: out recently with a friend and some of the topics 599 00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 1: that he was bringing to the conversation, we were like, 600 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 1: holy fuck, the table next to us, they're highly entertaining. 601 00:29:59,240 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 4: Well. 602 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,960 Speaker 1: I think a lot of the people were confused about 603 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: what the relationship was between because it was basically it 604 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 1: was a work friend of mine who's in his late fifties, 605 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: and he was sitting with yourself, me and another friend 606 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,520 Speaker 1: of ours, and I think people were like, is that 607 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: their dad? And then they had people thought he was 608 00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: our sugar dad. I have seen this trend on TikTok, 609 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:21,680 Speaker 1: and it said that it's really awkward when you go 610 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 1: out with your dad when you reach a particular age 611 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,120 Speaker 1: of adulthood, because you almost feel like having up a 612 00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,240 Speaker 1: sign saying this is my dad, this is not my 613 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,479 Speaker 1: sugar dad. I actually have never felt like that with 614 00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 1: my dad, though I don't know. I feel like there's 615 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 1: enough of an age gap to realize what's going on. Yeah, 616 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 1: but I don't think I've ever been out one on 617 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: one with dad to a cafe either. True, that's makes 618 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 1: me a good point, but also, I mean our friend 619 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 1: he doesn't really look like our dad, so I mean 620 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 1: we have on many occasions been out with him and 621 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 1: people have been like, what is going on here to 622 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,080 Speaker 1: be their dad? Then again, I remember, so we shared 623 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 1: a photo of my coworker he happened to be at 624 00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 1: one of our white Christmas parties that we do every year, 625 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 1: and somebody message saying, oh my god, is that your dad. 626 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 1: He's a silver Fox, so yeah, he would love this 627 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 1: at the moment. He's actually a radio host, so I mean, 628 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 1: maybe we'll have to have him on the show at 629 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,400 Speaker 1: some point. On that note, I think that's all we 630 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,760 Speaker 1: have time for. Thank you. So much for joining us 631 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 1: for today's episode. If you have enjoyed it, could you 632 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 1: please make sure you are subscribed to Apple podcast and 633 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: also Spotify. 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