1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: Beef cake. Look at look at that thick boy. 2 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 2: Come here, thick boy, you. 3 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: Look you look very cozy, very cozy. Today I might 4 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: have to take my pants off. Take your shoes off, mate, 5 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 1: relax Na, Welcome back to two doting dads. I happen 6 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: to be Maddie Jay and I happen to be Ash 7 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: And this happens to be a podcast all about parenting. 8 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: It is the good, it is the bad and relatable 9 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 1: and we never ever ever give advice. Never. We are 10 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 1: not that type of podcast. 11 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:50,639 Speaker 2: I refuse. 12 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: We never will be. You will never change. Will be 13 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: a place where we we celebrate our failures as parents. 14 00:00:58,120 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: Which is a lot of them. 15 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: And if you here of a failure, sit down and 16 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: get comfortable one of us. Yes. 17 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 3: And before we get started, Matts, we are drinking. Believe 18 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 3: it or not, we are drinking a stone and wood. 19 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 3: We thought we'd mix things up, pacific Al. This is 20 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,559 Speaker 3: Ellie Johnson's aka the Nana. 21 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: Have ever drinking? 22 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 2: She drinks it warm. 23 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: I was like, there's one's in the fridge and she's like, no, 24 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: this is fine. Something happens when you get older and 25 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: your taste buds go a little bit skwy. But She 26 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: still loves to taste of stone and wood cold or warm. 27 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 1: It's just like I want a warm one. Does anyone 28 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 1: out there in winter enjoy warm stone and wood? If 29 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: there would be people, do you reckon? Yeah, I'd love 30 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 1: to hear from you if you are If you're that person, 31 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: get in touch. And if you're single and your male great. 32 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 3: We are drinking the Pacific Ale mat and it gets 33 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 3: his name from the Pacific Ocean or Byron Bay, which 34 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 3: is on the Pacific Ocean, and they call it Byron 35 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 3: Bay in a bottle with its passion fruit and also 36 00:01:58,840 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 3: other tropical fruit. 37 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 2: It is definitely my favorite beer. 38 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: I had a few people around for Marley's birthday, Ash 39 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: just a couple of individuals. It wasn't anything too big. 40 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 2: He got them individuals. 41 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 1: It was mostly mums that came with the kids. And 42 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: I'm talking like three just in case your thanks wonder 43 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,399 Speaker 1: right you didn't get invitation, but Stone and Wood pacific 44 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: Al made a strong appearance. I didn't have any wine 45 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: in the fridge and I was like, can I interest 46 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 1: you all in a Pacific Ale. 47 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 2: I'll put it in a wine glass. 48 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: It went down very well. 49 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 2: Beautiful cheers. The stone wood for making this possible. As always, 50 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 2: we love you. How are you, my friend? 51 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: I'm doing I'm doing okay. 52 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:47,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, last time I saw you, I'll say, scurrying off 53 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 3: very quickly to get to the airport. 54 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes yes yes. 55 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 2: Tell us what was the occasion, Matt? 56 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:55,639 Speaker 1: I have been wanting to tell you the story. 57 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 2: Oh I thought I'm too hot. That's one layer of 58 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 2: clothing gone. 59 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 1: And it begins. Oh how does that feel? Give that 60 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: nug and a scratch? 61 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 2: I have nits? 62 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: Sorry about that. Okay, I've been wanting to tell you 63 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: the story since it happened. 64 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, you haven't enswed my calls. 65 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 1: We avoid telling each other any stories until we're in 66 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,959 Speaker 1: the podcast. But I had to go to Melbourne last week. 67 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 1: I had a job down there. It was on a Thursday, 68 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: and you know I have the kids on Thursdays, so 69 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: it's hard to manage because Laura's also flat out. But 70 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 1: I thought, do you know what I'll do. I'll bring 71 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: the kids with me big mistake, down to Melbourne. It'll 72 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: be fun, it'll be an adventure, we'll all have a 73 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: great time and then we'll fly back the next day. 74 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: So that's what we did. End of story. It's always 75 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: it's always one of those cases where're like, this will 76 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: be fun playing trips. They're an adventure, the kids will 77 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: love it. But it was It's a lot of moving around. 78 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: Two flights and within twenty four hours with kids, it's 79 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 1: no good, no good, it's no good. So Ash, I'm 80 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: gonna I'm just going to go out. I'm going to 81 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 1: tell you what happened. 82 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 2: Set the scene. 83 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: I almost got bashed on a plane. 84 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 3: What you how you're superlite, You're too nice, especially to 85 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 3: the public, especially to the public. It's me a little 86 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 3: bit mean, but to the public you are extra nice. 87 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 2: How did this happen? 88 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: Matt? So we did? 89 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 2: Unless another man's wife fell in love with you? Yeah, yeah, 90 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 2: definitly good looks charming man. 91 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 1: So the job was finished? 92 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 2: I bet it was. I was sorry. I bet it 93 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 2: wasn't there there's one new thing, trademark. I bet it was. 94 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: And it was time to return back to Sydney to 95 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: get to the airport. Flight was a little bit delayed 96 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:47,359 Speaker 1: and we're waiting to board the plane. Lola ended up 97 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: falling asleep in my lap. And you know, tonightmare when 98 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 1: the kids always fall asleep when you have to then 99 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: like move going. Yeah, as she fell asleep. Twenty minutes later, 100 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 1: they're like boarding for jet Star blah blah, oh blah blah. 101 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: So now as we're getting you have to walk across 102 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 1: the tarmac. She wakes up crying. She's having a terrible time. 103 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,919 Speaker 1: She's like, I was fucking sleeping. Why are we on 104 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: a tarmac? And why is there a jet engine in 105 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: my face? So we get the kids down in their seats. 106 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm in the aisle. Lola's next to me, screaming because 107 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: she's just been working up. Marley's in the window seat 108 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 1: watching her iPad, preoccupied. Maley's been great. The person in 109 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 1: front of me was very agitated. It was a man. 110 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 1: There was a man in a red jacket. 111 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 2: Detriment for the story. 112 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: Yes, anyway, So everyone's boarded. Plane doors are shut and 113 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: I'm still trying to settle Lola very aware that I'm 114 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 1: trying to. 115 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 2: Make it's like trying to diffuse a bomb. 116 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I'm dealing with that. The guy in front 117 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 1: of me turns around, peers over the seat, looks at me, 118 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: and he goes, do you want me to break your 119 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: fucking nose? No? 120 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 2: No, no, are you serious? 121 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 1: I am deadly serious right now. 122 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 2: He's just out of nowhere. 123 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, and I'm like what. I was like, is 124 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 1: this a joke? 125 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 2: Is this? 126 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: I was like, what, I'm trying to comprehend what's going on? 127 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 1: Because it came left field? 128 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 2: What sort of bloke was he like? 129 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: Was? Well, it turns out he wasn't quite right. I 130 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 1: want to say. He was like mister Freeze two point. 131 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 2: Zero, so you reckon. It was like an isotic. 132 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: He was he was, he wasn't. I wasn't sure in 133 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: that moment because I said excuse me, and he goes, 134 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: do you want to break your fucking nose? And I 135 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: was like, And luckily Marley didn't hear because she was 136 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 1: on a iPad. Lola was screaming the house down, so 137 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 1: she didn't realize. And I was like, oh, like in 138 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: that moment, I just froze. 139 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 2: It's like, holy shit. 140 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: But then the lucky thing was so lucky that this happened. 141 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:01,599 Speaker 1: The air hosty happened to be right next to me 142 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 1: walking down the aisle as he said that, and she 143 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 1: clocked it, and she was like she had the second time. 144 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 1: She goes excuse me, and he goes, I'm trying to 145 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: put my fucking seat back and he's not letting me 146 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: do it. And I wasn't even touching the seat. I 147 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: was because I was sitting facing you know, Lola. I 148 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: was like hunched over. 149 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 2: So it wasn't the it wasn't Lola crying. It was 150 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 2: the sea for their combination. 