1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 1: This is Outspoken. The podcast is not afraid to say 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: exactly what you're thinking. Our names are. 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 2: Amy Kate and Sophie Torbor. 4 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: We're identical triplets, but we often don't have identical opinions, 5 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: so sometimes things can get heated. Outspoken covers all things 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: reality TV, influences, entertainment, and issues facing women. That is 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: so fetch Thank you, Welcome back to Outspoken Now. Sophie, 8 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: I know you've had an amazing morning and for a 9 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: very very sad reason. Yeah, was actually so excited because 10 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: I have got a rare ushi. 11 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 3: Now. 12 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: This is so terribly sad because I did my big 13 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: shop with Brandon, and we always pay for things separately 14 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: because I'm vegetarian, he's immediated. We buy different things for 15 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: a weekly shop. Anyway, I said to make sure that 16 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: you asked for the ushies when you put your grocery through. Anyway, 17 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: so we had about nine of them. I joke that 18 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: it was for my son Archie, which is my dog. Anyway, 19 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: I rushed back to the car. I had to open 20 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: all of them immediately. So sad, what are you like? Five? No, 21 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: I'm just joking. I did the same thing anyway, and 22 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: I said to Brandon, I think that this is a 23 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:10,639 Speaker 1: rare one. It's one of the ones with the glitter 24 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: on it. Anyway, can I give context? Can I give context? 25 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: I get a frantic call, Oh my god, I think 26 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: I've got one of those valuable Sushies are worth ten 27 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 1: thousand dollars. I said, calm down, what is that ushi? 28 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 1: Can you send it to me? It's one of those 29 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 1: glittery ones. And I was sort of like, what an idiot? 30 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: Then I realized that I owned a glittery one too, 31 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 1: and suddenly I was like, so involved in this conversation. 32 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: Now as you do, Amy, you jumped on Marketplace. Now, 33 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: apparently these Glitterybaes or eBay are only worth about thirty 34 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 1: to forty dollars, But too bad. I have to say, 35 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: I think that the value is extended if you have 36 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: them in a whole catalog. So I think that the 37 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: three of us should team up and make the best collection. 38 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: We've already got two glittery ones. This could be worth 39 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 1: a lot. Now this is like bog buying on a 40 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: different level. This is like not pandemic bolt buying, but 41 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: this is ushi bolg buying. Can I say I just 42 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: had this thought. I just cannot believe a thirty one 43 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: year old talking about collecting ushies to. 44 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 2: Pretend it's for the kid. 45 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: I feel like it's competition season because Monopoly McDonald's is 46 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 1: also bad, and I feel like it's a tactic of 47 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: them to do it, because of course it's a tactic, no, 48 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: but I'm saying they always do it when spring is 49 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: about to start, because it's when you're to die. 50 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: It's a time where people don't want to be eating 51 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 2: that crap. 52 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: Well, I want to hear if anyone else is in 53 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 1: their late twenties or early thirties or forties or whatever 54 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: and you don't have kids and you're collecting ushies, we 55 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: want to hear. So go to our Facebook community, which 56 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:31,519 Speaker 1: is outspoken the podcast community, and tell us if you're collectingshes. 57 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: And it also add if you were incredibly embarrassed to 58 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 1: be asking for these, because I think it's it's awkward 59 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: where you've got to show your receipt. Just before we 60 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 1: get into the main topic, there was a little bit 61 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 1: of confusion. Some people were asking us whose voice is 62 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: whose voice? And I don't really know how to say this. 63 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: This is Amy's voice, So I think that you apparently 64 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: have the kind of middle of the range in the 65 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: deep category. 66 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 2: Is that right? 67 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: Someone s actually at the deepest, So I don't know, okay, 68 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: And then this is Kate. I don't know. My voice 69 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: hasn't been professionally trained, which is what Amy and Sophie 70 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:04,639 Speaker 1: like to tell me. 71 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 2: All the time. 72 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: I don't get to read the intros out very much. 73 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 1: But that was a burn, so I don't this is 74 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: my voice, This is Sophie. I don't know. 75 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:13,679 Speaker 2: I think your voice is the deepest. 76 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: It's probably deep at the moment because we've had a 77 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: bit of an argument before we got into this. But 78 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,239 Speaker 1: I think something that will help people be able to 79 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: tell us apart is we're actually going to be putting 80 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: together a video about how to make a podcast, and 81 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: we're going to be putting that on YouTube. 82 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 2: So I suppose you'll be able to put a face 83 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 2: to the voice. 84 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: That's not going to help people when they listen to 85 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: the podcast, but well, they might feel like they know 86 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: us a bit more. I don't know. All right, Well, 87 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: now hopefully everyone's got the voices downpacked, we'll get into 88 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: the first topic. Abby Chatfield's Facebook group is the latest 89 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: group to implode the It's a Lot Podcast group was 90 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: archive this week following backlash from Abby's listeners. Sophie, for 91 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 1: those who aren't across the drama, can you tell me 92 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: exactly what happened? Well, just two weeks ago, Abby told 93 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: her twenty three thousand followers in the It's a Lot 94 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: Podcast group that she would be changing the Facebook group 95 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: to purely group that discusses the podcast. So we actually 96 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: spoke about this on our podcast two weeks ago. We 97 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: will put it in the show notes if you want 98 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: to have a look. So what has happened since is 99 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: Abby has appeared on flex Mammy's podcast, which is called 100 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: Whatever I Want Podcasts, and basically she was talking about 101 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: the decision to put parameters in the group. 102 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: So it has imploded. 103 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 1: Well, it's safe to say there were members of that 104 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: group who took offense to some of the comments that 105 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: were made. I think first we should go through what 106 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: was actually said. Yeah, there was quite a lot of backlash, 107 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 1: which then resulted in the group to be archived, which 108 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 1: basically means no one can post anything comment like, but 109 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: the posts can still be viewed that were previously written. 110 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 1: So basically the same thing that happened to Shameless's podcast group. Yeah, 111 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 1: that's exactly right. There has been a huge amount of backlash, 112 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: particularly on the episode thread where Abby was talking about 113 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: her episode with Flex. So on the thread, people basically 114 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: accused Abby of trash talking the listeners, and they were 115 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: saying that they were very annoyed that she said that 116 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: critical things because are usually very angry and defensive. Now, 117 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: to Abby's credit, we're going to play exactly what she 118 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: said about critical thinkers now. 119 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 4: And the issue that I find as well is that 120 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 4: the people who are the critical thinkers then get overly 121 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 4: angry and defensive, and then they are like, why don't 122 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 4: you think like this? And while I may agree with 123 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 4: their point, I can't go in and then just block 124 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 4: someone who has a different opinion to you. I can't 125 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 4: just delete everyone, because then it becomes an echo chamber, 126 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 4: and then what are we doing. We're yelling at each 127 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 4: other about the same thing and there's no discussion happening. 