1
00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,680
Speaker 1: Lisa is getting ready for day two at the Halls

2
00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:07,680
Speaker 1: of Justice. Good morning, Lisa, Oh, good morning.

3
00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:09,760
Speaker 2: You know I can't talk about it. It's like fight club.

4
00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:13,080
Speaker 1: It is so you can't. You can't give us any

5
00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:15,000
Speaker 1: insight into what's going on.

6
00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:17,280
Speaker 2: Not adult nothing.

7
00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:20,480
Speaker 1: Oh this is rather disappointing.

8
00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,160
Speaker 2: Well I can tell you is I didn't do much yesterday.

9
00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:24,840
Speaker 2: I went home.

10
00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:26,759
Speaker 1: Is it catered?

11
00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:31,480
Speaker 2: Not really, not that I could tell. No, not in

12
00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:33,280
Speaker 2: the first sort of fit.

13
00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:38,920
Speaker 1: So they just looked at you and went come back

14
00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:39,920
Speaker 1: for another try.

15
00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:41,839
Speaker 2: No, they didn't even they didn't even look at me.

16
00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:46,479
Speaker 1: Didn't No, No, Oh, dear, all right, maybe there'll be

17
00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:53,160
Speaker 1: more action today, maybe maybe. All right, Lisa's tight lipped

18
00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:57,880
Speaker 1: legally all right, all right, maybe Lisa can talk a

19
00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:02,000
Speaker 1: little more when we do this not Sure report on

20
00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:09,040
Speaker 1: ninety six airm. Yes, you can have a look, right,

21
00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:11,120
Speaker 1: you can open your mouth about this one.

22
00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:13,360
Speaker 2: Oh yes, let's have a little of what's happening around the

23
00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:16,920
Speaker 2: show biz ground. Taylor Swift has hinted her good friend

24
00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,880
Speaker 2: and fellow pop star Ed Sheeran may perform at her wedding.

25
00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,760
Speaker 2: Speaking on UK's Hits Radio breakfast show, Swifty joke that

26
00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,080
Speaker 2: there's nothing she and Ed love more than to be

27
00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:29,360
Speaker 2: asked to sing at a big event. Def Leopard is

28
00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:32,440
Speaker 2: set to receive the two thousand, eight hundred and twenty

29
00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:36,200
Speaker 2: fifth star on the Hollywood Walker Frame on Thursday. The

30
00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,000
Speaker 2: star will be located right in front of the historic

31
00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,000
Speaker 2: Capitol Records Building and the event will be streamed live

32
00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:45,520
Speaker 2: on the Walk of Fame's website. Job on Jovi, so

33
00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,880
Speaker 2: I just enjoyed on hold? There will be one of

34
00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,560
Speaker 2: their guest speakers on hand to present them with their star.

35
00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:56,120
Speaker 2: Speaking of John Bons show be not that long ago

36
00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:58,840
Speaker 2: he joined the club of artists with namesake bars on

37
00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:02,040
Speaker 2: Nashville's same blog Broadway. But after just one year in business,

38
00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,400
Speaker 2: jbj's Nashville bar has gone on the market quite the

39
00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:08,600
Speaker 2: asking price just short to two hundred billion dollars. What

40
00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:14,639
Speaker 2: I know, Well, it has eight bars, five floors, three stages,

41
00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:22,480
Speaker 2: two rooftops, two rooftops, including the highest rooftop bar on Broadway.

42
00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,880
Speaker 2: Each floor is checked out in John von Jovie memorabilia.

43
00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:29,120
Speaker 2: Of course, it's even got a tattoo shop and naturally

44
00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:33,320
Speaker 2: there's a mechanical ball. Now, there is a story online

45
00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,200
Speaker 2: this morning about the number one thing people fight about

46
00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,880
Speaker 2: in relationships, and you would expect the usual answers, like

47
00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:43,720
Speaker 2: money or division of chores, something like that. But according

48
00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,320
Speaker 2: to this couple psychologist Mark Travis, he says, after years

49
00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:51,520
Speaker 2: and years of research, the answer is really simple. It's

50
00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,840
Speaker 2: your tone of voice. It's not the dishes in the

51
00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,160
Speaker 2: sink or the unpaid credit card bill. It's our partners

52
00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,200
Speaker 2: speak to each other about those things.

53
00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,080
Speaker 1: Don't you take that tone with me?

54
00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:09,520
Speaker 2: He says, I guess spocasm doesn't go down. He said,

55
00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,160
Speaker 2: it only takes the subtlest of tone shifts for a

56
00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:15,040
Speaker 2: simple question like did you take the bins out to

57
00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,119
Speaker 2: ladd like an accusation and a sigh or an eye

58
00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:21,000
Speaker 2: roll will push it right over the edge. There's actually

59
00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,680
Speaker 2: plenty of research that backs him up. One study found

60
00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:27,320
Speaker 2: that when we interpret messages, only a small portion comes

61
00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:32,040
Speaker 2: from the actual words. The rest is all nonverbal facial expressions,

62
00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:38,120
Speaker 2: body language, and especially tone that doesn't When you argue

63
00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:41,160
Speaker 2: with your partner, tone tends to dominate because it carries

64
00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:45,720
Speaker 2: emotional weight. A clipped delivery can sound like flame, a

65
00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:50,680
Speaker 2: flat one might feel like indifference. So his advice is

66
00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:57,360
Speaker 2: when your partner's turn tone turns sharp, say something like

67
00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,280
Speaker 2: I want to hear you out, but your tone is

68
00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:04,240
Speaker 2: making that difficult for me. Right now? Can you try again? Yeah?

69
00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:04,720
Speaker 1: Right?

70
00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,600
Speaker 2: It doesn't work like that.

71
00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,080
Speaker 1: That it only make it worse.

72
00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,600
Speaker 2: I think so true. I think maybe Edger sketches are

73
00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:16,400
Speaker 2: the answer. Don't say it out loud, just write it

74
00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:18,640
Speaker 2: down and that way they'll be spared the fact it's

75
00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:23,479
Speaker 2: dripping in sarcasms and turn away. Don't look at them either, Okay,

76
00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:25,320
Speaker 2: but just make sure it Write something down on an

77
00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:27,599
Speaker 2: edgra sketch and hold it up over your shoulder.

78
00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:29,800
Speaker 1: Just don't make it all in bold letters though, with

79
00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:36,880
Speaker 1: all upper case, with the exclamations. Oh it was the last.

80
00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:38,600
Speaker 2: Time in the middle of an argument you said I

81
00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:40,559
Speaker 2: want to hear you out, but your tone is making

82
00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:42,960
Speaker 2: that difficult for me right now? Can't you try it?

83
00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,600
Speaker 1: I would not I would not do that. I would

84
00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:49,320
Speaker 1: not do that. That in itself is aggravating. That in

85
00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:52,000
Speaker 1: itself is aggravating. All right, Well, look you watch you

86
00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:54,560
Speaker 1: watch your facial expressions and your tone of voice today

87
00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,599
Speaker 1: when you go to the courthouse, because they take all

88
00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:01,080
Speaker 1: of that in Lisa, all right, all right, I know

89
00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:03,800
Speaker 1: you can't talk to me about it. But hopefully maybe

90
00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:07,120
Speaker 1: tomorrow you'll be back and you can dive olge. Maybe

91
00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:10,000
Speaker 1: you never know unless you get that diggy style case

92
00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,080
Speaker 1: that goes on for months and months, but we're hoping

93
00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:16,000
Speaker 1: that's not going to happen. All right, all right, thanks

94
00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,640
Speaker 1: for all right, have fun at the courthouse today, Lisa,