1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,320 Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 6 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Concer Podcast. This is 7 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and 8 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 9 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 10 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 11 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 12 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, we're here to 13 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical 14 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's 15 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: seat of your own life, stop letting life pass you by, 16 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 1: then you're in the right place. Hello everybody, and welcome 17 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: back to the R and C Potty. In today's episode, 18 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: we are chatting about key reasons why your manifestations aren't working. 19 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: So if you have been trying to manifest something but 20 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 1: it's just not coming to fruition at all, or maybe 21 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: it's like something else is manifesting, or like maybe you 22 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: can manifest like small things like a car park, but 23 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: then when it comes to your dream job or partner 24 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: or business, you just like you can't get on board 25 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 1: with it. This episode is going to be so helpful 26 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: for you. We really break down the key reasons of 27 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: what could be blocking you and give you some actionable 28 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: tips on the shifts that you can make to call 29 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: in these desires. But before we get into the show 30 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: a tear, what is your recommendations this week? 31 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 2: I have two. My first one is the rise app. 32 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 2: We started Sneaky Pluck. I love it. But we started 33 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 2: our thirty Days to Alignment challenge yesterday and the vibes 34 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 2: are just so high. I'm so excited. I think it's 35 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 2: going to be the best month ever. And for people 36 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 2: who don't know, it's basically like every single day there's 37 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 2: just an activity you do and some of its app content, 38 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 2: some of it's just normal things you can do, like 39 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 2: decluttering the drawer you're ignoring or going for a walk, 40 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 2: And by the end of the thirty days, you're going 41 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 2: to just feel so much more aligned and high vibe. 42 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 2: And I feel like in the third month of the year, 43 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 2: everyone sort of just gets into a bit of a 44 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,079 Speaker 2: slump or like your new year energy is a bit gone. 45 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 2: And I don't know about anybody else, but the full 46 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 2: moon really messed with me week. Oh my god, it 47 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 2: messed me up. Yeah, so I feel like I really 48 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 2: need this is like a good pick me up and 49 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 2: something I can consistently do every day. And then my 50 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 2: second recommendation is I've actually just been engrossed in the 51 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: Akatar series, so I know it's kind of like beating 52 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 2: a dead horse on this podcast. But if you haven't 53 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 2: started reading that, read it. What are you up to? 54 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 2: I'm in the third book? What about you? What's your 55 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:09,519 Speaker 2: recommendation for us? 56 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: I did a big clean out of my closet me too, actually, 57 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: and so it's actually astrologically the new year. It's just 58 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: gone the new year, and we're starting the zodiac signs. 59 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: So Aries is the first not Aries. It is a 60 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: very sorry it was real fire sign. Oh and she's fiery. 61 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: So we're just starting the zodiac calendar. So it's like 62 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: officially the start of the year. And I really felt 63 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: that and so basically I did a big clean out. 64 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: I went through my closet. I like went through all 65 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: my beauty drawers and like got rid of everything, and 66 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: it just felt so so good and like energetically just 67 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: getting rid of stuff that you don't need because like 68 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 1: such a huge reminder. And we kind of go into 69 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: this in this episode, but if you're trying to cool 70 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: things in but you've literally got no like space like 71 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: mentally physically, it's not going to come in. So I 72 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: kind of just I had this like a big thing 73 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,119 Speaker 1: where I wanted to do a purge, and then I 74 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 1: am so excited with this Alignment challenge too because it's 75 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: like I've just got rid of everything. I did a 76 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,799 Speaker 1: lot of journaling too, and now I'm like I'm ready 77 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 1: to get back in alignment because I am feeling a 78 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: little bit out of alignment right now. So it's come 79 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 1: at the perfect time and that's my vibe. So highly recommend, 80 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: like do a physical clean out, do a mental clean out, 81 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 1: start the alignment challenge because it is the perfect time 82 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 1: with like the year officially starting. 83 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 2: And what do you do when you're cleaning out your closet. 84 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 2: What's the question you ask yourself as to if you 85 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 2: keep something or up. 86 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: I just think like am I going to use this 87 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: in the next six months. Do I feel good in it? 88 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: Do I feel comfortable? Can I style it with many things? 89 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 2: Love? Very practical? 90 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, very practical vibes. 91 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 2: I look at my clothes and I'm like, next level tear? 92 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 2: Does she wear this? 93 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: Oh? 94 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 2: And if she doesn't wear it, it's acts out. I 95 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 2: got rid of a lot of things that I wear 96 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 2: often because I was just like, it's just not the vibe. 97 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: So true. That's a good one at tety. Yeah, all right, 98 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: let's get into the episode. So the first point I 99 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 1: want you guys to think about as why your manifestation 100 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 1: isn't working is alignment. This is obviously timely because we're 101 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 1: currently doing alignment in the Rise app. But basically, alignment 102 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:48,239 Speaker 1: is just when things feel flowy and easy. A really 103 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 1: great analogy is alignment feels like when you're on those 104 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: travelators at the airport and yes, you know you still 105 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 1: got to walk to your gate. Been there's this section 106 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 1: where you jump on and you're walking, but you're just 107 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:08,919 Speaker 1: going faster and it's more efficient and you feel like 108 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 1: you're floating. You feel like you're flowing. That's honestly what 109 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: alignment is. It's like you still have to walk to 110 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: get somewhere, but it just feels easier and flowy. And 111 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 1: also for me, like alignment feels this huge like I'm 112 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: not pushing, I'm not putting pressure on things, I'm receiving things. 