128 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 1: And to be honest, I think she raised quite a 129 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 1: valid point with this, and one that we're seeing with 130 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 1: a lot of groups. Aren't these groups there so that 131 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 1: people can be educated and people can share their different opinions? Yeah, 132 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: And I don't think Abby was saying that she doesn't 133 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 1: like critical thinkers. There were a lot of critical thinkers 134 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: in that group that makes some amazing points, but it's 135 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: just the way that some of them then react if 136 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 1: people do not agree with their point of view, which 137 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,280 Speaker 1: we have seen now because Abby has stood up and 138 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 1: sort of said what she actually really thought of the group, 139 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: and then it has coincided with complete backlash and people 140 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 1: turning on her. And that's exactly what we said in 141 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: our episode the other week that Abby's in a strange 142 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: predicament because if she is to go in and police 143 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: the group, people are going to turn against her. And 144 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 1: she has made her feelings clear on this podcast, and 145 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,799 Speaker 1: that's exactly what people have done. There was also criticism 146 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 1: around the fact that people are saying that Abby is 147 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,919 Speaker 1: not an intersectional feminist and that she was trying to 148 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: silence women of color. Now, I found this actually ridiculous 149 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: because we've got to put it into perspective. Abby is 150 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 1: a twenty five year old woman that was on the Bachelorette. Yes, 151 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: she was very woke for being a bachelor contestant, but 152 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: I just feel like there's so much pressure on her. 153 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: As she also said on the podcast, to be perfect. 154 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: Why are we expecting so much from these people? It's 155 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 1: just making influences or people in the public eye not 156 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 1: want to stand for anything at the moment because it 157 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 1: appears if you stand for something, you're going to be 158 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 1: dragged down for every single issue. So the validity of 159 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: any of the amazing commentary has made about the feminism 160 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,119 Speaker 1: movements all rubbished because oh, she's wearing a boohoo dress. 161 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: That's what annoys me in this day and age is 162 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: that people are just so willing to tear one another down, 163 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: and they're not actually willing to praise people who are 164 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: trying to make a difference. And in one particular area. 165 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: You have to be an expert on everything, but you'll 166 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: be criticized. I think it's impossible to be across every 167 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: single issue these days. And I'd like to see some 168 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: of these individuals in this group who are throwing absolute 169 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: shade at Abby, I'd like to see them start their 170 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: own podcasts. I'd like to see them put themselves out 171 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: there instead of hiding behind their keyboards and acting like 172 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 1: they're thinking experts on everything. 173 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 2: We actually had a listener. 174 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 1: In our group make some very valid points. Now he 175 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: was discussing the fact that a lot of these podcasts 176 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: come out and they're kind of, you know, shameless. They're 177 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: focused on pop culture. Oh Abby is focused on feminism 178 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 1: and sex, and basically, as the podcast evolves in the 179 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: community gets bigger, they start wanting to discuss bigger topics 180 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: that are obviously going to create discussion and sometimes they're 181 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 1: going to create controversy. And unfortunately, as we are all 182 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: huge humans, our opinions are not going to match up 183 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: with each other. So what do you guys think? Do 184 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: you think that people should be shying away from these 185 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: discussions and kind of sticking to their lane or should 186 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: we be allowing these discussions to be had, But do 187 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: we then need to make sure that we moderate them properly. 188 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: I think people just need to calm down. I think 189 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:19,239 Speaker 1: that people need to realize that everyone's got a different 190 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: opinion and just because you don't agree with someone's opinion 191 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 1: doesn't mean that's the wrong opinion. That's just their opinion. 192 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: And also people should be able to have a fair discussion. Yeah, 193 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I did agree with what Flex was saying 194 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 1: that she was kind of having an internal discussion whether 195 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: she should be moderating it and who is she to 196 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: set the tone of what is appropriate and inappropriate? And 197 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: I could not agree more. It is really hard because 198 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: there are people that have had lived experiences that are 199 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: going to be able to talk on a completely different 200 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: level to what you may be talking about. And it's 201 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: really sad that these conversations then cannot happen because people 202 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: are getting too aggressive in the community. I think we also, 203 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 1: whenever we're speaking in one of these groups, we wi 204 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: should remember that there is a person on the other 205 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 1: end of that keyboard, Like, yeah, would some of these 206 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 1: people ever speak to someone in real life like that? 207 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: For instance, not even just to a community member, but 208 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: if one of these people were to see Abby in 209 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: real life, would they be so vocal and aggressive to 210 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: her as they are being on this group? Also also, 211 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 1: I mean I was a part of that group and 212 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 1: I ended up leaving it because I couldn't stand to 213 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 1: read some of the commentary and the arguments and bullying 214 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: that were going on, So I just left. And Abby 215 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: made the perfect point. If you're unhappy in the group, 216 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:30,959 Speaker 1: just leave it if it's causing you so much unhappiness. 217 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:32,559 Speaker 1: I think that that's what people should do if it's 218 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 1: a negative space then leave the group. Well, I think 219 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: that's what a lot of listeners found defense to the 220 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: fact that she was saying that she wished she could 221 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: leave the group, and I feel like some people maybe 222 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 1: thought she was trying to shirk responsibility for moderating that group. 223 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 1: And it's quite an interesting thing to analyze, which we 224 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 1: were discussing, because obviously they spoke about the fact that 225 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 1: Shameless kind of almost overmoderated to the sense that people 226 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 1: were saying, hey, this is not right. All our comments 227 00:09:57,640 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 1: are getting deleted, whereas Flex's grew, they say they've just said, look, 228 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: you guys are adults, you have your discussions. And I 229 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 1: think Abby was very torn about what to do, and 230 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: then it seems like she has tried to delete comments, 231 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,559 Speaker 1: and then that's created controversy. 232 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 2: So I can see both sides. 233 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 1: I mean, in a couple of podcasts ago, Sophie and 234 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 1: I were discussing how we were quite active members on 235 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 1: the Dean Guya forum, and I can imagine if Dean 236 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: Guya came out and said something negative about that space, 237 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 1: Wo'd be like quite offended. So I can see why 238 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 1: people are offended a little bit. But then I think 239 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: Abby was well, in her rights, it's her space that 240 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 1: she's created. I think the thing is, I feel like 241 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 1: a lot of people in this community would look at 242 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 1: Abby as being their friend. So I suppose you can 243 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: kind of see that her talking to Flex in such 244 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 1: a way about the community, it would be quite personal 245 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 1: if you were part of it. But I do think 246 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,199 Speaker 1: that there are a lot of amazing people that are 247 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: in that community and they shouldn't. 248 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 2: All be grouped together. 