1 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families Podcast. It's the podcast for the 2 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: time poor parent who just wants answers. 3 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 2: Now, you are the most shapable person to see and 4 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 2: understand your children and what they need in terms of 5 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 2: their education. Parents would be surprised once you get a 6 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 2: good rhythm how well it comes together with your kids. 7 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: And now here's the stars of our show, my mom 8 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: and dad. 9 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 3: Hello, this is doctor Justin Coulson, the podcast host of 10 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 3: the Doctor Justin Colson's Happy Families podcast, the number one 11 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 3: podcast for parents and family in Australia. Recording the Australian 12 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 3: podcast Branker. 13 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 4: I like a lot of podcasts. 14 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 3: I like it when the news comes out like that. 15 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 3: And can I just make a comment. 16 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 5: I don't know if you can hear it in the background. 17 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 3: But with our new living arrangement, we're in an airbnb 18 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 3: rather than our usual office studio. 19 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 5: And we're moving into a tiny little house. We're getting 20 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 5: used to it. 21 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 3: So we used to live on four thy five hundred 22 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 3: square meters of land and our neighbors were a long 23 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 3: while away from us, and we had all this space. 24 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 3: And now we've moved into suburbia on the coast and 25 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:06,639 Speaker 3: we have to put up with dogs barking and cars 26 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 3: going past, and life has changed. It's just not the 27 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 3: same anymore, Kylie. Another dog's gone quiet, But we've got 28 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 3: the beach. Yeah, that's true and it's worth it. So 29 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 3: if you hear any funny noises in the background of 30 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 3: our number one podcast in Australia for parenting and family, 31 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 3: can I say that one more time? That would be 32 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 3: Why wouldn't it be terrible if we stopped being the 33 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 3: number one podcast because all of a sudden people could 34 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 3: hear the neighbors, or the dogs or the cars. 35 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 4: Real life, honey, real life. 36 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 3: We have an important conversation to have today and we're 37 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 3: going to break it into two parts, as we always do. 38 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 3: First part of the conversation is you and I having 39 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 3: a discussion about a listener question. But then we're actually 40 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 3: going to bring in somebody with lived experience. I was 41 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 3: going to say an expertes lived experience qualify you as 42 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 3: an expert. I'm not sure, but we're going to bring 43 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 3: somebody in who knows more than we do about it. 44 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:53,919 Speaker 5: So here's the question. 45 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 3: It comes from Brie, who says, Hi, Justin and Kylie, 46 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 3: I am a mum of three kids, therefore two and 47 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 3: six months, so young family. 48 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 5: I love it when they at that age, so much fun, 49 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 5: so much energy, so much exhaustion. 50 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 3: With my eldest Judas start school next year, Brie says, 51 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 3: I'm currently discerning the education or direction of our family, 52 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 3: and I'm very seriously considering homeschooling. I'm a primary school 53 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 3: teacher myself, so it's a mammoth shift in mindset for 54 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 3: me to opt out of the mainstream school setting and 55 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 3: home educate our kids. We have our reasons for considering 56 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 3: this direction to ensure the flourishing of our children. However, 57 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 3: there are some very strong opinions out there about homeschooling 58 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 3: and stigma's. 59 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 5: Attached to it. 60 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 3: I would greatly appreciate an open, honest discussion of the pros, cons, benefits, 61 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 3: and deficits of homeschooling versus mainstream schooling. So, Kylie, the 62 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 3: first thing I'm going to highlight is that we're going 63 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 3: to put this on our Facebook page, and Brie and 64 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 3: anyone else who is really interested in this homeschooling conversation, 65 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 3: if you've ever thought about it, We're going to open 66 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 3: it up and get people to talk about the pros, 67 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 3: the cons, the benefits, the deficits, and the stigma associated 68 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 3: with homeschooling. Make sure that that appears on our Facebook 69 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 3: page today so you can join the conversation there. But 70 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 3: we've been through this conversation ourselves, Kyle, we haven't we like, 71 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 3: how many times do you think? 72 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 4: I think with each child, with each addition to our family, 73 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 4: it has definitely come up in conversation. And as our 74 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 4: children have had different challenges within the school system, we've 75 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 4: thought about what it would mean to actually bring them 76 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 4: home and you know, kind of support their learning from home. 77 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 3: And I've been the one who's pushed it, and you've 78 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 3: been the one who's pushed against. 