113 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: Things are just coming to me. It's ease and flow. 114 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: So if you're currently in a patch of your life 115 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: where you're like, yeah, wow, I don't feel like that 116 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 1: things are out of alignment, I highly recommend it's like 117 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: you need to get back into alignment first and then 118 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: continue on your manifesting journey. Yeah, because that's like that's 119 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 1: a huge point of view, not being alignment and your 120 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: manifestation won't come to fruition exactly. And I feel like 121 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: with being out of alignment, or at least when I 122 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: first started getting into manifesting and stuff, I was like, oh, no, 123 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: for sure, like it's going to be so obvious when 124 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: I'm out of alignment. 125 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: But that's not always the case, because it tells more. 126 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 2: It's like almost like a bit sneaky. I feel like, 127 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 2: because out of alignment doesn't necessarily mean everything's gone to 128 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 2: shit or like you're at rock bottom. It just means 129 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 2: it's not working as well as it could, and it's. 130 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: Like and we forget how easy it can actually be exactly. 131 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 2: You go, this is just life. 132 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 1: Maybe not the I I kind of don't like using 133 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: the word easy. Maybe it's slowy, How slowy it could 134 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 1: actually be exactly. 135 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 2: And you don't until you've been in alignment and you're 136 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 2: aware that you're in alignment, because I'd been in alignment 137 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 2: and not known and just gone, oh, lucky streak, like 138 00:07:56,920 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 2: everything's just everything's falling into play. But then as soon 139 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 2: as you're conscious of it, you go, no, this is flowy, 140 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 2: this is alignment. And as soon as you're not feeling that, 141 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 2: even if it's the slightest feeling, you need to shift otherwise, 142 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 2: then you end up going down the slippery slope. 143 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: Reually slippery. 144 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 2: It's really slippery, because I like to look at it 145 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 2: as the universe will first give you little indicators, and 146 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 2: if you don't listen to the little indicators, they get louder, 147 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 2: they get louder until you listen, and you don't really 148 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 2: want to get to the point where it's screaming in 149 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 2: your face. 150 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: And usually if you're out of alignment, it literally just 151 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: takes some small shifts, whether it's maybe you're holding on 152 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: to certain beliefs, certain energy, hanging around certain energy or sorry, 153 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: or like maybe you're repeating certain patterns, and it can honestly, 154 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 1: it's just like it's a shift, it's a realignment, and 155 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: often it's just getting more clarity onto where which path 156 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: you need to be on, which then brings me to 157 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: my second point of if your manifestation is not coming 158 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 1: to fruition, are you clear on where you want to go? So, 159 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 1: like I think, I know it's so simple, but it's like, 160 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 1: you know, like if you don't have clarity, you're going 161 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 1: nowhere fast. And so let's say your desire is to 162 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 1: have more wealth and abundance. How much wealth abundance would 163 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: one hundred dollars do? Would a thousand dollars do one 164 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 1: hundred thousand? Like, have you actually gotten clear? Because wealth 165 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: and abundance can be one hundred dollars, or wealth and 166 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 1: abundance can be a billion dollars. 167 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:49,199 Speaker 2: Or abundance could not even be money. Yeah, so what 168 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 2: kind of abundance do you even want? 169 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:54,679 Speaker 1: Totally? And I think some people are you know, they're like, oh, 170 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: I want to feel like this or I want this, 171 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 1: but they're not actually having clarity on the specifics and 172 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 1: also what it would mean for them. And so that's why, 173 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: like at the start of the project, the first week 174 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: in the project is clarity. That's why in Rise, the 175 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: alignment month that we're currently in, a huge component that 176 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 1: I help you work through is clarity of what you 177 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: actually want. It is the first step, and it's kind 178 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 1: of like you need to declare to the universe what 179 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: you want. It's like, it's this is what it's like 180 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 1: to hear in a relationship, you know how you hear 181 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: stories of a relationship. We're out of the blue. The 182 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: partner just breaks up with the person, yes, and they're 183 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 1: like the other partner is like, I didn't see it coming. 184 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 1: I didn't even know they were unhappy. Yes, but it's 185 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 1: like that person was obviously feeling like that for such 186 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: a long time and they just never voiced their you know, 187 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 1: opinions and how they felt, and so that other person 188 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 1: was never able to change because I literally didn't even know, Yeah, 189 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: the other person was unhappy, and then it just like 190 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: it breaks off and it's you know, a shit show 191 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: or whatever. But it's like, well, you didn't even you 192 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: didn't even voice how you were feeling or what you wanted, 193 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: So how is that other person ever going to make 194 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: the relationship better exactly? 195 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 2: And I think I love that point on clarity because 196 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 2: for me, do it for futureself is one of the 197 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 2: biggest differences that has or like one of the biggest 198 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 2: tools I've used to make sure I always stay in alignment. 