249 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 1: But it's quite funny because maybe the ones who are 250 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: being most vocal about it do feel a little bit 251 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: guilty about their participation in it and might have been 252 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: the ones that were causing trouble. 253 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:02,680 Speaker 2: They're the ones that might have taken the great offense. 254 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I think Flex made a really good point 255 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: in the podcast, which we're gonna insert here, where she 256 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 1: spoke about that personal nature that podcasts seems to build 257 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: between the listener and the podcaster. 258 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 3: Well, I guess it's also because, and I forget this sometimes, 259 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 3: but there might be like twenty or so individual people 260 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:22,559 Speaker 3: who follow us that we can recognize by user name 261 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 3: and face, and we can DM them back and forth 262 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 3: and there's a relationship. But for the most part, when 263 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:31,199 Speaker 3: we're publishing information. Everyone thinks it's for them. They listen 264 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 3: to the podcast, We're speaking right to them. It feels 265 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,439 Speaker 3: very personal, and as they learn things about us, they 266 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 3: build an allegiance like that's my bitch. Abby's got me. 267 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 3: You know, she sees some fuck shit, She's gonna handle 268 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 3: it for me. And it might feel that way, but 269 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 3: it's not that way in reality. And I feel a 270 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 3: sense of entitlement in the group because hierarchies create themselves 271 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 3: in Facebook groups based on who posts the most often. Yes, 272 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 3: you know people who just love to post for posting sake, 273 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 3: and you everyone knows their name. Everyone knows like that's 274 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 3: the person who'll start them, he'll call you out. That's 275 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:02,559 Speaker 3: the person who post about relationships. Oh yeah, we know 276 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 3: about her job update. There are people who've gained social 277 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 3: clout from being active posters, and that social cloud gives them, 278 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 3: gives them authority because people look to them. Okay, Bobo 279 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 3: and Flex won't say anything, but so and so will. 280 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 3: Why don't we ask them? 281 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: And so? 282 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 3: You see the way people want to demand and justify 283 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 3: the power they have within those group dynamics. 284 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: I just felt like she summarized it so well when 285 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: she was talking about this social cloud that people get 286 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 1: in the group, because essentially she was explaining how her 287 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: and Bobo they actually don't moderate in the group at all, 288 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 1: and it seems to be that the people that post 289 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: the most and are well known in the group, they 290 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 1: kind of then set the tone. So it's kind of 291 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 1: like Flex and Bobo don't actually own that group anymore. 292 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: And I think that was happening in Abby's group, even 293 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 1: she was feeling intimidated to share her opinion because there 294 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: were figures in that group that were setting the tone. 295 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: And Abby explained herself that sometimes if someone that posted 296 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:59,839 Speaker 1: a lot in her group posted, she could even predict 297 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 1: how the conversation would go because it was just based 298 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:07,199 Speaker 1: on whatever they wanted, and if anyone dared to even say, oh, 299 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: I'm nervous to say this, but have you looked at 300 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 1: it this way, they would get completely torn to shreds. 301 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 1: From a pr perspective, I actually think it's a good 302 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: move from Abby. I mean, we did have a little 303 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 1: bit of a debate whether Shameless did the right thing, 304 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 1: but by closing down their group, and it actually seems 305 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: like it has. 306 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 2: Been a positive thing because I've heard lots. 307 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 1: Of commentary in recent times about how much people are 308 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 1: enjoying Shameless because they don't associate the toxic Facebook group 309 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: that once was the Shameless podcast group with the podcast itself. 310 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: And I feel like maybe people were associating the toxic 311 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 1: nature of Abby's group with her podcast too, and with 312 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 1: Abby as an influence. I'm gonna say I haven't been 313 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: listening to Abby's podcast as much because I still followed 314 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: the group. 315 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 2: I'm still a part of it. 316 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 1: I know you guys left it, but I think that 317 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 1: could have subconsciously been a reason why I wasn't tuning in. 318 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: But also, going back to your comments on Shameless Amy, 319 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: I think that Shameless were being swayed by people's commentary 320 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 1: in that group as well, and they were too afraid 321 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 1: to be saying their own opinion, which again is it 322 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: has been happening with Abby, as you were saying. So 323 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 1: I think it is a really positive move for them 324 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:06,679 Speaker 1: to do it. I mean, it makes us reflect in 325 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 1: our own Facebook community. I think we've got over five 326 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: hundred people in there at the moment, and because it 327 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:14,079 Speaker 1: is a smaller community, it's such a beautiful vibe in there, 328 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 1: and that's such lovely people, and I think that all 329 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 1: of this happening, it really makes us want to make 330 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: sure that we continue that, and I think the way 331 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 1: to do that is by only allowing people who are 332 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: actually interested in your podcast to be in there. That's 333 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: really hard though, when it gets past ten thousand. I 334 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 1: think that's what Abby and the Shameless Girls are saying 335 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 1: was the kind of point where things turned bad. But 336 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: as I mean, Flex pointed that out on her podcast. 337 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 1: She was saying, the issue that happened with her group 338 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 1: as well is that people who didn't listen to her 339 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: podcast heard about the group, heard about the funny chats, 340 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 1: and they wanted to join. So I think that in 341 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: that sense, that common ground of liking the same thing 342 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: was gone. One thing I found really interesting was this 343 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 1: concept Flex brought up, and it's called baby wokeness. Now 344 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 1: I'll just play a clip of what she said about it, 345 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 1: because she articulated it so well. 346 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 3: Like I know that like people say the N word, 347 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 3: I just and I've grown past it. So I feel 348 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 3: like there's this like baby woke I like you know, 349 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 3: I yeah, which is like very pointy and like it 350 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 3: needs to be fixed today, like find all the racists 351 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 3: kill them today is like baby woke. 352 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: Well, I really couldn't have agreed more with her definition 353 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 1: on this, and I thought it was articulated so well. 354 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 1: And I think that, you know, I personally have been 355 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 1: seeing quite a performative nature from people in that group, 356 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: and I think that people are getting clout from being 357 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 1: so socially aware and so socially outraged by certain things. 