1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: Matthew, Yes, when your girls were a lot small. 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 2: Now, now, did you have any funky sleeping techniques? 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: We did one thing with Marley, only Mary, not Lola. 4 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 3: But when she would go to sleep, the way that 5 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 3: we would get her to sleep would be us rocking 6 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 3: her in our arms. We would then transition her while 7 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 3: she was asleep in our arms into her bed, her 8 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 3: cot and as you know, when you take your hands away, 9 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 3: they wake up, see you, then rock again. 10 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: So every sleep took at least forty five minutes, the 11 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 1: dreaded transition. What did you do? We had the butt pat, 12 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 1: of course. 13 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 2: And we speak about it in this episode with Whipper 14 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 2: and matt You know Whipper from. 15 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 3: Where Nova back in the day used to work with them, 16 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 3: did you, well? 17 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 1: Not really, I had a Saturday morning radio show. He 18 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: had a real radio. 19 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 2: You would know him from Fitzy Whipper and Kate Ritchie 20 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 2: in the mornings. 21 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 3: Yes, and he talks about a really strange type of 22 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 3: technique that he is with his daughter Francesca back when 23 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 3: he was trying to get hurt asleep. 24 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 2: Mister Whip is married to wife Lisa and they have 25 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: three kids, Ted, Jack and Francesca. 26 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:12,839 Speaker 1: Oh what did you call it Frankie, Friend Friend Frankie. 27 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: We tried. 28 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 2: We cover a bit about sleep in this chat, and 29 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 2: we also hear how Whipper tackles those random existential questions 30 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: that young kids tend. 31 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: To ask, like what is God? There was a condom 32 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 1: question in there too, wasn't there. 33 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 3: In sex as well? All the good stuff anyway, I 34 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 3: hope you enjoy it. 35 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 4: Let's get into it. 36 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: Welcome back to three doting dads. I'm so sorry. Good 37 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: I am Maddie, Jay, I'm Ash and I'm Michael John 38 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: Whipley from the Whippley Family. 39 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: Tell that you've done X amount of years of a 40 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 2: lot of flying time on the Best. 41 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 3: This is a podcast all about parenting. It is the good, 42 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 3: it is the bad and related. 43 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: I only said you were London. 44 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 3: We apologize, mister Whipper. We do not give any advice 45 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 3: on this podcast. But I can only assume that today's 46 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 3: episode is going to be a drenching of knowledge and 47 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 3: ash Ni are ready for it, sure. 48 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: That he can. I bring something up quickly. 49 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 5: I was really keen to get one of some of 50 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 5: your merch not the calendar we were talking about earlier. 51 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:42,399 Speaker 1: But there must be nice because I just I've got 52 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:45,239 Speaker 1: to mate by the name of Hamish Blake. Oh yeah, 53 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: we've got We've got five. You didn't honestly, it must 54 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: be nicer, did it? 55 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 5: I mean it's fine. I mean it's the podcast world 56 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 5: and the entertainment world is a friendly area, is it? 57 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: So? 58 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,920 Speaker 5: What about just thinking if we put a French flag 59 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 5: on it and it was just must. 60 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: Be niece and you could sell them internationally? 61 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 5: Right, so sort a rep shared deal with some tourism stand. 62 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 1: Where are we must be niece? That is gold? I 63 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: don't know, We're very good. What do you think? People 64 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: have responded very positive? One review we go Hamish? Is 65 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: that aymous? 66 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 3: It's anonymous? Hey, no, one's perfect. Definitely not us. 67 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: No, they're not anyway back to the drawing, Sorry, where 68 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: were parents? 69 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 3: Don't we do a bit of a how you say, 70 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 3: like psycho analysis on the guests? We always try ash 71 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 3: and I talk about what was the guest like when 72 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 3: they were younger? 73 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: Do you think? 74 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:06,839 Speaker 3: And we feel like we figured you out and tell 75 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 3: us if we're way off the mark here off, we're 76 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 3: flying pretty close to home. I feel like as a youngster, 77 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 3: you were somebody who was everyone's best friend. I feel 78 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 3: like the students would have loved you, the teachers would 79 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:20,239 Speaker 3: have hated you. Would have had a few favorite teachers, 80 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 3: but you would have been the disruptor. 81 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: Class clown is. 82 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 5: I would say everyone's friend. Yeah, I was that kind 83 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:34,160 Speaker 5: of guy, that kind of guy, very arrogant. You said 84 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 5: it first. 85 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 1: I could have just given a thumbs up for the podcast. 86 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: You're on the right train. You can hear the thumb But. 87 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 5: Then no, goody two shoes, not class clown, but was 88 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:47,359 Speaker 5: very much. 89 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 1: Now you do that, now you do that, encourage. I 90 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:55,840 Speaker 1: was the backing to make sure that the real class 91 00:04:55,880 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 1: clown could do it. Job puppet masters you will. I 92 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:01,599 Speaker 1: did very quick to do it. 93 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 5: It was him that is disgusting behavior. 94 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: Kick him out. 95 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 5: So yeah, I would swap very quickly from supporting role. 96 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: How did you figure that out? Was did something happen? No? 97 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 5: I just didn't want to get in trouble. My dad 98 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 5: was very strict with things like that, and when he 99 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 5: would say to you, you're better than that, that's when 100 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 5: you knew not to behave badly. So like a spitball 101 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 5: from the back of the classroom onto a TV would 102 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 5: have been outrageous behavior for me. 103 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: So that's where I hadn't made it. Eglinn, I would 104 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: do a lot of Eddie. I've got a great idea 105 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 1: for today. Yeah. 106 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 5: I even talked to England into wed like an assembly 107 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 5: hall that had a fire extinguisher up the back. I 108 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 5: even talked him into putting a rubber between the handle, right, 109 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 5: rubber like an eraser, putting in between the handle that 110 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 5: you squeeze down. 111 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: On a firing extinguished, and then putting fishing line around 112 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: the rubber, which ran down the side of the wall 113 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: all and then nailed across you know those hoop nails, 114 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: so he could stand outside assembly and pull the rubber, 115 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: which sprayed the fire hydrant. And once again it was him. 116 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: I mean I bought them to school. 117 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 5: I gave him all the parts to make the bomb 118 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 5: the silent, and then sat there and enjoyed the spray 119 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 5: until until she too. What sir, If I knew anything 120 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 5: about that, I would have stopped that guy. 121 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 6: He now he's imprison He lacked away, he's doing nine. 122 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:43,039 Speaker 1: Even the color red's bad for him. 123 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 3: Did you ever have in your report cards wish he 124 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 3: would apply himself NonStop? 125 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: Did you pick that as well? Yeah? Psycho analysis, Yeah, yeah, 126 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: mine's the same they pulled me into class. I mean 127 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: I got yet twelve. 