151 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: That's what I thought. And I was she was like, 152 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: excuse me, and he starts flipping out, saying that I'm 153 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 1: stopping him from putting his seat back, and I was like, 154 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: that's not quite right. And then she spoke to him 155 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: for a little bit. He's clearly not right. He's he 156 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: must be high as a kite. I was just like 157 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: not because then she said, don't react to him. I'm 158 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: going to sort this out. Because I was like, am 159 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: I is this going to end up in a fight 160 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: right now? Like? Am I going to have to if 161 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 1: he starts coming at me again? You know? I don't. Yeah, yeah, 162 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm like ready for fucking battle. 163 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 2: Dude, especially in front of your kids. 164 00:07:54,920 --> 00:08:00,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. And then as the air hosty walks off, he 165 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: he's going. 166 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 2: Shut up. 167 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: So I'm like, Okay, this guy is he's not all there. 168 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: He's not all there. And also a few of the 169 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: people start clocking it now, but I'm not sure what 170 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 1: normally happens in that scenario. But she the air hosty 171 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 1: like taps him the shoulder and she just says, don't worry, 172 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: We'll get him off the plane. And so I'm like, okay, 173 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: but the issue was and we're waiting, doors are shut 174 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: in the plane. Five minutes go by, ten minutes go by, 175 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 1: he's still really agitated. 176 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,959 Speaker 2: And so someone sitting next to him, yeah. 177 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: There was. It was another jet Star employee. Luckily, so 178 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: no one in the middle. There's a jet Star employee. 179 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: He was not working, but she was in the window 180 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 1: seat and she was a young girl as well. She 181 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,959 Speaker 1: was looking a bit worried concerned, and I was thinking 182 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: my mind, like this is going to kick off, like 183 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: this guy is only she's going to get him off 184 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 1: the plane. And the captain does an announcement and says 185 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 1: President seating number thirty D. He just goes, we have 186 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 1: a small issue with someone's booking that we're just figuring 187 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 1: it out now, so just hold time and we'll be 188 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 1: up in the air and no time, and then cops 189 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: come on, whoa come on, and they tap on the 190 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: shoulder and they say, hey, there's just been a really 191 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: small problem with your booking and we just also something's 192 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: wrong with your luggage, and you know, to the guy 193 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: and then he goes, I don't have any luggage now, 194 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 1: and they say, can you can you get off the 195 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: flight come with us. Don't worry, You're still going to 196 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: fly today. They're very good at keeping it calm. You're 197 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: going to be on the next flight. 198 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 2: To drag that motherfucker off, I was like, get into 199 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 2: my headline, bunch. He came right for hold his arms back. 200 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:46,559 Speaker 1: For me, and then I was thinking, this is when 201 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: it's gonna Yeah, you know those scenes you see like 202 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 1: a video on social media and it's someone like literally 203 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: in a head like getting dragged off the plane. I 204 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 1: was like, this is about that. 205 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 2: It's going to happen. 206 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 1: And luckily he was like, but I'm still going to 207 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:00,959 Speaker 1: fly today, and they go, yea, you're still flying. You'd 208 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: be on the next flight out here in fifteen minutes. 209 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: And I was like, you're not, gotcha. He gets off 210 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: the plane just. 211 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 2: Voluntarily gets yes. I wanted to see you on the news. 212 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 2: Imagine if you were like and it's going to be 213 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 2: on the news. Tonight and it's just like, you don't 214 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 2: get carried off. 215 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 1: But they get him off the plane, and I still like, 216 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: I wasn't sure if he was going to look at 217 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 1: me and be like you're the reason why I'm getting 218 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 1: kicked off, you know. And I've got Marley and Lola 219 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 1: next to me. But also Mom came with us as well. 220 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 1: Oh that's right before the police came on. Mum was like, 221 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 1: can you smell something? Because he's I want to assume 222 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 1: that this this guy hasn't showered for a long time 223 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: as well, so he has quite a pungent smell. So 224 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: Nana is in the next she's like, can you smell something? 225 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: This is whilse we're waiting for the police to come 226 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 1: and take me and looking at Nana. 227 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 2: Going shut up, generation has no chill. 228 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 1: She's like what what? And that guy seems a bit strange, 229 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,560 Speaker 1: doesn't he because he's a talking in tongues by himself. 230 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 1: And I was like, for god, sec now you shut 231 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:14,319 Speaker 1: the hell. 232 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 2: He like, the police can take her with you. I 233 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 2: imagine your mumbling. 234 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: They go, oh the police are here. 235 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 2: Something stinks. 236 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 1: Anyway, he gets off the plane, and I was the 237 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:29,559 Speaker 1: relief that. 238 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can imagine the sigh of relief I was. 239 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: I was in my mind. I was like, I'm going 240 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 1: to get punched and elbowt in the face right now, 241 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: and I'm going to do it in front of my kids. 242 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 2: Great for publicity for the podcast, You're like, I'm in 243 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 2: doting dad, that's to's podcast. 244 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 1: Look, I'm all for a story as long as knowing 245 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 1: I'm happy for the story to be this level of extreme. 246 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:53,679 Speaker 1: I don't want to get hit. I want to find anyone, 247 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: But I do want to give a shout out to 248 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 1: the jet Star flight attendants, the women on that plane. 249 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 2: They just killed it. 250 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 1: They killed it, they dealt with it. They are very professional. 251 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 2: Now often that happens, well, she. 252 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: Says quite a lot, apparently, really yeah. She was like, 253 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 1: you'd be surprised. She's like the flight from between Melbourne 254 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: and Sydney. She's like, that's where it happens. Really yeah, 255 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: she said, two weeks ago, the plane was taking off 256 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: and a guy just got out of his seat and 257 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: started flipping out up and down the aisle. 258 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 2: At what point mid takeoff? You go, now is my time? 259 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:30,679 Speaker 1: Excuse me? 260 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 2: Excuse me? He like, does that weird shuffle out from 261 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 2: the window. 262 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 1: Just be one second. 263 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 2: Excuse me, excuse me. Well, I'm glad you made it 264 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 2: back in one pete, and I can't imagine the week 265 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 2: you've had not been able to tell me that, So 266 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 2: I know I can imagine that you would have been 267 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 2: like on that plane. Guard. 268 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: I can't wait to tells this story. I was in 269 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: the air being buy wi fi tell him. But it 270 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 1: goes to show one thing. You shouldn't put your seat 271 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 1: back on a domestic flight. 272 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 2: No, you shouldn't anyway. 273 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: I don't think. 274 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 2: I don't think. 275 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 3: I don't do it. I don't go back unless there's 276 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 3: no one behind me. 277 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: I'm fucking joking to it. Oh fucking hell. 278 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 2: No, I'm saying, be courteous. I thought you were serious. Look, 279 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 2: I'm serious one of us around it. 280 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: It needs to be serious. It's a very good point. Yes, 281 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: I never me myself personally. I never do it on 282 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: a fly. 283 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 2: I know I'm going to be on Q and A 284 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 2: this week and that's gonna be one of the questions. 285 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 2: Do you ever recline your seatback? I never do anything. 286 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 2: It's inconvenient for the people behind me, but I also 287 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 2: think if I do it, the people behind me can 288 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 2: also do it so that evens itself out all the 289 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 2: way down to the back of the plane. 290 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 1: Thank you for clarifying. That's okay, thank you. I'm glad. 291 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 3: I'm glad you made it back in one piece. A 292 00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 3: couple of things happened to me while you're away. 293 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 1: A couple of you make me laugh. Thank you, you 294 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 1: make me laugh. Thank you. 295 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 2: That's what I'm here for. And you can wheel me 296 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 2: back out. 297 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: What do you got? 298 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 3: Two things happened to me while you're away. While you 299 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 3: were making enemies, I was making friends. 300 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 1: That is not like you at all. 301 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 2: You know how we spoke about. 302 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 3: Oscar making a friend, which is Siri, which that's still ongoing. 303 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: But I also made a friend. I'm intrigued. 304 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 3: So every Thursday is same with me. I have Macy, 305 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 3: yes Thursday, so we go swimming, try and tuck her out. 306 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 3: Then we go to rhyme time? 307 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 2: Okay, which what is rhyme time again? It's a place 308 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 2: where you go to rhyme now it's at the local library. 