1 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. Coming up on the episode 2 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: the Soaring cost of Hen's Parties, destroying friendships and sending 3 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: millennials into debt, Oh you Love Ireland, Go straight from 4 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: the Villa? And kids in a social media spotlight? How 5 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: much is too much to share? But first, Amy, how 6 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 1: was your week? My week's been good. Thanks. I had 7 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: such a funny incident though. I was ruving back to 8 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: my boyfriend's house and we have this joke that he 9 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 1: lives in quite a derro area. Anyway, we're pulling up 10 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: to his house and there was four police cars with 11 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: about eight police officers just across the road from his house, 12 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: and so I hop out of my car and just 13 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: to preface this, so when I used to work or 14 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: as producers on the show RBT, so I spotted some 15 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: of the policemen that we used to work with on 16 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: the show. Anyway, in my mind, I was like, oh, 17 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 1: do I go up and say something? It looks kind 18 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: of dicey. They've got two men who look as if 19 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: they're under arrest. I couldn't help myself. I walked up 20 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:04,320 Speaker 1: and I looked at one of them and I said, oh, 21 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 1: not filming RBT tonight, and then he looked at me 22 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: and he's like, oh, hi, Nah, we're not. And then 23 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: I walked inside and Dale was like, oh my god, 24 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: why would you say anything? It looks like we've dopped 25 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: the people in which was such a good point. I 26 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: felt like the biggest moron, but it was pretty funny. 27 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 1: I had to remember I text you, so I was like, 28 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 1: is that okay? Was that okay for me to say 29 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: hello to them? Or was it? Was? I really stupid. 30 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: I'm so stupid in situations like that. I've actually seen 31 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: a few of the RBT guys pop up, but they 32 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: were it was more at the shopping center. It wasn't 33 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 1: when they were doing their jobs. Hmmm, what about your week? 34 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: The three of us, as you know, have become obsessed 35 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: with Marketplace, so that's been taking up a lot of 36 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: my spare time. I've just been scouring for plants online, 37 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: which really mean you're shopping for them, yes, because at 38 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: my house it's literally just been Kate and I. So 39 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: Kate and I are moving out from each other and 40 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: it's just been us walking into our shed going, oh, 41 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: I could sell that. I've been trying to look for stuff, 42 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: but you guys have been trying to sell it, but 43 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: now they have sold the biggest load of crap you've 44 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 1: ever seen. Amy sold a peace sign, a wooden peace 45 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: sign from sports Girl like two years ago, for like 46 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: twenty bars. No, it wasn't just any peace sign, it 47 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: was a ringholder, so you put the rings on the fingers. 48 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:25,119 Speaker 1: I had people messaging me non stop for this thing. 49 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: Just a tip. If anyone's got any hello kitty crap 50 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 1: sitting at home, if they're in their thirties, get online. 51 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: People are going crazy for it. I got influence because 52 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: I kept seeing Amy Kate was selling all their shit. 53 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: So I found a whole bag of old clothes and 54 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 1: I put up a few online last night in desperation, 55 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: made fifteen dollars already either go broke or go home. 56 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: Hens parties destroying friendships and sending millennials into debt. With 57 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 1: the rise of the Instagram weddings, many brides to be 58 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: a pressuring friends to fit the bill for lavish nights 59 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: out and weekends away to celebrate their last night of freedom, 60 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: and it seems there's no shame in asking friends to 61 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: fork out hundreds or even thousands of dollars with Instagram 62 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: envy winning the day, Sophie, what are your thoughts on 63 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: all of this? Well, I definitely think there is a 64 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: lot of pressure when you're asked to be someone's bridesmade 65 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: or even a tender HENS party. In the past, it 66 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: used to be just okay to go, you know, for 67 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: a night out on the town, get some penis straws, 68 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: a few games, and that was very classy, hen classy, 69 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: very classy. But now I feel like your Hen's party 70 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: really says a lot about you and who you are. Like, 71 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: are you going to have something elegant like a high 72 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: tea or at a winery, or you're going to you know, 73 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: blow it all and go on a weekend away somewhere tropical. 74 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: If it's meant to represent you, do you do you 75 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: know exactly what you do for yours? Well, I'm not 76 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: engaged yet, but I don't know. It has been the thought. 77 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, just been planning it for years, Brandon. 78 00:03:57,160 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 1: If I have not, I feel like i'd want to do. 79 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: I don't drink, so I'm not going to be one 80 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: to go out for a night on the town and 81 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: make a dick of myself. So I don't know. I 82 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: feel like I'd want to lean towards something classy, but 83 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: I would feel the pressure that I wouldn't want my 84 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: friends to have to pay for. I would like to 85 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: go to a destination like Balley, just you know, my 86 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: sister's and then our best friend. But then there is 87 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 1: something nice about including other people, and I feel like 88 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 1: you should be able to have male friends there too. 89 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: Do you know what I think of this? Think of 90 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 1: the number of Hens parties you've been to and you've 91 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: had to pay, it's kind of the done