128 00:06:56,720 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 5: I got sixteen point six rounded up to seventeen out 129 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,280 Speaker 5: of one hundred on all of it. 130 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, which was what was I'm a Queensland so 131 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 1: we had is it like golf in the lower the 132 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: school about? Unfortunately not? She can't flip it on its head. Essentially, 133 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 1: you got seventeen percent. Yeah, brains, So what's so funny 134 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: seventeen jumping in? What's so funny about it's just a 135 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: little bit lower? Yeah? I expected as well. Did that 136 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: surprise you at all? No? 137 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 5: I didn't do anything at a great time at school, 138 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 5: but never applied myself academically. It just wasn't my thing. 139 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 5: But I remember they had there was sort of two 140 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 5: rankings in year twelve to join a hierarchy, so you 141 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 5: could become a school officer, and there was maybe I 142 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 5: don't know eighty school officers. 143 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: Is that like a prefect? 144 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 5: Well, the prefect was a graduation from the school officer, 145 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 5: and I would say there was probably twenty. And they 146 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 5: called a meeting and I was in the meeting with 147 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 5: mum and dad and the head of year twelve, and 148 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 5: they said, we really like Michael, and I said escape 149 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 5: really well, I'm flying here, guys both streaming him, and 150 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 5: it's terrific that he is a school officer. We'd love 151 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 5: to make him a prefect, but he just doesn't. He 152 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 5: doesn't do anything. Why don't you do anything? 153 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: Just the presence was the energy guy, I was like 154 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: a personality, higher personality, the energy, the moods high. Did 155 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: you want to be prefect? Did you want that? 156 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 5: About if I had to work? But I don't think so, 157 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 5: But I sort of, I don't know. There was a 158 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 5: moment where I thought you ignorant fools for thinking that 159 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 5: the academic assessment equaled prefect when as a school officer. 160 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 2: Highly ranged, Yeah, popularity, contest, house captain. 161 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: You knew that too. 162 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 2: A sports house captain, no, just house captain, house captain. 163 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 1: Overall, so not sports house, Well, sport was under house. 164 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: You're over yeah, sort of the. 165 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 3: Lordship and that's where you so when you directed the 166 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 3: orders as house captain, people would have to just follow 167 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 3: with our question. 168 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: Yes, without question. 169 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 5: So I've always been in a very very powerful position 170 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:11,559 Speaker 5: throughout my life. 171 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 1: How do you think the podcast is going? At what 172 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: point did you think I think I'm going to work 173 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: in media. I always thought it would be fun. I mean, 174 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 1: I remember doing I don't know, I sort of I 175 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: played in I played in a little band for a while. 176 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: The cover band was a little platinum. Yeah, platinum, Platinum, Yeah, Platinum. 177 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 1: Performed probably once or twice ever. Yeah, So it was 178 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: really weird, chicked down venues. We picked our times. 179 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 5: It didn't take off, but we used to play guitar 180 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 5: at a few twenty firsts. And around that time too, 181 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 5: Andy Lee had a band with his brother and he 182 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 5: was doing twenty first as well, And then we had 183 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 5: so many parties going on. We'd be emceeing or giving 184 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 5: speeches and Andy would be there with his guitar doing 185 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 5: this thing with his brother. They're do an acoustic set, 186 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 5: probably not as advanced as Platinum, but that's kind of 187 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 5: how I think. I don't know, the entertainment started. 188 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: You've got the taste for it. 189 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, what's your dad's opinion of how this is unfolding? 190 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 3: Knowing that you've got the sixteen point six. Yeah, you're 191 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,599 Speaker 3: now a musician, which is a tough. 192 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: Industry, playing at lots of clubs. He dad's different to me. 193 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 5: He's quite a straight guy, but he'll always say he'll 194 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 5: make you know what he does, he delivers sort of 195 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:29,959 Speaker 5: it's a loaded compliment. 196 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:33,559 Speaker 1: So he'll say I had the show the other day. 197 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 5: Like, oh yeah, what'd you think? And he goes, well, 198 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 5: I suppose you need to ask yourself the question what 199 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:42,679 Speaker 5: do you want to be known for? That was so 200 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 5: he'll say that, he'll go between the lines, oh yeah, 201 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 5: oh no, because he'll call me Mikey, Mikey, and what 202 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 5: have I done here? 203 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: And then he'll make his comment. 204 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:55,319 Speaker 5: Then he'll go but I know nothing about the game, 205 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 5: but I know nothing about the industry and the tracks. 206 00:10:58,240 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 1: Was he trying to steer you in a different direction? 207 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 2: No? 208 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 5: He was always supportive of whatever I wanted to do. 209 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 5: So when I left school, I went and did a 210 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 5: TAFE course in building management. 211 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 1: So I could. 212 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 5: He looked like a foreman, more hands on them, the tools. 213 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 5: But so I did that for a while and then 214 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 5: like project management, worked on site for a while and 215 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 5: then but always wanted to get into radio. 216 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 1: Did a short course. That's what I did. Did your 217 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: dad approve of Lisa? Then? I issue, ah, yes he did, 218 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: still does, which is great news. How is that initial meeting? 219 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: I think it was good. I don't think it was 220 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: a nervous time. 221 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 5: I just remember when i'd met her and I realized 222 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 5: I met somebody very special, and being in the car 223 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 5: with Dad, wanted to tell him now he don't know 224 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 5: how to approach those conversations, whatever it might be. 225 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: Sports. I remember sitting down, I completely forgot about this. 226 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: Oh here we go. I was telling Mom and Dad 227 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 1: that I was going to propose to her, and. 228 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 5: Then I said, do you know what, guys, at least 229 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 5: and I going away in June, and I'm. 230 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 1: Going to propose to her. But Dad must have missed 231 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: something because he goes proposed to who? I mean, what 232 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: do you mean? Who? 233 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 5: I've just done my whole spiel about how much she 234 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 5: means to me and how exciting it is. 235 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 1: How long have you guys been again? Year? Eighteen months? 236 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 1: You still saying? 237 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 5: And I was like emotional, and I said to I 238 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 5: think Mom started to tear up. 239 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 1: Dad was still trying to put the pieces. He misread 240 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: the whole. When you're excited to share something with someone 241 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 1: so close, you know you're waiting for that moment. 242 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 5: Oh my god, Dad will remember the moment I said 243 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 5: that I'd found my life. 244 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: But who oh John, please keep up. 245 00:12:58,160 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 3: That was a battle, but he gave it when he 246 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 3: realized who it was. Two thumbs are he's on board. 247 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was always on board. 