358 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 1: It's trendy, it's trendy and twenty twenty to be woke, 359 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: and that's what Abby also said. She said, I'm pretty 360 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 1: far left wing, but there have been things that I 361 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 1: see that I think are not productive either. And I 362 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 1: think it's also performative. And I think it's often people 363 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: in a position of privileged posting these to say I'm 364 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: actually a good one. And I think that also summarized 365 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 1: it so well, because I know, for one, sometimes I 366 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: get worried to say things, even on this podcast, because 367 00:15:57,760 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 1: I feel like there are people out there that are 368 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: listening to try and trip you up and to say 369 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: that you aren't woke enough to be talking about that, 370 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 1: or because you said this, you can't agree with that. 371 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 1: I mean, if you look at our reviews, I think 372 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: the term white feminist has been thrown around a lot 373 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 1: to describe us, which it's been used to describe Abby 374 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: as well. It's ridiculous and the people that are using 375 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 1: I feel like saying, you've probably just learnt this term 376 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 1: last week. And I think we need to remember that 377 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: we're all we're all pretty much on the same page. 378 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: You know, we might not all be as educated on 379 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 1: all of these topics, but I think that you've got 380 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 1: to give people some slack. 381 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 2: People all trying their best. 382 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 1: We all can't be perfect. And how by bullying someone 383 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: that isn't as educated on a topic, how is that 384 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: going to make them want to learn more about it. 385 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 1: It's actually going to do the opposite, and it's going 386 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 1: to make them feel more valid in their view. That's 387 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 1: probably not correct. And I'm pretty sure if we dug 388 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 1: into everybody's life, there would be people would be doing 389 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 1: stuff that they weren't aware of it. You know, people 390 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: who've got Kmart furniture in their house, as Abby said, 391 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 1: who are preaching about. 392 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 2: People wearing boohoo. 393 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 1: There are things that everyone could improve on, but it 394 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 1: doesn't mean that your opinion on a topic is less valid. Well, 395 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:05,439 Speaker 1: no one's perfect, and I think it feels like a 396 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:08,199 Speaker 1: lot of the commentary in these groups are saying that 397 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:10,879 Speaker 1: everyone must be perfect and if they are not, we're 398 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:13,159 Speaker 1: going to pick everything apart that they do. It's a 399 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 1: complete headfu I feel so so fabby. It's a complete 400 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 1: headfight what she's gone through. I think as well. It's 401 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:20,879 Speaker 1: really interesting because you know, we spoke about in our 402 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:23,919 Speaker 1: previous episode about that how Facebook wanted to grow this 403 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:27,679 Speaker 1: sense of community. Now this sense of community is not 404 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 1: a community to me. This is a destructive group that 405 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: is turning on one another, like even on the person 406 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:38,239 Speaker 1: that they all came about and joined in because they 407 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:40,399 Speaker 1: liked her. They've now turned on the person that created 408 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: the group. It's funny though, because a lot of these 409 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 1: things seem to be happening to podcast group where discussion 410 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 1: is promoted. But there is a podcast group their Life Uncut, 411 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:51,479 Speaker 1: and I don't think they're having the same issues now. 412 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. I would be interesting to know how 413 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 1: they're choosing to moderate the conversations within that group. But 414 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: I was also thinking. 415 00:17:57,400 --> 00:17:58,280 Speaker 2: Is it an age thing? 416 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: Because I know with Laura and Brittany they're in their thirties, 417 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 1: and I also am a part of that group, and 418 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 1: it seems like there is a more mature audience in there. 419 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: But do you think it's also as one of our 420 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 1: community members said that, because they're not setting the tone 421 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 1: of talking about controversial issues. But that's why it's not 422 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 1: happening by one hundred percent, think that that's what it is. 423 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:18,440 Speaker 1: Their topics are almost safe in a way. They're about 424 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 1: relationships and they're always sort of the good. 425 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:22,160 Speaker 2: Guys in the conversations. 426 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 1: I feel like they've created this amazing sense of community 427 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 1: in their group, But if they were to start discussing 428 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 1: controversial things, I could see the tone completely changing. And 429 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 1: do you know what, the people in the Abbey Chatfield 430 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: group are going to be seeking out a new group 431 00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 1: to talk in, so it'll be interesting to see where 432 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 1: they do go. Well. My prediction is on the Bob 433 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 1: and Flex group because it's unmoderated, there's a lot of 434 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 1: people in there. I feel like it's important to say though, 435 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 1: I don't think that everyone in that group is a 436 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 1: troublemaker and should be sort of painted with the same 437 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 1: brush you guys were part of the group. 438 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 2: There are some really nice. 439 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 1: People and I think that's what people took offense to 440 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 1: when they heard the podcast, they were assuming that she 441 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: was talking directly to them and that they were the problem, 442 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 1: when there were a lot of critical thinkers in that 443 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 1: group who were kind to others. 444 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 2: Hows when your joy, you're getting ready, you do put 445 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 2: a lot of effort in. 446 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,359 Speaker 1: So for the thank for me, that is getting a 447 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 1: show out, that is getting tarn that he is putt 448 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 1: in bronzeois. With summer just around the corner, fitness influencers, 449 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 1: Steph Packer decided it was the perfect time to launch 450 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: a melanin boosting tanning oil. The post was met with 451 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:23,119 Speaker 1: approval from a range of well known influencers. Despite recent 452 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 1: moves to educate women on the dangers of skin cancer, 453 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,880 Speaker 1: in the past few years, social media has been used 454 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 1: as a tool to change millennials and jenz's perceptions on 455 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:35,359 Speaker 1: a tan being healthy with campaigns like I Pledge and 456 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: call time on Melanoma. Yet, with no bands currently on 457 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 1: tanning oils and melanin producing agents, what can we do 458 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: to stop the ignorant and dangerous messages continuing to fill 459 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 1: our feed this summer? So can you tell us first, 460 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 1: just who is Steph Packer? Yeah? Well, Steph is a 461 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,639 Speaker 1: fitness influencer, and it surprised me to see she actually 462 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 1: has over eight hundred and ninety one thousand followers because 463 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,639 Speaker 1: I hadn't heard about her before. Yeah, I didn't know 464 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 1: who she she was either, to be honest, and we 465 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:03,120 Speaker 1: did a little bit of digging. We had a look 466 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 1: at some of the content that she's been putting out, 467 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,440 Speaker 1: and she has been known to promote plastic surgery abroad. 468 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:10,920 Speaker 1: She's been very vocal on talking about her nose job 469 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:13,879 Speaker 1: that she got overseas as well as breast implants. So 470 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 1: is that plastic surgery as you said, she's got herself 471 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 1: and then has done like a vlog about how she's 472 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 1: gotten it done. Well. Yeah, So she doesn't actually have 473 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 1: a YouTube channel, but if you type her name into YouTube, 474 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: a number of videos come up where she is the 475 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: ambassador for companies I suppose at a promoting travel to 476 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: places like Pouquette for breast. 477 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 2: Augmentation and nose jobs and that kind of thing. 