WEBVTT - Break Ups, Dating & Boy Advice - Lockdown Edition 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:03.160 This is Outspoken. The podcast is not afraid to say 0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:06.680 exactly what you're thinking. Our names are Amy, Kate and 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:10.560 Sophie Torba. We're identical triplets, but we often don't have 0:00:10.640 --> 0:00:15.680 identical opinions, so sometimes things can get heted. Outspoken covers 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:20.640 all things reality TV, influences, entertainment, and issues facing women. 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:22.840 That is so fat. 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:29.360 Thank you. Welcome to a very special lockdown edition ab Outspoken. 0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:32.360 It's taken two years to get one of our boyfriends 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:37.839 on the show, Dale, Welcome, thank you. So just to 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:39.560 clear it up for people who don't know, because people 0:00:39.600 --> 0:00:42.800 keep saying they're getting Kate and Sophie and my voices confuse, 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:45.199 this is Amy. Dale is my boyfriend, so I'm going 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:48.880 to be interviewing him. Yeah, this is Dale. Firstly, Dale, 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:51.879 do you actually find Kate, Sophie and my voices similar, 0:00:51.960 --> 0:00:53.519 because that's been a complaint so far. 0:00:55.080 --> 0:00:58.840 Um, No, not really. I suppose I only ever see 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:02.440 you face to five when you're talking, so I don't 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:04.200 get that confused. I'll just look at you. 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:05.960 So you don't listen to the podcast, then that was 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:06.839 another big question. 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:13.440 I've listened to one or two and it's early in 0:01:13.480 --> 0:01:14.160 its infancy. 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:18.360 No, but you do download them, don't you just show 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:22.320 just to get some numbers up? Well, what did you 0:01:22.360 --> 0:01:24.119 think of the podcast when you listen to it? Because 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:27.360 people are wondering, are you interested in the influencer world 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:27.880 as well? 0:01:28.680 --> 0:01:28.880 No? 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:33.479 Not at all. No, it's I understand that you all 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:36.640 enjoy it, but it's not my thing. 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:39.960 Okay, that's fair enough. Now people wanted a little bit 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:44.320 of background information about you. So can you tell everybody 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:46.360 what do you do for work? And then people might 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:49.720 realize why you're not interested at all in the influencer world. 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:52.400 Can we can we turn this quiz around? Can I 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:53.160 ask you? 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:54.200 Yeah? Well you can. 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:55.680 Yeah, you can ask me things as well. 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.880 Ok what do I do for work? Oh? 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:01.160 Okay, you're asking me what I did for work? You're 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:02.600 a fire engineer? 0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:03.800 What does that mean? 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:11.960 It means that that you work out where different. 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:15.920 This is good. Yeah, going, It's. 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:18.359 Like I'm friends with Chan the Bing when no one 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:21.640 actually knows what he does. It's basically, you work out 0:02:21.960 --> 0:02:26.079 where different fire alarms need to be, and you work out, 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:29.120 you know, if something in a building burnt. I don't know, 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:30.560 you explain it explained. 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:34.200 It's hard to explain there's a few aspects to it. 0:02:34.240 --> 0:02:36.080 There's how bort Hew. 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:37.720 No, that's right, that's alright. 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:40.880 You're a fire engineer. Okay, so this is probably the 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:43.000 last thing you would listen to because you're aways listening 0:02:43.040 --> 0:02:46.840 to sort of crime podcasts or fire podcasts. 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:51.280 Yeah, there's a there's the Grenfelle Tower Inquiry. That's probably 0:02:51.280 --> 0:02:54.360 one of my favorite favorite podcasts at the moment. 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:57.119 Now, I think we should take it back to December 0:02:57.160 --> 0:03:02.040 twenty seventeen because that's when we met, and I want 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:04.639 to hear what were your first impressions of me? And 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:06.840 I'm going to tell you my first impressions of you. 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:08.800 Are we talking about our first day? 0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:10.240 Yeah, we're talking about our first date. 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:17.320 Ummm. I thought that you were very pretty, if I recall. 