248 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 5: And then what I did was I wanted to do 249 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 5: the traditional thing of asking Lisa's parents, Deborah and David, 250 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 5: if I had their permission to marry their daughter. But 251 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 5: they lived on the Goldie So I said to Lisa, 252 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 5: you know what, I need a new suit. So I'm 253 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 5: going to go into the city and I'm going to. 254 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: Look for a suit all day long. You know, I'm 255 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 1: going to spend eight hours looking at them. I hate 256 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 1: trying to straight to the airport, got on the fly. 257 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: I had them for lunch. What came back. I couldn't 258 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:43,720 Speaker 1: ring them. I didn't want to do that. I wanted 259 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 1: to sit down and eyeball them. 260 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 5: I wanted to, But when you wanted their reaction from 261 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 5: when you organized lunch, they know what you're flying in? 262 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:55,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, I don't. Just I just wanted to 263 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: talk about a future finance. What do you think about 264 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 1: the state of politics? Let me fly up to the 265 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 1: Gold Coast of talk you through. Yeah. They were they've 266 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 1: like nicely dressed and it was wonderful. 267 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 5: We had a great lunch, and then I got home, 268 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 5: got back on them playing, got home and least it 269 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 5: was like, where's the suit. By that stage, I'd forgotten 270 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 5: about the suit story because I was so you know, 271 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 5: swept up. 272 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 1: And in the moment of you know, the meeting we 273 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: just had. And then I said, oh, yeah, found the tailor. 274 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 5: It's getting measured and stuff. They're like alterations. I'll pick 275 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 5: it up next week. 276 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: So I then had to go and buy a suit 277 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 1: after that, And now you have a nice suit and 278 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: wife and she still loves me. 279 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 3: Do you remember when you and Lisa started having the 280 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 3: conversation about starting a family? 281 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, I remember. You never know, you never know 282 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 5: how long it'll take. I suppose you go through those times, 283 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 5: but you're also kind of deciding the level of commitment 284 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 5: you want to make to making the baby. 285 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: How do you mean, well, do. 286 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 5: We just get it on, you know, randomly in the 287 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 5: routine and we're already in like, oh my god, it's 288 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 5: Chuesday and art and there's nothing on TV, you know, 289 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 5: or do we want to go Okay, well, let's find 290 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 5: out when you're ovulating and then we'll try and strike when. 291 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: The iron's hot more. Do you do that theory of 292 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 1: thirty days by bank can't miss? I would ruin. 293 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 5: Well that's what I was, that it could ruin. So yes, 294 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 5: I remember having that conversation. I think we just kind 295 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 5: of randomly cruised through it for a while until we 296 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 5: got the ovulation thing that you spit on on. 297 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 1: We've never done that. 298 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 5: You put it on the tongue, and it says if 299 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 5: maybe she wheezed on it, it would make more sense 300 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 5: to we. 301 00:15:57,680 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 1: On it does? It does? 302 00:15:59,680 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 2: Hang on? 303 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 5: Sorry, The tongue was the drug test that was different 304 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 5: when right now, I'm sure you can do it with saliva. 305 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 5: I think either way, it'll tell you where the ovulation 306 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 5: period is, and then you get in and fight for 307 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 5: your life, you know, let's wrestle. But we were lucky 308 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 5: enough that it worked quite easily, I think until two months, 309 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 5: and you hear some really challenging stories. So I remember 310 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 5: thinking that's fantastic. Then Ted was born, and then surprise, surprise, 311 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 5: wonderful news seven months. 312 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: Later, a whole birth of Ted. Shit, she was pregnant again. 313 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 1: Well yeah, and I was the father, so we got 314 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 1: we found some consistency there. But Jack was a wonderful 315 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 1: surprise to us, but you know, we couldn't have wished 316 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: for anything more. And then we were lucky enough to 317 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 1: strategically think, will we go again in the hope of 318 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: getting a little girl? And we did? Was the plan 319 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 1: always for three? Was that always on the card? Yeah? 320 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 1: I think so. If we could have a third, we 321 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 1: would go for it. And we did. 322 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 5: We did, which was fantastic, and Francesca came along quickly. 323 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:16,200 Speaker 5: Too personal, But yes, there are different techniques to get 324 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 5: the girl to the. 325 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 3: Boy, Jack and THEO. Did you find out at birth 326 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:21,160 Speaker 3: the sex? 327 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: Did you do a reveal? How did it happen with 328 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 1: your first two? Ted? We didn't find out. I don't 329 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 1: hate people do that, but my god, I was so excited. 330 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 5: H just a big plum like bull bag. 331 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:41,640 Speaker 1: I'm thinking, man, that's the best set of plums ever. 332 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:48,360 Speaker 1: Did wild swingers you know? 333 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 5: Were they like long or they hopefully listens back? 334 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 3: Did you say anything to those in the room midwife? 335 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 3: He's beautiful, But yeah, I think every parent gets quite 336 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 3: a shock at the look of the the Genitalia. 337 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 2: I got a shock just looking at the at him, 338 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 2: at my because my eldest is a boy too, and 339 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 2: he popped him out. 340 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 1: He was screaming. I was like he was, and that 341 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,439 Speaker 1: was the fathering instinct straight away. You got to protest. 342 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 1: It's a one way it's a one way ash. 343 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 5: But then I found out with Jack that it was 344 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 5: going to be a boy, just from a planning point 345 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 5: of view, and then with Francesca it was taken out 346 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 5: of my hands and fits he very generously. 347 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:34,360 Speaker 1: Gender reveal. 348 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 3: I absolutely love gender reveal. You did you have any 349 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 3: input at all in the concertle. 350 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: No, he was kind enough to organize. It's so nice 351 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 1: to him. Do you know what we did? We did 352 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 1: a gender reveal cake for Jack. 353 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,959 Speaker 5: Forgot about that, so Lisa's mum cut the cake on 354 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 5: her birthday. We found out it was going to be 355 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 5: a boy. That's how we knew about it. 356 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 1: Appropriate. 357 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:58,399 Speaker 5: So in my mind, gender reveal was done like we 358 00:18:58,440 --> 00:18:59,680 Speaker 5: didn't have to do a gender reveal. 359 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 1: Enter Ryan James Fitzgerald. Oh mate, I've got the best plan. 360 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,920 Speaker 1: Or you're gonna love it, mane, you're gonna love it? 361 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 1: Is it very mean? Is something I'd really like? Because yeah, yeah, yeah, 362 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 1: we're going to Easton Creek Speedway. You are there quite often. 363 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:16,199 Speaker 5: That's the thing I would have loved some on this 364 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 5: podcast earlier, but you know I'm always doing Yeah. 365 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 1: I get. 366 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:30,639 Speaker 5: So he organized a gender burnout, which and the kids 367 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 5: were there. So FITZI was in the back of some 368 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,159 Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't know anything about cars. 369 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:42,920 Speaker 2: Let's say it was a holding commodore, ill a commodore. 370 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:45,199 Speaker 5: It was Commodore, and I don't know what model it 371 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 5: was for something, but the tires were perfect. It was 372 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:51,639 Speaker 5: ready to go. All we had to do was stand 373 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 5: there and wait to see if the smoke from the rubber. 