79 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 5: It like I've been. 80 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 3: Really, there's been a couple of times where we've almost 81 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 3: pulled the trigger on it. There's been a couple of 82 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 3: times where we've sat down with friends who have homeschooled 83 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 3: their kids and we've said, we can't stand it anymore. 84 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 3: We don't like the school environment, or the kids are 85 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 3: having this problem or that problem, and it would be 86 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 3: so much better if we could just have the freedom 87 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 3: that homeschool would allow. And they've looked at us funnily 88 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 3: and said, freedom is one word you could use it 89 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 3: might not be the best word. So let's just talk 90 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 3: about the issues with the school system generally as a 91 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 3: starting point. When I think about schools, and I want 92 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 3: to do this with great respect and tenderness and compassion 93 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 3: and gentleness for the school teachers who are working in 94 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 3: a system that is sometimes so challenging for them and 95 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 3: for the kids. But what I see generally, and this 96 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 3: is partly on the parents, and it's partly on the curriculum, 97 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 3: there's so many different ways that we can look at 98 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:27,119 Speaker 3: this school is so hyper competitive for so many there's 99 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 3: such enormous expectation. 100 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 5: The workload is massive. 101 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 3: You always learn at the rate of the slowest child. 102 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 3: There are different ways that schools can teachers can get 103 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 3: around this. But there's a curriculum, there's stuff that has 104 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 3: to be covered off. There are all these expectations. But 105 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 3: there's also the cultural stuff, the values things. I speak 106 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 3: to so many parents to say, it's just the values 107 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:54,719 Speaker 3: clash our kids being exposed to some other kids who 108 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 3: see the world. 109 00:04:55,520 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 5: Very very differently. There's bullying, there's the desire to keep 110 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 5: kids innocent, and. 111 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 3: I think there's also that reality that sometimes school just 112 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:07,799 Speaker 3: feels like there is no joy for some children in school. 113 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 4: I think that's a really good point, and it's the 114 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 4: one thing that stands out to me when I talked 115 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 4: to parents who are homeschooling. There's a return to the 116 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 4: inquisitive nature of children to want to learn. 117 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 5: And let's talk about why we haven't done it. 118 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 3: I mean, with all of those things that we might say, 119 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 3: this is not ideal, this is not what we want 120 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 3: for our kids when it comes to school. All of 121 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 3: our kids have had a traditional schooling experience, none of 122 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 3: them have been homeschooled or anything even close to it. 123 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 5: And the reasons that we've kept our kids in. 124 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 3: School, in spite of all the conversations we've had Kylie, 125 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 3: have been number. 126 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 4: One, hands down for me, was just a feeling of inadequacy. Right, 127 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 4: I'm a parent, I'm not a teacher. Yeah yeah, and 128 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 4: I felt so ill equipped to deal with them as 129 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,919 Speaker 4: the children obviously got older. That would have been my 130 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 4: number one reason for not doing it. 131 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, lack of knowledge. And the second one. 132 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 4: The second one, I think it would just be the 133 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 4: fact that there are already so many moving parts in 134 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 4: our life, and homeschooling is a complete shift in lifestyle, 135 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 4: and I just couldn't see how we could do it 136 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 4: and do it effectively. I don't feel like I have 137 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:20,720 Speaker 4: the capacity to be my children's all right. And I 138 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 4: know with homeschooling, you did be part of a homeschool 139 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 4: community and there are other people that come in. But 140 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 4: for all intents and purposes, I'm with my children twenty 141 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 4: four to seven, and I don't want to have to 142 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 4: be their teacher and their mom. I want to be 143 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 4: able to be their mum. And I feel like when 144 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 4: I have my time, I'm able to be a better mum. 145 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 4: I show up as a better person as a result. 146 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 4: And so yeah, I just I kind of I couldn't 147 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 4: physically work out how to come up, part mentalize things 148 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 4: and be able to make that massive shift of being everything. 149 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 3: For me when we had the conversation. Is the main 150 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,040 Speaker 3: reason that I stopped pushing, even though I keep bringing 151 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 3: it up and I've said so many times, let's just 152 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 3: do it, let's just do it. Is I knew that 153 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 3: ultimately it would fall to you. I'm running two businesses, 154 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 3: there are so many moving parts in my life. I 155 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:15,239 Speaker 3: simply I can't be there for you while your homeschool 156 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 3: and the kids, and also expect you to run the 157 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 3: family and do everything else it has to be done. 158 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 5: And as we've looked at it from that lifestyle point. 