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:18.880 Correctly, that's very sweet. 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:24.560 M I was happy that you liked pizza, because I 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:25.720 like pizza a lot. 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:29.480 Well, you suggested the place, and you ran late to 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:31.360 the date because you said you had to water your 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:33.560 lawn and I wasn't sure if you were taking the pits. 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:36.320 No, yeah, no, I was doing renovations at my place 0:03:36.360 --> 0:03:41.080 at that point in time, and i'd recently completely stripped 0:03:41.120 --> 0:03:45.440 back the lawn with a Bobcat and yeah, I was 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:47.200 hoping that it was going to start growing at some point, 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:51.360 but it was midsummer and nothing was happening. Absolute dust bowl. 0:03:51.480 --> 0:03:54.120 I liked that because I always run late, so I 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:57.360 was like, okay, that's a tick. He's running late any more. 0:03:57.400 --> 0:03:58.400 First impressions. 0:03:58.600 --> 0:04:00.960 But you're nice. I didn't go for a walk with 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:03.880 you off, No, No, that was too good to go 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:06.000 for a walk with me at night around a dark lake. 0:04:07.080 --> 0:04:10.560 Well, I thought I was talking to a friend about 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:12.760 our date and we were trying to work out what 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:16.680 was wrong with you, because you sort of quickly earned 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:21.040 the nickname dreamboat by my sisters and a few friends. 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:23.680 And I mean, I don't know whether our standards were 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:26.080 really low or you are a real dream boat. 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:28.120 But oh you didn't know me. 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:32.320 No, I'd say you're still a dream boat. I did 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:34.560 actually get you a hoodie printed at Christmas time with 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:36.440 the word dreamboat across it, which again a. 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:39.520 Barrack dreamboat because my middle with dB. 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:42.960 No, not at all, just because you were dreaming. Because 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.280 Dale came to our white party, and this is I 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.240 think we'd only been out on was it two or 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:50.039 three dates, and I think you thought it was a 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:51.920 bigger party than it was because I said it was 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:54.960 a white party. It's more of a small gathering. And 0:04:55.440 --> 0:04:57.880 you rocked up all in white and you brought a 0:04:57.920 --> 0:05:00.400 box of Caburry favorites and we all I thought that 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:01.160 was so sweet. 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:03.599 Do the viewers know what the white party is? 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:06.000 Yeah, yeah, we've discussed it. It's just where everyone dresses 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:08.760 up in white and celebrates Christmas. So well, I mean, 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:13.280 that's pretty early to meet my sisters. What did you 0:05:13.279 --> 0:05:15.560 think of the whole triplet thing? Because you previously went 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:17.320 out with the twins, so you knew a little bit 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:18.520 about what to expect. 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:26.080 I think it was you who tried to explain the 0:05:27.000 --> 0:05:29.720 ganging up and the sides and everything like that. That's 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:34.719 the Yeah, that's the craziest thing about it. There's always 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:38.680 two on one or something along those lines, and you 0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:41.919 don't know who's on whose side at any point in 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:43.719 time because there could be three or four things going 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:45.880 on and everyone's on each other's side on other things. 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:48.680 It changes pretty quickly as well, who's on whose side? 0:05:49.440 --> 0:05:50.880 I do remember there. 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:52.640 Was a fourth triplet as well, though, who's that? 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:58.080 Oh? Yes, our mum, she's our best friends as well. 0:05:58.680 --> 0:06:00.640 I do remember on our first date you were telling 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:02.280 me how you used to go out with a twin 0:06:02.680 --> 0:06:04.880 and you said to me, oh, the one I dated, 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:08.200 she was the tomboy one and there was another one 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:10.720 that was well, the other one was more Princessie. And 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:13.200 I just had to laugh because I'm the tomboy one 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:19.440 and Sophie is the princess. Yeah, so obviously you're more into. 0:06:19.680 --> 0:06:20.360 Women of action. 0:06:20.920 --> 0:06:24.279 Well, also, just to give a little background on our relationship, 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:27.720 what was the big bombshell you dropped on Christmas Eve? 