309 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: You go there at spitbars. I'm just a tired dad. 310 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 1: I'm rad No, no, I'm also bad. 311 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 2: That's terrible. 312 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 3: Please stop, please stop right now. The download numbers just went. 313 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 3: So it's a place you go library where they do. 314 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 3: They sing songs to the kids, they read books like 315 00:14:56,240 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 3: a group. It's free, brilliant initiative, I think, because it's 316 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 3: half an hour. 317 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 2: For me to sit on my phone while they do that. 318 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 2: And they're like singing. 319 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 3: And their kids are all usually a similar age, like 320 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 3: two three. 321 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: This is just Macy, just Macy. 322 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 3: So I take Macey every week and she's slowly like 323 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 3: she's involved for half. She there's the song she likes, 324 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 3: the song she doesn't like, and she comes back and 325 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 3: she sits with me, or she grabs a book and 326 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 3: sits with me. 327 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: What are the song that she doesn't like? 328 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 2: She doesn't care for days of the week anymore. 329 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 4: Days of the week, days of the week. Yeah, and 330 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 4: this Tuesday. You know, this is my story. Macey's a 331 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 4: bit off it. She's just like I'm up. 332 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 3: She wants more of the songs that have the props, 333 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 3: the ribbons. 334 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 5: The shakers, big parachute and they all go under underneath it, 335 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 5: or like a song that goes and they all fall 336 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 5: down and they. 337 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 3: All fall down, and then like walks are boring. Let's 338 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 3: be honest, it's just someone reading and read it. So 339 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 3: she gets her own book and comes over to me, 340 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 3: and usually that's snack time. So I was like, okay, 341 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 3: having snacks. And she pulled out a bag, a little bag. 342 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 2: Of the little cookies that she had, chocolate chip cookies, 343 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 2: and I was like, daddy, you have one of those two. 344 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 3: I opened it, she grabbed one, walked away to go 345 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 3: and do your ohyme time the cookies. The opening of 346 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 3: the cookies has attracted a small young boy. 347 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 1: The sound well come out of nowhere. He's like, what 348 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 1: do you go there? 349 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 2: What do you got? He come over and I was like. 350 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 1: That rustle, the aluminium kind of like plastic rustle. I 351 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 1: can hear that from mild is. 352 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 2: To retain the freshness of the cookies. 353 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: That's what that is. 354 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 2: Anyway, you shouldn't. I have learned, not the hard way, 355 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 2: but I've learned that you don't just give another kid 356 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 2: cookie cause. 357 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 1: You got an allergy. 358 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 2: Might have analergy. 359 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: So I sort of that is very intelligent for anyway, 360 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 1: So het April taught you that, Oh absolutely. 361 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 3: So he put his hand on my knee because we're 362 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 3: sitting on the ground like like Buster would do when 363 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 3: he wants something. 364 00:16:57,080 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: He's like, just to let you know that he's there. 365 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 2: I'm here. He's like tapping, I'm right here, thank you sir. 366 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 2: And I was like trying to ignore him, awkward, like 367 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 2: I don't know what. I don't know what, like what 368 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 2: the difference between just moving your head like this is. 369 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 2: But when you're trying to not let them know that 370 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 2: you're not, you're trying to ignore them your whole buddy, 371 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 2: putting your back to them. 372 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:24,240 Speaker 3: Anyway, the mum comes over and she was like, it's 373 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 3: so sorry, and she was like, he loves cookies. I 374 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 3: was obviously, so I took that as if like he'll 375 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 3: get one, and I was like, oh, you can have what. 376 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 3: She's like, no, no, it's okay. He's got his own. 377 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 1: And I was like she took the homemade Were they 378 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 1: bought cookies? 379 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? Homemade? Who do you think I am? 380 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 1: Crocker favores. What have we got? 381 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 2: No wet? They just chok the chip cookies? 382 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? 383 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:53,120 Speaker 2: Classic. So he's he's gone off anyway, makes she's come 384 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:56,640 Speaker 2: back to get another cookie and guess who reappears? 385 00:17:56,640 --> 00:18:01,359 Speaker 1: And I went, there you go and the cookie and 386 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: you haven't killed the child, have you. 387 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 2: He's like, don't ruin my story. No, No, he's given 388 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:11,720 Speaker 2: attle lot of approval, driffed off, and I thought, oh, 389 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:15,119 Speaker 2: that's it. Anyway, one is never enough, and other song's 390 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 2: gone by, he's obviously finished the cookie, and he reappears, 391 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 2: and like this time he came back with much more confidence. 392 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 1: He was like, fucking give us one. 393 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:25,360 Speaker 2: And he's like walking across these kids, like knocking kids 394 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 2: out of the way as I'm getting this cookie. 395 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 1: So it's rummaging through your pockets. 396 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 2: First of all, I was like, that's all right, got 397 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 2: another cookie, took off, and I thought that's got to 398 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:37,959 Speaker 2: be it. That's surely that's got to be it. 399 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 3: And then he's come back again, and I'm like, where 400 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 3: the fuck is this? 401 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 2: Mum gone. She's obviously just watching this all unfold. 402 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 3: Anyway, by the time we'd finished the thing of cookies, 403 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 3: he's sitting next to me and we're. 404 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 2: Like doing her right time together. 405 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:57,239 Speaker 3: Anyway, twenty minutes he's out there and we're doing all 406 00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 3: the wrong times. Macey's coming back and forth as well. 407 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 1: Do it or is she like? Because sometimes they're like 408 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:02,680 Speaker 1: my daddy. 409 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 3: She was sweet, she was sweet, We'll fine, and then 410 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:08,440 Speaker 3: I make she's come over for some water and he 411 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 3: was like, what else, Like that's by the end of it, 412 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 3: and it was like and then the rhyme time wraps up. 413 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 3: The mums come out of nowhere. She's obviously watched the 414 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 3: whole thing unfold. She's like, she's great, this guy's got 415 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 3: him all good. She comes back home and she's like, 416 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 3: thank you. See oh bye, like I worked there. She's 417 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 3: taken off with my new friend. 418 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: You just saved yourself paying for lunch. Yeah. 419 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 3: So anyway, I've got a new friend now, so hopefully 420 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,439 Speaker 3: he's that rum time if he's listening. 421 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:45,959 Speaker 1: There's no greater compliment, I think than a child just 422 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 1: instantly being drawn towards you. Yeah. Yes, it's annoying, but 423 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:52,360 Speaker 1: you know you're a you have a warm presence. 424 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 2: I know I never make I don't make a lot 425 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:56,360 Speaker 2: of friends. I wonder why that is. 426 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 1: It's nice to see you smile as well. 427 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 3: Anyway, that was one thing that happened over the time 428 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 3: that you're away. 429 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 2: So I've got a new friend now. I don't know 430 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 2: his name. 431 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: I know, like, did you see a regular visitor to 432 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: run time? 433 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 2: I'll find out when I go back this week. I 434 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:11,400 Speaker 2: didn't get to go. 435 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:13,439 Speaker 1: He's probably going to start spreading the word as well 436 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:14,880 Speaker 1: as like you guys want some cookies. 437 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:16,399 Speaker 2: Dealer? 438 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 1: Yeah? Them up? 439 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 2: The last question give I want to call that for you. 440 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 3: Both your kid and my kid are at the age 441 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 3: that next year they're going to big school. 442 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:29,680 Speaker 1: Yes, so we have enrolled daycare fees. 443 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 2: What's up public school? Anyway? 444 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 3: We we enrolled Oscar into a local school near me 445 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:42,639 Speaker 3: and it turns out to be the school that I 446 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:44,919 Speaker 3: went to as a child. 447 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 1: This is a question for April, but I'll ask you 448 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 1: when do you have to enroll them by? I haven't 449 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 1: enrolled Marley. Now you have to do it now. 450 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 2: You should have done it by now. Really. 451 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, but if you're in the catchment, are they forced 452 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 1: to take you? No? 453 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 3: Okay, no, because you're I would find that your catchment 454 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 3: falls into a couple of different schools. 