159 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 3: Of view, as much as there's lots of opportunity and 160 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 3: some great experiences, we've decided that for our family it 161 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 3: would simply be too much. It would be beyond our 162 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 3: capacity to actually make it happen. 163 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 4: I think in briefe situation, she's at a beautiful stage 164 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 4: of family life where she actually can move into this 165 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 4: very gently. She's got a five year old starting school, 166 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 4: and I know when we did schooling from home. When 167 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 4: COVID began working with my five year old at home 168 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 4: was a delight. I absolutely loved doing that with her, 169 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 4: and I would have kept doing that with her. But 170 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 4: as the children continue to grow and their maths and 171 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 4: science get a little bit more complicated than making volcanoes 172 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 4: in the sand, that kind of is very intimidating. 173 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 5: That's a really interesting point. 174 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 3: Had we started early with number one, or just with 175 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 3: two kids in the early days, probably would have been 176 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 3: a much more achievable task. But the last time we 177 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 3: had the conversation was only a couple of years ago, 178 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 3: maybe three years ago, and high school, like, how are 179 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 3: we going to do this with four or five or 180 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 3: six kids across the entire educational spectrum, and that was 181 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 3: the other reason that we pulled them. Or maybe we'll 182 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 3: just do it with the baby. Well, how come she 183 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 3: gets the special treatment? So in the end we've opted out. 184 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 3: But right after the break, we're going to have a 185 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 3: conversation with a mum who has taken the plunge and 186 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 3: find out what her real life experience has been. 187 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 5: Dads are pretty awesome, just ask me. 188 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 3: Today, more dads are more involved with their children's lives 189 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 3: than ever before, and research shows that their children are 190 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 3: really benefiting from it. But too often dads don't realize 191 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 3: just how vible they really are. In the Dadding Done 192 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 3: Right webinar, join me, is I examine how dads can 193 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 3: be a fantastic support, the ideal role model and an 194 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 3: excellent all round best dad ever. Check out Dadding Done 195 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 3: Right at the Happy Family's webshop. 196 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 4: It's the Happy Families podcast, the podcast for the time 197 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 4: poor parent who just wants answers now and Bree wants 198 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 4: the pros and cons to homeschooling. 199 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 5: So we've given it our best shot. 200 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 3: We don't really know what we're talking about though, so 201 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 3: we decided to call in an expert, a friend of 202 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:22,839 Speaker 3: ours from the Illawarra area. 203 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 5: Jody, mum to five kids. It is so great to 204 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 5: have you with us. 205 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:28,319 Speaker 6: Thank you for having me on. 206 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 3: I just wanted to give you the round of a pause, 207 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:33,599 Speaker 3: the roaring approval, because we know that you're going to 208 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 3: help Bree and make the most important decision about her 209 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 3: children's education that she's ever made. 210 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 4: No pressure, Jody, Yeah, it. 211 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 6: Is a big decision. 212 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 2: That's definitely something that we didn't jump into overnight. We 213 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 2: had a big think about it for probably almost two years. 214 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 5: Well, that is a big thing for us. 215 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 2: It was a huge decision because our children's education is 216 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 2: probably of, you know, one of the most important things 217 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 2: to us, and obviously if we get it wrong, that's 218 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 2: going to hit a huge impact on their future and 219 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 2: their capacity as you know, even their adulthood and what 220 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 2: their potential income or future might look like down the track. 221 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 3: Was guardful off if you get this wrong, Joe's garred. No, 222 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 3: I'm just kidding, Brie. If you're listening, I'm just kidding. 223 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 3: It's important, but it's not that important, all right. 224 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 4: So we're curious, Joey, what was the actual catalyst, what 225 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 4: made you decide that homeschooling was what you wanted to 226 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 4: do for the family. 227 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 5: Two years of thinking, yeah, I think. 228 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 2: Look, when I started schooling my children about ten going 229 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 2: into eleven years now, it was something that was floating 230 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 2: around in the back of my head, but I kind 231 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 2: of thought, look, I don't really know anything about it. 232 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 2: I have no idea if I have the capacity to 233 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 2: do it. And we had three businesses and three kids 234 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 2: under three, which sort of made it not really a doable, 235 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 2: doable thing for us at that point in our lives. 