199 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 2: It's that constantly auditing, it's constantly reflecting. And I feel 200 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 2: like if you're unsure of what alignment is or you're 201 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 2: new to it, and that's why you're listening to this episode, 202 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 2: it's almost thinking of it as like a reset. Yeah, 203 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:50,079 Speaker 2: Like people like I just take time I reassess my goals. 204 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,319 Speaker 2: Is this actually what I still want? Like that's all 205 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 2: it is. 206 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: Well, also, it's like it can change. And I think 207 00:11:56,559 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: that's why if you feel out of alignment, or like 208 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:05,080 Speaker 1: if your manifestation isn't coming to you, it's almost like 209 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 1: do you need to get clear on what you actually 210 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: want because maybe the manifestation that you created isn't actually 211 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: in alignment with what you want now. 212 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 2: So true because you've grown and you've changed and you've evolved, Yeah, 213 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 2: and then you're working towards something that's like almost over here. 214 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 2: But your end destinations here, and you're just fighting to 215 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 2: go that way because you thought that's what you're still 216 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 2: wanted exactly. I love that. 217 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 1: Okay, So next reason why your manifestation could not be 218 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 1: coming to fruition is do you actually have space? So 219 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: when I was thinking to yours, like when I was 220 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 1: thinking about this episode of reasons why you know your 221 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: manifestation isn't happening, I love, this story popped in my head. 222 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 1: And when I first got into manifesting, I remember hearing 223 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 1: the story, and it was a woman who wanted a 224 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: partner and she had trying. She had been like manifesting 225 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 1: this partner for years and years, and so what she 226 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 1: actually did was she realized she actually didn't have space 227 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: in her life. So she didn't have like she was 228 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: a workaholic, so it's like she worked all the time. 229 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: She didn't have space for date nights, for having dinner 230 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:26,439 Speaker 1: at home with them, so like. 231 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 2: That kind of space. 232 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: But then also she lived in this like one bedroom apartment, 233 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: and so she would put all her junk. She had 234 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:39,319 Speaker 1: a two car park space, but she would put all 235 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 1: her junk on the other side because she didn't use it. 236 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 2: Like a little bit of a storage spot. 237 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And so what she actually did was she 238 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:50,239 Speaker 1: started being really a lot more strict on her boundaries. 239 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 1: She started working there, she started to actually have time 240 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 1: where she would take herself on dates and be like, 241 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 1: this is when I would go out with my partner, 242 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 1: but she would do it with her herself first. And 243 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 1: she cleared out that car park space because she's like, well, 244 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 1: my partner's going to need a car park space. He's 245 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 1: going to eventually live here, no joke. She's like my 246 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 1: dream husband now, my husband of ten years like came 247 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 1: into my life a week later. 248 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 2: I can't and I'm like, I never why do I 249 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 2: get surprised every time? 250 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 1: Surprised? But it's like I never even thought of literal space. 251 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 2: But yeah, physical space. 252 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: It's even like, for example, if you want a more 253 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 1: elevated closet and like close and to feel a certain way, 254 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: but you're holding onto clothes that you know from season 255 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 1: seasons ago that don't serve you anymore, that's like not. 256 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 2: Really the vibe. 257 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: It's even like that's why doing a closet clear out 258 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 1: feels so good. You're creating space, You're creating you know, 259 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: a chance for new things to come in. It's even 260 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 1: like with friends of you know, maybe you don't have 261 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: the most conscious, deep connections, but you still entertain surface 262 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 1: several friendships because it's easy and comfortable. It's like, well, 263 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 1: where where's the space for the new friends to come 264 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: in because you're still hanging out with those old people. 265 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, that one's hard and I think probably where a 266 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 2: lot of people get tripped up because that's where you're 267 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 2: almost going. I'll clean my closet out when I buy 268 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 2: the new clothes, I'll clean the car park out. When 269 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 2: I have the partner and I have the actual physical person, 270 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 2: then that's going to move in. We'll clear the car 271 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 2: park out. Or when I make new, aligned, conscious, beautiful friends, 272 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 2: I'll start spending less time with these people. But it's 273 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 2: that catch twenty two of you have to stop spending 274 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 2: time with those people. You have to clear a closet out, 275 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 2: you have to clear the car park out before that 276 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 2: person can even come to you. 277 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 1: The universe always wants you to jump first, and that's 278 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: why terrifying. It's terrifying. But that's really what makes the 279 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: difference from the people who create their dream lives and 280 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: the people who don't. It's because it's the people who 281 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: take risks. Yeah, like they're like they're ready to go, 282 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 1: They're ready to believe in themselves. They're ready to believe 283 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 1: in what they want. And it makes sense though. It's 284 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: like if you never clean out the car park, you're 285 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: basically telling the universe you're not ready for it. And like, 286 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 1: actually a personal example is when me and Tim were 287 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: on I trying to conceive Journey, I all I wanted 288 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 1: was this baby, but I was a workaholic, Like I 289 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: had not created systems in my business where I could 290 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 1: actually take time off and it's like I used to 291 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 1: work on the weekends. I did not have actual space 292 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 1: in my life for