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Speaker 1: The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the

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Speaker 1: land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen Bear region.

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Speaker 1: We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land,

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Speaker 1: and terrest Raid Islander peoples today. Hello and welcome back

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Speaker 1: to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast

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Speaker 1: for ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello

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Speaker 1: and welcome back to the Rising Conker Podcast. It is

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Speaker 1: your host, Georgie Stephenson, and I've got another Georgie's hotline

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Speaker 1: for These are our fun Friday EPs where you send

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Speaker 1: in your life dilemmas and I and a Tea provide

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Speaker 1: our unqualified two cents on the situation. Also, guys, we

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Speaker 1: Jamie who are in my Rise and Conker podcast team,

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Speaker 1: because we often get people in the dms being like

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Speaker 1: show you who is behind the podcast, because it's not

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Speaker 1: just me, it does. It takes a village guys. And

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Speaker 1: I'm so lucky to have a Tea and Jamie. They

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Speaker 1: so guys. Before we get into the episode, the questions

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Speaker 1: questions today. That's a good question. So, how do you

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Speaker 1: know if you're past the honeymoon phase of your relationship

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Speaker 1: it's definitely something we all go through. Next question, how

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love this because I've got I've

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Speaker 1: just beaming. Yeah, but before we get into the episode, guys, Oh,

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Speaker 1: recommendations for the week. So I have a really cool

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Speaker 1: manifesting and self development course. I won't go on about

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Speaker 3: Our first question is how to know the difference when

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think something that I've been working on

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Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely so the answer of how to manifest that

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Speaker 1: Love, just do it anyway, keep manifesting.

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Speaker 1: called me up once and been like, hey, I've got

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Speaker 1: a message like from your angels. Do you want it?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck her, I do, give it to me,

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Speaker 1: Give it to me. And then she's told me something

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Speaker 1: and what she told me, it's not like it was

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Speaker 1: on social media or anything like that. And it was

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Speaker 1: very comforting to me at the time because I was

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Speaker 1: really struggling and it was just like this beautiful kind

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then she's also done other readings that have just

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Speaker 1: then made sense, like you know, six to twelve months later.

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Speaker 1: So I'm a big believer in taro readings. And also

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Speaker 1: I use Taro cards as a manifesting and a journaling tool.

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Speaker 1: So I have a beautiful deck. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: it's called. I'll get a teater linked in the show notes.

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Speaker 2: I have a.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful deck, and I really use it as a tool

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Speaker 1: of I will pick a couple of cards, have a

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Speaker 1: look of what they are, like, you know, go to

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Speaker 1: the book, see see what you know the message says,

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Speaker 1: and it's more about what comes up for me. So

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Speaker 1: when I read the message, what do I think? It's

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Speaker 1: about what do I feel in regards to for instance,

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Speaker 1: if it's a card that it's like bad shit's happening

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Speaker 1: or you know, none of them say that. But then

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Speaker 1: like what do I like? What's the first thing I

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Speaker 1: think of? How can I unpack that? And I almost

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Speaker 1: use it as a tool to then keep learning about myself,

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Speaker 1: if that makes sense. So I personally use tarot cards

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Speaker 1: in that way. But then also I'm a big believer

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Speaker 1: in psychic greetings, and I think with psychic greetings, though

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Speaker 1: what I have been told is we all have like

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Speaker 1: infinite possibilities in our life. Yeah, so every single person,

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Speaker 1: like every little choice you make, then there's like a

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Speaker 1: million choices off that and then so you're making these

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Speaker 1: choices and whatnot. So the reading you got could have

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Speaker 1: it's definitely a possible outcome, but it doesn't mean it

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Speaker 1: has to be your outcome.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think even with this question where she

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Speaker 3: said it doesn't sit right, maybe that was what was

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Speaker 3: meant to happen, Like, yeah, maybe you were supposed to

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Speaker 3: get this reading that didn't sit right so that you

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Speaker 3: knew that was isn't correct, so that when this cross

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Speaker 3: roads comes, you know which decision to make and it's

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Speaker 3: not that one exactly.

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Speaker 1: And that's what I mean. It's guys, no one knows

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Speaker 1: anyone better except yourself. No one knows anyone better. And

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Speaker 1: you know in your heart, like like I say, your heart,

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Speaker 1: you know your heart. Desires are put on your heart

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Speaker 1: for a reason. You always know what to do, always

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Speaker 1: listen to your intuition. And exactly that I tear, maybe

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Speaker 1: this was meant to happen so you could actually get

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Speaker 1: really clear on No, Actually that doesn't sit right with me,

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Speaker 1: and I don't want to go down that path.

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Speaker 3: I would just I would trust your intuition. I would

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Speaker 3: know that the psychic reading is a possibility. And like

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Speaker 3: you said, I definitely wouldn't write the psychic off because

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Speaker 3: she sounds like she knows what she's doing based on

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Speaker 3: your question. But just look at it as information that

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Speaker 3: you can keep in the back of your mind when

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Speaker 3: decisions come up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you always have a choice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And like it's sort of how you look at

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Speaker 3: spiritual signs in the sense that if you see the

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Speaker 3: blue butterfly, it's less about seeing the blue butterfly and

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Speaker 3: more about how you felt, how you felt when you

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Speaker 3: saw it, and if that was the right thing for

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Speaker 3: you or not. And that's what you used to make

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Speaker 3: your decision, not actually seeing the blue butterfly exactly.

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Speaker 1: Love well, I think we've done. Yeah, short sharp episode

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Speaker 1: of Jeordie's hotline, Short, shut and sweet. Thank you so

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