374 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:59,159 Speaker 1: Tires was pink or bloody blue. Mate, while FITZI was 375 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,440 Speaker 1: in the back seat with a helmet on, yelling out 376 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 1: the back we would have it. Yeah, we need it's 377 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 1: just spinning around in circles. 378 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 5: Why we were pretended to be emotionally moved by the reveal, 379 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:18,160 Speaker 5: but more devastated we were watching fits in the back 380 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 5: of a commodore. 381 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 2: There's nothing more astral nothing more Australian, than that people. 382 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 1: Are dying with gender reveals. 383 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 5: Have you seen that someone will fly over dropping a 384 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 5: color of smoke out of a. 385 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 1: Plane and you guys wanting to say that there's another 386 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:34,400 Speaker 1: baby on the way. 387 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 2: And I've had a sexy oh a crowd owner of congratulations, 388 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 2: thank you. 389 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:42,439 Speaker 1: I was wondering why you had that so brave? Is 390 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 1: it sore? Still? Some people live with soreness? Show on 391 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 1: the scarce? Okay, did where did we're in the sack? 392 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 1: Did they go so? Isn't it they go? No? Underneath? 393 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 1: I thought it was under the balls. He had one 394 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: of these done, and I said, where do they go in? 395 00:20:57,760 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 1: They go in? 396 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 5: I don't know, mate, have you not even looked you've 397 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 5: had an incision made in your testicles? 398 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 2: I already had a scar on my nuts from what from? 399 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 2: You don't know this story? 400 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,160 Speaker 1: Your first sectomy? 401 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 2: Call it a sext to me? No, No, I had 402 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 2: it to what they called it, twisted testicle? 403 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 1: Oh right, when I was fourteen years of age. I 404 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:22,680 Speaker 1: was saving it for this episode. 405 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:27,680 Speaker 5: Oh my god, let's go into this because Ted said 406 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 5: to me the other night, the teacher spoke to us 407 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 5: about twisted testicles. 408 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:36,440 Speaker 1: How did they get twisted? You're playing soccer? I was surfing. 409 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 2: I surfed a lot that day, and then I got 410 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 2: this really big picture when you ball up a rubber 411 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 2: band that they said when they opened me up, that's 412 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 2: what that's what it looked like and then they had 413 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 2: to untwist it stitched to the sidewalls. 414 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:52,200 Speaker 1: I've already got a scar down the middle, like in 415 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 1: the middle of my nuts. Not yet. 416 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 5: No, there was a guy at school who in a 417 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 5: similar situation, and his name was we used to call 418 00:21:58,359 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 5: him Buchers. 419 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 1: And because I had missed like two weeks of. 420 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 5: School and the this was in your nine Bruce Brown 421 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 5: was the year later. Bruce Brown got up and said, 422 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:11,639 Speaker 5: now you might have been a bit concerned about Bukers. 423 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:15,720 Speaker 5: He's had a twisted testicle, so his testinges are going 424 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 5: to be fine, but he'll be back to school very soon. 425 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,919 Speaker 1: He's had an operation on his balls, so what do 426 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 1: you reckon? He was called for the rest of school. 427 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,880 Speaker 1: He was twisties. I was one nut. 428 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,119 Speaker 2: Well, my friends used to see me wonder Wall, but 429 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 2: instead of wonder Wall, it was one ball classic classics. 430 00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 1: That's not funny, that's not yeah. 431 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,239 Speaker 2: I had a friend that was very insensitive when I 432 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 2: did have just after I had the surgery, he saw 433 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 2: me a couple of days later. He would pretend to 434 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 2: sackwhack me so that he wouldn't actually hit me, but 435 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 2: I'd squeek my nuts were so swallen. I'd squeeze my 436 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:50,199 Speaker 2: legs together and the stitches would like it. 437 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 1: Back to the incision of the sector. Where is it. 438 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 2: It'd be in the same area of the scar down 439 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 2: in the middle. So they do is they cut you open. 440 00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,120 Speaker 2: There's two holes something. 441 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 1: I hope I got me going. They actually. 442 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:14,360 Speaker 2: It's a bull ring actually, and they go in and 443 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,199 Speaker 2: they actually melt the tube. 444 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 1: So there's a lot of smell of burning skin. Oh, 445 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 1: I was this smell. What's that smell? It's your balls, burning. 446 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:27,199 Speaker 3: Flesh and boiled seamen, boiled. 447 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 2: I was sweating profusely, so much so they had to 448 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 2: peel me off the bed like I was stuck to 449 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:39,160 Speaker 2: it like the leather the hospital, but like medical bed. 450 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 2: And then you meant to rest and recover a bit. 451 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,160 Speaker 2: In said I went. I went out to the pub 452 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 2: with the boys, and. 453 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 1: Were you able to enjoy yourself? 454 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:47,719 Speaker 2: I clocked up fifteen k's on foot and I was swallowen, 455 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 2: bruised up to my belly button. 456 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, up in the gay bar. My nuts are out. 457 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 1: The whole night, was just showing everybody my black testicles. 458 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 2: Actually, they I was bruised up to my belly button 459 00:23:58,480 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 2: because I. 460 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 1: Because you went out dancing all night. You know, I 461 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 1: was prepared to do that. Except when Lisa, because she 462 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 1: had a sea section, they tied her tubes during the 463 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 1: sea section, so took the baby out and then you 464 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: clamp the tubes so she can't get pregnant. The third one. 465 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, was that always part of the plan or 466 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:26,880 Speaker 3: was that in the surprise the plan got you. 467 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:28,640 Speaker 1: I mean I would have been happy to get the vasectomy. 468 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 1: But then while we're in there, we mate what about 469 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 1: your second marriage? So then that was kind of done, 470 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 1: that was sold, it was fixed, so you know you 471 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 1: don't have to have it anyway. Yeah, if you can 472 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:49,880 Speaker 1: show me the right gay club to go, Surry Hill, 473 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 1: I love that. 474 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 3: When you If you were to have a map, let's 475 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 3: plot out. Teddy come THEO. 476 00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 1: Not many, no one does. 477 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 3: I've never heard him called to the I'll call him Teddy, 478 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 3: then ted Jack, Francesca friend. 479 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 1: Never Frankie. 480 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:12,679 Speaker 5: Frankie has been considered. Frankie was out initial idea. She 481 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 5: gets a bit of cheska like. 482 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 1: That asco sounds like a cocktail. 483 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 3: Comes with a lot of attitude. When you look at 484 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 3: who was easy, who was hard? Where do they rank? 485 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 3: On that graph. 486 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: It was a map. Yeah, what do you want? Ted 487 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 1: was easy being the first and when they talked about 488 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 1: the second being hard, Oh my god, Jack was hard 489 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 1: in what way? Sleep? What we found out with Jack too, 490 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 1: he was just it was grumpy. He was bloody grumpy. 491 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 5: And then we got a baby whispering and we said, hey, 492 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 5: what's wrong with this kid? And she said, he's exhausted, 493 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,200 Speaker 5: And I said, what do you mean? She said, he's 494 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 5: not sleeping. 