WEBVTT - FULL SHOW! How to pronounce "shoo-wa-pee-pee"

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<v Speaker 1>Laura, come on there.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello Wednesday afternoon.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi Laura Burn, Hello Marich, Hello Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you look in that looking pretty? Please say it's

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<v Speaker 2>please you know what you're wearing now?

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<v Speaker 4>If it for those listening now in the car Laura

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<v Speaker 4>is wearing, please say which is that?

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<v Speaker 2>It's like looks like crape paper. It's all folded like

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<v Speaker 2>a Japanese.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of it kind of looks like it could be

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<v Speaker 3>a pajama, like it's a matching set, but it is

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<v Speaker 3>also something that you would wear if you want to

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<v Speaker 3>look like you put an effort, But you've put in

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<v Speaker 3>absolutely no effort.

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<v Speaker 4>At all, all the team behind the scenes which you'd

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<v Speaker 4>given up and now it's good that you've confirmed it.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that pajamas.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want to see the shoes though?

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<v Speaker 2>Hold, I'll show the shoes. Laura's bend. Why do you

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<v Speaker 2>need to bend down.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I've taking them off? What are they? They're not crops.

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<v Speaker 3>They're called lusso cloud but they're like they're like a

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<v Speaker 3>poor man crop.

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<v Speaker 2>Check me, these look like a shoe the karate kid

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<v Speaker 2>would wear.

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<v Speaker 3>Do they they look like something that someone would wear

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<v Speaker 3>at their outside gardening or they don't want to get

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<v Speaker 3>planned to warts. It's a real plan to watch shoe.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh the screams.

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<v Speaker 4>I've just done laps at the local pool and I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want to get tinier, so I'm wearing shoes that

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<v Speaker 4>my grandma gave me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Look, I was speaking to someone about this today

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, now that I'm married, I think

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<v Speaker 3>I've actually given up. Maybe a little bit too prematurely,

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<v Speaker 3>but I've given up online from the waist down.

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<v Speaker 4>Will your careers like on lock. You've got kids, You've

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<v Speaker 4>got a beautiful husband. I think if you can give up,

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<v Speaker 4>now is the time give up?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh thank god. Okay, I'm going to cancel that Polate's class.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going and have a glass of.

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<v Speaker 2>Wine clean in.

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<v Speaker 4>Welcome to Wednesday, Verright next, I've got a quiz for you, Laura.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you quizzing me on? Not fashion?

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<v Speaker 2>No, you've failed.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's it's Plissy's Please please please, please please

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<v Speaker 4>give me, just please please say.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's move on.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm quizzing you on your pronunciation of certain words and

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<v Speaker 4>if this is a great game, if you're listening in

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<v Speaker 4>the car and you kind of want to get that

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<v Speaker 4>mental elasticity rolling for a Wednesday, you're gonna want to

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<v Speaker 4>play along with this quiz with us.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be tough, Laura.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm gonna be fine with this. I'm know

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<v Speaker 3>how to pronounce words.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm educated. What about you?

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<v Speaker 5>I did not.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't seen the deployment that game. Next, I'll go

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<v Speaker 4>to pick up everyone every Wednesday. Now cue the game

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<v Speaker 4>show music.

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<v Speaker 2>Please thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>We are Laura about to quiz you and the nation

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<v Speaker 4>on your pronunciation skill.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I ask why? Like I mean, I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I've had no say over this at all. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what we're doing and for some reason you've come

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<v Speaker 3>up with this.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you learn in radio that you just don't

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<v Speaker 2>ask the why? You just do the do?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I have I have something in store for you

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<v Speaker 3>coming up too. So yeah, this is segment you do

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<v Speaker 3>the do when that happens?

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<v Speaker 2>All right later today?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, you don't know what's going on here.

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<v Speaker 3>I make a fool out of you or concusing for everyone?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? No, no, no, this video is going viral. It's

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<v Speaker 2>all over socials.

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<v Speaker 4>It is a man who's posted a video and he's

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<v Speaker 4>mispronouncing a word that I'd say is pretty commonplace, especially

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<v Speaker 4>in Australia. It's a word that I know you've said, Laura,

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<v Speaker 4>I've said people listening will know this word.