a baby. And so when I 293 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: started actually because I really just thought i'd get pregnants 294 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: right away, like you hear the stories, And when it 295 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: started getting difficult for us and we went through you know, 296 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 1: like looking to IVF and that sort of thing, I'm 297 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 1: having this aha moment and being like, well, I've literally 298 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 1: like I don't have the lifestyle for a baby to 299 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 1: come through. It absolutely makes sense. And so the year 300 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 1: that it took us to conceive was actually the year 301 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 1: that I built a lot of foundational processes in the 302 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 1: businesses where I could step out of the business and 303 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 1: I could take maternity leave even though I didn't take masters, 304 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: so I could take my three months, I could take 305 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:35,640 Speaker 1: my six weeks off. I joke, I joke, but honestly, 306 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 1: yet next baby, mark my words, I need to take 307 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:41,919 Speaker 1: off more time. Absolutely, it's a total not regret, but 308 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:46,400 Speaker 1: it's just different now it's a lesson. It's a great lesson. Yeah, 309 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:51,439 Speaker 1: But anyway, getting back, I needed to create that space 310 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:54,399 Speaker 1: and that's what I mean. And actually, well let's just 311 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:58,679 Speaker 1: segue into the next point, yeah, which is are you 312 00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: not getting your manifest station because there is a lesson 313 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 1: for you to learn. And that's again with my trying 314 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:10,880 Speaker 1: to conceive journey. I needed to learn the lesson of 315 00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 1: creating space, creating boundaries in my business and also patients. 316 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:21,679 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm I'm one of the most inpatient people. 317 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:25,119 Speaker 1: And also I'm very used to life being on my 318 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,879 Speaker 1: own terms because I created my life like that, you know, 319 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 1: like I work for myself. I structured everything, so life 320 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 1: is on my terms and a baby is absolutely not 321 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 1: on your own terms. And I needed, like, I needed 322 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: to learn these lessons of like being okay when things 323 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: didn't go my way being okay with surrender. Oh my god. 324 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 1: There were so many lessons I learned from my trying 325 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:54,360 Speaker 1: to conceive journey, And even the biggest thing I think 326 00:18:54,400 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 1: I learned was I like, Ivy is a newborn, she 327 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:03,640 Speaker 1: had colic, and there was a lot of it was hard. Yeah, 328 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 1: I would just say it was really really hard. And 329 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:08,879 Speaker 1: I think if we got pregnant straight away and I 330 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 1: went straight into that, I would have like broken down. 331 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 1: I would have broke. I would have been broken. Yeah, 332 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:20,400 Speaker 1: But because it was such a journey it was so difficult, 333 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 1: I was able to get through it because those nights 334 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 1: when she like wouldn't stop crying or like wouldn't sleep, 335 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 1: I would say to myself, remember how long you wanted this? 336 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 1: And it was Do you mean like I was able 337 00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 1: to get through those hard moments because of the previous 338 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 1: hard moments. 339 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 340 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 1: Whereas you know, I think things could have been a 341 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: lot different, especially with my mental health, if I had 342 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,639 Speaker 1: gotten that manifestation quick and easy. 343 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:45,439 Speaker 2: Yeah. So. 344 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 1: And but that's the thing is, I don't like using 345 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 1: the word tests because I don't like to think the 346 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:56,680 Speaker 1: universe tests us. But if something isn't happening, I do 347 00:19:56,760 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: love to reflect and think, is there a lesson here, 348 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 1: maybe a lesson that keeps popping up that I'm not learning. 349 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 2: I think with those it's super interesting because when I 350 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:13,679 Speaker 2: think about things I've gone through, sometimes the lesson slash tests, 351 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:16,959 Speaker 2: whatever you do want to call them, helps you reinforce 352 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 2: something within yourself that you then need later on, Like 353 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:23,879 Speaker 2: you'll go through it shapes you. You go through like 354 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 2: a really hard experience and that reinforces to you like, no, 355 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,919 Speaker 2: I am a strong person and I can hold my 356 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 2: own and like the thing that I thought was the 357 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 2: be all and end all actually doesn't mean much. And 358 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 2: then that helps you later on in life. And only 359 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 2: with the beauty of hindsight do you go, oh, that's 360 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 2: why that happened at that time. 361 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: And then like so with this one to Another great 362 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 1: example of this is let's go back to the relationship. 363 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:53,600 Speaker 1: Like if you continually attract. 364 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 2: Fuck boys, we all have that friend, we love you, 365 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:02,640 Speaker 2: we do, but it's like we do, and you deserve. 366 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:07,399 Speaker 1: Better, absolutely deserve matter. But it's like again, if something 367 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 1: reoccurs to you it's not a coincidence, that's a moment 368 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 1: where you get to go, what is the lesson that 369 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,679 Speaker 1: needs to be learned here, So I stop attracting the 370 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 1: same thing. Because if you are attracting the same thing, 371 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 1: trust me, the universe is going well. You're not learning 372 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: the lesson, So I will keep giving you the exact 373 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,680 Speaker 1: same shit show until you learn the lesson. So if 374 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 1: things aren't working out your way and you can kind 375 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 1: of notice all this is a pattern, this has actually 376 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 1: happened before, I guarantee you this is a shaping moment 377 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 1: in the human you are. This is a beautiful moment 378 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: for you, and it's like, what's the lesson? And I 379 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: often think of in the project, I teach you about 380 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:55,120 Speaker 1: a concept called knowing your energetic minimum. So we all 381 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 1: have a minimum of what we will accept, and that 382 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 1: is what we will attract to our life. So if 383 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: we have