455 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:06,440 Speaker 1: Ship. 456 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:10,959 Speaker 5: So the thing is you remind me after we finished recording, 457 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:14,360 Speaker 5: because because if you if they're like, okay, we've got 458 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 5: this amount of kids from the catchment, we'll start to 459 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:17,479 Speaker 5: take people out of area. 460 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 1: Fuck. 461 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 2: Yes, just be careful. Hopefully I'm helping you here. So 462 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 2: we did. 463 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 3: We had an open day, so it was an over 464 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:27,959 Speaker 3: day where you go with your kid. I'm not going 465 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 3: to name the school because they're for privacy reasons. Obviously 466 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:34,679 Speaker 3: it's but it was a school I went to as 467 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 3: a kid, okay, And we drove in and immediately I 468 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 3: was like. 469 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 2: This is fucking weird. Yeah so weird. 470 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 1: Has it changed much? 471 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:52,359 Speaker 3: It's exactly the same, exactly so much so, like went 472 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 3: down the track to the school to the school entrance, 473 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 3: were lining up to do your check in, because I 474 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:57,680 Speaker 3: mean it is a school. 475 00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:59,360 Speaker 2: You got to check in and they do a quick 476 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 2: police check make sure't it. 477 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,400 Speaker 3: But like, you know, and all my friends that I'm 478 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 3: still friends with, the guys I went to school with 479 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,960 Speaker 3: there like close, like we hang out every day, which 480 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 3: is wow. 481 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 2: Wild. It was weird. It was kind of this weird nostalgic. 482 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 3: Moment where you're like, you know where, like you're walking 483 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,200 Speaker 3: past things that you're like, holy shit, I remember when 484 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:24,879 Speaker 3: this happened here, and do you do you know. 485 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: What I find the weirdest thing about going back to 486 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 1: primary school is that everything's so tiny. Do you find 487 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: that like when you were oh yeah yeah yeah, when 488 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 1: you were they're like where you would put your bags 489 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 1: or the bubblers. Everything is fucking miniature it's so small. Yeah, 490 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 1: and you're like, I feel like a giant going back 491 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: in there. 492 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 3: Nothing absolutely nothing has changed. Obviously technology and updating of 493 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 3: current things. But like you walk through the office and 494 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 3: I was like, holy shit. I was like, that's sick Bay, 495 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 3: still sick Bay. That's the principal's office, Still the principal's offer. 496 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 1: Any teacher's still there. I get the back. 497 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 3: We're on this tour and I'm walking we walk out 498 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 3: of the office, so this thing that overlooks the whole 499 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 3: playground identical. Nothing has fucking changed whatsoever. And I'm in 500 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 3: I'm spinning out. I'm like, it's the school that shaped me. 501 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:21,640 Speaker 3: And it's like. 502 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 2: You start to remember little bits and pieces of like memories, 503 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 2: memories flooding. I was just like spin it out and 504 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 2: I was like, holy shit, nothing has changed. And the 505 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 2: vice principal was right behind me and she was like, 506 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 2: did you used to go here? I said, I went 507 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,800 Speaker 2: to this school twenty two years ago. 508 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 1: Shit, we're old. 509 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:42,440 Speaker 3: I know that's when I left. I was like, I 510 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,199 Speaker 3: had been there for five years prior to when I 511 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 3: had left. And she was like, oh, is it what 512 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 3: you know? Is it the same? 513 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,160 Speaker 2: I'm like it's grabbing. 514 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 3: I'm like, woman, nothing PTSD is killing me. 515 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:01,640 Speaker 2: Thankfully I had. Thankfully, I have nothing. 516 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 3: But very good memories from primary school. It wasn't a 517 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,119 Speaker 3: traumatic time for me. It was the only school that 518 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 3: I went to for the whole time. Actually, no, it's 519 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 3: the longest school that I spent time at. After that, 520 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 3: the memory is hazy. 521 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 1: But she was like, oh, that's great. So it's all 522 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:18,880 Speaker 1: the same. 523 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 3: I'm like, everything is the same, like the red brick, 524 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 3: nothing has changed whatsoever. There's plaques and stuff on the 525 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 3: ground with people's names on it from when I was 526 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,240 Speaker 3: at school, and teachers. 527 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 1: And so it's all the same. 528 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,719 Speaker 3: She was like, oh, do you remember any teachers. I 529 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:36,719 Speaker 3: was like, yeah, I had this one teacher and I 530 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:37,680 Speaker 3: told her the teacher's name. 531 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 2: She goes, yep, she's still here. 532 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 1: I was like, fuck off, surely that'll be dead by now. 533 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,120 Speaker 2: A couple of them are dead. One of them done 534 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:46,879 Speaker 2: in a boating accident. That was rumor. 535 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 3: That's not going to do, but you start. It was funny, 536 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 3: like walking through watching Oscar, you know. We went to 537 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:59,159 Speaker 3: a couple of the classrooms and I was like, I remember. 538 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 1: This teachers that they're holding hands with the kids and 539 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 1: you're just there rocking in the corner of a classroom, 540 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 1: inside a classroom rade threes, being like time goes so quickly, 541 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: I enjoy every second. 542 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 2: There was a combination of that and April like crying 543 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 2: because just like realizing that their kids. And I was 544 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 2: just like where these weird couple were. 545 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 1: I'm just like. 546 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,959 Speaker 2: Rocking in the corner. And I was like, it's growing 547 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:26,160 Speaker 2: up so fast? 548 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 1: The other parents are they crying? 549 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:36,399 Speaker 2: Normal? Anyway, We're doing the tour, and it was like 550 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,480 Speaker 2: I kept having these flashbacks of moments. And we went 551 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 2: to the hall. They have a big hall. 552 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 3: The hall is exactly the same, and they were doing 553 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 3: like a dance class, like the year six was doing 554 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 3: a dance class, and I just had this memory come 555 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 3: flooding back. So when I was like, it must have 556 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 3: been year four or year five or something like that, 557 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 3: and so that how it would it be, say ten 558 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 3: and me and all the friends that I still am 559 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:08,400 Speaker 3: friends with. Now, this teacher started an all boys dance class. 560 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 2: And she was like recruiting all these boys. 561 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 1: Comes a suspect. 562 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 3: But like she was just like wanting to be wanting 563 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 3: to get more inclusive of just the girls doing the dance. 564 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:20,360 Speaker 1: She's now in prison. 565 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:22,640 Speaker 2: We'll get there. 566 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 1: It turns out she was grooming us all. She grooms 567 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 1: all that. 568 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 2: It's actually quite a sad story, this one. So sorry. 569 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 3: It was. 570 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,399 Speaker 1: It was as she was when who died in the 571 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 1: boating accident. 572 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 2: No, it's a funny, sad memory. Funny for me, sad 573 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,200 Speaker 2: for her. So she's gone. 574 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,439 Speaker 3: She's spent all this time recruiting all these boys to 575 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 3: do it, and we were like. 576 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do it. 577 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, this would be SIGNI like hip hop dancing. 578 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:47,639 Speaker 2: Oh god, sad. 579 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,120 Speaker 3: Anyway, so she's recruited this all and then we did 580 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 3: a couple of classes and all of the boys. 581 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,480 Speaker 2: Realized that this is they're good. This is not good. 582 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,120 Speaker 2: We don't like this, so we all quit it once. 583 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 3: Anyway, the teacher cried, I know, I know, but straight 584 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,439 Speaker 3: away I went to the group chat today or like 585 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 3: that on the day of being like, hey, I'm currently 586 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 3: at school having all these nostalgic memories, and I remember 587 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 3: that this came up. 588 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,680 Speaker 2: Kids are savage. That's a savage thing to do. 589 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 1: But she's got she's got to understand. 590 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,399 Speaker 2: She befull cried, dude, we all got in trouble. We 591 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 2: all got in trouble, not in trouble, but we all. 592 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:34,199 Speaker 3: Got like a hey, guys, look you've really disappointed this teacher. 593 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,399 Speaker 1: And we were like, always want to run around the 594 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 1: oval and tackle each tease each other. I don't want 595 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 1: to learn how to do a six step. 596 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly right. 597 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 3: That's another thing that like you start remembering all the 598 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:49,200 Speaker 3: embarrassing things that you did and you're like, oh god, 599 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 3: why am I so sad. So in that young age, 600 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:57,960 Speaker 3: say year five, year six, you start to develop, you know, 601 00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 3: You're like, oh, she's hot, you know, little girl like 602 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:01,160 Speaker 3: you know, you start to. 603 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 1: Have attracted to the I used to have a ruler 604 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 1: that had do you still with a girl called Mallory 605 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:14,399 Speaker 1: and I the ruler, and she would read it and 606 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: be like yeah, and then she'd have written on a 607 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 1: rubber and he'd be like do you still and you'd 608 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 1: be like, yeah, we still liked each other. 