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Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nation, the world's number one divorce lawyer,

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Speaker 1: has revealed the most shocking prenup deal he's ever seen

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Speaker 1: and has left people horrified.

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Speaker 2: Discussed, do you have a prenup?

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Speaker 3: I no, no, no, No one we knew ever had prenups.

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Speaker 2: Now, if you remarried, would you get a prenup?

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Speaker 3: Because I think they're really It used to be the

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Speaker 3: stuff of Hollywood, but I think now a lot of

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Speaker 3: normal couples have.

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Speaker 1: My wife always says, what's yours as mine and what's

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Speaker 1: mine is mine? Right, Yeah, so I think I've already

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Speaker 1: kind of prenup as it is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: On the other hand, I've never really thought about that.

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Speaker 2: Did you think about that?

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Speaker 3: No, we didn't have a prenup. We've been married thirty

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Speaker 3: four years. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Harley sort of does all the accounting his stuff, so

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Speaker 3: he could be planning some He could have a Swiss

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Speaker 3: Bank account for all I know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why he's always got expensive cars and flashy women.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 3: And he said, I'm just into the toddlerines. That's all

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Speaker 3: the Swiss stuff.

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Speaker 1: He loves those toblerones.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you about this though. Then The New York

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Speaker 2: based lawyers.

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Speaker 3: Name is James Sexton, and he's done thousands of divorces

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Speaker 3: and helped litigate and finalize these divorces. He's seen some

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Speaker 3: pretty bad breakups, but he said this one was quite disturbing.

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Speaker 3: This is a quote the most shocking prenup I've ever seen.

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Speaker 3: Had a provision that said that for every four and

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Speaker 3: a half kilograms the wife gained in the marriage, she'd

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Speaker 3: lose fifteen thousand in alimony. The husband was very concerned

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Speaker 3: that she was going to become less attractive and he

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Speaker 3: was going to become more wealthy. So his solution to

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Speaker 3: this was to put this.

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Speaker 2: In the prenup.

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Speaker 3: The prenup also sees the wife earn one hundred and

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Speaker 3: five thousand dollars if she maintains her weight from the

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Speaker 3: date of marriage. Even though it's outrageous, it was upheld

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Speaker 3: in court, so it's been upheld by the law, even

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Speaker 3: though other people have thought it was gross and thought

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Speaker 3: it was horrific.

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Speaker 1: So the wife was complying in this, we're presuming.

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Speaker 2: Well she must have been.

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Speaker 3: She has signed this, yeah, right, because for most of

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Speaker 3: us you'd go, well, you're a bastard, I'm out. She

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Speaker 3: obviously knows he's a bastard, and she's going along with it.

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Speaker 3: It's through incentive to slay slim. It's interesting if you

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Speaker 3: sign up for Jenny craig or as an ambassador, those

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Speaker 3: sorts of things. You have to be weighed, and it's

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Speaker 3: a contract you have to keep a certain weight. If

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Speaker 3: you're a Hollywood actor and you have to look a

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Speaker 3: certain way, they are in your contract that you have

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Speaker 3: to have a certain kind of appearance. So these aren't unusual,

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Speaker 3: but in a prenup it seems worse when a man

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Speaker 3: is saying to a woman, I don't want you to

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Speaker 3: pack it on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and if you marry someone that's quite slight and

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Speaker 1: slim and healthy and then they just go and pack

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Speaker 1: it on.

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Speaker 3: And then do you have a right to be cranky?

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Speaker 3: Do you have a right to withhold money? Obviously he does.

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Speaker 3: Would you be cranky? Would you say anything to Helen

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Speaker 3: if she did? She hasn't, by the way, but would.

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Speaker 2: You No, I wouldn't say anything.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say anything. She did say something to me, though,

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Speaker 1: which is curious. When we were younger, I put on

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Speaker 1: a bit of weight. She said she should put on weight,

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Speaker 1: and I lost the weight because of what she said.

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Speaker 3: Did it hurt you, Well, you took as practical information.

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Speaker 1: I'm a man, unpractical and pragmatic. Someone says you put

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Speaker 1: on weight, you go, yeah, sure.

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Speaker 3: But if she said you're losing your hair, you're going bald,

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Speaker 3: you wouldn't be so practical. We all have different sensitivities.

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Speaker 3: We have different sensitivities. The weight you can change and

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Speaker 3: don't talk. I don't bring up my ball patch. You

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Speaker 3: don't have a ball patch. But obviously I've hear the

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Speaker 3: sensitivity said this no meaning you say, I'm a guy,

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Speaker 3: I don't care, but there be parts of it.