thing. I 92 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 1: think people are willing to pay if they're going to 93 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 1: have a good time. And I was gonna say, Okay, 94 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: so you want a classy Hens night? What does that 95 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: mean about you? If we're analyzing people's Hens Night? But 96 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: I'm classy of your class? Yes? But so you wouldn't 97 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: have a drink at your Hen's Night? Oh? I mean 98 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: maybe if I don't know, it's just if I'm regularly 99 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: on the weekend, why should I pretend to be something 100 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 1: else with Hen's parties? Though? I feel like there's this 101 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: pressure to make people feel envious. That's something that I feel. 102 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: You've got to make your Hen's party aspect to cool. 103 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 1: So I mean you know, now they've got the boxes 104 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 1: you need to send out to ask friends to be 105 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:08,239 Speaker 1: your bridesmaids. You've got to have the personalized Hens party teachers, 106 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: the goodie bags. I think it's I think the whole 107 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: big Hens Night is an indication of what your wedding's 108 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: going to be like. So if you have a small 109 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: sort of crummy Hens Night, it's indicative that your wedding's 110 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: probably going to be not crummy, but you know, on 111 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 1: the smaller side. So when people do have these lavish 112 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: Hens night's normally because they're building up to the big 113 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: day and it's going to be some massive fuck off wedding. Well, 114 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: I've read a great piece in The New York Times 115 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 1: by Rihanna Picton James, and she spoke about how social 116 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: media is normalizing expensive bridal traditions like destinations Hens parties. 117 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: So she interviewed a money expert who said that the 118 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 1: money find finance expert. So she said that usually in 119 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 1: the past, our points of comparison were limited to our 120 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: own circle of friends, so naturally we'd be comparing ourselves 121 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: to people who had similar jobs, who had similar money 122 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: to us. But now we're social media are points of 123 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 1: comparison are even greater. So we're seeing these pictures of 124 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: these trips and the dresses and the gifts, but we're 125 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:10,480 Speaker 1: forgetting that these people are probably earning ten to twenty 126 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: times more than we are. Do you mean because they're influencers? 127 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:17,119 Speaker 1: Is that what you mean? Yeah, well we're seeing influencers celebrities. 128 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's just people comparing their own 129 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:24,919 Speaker 1: hen's parties or their friends hence parties to influencers or celebrities. 130 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: I think it's more like, look at kids parties. Back 131 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: in the day, you could go to McDonald's and have 132 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,839 Speaker 1: your party, or you had a home birthday party. But 133 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: now it's all about first birthday parties or a huge event. 134 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 1: It's not just put out a couple bit of fairy 135 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 1: bread and some orange juice. I feel like maybe it's 136 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 1: because we're more entitled now as we continue to grow up, 137 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: we've got more money, there's incomes, and well we are 138 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 1: documenting everything, so it's gotta be you know, it's got 139 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: to As I said before, it says a lot about you. 140 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: But you know that is sad, isn't that sad? So 141 00:06:57,920 --> 00:06:59,839 Speaker 1: probably a lot of people are doing it for the 142 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: really so. You know, kid's birthday parties. HENS parties just 143 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: look good on Instagram, and of course there's always elements 144 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: of that. You know, you don't want to want some shit, 145 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: Oh he is a bunch of his little card table 146 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: and a few crappy games, like you got to have 147 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 1: something that's unique. Something that made me reflect on my 148 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 1: own HENS party and what I'd want to do was 149 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 1: I saw Steph klas Smith share her HENS party on Instagram? 150 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: Did you see it? Amy? I did see a slow 151 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: mo of her popping a bottle of chap fade in 152 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: her reaction. That's all I've seen. I was living for 153 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: this Hens party on the weekend. I kept messaging Kate 154 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: about it. She was wearing this incredible dress. I don't 155 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: know if you saw her, but she looked insane. It 156 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: always looks. It was this white dress, and she had 157 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,119 Speaker 1: this kind of garter on her leg and this cool 158 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: bridle sash, and her whole house was filled with black 159 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: and red balloons. I still can't get over the fact 160 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: she's only twenty five. I don't know, but she just 161 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 1: seems so not like old in a bad way, but mature. 162 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: I suppose when you start modeling it, yeah, sixteen. Well, 163 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: it was this really cool Vegas theme party. I haven't 164 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: really seen too many of them, and she had like 165 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 1: decks of cards everywhere, and she was it classy or 166 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 1: was it a bit sort of? I thought it was classy. 167 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: A lot of her friends who wearing like show girl outfits. 