609 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, So you start to like girls and stuff 610 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 3: like that. So there was a girl that I really like, 611 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 3: really liked at the time. My mates were like, yeah, 612 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 3: de to do it, to do it anyway? I went 613 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 3: at one lunchtime. It was like getting to the point like, yeah, 614 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 3: de to do it, to do it. She was like, yeah, 615 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 3: I'm keen. Yeah, I'm keen. She was keen for the kids, 616 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 3: which is great. You know, I'm developing as a young 617 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 3: man and were young boy young man in primary school. 618 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 5: That's what. 619 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 2: Eleven or twelve okay was twelve, I feel reasons twelve. 620 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 1: She was eight. 621 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 3: No, in the same grade, in the same class. 622 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 2: We liked each other anyway, so I went in. 623 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 3: It was consensual, say it was consensual. It was it 624 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 3: was like her friends a jeta that my friends, and 625 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:13,440 Speaker 3: it was going to happen. Everyone's gathered an audience, adience, 626 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 3: everyone's gathered. So I've gone in for it, and one 627 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 3: of my dickhead maids has pushed me. 628 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 2: As I've done it, I full raspberry do fade like. 629 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 1: On a cheek. 630 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 2: Everyone's gone from then on out. 631 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 3: I was ridiculed for being the puffer fish, and I 632 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 3: was like. 633 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:43,920 Speaker 1: Who is your mate? 634 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 2: His name was Michael Down. He's probably listening. 635 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 3: I have seen my mate since I did this school tour, 636 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 3: and we talked about that story and it was. 637 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 2: Like, oh, kids are savvy. Jay. There's a lot of 638 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 2: other stuff that was gone through this group chat now 639 00:29:58,240 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 2: that we're like. 640 00:29:58,760 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 1: Remember the is remember that? 641 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:00,719 Speaker 2: Remember that? 642 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 3: Anyway, I would say that doing the school toour with 643 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 3: Oscar has traumatized me, but also felt like I missed 644 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 3: those days as a kid, like you miss those. 645 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 2: No I know, hear me out. 646 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 1: Okay. 647 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:21,680 Speaker 3: I found myself very in a very I don't know 648 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 3: if we finished the day, went home, and I felt 649 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 3: like fuck, like where's top one, Where's time? But I 650 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 3: also felt like really thankful and really grateful for going 651 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,160 Speaker 3: to a school like that, because, like I said, I 652 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 3: still hang out with all of those guys like daily, 653 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:42,080 Speaker 3: like speaking to him this morning. Michael still around? Who 654 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 3: Michael Dawn? Who's the guy Michael down? Actually here's a 655 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 3: story too. He moves away, but I moved. I moved 656 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,760 Speaker 3: back to Sydney. Went shut up. I got into an 657 00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 3: elevator in the city and he was in there and 658 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 3: he was like ash random anyway, but I am still 659 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 3: friends with all those Hey, I'm trying to have a 660 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 3: nice moment here. 661 00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 1: What the fuck was that? Sorry? 662 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:11,640 Speaker 3: Sorry? I just ran into him, like thirty years later 663 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 3: in an elevator. What are the chances? 664 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 1: What? What? 665 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 2: I'm not the laughing song of this podcast. Okay, I'm 666 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 2: deeply hurt. 667 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: No, just that was sorry, that's a dreadful story. But okay, please, 668 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 1: what the. 669 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 2: Coincidence of running into someone thirty years later in an 670 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 2: elevator after we both moved away, And. 671 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 1: No, I get that. I get it, I get it, 672 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 1: I get it. It was just like it was just 673 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,400 Speaker 1: at like no context, no context. It was like, ASH 674 00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 1: was like, no. 675 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 2: You got the wrong guy. Actually I got another buddy. 676 00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 3: No, no, anyway, don't enroll your kids or your kid's 677 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 3: going to be going to some school that fucking and 678 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 3: you're gonna have to. 679 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 1: Relax. Turn on me. 680 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 2: I've turned on you. I can't finish the story. I'm 681 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 2: losing concentration. 682 00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, that was It's You're very lucky. 683 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 1: I'm gone home. I'm done with it. 684 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 2: You finished this podcast on your own, all right. You're 685 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 2: bullying me now. Anyway, that was open day. I'm now 686 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 2: studying to be a teacher, to go back. Goodness me, 687 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 2: I'm glad that I can bring you so much joy. 688 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 1: May you laugh? That's why I like it, That's why, 689 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 1: that's why. 690 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:39,440 Speaker 2: Is that the only reason I'm here. 691 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 1: I've got a quick story. 692 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 2: We don't have time. We would have but I took 693 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 2: up all the time. I've actually got one. 694 00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 1: More so, when was the last time you went to 695 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:59,240 Speaker 1: the movies with the kids? I've taken them. You have 696 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,320 Speaker 1: no sorry, I forgot your absent father. Apologies. 697 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 2: Oh wow, you could talk at least to put my 698 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:15,959 Speaker 2: kids in the face of danger on aeroplanes like joan 699 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 2: me to break my jant me to break you. Notice 700 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 2: like you could break either of these girls. 701 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: May get me, Adam. 702 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 3: Let me use you as a human shield. Oh no, 703 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 3: I've never taken them, April. April has taken I think Oscar. 704 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 3: Early days, it was like a mother like kids. Yeah, yeah, 705 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:39,280 Speaker 3: like in the mother's group sort of thing. 706 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, they have at cinemas, they would have set times 707 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 1: where everyone brings their kids and the kids can fucking 708 00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:45,560 Speaker 1: run around. 709 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 2: Your baby in the room, watch the movie, enjoy something. 710 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:48,680 Speaker 2: It's the soundproof room. 711 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:52,360 Speaker 1: It's great, it's okay, it's it's beautiful. But that's my 712 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 1: I mean of the movie once or twice. Both times 713 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 1: have been the designated parent child toddler times. And it's 714 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 1: during the week as well, like on a Wednesday. 715 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 2: They're not running on a weekend. 716 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,720 Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm a fucking idiot. I'm an idiot. 717 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 2: He went on a weekend in a non Yeah, okay, 718 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:10,239 Speaker 2: I'm with you. 719 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, because Laura's got for those of is this going 720 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:12,319 Speaker 1: to be. 721 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:13,440 Speaker 2: A good story or is it going to be a 722 00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 2: shit story. 723 00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,400 Speaker 1: I don't tell the stories for you. I tell them 724 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 1: for the listeners. 725 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,920 Speaker 2: I tell mine for you. 726 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:24,319 Speaker 1: Needn't rethink that, pal, I. 727 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,400 Speaker 2: Really need to think about my whole back catalog now. 728 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,480 Speaker 1: So Laura's gone, she left, she left you again, She's 729 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 1: left me again. She's over in India having a great time. 730 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,799 Speaker 1: Nana's gone as well, She's in Bali. So I've got 731 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:37,440 Speaker 1: both girls. 732 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:39,480 Speaker 2: Nana's on another. 733 00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 1: Another contigue to like spending all of my inheritance as well, 734 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:48,000 Speaker 1: and the girls piercing down with rain on Sunday, and 735 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, what do I I just need 736 00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 1: something to do to get him out of the house, 737 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,399 Speaker 1: like a few hours. And I thought inside out too, 738 00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:59,759 Speaker 1: great film, great film, the girls are love they really got. 739 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 2: Into the first time. Was great. 740 00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 1: Yeah with you agree? So I thought Sunday afternoon, two 741 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 1: o'clock sitting perfect. As I got there, I was like, 742 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 1: holy shit, there are a lot of people who also 743 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 1: went to the movies and a lot of teenagers. I 744 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 1: forget how horrid teenagers are when they're like amongst each 745 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:22,960 Speaker 1: other in groups groups of teenagers, like that's a fun 746 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:23,840 Speaker 1: They're so rude. 747 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,759 Speaker 3: If you're in a group of teenagers and you think 748 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:27,440 Speaker 3: you're cool. 749 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:28,800 Speaker 2: You're not not loser. 750 00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 1: Wake up. 751 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 2: Yeah you look awkward too. Whatever you're wearing, it's awkward. 752 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,359 Speaker 1: Thank you. I needed that, get a mash. 753 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,880 Speaker 2: I was talking about you, not then, but no, I'm 754 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:38,520 Speaker 2: talking about that. 755 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,680 Speaker 1: So I wanted to get there not too early, because 756 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 1: we all know the trailers and the adverts. Kids don't 757 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,279 Speaker 1: care for that. They just want to get stranged the action. 