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Speaker 1: Can you just give us a clap? Just no, you

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Speaker 1: got at the point is this is not?

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Speaker 2: This is not and I repeat it.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to two doting parents today. I am Ash

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Speaker 1: and we have April. For those of you who don't know,

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Speaker 1: April is my wife, uh and the mother of my children,

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Speaker 1: believe it or not. And she's filling in for our

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Speaker 1: friend Mattie Jay who is still in the jungle. This

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Speaker 1: is a parenting podcast. It's all about the good, the bad,

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Speaker 1: and the ugly.

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Speaker 3: Is that what you say?

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Speaker 1: No relatable?

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Speaker 3: Relatable?

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Speaker 1: Do you even listen? You definitely don't listen, do you?

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Speaker 1: I know, I do, I do? I do catch you

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Speaker 1: giggling away? Yeah, favorite episode.

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Speaker 4: I did thoroughly enjoy the one where we did all

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Speaker 4: four of us?

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Speaker 1: What about whipper oh?

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Speaker 4: That actually that was my favorite guest episode for sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I told you that.

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Speaker 1: You did tell her that. Well, let's start with last night.

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Speaker 1: You and I did a live stream goggle Box style,

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Speaker 1: not as an audition, with Matt's food eating challenge. Do

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Speaker 1: you recall I do recall.

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Speaker 4: I recall you asking me when I was mid work

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Speaker 4: and I was agreeing to it without realizing what I

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Speaker 4: was agreeing to.

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Speaker 3: So thanks for that.

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Speaker 1: I strategically I didn't even ask you. I told you

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Speaker 1: and you were like mid email, yeah and you were

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Speaker 1: like that fun. Yeah yeah. And then I've left for

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Speaker 1: the day, yeah come back and said you ready, and

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Speaker 1: you were like, fuck, what do we do it?

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Speaker 4: Well? I actually had a couple of girlfriends screenshot what

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Speaker 4: two doting dad's share and I was like, what's this happening?

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Speaker 4: Was this?

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Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my gosh, what is happening?

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Speaker 3: What if I agreed to?

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Speaker 1: Whoops?

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Speaker 3: But no, it was fine in the end. It was fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was good. It was fun to watch Matt

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Speaker 1: suffer this. Maddie did alright. So first of all, Maddie

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Speaker 1: did the trial at Tucker Trial with Reggie and Max.

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Speaker 1: Max is the TikToker and Reggie is going blind.

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Speaker 3: I think she's more than that, she's a mum.

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Speaker 1: She's going blind. Thoughts on the food initially, do you

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Speaker 3: I feel like they've done worse things in the jungle.

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Speaker 1: I saw a heap of comments on the Tiktoks like

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Speaker 1: the UK it must be UK people being like UK people,

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Speaker 1: the people from the UK saying oh this is way

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Speaker 1: worse than the UK one. This is way worse like

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Speaker 1: it was, like it was better.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think when you've got the liquid, like there was

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Speaker 4: a smoothie, there was a cappuccino, I.

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Speaker 3: Feel like that would be a lot easier.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they used to do a lot well, I think

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Speaker 3: But now Robert irwins, I agree with you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So first one they had was the bed bugs.

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Speaker 1: Are they really bed bugs? They're huge?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they're not bed bugs, but to be fair, they

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Speaker 4: did look a little bit like oats. So I feel

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Speaker 4: like if he just changed his mindset, yeah, he.

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Speaker 1: Actually munths do that pretty quick. The next one he

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Speaker 1: had was the crapper Chino. It looks like a delicious

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Speaker 1: a re sponsored by McDonald's, no lambtungue and esophocus with

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Speaker 1: sour milk thoughts, and we've got one here for you

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Speaker 1: know that.

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Speaker 4: I just wonder how they can drink that and not

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Speaker 4: get sick later? Like how much is it, truthfully what

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Speaker 4: they're saying. That's what I want to know.