236 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 5: So it just just pause, just pause. I just want 237 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 5: everyone to hear what you said. Three kids under three 238 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 5: and three businesses, and I know, I know you didn't 239 00:10:58,160 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 5: get bored. 240 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 3: Those businesses that you and your husband have run have 241 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 3: been successful businesses. It's not like you were yeah yeah, 242 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 3: saying that you're running a business because you've just made 243 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 3: up some thing like you were. 244 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 5: Really this was legit, So yeah, beyond your capacity. 245 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Look, I think at that point it would 246 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 2: have been all but impossible for us to jump into 247 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 2: that unless we made some big changes in the way 248 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 2: that I participated in the businesses. And look, you know, 249 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 2: over the ten years that we've had the girls in school, 250 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 2: that was something that we decided was necessary me being 251 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 2: home a bit more than I was, especially with the 252 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 2: travel to Sydney from the Yellawarra and things like that. 253 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 2: So it was important for me to be present for 254 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 2: the girls, and as I started to press into that 255 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 2: a little bit more, I guess that was probably one 256 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 2: of the major decisions. 257 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:49,319 Speaker 6: When we had the whole lockdown period. 258 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 2: It was very obvious to me that the girls really 259 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 2: thrived when we spent more time together, so and also 260 00:11:57,880 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: more time together as a family, like with their SIMP. 261 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 2: They got on even like better than I could have imagined, actually, 262 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 2: even in a really stressful and hard situation with all 263 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 2: the lockdowns and all the things that went with that. 264 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 6: So for me, it was just an observation that. 265 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 2: They thrived in an environment where they work together, learned 266 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 2: from each other, and spent more time together. So I 267 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 2: think that was probably the number one thing that sort 268 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 2: of tipped it to me. 269 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 4: That's awesome. I'm wondering, Jody, obviously you've suggested that you've 270 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 4: thought about this for some time. What were you worried 271 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 4: about You touched on a little bit to the fact 272 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 4: that you weren't sure about your capacity, but were there 273 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 4: other things that you were worried about? 274 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 6: There absolutely was. 275 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 2: I have sort of been waiting for my youngest to 276 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,559 Speaker 2: go into kindergarten so that I can get back into 277 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 2: the business in a full time capacity, and that will 278 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 2: that's actually this year for us, So I and I 279 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 2: was like, look, I don't think that I can do 280 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 2: full time work and full time the. 281 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 3: Things some people will do to get out of work, 282 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:01,199 Speaker 3: That's all I'm saying, because because looking after five kids 283 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 3: at home and home schooling is not work at all. 284 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. So something that was really interesting to me is 285 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 2: that the lockdown schooling was very, very different from what 286 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 2: homeschool looks like for us this year. I wouldn't claim 287 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 2: that I'm an expert in any regard, with very much 288 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 2: newbies only having started at the beginning of this year 289 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 2: formerly after our registration, but it's a very different thing 290 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 2: to school being administered at home by by a department 291 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 2: or buy a teacher. 292 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 6: And can you tell I found that very stressful. Had 293 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 6: an extra. 294 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 2: We had an extra as well, which was my nephew 295 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,319 Speaker 2: in kindergarten living with us at the time, So we 296 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 2: had six children at home on devices and they all 297 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 2: had zoom calls at certain times, and I was like 298 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 2: tech support for six children trying to do something different 299 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 2: and new and quite difficult, and it wasn't that enjoyable. 300 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:55,439 Speaker 6: If I'm completely honest with me. 301 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 2: There were definitely parts of it that I enjoyed, but 302 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 2: that whole approach to their education was not my idea 303 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 2: of the best for them. So what if? 304 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:09,959 Speaker 6: I don't know other parents found. 305 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 2: Home home like school at home difficult, but I certainly 306 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:15,079 Speaker 2: found that that was a lot of challenge to that. 307 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 2: That was definitely a theme that we heard time and 308 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 2: time again throughout the lockdowns and pandemic in general. 