an energetic minimum of a fuck boy who 384 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 1: treats us like crap, until we break through that, until 385 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 1: we shift, until we realize that we deserve more, we 386 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:18,919 Speaker 1: will keep attracting the same thing. The same goes to money, 387 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 1: to friends, to love, to Korea. So again, if you're 388 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:27,639 Speaker 1: noticing that you're attracting things at this certain vibrational level, 389 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 1: that is not the vibe it's because that is your 390 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 1: set that you'll like think of it like your thermometer 391 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 1: that's set at that temperature. So you need to break 392 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,919 Speaker 1: through it. You need to have a breakthrough moment. And 393 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 1: so this can be a really exciting thing because this 394 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 1: lesson can almost be like not your rock bottom, but 395 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 1: it's like, oh, what can I learn here? And even 396 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 1: if you think of like any celebrity, anyone inspiring, they 397 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 1: always have a lesson. They always have a bottom moment 398 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: something where they figured out and they're like, cool, this happen, 399 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 1: So I'm going to move forward in that way. So 400 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,360 Speaker 1: I like to think of it that way also as 401 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 1: like what's the lesson? What am I going to learn from? 402 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: And how am I going to move forward? 403 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:17,440 Speaker 2: I think another thing with lessons that can be easy 404 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:21,880 Speaker 2: to forget or miss is when it isn't popping up 405 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:25,160 Speaker 2: in the exact same area of your life. Yes, because 406 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,200 Speaker 2: I think with the fuck boy one, it's such a 407 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 2: good example because everybody has that friend that somehow she 408 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,720 Speaker 2: just always ends up in a shitty relationship and it's 409 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:36,760 Speaker 2: like the same thing, and eventually that person can see like, 410 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,880 Speaker 2: oh my god, this is like my fourth time going 411 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 2: through the same issues with my partner. But people can 412 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 2: miss it when sometimes I know, I had a friend 413 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 2: who like, started to feel a bit excluded from like 414 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 2: a specific friendship group she had, and then all of 415 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,479 Speaker 2: a sudden she was starting to feel excluded at work, 416 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,639 Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden she was starting to 417 00:23:56,640 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 2: feel excluded in her family. But she couldn't see that 418 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 2: it was the same pattern pattern. It was the common 419 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 2: and she was a common denominator. 420 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,919 Speaker 1: Am I the pri me? 421 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 2: And it's like a shock every time. But objectively you 422 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:19,240 Speaker 2: can go, oh, I can like, girl, it's the same lessons, 423 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 2: the same problem, my love, But when you're in it, 424 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 2: it's so hard to see totally. 425 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 1: And that's like in moments when life isn't going my way, 426 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 1: I literally say to myself, like Tim would have heard 427 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: me say this so many times, what is the lesson? 428 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: I'm squinting. 429 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 2: I'm like, h. 430 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,359 Speaker 1: We've all been there, what is the lesson? Because I 431 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 1: promise you you figure it out, you learn it, you 432 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 1: embody it, You're on to the next level. 433 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 434 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:49,920 Speaker 1: Literally, you get the manifestation. It can be nice exactly, 435 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 1: and the universe is laughing at you. No. 436 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 2: No, The next week it comes Okay, so what's the 437 00:24:58,400 --> 00:24:59,160 Speaker 2: next reason. 438 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 1: Well, this kind of goes hand in hand, but almost 439 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:09,879 Speaker 1: asking yourself and being really honest with yourself of is 440 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 1: this really the best time for this manifestation to come through? 441 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,639 Speaker 1: And you kind of touched on this satia where you said, 442 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 1: we have those moments where in hindsight, we're like, thank 443 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:26,399 Speaker 1: god I didn't get that job because then this happened later. Yeah, 444 00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 1: or thank god that happened because it shaped me into 445 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:31,920 Speaker 1: who I am now, and I love who I am now. 446 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:37,399 Speaker 1: And so when things aren't happening, you like a really 447 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: good question to ask is like is this really the 448 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 1: best time? And this really encompasses the last step of manifesting, 449 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 1: which is surrender, because if we are pushing and pushing 450 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:56,200 Speaker 1: and pushing for something and it's not happening, you're kind 451 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 1: of well, first of all, that's not manifesting because you're 452 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 1: not surrendering, and that is the last component. But it's 453 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 1: like realizing that again, it's like it should feel you 454 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 1: still have to work, you still have to put in action, 455 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 1: but it should feel flowy. Yeah, it should feel you know, 456 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,679 Speaker 1: have that ease and flow when you're in alignment. So 457 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 1: when things aren't you have to start questioning it and 458 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 1: be like, is it really the right time? Am I 459 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:28,879 Speaker 1: really surrendering? Have I missed something? Because again, I like 460 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 1: to think of the universe in like a child parent scenario. 461 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:36,960 Speaker 1: And I've said this example before of you know, with Ivy, 462 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 1: it's right before bed and she goes to, first of all, 463 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 1: I shouldn't have a lolly cupboard, but she goes to 464 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 1: the lolly cuppet and she's like, it's got a child 465 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 1: lock on it, and she's like streaming, And I'm like, 466 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 1: sweet girl, you're about to go to sleep. If I 467 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 1: give you this lolly. Look, it's even sugar free. But 468 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,880 Speaker 1: if I give this to you, you're not gonna have 469 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,040 Speaker 1: a great sleep. You're not gonna feel free tomorrow. And 470 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 1: tomorrow we're gonna go see the animals. Yeah, And so 471 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,880 Speaker 1: let's not have the lollies. You won't feel sick, you 472 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 1: won't have a disturbed sleep. Let's have you know, your 473 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,639 Speaker 1: milk or whatever instead. And but she can't see that, 474 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,119 Speaker 1: and she's just fucking like gone crazy. Yeah, and she's like, 475 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:22,440 Speaker 1: what the hell? But she needs to trust that as 476 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 1: the parent, I have the foresight to see in the 477 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,439 Speaker 1: future and know what's best for her, but she doesn't 478 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 1: understand what's happening tomorrow. So she's just like pissed at me. Yes, 479 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,679 Speaker 1: she's pissed. So anyway she goes, she goes to bed upset. 