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Speaker 1: You call conspiracy. I like it, Matt said, and two

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Speaker 1: quote Matt, it tastes like I'm eating shit, perfect good

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Speaker 1: it be used to it. And then the last one

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Speaker 1: the road. So he would have been stoked when this

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Speaker 1: He openly chose anhole.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what was the last one? The chicken, liver,

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Speaker 1: Dim sim, dim sim, dim sim, And that probably was

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Speaker 3: I think it was a dim sim.

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Speaker 1: So would that mean that he'd poop out an asshole

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Speaker 3: You could say that?

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Speaker 1: Very good? I thought they did really well. They got

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Speaker 1: which surprisingly you did recall when we gave Matt a

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Speaker 1: Sentry egg.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and he was hidering how much he failed at that.

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Speaker 4: I'm actually surprised.

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Speaker 1: I did better than him. He ate the eel really well.

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Speaker 1: But the Century egg was like a dirty pond. And

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Speaker 1: they brang one out for Max last night, and they

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Speaker 3: It looked like it had a coating of some sort

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Speaker 1: It didn't look like the one we had. Ours was

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Speaker 1: still yours was brown. It was in the shell still

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Speaker 1: Jess potentially our produceder put us at risk with a

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Speaker 1: raw Sentry egg. So God was still here. Anyway, I

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Speaker 1: thought they did really well. They didn't considering We did

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Speaker 1: call Laura and Marley midway through the challenge. Marley was

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Speaker 3: That's true the first time she watched him.

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Speaker 1: I feel like she's sort of used to him now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, probably watched him every night now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, enough of that. Just go and vote for Matt please.

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Speaker 1: As much as I want him back, I'm enjoying these

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Speaker 1: episodes where he's not here I get to look at April,

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Speaker 1: which it's my lucky day, April. I do want to

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Speaker 1: Poppa's relationship. Describe it for me. How would you describe it?

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Speaker 4: Popper is Oscar's slave, if anything, best friend who's a slave.

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Speaker 1: Just describe what you saw this morning. For those it

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Speaker 4: April was I was driving up back home because I

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Speaker 4: and there's Oscar, window down all the way down, the

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Speaker 1: His absolute grapes. Yeah, he looked like he looked like royalty.

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Speaker 1: He's got he is the first grandchild. He's got first

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Speaker 1: parents out there will agree that their kids grandparents just

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's next level what that guy gets.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and also Macy. Papa always just carries Macy everywhere

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like he just her feet can't touch the.

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Speaker 4: And he always serves her up chocolate milk in a bottle.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, she's a lucky gout the warm. Even

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Speaker 1: swims a day. He's just living his absolute best life.

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Speaker 3: He's a lucky boy. They're both are very lucky.

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Speaker 1: So I'm fully expecting Oscar to come back with all

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Speaker 3: He comes back so moody.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he's never tired.

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Speaker 3: No, the kid doesn't tire.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't tire. So how do your parent that when

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Speaker 1: take him to the gym. Yeah, probably, he needs to

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Speaker 4: Treadmill just put it's like a little hamster wheel for him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, cute, we could always I mean, how do you

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Speaker 1: reverse We have told Popper, but Popper lies.

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Speaker 4: I think we're just so grateful that we have Popper

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Speaker 3: He doesn't have to run around after him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I agree.

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Speaker 1: It's the worst when he naps as well in the car.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, then you know he's awake for five more hours.

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Speaker 3: Don't do this, don't do that.

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Speaker 4: But then it's like you're so grateful that to take

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Speaker 1: Sometime, look, I'm guilty of sometimes still just doing the

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Speaker 1: easy way out. I think we all are.

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Speaker 4: I've seen you and you're hungover days passing out the phone.

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Speaker 3: We're not so perfect parents, after all.