478 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:37,199 Speaker 1: So she has detailed her experience through these companies. Now, 479 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 1: Steph took to her Instagram last week to announce her 480 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: followers that she is launching a new company called The Skin. Now, 481 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: what is most disturbing about this new touch not honor 482 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 1: in the intro amy is that she is promoting a 483 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 1: melon and boosting tanning oil. She had the caption on 484 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,679 Speaker 1: her Instagram twenty twenty has been a whirl win. But 485 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 1: what doesn't challenge you doesn't change you. So excited for 486 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 1: what's to come and tagged at skincoat. This was met 487 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:03,920 Speaker 1: by influencers like Sky Wheatley and Lexi Murray, leaving very 488 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 1: very positive comments like yes and praising hands. This is 489 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 1: deeply disturbing that these influencers are happy to sit by 490 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: and have her promote this product that is so dangerous 491 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 1: and harmful for women. Well, not only did they leave 492 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:22,159 Speaker 1: glowing comments on the new Instagram account, they also shared 493 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:26,119 Speaker 1: STEP's Insta story, so influencers like Talia Scaines shared it 494 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: to her over five hundred thousand followers. I did a 495 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 1: little calculation and this post was shared to over one 496 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 1: point five million people just from her influence of friends 497 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 1: sharing it. Yet surprisingly the page only has about two 498 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 1: hundred followers. 499 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 2: Oh wow. 500 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,399 Speaker 1: Well, It's the most disturbing thing is those sorts of 501 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:48,480 Speaker 1: influencers have such young and impressionable followers that probably think, oh, 502 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,880 Speaker 1: this is a really good thing for me to purchase. 503 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 1: I think the messaging that I found most troubling was 504 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: the fact that she's saying coming right in time for 505 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: summer twenty twenty. At the moment, we've seen such great 506 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:01,239 Speaker 1: campaign talking about the day of skin cancer, but then 507 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 1: these people are being seeming so ignorant and dumb to say, oh, 508 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 1: let's get our bodies tanned for summer. So, just to 509 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: explain for those who might not understand what this product 510 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 1: is supposed to do, it boosts the melanin in the skin. 511 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: So melanin is actually a pigment or color in a 512 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:20,120 Speaker 1: person's skin, hair, and eyes. So in general, people who 513 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,160 Speaker 1: have darker skin tones actually have more melanin than those 514 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 1: with lighter skin tones. So essentially a person's genetics determines 515 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 1: their skin color and melanin levels. And the thing is, 516 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 1: there is so much confusion around the use of these 517 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 1: melanin boosters because a lot of the companies actually are 518 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 1: promoting that melanin is you know, oh, it's a natural 519 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 1: skin protectory and you know it's protecting against UV and 520 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:44,719 Speaker 1: that's actually not true because if you're using an oil, 521 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 1: it's counteracting the protection. This melanin is giving you, it's 522 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 1: just burning you. And the FDA have come out and 523 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 1: said there is no research to prove that foods or 524 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 1: supplements can increase a person's melanin levels. So if you're 525 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 1: buying this product, you're essentially just buying an oil and 526 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 1: you're thinking that it's protecting. 527 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:02,639 Speaker 2: Your skin and it's not. 528 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 1: It's just attracting the sun to then damage your skin. Exactly. Well, 529 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: one professor explained it really well. He said, you have 530 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 1: two opposing things happening at the same time. So melanin 531 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 1: is protecting you and then melanin is damaging you. There's 532 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:17,639 Speaker 1: a race going on between melanin blocking and protecting you. 533 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: So overall it is causing some damage and leading to 534 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 1: lesions that can potentially turn into mutations then thus causing 535 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 1: obviously melanoma. Well, the scariest thing is the power of 536 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:32,440 Speaker 1: Steph Packer. I mean, we've all said we haven't heard 537 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 1: of her before, but she is incredibly influential her you know, 538 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 1: just her powerful friends. It has infiltrated my newsfeed because 539 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:42,679 Speaker 1: I do follow people like Tylia Skains and Skywheatly. So 540 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,159 Speaker 1: even though we might not know of her, she has 541 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:48,160 Speaker 1: a powerful network that means actually heard about it legitimately. 542 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 2: She is quite. 543 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:50,920 Speaker 1: Powerful in her own sense, same as you were. Yeah, 544 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 1: she is extremely powerful. Me She's got over eight hundred 545 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 1: thousand followers. But she also recently did a collab with Stacks, 546 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,880 Speaker 1: which is an active wear line, and they release these 547 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 1: bike shorts. These bike shorts, which are in collaboration with Steph, 548 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 1: sold out in thirty minutes and made the company two 549 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty thousand dollars. So I feel like, looking 550 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: at how powerful she is if she's pushing this product, 551 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,399 Speaker 1: how quickly is this tanning product going to sell? And 552 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 1: how many people are going to expose themselves to dangerous 553 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 1: UV rays because of it? I think it is incredibly 554 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:24,639 Speaker 1: frightening that someone as ignorant as this has a platform 555 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 1: that large and is using in this negative way, Because 556 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:32,479 Speaker 1: if you look at how influential influencers are to young people, 557 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:36,000 Speaker 1: why can't they be doing some good and promoting sun safety. 558 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 1: I mean, it is disgusting that this woman is purely 559 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 1: trying to make money off something that's going to harm 560 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 1: so many young women. Well, exactly do you think Stacks 561 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 1: should pull their advertising dollars from an influencer like Steph Packett. Well, 562 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 1: it's a really hard one because I think that if 563 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 1: we take a look at the current rules regarding sun 564 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,919 Speaker 1: tanning and promotion of sun tanning, there aren't hard and 565 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 1: fast rules to be truthful in doing research for this topic, 566 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 1: and it's so difficult to actually find what the rules are. 567 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 1: But even if there aren't rules, what about the morals 568 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 1: of it? If I was a company, I don't want 569 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: to be giving this person money for promoting my product 570 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,160 Speaker 1: when they're selling this disgusting product to. 571 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 2: Young, impressional people. 572 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 1: I think the issue is there's so much confusion around 573 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,119 Speaker 1: what is a safe sun tan I mean, I remember 574 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: seeing no tanas, yes, but I remember seeing Sky Wheatley saying, oh, 575 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,879 Speaker 1: look at how tanned. So she posted a picture of 576 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 1: herself looking extremely tanned back in summer, and she goes, oh, 577 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 1: I'm going to try and get to this level, but 578 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,439 Speaker 1: don't worry, guys, I'm going to use suncream. It seems 579 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,120 Speaker 1: to be that people think that if they tan in suncream, 580 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,439 Speaker 1: then they're going to be somehow protected from getting skin cancer, 581 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 1: which is completely untrue. Of course, suncream is there to 582 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 1: protect your skin, but if you are continuously sun baking 583 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 1: to the point where your melanin is so dark in 584 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 1: your skin that means it's damaged. That means that things 585 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,120 Speaker 1: are starting to happen. I think we should probably before 586 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 1: we go and take a look at what the rules are. 587 00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: As I said, it was very, very difficult to find 588 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 1: hard and fast rules in regards to this, so I 589 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: took a look at the social media ad standards and 590 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,920 Speaker 1: it outlined rules in regards to alcohol, food and beverage, 591 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:12,120 Speaker 1: advertising to kids, gambling, nudity, violence, and health and safety. 