480 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 2: But if we can. 481 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:43,399 Speaker 1: Think of that with ourselves, of like, oh, can I 482 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,639 Speaker 1: actually just trust that this is not happening for a reason, 483 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 1: maybe it's not the right time. And where can I surrender? 484 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 1: Where can I let it be easier? Yeah, and that's 485 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 1: even again this is a little bit left field. But 486 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 1: when me and Tim are fighting or having an argument, 487 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 1: I literally say the words, I'm like, can I see 488 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 1: this differently? And it's a prayer to the universe to 489 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:16,000 Speaker 1: open my mind, because when you're angry, when you're upset, 490 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 1: your first of all, your nervous system shuts down, your 491 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: brain shuts down, the blood doesn't flow to your brain correctly. 492 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,679 Speaker 1: You don't always see the big picture. And so I 493 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 1: literally sit there and go, can I see this differently? 494 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 1: And it opens me up? And I swear like a 495 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,879 Speaker 1: feeling will come in where I'm like, he was just 496 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,640 Speaker 1: trying his best blah blah blah, and I can see 497 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: it a bit differently. Yeah, And again it's it's support, 498 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 1: it's surrendering, it's being like no, because in this moment, 499 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,640 Speaker 1: it's not the truth that I hate my husband and 500 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 1: he's an idiot. That's not the truth. That's not my belief. 501 00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,000 Speaker 1: My belief is that he loves me and I love him, 502 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 1: and we are always thinking what's best for each other. 503 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 1: So what am I missing? 504 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 2: So that's a. 505 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 1: Very that's a microway to use manifestation. I use it 506 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 1: literally in every aspect of my life. But if you're 507 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 1: wanting something, if you're calling something in bigger it's like, 508 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 1: are you missing something? Are you missing the bigger picture? 509 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: Where can you surrender and trust that just because in 510 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 1: this moment it feels like it should be here and 511 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 1: this exactly what you want and blah blah blah, Can 512 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 1: you surrender? Can you let go? 513 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 2: I love that and I love looking at it in 514 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 2: a timing sense because I remember speaking to Fee about 515 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 2: it and she's actually our guest in the membership this month. 516 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 1: God she's amazing, plug, Thank you. 517 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 2: But it was about this timing thing and about how 518 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,239 Speaker 2: often people will say, I want to do this by 519 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 2: the time I'm thirty, I want to do this by 520 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 2: the time I'm forty five, this by this age, this 521 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 2: by that age, and it's actually not good to do that. 522 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 2: And the example she gave me was she's been wanting 523 00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 2: to write a book for years, and she said to me, 524 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 2: She's like, if I wrote this book when I was 525 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 2: twenty four years old, it would not be the book 526 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 2: it is today. It would not be a bestseller. I 527 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,920 Speaker 2: would probably not be as proud of the stuff I've 528 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 2: put into it as I am now that I've gotten 529 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 2: the opportunity to write this book later. So sometimes you 530 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 2: have to let go of timelines and expectations in that sense, 531 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 2: because you in this moment might not be the best 532 00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 2: person to execute on the vision that you have, but 533 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 2: you in three years or six months or ten years 534 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 2: is and it's going to be better than you could 535 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 2: have imagined. And it's like, would you rather do the 536 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,880 Speaker 2: thing at the age you want, or would you rather 537 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 2: do the thing and have the results be amazing and 538 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,719 Speaker 2: fulfilling and better than you could have imagined? Yes? I 539 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 2: love that. 540 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 1: And again it's like it's having that trust, yeah, that 541 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,040 Speaker 1: the universe knows what's up. 542 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that if it doesn't even come at all, 543 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 2: it wasn't meant for you. 544 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 1: What really comes to mind when you say that is 545 00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:00,520 Speaker 1: like be going to get my astrology reading and telling 546 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 1: me like my prime, my absolute prime of my life 547 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 1: is when I'm forty. And so she's like, calm the 548 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 1: fuck down, because she's like, baby, it's a marathon. Yeah, 549 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 1: you've got so much more time, like you need you 550 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 1: need to like you won't you'll burn out and you 551 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,520 Speaker 1: won't achieve what you need to achieve when you're forty. 552 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: So and that's the prime. So just like, calm down. 553 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 1: And I remember thinking that's so far away, and I 554 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 1: was like I don't think I can do this. 555 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:29,560 Speaker 2: You're like, what else could happen? 556 00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 1: What else could? And again, it was such a nice 557 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:33,720 Speaker 1: moment for me to be like. 558 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 2: Just relax. 559 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 1: I don't have to achieve everything now I actually get 560 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 1: to achieve it later on. And that was It's almost 561 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 1: like the pressure gets taken off. 562 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I feel like that gets put on us 563 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 2: by society though bloody society. Yeah, I'm so over it 564 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 2: because I think we well. For me, like the thirty 565 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 2: comes to mind because there's like obviously Forbes thirty under thirty, 566 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 2: but there's all these things where this person's the youngest 567 00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 2: person to ever do this. This person's the fastest person 568 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 2: to ever do this. But sometimes it's not about that, 569 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 2: because the youngest people aren't to do something aren't always 570 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 2: the ones that make the biggest impact. 