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Speaker 1: I know I do what Yeah, when I'm a bit

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Speaker 1: hung I'm like anything goes anyway. I wanted to touch

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Speaker 1: on that because I thought it was really funny this

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Speaker 1: morning that you witnessed Oscar in full Prince Oscar Popu,

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Speaker 1: the chauf for and he. The thing is that today,

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Speaker 1: so I would assume that he he would he would

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Speaker 1: eaten far too much chocolate and ice cream.

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Speaker 3: And watch way too much YouTube, which we say now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so just everyone listening. April and I have implemented

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Speaker 1: the no YouTube rule in this house because he gets

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Speaker 1: what is it about YouTube? Is it just the algorithm

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Speaker 3: Oh that's fine?

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Speaker 3: Do you do you think I do this? Or Ashton,

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Speaker 3: I don't often sit. Shut up.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for inspiration.

440
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:43,920
Speaker 3: That's the thing.

441
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,120
Speaker 4: It's hard because that's what you are doing for work

442
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:47,440
Speaker 4: inspiration apparently.

443
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:49,160
Speaker 1: Fuck nice.

444
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 4: But I know, I just feel like we've kind of

445
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 4: you know, we've been at it for five years now.

446
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 4: I feel like we do have some sort of rhythm. Yeah,

447
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:58,400
Speaker 4: I do this, you do that.

448
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes it gets thrown, sometimes it gets there's always a variable.

449
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 1: But yeah, i'd agree with you. All Right, we move

450
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:08,119
Speaker 1: on to the next one, please, Celeste, how do you

451
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:13,320
Speaker 1: tackle conversations or conflicts with your spouse when little ears

452
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: are around?

453
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 4: Oh, I feel like that happens all the time. And

454
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,439
Speaker 4: I'm like, Ashton, the children are here.

455
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,119
Speaker 1: When have you ever said that to me?

456
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 4: Well, I just feel like if we're talking about something

457
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 4: because you just know oscar listening is.

458
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, I think we don't often have

459
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:34,360
Speaker 1: a stern conversation with each other in front of them

460
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 1: very often, Like I would agree, yeah, we might have

461
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:42,600
Speaker 1: more of a conversation, like I wouldn't say heated, like

462
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 1: a more of an adult conversation when they're asleeple they're

463
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,360
Speaker 1: not here, or will just take little jabs at each

464
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 1: other but they don't understand.

465
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 4: Or when you talk through the kids, it's like Daddy

466
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 4: didn't want to do this.

467
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 1: Oh is that what mummies? So Mummy let you climb

468
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,679
Speaker 1: onto the back of the couch. Yeah, Or you do

469
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 1: that thing where you might be distracted and the kids

470
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:11,439
Speaker 1: are doing something and that they shouldn't be doing. You

471
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: haven't quite cotton on yet, but I've like walked in

472
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 1: and cotton and I'm like bape, yeah, oh shit, sorry,

473
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 1: Like I'll do the same thing where I'm just like

474
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 1: doom scrolling and they're like at each other's throats. You're

475
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,359
Speaker 1: like yeah, sorry, yeah, sorry, sorry, so again. I've seen

476
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 1: couples fire up at each other in front of their

477
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 1: kids and monkey see monkey do I think the times

478
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:34,400
Speaker 1: that I have I've raised my voice about something I'm

479
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,359
Speaker 1: frustrated in front of everyone. I do apologize to Oscar

480
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: as well.

481
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 3: And I was going to say the same thing.

482
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 4: I feel like, if we've ever raised our voices, we

483
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 4: usually come back to them and say, hey, guys, sorry,

484
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 4: mummy and daddy, we're a little bit yeah angry just before.

485
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 3: But we're okay now.

486
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it doesn't happen very often. What's my nose

487
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 1: getting longer? Also, like with the swearing, I never really

488
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 1: watch what I say. Like my man, I do a

489
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 1: little bit more, mainly because lolamal, You're like, give me

490
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 1: ten push ups and I can't do another push up

491
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: it hurts.