309 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 4: I'm wondering, Jodie, what have you what have been the 310 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 4: pros You've obviously just you've done your first term now 311 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 4: and the kids have been at home, they're all learning 312 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 4: with you in your home space. What have been the 313 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 4: positives that you have seen come out of this? 314 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 2: One of the main things was I noticed when I 315 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 2: could actually organize the girl's curriculum so that they were 316 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 2: working on the same subject areas at the same time 317 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 2: wherever possible, it all started to come together and start 318 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 2: working for us as a family. So because a few 319 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 2: of our children are quite close in age, their subject 320 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 2: matter was quite similar. 321 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 6: So I could maybe start one with. 322 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 2: Junior school and one with middle school, and they could 323 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 2: both be doing similar things at the same time and 324 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 2: we could do it together instead of six different kids 325 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 2: doing six different programming all at the same time, which 326 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 2: was just insane. So when I started doing that and 327 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 2: they started really responding to me, personalizing it for them 328 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 2: and having the flexibility to work with each individual personality, 329 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: it really started to work. And that was probably the 330 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 2: biggest thing that was like, oh, okay, we could actually 331 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 2: do this. There was a good two hours in our 332 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 2: day of travel and just sort of multiple drop off 333 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 2: pickup times, so we sort of saved that time. So 334 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 2: it's definitely a lot more flexibility to be able to 335 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 2: extend their curriculum and their after school activities that maybe 336 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 2: we could get to know one per child through the 337 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 2: week before, now we can do several per childs, so 338 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 2: they're really interacting with other kids in different areas and 339 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 2: sort of pursuing things their interest areas with a lot 340 00:15:56,080 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 2: more time and financial capacity too, because they were in 341 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 2: private school. 342 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 6: So you're Richard, be wonderful. 343 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:07,119 Speaker 5: You can afford takeout Richard because. 344 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 6: I get to spend time. 345 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 2: With them so good. 346 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:12,119 Speaker 5: How much time does it take per day to homeschool 347 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 5: five kids? Six kids? 348 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 2: Look, I think that was one of the main things 349 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 2: I thought to myself. I can't do six hours times 350 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 2: five children in one day. 351 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 6: That's not even humanly possible. But for me, it's. 352 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 2: Not quite like that because I've really expanded what it 353 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 2: means to homeschool. So when our children do horse riding 354 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 2: for two hours, that's actually part of their curriculum. We 355 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 2: actually have curriculum based around that. That's a lot of 356 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 2: a lot of different parts of their subject areas get 357 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 2: covered in activities that we wouldn't typically call school. So 358 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 2: for example, they're if they're doing drama classes, if they're 359 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 2: doing art classes, if they're doing crochet online with classes, 360 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 2: or if they're doing science experiments that they participate in 361 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 2: online with groups or classes or co ops that are available. 362 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 2: That's all part of their schooling. But for them fun 363 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 2: and they're really thriving. 364 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 3: I mean, there's a lot of people who say, oh, 365 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 3: but the kids aren't kind of learn as well at 366 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 3: home as they do at school. I know, you're only 367 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 3: just getting started on this, but what have you seen 368 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 3: into and the evidence is mixed on this. There's no 369 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 3: really great evidence, it seems from what I've read, and 370 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 3: I have looked into this a couple of times, it 371 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 3: seems that the research evidence suggests that kids that are 372 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 3: homeschooled tend to do just as well as kids that 373 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 3: go to school on average, But it really depends on 374 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 3: the homeschooling that happens, and it really depends on the 375 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 3: schooling that they experience if they're in traditional schooling. 376 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:29,440 Speaker 5: So what have you found that the kids learning? 377 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:32,160 Speaker 3: Are they keeping up with their peers if you can 378 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 3: even consider that? 379 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think one thing that I noticed right from 380 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 2: the get go was there were holes in their education 381 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 2: that I was aware of because I was sitting with 382 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 2: them and going through certain areas. So maybe one kid 383 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 2: was struggling with algebra, but another kid was having trouble 384 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 2: with this certain times table or whatever it might be. 385 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 2: But we could really press into those areas and give 386 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 2: that more time, and they might have gotten in a 387 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 2: classroom situation where they're moving on with the class. So 388 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 2: I think for me that made me feel more confident 389 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 2: as we went along that I was like, oh, good. 390 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 2: They've gotten this concept that otherwise they would have missed 391 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 2: out on. So I guess