168 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: She had Tully smythe there with. I didn't see a 169 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: sign of a stripper. So they had the kind of 170 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: like out their party where they all got drunk, and 171 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 1: then they put up these photos of them all in 172 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 1: like matching pajamas with their initials. Yeah, they were all 173 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: like cuddling like it was, I don't know, it was 174 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: pretty cute. Then the next day all the brides maid 175 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 1: stayed around for the rest of the weekend and they 176 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: had personalized shirts made with I've got a crush on 177 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 1: Steph Claire Smith, which is from the g Flip song. 178 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: And then she also they went on this like really 179 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: cool walk and she wore her little bridle veil on 180 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 1: the walk, and then they went and got mud what 181 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: is it called, like a mud spa bar thing, But 182 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 1: it just looked really cool. Do you know what I've 183 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 1: noticed about Hen's parties as opposed to Bucks parties is 184 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: that the Hens will share everything online. I went to 185 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: a Hen's party, which I think I've discussed on this 186 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: podcast before, and it was quite funny because there were 187 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 1: topless male waiters there and everyone was so open about it. 188 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 1: People were taking photos. The photos ended up on the 189 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 1: Hen's Facebook page and everything. But when do you ever 190 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: see men like at a Bucks party, Snapchat, Insta storing 191 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:21,439 Speaker 1: their drinks or it's take so much, Yeah, because everything 192 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: that goes on is so like risque, everything worn, everything 193 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: to stay private. At a box party, not so much 194 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: a Hens. I mean maybe Steph Glessmith and her friends 195 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 1: did have strippers, we just don't know about it. Actually, 196 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: over the weekend I did see instators for another Hen's 197 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 1: night and they were playing this game where you have 198 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: a piece of rope and then this tiny little carrot 199 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: and they had to get the carrot in this glass bottle. 200 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, just like so vulgar like 201 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 1: that all the mothers, you know, the mother of the 202 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 1: bribe was doing and her older friends. I just it 203 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: made me think would I want something like that? And 204 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: I actually wouldn't. That's where I draw the line, though, 205 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 1: I don't think I'd want my mum involved in a 206 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:03,199 Speaker 1: game like that. I've only ever been a bridesmaids for 207 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: one wedding, and that was for our dear friend Alan, 208 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 1: who is probably listening, and she refused to have Penis 209 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: straws at her beautiful high tea that she had at 210 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: the seasonal Garden for anyone who's in Adelaide that's been 211 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 1: shut down, and I appreciated that, Like, I think my 212 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: mum would find it really vulgar, you're the good thing 213 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:24,680 Speaker 1: about our friends Hen's party was the fact is people 214 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 1: had to pay for their own meals, which is fine, 215 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: but it wasn't some huge hit like I've been to 216 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 1: them before and you've got to pay about like eighty 217 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: bucks and it's for drinks and the entertainment and you know, 218 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 1: the topless waiters and stuff. And I feeliz saying I 219 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 1: don't even want them there, why do I have to pay? Yeah? 220 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: Well this, yeah, Well. A recent study from Credit Karma 221 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 1: found that one in three millennials have gone into debt 222 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: to attend a Hen's party, with thirty yeah, with thirty 223 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: six percent spending more than five hundred dollars for a 224 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: Hens part three hundred dollars. I assume that this must 225 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: be the weekends away, but that's utterly ridiculous. I personally 226 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: think it's all a bit self indulgent. Like, as you said, 227 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: if it's your really close friends and you're going I mean, 228 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 1: as you said, I feel like it'd be so fun 229 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: to go to Bali or Penang or somewhere. But if 230 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:11,960 Speaker 1: it was my HENS party, I would make sure that 231 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: it was something for everyone. Like if you're going away 232 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 1: for a week, maybe have a day that's the Hens 233 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 1: day and night, and then the rest of it. Anybody 234 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: can do whatever they want. But it starts becoming really 235 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: self indulgent. And even like you know, if you're going 236 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: to the Hens party, you're obviously going to go to 237 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: the wedding. Then you've got to fork out money for 238 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: the gift, You've got to go to the engagement party, 239 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 1: You've got to go for all of that. It just 240 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 1: becomes ridiculous. Yeah. Well, this article on the New York 241 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:40,199 Speaker 1: Times gave some tips which I thought were quite helpful 242 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 1: and what to do if you have a friend in 243 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 1: this situation who's expecting too much. Yeah, and it said 244 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:46,679 Speaker 1: that you should really take a step back and actually 245 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 1: go through the numbers of how much you're spending, because 246 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: I suppose in these situations, when you just chuck everything 247 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: in your card, you can become unaware of how much 248 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: it's actually costing you. But how are you meant to 249 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: have that conversation without sounding rude, because I'd be quite 250 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: embarrassed to be like, oh, I can't afford that. Is 251 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: that when you start pretending that you can't come. Well, 252 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 1: they said that you should talk about to your friend, 253 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: not what you can't do, but what you can do. 254 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:10,560 Speaker 1: Maybe say, oh, I can do this element of the party, 255 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: but sorry, I probably can't afford the rest of it. 256 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: So you're offering them more of a solution, but at 257 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: the end of the day, it's still fucking awkward. I mean. 258 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 1: The other thing is that this journalist was saying that 259 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:22,199 Speaker 1: she got to the point where, even though she was 260 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,319 Speaker 1: part of the bridal party, she said she couldn't have 261 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 1: attend the hen's party because it was too expensive. She 262 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: ended up getting kicked out of the wedding for it. Wow, 263 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, don't you think that's where people 264 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: start one upping each other? Because if you're like, well, 265 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: I had to spend eighty five dollars to go to 266 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: hair Hens night. I'm going to make do a ridiculous 267 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: one to get my money back. Yeah, I agree. At 268 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 1: the end of the day, if you can't afford to 269 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 1: go to a Hen's party, if they're your true friend, 270 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: they really should understand. Now, moving on to our top headlines. 