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<v Speaker 3>It's it's always so embarrassing when you accidentally mispronounced a

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<v Speaker 3>word and then you feel really stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's why the game show music is playing, because

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<v Speaker 4>I've turned it into a quiz. I've got a bunch

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<v Speaker 4>of mispronunciations. It is your job to tell me what

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<v Speaker 4>they're trying to say. Okay, okay, So this is the first,

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<v Speaker 4>the first video that's going viral. Tell me if you

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<v Speaker 4>noticed the mispronunciation.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally don't know how to pronounce this word.

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<v Speaker 3>But Pepsi coach Is officially recalled their sugar free sugar

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<v Speaker 3>pepis ginger rail pippies.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, they've re called their sugar free Sure were pepis? Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>What played again?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure were pepies swepes?

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<v Speaker 5>Sure?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I mean I wasn't. It's very wrong, But I

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<v Speaker 3>think in context of Pepsi co I was like, who's

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<v Speaker 3>a shoewell peepee?

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<v Speaker 2>Totally sere pepe sweps. It's an Australian brand, isn't it sweps?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe he's got confused who knows so correct one point,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, the next mispronunciation Laura. Okay, this is a

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<v Speaker 4>woman who's posted a cooking video to TikTok, a recipe

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<v Speaker 4>she's enjoyed. So try and and understand and tell me

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<v Speaker 4>what words she's saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Here yon keys go again, yon keys yo key. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I've officially found one of my new favorite meals. This

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<v Speaker 2>is a creamy lemon chicken with yonkees. Correct. She's trying

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<v Speaker 2>to say, knock you well done, Lauren.

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<v Speaker 3>I can speak idiot, is what I'm getting from this.

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<v Speaker 2>One's tough.

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<v Speaker 4>It's enough food related video. This guy posted this to

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<v Speaker 4>his social media. What is he trying to say?

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<v Speaker 2>Here's okay?

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<v Speaker 3>What what say it again?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? Zych I would you like the full video? Perhaps?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I mean a bit more context to the cooking.

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<v Speaker 2>It is so delicious with tika.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what you say?

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<v Speaker 2>Even?

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<v Speaker 3>I was like nervous and is it thatske? I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's tatsky tatsy key. That's okay, whatever. Now I think

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<v Speaker 3>I brought a public service to the world. I taught

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<v Speaker 3>for so many mums out there. You know, you have

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<v Speaker 3>these horrible situations where your kids get things stuck up

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<v Speaker 3>their nose because kids, it's what they do. Maybe it's

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<v Speaker 3>a piece of lego, maybe it's a button, maybe it's

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<v Speaker 3>some peas.

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<v Speaker 4>It's frightening, and it's a new mum. I could imagine.

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<v Speaker 4>Not everyone knows what to do in that situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely terrifying. And I experienced it myself. You know, Lola,

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<v Speaker 3>my little girl, she's got a button stuck up her nose.

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<v Speaker 3>And I learn a technique which I wanted to bring

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<v Speaker 3>here to the radio station, and I wanted to show

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<v Speaker 3>Mitch how if he was ever in a point of distress,

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<v Speaker 3>if he ever had something out, if it stuck up

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<v Speaker 3>his nose, this would help him. There's no babies at

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<v Speaker 3>the radio station, though, that's the problem. But I did

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<v Speaker 3>have to try the technique on Mitch. Have a listen

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<v Speaker 3>to this. You block the other nostril, not the nostril

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<v Speaker 3>that has the thing in it, but block the opposite nostril,

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<v Speaker 3>so then your kid will have their mouth open, and

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<v Speaker 3>then you put your mouth over the.

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<v Speaker 2>Do it.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't get a sealed. I have made out with

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<v Speaker 3>Mitch Dury. He is alive and that was beautiful. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>so that happened. I've been thinking about this a lot

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<v Speaker 3>over the last couple of days, because I you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we want to do good in the world. We want

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<v Speaker 3>to leave the world a better place than where we

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<v Speaker 3>found them, And there are so many hacks and techniques

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<v Speaker 3>that will make people better parents.

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<v Speaker 2>I know exactly where you're going.

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<v Speaker 3>One thing, one thing I really struggled with with Lola

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<v Speaker 3>was that she had she had wind. And you know,

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<v Speaker 3>if you've got a baby that's got colic, they're up

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<v Speaker 3>all night, they're crying. It takes so much to try

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<v Speaker 3>and settle them. And so I discovered a new hack

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<v Speaker 3>which I wish I had known when Lola was little.