492
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 3: Yeah. No, we're terrible with swearing.

493
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: I reckon, But they both know what's bad.

494
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 4: I was going to say, I feel like after we

495
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 4: swear as well, we tell them that is a word

496
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 4: that you can only use as an adult.

497
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 1: Or when you're alone, right, I double down on it. No, Yeah,

498
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 1: And like Oscar is very much like nos not to

499
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 1: say that word, and he the times he has said it,

500
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 1: they've been under his breath and about something I'm never

501
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,400
Speaker 1: I'm really like, what just no, nothing, Like he knows

502
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 1: that he shouldn't have said it. Macy, on the other hand,

503
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 1: she thinks it's just funny because she's at the age

504
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: where she's like, oh fuck. And then Oscar's like, she

505
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:47,880
Speaker 1: did it, she did it right there.

506
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 3: I actually caught Oscar, or not caught him.

507
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 4: He told me the other day he said Macy said

508
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 4: the F word, and I was.

509
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 3: Like, what, what do you mean? What did she say?

510
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 3: And he said, yeah, shut up.

511
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:04,919
Speaker 4: I was like, that's probably all right.

512
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: Buddy, Like, what about when you were the other day

513
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 1: you were trying to get him to explain what the

514
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:14,199
Speaker 1: rude finger meant? Because who Poppa Popper? Apparently the finger

515
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 1: oh fuck.

516
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 4: I think he showed me, just like quietly on the

517
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 4: side and he was like.

518
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 3: And I was like, do you know what you're doing?

519
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:25,640
Speaker 3: And he goes.

520
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 1: He's like yeah, he.

521
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 4: Goes, and then like obviously put it away and he's like, yeah, Poppa, No,

522
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 4: I don't think he said who. He's like, that's the

523
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,360
Speaker 4: rude finger. I was like, how do you know that?

524
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 4: And he said, Poppa showed me.

525
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,680
Speaker 1: I'm surprised he threw pop a rounder the bus because

526
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: he's the one he won't snitch on, because he'd be like,

527
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:46,919
Speaker 1: who gave you that? He'd be like, Oh, I don't know.

528
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 4: I think I think it's more of Oscar may have

529
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 4: just been holding that finger up and Popper's probably corrected him,

530
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 4: saying you can't do that around going around town.

531
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: Doing all he's droving around town, not our Popper. Yeah.

532
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 4: I feel like our kids some like we just tell

533
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 4: them there's a time and place.

534
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, like when you locked us in the bathroom and

535
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 1: we're like now, yeah, yeah, yeah, we should do that again. Yeah,

536
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: we do it with me because she just thinks it's

537
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 1: all fun.

538
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like she'll be like, I don't think she'd say anything,

539
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 4: to be honest, Yeah, I think I don't know.

540
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll have to do it.

541
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,880
Speaker 1: We'll have to try anyway. They are the two questions

542
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 1: we had, which I think we're pretty in depth.

543
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 4: I was going to say there was nothing juicy or

544
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 4: spicy about those.

545
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: No, No, this one. Oh, actually there's one more from

546
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 1: an Ash as well. Would you say you're satisfied with

547
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 1: our love with Ashes love making?

548
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 4: Wait, it's from Ash or anonymous?

549
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 1: I mean it's from anonymous. On a scale of one

550
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: to ten, how satisfied are you with Ashes love making?

551
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 3: We'll take this off line, Okay, that's.

552
00:27:56,040 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 1: A needs improvement. We do a segment in April here

553
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: called hack or Fak that usually one of us shows

554
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,880
Speaker 1: the other, but in this case, I haven't seen this

555
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 1: and you haven't seen this, Okay, So what we're looking

556
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 1: at here is a mum who has tried to set

557
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:20,199
Speaker 1: white noise in a child's room, but accidentally played the

558
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 1: song from Disclosure White Noise on loop for two hours

559
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: on loop.