758 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,160 Speaker 1: So I thought I'll time it so we kind of 759 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,759 Speaker 1: get in there. The movie started, but I timed it 760 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,400 Speaker 1: a bit too late, so it was really dark, and 761 00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:55,719 Speaker 1: I couldn't fucking figure out. I don't go the movies hardly, ever, 762 00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 1: I couldn't figure out. 763 00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 2: I was like, c D fine, yeah, because it meant 764 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,279 Speaker 2: that they never used to be seat allocations. Yeah, but 765 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 2: do you know why they do that now? 766 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:03,839 Speaker 1: Why? 767 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:05,960 Speaker 2: I don't know. I was just gonna make something up, 768 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:06,359 Speaker 2: but I was. 769 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,319 Speaker 1: Fucking ready for it. But I was trying to find 770 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:11,239 Speaker 1: my seat and I was also looking at all the 771 00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 1: seats were taken, so I was like, I must be 772 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:14,200 Speaker 1: in the wrong spot. So I go to the other 773 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,479 Speaker 1: side of the cinemat Marley and Lawla are like fuck, Dad, 774 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 1: like grab a seat and go back to the other side. 775 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 1: And these girls, these teenagers, I'm like, you're in my 776 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 1: seat and they're like, no one, And I said, you're like, here's. 777 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:31,960 Speaker 2: My joying to break your nose, and the cycle. The 778 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 2: cycle continues. 779 00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 1: So they get out watching the movie. May she like 780 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:40,640 Speaker 1: the last time she went to the movies was the 781 00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:42,560 Speaker 1: kid Things, so she kind of looks at me and says, Dad, 782 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,719 Speaker 1: can I run around and dance at the front? And 783 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 1: I was like, no, you can't. Lola was like, Dad, 784 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 1: I'm hungry, and I'm like, God, i's gotta keep it down. 785 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:55,880 Speaker 1: The cinema was full of adults and nightmare teenagers, and 786 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,239 Speaker 1: I just had this wild anxiety of the fact that 787 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:01,920 Speaker 1: I'm ruining the movie experience other people. You know, moment 788 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:05,120 Speaker 1: that comedy show your own varge barking to come in 789 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,320 Speaker 1: and be like get out. Well, I kind of thought 790 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 1: that people might start you saying like get those kids 791 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 1: out of here. 792 00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,840 Speaker 2: So I was like it's a kid's movie Loser. 793 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 1: But also Inside Out too is about the girl going 794 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 1: through puberty. 795 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,680 Speaker 6: Molly and Lola were like, what the what's pumany? It's 796 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 6: like that's a period, like what's menopause? They should do 797 00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,280 Speaker 6: Inside Out three about going through menopause. 798 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,560 Speaker 1: There he is ideas man Ashwick's he's good, write that down. 799 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 1: So I also. Laula was sitting in my lap and 800 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,920 Speaker 1: then these other teenagers came and said, oh, can we 801 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,440 Speaker 1: sit here? And I was like, well, no, that's my seat, 802 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:42,719 Speaker 1: but my daughter's on my lap. Hold this, and I 803 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 1: was like, I got fucking take this anymore. Marley and 804 00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,400 Speaker 1: Lala are also like, Dad, that's joy and that's this 805 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,359 Speaker 1: like they're just talking volume. And I was like, I 806 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 1: need to get the fuck out of here. This is 807 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:57,280 Speaker 1: like them. I'm just anxiety is pulsating through my body 808 00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,799 Speaker 1: right now. We lasted forty five minutes. Marley Lala will 809 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:03,359 Speaker 1: also like it where we're bored. I thought that's pretty good. 810 00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 1: We're halfway there, past a halfway. 811 00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:06,680 Speaker 2: What's the rest of his home when it comes out? 812 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,319 Speaker 1: Right? So I got out of there and then as 813 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 1: soon as we got out, Marley Laula are like, well, 814 00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,239 Speaker 1: when I watch the movie again, and I was like, 815 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:13,960 Speaker 1: oh god. 816 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:20,120 Speaker 4: Donnis, I was like, moving mistake, Oh dude, a big mistake, terrible, 817 00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:21,480 Speaker 4: And it was like twenty bucks a ticket. 818 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:23,640 Speaker 1: It was an expensive mistake. 819 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:24,320 Speaker 2: Expensive. 820 00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, it is an expensive thing to do when your 821 00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 3: kids aren't really going to enjoy it. 822 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 1: Maybe it's just me, but I was like, it's really 823 00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:31,840 Speaker 1: fucking loud. 824 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:35,319 Speaker 2: It's so loud. Well, what you should we should do? 825 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:37,359 Speaker 2: What they should do, not. 826 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,480 Speaker 1: Me because I don't own a movie theater yet. 827 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:42,920 Speaker 3: What they should do is they should put them all 828 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:44,600 Speaker 3: the kids in the room and put a really scary movie. 829 00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:45,799 Speaker 2: Honestly, what happens. 830 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,400 Speaker 1: I was I was locked into your idea. 831 00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 3: Sorry, sorry, Sometimes I got to have bad ones. If 832 00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,480 Speaker 3: I had all good ones, then there'd be no standard. 833 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,279 Speaker 1: If you don't love it my worst, yes, don't deserve it, 834 00:38:59,360 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 1: my bad. 835 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,120 Speaker 3: Yeah they were all good, there'd be no standouts, and 836 00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:03,400 Speaker 3: then nothing would get done. 837 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:08,640 Speaker 1: But this is actually a very exciting announcement. Yes that 838 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,320 Speaker 1: we are we're going to give parents. 839 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,480 Speaker 2: First of all, you're going to announce something else. You 840 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:15,760 Speaker 2: just turn all these parents off guard to the movies. 841 00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,360 Speaker 1: Well, don't go to the movies. With the regular folks. 842 00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:21,320 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they're regular. Fok with the normies. 843 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,560 Speaker 1: We got us. Parents have to stick together, yes, get together. 844 00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 1: Agree with you, powering numbers. We're going to do a 845 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:33,399 Speaker 1: movie just for parents and their kids, toddlers, whatever age 846 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:34,359 Speaker 1: they are, will take them all. 847 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:39,880 Speaker 2: Don't bring your adult children. Don't bring your packs of teenagers. 848 00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:41,279 Speaker 1: If they're over the age of ten. We don't want 849 00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 1: to get the fuck out of us in nothing but trouble. 850 00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:46,760 Speaker 1: We're going to do a movie. 851 00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 2: We are on were doing the day. 852 00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 1: It's going to be the thirteenth of July. 853 00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:52,839 Speaker 2: July. Fuck that soon. 854 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,120 Speaker 1: It's very soon, very soon. If you would like to come, 855 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,080 Speaker 1: we've got forty spots available, so it's like forty spots total. 856 00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:01,879 Speaker 1: You can come along children. If you have children, yeah, 857 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:02,680 Speaker 1: bring them along. 858 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:04,640 Speaker 2: How we are we going to do We're going to 859 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 2: do a link. 860 00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 1: We're going to a link in our bio. 861 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,279 Speaker 2: You'll see it on story also the show notes. 862 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:09,960 Speaker 1: So we'll just make it first and best dressed. So 863 00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:11,759 Speaker 1: if you're in Sydney on the thirteenth of July and 864 00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:13,880 Speaker 1: you want to see a movie with myself and our 865 00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:16,799 Speaker 1: kids and let the kids run wild. 866 00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:19,319 Speaker 2: Well, April will be gonna ask you. 867 00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,000 Speaker 1: Will Lawder be there? Yeah she will, Okay, April will 868 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:27,520 Speaker 1: be there too. Will Ellie be there? Yeah, I'm sure 869 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,880 Speaker 1: she'll be on another fucking overseas trip. She might be there. 870 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,480 Speaker 3: But we're also going to have other activities too, before 871 00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:37,120 Speaker 3: and after career have to come along see what those are. 872 00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:39,560 Speaker 1: And it's thanks to Paramount Plus. We don't know what 873 00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:41,880 Speaker 1: movie it'll be. We're gonna we'll do a post on 874 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,239 Speaker 1: two d d on two doating dads where people can 875 00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:46,480 Speaker 1: vote for what movie they want from Paramount Plus. 876 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:49,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it'll be a private cinema. Okay, to be 877 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:52,759 Speaker 3: a little private party with us, lovely love that. No teenagers. 878 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:56,120 Speaker 2: If you bring a pack of teenagers when you get security, 879 00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:57,080 Speaker 2: we will get security. 880 00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,320 Speaker 1: I'll get chicken winged out of there. I'd love to 881 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,320 Speaker 1: chicken wing fucking pack has teenagers out the door? Should 882 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 1: we do you? Petty couple? 883 00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:10,200 Speaker 2: Sure absolutely, petty couple, welcome down the street, petty couple. 884 00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:16,560 Speaker 1: They can I like with me, couple. I love you, 885 00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:17,680 Speaker 1: but I'm in. 886 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:24,560 Speaker 2: No one can push me quite like you. 887 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:25,680 Speaker 1: Matt. 888 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,360 Speaker 3: I'm gonna go first, if that's okay with you, Kate 889 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:32,520 Speaker 3: says she says. She has said she has written in 890 00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:34,960 Speaker 3: and told us one of my pet peeves is my 891 00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,880 Speaker 3: husband leaves his clothes and shoes all over the house guilty, 892 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 3: especially in doorways and high traffic areas. Using the word 893 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:47,840 Speaker 3: high traffic in the household top tier. My passive, aggressive, 894 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:51,879 Speaker 3: petty response. I take photos of his scattered belongings every 895 00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,600 Speaker 3: time I come across them and send them. 896 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:54,680 Speaker 1: To him throughout the day. 897 00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:01,080 Speaker 2: That's pretty petty. My camerall looks like a bizarre fashion catalog. 