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<v Speaker 3>It would have it would have saved me so many

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<v Speaker 3>sleepless nights. And so I think, Mitch, knowing that you

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<v Speaker 3>are the gassy boy that you are, that we should

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<v Speaker 3>try it on you teach everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm okay, no you're not.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been in a small, confined room with you very often,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've I've witnessed it myself. What do you mean

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<v Speaker 3>do you get sore pains in your belly because you're

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<v Speaker 3>just so so so gassy.

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<v Speaker 2>To do something?

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<v Speaker 3>It'll call it a little bit back dark.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I go to go and go to get a

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<v Speaker 2>fight out and I go, that's more than a fight.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I don't know if we should go through with this.

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<v Speaker 2>Now? What is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, look, I'm going to demonstrate on you it's really important. No,

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<v Speaker 3>you're not I am, You're my test stummy, You're my

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<v Speaker 3>guinea pa. The nation needs this.

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<v Speaker 2>This works once. This isn't MythBusters.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm I'm creating a segment out of this. We're going

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<v Speaker 3>to do it every week. Well, I'm also a host

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<v Speaker 3>on the show, and I need to be across these.

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<v Speaker 3>Just lay down here, come on on the table.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't look at a pediatrician.

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<v Speaker 3>And also put on like your baby, go google Gaga

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<v Speaker 3>for me. Wait, wait, cry about your colleag.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait how does it work? What's the tactic?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm going to cycle you to help you relieve gas.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, this is technique which you do on little

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<v Speaker 3>kids like for you know, and it helps them because

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<v Speaker 3>the kids have their digestive systems move a bit more

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<v Speaker 3>freely than adults. And if you do this, it's very

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<v Speaker 3>specific technique which I'm going to talk you all through.

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<v Speaker 3>It'll help with your kid's colic if you're a parent.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm going to get on the desk.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I don't know how going to quite do this,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm worried about the aftermath, but we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to try.

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<v Speaker 4>Say with us, everyone, please hold on hands and knees.

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<v Speaker 3>No, lay on your back. You don't get on your

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<v Speaker 3>hands and knees.

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<v Speaker 2>Is my is my end at your front? My front

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<v Speaker 2>at your end?

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<v Speaker 3>Your end is facing me. I'm in the danger zone. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>Mitch is currently getting on the desk. You're really making

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<v Speaker 3>a show of this though, you're making now, you're making

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<v Speaker 3>this seem a lot harder than what it really is.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my, okay, now he's just get your foot off

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<v Speaker 3>my microphone. Okay, so get your child so I just walked.

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<v Speaker 3>Get your child to lay down on their back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>they've got a sore little Tommy, Tom Tom. And then

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna grab their legs. Al on.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, you've got to give me consent, man.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I do you consent to me touching your feet?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, thank you? All right, And then you've got to

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<v Speaker 3>first off, I call their legs round like they're riding

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<v Speaker 3>a little bike. Make sure that you push all the

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<v Speaker 3>way up into the diaphragm.

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<v Speaker 2>And then, oh my god, how.

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<v Speaker 3>Are we feeling you're feeling loosening up.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the blood's rushing from my skull.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, then you have to get both feet, put the

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<v Speaker 3>feet together, and then started these Actually we're both in

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<v Speaker 3>it at the same time.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, ye, any movement I feel like something's coming.

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<v Speaker 3>Please point and then once you've done a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>more cycling, just give it one fine or pushed down

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<v Speaker 3>onto the diaphragm.

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<v Speaker 2>It worked, it work.

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<v Speaker 5>You did not?

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<v Speaker 3>It works?

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<v Speaker 2>That wasn't as far at me?

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<v Speaker 3>Well you you just cycled it out of me.

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<v Speaker 4>You got gaslight me into fighting and it laugh at me.

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<v Speaker 3>It's discussing.

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<v Speaker 2>Did I just do that? We can't. We have to

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<v Speaker 2>go to the ads. I'm normally control the buttons. Go

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<v Speaker 2>the ads. I'm embarrassed, bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>You're pretty fresh in a relationship. You guys have been

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<v Speaker 3>dating for a little bit now, but you have been

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<v Speaker 3>in a long term relationship. And I am curious. When

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<v Speaker 3>it is a same sex couple, how do you decide

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<v Speaker 3>if you ever are to get engaged one day and

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<v Speaker 3>ever to get married, how do you decide who takes

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<v Speaker 3>which name?

