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Speaker 1: Welcome to Fearlessly Failing hot Seat. In this epp I

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Speaker 1: fire rapid questions at one of our fearlessly failing guests. PS,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm not so good

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Speaker 1: at the rapid part. I get too intrigued by the

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Speaker 1: awesome answers. Now, a new app is going to drop

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Speaker 1: every Wednesday, so enjoy this shortest style episode of fearlessly

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Speaker 1: Failing hot Seat. Welcome to the fortieth edition hot Seat.

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Speaker 2: Hi, happy birthday, Happy birthday, Happy fortieth, Happy fortieth.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, we're both virgos and you're of the ox.

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Speaker 3: Ah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, let's just do a quick rapid fire half

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Speaker 1: way eighty Yeah, let's just do a quick rapid fire.

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Speaker 1: Go okay, what is something that you want to achieve

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Speaker 1: in your fortieth decade?

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Speaker 4: Well, you're fourth decade? Is that the right saying?

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Speaker 3: So within the next ten years? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Also, is that right? Fourth decade?

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Speaker 2: I think we're in our fifth decade. I just completed

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Speaker 2: our fourth decade. Okay, between forty and fifty. Okay, achievement

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Speaker 2: like actual like career life things, first of all, happiness, health, calmness, Korea.

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Speaker 2: I would like to score a major movie. Actually, I

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Speaker 2: would say many, not just one. A few feature films,

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Speaker 2: because in ten years you could probably do like maybe four,

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Speaker 2: you know, maybe five.

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Speaker 4: You don't reckon, you could do one a year.

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Speaker 3: It's a pretty hard to do one a year, I

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Speaker 3: reckon anyway.

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Speaker 4: And what about like some awards TV show?

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Speaker 2: So that yeah, and then I would love to do

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Speaker 2: like a handful of like amazing TV shows and dramas

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Speaker 2: nice and the awards don't really mean anything to me,

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Speaker 2: but yeah, I don't care about that. I'm not in

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Speaker 2: the line. I've never thought about those things.

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Speaker 4: So I'm like, it's going to make me sound like

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Speaker 4: an absolute drunk.

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Speaker 2: No, I know you want the awards, but you're an

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Speaker 2: award person, like you could do it. Like, I'm not

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Speaker 2: the guy that ever gets the fucking awards or fucking grants.

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Speaker 2: I'm the guy that has to bust his balls to

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Speaker 2: really Yeah, okay, drop me to answer the same question.

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Speaker 1: I would love to win an Emmy. Yea happy for

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Speaker 1: multiple and look, I'm just going to throw a golden

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Speaker 1: globe in there, go for it. I think I will

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Speaker 1: be a TV actor as opposed to a film actor.

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Speaker 1: That is just where I see myself like comedic bones

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Speaker 1: all that kind of thing. But I shouldn't limit myself,

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Speaker 1: so be nice to a feature as well. And I

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Speaker 1: love the idea of like voicing stuff.

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Speaker 3: Love it cool to hang on? Oh sorry, jeez.

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Speaker 1: I would like for us to have a ranch somewhere

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Speaker 1: in the world, yes, and animals, but we also want

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Speaker 1: to travel heap, so love it. Yeah, we've got to

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Speaker 1: be mindful of that. Next question, if you were having

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Speaker 1: dinner with your twenty year old self, and if you

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Speaker 1: haven't listened to their Monday yep, go back and listen,

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Speaker 1: because you do answer this so you can give a

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Speaker 1: different answer.

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Speaker 4: Now, what advice would you have?

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Speaker 2: Get out of your own head, stop being a pussy,

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Speaker 2: just be like a bit more fearless, and know that

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Speaker 2: everything that you're feeling isn't real.

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Speaker 3: And it will pass and it's not as big as

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Speaker 3: you think. I like that.

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Speaker 1: I think my advice would be, don't care about what

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Speaker 1: other people think about you. Value yourself and see yourself

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Speaker 1: as an equal. Don't put yourself below others. And I

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Speaker 1: think the mistake I have made for my twenties and

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Speaker 1: thirties is I hold people on pedestals.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and so I'd never want to do that again.

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Speaker 3: Love it.

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Speaker 1: What's something that you're looking forward to achieving between now

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Speaker 1: and the end of the year.