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Speaker 2: You do care about having to work.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing I can do about losing my hair.

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Speaker 2: Okay, going no.

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Speaker 3: But if Helen said to you, I don't like that

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Speaker 3: you're losing your hair, you'd be hurt.

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Speaker 1: I think she says she wishes that I'd run a

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Speaker 1: rinse through it so it'll be a bit darker. But oh, look,

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Speaker 1: what like one of those guys, because it just goes

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Speaker 1: orange and you got orange.

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Speaker 2: Hair like Paul McCartney did for a number of years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Paul, or you die it too dark and just

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Speaker 3: from the actual which women like for themselves in a

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Speaker 3: man where it's suddenly starts at the very top of

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Speaker 3: the hair and it's black.

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Speaker 1: Yep, you got the plimsal line there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but then you look at Pierce President, What about him?

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Speaker 1: Well, here's miss O, she's packed it on, he's happy.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know what I admire is she's never given

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Speaker 3: into that kind of criticism. A lot of people on

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Speaker 3: social media say all those things that you've just said,

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Speaker 3: is Misso has packed it on. She loves herself, she

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Speaker 3: loves him and he loves her, and she hasn't got

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Speaker 3: a zepic face. You know, Well, we're going to live

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Speaker 3: in a world where there'll be no one who is

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Speaker 3: overweight thanks to a zepic or particularly in Hollywood circles.

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Speaker 3: I think amazingly that she's so free and it makes

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Speaker 3: her so attractive.

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Speaker 1: Well, I was reading about ezempic the other day that

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Speaker 1: it's actually got heart benefits as well.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but listen to this.

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Speaker 3: Actually, I saw Johann Hari talking about a zempic and

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Speaker 3: he said that airlines, it's airlines are using less fuel,

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Speaker 3: restaurants are closing down. There's all these big implications of

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Speaker 3: a zempic that's actually hitting our society already already.

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Speaker 2: I'll play you this you ready, Yes, there we go

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Speaker 2: that I took amongst yourself. While I find it, I

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Speaker 2: look at the cute puppies. Oh they're cute, aren't they?

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Speaker 1: In your own time?

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Speaker 3: Cancel here it is have gone down maid.

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Speaker 4: Making a lot of worrying noises about ice cream. Jeffrey's

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Speaker 4: Financial just did a big report for the US airlines

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Speaker 4: saying they're going to have to spend a lot less

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Speaker 4: money on jet fuel pretty soon because it takes a

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Speaker 4: lot less jet fuel to fly a much dinner population.

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Speaker 4: There's a company that makes hinges for near hip replacements.

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Speaker 4: Their stocks have tanked because the main driver of near

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Speaker 4: hit replacements is obesity, and there's going to be a

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Speaker 4: lot for your obese people. Jewelers have had a huge

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Speaker 4: run because people's fingers are shrinking so much. People have

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Speaker 4: had to have their wedding rings refitted.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Ten years from now, this will almost certainly be a

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Speaker 4: daily pill that costs about a dollar a day. My

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Speaker 4: anticipation is if we don't discover some horrific side effect,

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Speaker 4: and we might, well, I would anticipate half the population

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Speaker 4: of the United States will be taking these and it

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Speaker 4: will have incalculably huge consequences for the way we all live.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's not wow. He's just making that up.

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Speaker 3: Now, this is Johann Hara. It's research based. This is

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Speaker 3: a big thing, and it also talks in about.

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine that the airline industry would already be

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Speaker 1: seeing a difference because people are taking a zempic.

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Speaker 3: I think they might, because every small kilogram makes a difference.

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Speaker 3: But it does mean are we moving into a world

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Speaker 3: where this big body positivity movement is no more? We

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Speaker 3: love that we could accept all shapes and sizes, and

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Speaker 3: how we're going.

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Speaker 2: You've got no excuse to be like that anymore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Lizzo, you won't be able to get on the Cessna.

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Speaker 1: You won't even recognize her any.

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Speaker 3: What about Pierce Brosn's missile?

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Speaker 1: Well, she doesn't care, she doesn't need to take a

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Speaker 1: zempic and good on her.

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Speaker 2: Oh, how patronizing.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying she's packed on the condition, and now

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Speaker 3: you're saying she doesn't need too good on her.

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Speaker 1: I didn't say it looks like she swallowed a sheep.

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Speaker 2: I think you may have. How did this conversation start?

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Speaker 2: I can't even remember