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<v Speaker 4>My God's the whole proposals confusing the name taking is confusing.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to discuss it first. You're like, yeah, well.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yeah, in both my relationships has been discussed, and

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's very personal.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think it does come down to I.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't know, it's a very heterosexual thing to the man

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<v Speaker 4>often gets his way and his name is carried on

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<v Speaker 4>and the women have to forego their maiden name.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I because I kept my last name. So I

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<v Speaker 3>got married to matt my husband a year and a half.

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<v Speaker 3>His surname is Johnson, Maddie j Mattie Johnson. So we

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<v Speaker 3>originally when he first proposed to me, he will fight

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<v Speaker 3>this to the death. He'll say he never said this.

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<v Speaker 3>When we first got engaged, he said how much it

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<v Speaker 3>would have been to him if I was to take

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<v Speaker 3>his name, and how he would find it a bit

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<v Speaker 3>weird if I didn't. And now as times progressed, and

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<v Speaker 3>every time I remind me of that, he's like, I

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<v Speaker 3>never said that, that never happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Barrass bless him.

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<v Speaker 3>But it doesn't sound like that either.

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<v Speaker 2>Just no, he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Not not to mock him on men, but for a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of men, I mean, it's it's drilled into them, right,

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<v Speaker 4>like their last name is a big part of their identity,

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<v Speaker 4>and a lot of men it's very important to them.

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<v Speaker 3>Well also, yeah, and I think for a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>people it comes down to this idea of having a

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<v Speaker 3>family unit where everyone has the same name. But I

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<v Speaker 3>grew up in a family where there was lots of divorce.

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<v Speaker 3>My mum has a different last name to me, My

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<v Speaker 3>brother has a different last name to me, So it

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<v Speaker 3>didn't seem quite as imperative from like a family unit perspective,

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<v Speaker 3>but still, Laura Burn, I'm Laura Burn and the kids

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<v Speaker 3>are the Johnsons. So my kids they've got a different

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<v Speaker 3>last name to me. But we were talking about this recently.

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<v Speaker 3>The discussion we were having is that if we have

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<v Speaker 3>a third what would we name the.

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<v Speaker 2>Third and can't add a third surname, or.

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<v Speaker 3>Do we just give the middle name and make the

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<v Speaker 3>middle name burn or make If it's a boy, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>we can call the kid burn.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't mate Burne Johnson. They're going to be Arsonists

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<v Speaker 2>or Burne Johnson.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds like it's like they need a cream for that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's something you need a cream.

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<v Speaker 2>The most heavily before you Burne Johnson.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I came across these I came across an Instagram

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<v Speaker 3>reel which really got me thinking. I think if you

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<v Speaker 3>are in a relationship, if you're getting engaged and you're

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<v Speaker 3>not sure whose last name you should take, I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's okay to buck the trend and maybe we should

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<v Speaker 3>be taking this advice. How to listen to this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, one of the most common questions that I get

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<v Speaker 1>when people find out that I'm a woman who's married

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<v Speaker 1>to a woman is how did you guys decide whose

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<v Speaker 1>last name you were going to choose? And we did

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<v Speaker 1>something that I think every couple should do straight or not,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is pick the coolest last name. When I

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<v Speaker 1>met my wife, her last name was white. You wanted

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<v Speaker 1>us to be the white we already are. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to reiterate that my last name is Belairs like

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<v Speaker 1>the fresh Prince off. And some of you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>giving up your last name to marry into a Smith.

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<v Speaker 3>You're giving up your cool last name to be a Johnson,

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<v Speaker 3>and your.

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<v Speaker 5>Father's not even getting a goat, Like, I just feel

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<v Speaker 5>like it's twenty twenty four unless your dad's getting a

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<v Speaker 5>goat in exchange for the marriage, or you're marrying into

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<v Speaker 5>some sort of royal and it's got some generational wealth

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<v Speaker 5>like Kardashian attached to it. We should probably always be

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<v Speaker 5>picking the cooler last name.

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<v Speaker 2>That was straight at the end when he was a

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<v Speaker 2>Johnson nake, Oh Johnson.

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<v Speaker 3>I sent it to madd and he said, this is

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<v Speaker 3>not actually that fight thirteen.