271 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 1: The first one is from Now to Love and it 272 00:12:55,880 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: reads the Bachelorettes Tim's shock collapse on set. Now, firstly, 273 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: this guy on the Bachelor arette Tim. Guess how Tim 274 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 1: is spelled? I believe it's ta double m. Yes. Who 275 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: calls their son Tim and spells it with two m's. No, 276 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 1: he seems lovely. Is there any explanation for the spelling 277 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:19,439 Speaker 1: of his name? Was it just up there? Did someone 278 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 1: fuck up the super is that? What's? Nah? It's definitely 279 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 1: double em everywhere? And so Tim, if you haven't seen it, 280 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 1: he was the first person to meet Angie and he 281 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: had this massive bunch of sunflowers. I've never seen such 282 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 1: a big bunch of flowers. I love sunflowers. That would 283 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 1: have done well in my books. Well, what was that? 284 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 1: The Lauren Conrad used to say. She said, flowers mean 285 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and chocolate means I love you. If his 286 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 1: bunch of flowers was anything to go by, he'd clearly 287 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: done something extremely wrong. But anyway, wasn't it when he 288 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 1: first met her? Again, I'm just joking anyway, he also 289 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: had a sunflower on his hand, and Angie's love is sunflower, 290 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: so she saw it as a sign. Anyway, So the 291 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: article goes on to say that during it's it says 292 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: during the rose ceremony, but it sounds like it was 293 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 1: really the cocktail party, he started to get really kostrophobic 294 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: and collapsed, and it said that he may have been 295 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 1: taken to hospital. So during this time, Angie didn't even 296 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: know what was going on, it says, and she was 297 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 1: asking producers if she could speak to Tim, but they 298 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 1: were all like, I'm sorry, like they didn't want to 299 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: tell her what had happened in case she got too shocked, 300 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 1: I suppose, so she couldn't give grabs for the show. 301 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 1: And she what was the explanation for the collapse? So 302 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 1: have they given none? Well, it goes on to say 303 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 1: that Angie actually thought that Tim was about to leave 304 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 1: until they told her no, he's actually collapsed. I think 305 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: it's basically because during those rows ceremonies and cocktail parties. 306 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: There's a lot of crew in the room, so some 307 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 1: sources were saying it was bound to happen. It's just 308 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:46,119 Speaker 1: so hot and stuffy and chastrophobic that he just collapsed. 309 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 1: Moving on to the next headline, it's from Mama Mia 310 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: and it says just the five most bizarre things we 311 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 1: noticed in Kylie Jenner's office tour. So Kylie shared a 312 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 1: video tour of the Kylie Cosmetics office, and she had 313 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: designed the whole thing. And the first thing that grabbed 314 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: everyone's attention was that the office was empty, and she 315 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 1: claimed it was because everyone was out at a meeting. 316 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 1: This article compared it to the size of Tasmania. That's 317 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: how big they claim this office is. So some of 318 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: the best moments of the office tour was that it 319 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 1: has its own alcohol station for Chris Jennet. So she 320 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: has forced Kylie to set up an alcohol station which 321 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 1: has to be ready and serviced at all hours. When 322 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 1: you say to her, when you say alcohol station, what 323 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 1: do you mean? It was a bar pretty much, so 324 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 1: I think that is how it's set now. It's a bar. 325 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 1: I don't have a bar in my house. I have 326 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: an alcohol station. But when you watch the Kardashians and 327 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 1: you look at any of their houses, Chris, I mean 328 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 1: Chris Jenner's house, it has a massive fridge and it 329 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: looks like one that you go to the you know, 330 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 1: a fridge from the petrol station. It's got every drink 331 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: you can think of when you're a billionaire, I think, 332 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 1: why not. She also had decorations, including flowers made from 333 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: dollar bills, which were quite fun. Well, there's also a 334 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: YouTube room, so wait a sec only dollar bills? Yeah? 335 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 1: I thought one hundred dollar bills at the least. There's 336 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: also a YouTube room, a makeup room, and that's only 337 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 1: exclusively for her close friends and family to use, not 338 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: the people that work there. Stormy also has her own 339 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: bedroom in the office. Where is this office, That's a 340 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: good question. I'm not sure. It's an America somewhere. And 341 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: there's also they assumed there's also a vending machine that 342 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 1: just has champagne in it. Wow, how so Kylie Jenner. 343 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: She's twenty two, so she wouldn't have been able to 344 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: have that a few years ago. Because they're drinking age 345 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: in America's to it, or she could claim it was 346 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 1: for it? Is that just gonna say, is that just 347 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 1: purely Chris Jenner's vending machine? Are they just like trying 348 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 1: to promote people to drink it? Maybe they come up 349 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 1: with better ideas for the shades. Can you imagine them 350 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 1: like throwing back glasses at champagne? Oh yes, let's make 351 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 1: one about jord An. When they call them such ridiculous names, 352 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: I'm not surprised they're drunk. You've got to be creative 353 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 1: to come up with some of those names though. It's 354 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: like the mac lipsticks. I just love, like all the 355 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 1: names are hilarious. They're all very rude names they are. 356 00:16:56,280 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 1: It's all ad lipped. Yeah that really. You got to 357 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 1: our next headline exactly how much contestants on The Bachelor, 358 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 1: goggle Box, Big Brother and more get paid? And that's 359 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 1: also from Muma Mea. So, would you like to take 360 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 1: a guess at how much people on the Bachelor and 361 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: Bachelorette get paid? This is for the contestante. I do 362 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 1: remember reading an article years ago about Big Brother, and 363 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:21,160 Speaker 1: I know it was a sort of quite low amount. 