560
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 3: It's just been going on for two hours, the.

561
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 1: Song that's like white noise noise, and it's like disco,

562
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: very good. It worked.

563
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm all for it.

564
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: It's funny like with white noise. We we're a white

565
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: noise house and something. Matt's never had white noise in

566
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 1: their house or anything ever, no, and it's like like why.

567
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: I said to him, why and he was like, we

568
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: just never. It's the best, like the lightning, the storms.

569
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, they haven't noticed it well in saying that we've

570
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 4: had the fan on and that's probably than the white noise.

571
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: But I find that like I'm so accustomed and used

572
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: to it now. It's just like it's part of our house.

573
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 1: I feel like when we lose it, I'll be sad. Yeah.

574
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, when they don't when they say they don't want

575
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 4: it anymore.

576
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of like, well, hang on, we've listened

577
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: to the same song, same noise, yeah, every night for

578
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 1: five and a half years so far. It'll be the

579
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: end of an era. Very good. I think that's a hack.

580
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: Anything that gets a kid to sleep, I'm sweet with.

581
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 4: It's almost as good as our two meditations competing against

582
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 4: each other.

583
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 1: They each Oh yeah, so April and I, along with

584
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 1: the white noise that's in our house, April and I

585
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 1: both have sleep music. I think we just adopted it

586
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: from having the white noise on because we had we

587
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 1: lived in units for so long with Oscar, mainly that

588
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 1: the whole house just was like you walk into a house,

589
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: it's like all the time. It's just it's like an

590
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: AM radio station. And then we were like, oh, you know,

591
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 1: do some sleep music. I think for a while there

592
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 1: we had one where we just shared it. And then

593
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: you've gone more into the meditation side. Chakras, Oh god,

594
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: it's and mine's more just like piano sleep music. But

595
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: the thing is your meditation lasts for an hour, it's

596
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: three hours, what but the talking only last for an hour?

597
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 4: Talking probably an hour but you're out cold in like

598
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 4: two minutes.

599
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: You're like, it's sleeping next to a dead body, and

600
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: you are out. And so I've got to spend the

601
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: next hour listening to this woman carry on about different

602
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: energy chakras. But also I find with those those people.

603
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: Also I find with people who are really into that

604
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: and the chakras like me, they really in depthly describe

605
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 1: where your chakra is, Like, no one's going to if

606
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: they don't, no one's going to believe them. So here's

607
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: an example. They're like, so that she's like, and you're

608
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 1: a chakra is so in your snuf just below the

609
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:12,719
Speaker 1: breast bone, in between both pectorial muscles, slightly underneath the

610
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 1: cartilage of the humans to listen to my meditation, that's like,

611
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: why don't you just say it's in your chest? Do

612
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 1: you think that someone's gonna be like, Okay, if it's

613
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 1: in your chest, where is it?

614
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 4: I'm just going to disagree with you because I quite

615
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 4: like it.

616
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 1: It's like they're like, okay, And also how many chakras

617
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: does one person have? I've listened to it so many

618
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: times that they're like, and I do go to sleep

619
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 1: that easy. It takes me forever.

620
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 3: And I'm listening to you're welcome you as well.

621
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 1: And at the top of your head is your twelfth chakra.

622
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 1: Like she's just rattling off the human anatomy. Essentially, it's great.

623
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 3: It's all mindfulness.

624
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 1: What you're fastest, see your story is snoring. And I'm

625
00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: listening to someone and being like, and You're sixth chakra

626
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 1: is at the base of your butthole and it slightly

627
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 1: edges up towards the shaft of your penis, and I'm like,

628
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: fucking hell, how many chakra energy? And they're all energy

629
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: chakras and then they finish with and if you look up,

630
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: there is your final chakra hovering above you like a

631
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: guiding light.

632
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 3: Definitely doesn't say that it does directly.

633
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,959
Speaker 1: It must be specific to mothers.