898 00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,640 Speaker 1: It's so fucking petty, but it's brilliant. 899 00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:06,920 Speaker 3: I'm going to give Kate a little bit of advice 900 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 3: on how to elevate this pettiness go on. She needs 901 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:16,640 Speaker 3: to create an Instagram page. Okay, and we've said Instagram page. 902 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 3: Use that to publicly humiliate her husband. 903 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:25,760 Speaker 1: Or even better, send it to us and we'll publicly 904 00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:30,040 Speaker 1: accept Fuck, did Laura come in the front door? I 905 00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 1: take six steps. That little nook behind you is where 906 00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,440 Speaker 1: I normally dump my shoes in a high traffic area. 907 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:39,600 Speaker 2: As Laura, we have tiny feet, but Laura's like. 908 00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:42,480 Speaker 1: They've got twelve pairs of shoes, like three know, Yeah, 909 00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:47,480 Speaker 1: I've got my walking shoes, my casual shoes, my running shoes. Yeah, anyway, 910 00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,680 Speaker 1: if you're a culprit, or if you're married to one 911 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,800 Speaker 1: who was a culporate of such activities, send us the photos. 912 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, we should start in this group page called floor 913 00:42:56,000 --> 00:43:01,880 Speaker 3: Drobes TM trademark. I know this is not live and 914 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:05,919 Speaker 3: we can just take that out, but still trademark. Trademark anyway, Kate, 915 00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,320 Speaker 3: thank me later, brilliant. 916 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:13,839 Speaker 1: This one is from Kareem Kareem Korean Karne's just from 917 00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 1: some random Korean Karini. 918 00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:15,919 Speaker 2: How does it spell? 919 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 1: Kareem? C A R I N E. Is your love story? 920 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:19,840 Speaker 1: Let's go. 921 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,880 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to get you back. I feel like 922 00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:27,759 Speaker 2: we're even now we are. Well, we're not, but I'll 923 00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:28,319 Speaker 2: say we are. 924 00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,799 Speaker 1: Remind me next week I'm going to be just in 925 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:34,000 Speaker 1: silence the whole Remind me. Never to start a fight 926 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:34,839 Speaker 1: with you ever. 927 00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,000 Speaker 2: Never start a fight with me or a drunkard in there. 928 00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:41,360 Speaker 1: Let's hope you don't start smoking crack again. 929 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:45,799 Speaker 2: That was me. 930 00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,280 Speaker 1: My husband and I a coffee addicts. So every morning 931 00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 1: we make ourselves a cup of coffee. Beautiful. However, hubby 932 00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:55,799 Speaker 1: wakes up earlier than me to go to work, and 933 00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,200 Speaker 1: more often than not. He leaves a coffee machine full 934 00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,960 Speaker 1: of pods and he doesn't feel the water compartment back up, 935 00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,560 Speaker 1: which annoys the shit out of me. So out of pettiness, 936 00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:08,319 Speaker 1: this is very very petty. It's like Karina, I don't 937 00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:12,520 Speaker 1: want to attack you here, attack away. This is this 938 00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,040 Speaker 1: is do we need to call the police? Out of pettiness. 939 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:17,600 Speaker 1: I started to fill up the coffee machine with water. 940 00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 1: I emptied the pods tray, make myself a kappa. And 941 00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:23,760 Speaker 1: after that I put the pods back on the tray 942 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:26,680 Speaker 1: and empty the water compartment so we can have a 943 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 1: taste of his own medicine. He has no idea that 944 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:33,520 Speaker 1: I do this, So the next morning he's got no water. 945 00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,720 Speaker 1: She's going out of her way to make a life. 946 00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,719 Speaker 3: It's great, difficult for the very good, very good. I 947 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,800 Speaker 3: like it getting back just like the way, just like 948 00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,000 Speaker 3: this is the thing. He's probably going getting up in 949 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:48,080 Speaker 3: the morning and going. 950 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:50,200 Speaker 2: Did she not have coffee? 951 00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:54,000 Speaker 1: Yes, she must have drunk twelve coffees yesterday? What the fuck? 952 00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:56,120 Speaker 2: No one is she's still awake? 953 00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:57,600 Speaker 1: Very good? 954 00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:58,520 Speaker 2: Like love it. 955 00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:00,640 Speaker 1: A couple of questions, Ash, before. 956 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,440 Speaker 3: You do that, if you do have any other petty 957 00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,360 Speaker 3: things that you do to your partner or your partner 958 00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,000 Speaker 3: does to you, or whatever it might be. 959 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:09,640 Speaker 2: You can d m us at two doing dad's Instagram. 960 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 3: Or you can email us at hello hello at dot com. 961 00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 2: They know dot com. 962 00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:18,319 Speaker 1: People are like, what is the fucking email? We don't 963 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:22,440 Speaker 1: even know. Just yeah, we'll find out somewhere. You'll find us. 964 00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,680 Speaker 1: Someone did right on Instagram and I'm like, you guys, 965 00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:26,719 Speaker 1: you guys need to grow up your adults. And I 966 00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:29,160 Speaker 1: was like, you shut up, what do you mean grow up? 967 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:33,560 Speaker 2: Yes, this is a parenting podcast, none of two children. 968 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:36,080 Speaker 2: But don't get it. What do they mean by. 969 00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:39,120 Speaker 1: Those that they thought the pettiness was such childlike behalf? 970 00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 2: Oh god, have a laugh. 971 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:46,200 Speaker 1: It was April. Yeah, we love April. Take it out, 972 00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:50,400 Speaker 1: do we? Hello? Okay, that's the whole point. That's the 973 00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:50,719 Speaker 1: whole one. 974 00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:51,480 Speaker 2: That's the whole point. 975 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,640 Speaker 1: That's the whole that's a that's a stick ash. Before 976 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:57,759 Speaker 1: we get into the questions, there is a listener that 977 00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:02,960 Speaker 1: has written in posts recommendation from us after our listener. 978 00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:06,120 Speaker 2: We don't recommend anything, so that's their mistake. 979 00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:09,479 Speaker 1: Oh god, what's she going to say? Duena, she's talking 980 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,800 Speaker 1: about the biting segment that we had. Oh yeah, she says, hey, guys, 981 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,839 Speaker 1: you kind of funked me over. Oh god, a little bit. 982 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,880 Speaker 1: I finally, I finally bit the bullet is a review 983 00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,759 Speaker 1: pardon the pun and gave my two year old a 984 00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:27,319 Speaker 1: chump after he was biting me. Oh okay, okay. It 985 00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 1: initially worked, but twenty minutes later he is having a 986 00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:33,880 Speaker 1: full blown meltdown because he wants me to bite him again. 987 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:39,759 Speaker 1: He's shoving his arm in my mouth, screaming bite. 988 00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:45,680 Speaker 2: So the new kink unlocks just like that. Well, you've 989 00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,279 Speaker 2: set him up for failure now, Oh god? 990 00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 1: Moving on? So can we block her from the podcast? 991 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:52,719 Speaker 1: Is she going to come for us? 992 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:54,200 Speaker 2: Nah? The kid make. 993 00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:56,120 Speaker 1: All right? 994 00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:58,640 Speaker 3: Back to questions that hopefully don't bite us in the butt. 995 00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,720 Speaker 3: This is from Jenny. Have you ever lost a child before? 996 00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:02,919 Speaker 1: Many times. 997 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,680 Speaker 2: My first three children I've lost. I've never found them. 998 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:09,279 Speaker 1: We've lost We've lost all kids. Marley is probably the 999 00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:10,320 Speaker 1: one we've lost the most. 1000 00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:11,880 Speaker 2: Your kids out runners though. 1001 00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:16,560 Speaker 1: Mary's a runner. Yeah, she's a runner. Yeah. We thought 1002 00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:18,360 Speaker 1: about it, We thought about it. We've lost her a 1003 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:21,480 Speaker 1: few times. Once. It was quite it's quite scary at 1004 00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:24,760 Speaker 1: the beach, you know, when you just you're digging a hole. 1005 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:26,600 Speaker 2: And you live at Bondai, so you're like, oh, we're going. 1006 00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:30,600 Speaker 1: To be on TV. Literally, I was digging a hole 1007 00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:32,319 Speaker 1: and I was just one of those cases where I 1008 00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:35,440 Speaker 1: had Lola. I thought Laura had Marley. She that I 1009 00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:38,479 Speaker 1: had Marley, and then there was a couple of minutes 1010 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,600 Speaker 1: where we couldn't find it and we're like fuck. Luckily, 1011 00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:45,640 Speaker 1: shout out to the lifeguards. They had he and the 1012 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,960 Speaker 1: film grew. She was he was up in the promenade. 1013 00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:50,960 Speaker 1: She's just gone for gone for an ice cream. 1014 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:51,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 1015 00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:54,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. But when we've been shopping as well, there's been 1016 00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:58,080 Speaker 1: times where once once at Rebel Sport, I was like, 1017 00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:01,680 Speaker 1: where the hell is my door? She locked herself in 1018 00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:05,320 Speaker 1: the change room. You've spoken about losing Macy inside the house, 1019 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:09,200 Speaker 1: which is a great effort. Yeah, it's in public, not 1020 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:12,120 Speaker 1: to not to judge you, but I would say you're 1021 00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 1: someone who I would expect to lose the kids. 1022 00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:21,720 Speaker 2: Back and an insult ship. I never lost a child, 1023 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:27,360 Speaker 2: so look at yourself for their champ and nothing springs 1024 00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:27,920 Speaker 2: to mind that. 1025 00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:32,600 Speaker 3: I maybe there's been like the way you go, I 1026 00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:33,560 Speaker 3: reckon that, do. 1027 00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:35,239 Speaker 2: You know where Macy is? And aprils like no, and 1028 00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,000 Speaker 2: you're like, oh shoo, but then she's like right there. 