592 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,919 Speaker 1: So sun safety doesn't have its own regulation, but it 593 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 1: falls into the category of health and safety. So basically, 594 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 1: I found a number of different case studies where they 595 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: were talking about plaints consumers had made about certain adverts 596 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 1: for tanning products that are gone online. So I took 597 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 1: a look online at some of the examples where consumers 598 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 1: had made complaints about particular tanning products or even phrases 599 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 1: used in marketing, and it stated that encouraging someone to 600 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 1: get a tan is against prevailing community standards on health 601 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:43,919 Speaker 1: and safety. So it's quite a broad guideline. The thing is, 602 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 1: I don't think the rules are really caught up with 603 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: the technology. There aren't specific rules stating on social media 604 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 1: you can or cannot do this. It's very broad, as 605 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 1: you said, which causes a lot of confusion, and there's 606 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,440 Speaker 1: no fines being handed out for anything, So people are 607 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,080 Speaker 1: just getting away with murder. Yeah. And while this is 608 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 1: incredibly disappointed to see this post by Steph, I think 609 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 1: what has been so encouraging is in the past few 610 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,399 Speaker 1: years we have seen a savvier audience who were picking 611 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 1: up on these disgusting messages, and I suppose savvier influencers 612 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:12,119 Speaker 1: as well. 613 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:12,640 Speaker 3: That's right. 614 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, even when you reflect on sun 615 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 1: safety at a young age, I suppose growing up in 616 00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,719 Speaker 1: Australia we were always told to slip, slop, slap and 617 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,920 Speaker 1: rap and rap. But then as a teenager, I feel 618 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,200 Speaker 1: like we were teenagers in the early two thousands. As 619 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 1: a teenager, it seemed very uncool to wear sun cream. 620 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,199 Speaker 1: Like I even remember at school Mum would force us 621 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 1: to put sun cream on in you eight and I 622 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 1: remember standing in the locker room and someone's like, who's 623 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,359 Speaker 1: most like suncream? And it was like embarrassing to be 624 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 1: wearing suncream. And I also remember being that teenager that 625 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:44,160 Speaker 1: actually would then like if we went overseas on holiday. 626 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 1: I remember tanning several times, and now it actually makes 627 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,640 Speaker 1: me feel sick thinking about it. Even though you knew 628 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 1: deep down about sun's safety, there was still that thing where, oh, 629 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 1: this is okay because I'm only tanning on a holiday. Yeah. 630 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,400 Speaker 1: As you said, Sophie, it's now kind of become trendy 631 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 1: to wear suncream because a lot of influencers have included 632 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 1: wearing suncream in their beauty routines. And also there's been 633 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,879 Speaker 1: some amazing work from influencers like Courtney Mangan who have 634 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,439 Speaker 1: shone a light on just how important it is to 635 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 1: wear suncream when you're out in public. Well, for those 636 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,399 Speaker 1: who don't know, Courtney Mangan has been very open and 637 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: honest about her journey with stage four melanoma, and she 638 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,719 Speaker 1: actually went into detail last week about everything to do 639 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 1: with that journey on her podcast she was the Fire. 640 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,480 Speaker 1: So we're going to add that to the show notes 641 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,120 Speaker 1: because I highly recommend listening to that. There's also been 642 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:32,920 Speaker 1: great movements from Shameless called Eye Pledge, and also movements 643 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 1: like call Time or Melanoma, which have been so influential 644 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 1: in making women really change their perspective on a tan 645 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 1: being considered healthy. Well, what does everyone think? Do you 646 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 1: think that people should be embracing their natural skin. I 647 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 1: think it's really tough for people to just all of 648 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 1: a sudden embrace their natural skin because there have been 649 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 1: so many years where we've been consuming that tanned skin 650 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 1: is the skin that everyone wants and is the healthy 651 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: and beautiful skin. I mean, I know myself, now that 652 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 1: it's getting warmer, I feel urge to start fake tanning 653 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 1: more often. Another interesting concept about that, though, is how 654 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 1: these products like tan or even suncream are being marketed 655 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 1: towards us, because it is all based on our desire 656 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 1: to still be beautiful. If you look at suncream, it's 657 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 1: all about it's marketed in a way where it's preventing 658 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: age spots and fine lines and wrinkles, but it's not 659 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 1: actually saying, hey, this is sun safety. 660 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 2: Well I think that's good. 661 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's clever to do that because obviously 662 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: a lot of the stuff about tanning is coming from 663 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,160 Speaker 1: a place of vanity. But if you look at it, 664 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 1: because it's so hard in regards to your question aming 665 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 1: about pale skin, I suppose it's so ingrained in our 666 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 1: ideology that it's beautiful to have tann skin, but it's 667 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 1: slimming to have tann skin. 668 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, but do you know what I mean? 669 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 1: How many products have influences made cool that you would 670 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 1: probably look at before and go that's really ugly. Well, 671 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 1: I'd be really interested to see if a lot of 672 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 1: the big name influences hopped on and embrace their natural 673 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,959 Speaker 1: skin whether people would do so, because there are so 674 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 1: many products that influencers have spooked recently that are pretty 675 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:02,000 Speaker 1: ugly clothing and they sell out. Well, look at Sharni 676 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: Grimman dissolving her lip filler and everyone's come out and said, 677 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I prefer you natural. Imagine if people 678 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 1: were then promoting, you know, this is my skin normally. 679 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 1: The whole issue, though, is that the whole beauty industry 680 00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: is based around telling us we're not good enough as 681 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 1: we are. So they're not going to say, oh, you're 682 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 1: good with the skin that you have. We're constantly being 683 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 1: told we need to purchase something to make us better. Well. 684 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 1: That reminds me because a couple of years ago, when 685 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 1: we visited Singapore, I was actually trying to find some 686 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: fake tan and I went into one of the chemists 687 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 1: and it was literally the opposite. It was bleaching agent 688 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: for your skin to make your skin whiter. And it's 689 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 1: sort of the complete opposite because a lot of people 690 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 1: in Singapore and Malaysia have beautifully tanned skin, but it's 691 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 1: seen as culturally like if you have lighter skin, like 692 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 1: you are more of the Chinese culture, then you're considered rich. Well, 693 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 1: back in the day, people with pale skin were seen 694 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 1: as being wealthy because they were inside and everyone who 695 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,120 Speaker 1: was outside with tan skin were laborers, So it was 696 00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:00,280 Speaker 1: actually more desirable to have pale skin. Yea seem to 697 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 1: see if it actually goes back to that now. On 698 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 1: a different note, I suppose while women seem to be 699 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,200 Speaker 1: gradually becoming more educated on this topic, I think it's 700 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 1: really worrying because I feel. 701 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 2: Like men are being left behind. 702 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: I know, because like, oh, say to Reese, can you 703 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 1: put some suncream on? And like even with Dad, and 704 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 1: men are just so anti putting sun cream on. I 705 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,440 Speaker 1: feel like they don't need it, they just don't want 706 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 1: to be uncomfortable as well. I suppose as women were 707 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: used to putting on all these potions and different oh 708 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 1: my god, they should driving a girl for a day. 709 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 2: A sun cream is nothing. 710 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 5: But what do you. 711 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: Guys think about Do you think that we should be 712 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 1: promoting more men to wear fake tan and it to 713 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 1: be acceptable. 