634
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 3: Oh really, yeah, that far?

635
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: You literally have never gotten that far. It gets to

636
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: a point where it's like street noise, traffic noise, nothing

637
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: will wake you except for the sound of your newborn child.

638
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 1: And I'm like, shut up, anyway, your newborn child has

639
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: fifty five chakras. Let's begin, let's begin, or it's like,

640
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 1: now start at your head and work your way down.

641
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 4: Just so you're saying it, maybe I should, maybe you

642
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 4: should be the chakra talker.

643
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 3: Maybe this doesn't work out.

644
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 1: If this doesn't work out, then that's where let's finish, April.

645
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: As much as I love having you on the podcast,

646
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: we need to finish. We have a list of question

647
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 1: that we do every week. So this comes from Shannon.

648
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: How has parenting impacted your social life? With everything that

649
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 1: comes with being a busy parent? What do you do

650
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: for self care or to carve out some time for yourself?

651
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: So it's kind of directed to you and me, like

652
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: what we do me nothing.

653
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 4: I think the first couple years, or even just the

654
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 4: first year at least, it's very hard to have a

655
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:44,479
Speaker 4: social life.

656
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I find that new parents and parents of kids

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Speaker 1: like that are under two and their kids aren't like

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Speaker 1: just i'd say under one. And also I think like

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Speaker 1: when you do have your your kids at first, you

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Speaker 1: find yourself doing then things because when it passes the

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Speaker 1: time and two, you can palm your baby off on

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Speaker 1: your mates.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but I do think it's trickier at that age.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, like if you're like for us, for example,

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Speaker 4: when we were you know, we wanted them to have

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Speaker 4: their sleeps at a certain time, and so it's trickier.

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Speaker 3: That but I feel like as they're older, like.

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Speaker 4: Our kids are three and five now, and we have

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Speaker 4: such a good community of friends who also have three

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Speaker 4: and five year olds. So our social life is just

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Speaker 4: getting everyone together at a pub, at a pub or

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Speaker 4: at a house and just making it work.

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Speaker 3: Kids are happy, parents are happy.

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Speaker 4: But then I think also we are pretty good at

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Speaker 4: managing like you going out with your friends, me, you're

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Speaker 4: going out with my friends, and just making sure that

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Speaker 4: you get that social cup field.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think like it's I feel like it doesn't

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Speaker 1: need to be one hundred percent balance because blokes go

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Speaker 1: out more than women like your mum usually most of

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Speaker 1: the time.

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Speaker 3: Interested in going out more.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, as well at all also depends on your personality,

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Speaker 1: but like, yeah, we're pretty good, like we neither of

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Speaker 1: us take the piss. But the other also where I

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Speaker 1: noticed the other day when you were going out, you

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Speaker 1: were like, oh, I've got two things in two nights,

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Speaker 1: and it's like that's I couldn't care less, Like as

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Speaker 1: long as I know what I'm up for. If you

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Speaker 1: just say to me, hey, I'm actually going to go

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Speaker 1: out now, I'm like, oh, well, But like yeah, I

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Speaker 1: feel like if we it's important that you go and

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Speaker 1: I go, and we go separately, and then we also

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Speaker 1: do the things with the kids and other because then

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Speaker 1: also you know, kids, they they've got friends too, they

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Speaker 1: want to socialize as well, and it's much easier to

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Speaker 1: wear them out when there's a bunch of them exactly.

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Speaker 1: And I love how a lot of pubs and stuff

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Speaker 1: now becoming way.

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Speaker 3: More family friendly. What do you do for self care?

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Speaker 1: Though? What do I do? Drink? Now?

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Speaker 4: Look?