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:30.960 Let's go through that, because I feel like people would 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:33.000 be interested. I don't know, you might be turning off 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:33.920 or you're listening to this. 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:37.479 But oh, just a cute little surprise. I think you 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:40.120 took it quite well that I was relocating to Sydney. 0:06:42.240 --> 0:06:43.920 Yeah, so this was what That's what. 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:46.280 You wanted to hear, you know on Christmas women want 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.200 to hear as you start dating someone. 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:50.880 Well, I thought this would be good to talk about 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:53.839 because we have had some questions sent in from women 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:55.600 who want to kind of know a bit more what 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:59.320 men are thinking and I mean, and there's always a 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:01.279 question of you know, like the movie, he's just not 0:07:01.320 --> 0:07:04.520 that into you. When you sent that to me, I thought, oh, okay, 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:08.360 here we go, like he's sort of dropped me. Yep, 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:10.640 was that your Was that your intention? 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:16.400 No, it wasn't. Oh bang, just quietly just got a 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:18.120 piece of the puzzle. We're doing a puzzle next to 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:19.360 us where we're sitting at the moment. 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:21.600 I just I just of our faces. 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:26.400 Ye got that. What was the question? 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:30.800 What was your intention through sending that message? 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:36.880 I think to be honest? Mm hmm, okay, Like I mean, 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.760 I didn't want to hide behind that. You're obviously a 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:44.800 nice individual, and I didn't want to I don't know. 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:47.440 I suppose I wanted to be upfront and honest. 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:49.680 So should people have hope? Though, you know? Because I 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:53.160 thought that was it, that's the end of whatever was happening. 0:07:53.960 --> 0:07:57.320 I'm just conscious now I can hear my own nose whistles. 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:59.160 So it is cold in here. 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:01.320 I feel to avoid the question. 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:03.600 No, No, No, I'm definitely not. I just I just 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:07.400 got distracted. No, my intention was purely to advise you 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:08.960 that I was moving interstate. 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:12.360 But what happened on this individual and what happened next. 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:16.880 It was soon to be my birthday, and you made 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:19.960 me a cake. Although I thought that you were giving 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:23.120 me distance, I thought you were giving me a bit 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:26.840 of a cold shoulder. Yeah. Oop, that's the dryer. Did 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:27.400 you want to get that? 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:31.600 Okay, we're back from turning the washing machine off. 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:32.040 Yep. 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:33.800 Yeah, so what happened? 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:34.080 Okay? 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:36.120 Yeah, so you thought that I was trying to distance 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:39.199 myself from you. Then I came over and I made 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:40.679 you a big chocolate. 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:45.400 Cake, Matilda inspired chocolate cake, and then sushi, and then 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:47.120 you bought with the sushi roller thing and we made 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:47.640 sushi too. 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:48.280 Oh that's right. 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:52.960 And you bought was it canned salmon or something, which 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:56.760 just looked like cat food, So we ditch that. 0:08:57.080 --> 0:09:00.960 Yeah, and then you invited me to your thirty birthday party. 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:01.280 Yeah. 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:02.000 It wasn't that fun. 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:05.160 It was fun, but I just wanted to tell this 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:08.080 story because I feel like if you, if someone had 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:12.400 given me advice about, you know, dating you, they would 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:15.200 have been like, oh, he's leaving, don't worry about it. 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:18.480 So it shows we did like long distance for how long? 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:19.880 It was like a year or something, a. 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:21.240 Year and a half I was over there almost a 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:22.720 year and a half. Was about ten months. 