714 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 2: Well, I have to. 715 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 1: Admit I did see Kierra Maguire. She put a video 716 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 1: up on an Instagram of her boyfriend Matt from Love 717 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:41,840 Speaker 1: Island and he was using her fake tan, and I 718 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 1: did naturally go, oh, oh my god, you know a 719 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: guy wearing fake tan, And I thought, no, that's so 720 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 1: bad of me, because they should be wearing fake tan. 721 00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 1: But are we contradicting ourselves? We were just saying that 722 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 1: people should embrace their natural skin. Are we then creating 723 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 1: a cycle for men that then? I'm not saying that 724 00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 1: they can't embrace natural skin. But if you're a man 725 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 1: and you actually want to be tanned, rather than burning 726 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,480 Speaker 1: yourself and giving yourself melanoma, why don't you just put 727 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 1: on a fake But that's the whole argument. Though. I 728 00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 1: don't think that we as a society who are so 729 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 1: obsessed with appearance. I don't think we are just going 730 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 1: to accept our power skin. I think we're going to 731 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,920 Speaker 1: want to use things like fake tan to get that look, 732 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 1: but in a safe way. The thing is, I don't 733 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 1: feel like there is an immense pressure on men to 734 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,960 Speaker 1: have a tan as much as there is on women. Like, 735 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 1: think about it. When you are getting ready to, say, 736 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,719 Speaker 1: go to a wedding, The first thing I think is, okay, 737 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 1: well two days out, I need to do my fake tan. 738 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 1: The brides are getting fake tan. But I don't think 739 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 1: necessarily men are thinking obviously because then we'll cover it up. 740 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 2: I don't think that's true at all. 741 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:39,000 Speaker 1: I think there are pressures for young boys to be tanned. 742 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 1: I mean, if you go down to the beach and 743 00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,360 Speaker 1: you're very pale, boys pay each other out for that 744 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: kind of stuff. I've heard young boys talking and they 745 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 1: are concerned about whether they're tanned or not. But I 746 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: don't know if any of them would actually feel brave 747 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 1: enough to get a fake tan for fear of being 748 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,239 Speaker 1: paid out. Do you know what, though, I think that 749 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 1: in places like England and in Europe, it is more 750 00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 1: acceptable for men to wear makeup and fake tan. You 751 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 1: look at the guys off Jeordie Sure, and that was 752 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 1: probably like seven years ago now, they were all rocking 753 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,720 Speaker 1: the fake tans. They were solarium tans, which of course 754 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 1: have been banned now. Well, I actually think It would 755 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 1: be really beneficial for somebody to create a male tanning product, 756 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 1: but get some really strong athletic men behind it, you know, 757 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 1: like a footballer or some something that honey badger, Yeah, 758 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 1: the honey somebody like that who you wouldn't actually think 759 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,560 Speaker 1: would wear fake tans. There are actually a number of 760 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 1: fake tans on the market for men, predominantly in the UK, 761 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 1: which is really interesting. It will be interesting take a 762 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,480 Speaker 1: look at their marketing. But I think the thing that 763 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: we really needed if I was producing a tanning product 764 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 1: for men, I think it needs to be low maintenance. 765 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 1: For me, I fake tan every week, and I don't 766 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 1: think my boyfriend could put up with the constant exfoliation 767 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 1: of the skin and the constant maintenance. 768 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 2: Well, if there is a. 769 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 1: Low maintenance tan, can I please have it as well, 770 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 1: because I cannot keep up with about it? 771 00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:51,280 Speaker 2: Do you know what I reckon? 772 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 1: Maybe like a body butter that did a gradual tan 773 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 1: would be really good for men because then they could 774 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 1: start wearing it in spring and then when they go 775 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 1: to the moisturize, though some men do. I think maybe 776 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 1: a spraytan. I think that's probably the easiest thing, But 777 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 1: what about their face Yeah, you can spray town a face. Yeah, 778 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,240 Speaker 1: but that's what looks weird if you're all one color. 779 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: We would love to hear what you guys think about 780 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 1: the topic. Please head to our Facebook group which is 781 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 1: Outspoken the podcast and join in on the conversation. Now, 782 00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 1: let's get into our influencer rap and we'll start it 783 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 1: with rumors that are circulating that Shanni Grumman is about 784 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:27,440 Speaker 1: to announce her split from former AFL player Tommy bug. 785 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:29,560 Speaker 1: I've seen this one coming for a while, especially I 786 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 1: suppose because she has moved from Melbourne to Brisbane and 787 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,439 Speaker 1: I did a bit of scrolling, a bit of stalking. Now, 788 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 1: the last post that he uploaded of Shanny was in 789 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:42,040 Speaker 1: April and her last post was in May, so there 790 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:43,960 Speaker 1: are a number of months that they have not been 791 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 1: posting one another Devil's Advocate that has been during lockdown, 792 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 1: and there's not really a lot of photo ops on 793 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:54,400 Speaker 1: that time. Well, I think the biggest alarm bells for 794 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,360 Speaker 1: this relationship ending would be the fact she's just moved 795 00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 1: into a new home with her friend Joshua Head, who 796 00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,680 Speaker 1: appeared in a recent video on Shanee's YouTube channel called 797 00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,719 Speaker 1: Meet My Roommate. Let's just say I didn't realize there 798 00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:08,600 Speaker 1: were rumors going on that they'd split, and I was thinking, 799 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 1: I wonder what Tommy thinks of her living with this guy. 800 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 1: Did well, she did address it in the video. She said, 801 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 1: before anyone says anything, we're just friends. We've been friends 802 00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:17,799 Speaker 1: for a number of years. But I am loving the 803 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:18,640 Speaker 1: inclusion of him in it. 804 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,440 Speaker 2: Voggs. It feels very old school Shanny. 805 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,719 Speaker 1: At the moment, I'm predicting he will be he will 806 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 1: rise in popularity. Here's thirty thousand followers at the moment. 807 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 1: I'm predicting he will be some sort of new Michael 808 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 1: Finch character on the show. Well, the thing is, the 809 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:33,320 Speaker 1: day that she put the video out with him, he 810 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:36,880 Speaker 1: scored one seven hundred and ninety new followers just on 811 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 1: that day, and he's gone up I think by five 812 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,600 Speaker 1: thousand in a week, which is a. 813 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 2: Big rise on social media. 814 00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:48,000 Speaker 1: Well, whilst talking out Shani's housemates Instagram, we did notice 815 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,759 Speaker 1: a cheeky like from Shanni Grimman's ex, Jonathan Sawyer, who 816 00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,960 Speaker 1: is currently dating Madison Woolly. Now, the photo was of 817 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:58,080 Speaker 1: both Josh and Shani. What do you guys think about that? God, 818 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:00,080 Speaker 1: I would not be happy if I was Madison. This 819 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,800 Speaker 1: comes off the back of Jonathan releasing a YouTube video 820 00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 1: where he and Madison were away in Threadbow and things 821 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 1: seemed to be icy. So is that a pun because 822 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 1: they were both? Is it wrong that, like some part 823 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,760 Speaker 1: of me would love Shanni and Jonathan to get back together. 824 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:18,680 Speaker 1: I preferred the Jonathan because she hold up with this She's. 825 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:19,680 Speaker 2: Gonna hook up with this Josh. 826 00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,040 Speaker 1: She can't hook up with her roommate. That's just gonna 827 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:24,280 Speaker 1: be She's gonna have to move again. 828 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 2: Well do you know what. 829 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 1: I'm wondering what this actually means for Tommy's business because 830 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 1: he's he owns influencer management group Zoots and Shanny is. 831 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 1: I would say she was the number one influencer on 832 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:39,280 Speaker 1: their book. It also manages influencers like Rannie, Michael Finch, 833 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,879 Speaker 1: Tylie Escaines who were all friends of Shanny. So if 834 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,720 Speaker 1: this is not an amicable split, it could be really 835 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 1: bad business. I feel like it could be an amicable 836 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 1: split if they have split up, because they are still 837 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,560 Speaker 1: following each other. Tommy did like her photo three days ago, 838 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:55,320 Speaker 1: so maybe now they're a little bit older, more mature. 