364 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:22,880 Speaker 1: I think it was like five hundred dollars a week 365 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 1: and it just covers your rent and they would pay 366 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 1: for your food and everything. Well, this report is saying 367 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: they get ninety dollars a day, so that's pretty close. 368 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: And then for some reason, if you're in Bachelor in 369 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 1: Paradise you get up between one hundred to two hundred, 370 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,399 Speaker 1: even though you're staying in like a luxury resort. I 371 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 1: wonder if that's got anything to do with them being overseas. Maybe. Well, 372 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:45,119 Speaker 1: it did say that alex Nation got paid five hundred 373 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 1: dollars a day, which pierced a lot of people off, 374 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: but it's probably because of all the lesbian baiting they 375 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: were doing on Bachelor in Paradise, she was more valuable 376 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 1: to them, or when you watch Bachelor in Paradise, it's 377 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 1: hard to remember who some of them even are, so 378 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 1: I'm assuming they're the ones that are on the ninety 379 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 1: dollars and your alex Nation winners of the show where 380 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: the five hundred dollars a day. Well, it seemed a 381 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 1: pretty similar story for Married at First Sight too, they 382 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 1: got one hundred and fifty dollars tax free. And tell 383 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 1: who was on the season before last, He said that 384 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:15,120 Speaker 1: some of the more controversial contestants, like what's her name? 385 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:20,440 Speaker 1: Del Devena, she got fifty dollars. More like, if you're 386 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 1: going to do something cru sure you got more money, 387 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 1: but I'd want more than fifty dollars to be hated 388 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 1: by the nation to get with that awful jerk bigger 389 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:30,239 Speaker 1: miss guy on there. But with goggle Box it's a 390 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:33,720 Speaker 1: different system. So Evie, she revealed that you don't get 391 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 1: actually paid a talent fee because you're not considered an employee. 392 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 1: So instead the house gets a location fee. But it's 393 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 1: quite difficult if you're renting a house. So if you're renting, 394 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 1: the fee gets paid to your landlord, so it's up 395 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 1: to them whether they pay it or not. So Evie 396 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:52,640 Speaker 1: said that their landlord would thankfully forward it to them. 397 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 1: So per house, you got about two hundred and fifty 398 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:56,880 Speaker 1: dollars a day. So I mean, think about the people 399 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:59,400 Speaker 1: who have more than two occupants in the house. It's 400 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 1: really not that much. The thing I like about that though, 401 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 1: is that it doesn't change the people on goggle Box. 402 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: I mean, even you look at Angie killed her on 403 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 1: the Bachelor, but a lot of people were commenting that 404 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 1: she looked a little bit different. It looked like she'd 405 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: had her lips done something, and whatever, that's her prerogative. 406 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 1: But when you watch goggle Box, you want them to 407 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 1: be an ordinary family. So if they'd be on the 408 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:24,160 Speaker 1: first goggle Box and being paid ridiculously and then next season, 409 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 1: you know, the mum and dad and the daughters, Like 410 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 1: imagine the daughters sitting there with veneers and hair extensions, 411 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:35,880 Speaker 1: they just wouldn't be right. No, you're right, we'd Love 412 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: Ireland heating up our screens. All the islanders saucy secrets 413 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 1: are being revealed outside the villa, Amy, can you tell 414 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 1: us more? Well? I was very interested to read on 415 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: new Idea that Sam from Love Island, Australia was actually 416 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 1: meant to be a contestant on Married at first Site. 417 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 1: Oh really, why wasn't he un married at first site? Then? Well, 418 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:59,639 Speaker 1: according to a source, he shot all of the intro 419 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: scene married at first I know where they go to 420 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 1: meet the psychologists. But his partner ended up pulling out 421 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:09,399 Speaker 1: before they actually got married, and so the producers were 422 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:12,200 Speaker 1: so impressed with him that they said that they'd keep 423 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,439 Speaker 1: you know that they'd put him on Love Island. So 424 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 1: could he genuinely be looking for love? Then? Well, I 425 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 1: don't know if the people are married at first side 426 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: genuinely looking for love. But I haven't really seen that 427 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: much about him on the episode so far, so I'm 428 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 1: assuming if he was good enough for them to hold 429 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 1: on to to put on Love Island, we might see 430 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 1: more of his personality come out in future episodes. Maybe 431 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 1: they're just maybe they've got a perfect and true to 432 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:36,440 Speaker 1: lined up for him that they're going to you know, 433 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:39,920 Speaker 1: that's when his personality would come out a little bit more. Well. 434 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: The other bit of Love Island Australia goss I had 435 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:46,199 Speaker 1: was it's been revealed that Adam, he's the guy with 436 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 1: all the tattoos and the bottle hair gut, who's actually 437 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:52,160 Speaker 1: pretty funny. He and Vanessa, who