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Speaker 4: Twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 2: Do know, I won't give specifics, but obviously, like the

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Speaker 2: projects that I'm working on behind the scenes, I'd love

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Speaker 2: to really have them progressed to a phase of signing

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Speaker 2: off on things. I think that's probably the main thing

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Speaker 2: in the next three months, which is what will be

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Speaker 2: my focus. So I've got like a lot of work

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Speaker 2: love to get real, real, going nice.

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Speaker 4: I want to be signed to a feature film it.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's a big dream.

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Speaker 3: No, I love it. I think feature all TV shows.

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Speaker 4: By the end of the year. Yeah, yeah, yeah, unreal. Okay.

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Speaker 1: What is something you're looking forward to doing to celebrate

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Speaker 1: your fortieth birthday?

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Speaker 2: We have a few things on the history. We're getting

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Speaker 2: a tattoo, yeah yeah. Are you excited?

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I'll let you answer the next one shahow tonight

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Speaker 2: shadow yeah.

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Speaker 3: But also our trip yes.

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Speaker 1: So, my beautiful dad has organized our calm and we

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Speaker 1: are going to Jackson Hole, Wyoming to hit two National parks,

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Speaker 1: both Yellowstone and the Grand.

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Speaker 4: Titons Grandons pumped, so excited. I've already been planning our itinerary.

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Speaker 3: Love it.

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Speaker 1: What is something that, like we if we were hoping

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Speaker 1: to go back to Australia for crimbo. What is something

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Speaker 1: that because you were back at the start of the

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Speaker 1: year and I think that you and I are in

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Speaker 1: a real like transformation phase of our lives. What is

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Speaker 1: a change that you feel like you want to have

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Speaker 1: implemented since the last time you're in Australia versus this time.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why.

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Speaker 2: Are you giving you Well, I feel like I feel

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Speaker 2: like maybe like you should answer that question. I feel

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Speaker 2: like I was good. I feel like I feel like

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Speaker 2: Australia's a bit stressful for me, more stressful for you

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Speaker 2: than it.

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Speaker 3: Was for me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, boo boo, Yeah, come on, let's be real.

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Speaker 1: You know, I think I the same advice I'll give

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Speaker 1: my twenty year old self, Like I get really guilty,

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Speaker 1: Like if we're staying with people, like I want to

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Speaker 1: eat dinner with them later then I would usually eat

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Speaker 1: or like, oh, change my plans so that make everyone

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Speaker 1: happy and eat out a lot more than I want to,

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Speaker 1: and like usually my value, my health value system gets

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Speaker 1: compromised ye this year, Like I don't want that to happen.

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Speaker 1: I just want to like march the beat of my

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Speaker 1: own drum, Like I really want to take Dad to

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Speaker 1: the theater. Likely, I just want to do shit that

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Speaker 1: I want to do, do the pod all that, of course,

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Speaker 1: spend time with family and have special Christmas moments with them,

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Speaker 1: But like I don't want to feel like I keep

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Speaker 1: compromising myself, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Like I want to go to a straggle and to

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Speaker 4: do all this cool shit for us as well.

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Speaker 1: Yep, yeah, yeah, I think I get really like stressed

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Speaker 1: and like caught up in the guilt of that.

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Speaker 3: It's really weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, I don't know what that is in me,

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Speaker 2: But I don't know. Yeah, but yeah, no, I think

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Speaker 2: that's great.

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Speaker 4: Final final one?

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Speaker 1: What is?

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Speaker 4: I don't know what to say? Do you have one

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Speaker 4: for me?

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Speaker 3: Just to sign off?

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Speaker 1: Like, like, what what's your mantra for your forties?

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Speaker 4: What's your mantra for your forties?

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Speaker 3: You go, my mantra.

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Speaker 2: Be happy, work hard, love hard, be brave, be brave,

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Speaker 2: and don't give a shit.

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: So my thing is formidable and forty, which I feel

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Speaker 1: like fits me, Yeah, And to stay relentlessly honest with

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Speaker 1: myself and others, and like, let that be my baseline

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Speaker 1: and always come back to that no matter what. And

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Speaker 1: I just I have this feeling that good shit happens

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Speaker 1: when you live from that space.

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Speaker 3: Agreed right, Love you

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Speaker 2: Love you, Bye bye two