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Speaker 1: There were some alarming headlines in the last day or so.

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Speaker 1: It said that Barrydboire citing on he's got three months

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Speaker 1: to live, This is not.

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Speaker 2: Quite the case. That's a story he wrote about a

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Speaker 2: number of years ago.

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Speaker 1: Please to say he's going extremely well and he's sitting

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Speaker 1: right in here with us and enjoying the smells of

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Speaker 1: TikTok Tucker.

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Speaker 2: Barry, Holla, you look like you're gonna live for a

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Speaker 2: thousand years. Mate, you look fantastic.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's check in three months, that's for sure.

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Speaker 1: That headline yesterday alarmed me. But you were talking about

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Speaker 1: when you were first told that sixteen years ago.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the first diagnosed this. That's what they said. It

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Speaker 3: was a real shock. But a spoiler alert. Don't have

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Speaker 3: to tell you I'm stealing are you?

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Speaker 2: Are you? Because it's a bad smell in the studio

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Speaker 2: and I don't know about you.

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Speaker 3: I wish I could describe that. I did a little

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Speaker 3: Instagram post before I so you just can't describe how

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Speaker 3: it smells.

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Speaker 2: No, well, welcome to TikTok. He would have.

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Speaker 3: Thought the ground up hot dogs would smell like that.

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Speaker 1: You know what we've discovered that weird like crunchy bit

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Speaker 1: in it was, it's the skin.

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Speaker 2: Back again to Jeffrey Dharmer, we should have got some

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Speaker 2: cooking tips from him.

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Speaker 3: The only thing that was worse was Jonesy's face. Honestly,

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Speaker 3: you were concerned for your own health. I would have

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Speaker 3: rather eaten some death cap mushrooms and a beef Wellington

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Speaker 3: than that.

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Speaker 2: That was true. Well, we've all got our choices now.

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Speaker 1: Barry, Hello, I know that we're here talking about Men's

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Speaker 1: Health Week, which is next week, and this is something

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Speaker 1: very close to your heart literally and figuratively.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well it should be close to aiheas. Really it's

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Speaker 3: just a week of awareness around the importance of holistic

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Speaker 3: health for men in particular at the moment.

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Speaker 2: But women better at looking after their health than men are.

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Speaker 3: Women are bad. Women are latual thinkers, so they can

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Speaker 3: think about a lot of things at once, whereas men

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Speaker 3: you work with one so you know and consider generally,

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Speaker 3: you think about one thing. Yes, and men there's still

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Speaker 3: a stigma there always will be that the alpha male things. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'll be right, I'll be okay. But you know, I

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Speaker 3: do a thing called ABC of health awareness. Be aware

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Speaker 3: that there could be something wrong. And we know, all

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Speaker 3: of the three of us know that early detection is

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Speaker 3: a really important thing. So if you're if you're not

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Speaker 3: feeling that well physically, get it checked out. Get that

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Speaker 3: blood test. An early blood test is one of the

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Speaker 3: reasons I am here sixteen years later. Okay, if I

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Speaker 3: hadn't taken it up that maybe maybe three months later

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Speaker 3: that would have happened. But the early detection, it's one

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Speaker 3: of the things that saved me. Be curious. I always say,

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Speaker 3: think of how you can do things better, and be

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Speaker 3: aware of who's around you. If you're if you're unsure

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Speaker 3: about the health of someone else, ask them, especially with

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Speaker 3: mental health. You know my work with auok data, that's

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Speaker 3: what we say, just of your curious, ask the question,

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Speaker 3: and then connection I think is so important. And that's

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Speaker 3: one of the other reasons I'm here today because I'm

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Speaker 3: working with a group called Cup of TV COUPA dot TV,

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Speaker 3: and we've got a whole range of panel of speakers

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Speaker 3: that talk about health and production and teamwork, and I

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Speaker 3: think so much of our time has spent it work

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Speaker 3: that is a big part of our community. And I

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Speaker 3: think that the corporate world needs to really get on

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Speaker 3: board with these awareness weeks, Men's Health Week, Men's Mental

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Speaker 3: Health Week, all sorts of things, and to be able

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Speaker 3: to lean into ideas like cupver dot tv. You've got

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Speaker 3: plenty of access to the right people to help your

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Speaker 1: So as you know, you say that you would diagnose

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Speaker 1: all that sixteen years ago, your beautiful twins turned into

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Speaker 1: teenagers this week thirteen. I mean, I bet you wish

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Speaker 1: you'd on that day when you got that news. I

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Speaker 1: bet you'd wish you'd seen a snippet of this day.

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Speaker 3: You met me.

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Speaker 1: No I knew I would. I just have to say

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Speaker 1: the word mother children, and you bore your.

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Speaker 3: Eyes out because it's so beautiful and it's so beautiful,

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Speaker 3: and I am I happily cry about how beautiful that

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Speaker 3: feeling was. You're right, we couldn't have imagine. I showed

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Speaker 3: you a photo yesterday what Arabella is going to wear

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Speaker 3: her her white themed disco that's going to happen at

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Speaker 3: my place on that and.

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Speaker 1: As you say, and a blink of an eye, a

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Speaker 1: go I was holding her as a newborn. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: even in the darkest times for you, you've always said

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Speaker 1: you're the luckiest man alive. Your attitude has played such

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Speaker 1: a big part in your survival.

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Speaker 3: And mindfulness and self belief and connection is a big

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Speaker 3: part of general health. It is people will give up

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Speaker 3: on you, and if you don't give up on yourself,

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Speaker 3: you'll stay here forever. And we're all heading to the

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Speaker 3: same spot. But it's how you live every day.

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Speaker 1: I'll remind you of that on Saturday night with having

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Speaker 1: a disco party, thirteen year old.

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Speaker 2: Ye, that's when you'll be saying, mother beeper, you'll be

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Speaker 2: tears of another kind barrier. Well, it's always great to

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Speaker 2: talk to you. Men's Health Week runs June nine to fifty.

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Speaker 1: Lots of initiatives, lots of things taking place, but it

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Speaker 1: is such a good mess.

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Speaker 3: Man has packed some TikTok tuck of pancakes hot dog

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Speaker 3: pancakes for you to take home.

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Speaker 2: Put them in you're atashe