is the other woman 438 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 1: that's got that sleeve of tattoos, they know each other 439 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 1: on the outside world. So wait, was this revealed on 440 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 1: the show or just okay? So someone did some digging 441 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,159 Speaker 1: and they found there was an inster story with Adam 442 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,479 Speaker 1: and Vanessa both in it. They were all sitting around 443 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 1: at a dinner together and it's quite interesting because Adam 444 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 1: got criticized because he when he came into the villa, 445 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 1: he actually ended up picking Vanessa. He said, oh, the 446 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 1: girl in the yellow Bayre's or something along those lines, 447 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: and everyone was like, oh, why can't they why can't 448 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 1: you use her name? But it seems like he purposely 449 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:27,439 Speaker 1: didn't because he was pretending like he didn't really know her. 450 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: It was kind of like how Curtis sent more of 451 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:33,400 Speaker 1: the DM and she never replied. We're talking about Love 452 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 1: Island UK and Maura Higgins. She's come out this week 453 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 1: and said that she was approached by producers last year 454 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 1: to appear in Love Island, but she was dating someone 455 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 1: and so she said, oh, I'm actually in a relationship. 456 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 1: And they said to her, oh, how long have you 457 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 1: been in this relationship and she said it was six 458 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,000 Speaker 1: months and they said, oh, well, how do you know 459 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:54,919 Speaker 1: that it's going to last? If it doesn't ring us, 460 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:56,679 Speaker 1: we'll get you in the house. I'd be intrigued to 461 00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 1: see the other guys she's gone out with, because to me, 462 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 1: Curtis and her just don't suit each other at all. 463 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: Like I'm happy that she's happy, but I just think 464 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 1: she's so much cooler than him. I don't think it's 465 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: gonna last because Laura she's so cool, But I mean 466 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,400 Speaker 1: maybe because she is so loud and cool, she does 467 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,160 Speaker 1: need someone like Curtis to calm her down. The other 468 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 1: bit of Love Island Goss, I thought you'd enjoy sop 469 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 1: is you'd remember Michael the Firefighter from Michael, Yes, he 470 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 1: is rumored to be appearing on the next X on 471 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:29,400 Speaker 1: the Beach. That would be incredible. So are they suggesting 472 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: that Amber is gonna be the X on there? I 473 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,440 Speaker 1: feel like that would be amazing. But Amber's hit out 474 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 1: and she's already made a snide remark about Michael, so 475 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 1: you can see that things aren't great between the pair. 476 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 1: She said that she doesn't have time to be on 477 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 1: a show like X on the Beach, But I'm guessing. Still, 478 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 1: I assume he's not with Joanna Still, I don't I 479 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 1: remember seeing photos of them kissing paparazzi shots. But if 480 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:51,920 Speaker 1: he's gonna be on X on the Beach, he must 481 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 1: be single. But I'm sure she'll make an appearance. This week, 482 00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: The Herald Son published an opinion piece calling for Nadia 483 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 1: Bartel to keep her boys off social media as the 484 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 1: fallout from her marriage breakdown continues. Despite her ex Jimmy 485 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 1: also sharing images of their kids online, Nadia was slammed 486 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 1: for supposedly using her kids as commodities for her Instagram popularity. 487 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 1: Influences are copying increasing criticism for sharing their kids online 488 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,120 Speaker 1: in an age of visibility. How much is too much 489 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 1: to share? Well, to start off with, the carverage in 490 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 1: this article of Nadia Bartel was completely unfair. It was 491 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 1: clearly coming from the Jimmy Bartel camp, so it was 492 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 1: very one sided talking about his personal pain with his 493 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 1: precious children and slamming her for sharing them on her 494 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: social media And John Fence, was he thinking of his 495 00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 1: precious children? He's eleven month old when he was off 496 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: with his mistress. Tell me that goes through his mind 497 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 1: at all. I mean, she's just probably putting up these 498 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,159 Speaker 1: pictures to show that she's holding it all together and 499 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 1: that she's okay. I get a smile when I see 500 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 1: her ins destroys her with the cute kids. Obviously she's 501 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 1: finding strength in her children through this difficult time and 502 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,400 Speaker 1: trying to keep their lives normal. I mean, all she's 503 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:09,359 Speaker 1: been sharing is them at the park or theym, not 504 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 1: having fun on the beach or I don't see that 505 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: there's anything wrong with what she's shared. She's always shared 506 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,640 Speaker 1: photos of her kids. What she meant to do now 507 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 1: suddenly that she's not with Jimmy, she's not allowed to 508 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 1: share photos of it would cause more question marks. And 509 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: the most hypocritical thing was they were criticizing her. They 510 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 1: were even going back to when she shared her first 511 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:30,959 Speaker 1: child's ultrasound, which is Jimmy shared it as well. They 512 00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 1: found to point that out. And they're also saying, you know, 513 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: they're painting her as being this big social media queen 514 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 1: and saying she's getting them to spread clothes and cosmetics 515 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 1: and cars and multi vitamins. Jimmy did the exact same thing. 516 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,400 Speaker 1: It's just completely hypocritical, but I mean it does make 517 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:51,960 Speaker 1: you think about the children we are seeing on social media. 