571 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 1: I want to be the oldest person to do saying yes, 572 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 1: I love that goal. 573 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 2: It's a goal. Yeah, I would have win an Olympic 574 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,280 Speaker 2: medal when I'm eighty. 575 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:23,200 Speaker 1: Vibes. Yeah, anyway, we really get. 576 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 2: Off, yeah, little tad. 577 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 1: Okay, So the last thing to check on, and I'm 578 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,479 Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I left the biggest thing to the last, 579 00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 1: and this is probably the thing. But I guarantee you, 580 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 1: if you've gone through that checklist of the previous four 581 00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 1: or five points that I've said, you need to check 582 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 1: in with your beliefs and your subconscious, which is hard 583 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 1: because you don't know what your subconscious is because it's subconscious. 584 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 1: But if your manifestation isn't coming to fruition, I guarantee 585 00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:02,800 Speaker 1: you it's because you have a belief, a subconscious, a 586 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:09,880 Speaker 1: subconscious pattern underneath that is literally stopping you and limiting 587 00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 1: you from that thing coming to you. It's just like 588 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 1: the example I given the Rise app is if you 589 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: want wealth and abundance. And but you have a belief 590 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 1: that people with a lot of money are greedy, you 591 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: will never attract wealth and abundance. Even if you're going 592 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 1: out there and you're taking all the action steps subconsciously, 593 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 1: you will sabotage yourself or not see the clear abundance 594 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:47,440 Speaker 1: because your subconscious will keep you safe. And the safety 595 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:51,800 Speaker 1: because of your belief that wealthy people are greedy is 596 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 1: to not have wealth. So it will do everything in 597 00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 1: its power to keep you safe to not have that. 598 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 1: And like, ninety I think it's saying ridiculous, Like ninety 599 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 1: nine percent of our actions is subconscious. We don't even 600 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 1: actually know that we're using subconscious and it's because we're 601 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 1: such conditioned, comfortable humans where it's just like you don't 602 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,360 Speaker 1: think about brushing. 603 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 2: Your teeth, do you, No, you just brush them. 604 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:21,879 Speaker 1: You just do it. You've done it for so long. 605 00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 1: It's it's anything we do. But any action we take 606 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 1: it's smart because you know, if we have previously touched 607 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 1: the stove and got burnt and got a severe burn, 608 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 1: we're not going to do that again because our previous 609 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:42,640 Speaker 1: you know, consciousness is like don't fucking burn your hand. Yeah, 610 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,320 Speaker 1: so again we're making all our decisions from our past self, 611 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:50,320 Speaker 1: from our past belief But the thing is we don't 612 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 1: know what those subconscious patterns are, and usually their beliefs 613 00:34:55,080 --> 00:35:01,840 Speaker 1: of our parents, of religion, of friends, family teachers that 614 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 1: served us at one point but are not serving us now. 615 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 1: So the biggest thing to check in, I truly believe, 616 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 1: if things aren't manifesting, is what actual beliefs do you 617 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 1: have around this manifestation? Do you have beliefs that will 618 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:23,240 Speaker 1: serve you or do you have limiting beliefs? And obviously 619 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 1: limiting beliefs is a whole thing. We have a whole 620 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,800 Speaker 1: month of it in the Rise app So highly recommend 621 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,520 Speaker 1: you getting in there because that will be life changing 622 00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 1: if you'd never done limiting belief work. But what you'll 623 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:40,040 Speaker 1: start to realize is, well, of course I can't call 624 00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:43,600 Speaker 1: in that manifestation because I literally have you know, ten 625 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:48,000 Speaker 1: limiting beliefs around that thing coming into my life. It's 626 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:53,800 Speaker 1: like if you never got evidence, or it's like maybe 627 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,880 Speaker 1: you had a parent, a single parent who always said 628 00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:01,319 Speaker 1: things like having a healthy relationships really hard, or maybe 629 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:05,319 Speaker 1: they constantly had toxic relationships, or maybe they were just 630 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 1: really negative about the opposite sex, and then you really 631 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:13,480 Speaker 1: struggled to attract a partner or a healthy relationship. It 632 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 1: makes sense because you were conditioned to believe that it's 633 00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:21,080 Speaker 1: not possible, even if logically you're like, of course that's possible. 634 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:24,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think something I really got out of our 635 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:29,120 Speaker 2: limiting beliefs month that I didn't quite grasp before it 636 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 2: was how sneaky limiting beliefs can sometimes be so sneaky, 637 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,719 Speaker 2: like the two you just gave then, of you're not 638 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,759 Speaker 2: going to be able to attract abundance if you think 639 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 2: people with money are greedy. I always got that. I'm like, 640 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,440 Speaker 2: that makes sense. But you're also not going to be 641 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 2: able to tract wealth and abundance if you think that 642 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 2: you have to own a business to be able to 643 00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:52,520 Speaker 2: make millions of dollars, if you think that you need 644 00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 2: to own properties to make millions of dollars, like that 645 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,520 Speaker 2: is a block. That is a limiting belief. Any condition 646 00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 2: on any manifestation is almost a limiting belief sometimes unless 647 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:07,759 Speaker 2: it's an innate desire. And then also with the relationship, 648 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,000 Speaker 2: one is you might not have had a single parent 649 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,680 Speaker 2: that said it's hard to find a partner, but you 650 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:16,239 Speaker 2: could have had your parents tell you, oh, but you'll 651 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 2: have to compromise, yes, like relationships actually be happy or yeah, 652 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 2: like you'll be happy, but like nothing's ever going to 653 00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:28,759 Speaker 2: be perfect. There will be compromise, and little things like that, 654 00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,720 Speaker 2: those little niggling ones I find are so much harder 655 00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:35,719 Speaker 2: to undo because they're like really deep back there, and 656 00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:39,040 Speaker 2: it almost takes another person to reflect it to you 657 00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,799 Speaker 2: of like, no, that's actually like you don't have to 658 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 2: always compromise, or you don't you don't have to have 659 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 2: a business, or you don't have to have properties to 660 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 2: make money. 