495 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: So then we looked in his mouth and he had 496 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 1: the world's biggest tonsils. Oh massive, He had a five 497 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 1: milimeter gap down his throat. Could he breathe? Probably? So 498 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 1: he had sleep app near So I would hold him. 499 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,719 Speaker 5: This was the most unnerving thing. You would hold him 500 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 5: at night. He's a baby, he's one and a half. 501 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 5: You'd hold him trying to get him to sleep. He'd 502 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:31,199 Speaker 5: fall asleep, and then he'd go like you would see 503 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,160 Speaker 5: a sixty year old man who's had far too much 504 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 5: to drink, who's fallen asleep. 505 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 1: He has probably got a bit of goup also, who's thirty three. 506 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,239 Speaker 5: So we very quickly then had his tonsils out and 507 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 5: everything was fine. 508 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 1: Took us a while to realize why he was angry. 509 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 2: It's crazy how much impact tonsils and ad noises I 510 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 2: have on and different impacts I haven't. 511 00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,719 Speaker 1: Like I was telling you about, Lenny had his hour, 512 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,880 Speaker 1: he splk speaks completely different. Yeah, they do get completely 513 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 1: changed Japanese. I think it's a former. 514 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, I can't understand, but that we've had it with 515 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 5: all three of them. They all had massive tonsils, yes 516 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 5: and tons. 517 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,000 Speaker 1: So that was a big game changer. And Francesca has 518 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,439 Speaker 1: been a hard sleeper as well from the get go. 519 00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, but I think this feels more tactical than what 520 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 5: Jack presented. Jack was just a bad sleep because he 521 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:37,439 Speaker 5: couldn't sleep and he was tired, and Francesca was a 522 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 5: little feels like it's been a little more loaded. Okay, 523 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 5: I'll get them back in. Yeah I'm tired, but I'll 524 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 5: get them back in. I make them work for this. 525 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,560 Speaker 1: Watch this. I've got them right here. What would you 526 00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: have to do? 527 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,119 Speaker 5: So we tried all sorts of stuff, anyone by one 528 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 5: of those dolls that even had like a heartbeat or 529 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 5: a vibration. 530 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: We did that kids, so you feel loved by. 531 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 5: But then we hired like with Tommy Ivy who you 532 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 5: know Maddie from our radio show Great Man, Great Man, 533 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 5: Thomas Bryan. He had like a like I'm not saying witchcraft, 534 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 5: but someone who would almost perform a level of magic. 535 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 5: So she would give us the routine of what you 536 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 5: needed to do, and you'd follow that, and then what 537 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 5: would happen? 538 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 1: A rabbit would come, Rabbit, is this your car? 539 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 5: You would do things where you had to like tap 540 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 5: on the door, so you'd go, Francesca, it's time to sleep, and. 541 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 1: You would do it again, Francesca, it is time to 542 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 1: sleep on the door. It's sleep time now, Francesca. And 543 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 1: at least I would be paid with a fortune with 544 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 1: that going. This feels like one of the great cons Yeah, 545 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 1: did you think is this a bit for radio? 546 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:06,800 Speaker 3: Like? 547 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 1: Am I being conned? 548 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 5: Here? It's a pink smoke stuff. If that didn't work, 549 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 5: it would be Francesca, it's time to sleep. 550 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,920 Speaker 1: A scrap. Yeah, And what's the thought that. 551 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 5: Maybe it was just creating some sort of sonic trigger 552 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 5: to make her realize that we're not coming in anymore. 553 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 5: But we're here, Yeah, we're here. So the art would 554 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 5: be that you would then cut it back to just a. 555 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 1: I've never heard of it it's good. It's really good. 556 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:52,040 Speaker 2: Morse code. Yeah, she's just gone back. 557 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: But it worked. I mean now she's older, so she's 558 00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 1: sort of four now. So are you still tapping? Not tapping? 559 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: Anyone tapping out? I'm gone. But do you know what's hilarious? 560 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 1: Isn't that fascinating when you're a parent, how well you 561 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 1: get to know every sound in your house. So when 562 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: you're creeping. 563 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 5: Out of a bedroom after padding a head or holding 564 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:18,040 Speaker 5: a hand, you then have to creep out of the house. 565 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 1: You know, to walk on that side of the hallway. 566 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 1: You know where the creek is, like it's going to creak. Really, 567 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: hold on, old tap, you'll go to the one time 568 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 1: there's the floor here it is that you are back out. 569 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 2: Guilty you would you know every you know the creek 570 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,400 Speaker 2: and then my tap, my shower is on the other 571 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 2: side of her wall. 572 00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 5: So then you have tactical times about when you can 573 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,120 Speaker 5: shower or you go downstairs to another bathroom. 574 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 1: All those little things you pick up. You become like 575 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 1: a bat with sonar hearing. 576 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,000 Speaker 5: If you're to be lying there and you and in 577 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 5: your phone or vibrate where the message will come from. 578 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, hell hell, we call me? 579 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 3: How how were you and Lisa at this point when 580 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 3: it before you got the witch for one of a 581 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 3: better word into the house. 582 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 5: Hard really hard, as any parent would know. It's a killer, 583 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 5: isn't it? 584 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 3: Did it hurt more because it's your third and you 585 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,840 Speaker 3: think we should have it kind of dialed at this point. 586 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,760 Speaker 1: I think one to two was harder. Really you always 587 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 1: hear that, you do hear that, And I think the 588 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 1: one is a shock where you have these moments of 589 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 1: oh my god, what did we do with our time 590 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 1: before we had this? What do we talk about? Yeah? 591 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 1: And then two is just an extension. Two is a 592 00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 1: major shock and then a made of mine too. 593 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 5: Back to Eddie Glenn, the fire hydrant guy, the fire 594 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,000 Speaker 5: exting chef, he's like he thinks he's a wise old 595 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 5: man and he goes, mane, you've got no time when 596 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 5: you have two. So what difference does it make when 597 00:31:56,360 --> 00:32:02,200 Speaker 5: you have three? About thirty three percent? Yeah, it's a 598 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 5: third harder. 599 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,719 Speaker 2: Again, So when Francesco, were you taking turns? And who's 600 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,280 Speaker 2: putting her back to sleep? Because was it you had 601 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 2: to hold her hand. 602 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 5: Or there's a lot of hand holding, and you would 603 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 5: lie even when she was in the co Just lie on. 604 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 1: The floor, wouldn't you. Yeah, and you just your hand 605 00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 1: is through the slats of the cot and you just 606 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:22,480 Speaker 1: holding in prison. Are you doing Morning Radio two? Yeah? 607 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,800 Speaker 1: Do you know those times where I sat there and 608 00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,320 Speaker 1: it would be midnight and to stop her crying. I 609 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 1: don't know if you ever did this. You put your 610 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 1: little finger in their mouth and they just like a 611 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,479 Speaker 1: glassifier and they just suck on your fingers. So you 612 00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,160 Speaker 1: wash your hands. I put a glove on like they 613 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 1: did at the hospital. Who are you protecting her? Are you? 614 00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 1: This kid was filthy like COVID baby twenty twenty, riddled 615 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 1: with her. You just never know, You never know where 616 00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 1: she's been. 617 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,600 Speaker 5: To give me something to mean, I couldn't do riddle 618 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 5: time on a Friday, Sidney would be lost. So you'd 619 00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 5: lie at midnight and they'd be sucking on you pinky 620 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 5: like it was a nipple, you know what I mean, 621 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 5: like a titch, and. 622 00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 1: You're like, what the fuck was doing in my life? 623 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,320 Speaker 1: And you think and they'd stop, and you go, can 624 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 1: I move it now? And then you'd move and you'd 625 00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 1: be back in again. 