839 00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,160 Speaker 1: But that's what happens with has split with Jonathan. Remember 840 00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 1: when they split up, Jonathan was still her manager. Then 841 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:03,480 Speaker 1: they got to back together, then Jonathan was still their 842 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,040 Speaker 1: manager for a while, and then things got awkward. 843 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 2: She needs to stop dating her managers. 844 00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,640 Speaker 1: Well, she's dating them first and then making them her manager. Well. 845 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:14,360 Speaker 1: The other thing is, I'm certain that she's going to 846 00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:16,759 Speaker 1: announce a split soon because normally you make sort of 847 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 1: changes that you get a new haircut if you break up. 848 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,200 Speaker 1: And we've got to remember when she broke up with Jonathan, 849 00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 1: she got her boobs done, and now she's got her 850 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,640 Speaker 1: lips dissolved. It seems after the split from Tommy. Yeah, 851 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,040 Speaker 1: there's something not quite right. I will wait with baited 852 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,760 Speaker 1: breath to see the announcement soon. It will be interesting 853 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 1: to see if it is a whole video like she 854 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 1: did with Jonathan, because that attracted a huge I feel 855 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,759 Speaker 1: she probably shouldn't bother because she never had him on 856 00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,240 Speaker 1: her I was going to say it wasn't as public, 857 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,799 Speaker 1: so I feel like, you know, maybe it won't now. 858 00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 1: The next one I want to get onto is Tylie 859 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 1: Escan's flog that she released last week. It is actually 860 00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:53,200 Speaker 1: trending at the moment on YouTube, and the reason I 861 00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,280 Speaker 1: really liked it is because it was actually so real 862 00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,840 Speaker 1: and raw. Well, she opened up about her issues with 863 00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,640 Speaker 1: their skin, so it was something that we don't really 864 00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:05,800 Speaker 1: see on Talia's channel. Normally it's about her overseas travel 865 00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:07,839 Speaker 1: or her glamorous life, but this was where she just 866 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:11,120 Speaker 1: she burst into tears talking about the struggles with her acne, 867 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 1: and I thought it was so brave to share. And 868 00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:16,400 Speaker 1: I think it's so refreshing because I suppose we see 869 00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:19,440 Speaker 1: such a curated and kind of fake side to her. 870 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:22,319 Speaker 1: She's always doled up to the MAC, She's always looking incredible, 871 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,680 Speaker 1: and I think it was really good for a follower 872 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 1: or someone else who's struggling with their skin to see 873 00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,400 Speaker 1: that this person who we all deem as being perfect 874 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 1: is having their own internal battles with how they look 875 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 1: as well. 876 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:33,560 Speaker 2: It's so relatable. 877 00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 1: And I suppose it's someone that's probably known for face 878 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 1: tuning and photoshopping her photos, so for her actually to admit, hey, 879 00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,920 Speaker 1: I've got acne, that's a huge step for her. Well. 880 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:43,640 Speaker 1: I really hope that this is a trend for her. 881 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:45,399 Speaker 1: I hope we do see some more real and raw 882 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:47,480 Speaker 1: videos like this because I'm really enjoying them. 883 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:51,720 Speaker 5: Take this object, but beware, it carries a terrible curse. 884 00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:53,440 Speaker 1: Ooh, that's bad. 885 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,360 Speaker 5: Like it comes for a free fro gut. That's good. 886 00:38:56,760 --> 00:39:00,399 Speaker 5: The fro gut is also cast, that's bad. You get 887 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 5: your choice of topping, it's good. The toppings contain potassium 888 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 5: benzo week, that's bad. Can I go? Now? 889 00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 1: Let's get into our reality recommendations. Now, what have you 890 00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 1: guys been watching this week that you want to recommend? 891 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,959 Speaker 1: I started watching ninety Day Fiance. I'm only a few 892 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,799 Speaker 1: episodes in, but I remembered why I loved this show 893 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 1: so much. It feels like nine to now have just 894 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,800 Speaker 1: decided to give us so many good reality TV shows. 895 00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:28,799 Speaker 1: I really didn't know what to choose from because they've 896 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 1: also got us Love Island, which I haven't started watching. 897 00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm watching it. It is so good. 898 00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,359 Speaker 1: I was a little bit put off because people said 899 00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 1: it wasn't as good as the Australian Love Island, and 900 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 1: I thought the Australian Love Island was trash. I can 901 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:42,960 Speaker 1: say it's better than the Australian Love Island. It's, of 902 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,040 Speaker 1: course not as good as UK Love Island. But if 903 00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 1: it's hard when as perfection, Yeah, but I'm actually really 904 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:50,719 Speaker 1: enjoying it. Is anyone else feeling nostalgic and going to 905 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 1: go back and watch them Keeping Up with the Kardashians 906 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,959 Speaker 1: Because I was really upset to hear that twenty twenty 907 00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,000 Speaker 1: one is going to be the last season. Look, I'm 908 00:39:58,040 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 1: going to call it. I don't think this is the 909 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,879 Speaker 1: end of Keeping Up with the Kardashians. They clearly didn't 910 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,480 Speaker 1: get their contracts renewed. I think that somebody else could 911 00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 1: pick it up, or will have a spin off show 912 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,760 Speaker 1: from either Chloe or from Chris Jenner or whoever haven't involved, 913 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:12,520 Speaker 1: or will have a spin off show when all of 914 00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 1: the kids are old enough and they're in their teenage. 915 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:17,799 Speaker 1: That must definitely happen. What about I'm wondering because a 916 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 1: lot of people are saying that the fact that they 917 00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 1: shared so much on social media kind of made the 918 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:24,919 Speaker 1: show not so popular because it was really outdated once 919 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: we got to see it. I wonder if they could 920 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 1: start vlogging or doing a YouTube series, that would be 921 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,200 Speaker 1: really cool. You know, I don't even think they share 922 00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:35,600 Speaker 1: that much on their Insta stories. It's always really curated pictures. 923 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 1: It's not so much of that, but it's like the 924 00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,239 Speaker 1: paparazzi caught up with them, so we knew all the 925 00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,080 Speaker 1: drama before it was on the show. Do you know 926 00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 1: it will be interesting when the show is finally over. 927 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 1: Before every series, we always see that push if something 928 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,799 Speaker 1: dramatic happening. It will be interesting to see if their 929 00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 1: vibes are a lot quiet and now they don't have 930 00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,680 Speaker 1: a TV show. Well, I'm wondering if they're still going 931 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:54,439 Speaker 1: to be relevant and if people are going to buy 932 00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:57,680 Speaker 1: their products now the show's over, because we've seen YouTubers 933 00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:00,239 Speaker 1: who bring up products they suddenly don't post any more 934 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,960 Speaker 1: content and then people aren't interested in them anymore. Yeah, 935 00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,520 Speaker 1: but they've got like forty million followers on their Instagram. 936 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,359 Speaker 1: I think they're still going to be relevant. There's still 937 00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 1: going to be influencers at the end of the day. 938 00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:10,680 Speaker 1: They're still going to be in the media as well. 939 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 5: Oh and by the way, why o you apostrophe r 940 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,239 Speaker 5: means you are? Why do you means your Well? 941 00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:19,800 Speaker 1: I think that's all we've got time for. Thank you 942 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 1: so much for joining us for today's episode. If you 943 00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:24,439 Speaker 1: have enjoyed it, it would be incredible if you could leave 944 00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,840 Speaker 1: us a rating and a review, and if you haven't already, 945 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,319 Speaker 1: we'd love if you could join our Facebook community, which 946 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,880 Speaker 1: is just outspoken the podcast community