661 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I love that, and it is it's like 662 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,120 Speaker 1: it's and so how you kind of figure out your 663 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:57,480 Speaker 1: limiting beliefs Again, obviously this is deep work, and if 664 00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,839 Speaker 1: you are filling a pull to it, definitely check out 665 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,440 Speaker 1: the whole month's worth of like trainings and PEP talks 666 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:07,440 Speaker 1: and workbooks in the Rise app. But like, just start 667 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 1: to journal on, Okay, your manifestation. Why can't you have 668 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:16,799 Speaker 1: it right now? So what's the reasoning. Is it a 669 00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:20,320 Speaker 1: time thing, is it an age thing, is it a relationship? 670 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,880 Speaker 1: Is it a you need to take something about yourself first? 671 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:27,440 Speaker 1: Really thinking about those things and just start like it's honestly, 672 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:32,920 Speaker 1: it's like a game of yeah, like brainstorming, like figuring 673 00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:37,200 Speaker 1: out what could be the reason in my head because 674 00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,560 Speaker 1: everyone has different beliefs and that's why we call them 675 00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:45,520 Speaker 1: limiting beliefs because they're not truth. Like someone could have 676 00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:49,520 Speaker 1: the belief that in order to be a good mum 677 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 1: you need to not work and be fully present and 678 00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:57,000 Speaker 1: be there for your child at every hour of the day, 679 00:38:57,120 --> 00:39:00,640 Speaker 1: and that's what makes you a good mum. Where's my 680 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 1: belief because I'm a working mum, And obviously this is 681 00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,799 Speaker 1: a new belief that I had to instare and like 682 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:08,759 Speaker 1: a new core belief because I did grow up with 683 00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:13,160 Speaker 1: a stay at home mum. Is it doesn't matter how 684 00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 1: many hours I spend with Ivy. It matters who I 685 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:20,320 Speaker 1: am and how present I am when I'm with Ivy. 686 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,600 Speaker 1: That for me determines if I'm a good mum. And 687 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:28,040 Speaker 1: so it's like it's all those little little things of 688 00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:32,040 Speaker 1: what's the reason why I think I can't Because for me, 689 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 1: going back to that limiting belief, it's like I really 690 00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 1: struggled there for a little bit of like when I 691 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:41,360 Speaker 1: was getting back to work, because when I wasn't with Ivy, 692 00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,680 Speaker 1: I would feel guilty. And then when I was with Ivy, 693 00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 1: I would be thinking about work, and so I had 694 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,799 Speaker 1: in my head of like, well, I can't do this. 695 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:54,320 Speaker 1: I can't figure out this being a working mum because 696 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 1: I can't be a good mum if I do both. 697 00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,399 Speaker 1: And then I had to be like wait, who said 698 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:04,480 Speaker 1: that again? Because I was like, wow, no, that's the 699 00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 1: thought of mine. That's a belief, and so I had 700 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,880 Speaker 1: to go into it and be like, hmmm, it's because 701 00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 1: of you know, this moment when my mom said this, 702 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:17,000 Speaker 1: or it's because society has has said this about women, 703 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:20,040 Speaker 1: or you know, And it's like going through those beliefs 704 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 1: and being like, hang on second, is that actually mine? 705 00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 1: Or not even is it mine? But it's like do 706 00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,560 Speaker 1: I want to believe that? Because that's the thing is 707 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 1: like I now like have the new belief of what 708 00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,759 Speaker 1: I just said about being a mum, and you can 709 00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:40,080 Speaker 1: have a different belief and that's perfect. But ask yourself, 710 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 1: is this serving me? Is this making me happy? Is 711 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 1: this like letting me live my ultimate authentic life that 712 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 1: I want to lead? Or is it giving me pain? 713 00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 1: Is it giving me resentment? Is it giving me anger? 714 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:55,520 Speaker 1: Is it giving me guilt? 715 00:40:55,880 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 2: I love that. Yeah, hopefully your problems to solve. Guys. 716 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,960 Speaker 1: All right, guys, so let's just recap, because we fucking 717 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,960 Speaker 1: spoke about a lot that we did. Let's just recap. 718 00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:15,560 Speaker 1: So if your manifestation is not coming to fruition, check 719 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 1: in with alignment first. Then you're going to see if 720 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:24,040 Speaker 1: you're actually clear. So number two is get clear. The 721 00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:29,560 Speaker 1: next one is do you actually have space? Then number 722 00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 1: four is is there a lesson I need to learn first? 723 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:39,160 Speaker 1: And then number five is is this really the best time? 724 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:44,359 Speaker 1: That is making sure you're actually surrendering, And then the 725 00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:47,919 Speaker 1: last one is checking in with your beliefs and you're 726 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:53,240 Speaker 1: subconscious and just checking in whether you have some things 727 00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:57,879 Speaker 1: blocking you. Amazing, amazing. Well, guys, thank you so much 728 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,279 Speaker 1: for listening. If you want to go deeper on what 729 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:04,560 Speaker 1: we spoke about, the Rise app is where you do it, 730 00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 1: and we will leave all links in the show notes. 731 00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:09,760 Speaker 1: But thank you so much for listening. 732 00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:13,800 Speaker 2: Bye bye. 733 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:18,279 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to another episode of 734 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,520 Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer Podcast. If you enjoyed it and 735 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:25,880 Speaker 1: want more, come connect with us on Instagram at Riseinconquer 736 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:30,080 Speaker 1: dot podcast and join our Facebook discussion group, a Rise 737 00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 1: and Concer podcast community. We're an independent podcast and we 738 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,000 Speaker 1: have a small team, so we do appreciate your time 739 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,840 Speaker 1: and support. If you have a spare moment, a follow 740 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,920 Speaker 1: or subscribe on whatever platform you listen to would be 741 00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 1: so amazing, And look, if you're feeling extra kind, a 742 00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,880 Speaker 1: review on Apple Podcasts would be great.