626 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 5: So it was just well, you know those times where 627 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 5: you think, I don't know how I'm going to get 628 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 5: through the next ten minutes. 629 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 1: Do I bang my head against the wall or do 630 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:23,680 Speaker 1: I just drink? 631 00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,280 Speaker 3: Did anyone say anything at work when you're coming in 632 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 3: and you're operating obviously a much lower percentage because you 633 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,080 Speaker 3: just got no sleep. Is anyone saying, hey, whipp are 634 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 3: you okay? 635 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 1: No? Not really? Duty of care? 636 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,840 Speaker 5: Do you know what the hardest part is, Like we 637 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 5: are on this podcast, it's a relief to share stories 638 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 5: like it's a relief that you know that I know 639 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,360 Speaker 5: that we know what you've gone through and what we 640 00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 5: all do. 641 00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 1: But it doesn't make it easier. It doesn't take away 642 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,239 Speaker 1: the thick of battle and when you're in there and 643 00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 1: you're going, oh my god, I don't I feel physically sick. 644 00:33:58,920 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 1: I'm so tired. 645 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, Lisa had some postnatal depression. I'm there 646 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 5: trying to do the right thing where half your job 647 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 5: too as a dad. I think he's trying to do 648 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 5: the right thing by the newborn. So you learn trying 649 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 5: to learn it one hundred miles an hour, but then 650 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 5: almost play a kick in front of your wife to 651 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 5: work out what she's going to need and how I 652 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:23,759 Speaker 5: can help for whatever's around the corner. So that was 653 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 5: sort of the panic, and I think a lot of 654 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:28,680 Speaker 5: Dad's experience as well. 655 00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 1: That is how I've dropped the tone slightly. 656 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,840 Speaker 5: No, I did highly impactful with the feelings and emotions. 657 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:40,000 Speaker 1: Man, am I right? Fellas Yeah, well said. 658 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:41,680 Speaker 3: When you talk about the fact that we're not sure 659 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,960 Speaker 3: whether we go for a third or night, and it 660 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 3: does send a bit of a shiver down my spine 661 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:47,960 Speaker 3: when you talk to people who have, you know, when 662 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,239 Speaker 3: they're reminisced of time in the trenches, because for me, 663 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 3: I've kind of erased all that, and you do because 664 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 3: you like it. 665 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,959 Speaker 1: Was just forget fucking hell moments that were great. I'll 666 00:34:56,960 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 1: never forget we w I'm going to after this record message. 667 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,400 Speaker 3: Laura and be like, I think we should just reconsider 668 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,719 Speaker 3: it because it's it's. 669 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 1: What's life like now? Sensational? Okay, just the best. So 670 00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 1: tonight I'm going to her school for wild night and 671 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:22,360 Speaker 1: I'm dressed as a tiger and I can't wait wild 672 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:23,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, let's have wild night. 673 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 5: Where you can turn up dressed to something. And I 674 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 5: think because because because of radio, I think that the 675 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 5: staff there at the kindergarten, feel like I must be 676 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:34,800 Speaker 5: village idiot. 677 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 1: So I go all, can't wait to see what your 678 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 1: dad Whipper's gonna wear it. 679 00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:41,720 Speaker 5: So she comes home and says, are they really excited 680 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 5: about what you're going to wear? Can you wear the 681 00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:46,879 Speaker 5: cat suit? I don't have a choice. If I don't 682 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 5: turn up, I'm a disappointment. 683 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:52,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, the bars there disappoint my daughter. 684 00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:54,359 Speaker 7: So tonight I will be a cat and I can't 685 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:58,720 Speaker 7: want to be good luck with your eldest is nine 686 00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:02,919 Speaker 7: nine now at the moment, I'm kind of thinking about 687 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:03,800 Speaker 7: the future with Marley. 688 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:08,160 Speaker 3: She's turning six next year. The kind of conversation. She's 689 00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 3: becoming very aware of the world around us, asking big questions. 690 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:13,480 Speaker 1: How is it with Ted? 691 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,799 Speaker 5: Ted and Jack are sort of a team, so quite 692 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 5: often they'll be in the same position regarding questions, and 693 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,360 Speaker 5: there's some fascinating topics. 694 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:23,440 Speaker 1: What have you had to tackle? 695 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:26,000 Speaker 5: Like the other day we watched I get sick of 696 00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:28,800 Speaker 5: watching YouTube shorts. Right, I watch a lot of YouTube 697 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,400 Speaker 5: shots like no, no, no, no, too much, too much, too quick. 698 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 5: I want you to understand concentrationspan and really engaging in something, 699 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,520 Speaker 5: so I don't mind YouTube and I say, why don't we. 700 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,120 Speaker 5: I want it to be a learned experience, so I 701 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:44,120 Speaker 5: want adventure builds in or I want how's it made? 702 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,960 Speaker 5: So we watched how Crayon's made the other day and 703 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,839 Speaker 5: where they come from and how many crowns are made. 704 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: I'm so bad. 705 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 5: I mean, crowns are amazing. When they first launched, Crayola 706 00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 5: was the dominant playback then and still is today. 707 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:02,440 Speaker 1: Is it made out of rocks? 708 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:03,120 Speaker 5: No? 709 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:07,880 Speaker 1: I can't remember. What is it? That's fat? That's fat? Yeah, 710 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: it's fat. Let's filap Yeah, like horse, it's made from horse. Yeah, 711 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 1: they take it. 712 00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:17,160 Speaker 5: They'll take a fourth leg off a dog. If you 713 00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 5: see a three legged. 714 00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:22,640 Speaker 1: Dog, that's twenty four cranions right there. Wow, plus the 715 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: one he's got. Still the next. 716 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:27,160 Speaker 5: Time, he's a crayon. Anyway, the prompt came up for 717 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 5: the next video, how to make condoms? 718 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:36,200 Speaker 1: Okay, and then Jack said what's a condom? And Ted knew. 719 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 1: I think I'd had a chat to Ted about it. 720 00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 5: For some reason, We've never really shied away from being 721 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:46,160 Speaker 5: honest about how things work. And Ted said, oh, yeah, 722 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:47,799 Speaker 5: I know that, and said to Jacket, it's like a 723 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:51,040 Speaker 5: balloon and you put it on your dude all and 724 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:55,040 Speaker 5: it'll stop you from making a baby. 725 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,040 Speaker 1: That's what I did. Was this the YouTube video or jacket? 726 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,400 Speaker 5: So then Jack said, this is where the extension of 727 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:09,360 Speaker 5: all these topics is where it gets interesting. 728 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:13,200 Speaker 1: So Jack then says, right, well, why would you have 729 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 1: sex if you didn't want to make a baby? Very valid, 730 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:19,120 Speaker 1: very valid question. 731 00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 5: I said, it's because it can feel good and it 732 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,359 Speaker 5: can be fun. It's fun and it's something you do 733 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,759 Speaker 5: with someone that you love. Right, so then I want 734 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:34,439 Speaker 5: to have fun. Did you say, come into that? So 735 00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:39,839 Speaker 5: I said, well, what does it feel like? And I said, well, 736 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:41,360 Speaker 5: it's like I said. 737 00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 1: It's like a massage, a massage a message the other 738 00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:50,000 Speaker 1: day with the os that we went to. It's different 739 00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:50,200 Speaker 1: to that. 740 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:54,720 Speaker 5: So it's different to So it does does it feel 741 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:58,080 Speaker 5: like when you go to Tanya. 