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:26.280 Yeah, and then we traveled to Europe after and then 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:29.640 we moved in together. What is it like living with 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:31.959 a girl compared to living by yourself? 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:41.000 I'm I mean, you saw my previous place of residence, 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:43.520 and I believe your comment was it was one of 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:48.600 the more bachelor places that you've ever seen. The I mean, 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:52.680 I've got I had an old wooden drama as a 0:09:52.920 --> 0:09:58.520 cable dramas as a coffee table. I had a couple 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:01.600 of recliner couches and everything like that, just a basic 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:07.120 wooden table which my face was what the couch was 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:09.560 from facebook place. Yeah, I didn't have any stains on. 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:10.200 It's all right. 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:14.640 Well, your style in furniture has been discussed a few 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:17.240 times on the podcast, and finally you're able to defend 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:19.920 yourself so timeless classic. 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:22.040 I believe that's how we can just sum let the 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:22.600 sum it up. 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:24.600 Well, I was gonna I was going to ask you 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:25.640 what your description was, but. 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:29.320 You've really you're growing into my my style between myself 0:10:29.360 --> 0:10:32.360 and your mother, he's got very good furniture sense. I 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:33.760 believe you're growing into it. 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:34.120 Yeah. 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:37.080 Well, we're currently looking to buy a house and I 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:41.040 have been quite concerned about well, I think we've both 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:44.240 been concerned about agreeing what kind of house we want 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:45.920 and where we're going to live. I think we finally 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:49.360 decided that we do like the old bungalows, and I do. 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:51.720 I must admit some of your furniture will go quite 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:53.360 nicely in there. It just doesn't go in our sort 0:10:53.360 --> 0:10:55.040 of modern white tiled house. 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:55.360 At the moment. 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:59.760 Anyway, I feel like we should move on to some questions. 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:02.960 And as I said, people were interested in your influencer knowledge. 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:05.600 So I want to ask you, can you rattle off 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:09.319 any influencer names that you've that you remember me discussing. 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:10.920 Is there anyone that stands out? 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:12.960 Um? 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:21.680 Who? This This might fail, but I think if you 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:26.040 were to rattle off names to me, I would say, yeah, 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:28.160 I recall them because that's probably easy. 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:31.080 So you can't think of anyone? No one comes to mind. 0:11:32.880 --> 0:11:36.000 There's was Poppy Redbone one? Or was that someone who 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:38.160 was you did some other. 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:41.440 Okay, I interviewed her fortulation. Actually that's a very local 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:46.600 Adelaide one. Yeah, okay, I watch on YouTube. 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:50.960 Oh there's that one who's got like the brother of 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:53.959 I remember the guy, the boy the brother's name Articus 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:59.599 or something that's it? 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:00.839 Yeah, okay, well what. 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:03.360 And then I watch. 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:06.120 That? 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:07.560 Is that is she on there? 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:10.520 Okay? 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:12.920 Yeah, you got You've got a few right there. So 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:14.800 I thought i'd run you through some mas. 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:18.080 Yes one, Yeah, that's a good one. That's not her 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:18.920 last name though, was it? 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:21.520 No, that's Stevenson, but that's her name of her channel. 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:24.000 All right, I'm going to run through some other names, 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:26.560 and I've put some fake names in and some genuine 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:28.199 ones to see if you know. 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:29.920 That you know that I wasn't going to know any 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:31.160 and you've made this list? 0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:32.360 No, no, I would have. 