518 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,919 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if it's just because I'm thirty, 519 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 1: but it seems like a lot of the influences I 520 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 1: follow now have children, and sometimes I do think to myself, Gosh, 521 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: what the kids think when they do see some of 522 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 1: the stuff that shared about them. Would you share photos 523 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 1: of your kids if you had kids, if you were 524 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 1: an influencer, I probably would. I mean, I think you've 525 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 1: obviously got to be careful about about if you're sharing 526 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 1: locations of where you are. The thing is I feel 527 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,400 Speaker 1: like it's all branding. So, for example, someone like Sarah's Day, 528 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 1: who I love, she shares lots of videos and pictures 529 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 1: of her beautiful baby Fox. Oh my gosh, I think 530 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 1: he's like the cutest kid I've ever seen. I love. 531 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 1: I don't really go funning over kids, but that kid 532 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: is so cute anyway. But that's within her, that fits 533 00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 1: within her brand because she does share her whole life. 534 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 1: But I did see this video from Gary V and 535 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,440 Speaker 1: he made a really good point. He was saying he 536 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 1: makes a conscious effort not to share things about his 537 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,159 Speaker 1: wife and his kids and his private life. Everything is 538 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 1: about his business. And he says that some people often 539 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: criticize him, but like and you know, criticize that he 540 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 1: swears on his videos or stuff like that, and he's like, 541 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 1: at least I'm not fucking posting pictures of my kids 542 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 1: and then wondering why people are asking me about my kids, 543 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 1: wondering why they're you know, judging my parenting or whatever. 544 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 1: So I kind of agree that sometimes if you don't 545 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,880 Speaker 1: want to be questioned about your kids, and you don't 546 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,600 Speaker 1: want them in the spotlight, then you should make a 547 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 1: conscious effort not to share stuff like Anna Ivanovitch. It 548 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 1: was actually recently revealed that YouTubers or instagramers who share 549 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 1: their pregnancy their following count just sows. And you know, 550 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:31,160 Speaker 1: you look at someone like Sarah's day, I'm not necessarily 551 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 1: I absolutely love her, and I'm not saying her following 552 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 1: is purely grown because of her pregnancy announcement. But she 553 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,439 Speaker 1: did get three million views on that pregnancy announcement video, 554 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,959 Speaker 1: and she did, you know, pinpoint all of those special 555 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 1: moments in her life, and I was so looking forward 556 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:46,959 Speaker 1: to seeing all of them. So, I mean, for some 557 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:50,400 Speaker 1: people it might look lucrative, but to others, I personally 558 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 1: just think that she's sharing her life. What are your 559 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:56,879 Speaker 1: thoughts on parents using their kids in paid ads and 560 00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,160 Speaker 1: stuff on Instagram? I mean, is that going too far? 561 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 1: I feel like it depends what the ad is for. Yeah, 562 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,119 Speaker 1: if it's an ad for some kids clothes and the 563 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 1: kids are getting the clothes out of it, whatever, But 564 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,879 Speaker 1: if it's for something embarrassing or demeaning, I mean, what 565 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 1: would be embarrassing me? Like now, if it's for some 566 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 1: nappy rash or some diarrhea or something like that, that 567 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,159 Speaker 1: would be pretty embarrassing to look back on at the 568 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 1: same time. I mean, you know, when we were all kids, 569 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 1: our parents are takeing embarrassing photos of us, and you know, 570 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:26,879 Speaker 1: now share them at your twenty first for all your 571 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,639 Speaker 1: friends to see. And it's not on as huge a 572 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,400 Speaker 1: platform as social media, but it can still be embarrassing. 573 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,639 Speaker 1: I don't know if people are thinking that the ads 574 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 1: are embarrassing for the kids. I think it's more that 575 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 1: people are saying, are you just using the kids to 576 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,879 Speaker 1: make money? But I don't know. I'm kind of torn 577 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 1: because I can see that you don't want to exploit 578 00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 1: your kids, but then again, kids are expensive. I've heard that. 579 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 1: You know, when we were growing up, we're triplets, and 580 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:51,199 Speaker 1: we heard our mum we were going to be in 581 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: a car seat commercial, and I thought that was so cool. 582 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 1: I didn't think, oh, my parents are exploiting me to 583 00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 1: make money. Do you know what? There are some influences 584 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 1: that post their kid too much, though, because I've seen 585 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 1: some videos, I'm like, this is literally a family home video. 586 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 1: I think we were talking about that the other day. 587 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 1: I won't name the influence of it. I was like, 588 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,000 Speaker 1: oh my god, I don't care about a kid. I 589 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 1: just want to see your fabulous life. I don't want 590 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 1: to see the kid. What I signed too much is 591 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 1: when people make a baby Instagram account for the kid, well, 592 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,440 Speaker 1: when they're not born. It's a bit odd when they 593 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,120 Speaker 1: put up the but I still find it odd. Let 594 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: the kid, when they're old enough, decide if they want 595 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,159 Speaker 1: to make their own Instagram account up. What do we 596 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:33,240 Speaker 1: try to do attract pedophiles or something? Can you imagine that, though, 597 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,880 Speaker 1: So your parents make you an Instagram when you're born, 598 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 1: They've got your ultra sound up, and then what you 599 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: have that for the rest of your life. If Instagram's around, 600 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 1: you know, when you scroll, you know, you go and 601 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,200 Speaker 1: look up people that you like and you you know, 602 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 1: like you guy you're dating or whatever, and you look 603 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 1: back and there's a photos in them from five years ago. 604 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:50,600 Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, that looks so different, or 