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<v Speaker 4>If you're currently going through this situation, maybe we can

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<v Speaker 4>help you and advise you as to maybe whose name

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<v Speaker 4>you should take. But you're so right, Laurie. It feels

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<v Speaker 4>like a real straight issue, like with the gays. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>we'll have a discussion. Our producer Grace just got married.

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<v Speaker 2>Grace.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't know yet. Are you going to do the

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<v Speaker 3>coolest name? Well, we thought about that, but I'm very

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<v Speaker 3>attached to my name. I think Grace Guard is a

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<v Speaker 3>powerful name. What's Diana's last name? How cool? Also cool?

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<v Speaker 3>But God is better single syllabink But Diana Gard just

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't make sense for.

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<v Speaker 2>Diana Dinah Guard sounds like dinosaur. Grace like dinosaur Dinah

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<v Speaker 2>Guard like Diana.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, let's help the nation out. Let's get some

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<v Speaker 3>people on here who are in the.

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<v Speaker 4>You make it out like we're doing God's work helping

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<v Speaker 4>the nation.

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<v Speaker 2>They're not mother to people don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's very it's a very hard thing to navigate.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, Vivian, it's called on thirteen one six five. What's

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<v Speaker 4>going on with you? You're getting married? Are you're torn

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<v Speaker 4>with the name taking situation?

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<v Speaker 6>So I got married. We got married last years and

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<v Speaker 6>then so we both kept our own last name, and

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<v Speaker 6>there was a bit to it. We had a conversation

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<v Speaker 6>about it, and it was an easy conversation anyway. I said,

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<v Speaker 6>I wanted to keep my last name because my my

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<v Speaker 6>dad's always asked me to keep the family's last name.

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<v Speaker 3>As long as I can remember no brothers.

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<v Speaker 6>Then no, it's not so much about a passing the

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<v Speaker 6>last name on. He just wanted to keep like a

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<v Speaker 6>part of family.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I ask what it is? Is it a cool last name?

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<v Speaker 6>I have an ethnic last name, so's twins, and then

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<v Speaker 6>my husband is Caucasian Australian. So you're the Johnson?

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<v Speaker 3>He said Johnson. See every Johnson who is listening to

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<v Speaker 3>this is feeling personally victimized.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so funny.

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<v Speaker 4>In a row threena row that lady on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't want I don't want the paperwork. Were

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<v Speaker 3>you the same? I'm like the paperwork of changing your

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<v Speaker 3>name just seems like it's so arduous.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, that as well.

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<v Speaker 6>But speaking of paperwork, I'm a dentist, so my last

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<v Speaker 6>name is on my graduations. Oh, yes, me as doctor

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<v Speaker 6>when no one I.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't want to jumps in my mouth, Actually no I do.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey Amy on thirteen one O six five, Hello, what's

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<v Speaker 4>going on with your situation?

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<v Speaker 3>Amy?

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<v Speaker 7>Hello, we're engaged. But it's like, do I change my

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<v Speaker 7>name to his name so it's the same as our daughters,

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<v Speaker 7>or do I keep mine? Because I think it flows?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what's your last name?

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<v Speaker 7>Turner?

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<v Speaker 3>And what's his last name? Luro? Amy? Luro Turner.

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<v Speaker 2>Now Amyl is a good name. Lewis sounds like a magician.

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<v Speaker 2>That would get.

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<v Speaker 3>Sound bad, does it? They're both good names.

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<v Speaker 2>It depends on what you do for work. Amy, she's

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<v Speaker 2>a magician.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean yeah, yeah, yes, that's what I'm going into events.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, Amy Luro events. That's brilliant. Although Amy Turner events

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<v Speaker 4>will turn those events around.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I like the fun. Also, Amy Turner just sounds more reliable.

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<v Speaker 3>Amy Turner's gonna get the job done.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, Amy Turner would fix my sink in ten minutes,

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<v Speaker 4>and I pay a full rates plus GST.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm all for I know it's controversial and still people

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<v Speaker 3>feel differently about it, but I'm all for keeping your

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<v Speaker 3>last name. I think it doesn't make you any less

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<v Speaker 3>committed to your family. It makes you no less committed

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<v Speaker 3>to your relationship. I'm sure there's plenty of men out

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<v Speaker 3>there who are going to be like, I'll turn this

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<v Speaker 3>wench off the radio, But I honestly, I just think

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<v Speaker 3>it's It's okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey men, women can be powerful. I have access to

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<v Speaker 4>Laura's combank, and women can be powerful