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Speaker 1: You know me, I it changes so often. I feel

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Speaker 1: that like I I'm on a roller coaster all the time,

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Speaker 1: so I don't really know what. I don't really know

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Speaker 1: what helps me self care. Sometimes I'm sometimes I'm really

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Speaker 1: like motivated to you know, run and stuff, and that

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Speaker 1: makes me feel good. But then sometimes I like now

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Speaker 1: or I don't feel like doing anything because the things,

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Speaker 1: those things make me miserable, you know, running, Yeah, running,

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Speaker 1: I serve that. I paddled out. I was like, I

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Speaker 1: fucking hate this, But it's just my mindset at the moment,

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Speaker 1: and that's it'll come back. I just need to not

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Speaker 1: be so hard on my tear personally, that's just me personally.

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Speaker 1: I can't have a routine because I'm just so bored.

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Speaker 1: Like it's so bored. And I'm like, if you say

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Speaker 1: to me, Okay, you're gonna have to wake up at

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Speaker 1: five o'clock every day as part of your routurn routine,

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Speaker 1: and if you wake up at five o'clock every day,

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Speaker 1: at the end of the week, you get one hundred

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Speaker 1: thousand dollars, I'd be like, fuck that. I'm not getting that.

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Speaker 1: That might be like, oh fucking fuck that, because it's

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Speaker 1: like it's just too repetitive for me. I get bored.

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Speaker 1: I don't mind. Just like a nap.

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Speaker 3: True, that's a bit of self care.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I nap a lot at the moment. And it

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Speaker 1: might be maybe I've got chronic fatigue. I don't know, maybe,

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Speaker 1: but I am enjoying that. I love it so much.

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Speaker 1: When I get to nap with Macy, I love that

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Speaker 1: so much, so sort of like a bond. But then

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Speaker 1: it's self care and wake up and she's really happy

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Speaker 1: that I'm there, and I'm happy she's going to catch you.

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Speaker 4: Like when I walk past the other day and you're

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Speaker 4: pretty much out cold and her little arm was on

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Speaker 4: your head like resting, Like it's.

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I love that, love that. So that's I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's that's me. What about Well, what do you do

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Speaker 1: for self care? Like?

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Speaker 3: I think I'm pretty good with self care?

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Speaker 1: Jim is your Yeah, I notice the difference between you

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Speaker 1: training and not training that day days you're not like

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Speaker 1: you just you've got way more of a pep in

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Speaker 1: your step when you've been to the gym. Yes, and

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Speaker 1: it's not whether you're cranky or you're happy, You're just

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Speaker 1: way more motivated to you know, to do anything anyway. April,

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Speaker 1: before we do go again, a reminder, please vote for

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Speaker 1: Maddie as much as they want him back, but you

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Speaker 1: can vote for him ten days, ten times a day

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Speaker 1: on a ten play app. Also, we've got a couple

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Speaker 1: of calendars left. All the money from those calendars goes

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Speaker 1: to Rise Up, which is to support victims of domestic violence.

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Speaker 1: And on that note, April, if you've enjoyed this episode, please,

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Speaker 1: I'm not talking to you.

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Speaker 3: Do you want me to like the episode like itave

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Speaker 3: a comment? I've actually don't know. I think I did.

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Speaker 4: I think your first episode I wrote a review on Apple?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, was it the one that was like this sucks? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: get a real job, get a real job. We're hungry.

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Speaker 1: us on socials. We have the Instagram which is two

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Speaker 1: Doting Dads. We have TikTok which is two Doting Dads

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Speaker 1: Believe it or not. And we have Facebook group group

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Speaker 1: the Facebook group which is Shocker two Dads. That's where

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Speaker 1: we streamed the last challenge and if Madison and now

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Speaker 1: a challenge, maybe we'll stream it again. We'll see other

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Speaker 1: than that, April, would you like to say.

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Speaker 3: Them thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: Goodbye bye. I need you close to Sorry, Babe, I

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Speaker 1: need I don't know, hang on sorry, Jess one set.

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Speaker 1: Just keep talking, just talk, Just do the.

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Speaker 1: Very good. You will find the whole time I just

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