605 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 1: they look so young. Can you imagine that? Just scrolling 606 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: back and there's baby photos of somebody that was very disturbing, 607 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 1: You're like, oh, wellly's so cute baby. I read an 608 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 1: article in the Guardian and they interviewed this professor of 609 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 1: law at a university in USA, and she was saying 610 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 1: that worried that we're going to get to a point 611 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 1: where children are actually suing their parents for exposing, you know, 612 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 1: private parts of their childhood. Really, what do you mean 613 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:20,840 Speaker 1: by private parts? Do you mean they're private parts or no? No, 614 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: just private details of their childhood. Technically, she said that 615 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 1: they could use the Data Protection Act, so if parents 616 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,960 Speaker 1: are putting up photos without consent, the child could argue 617 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,080 Speaker 1: they have the right to take those photos down. Look, 618 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:34,959 Speaker 1: I can see that as in, when you're a baby, 619 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 1: you can't really consent. And I feel like parents, you know, 620 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,400 Speaker 1: we can put out photos to babies, but when you're 621 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 1: sharing hideous photos of your kids at thirteen years of age, 622 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 1: talking from experience, maybe parents should be so for doing that. 623 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 1: Why do think parents should be careful when there's any 624 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 1: sort of nudity involved. I've watched an influencer recently and 625 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 1: she had a photo of her kid in the bath 626 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 1: with like an emoji over his private parts, and I 627 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 1: just thought, how easy is it for someone to just 628 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 1: remove that? I think that's a bit fun. Take a 629 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 1: photo of the kid without their crutchiness. Put a pair 630 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: of little speedo's on your kid so you can vlog 631 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 1: with the child. That's right, I'm sure you could get 632 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 1: a deal out of it. There might be some little kids, 633 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,400 Speaker 1: babe as you can get a deal out of But 634 00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 1: we just don't want to see that. So we have 635 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 1: got a new segment called Rant of the Week, and 636 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 1: it's basically so we can let off some steam about 637 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,160 Speaker 1: things that are pissing us off during the week. Now, Amy, 638 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 1: you've got a good one. I do. I don't know 639 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 1: if anyone else out there has thought the same thing, 640 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 1: but I am so sick of watching YouTube videos by 641 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 1: influencers that are edited so poorly. Now, part of my 642 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 1: job at the pr Bible is doing all the videography stuff, 643 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: so I film, I edit, I know all about it. Now, 644 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:47,040 Speaker 1: there's a simple tool that I wish some influencers would 645 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 1: learn to use in their videos. It's called a white balance, 646 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:55,360 Speaker 1: also called a color correction. I've seen so many videos 647 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: that are yellowy. All you need to do is take 648 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,520 Speaker 1: that little white balance and move the color we are 649 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:04,960 Speaker 1: over and you'll have beautiful, beautiful vision. I'm also sick 650 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 1: of watching YouTubers sit around and say I've been editing 651 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 1: for five hours today, that long. I'm sorry, I mean 652 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 1: seas at a desk at work for eight hours minimum. 653 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,240 Speaker 1: They're like, oh, I'm so tired from oh my gosh. 654 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe think it, but don't put it in your flog. 655 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,520 Speaker 1: So could we not have vlogs where we see you editing? Like, oh, 656 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 1: but everyone's demanded they see my normal life. No one 657 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,680 Speaker 1: has demanded that we want to see you out doing 658 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 1: interesting things? Do you do what? I love? When they 659 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 1: show them putting dishes in the dishwasher or folding laundry, 660 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 1: it's like, fuck, are we Is this actually what it's 661 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 1: come to? Sadly, I'll probably watch it, but yeah, So 662 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: in terms of the video editing quality, I'm just over it. 663 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 1: It is so poor. And to say that they're sitting 664 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 1: around editing this vlog for hours because I like how 665 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,479 Speaker 1: somehow some of them wasted it in Some of them 666 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 1: will say I've edited this mook bong all day and 667 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 1: the mook bong is just the camera pointed at them. Yeah, okay, 668 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,800 Speaker 1: so you put a start and a finish on it exactly. 669 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 1: And I must say, we keep talking about Sarah's day, 670 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 1: but her and Kurt do some fantastic videos. That's also 671 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 1: what irks me. If my job was a YouTuber and 672 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 1: I had all day was being paid by brands to 673 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:16,400 Speaker 1: do videos and all this kind of stuff. I would 674 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 1: go online, it's called YouTube. You look up videos of 675 00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: how to do video editing, how to do cool transitions, 676 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 1: and I would work on my craft. That's your job, 677 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 1: and you can't even get the white balance right. Well, 678 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: that's all we've got for today's episode. Thank you so 679 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 1: much for joining us. If you'd like to continue the conversation, 680 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:40,120 Speaker 1: you can find us on Instagram at Outspoken Underscore z 681 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 1: Underscore podcast, and we're also on Facebook by the same name. 682 00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 1: And if you could leave us a rating, preferably five star, 683 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 1: that would really help us out. We'd also love if 684 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 1: you could share where you're listening across your instagrams tag 685 00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 1: us in your stories. We so enjoy seeing them. And 686 00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 1: this Thursday, we would be dropping a very exciting Under 687 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 1: the Influence episode with Bachelor runner up Abby Chatfield, so 688 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 1: sage tuned. We can't wait to bring you that episode. 689 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 1: Thanks again for listening.