742 00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,799 Speaker 1: The messusses that feel the same as when you're with Mom? 743 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 1: Sometimes it depends if it's really dark, and I don't 744 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:04,839 Speaker 1: actually know, it. 745 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 5: Depends how much I've got and I don't know how 746 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:12,040 Speaker 5: to answer, you know, those questions. 747 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:12,920 Speaker 1: It's funny. 748 00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,920 Speaker 3: I have this vivid memory of being so concerned. I 749 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,839 Speaker 3: can't remember how old I was, but I was like, Mom, 750 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,600 Speaker 3: how do you make sure you don't we whilst you're 751 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 3: having sex? 752 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,880 Speaker 1: Right? Question? Just a sum it would come out. That 753 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,360 Speaker 1: was my biggest question. 754 00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,040 Speaker 2: I was like, but how do you how does it 755 00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:33,120 Speaker 2: not I've got I'm slightly traumatized. There's a school in 756 00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:34,839 Speaker 2: my area called Santa Augustine that we used to call 757 00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:35,800 Speaker 2: them and orgasms. 758 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:37,960 Speaker 1: And I said to my mom, oh, yeah, you know, 759 00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:39,640 Speaker 1: and orgasms And she was like, would you like me 760 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 1: to tell you what an orgasm is? 761 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,120 Speaker 2: And I was like twelve, and I remember this vividly 762 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,879 Speaker 2: and I was like, no, please don't and she can. 763 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 2: She carried on, you know at that time, No, Nope, 764 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,440 Speaker 2: and she carried on to tell me intricately for forty 765 00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:55,040 Speaker 2: five minutes what an orgasm was. 766 00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 1: That's a vivid memory. You've turned out like April's a 767 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:00,000 Speaker 1: lucky lady. 768 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:07,480 Speaker 2: Is because we still had an August because we then. 769 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:12,040 Speaker 5: Ted said had said earlier, you know how like when 770 00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:14,800 Speaker 5: we got prior to this, how is the baby made? 771 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,400 Speaker 1: So I'd explained it, but then he still couldn't get 772 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,520 Speaker 1: his head around it. So he said, okay, so this 773 00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:21,719 Speaker 1: so if it was this room in here. 774 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 5: The sperm comes out of your painis it would go 775 00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 5: across the floor and then into's Johnny. 776 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 1: We're not traveling that. If you can do that, they 777 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 1: go back back. You got yourself an industry. So I 778 00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:38,600 Speaker 1: once again I had to explain that the dude Ale 779 00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:40,879 Speaker 1: goes into the Johnny and all of this, so they're 780 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 1: always just I love that you're learning at the same time, 781 00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,799 Speaker 1: so you don't have the written down answer and at 782 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:51,320 Speaker 1: the same time this you don't have any prep. You 783 00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,279 Speaker 1: don't know when the question is going to come, which 784 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,360 Speaker 1: direction is going to turn? Quiz do you know the 785 00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,239 Speaker 1: other one that I mentioned Because they go to a 786 00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:02,520 Speaker 1: school which has a religious element to it. God made everything. 787 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:06,400 Speaker 5: Now I don't care what you believe in religious wise, 788 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:11,040 Speaker 5: whatever faith might mean to you, there are some basics 789 00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 5: which I think they need to understand, but it's hard 790 00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:17,200 Speaker 5: to explain. So I want them to have a level 791 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:21,520 Speaker 5: of religious education so when they're older, you can make 792 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,759 Speaker 5: the decision whether you want to partake and follow by 793 00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,080 Speaker 5: all means, and I think that's healthy for them to 794 00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:31,600 Speaker 5: understand how other people might be thinking. So then you know, 795 00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:35,239 Speaker 5: we did so we were doing some landscaping in the backyard, 796 00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:40,640 Speaker 5: so it very quickly got to well, oh, God's God 797 00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:43,279 Speaker 5: made the house because God makes everything because it's good. 798 00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 5: They said, God makes everything, so God's make doing the landscaping. 799 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,480 Speaker 5: The builders are doing the landscape. The builder is God, 800 00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 5: the build it. No no, no, no, So God, Well 801 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:54,240 Speaker 5: God made this house. 802 00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:58,840 Speaker 1: God made Australia. You know God did Australia. Well you 803 00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:03,719 Speaker 1: could say that way to creation of the world was 804 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:07,560 Speaker 1: for good. That might quickly so it gets to this 805 00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:08,560 Speaker 1: point where. 806 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,920 Speaker 5: And then at the end of dinner, we'll sit the 807 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,759 Speaker 5: dinner and I go, okay, make sure we thank mom 808 00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:19,759 Speaker 5: for dinner, and I'll say, well, yeah, God did go 809 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,640 Speaker 5: to dinner, and what you saw who made dinner? 810 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:28,800 Speaker 1: Thanks Mum for making dinner. That'd be awesome. I can't 811 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 1: wait till Oscar. Oscar is already. 812 00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:36,680 Speaker 2: Like so painful like that as well. And he's the 813 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:41,520 Speaker 2: same turning six. And he's always been such a good 814 00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:45,520 Speaker 2: talker from like he came out screamingly, didn't stop screaming, 815 00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:46,760 Speaker 2: and then just started talking. 816 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:48,440 Speaker 1: So well, yeah, and just. 817 00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:52,319 Speaker 2: His line of questioning, break anyone down in the car 818 00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:54,920 Speaker 2: and he's continued asking, You've asked a lot of really 819 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:57,879 Speaker 2: good questions today, buddy, but can you stop. 820 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,279 Speaker 1: Isn't it funny how Quie Often when you say, hey, 821 00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:03,319 Speaker 1: great question, you're buying yourself time. 822 00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,760 Speaker 2: If he didn't, I'll answer it. 823 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,800 Speaker 5: And at the moment, you know, we have Christmas on 824 00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:14,040 Speaker 5: the way. So the elf on the shelf is out. 825 00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,839 Speaker 5: Oh so elf on the shelf is out? Jack said 826 00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:20,760 Speaker 5: the other day, hang on a minute, is the elf moving? 827 00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:24,720 Speaker 5: Or are you moving the elf? And I said, well, 828 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:27,440 Speaker 5: I'm not going to tell you that, but I'm going 829 00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:29,920 Speaker 5: to tell you something and I'll be very clear about 830 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,279 Speaker 5: it and go on. What's going on now? It's called 831 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:36,480 Speaker 5: the magic of Christmas. Oh, so the magic of Christmas 832 00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:41,440 Speaker 5: can present all sorts of surprises, whether it's the elf 833 00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:45,360 Speaker 5: moving by itself, the feeling of excitement, the tree in 834 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:54,920 Speaker 5: the corner of the room, it's all the magic of Christmases. 835 00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:59,680 Speaker 1: Are you going to say it's God, God, move the elf? 836 00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:01,759 Speaker 1: Callt me down. 837 00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:06,680 Speaker 3: We have to congratulate you, by the way. Yes, you 838 00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 3: have been campaigning in recent months. I'm talking about thirty 839 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,080 Speaker 3: six months. You'll push to get the age for youngsters 840 00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 3: on social media raised from thirteen to sixteen. I wanted 841 00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,000 Speaker 3: to know, Ash, and I weren't quite sure how you 842 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:21,920 Speaker 3: initially became involved involved in that campaign. 843 00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:28,360 Speaker 5: It was a moment where, if you want all the detail, 844 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:33,319 Speaker 5: I was sitting on the toilet and I that great 845 00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 5: thinking time on the toilet, and I saw something and 846 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,480 Speaker 5: I've been talking about it with a mate, Rob Galutzo 847 00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,160 Speaker 5: for a while, and then I saw something that's stayed 848 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:41,600 Speaker 5: by state. 