1029 00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,120 Speaker 1: I reckon this so many times you've lost the kids 1030 00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,040 Speaker 1: for like a day or two, and you're. 1031 00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 2: Like, oh, nothing, used to admit to anything. Nothing springs 1032 00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,040 Speaker 2: to mind because I've got evidence. 1033 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,759 Speaker 1: This is a long question. This is a long one. 1034 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:51,840 Speaker 2: Ready for it? Okay? 1035 00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:53,799 Speaker 1: Is it going to be as long as my long 1036 00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:58,719 Speaker 1: Winter story? As long as it's from anonymous, you can't 1037 00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:04,040 Speaker 1: laugh at yourself. I've been I've been with my partner 1038 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,759 Speaker 1: for almost a year, and I've noticed some differences in 1039 00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,520 Speaker 1: our parenting styles. He has a four year old daughter, 1040 00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:13,120 Speaker 1: and while he's raised her well, I've observed some things 1041 00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,839 Speaker 1: that bother me. I'm hesitant to bring them up because 1042 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 1: I'm not her mother, but I'm concerned about the inconsistency 1043 00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:23,839 Speaker 1: and discipline and his approach to her diet and exercise. 1044 00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,759 Speaker 1: It's making me reluctant to be around them as much 1045 00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:29,680 Speaker 1: on the days he has her. I'm worried about how 1046 00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:31,800 Speaker 1: this might affect us if we have our own children 1047 00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:33,799 Speaker 1: in the future. I'm just going to say, straight off 1048 00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:36,840 Speaker 1: the bat, I don't know anyone who's got a diet 1049 00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,000 Speaker 1: slash exercise plan for their kid who's four a four 1050 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:41,880 Speaker 1: year old, that's a bit that's a bit excessive. 1051 00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,200 Speaker 3: I mean, obviously, let's just think let's think of that 1052 00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:47,560 Speaker 3: as like maybe she's just worried that she's not getting 1053 00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:49,640 Speaker 3: out enough and burning energy, and. 1054 00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:51,880 Speaker 2: She might be living in the iPad, living on the iPad. 1055 00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:56,080 Speaker 2: Let's just go with like not like a Monday's chest day, 1056 00:49:56,120 --> 00:50:00,440 Speaker 2: bra he steps in, like where's your gains? And then 1057 00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:10,040 Speaker 2: probably the fort and that's all we have time for. 1058 00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 3: No, I would say, like, Okay, there's a couple of 1059 00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:17,120 Speaker 3: things here that let's go with. Maybe the diets maybe 1060 00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:20,759 Speaker 3: not that great, but how long they've been together a year? 1061 00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:23,640 Speaker 1: A year, so let's say it's getting serious. 1062 00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:25,960 Speaker 3: It could be getting serious. She lives the issue of 1063 00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:29,200 Speaker 3: primary care alongside. Does she have kids of her own? 1064 00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:32,000 Speaker 3: What makes her think that it's incorrect? How does she 1065 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:33,880 Speaker 3: know I incorrect? 1066 00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:38,840 Speaker 1: She's she's probably saying it's hard when you want to 1067 00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,360 Speaker 1: you want to have consistency with discipline, Like the rules 1068 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,640 Speaker 1: need to be the same. It doesn't matter what the 1069 00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:44,400 Speaker 1: other the weekend. 1070 00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:47,440 Speaker 3: If he's if he's only got her for two days 1071 00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,520 Speaker 3: a fortnight or a week or whatever. I don't know 1072 00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:52,480 Speaker 3: what the situation is. You kind of want to just 1073 00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:54,439 Speaker 3: kill them with kind and they love. 1074 00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:56,880 Speaker 1: But that's the fucking wrong thing to do. 1075 00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,320 Speaker 3: I absolutely could be the wrong thing to do. I 1076 00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:01,719 Speaker 3: don't think it's her place to butt in. If it 1077 00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:05,560 Speaker 3: was like, hey, I am considered to be a primary 1078 00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,280 Speaker 3: care alongside you. 1079 00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:09,280 Speaker 2: We need to be on the same page. 1080 00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:11,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've got it. I've got it. I've got it. 1081 00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 1: Because she could approach it from the perspective that she goes, Hey, 1082 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:18,520 Speaker 1: I just want to make sure that we're on the 1083 00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:21,359 Speaker 1: same page with the rules of the house while she's here, 1084 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:23,880 Speaker 1: because I don't want to say that she can't do 1085 00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:27,000 Speaker 1: something when she actually can, So she's going to put 1086 00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 1: it on herself instead of saying, you're disciplining your kid 1087 00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:30,360 Speaker 1: in the rocknel correctly? 1088 00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:31,839 Speaker 2: What rong? 1089 00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:35,600 Speaker 1: Like hey, whatever, Whether it's like she kind of ipaid 1090 00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:37,880 Speaker 1: after a certain time, she could say, just want to 1091 00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:39,600 Speaker 1: make sure, like, what are the rules that we're going 1092 00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,560 Speaker 1: to try and stick by together as a team for 1093 00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:43,359 Speaker 1: when the daughter's here. 1094 00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:44,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair enough, that's fair. 1095 00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:46,399 Speaker 3: I don't think you need to be like, hey, you're 1096 00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:48,799 Speaker 3: doing it wrong, because one, who are you to tell 1097 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:51,880 Speaker 3: someone a parent that they're doing their parenting wrong, especially 1098 00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:52,920 Speaker 3: if you're on a parent yourself. 1099 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:54,839 Speaker 2: How the fuck would you know? But I think it's 1100 00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,320 Speaker 2: fair enough to say. 1101 00:51:56,760 --> 00:52:00,799 Speaker 3: Hey, when when when you're looking after and I'm here 1102 00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 3: full time with you and i'm technically a care as well, 1103 00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,360 Speaker 3: we need to tackle it together. 1104 00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 2: We need to be on the same page. 1105 00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:09,520 Speaker 3: Yes, there can be some leniency with things because you 1106 00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,520 Speaker 3: only have a for x amount of time, but then 1107 00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:14,759 Speaker 3: also if we're going to be together long term and 1108 00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:17,040 Speaker 3: us have kids together, we need to be on the 1109 00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:18,520 Speaker 3: same page as that stuff as well. 1110 00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,560 Speaker 1: There is nothing more important than a united front. 1111 00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,560 Speaker 3: There's a difference between saying something and having a conversation 1112 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:25,240 Speaker 3: about something. 1113 00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:26,120 Speaker 2: That's my answer. 1114 00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:30,719 Speaker 1: Whenever Marley asks for something, I'm always like, yes, no, 1115 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:32,959 Speaker 1: I just got to ask you mother, Yeah, ask you Mary. 1116 00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:34,960 Speaker 2: But like it is just look, I'm not going to 1117 00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:38,839 Speaker 2: I'm not going to take I actually I can't take 1118 00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:41,400 Speaker 2: a side because I don't know the full story. 1119 00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,319 Speaker 3: But what I would say is, don't talk to it. No, 1120 00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,719 Speaker 3: don't talk to me about it, have a conversation about it. 1121 00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:49,879 Speaker 2: Am I a genius? Yes? 1122 00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:51,680 Speaker 1: What's the difference between talking to them and having. 1123 00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:53,960 Speaker 3: Well, you can talk to someone, or you could be like, hey, 1124 00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:57,720 Speaker 3: can we just talk about and have a conversation about 1125 00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:00,000 Speaker 3: you know, maybe if we're going to be having kids 1126 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:01,520 Speaker 3: in the future, we're going to be long time. Don't 1127 00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:03,920 Speaker 3: just be like, I think your parenting's wrong. That's the difference. 1128 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,440 Speaker 1: We don't let the kids have soft drink. It's too spicy, 1129 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,040 Speaker 1: too spicy. But Molly was like, can I have some. 1130 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:12,359 Speaker 1: We've got a family pack from the seafood Shop which 1131 00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:14,279 Speaker 1: came with a one point two five bottle of cod. 1132 00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 2: You're like, drink the whole thing. 1133 00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,080 Speaker 1: And I was like, I'll give you some when mom's 1134 00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:20,960 Speaker 1: not looking. And then she was like, ah, it's burning 1135 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:21,479 Speaker 1: my tart. 1136 00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:22,960 Speaker 2: I just like, where's the bourbon? 1137 00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:25,400 Speaker 1: And I was like, I was like, don't tell your mother. 1138 00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:28,040 Speaker 1: And then Laura came in and she was like, the 1139 00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:28,960 Speaker 1: drink hurt me. 1140 00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 3: And I was like, my kids don't drink much more 1141 00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:35,719 Speaker 3: than water, honestly, like just on that they've tried a 1142 00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:38,920 Speaker 3: bit of like coke coca cola, because coke be confusing. 1143 00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:41,520 Speaker 2: She was just like, it's no good. 1144 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:44,520 Speaker 1: That's cut with something. 1145 00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:49,640 Speaker 2: It's that creating. Yeah, and they'll be like, oh, that's spicy. 1146 00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:50,320 Speaker 2: Which is great. 1147 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,560 Speaker 3: And then also like with juice and stuff, I'll be like, 1148 00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:55,600 Speaker 3: you can have a juice if you fishally dinner, that 1149 00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:58,480 Speaker 3: won't be like yeah, diet the fuck out like this 1150 00:53:58,560 --> 00:53:59,799 Speaker 3: apple juice tastes like shit. 1151 00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:01,440 Speaker 2: They all taste like that. 1152 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:04,040 Speaker 1: Sorry, pow As. We're going to get out of here. 1153 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,640 Speaker 1: I need to enroll my child into primary school. If 1154 00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:10,200 Speaker 1: you enjoyed this episode, we would absolutely adore it. 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