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:35.000 There was no prep on this. You've obviously thought ahead 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:35.400 about this. 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:39.360 Yeah, okay, this is what tell so you can say, 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:41.520 is this an influencer or is this a made up name? 0:12:42.840 --> 0:12:44.880 Ruby Tuesday Matthews. 0:12:44.559 --> 0:12:45.560 Sounds like a porn star. 0:12:47.080 --> 0:12:50.240 Is she made up or is she influenced? No, it's 0:12:50.240 --> 0:12:53.400 a real name. Okay, Michelle Zigby. 0:12:55.480 --> 0:12:55.920 Made up? 0:12:56.720 --> 0:12:57.400 Yeah? 0:12:57.480 --> 0:12:59.160 Yeah, Chloe's EPP. 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:03.960 I'm going to say, not made up or real? 0:13:04.240 --> 0:13:09.160 Yep, she's an influencer. What about Anastasia kings North? 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:13.040 Is that the one who you watch? Yes? Okay, yeah 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:13.840 I knew that one. 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:17.400 Seannie Grummond, Yeah, that's that's one I've heard you say 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:18.800 that before, sepron star. 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:21.160 That sounds like a porn star. 0:13:21.960 --> 0:13:24.600 It's not influence star. It's made up though. 0:13:24.760 --> 0:13:29.040 Okay, Bill Rugby, that sounds too much like the Zugby 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:31.040 one that you said earlier. 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:32.600 That one's fake. 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:35.319 Yeah, all right, well. 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:37.600 So hang on, can we let's just take a step 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:40.800 back here? What can you define what an influencer is 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:43.600 for those of your listeners out there who don't know 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:46.119 what that is, which I believe would be absolutely zero. 0:13:46.640 --> 0:13:50.920 Or an influencer is somebody who influences the masses. So 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:53.960 a lot of these people have mass followings, and a 0:13:53.960 --> 0:13:56.960 lot of brands pay their money to promote products because 0:13:57.000 --> 0:13:59.600 they feel like they have a lot of influence in society. 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:03.040 So we told our community that you were coming onto 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:06.079 the show, and a few people have written in some questions. 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:09.720 So I think we're just going to start with some 0:14:09.880 --> 0:14:12.240 questions that are more related towards you, and then we'll 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:14.800 go in to some relationship questions because I personally love 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:17.440 listening to podcasts where they have boyfriends on and you 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:19.320 get a bit of boy advice. 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:21.920 How many of these are from my friends who found 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:23.200 out I was doing this the other day? 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:26.720 Well, they were one sent in and asked what kind 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:28.400 of lover you were that was one of your friends. 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:30.320 I don't know if we'll be going in some details 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:33.840 of that, but so there were a lot of questions 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:38.160 about Kate's engagement and whether you and Brandon felt pressured 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:40.280 in that moment. My mum told me not to ask 0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:42.120 you this question, but we're just going to go there. 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:44.200 Did you and Brandon feel a bit like? 0:14:44.360 --> 0:14:48.400 Oh no, I didn't. Okay, I can't ask an answer 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:51.600 on behalf of Brandon, obviously, but I personally didn't. Okay. 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:53.600 That's good, each their own speed. 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:57.440 So this is a bit controversial. Someone said, who is 0:14:57.520 --> 0:14:59.160 Dale's fave sister in law? 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:03.160 I don't think I should be answered big like that. 0:15:06.160 --> 0:15:09.520 I don't think, however, that is answered, that can't end. 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:11.840 Well they both yeah, well they up. 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:14.000 They've both got their individual traits. 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:17.240 I Gabe, Yeah, so you kind of answered it before. 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:20.320 But do your friends know of the podcast and do 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:21.480 they understand the concept? 0:15:21.640 --> 0:15:25.160 I think if a few of them know about it, 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:28.400 I mean I haven't ever been able to explain the 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:32.480 concept to them. I'm assuming they know the concept. I 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:35.120 think a lot of their girlfriends listen to it. They well, 0:15:35.240 --> 0:15:37.640 some of them do. Okay, can you should shout out 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:38.200 to some of them? 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:41.360 Shout out to some of them. I would shout out 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:43.040 to Renee, but I know she doesn't listen because this 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:43.720 isn't her things. 