everybody would have a different 392 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:14,679 Speaker 2: approach with their homeschooling. But we like to sort of 393 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 2: have a meeting at the beginning of the week outline 394 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 2: which subject areas we're going to work on on which days, 395 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 2: and then the older kids just pissy their own learning 396 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 2: in their own They're very diligent and they really just 397 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 2: sort of get it done earlier in the mornings, and 398 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,920 Speaker 2: sometimes we'll all be done by lunchtime, and often we'll 399 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:33,159 Speaker 2: have activities that we work around, and so they have 400 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 2: to have their learning done by say one o'clock, because 401 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:37,439 Speaker 2: that's when we'll be leaving for whatever it is that 402 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 2: we're off to do. And they're quite diligent to just 403 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 2: get through the work that's been set out for them. 404 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 6: So I guess that's a great class. 405 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 2: We do have some that are less enthusiastic to do 406 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 2: it without encouragement, I'll be honest. 407 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 6: But yeah, it's been it's been a really interesting and 408 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 6: just that it's been a fabulous journey. Actually, I really 409 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 6: have found it a lot easier than I thought I would. 410 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 4: That's amazing. Jodie there's so many questions I've got, and 411 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:04,479 Speaker 4: I know that people would love to hear more of 412 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 4: your story. Maybe we'll be able to have you back 413 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:10,399 Speaker 4: as you go on throughout the journey a little bit further. 414 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 5: Let us know what it's awful as well. 415 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 4: But I'm wondering before before we finish up, I'm wondering 416 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 4: if you could just share maybe one or two bits 417 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:23,479 Speaker 4: of advice that you would give for anyone, including Brie, 418 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:27,680 Speaker 4: who is thinking about jumping in and homeschooling their children. 419 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:28,399 Speaker 6: Sure. 420 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 2: I think one of the things someone said to me 421 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 2: that really hit home was you are the most capable 422 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 2: person to see and understand your children and what they 423 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 2: need in terms of their education. So I guess when 424 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 2: you drop your kids off at school, you may or 425 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 2: may not know what happens in their school day. Often 426 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 2: for my children, they were quite tired by the time 427 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 2: they got home and I'd say, how was school, hadn't 428 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:52,400 Speaker 2: seen them for six seven hours? 429 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:57,400 Speaker 6: They'd say good. So I guess in that regard now 430 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 6: it's very different. 431 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 2: I get to see what they're struggling with, I get 432 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 2: to see what they're succeeding in. I get to encourage 433 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 2: them in ways that they need it, And for me, 434 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 2: being in relationship with my kids is very important and 435 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 2: knowing that they're thriving is very important. And I am 436 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:15,159 Speaker 2: fully aware of whatever areas they need help with and 437 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:19,400 Speaker 2: I can be present for that. So that's really encouraging 438 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 2: to me that I can have a really hands on 439 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 2: approach to their education and I can also I mean, look, 440 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 2: in this day and age, there is so much available 441 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 2: online offline that everything that they could ever want to 442 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:34,919 Speaker 2: learn about, we can learn about. 443 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 6: It's incredible. 444 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 2: So especially for Bree being a school teacher, she obviously 445 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 2: has the capacity to teach and is doing that already. 446 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,679 Speaker 2: And two better to teach on your own children. I mean, 447 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 2: obviously it's very different in a home environment, but yeah, 448 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 2: I think that parents would be surprised once you get 449 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,159 Speaker 2: a good rhythm, and that does take a little bit 450 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 2: of time, how well it comes together with your kids. 451 00:20:58,000 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 5: What a great conversation. 452 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 3: Jody five from the Illawara, who has just taken up 453 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 3: homeschooling with her kids at the start of this year 454 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 3: after seeing how much the kids seem to thrive being 455 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 3: at home during COVID lockdown. 456 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 5: So thanks for joining us, Jody. 457 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,919 Speaker 6: Yeah, most welcome. Thanks for having you chat Kylie. 458 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 3: I think that the solution for us is that we 459 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:19,159 Speaker 3: need to do it as well. I know everything we 460 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,199 Speaker 3: talked about in the first half of the podcast, I 461 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 3: get it, but doesn't it sound great? 462 00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 5: It does. 463 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 4: She definitely makes it sound like it would be achievable. 464 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 3: So here's what I think needs to happen. You and 465 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,399 Speaker 3: Jody have another couple of hours on the phone. We'll 466 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:33,439 Speaker 3: wrap up the podcast now you can talk more about it, 467 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 3: and then we'll fill in the paperwork. 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