849 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:42,759 Speaker 1: There were changes going on in. 850 00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:46,359 Speaker 5: The US, and I just had this sinking moment where 851 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:50,560 Speaker 5: I thought, imagine, like in your Wireless dreams, it was 852 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:54,920 Speaker 5: almost a hypothetical. Imagine if we could change the age 853 00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 5: of kids joining social media from the platforms from thirteen 854 00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:00,120 Speaker 5: to sixteen or that thirty. 855 00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:04,200 Speaker 1: Six month period. And then I thought to myself, do 856 00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:07,799 Speaker 1: you know what if you're not going to act on. 857 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,520 Speaker 5: A gut feeling like I had. That moved me so 858 00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,160 Speaker 5: much in that moment. Shouldn't have said the toilet? But 859 00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:17,960 Speaker 5: should I shouldn't have said the toilet bit then I thought, 860 00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:20,520 Speaker 5: then what are you ever going to do? We're ever 861 00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 5: going to stand for? So Rob and I had been 862 00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:26,600 Speaker 5: talking and then I said, hey, mate, why don't we 863 00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 5: do this? Why don't we launch this thing called thirty 864 00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:32,880 Speaker 5: six months and drive a campaign to change the age 865 00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:37,120 Speaker 5: Because the stories are just horrendous. You know, the statistics 866 00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 5: about the hospitalization of young teens from self harm, it's 867 00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:42,400 Speaker 5: up two hundred and seventy five percent. 868 00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:46,239 Speaker 1: Wow. They talk about I mean, Dove ran a fantastic 869 00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:50,560 Speaker 1: campaign and it's the impact of social media, and their 870 00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 1: statistics read that one in two young girls will experience 871 00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:58,839 Speaker 1: some psychological damage from the impact of social media. One 872 00:45:58,880 --> 00:45:59,520 Speaker 1: in two. 873 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:03,560 Speaker 5: So we sit here now as parents and we think, 874 00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:05,360 Speaker 5: imagine if there was a product on the shelf, like 875 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,640 Speaker 5: a shampoo, and every second person that used it had 876 00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:11,719 Speaker 5: some sort of psychological damage, that product wouldn't be on 877 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,440 Speaker 5: the shelf for a second. More So, why does it 878 00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:17,399 Speaker 5: exist now? And there are so many layers to this. 879 00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:21,319 Speaker 5: So there's so many layers to the bullying and the creepiness, 880 00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:25,440 Speaker 5: and the other side of the coin is the attention 881 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:29,000 Speaker 5: span of kids that they're selling and the smart algorithms. 882 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:33,120 Speaker 5: But you know, the bullying and the I mean social media. 883 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,640 Speaker 5: I think the best way to describe it, it's an 884 00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:40,520 Speaker 5: insecurity amplifier. Oh yeah, and especially for young teens at 885 00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:45,080 Speaker 5: such a sensitive time going through puberty, trying to find yourself, 886 00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:47,279 Speaker 5: and you know, sort of what we've been saying is 887 00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,240 Speaker 5: get to know yourself before the rest of the world does. 888 00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:55,480 Speaker 1: So that's why we launched. When was that How long ago? 889 00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,880 Speaker 1: That was in May? So it's all happened really quickly, 890 00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:04,240 Speaker 1: point where we've almost been surprised. And what's interesting, ninety 891 00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:08,720 Speaker 1: five percent of the signatures are mums. Wow, the power 892 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:12,960 Speaker 1: of the mother army is massive. One last question before 893 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:13,279 Speaker 1: you go. 894 00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,560 Speaker 3: When your children are all grown up, they're no longer 895 00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:23,440 Speaker 3: at home, when Cheska Jack got it so close, mate, 896 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:27,200 Speaker 3: when they're no longer living with you under the regime, 897 00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:30,240 Speaker 3: what's the one thing they'd. 898 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:31,839 Speaker 1: Like them to remember about the house they grew up in. 899 00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 1: I would like to say fun. 900 00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:38,319 Speaker 5: I know that sounds basic, but my dad was an 901 00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:40,640 Speaker 5: only child and he said, you know what I love 902 00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:43,279 Speaker 5: about coming to your house to have dinner and things. 903 00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:44,480 Speaker 1: It's always just fun. 904 00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:48,040 Speaker 5: But also the ridiculousness of the games that we make 905 00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:51,279 Speaker 5: up in the backyard, the little pro decks that are 906 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:56,120 Speaker 5: all designed for bonding experiences. So recently we built a swing. 907 00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 5: Every time we build something in the backyard, it costs 908 00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:01,600 Speaker 5: more than buying the bloody thing, but it's not about that. 909 00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:05,239 Speaker 5: So we built like a timber seat that we hung 910 00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,600 Speaker 5: from the tree. So to do that, we had to 911 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,839 Speaker 5: buy the timber from Bunnings and then we were all 912 00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:14,600 Speaker 5: standing and then we're all painting together in the garage 913 00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,799 Speaker 5: and then we hammer in the nails and then we 914 00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:18,480 Speaker 5: strap it up with the rope and we're all on 915 00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:18,920 Speaker 5: the swing. 916 00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:26,800 Speaker 1: Kids in hospital. But it was it's not about the swing. 917 00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,480 Speaker 1: Like jack said the other day or for Mother's Day, 918 00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:34,640 Speaker 1: we made flower presses and Jackson, dad, I'm not interested 919 00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,320 Speaker 1: in a flower press, I had to say to a mate, 920 00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,480 Speaker 1: neither am I do you know what? 921 00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,480 Speaker 5: Do you know what it is about? It's about drilling 922 00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,239 Speaker 5: the hole, It's about choosing the flower. It's about going 923 00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:48,520 Speaker 5: on the adventure to Centennial Park to go and pick 924 00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:51,040 Speaker 5: the flowers we want to choose. And it's about going 925 00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,120 Speaker 5: to buy a frame to put it in for mum 926 00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:55,120 Speaker 5: and writing some nice words to much which we get 927 00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,560 Speaker 5: all to do together. That's what it's about. Like we 928 00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:00,840 Speaker 5: have a tinny that we go fishing in. It's a 929 00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:04,440 Speaker 5: four point two meter Quinn tracks. It's nothing flash and 930 00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:08,800 Speaker 5: it's not about the fishing. It's about getting up and going, hey, Ted, 931 00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,319 Speaker 5: you're the captain today, so you've got to check that 932 00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:13,360 Speaker 5: the rods are there. You need to check the bungs 933 00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,319 Speaker 5: are in the boat. You need to check there's enough 934 00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,480 Speaker 5: life jackets. Put your captain's hat on, and we've got 935 00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:22,360 Speaker 5: enough fuel, all right. So that's all it's about. Nothing 936 00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:23,480 Speaker 5: to do with the whether we catch it. 937 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:25,520 Speaker 1: Have you actually caught any fish? 938 00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,480 Speaker 5: Well, we take we put a GoPro down, so we 939 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,879 Speaker 5: always go, we've caught something on camera, it's attached to the. 940 00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:37,360 Speaker 1: So, yeah, we catch something on film. Yeah, my own microsman. 941 00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:41,440 Speaker 1: What's the Quinn tracks? Beautiful brand on mate, I'll take 942 00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:41,759 Speaker 1: you out. 943 00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:45,080 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we've It's been an absolute pleasure you guys 944 00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:45,920 Speaker 3: a great dad. 945 00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,439 Speaker 1: Thank you very much, Thank you for having me. Guys. 946 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:54,080 Speaker 1: Congratulations on a wonderful podcast. Thank you so much. Appreciated. 947 00:49:55,920 --> 00:50:00,960 Speaker 3: What an absolute gentleman. Loves the chat, loves it very funny, 948 00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:03,480 Speaker 3: very funny guy funny than I remember. I felt like 949 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:05,160 Speaker 3: you guys really bonded over the renovations. 950 00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:06,600 Speaker 1: Yes, we have to. 951 00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:08,800 Speaker 3: We'll have to cut out nine percent of the renovation 952 00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,400 Speaker 3: chat because everyone's like, shut up, we. 953 00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,640 Speaker 1: Know it now, you know how I feel. 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