0:15:43.800 --> 0:15:44.440 Sally does. 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:48.320 Oh yeah, Sally, Yeah, Sally. I'm sure you'll be enjoying 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:49.760 this episode. 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:52.000 If you're listening, I'll get. 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:54.320 Some smack given to me from Tim Good. 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:57.520 And one of the other questions was what do you 0:15:57.560 --> 0:15:59.600 think Kate, sof and I should cover on the podcast? 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:03.520 Any suggestions personally? 0:16:03.680 --> 0:16:04.120 Yeah? 0:16:04.240 --> 0:16:09.200 Will you keep on talking about the Chappelle Corpy stuff. 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:11.000 I want to hear you talk about that. I mean 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:12.880 I might listen to it if you talk about that. 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:14.080 Okay, excellent. 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:17.000 Well we're hoping to get Chappelle on the podcast at 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:20.440 some point. Okay, let's just go to the dating questions now. 0:16:21.280 --> 0:16:22.240 I thought we're almost done. 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:23.040 No, we're not done. 0:16:23.040 --> 0:16:25.200 To keep me going much longer to do? I need 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:27.120 another beer? Okay, that's all right? 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:31.760 So what gives you the ick about girls? So when 0:16:31.800 --> 0:16:35.000 you're out on the dating scene, what gave you the ick? So? 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:36.200 What are some deal breakers? 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:45.360 I like people who are driven, people who so yeah, 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:49.640 people who I suppose we're just sort of floating through 0:16:50.160 --> 0:16:54.320 life or expecting something for nothing. I don't. I didn't 0:16:54.360 --> 0:16:55.560 particularly ever click with. 0:16:57.040 --> 0:17:00.120 So what about other deal breakers, like as in, you know, 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:02.280 when they say something gives you the ike about someone, 0:17:02.320 --> 0:17:07.920 It could be like something really fourteen for example, I 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:09.760 think it was on Friends, Chanler. 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:11.199 Got definitely not going to know this. 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:14.080 Then, well, Channler got the ike about this woman Janice 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:18.160 because she had gunky mascara in the middle of a 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:18.840 gunk in her. 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:23.639 I'm not that shallow, but I suppose a bit of 0:17:23.720 --> 0:17:26.000 self pride is always good. 0:17:27.240 --> 0:17:32.159 You're saying this is I'm sitting here in Oh sorry. 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:34.359 Someone else asked, could you tell Kate soph and I 0:17:34.400 --> 0:17:37.879 apart straight away? Yeah, yeah you could. What are the 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:39.119 differences for people. 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:41.400 Who Well, I think at that point in time you 0:17:41.480 --> 0:17:45.320 had I think the hair was obviously the most striking difference, 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:49.640 Sophie being blonde and Kate being brown, and you were 0:17:49.640 --> 0:17:52.280 sort of half in half out. You had your your 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:54.720 streaks or something at that point in time. He streaks 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:57.080 a correct highlights low lights. 0:17:57.560 --> 0:18:00.240 Oh see, this one's another awkward one I've stumbled across. 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:02.720 Some more questions for you answer that question. 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:05.120 You had lowl like yeah, yeah, yeah, I did so. 0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:07.080 No, I never got you confused. 0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:11.480 Do you find Kate and Sophie attractive. 0:18:10.960 --> 0:18:16.680 To your identical triplets? So physically there is a lot 0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:20.160 of the same attributes, But no, I think a lot 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:22.239 has to do with personality as well, and I'm really 0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:24.080 quite attracted to your personality, so they. 0:18:24.080 --> 0:18:25.120 Thank you well. 0:18:26.000 --> 0:18:30.440 Someone also asked which three things personality traits do you 0:18:30.600 --> 0:18:31.720 love most about me? 0:18:34.560 --> 0:18:40.480 I like it when you're funny and silly. I like 0:18:40.800 --> 0:18:45.760 that you are very driven and can I don't know. 0:18:45.800 --> 0:18:47.399 You just put your head down and get shit sorted. 0:18:47.840 --> 0:18:49.280 Okay, what about my worst habit? 0:18:54.600 --> 0:19:02.080 I don't know. Ummm, you know, I've got an issue 0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:06.199 with things to do with cat mess and stuff, so 0:19:06.480 --> 0:19:10.800 that's probably I don't know how to answer that. 0:19:11.680 --> 0:19:13.840 The first situation in the house, we've got two rag 0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:17.359 dolls that leave a lot at first. Yes, okay, a 0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:20.560 lot is an understand it is if you're mad at me. 0:19:20.880 --> 0:19:22.720 Is it hard to be nice to Kate and Sophie. 0:19:24.800 --> 0:19:27.440 I don't think so. They might not think I'm ever 0:19:27.560 --> 0:19:28.480 nice to them. I don't know. 0:19:29.560 --> 0:19:30.720 You're not really mad to be. 0:19:30.760 --> 0:19:34.040 Quite cold have you. Oh, I come across quite cold, 0:19:34.080 --> 0:19:36.399