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Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nation.

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Speaker 2: Jones matter Arms for the pub Test Today relationships for children?

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Speaker 2: Does this past the post?

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Speaker 3: It sounds weird, But what this came from was a

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Speaker 3: tweet that I saw that said, stop asking my twelve

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Speaker 3: year old if he has a girlfriend. He's twelve. He's

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Speaker 3: a child who likes comic books and screaming outside for

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Speaker 3: no reason. Relationships are not for children. Stop telling kids.

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Speaker 3: You're so cute, you're handsome, you're beautiful. I bet all

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Speaker 3: the boys or girls are trying to date you. Why not.

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Speaker 3: You're so kind, You've got such a great sense of humor.

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Speaker 3: If you want a society that goes more than skin deep,

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Speaker 3: you have to change the language and the culture, starting

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Speaker 3: at home. And it does seem that we do say

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Speaker 3: to kids when they little got a boyfriend, like any

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Speaker 3: friend at school that's of the opposite sex, that your

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Speaker 3: boyfriend's at your girlfriend. I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: Women seem to do all the time. I think it's

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Speaker 2: a condition. It's just a part of small talk really

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Speaker 2: for kids.

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Speaker 3: It was your own children.

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Speaker 2: Footy.

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Speaker 3: Well, when I was a kid, we never spoke like this,

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Speaker 3: even as a teenager, but I'd watch The Brady Bunch

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Speaker 3: and the kids are twelve or thirteen in that show,

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Speaker 3: and they all had to boyfriends and girlfriends.

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Speaker 2: You just didn't have to make up a fake boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: I know I was involved with George Glass and didn't

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Speaker 3: want to tell her that he was too timy relationships

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Speaker 3: for children, You know what you mean? Does this pass

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Speaker 3: the pub test?

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Speaker 1: I will generally say no, too young to know things

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Speaker 1: about life and the importance of love, et cetera. However,

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Speaker 1: I will say there's an exception to the rule because

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Speaker 1: you do occasionally hear of people who have been dicked

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Speaker 1: us since I was sixteen and madly in love. It's

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Speaker 1: literally having a boy who's a friend, but calling them

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Speaker 1: a boyfriend. It doesn't pass the pub test. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: to me it doesn't pass the pub test. It's a

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Speaker 1: bit embarrassing and inappropriate.

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Speaker 2: Miami does it all the time to my young daughter,

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Speaker 2: and I think it's inappropriate.

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Speaker 1: So no, it doesn't pass the pup test. I agree

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Speaker 1: that Drin shouldn't have pressure put on them about having

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Speaker 1: a brother through a girlfriends sing. All that my children

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Speaker 1: went through used to have Valentine's say, and I felt

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Speaker 1: that for the love too. Sure the children, though I

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Speaker 1: don't think society should put pressure on the children at

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Speaker 1: any age.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're turning them into adults way before they need

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Speaker 3: to get into all of that stuff.