WEBVTT - LIFE UNCUT RADIO SHOW - 29th Jan 0:00:19.480 --> 0:00:22.600 Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:23.040 on Cut. 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:25.919 I'm Laura and I'm Brittany. And before Laura says it, 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:28.320 I'm going to say it. This is a very special 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:31.960 episode of Life on Cut because it is our I 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:35.120 guess it's like our bonus radio show episode. This is 0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:37.559 from our Saturday morning on Kissfam. If you guys don't know, 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:39.959 I hope you do because you're literally here listening to it. 0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:44.280 We are on every Saturday around Australia from ten till twelve. 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:45.839 Well, we just want it every week. We've got to 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:47.760 package up our radio show that we do. If you 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:49.440 don't get a chance to listen to it live, which 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:51.120 you know, we would love that, but if you don't 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:53.080 have the time to go sit in your car or 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:55.000 fire it up on the laptop, we are popping it 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:57.639 into our podcast libraries every single week. And we had 0:00:57.680 --> 0:01:00.520 such a fun show this week. Not only did we 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:03.160 unpack a few interesting things, but one thing we talked 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:06.640 about we're wild middle names, and if you've been listening 0:01:06.680 --> 0:01:08.760 to the podcast for a while, you might know that 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:12.119 britt has a very interesting middle name. And we got 0:01:12.120 --> 0:01:13.960 a few of you guys to call in and give 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:17.560 us what your crazy, ridiculous, wild middle name is the 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:19.440 Other thing that we talked about on the show was 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:22.119 I tried to do something nice for my sister. Well, 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:25.520 like I tried, Well, I didn't really turn out that way, 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:26.720 So we're going to get into that in a little 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:27.160 while or too. 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:29.680 Definitely did not end well. And I am going to 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:31.120 be on to you if you ever tried to anything 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:31.560 nice to me. 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:33.600 The next time I bring you a chroissant, you're gonna 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:35.880 be like, what is this. I'm going to be very skeptical. 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:39.600 The Life on Cut radio show with and Laura Burns. 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:44.000 Actually they're only your first names, ladies, But I believe 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:45.280 we're talking about middle names. 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:47.760 We are talking about middle names. Well, we're talking about 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:48.720 weird names in general. 0:01:48.840 --> 0:01:49.120 I think. 0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:50.920 I don't know if you guys heard, but there is 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:54.280 a mother in the UK who's recently made the news 0:01:54.320 --> 0:01:57.200 because she named her baby, who's now seven months old, 0:01:57.600 --> 0:02:02.280 Lucifer Lucifer, and she's been trolled online by people because 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:05.760 not knowing that Lucifer is actually also the name of 0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:06.040 the death. 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:09.800 But the thing with this is she was then told 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:14.720 by multiple people, including her family, close friends, what Lucifer was, 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:18.880 and her reaction was, well, I'm not religious, so to me, 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:19.840 it doesn't mean the devil. 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:20.519 It's just a name. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.880 She couldn't differentiate that the rest of the world thinks 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:24.519 that she has. 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:26.880 Named her son the devil. But do you think that 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:29.160 what other people's opinions are of the name that you're 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:32.919 going to name your child should determine the name. I mean, Britt, 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:34.160 you have an interesting middle name. 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:40.680 I mean, if you're calling a kid the devil, yes, outside, outside. 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:41.520 Of depending on how that child behaves as a toddler, 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:43.600 it could be a very, very fitting name. I'm sure 0:02:43.639 --> 0:02:45.919 there's times where she'll feel that that's exactly the name 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:48.880 for that child, maybe like some of your kids. 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:52.240 No, Mitch, now, Laura knows, I do have a pretty 0:02:52.320 --> 0:02:53.240 unusual middle name. 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:54.520 I don't know either of your middle names, so this 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:55.080 is exciting. 0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:57.160 Okay, so I'm going to give you three guesses from 0:02:57.160 --> 0:02:58.920 my middle name, but I'm going. 0:02:58.720 --> 0:03:01.680 To the whole world name turn into a game show. 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:03.120 Let's give you some parameters. 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:04.760 I'm going to give you a hint to start with, 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:06.400 and if you get it wrong, we're going to give 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:07.040 you another hint. 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:09.200 Okay, sure, do you want some game show music. I 0:03:09.200 --> 0:03:12.400 can get some bringing some alright, let's know, I want 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:16.440 to buzz. Okay, what else do you want? Give me? 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:19.079 If you get this right, I'm going to buy your lunch. 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:21.560 I'm going to buy you a salad stick, a k kebab, 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:22.520 your favorite. 0:03:22.480 --> 0:03:23.480 Bought in lunch. So good. 0:03:23.560 --> 0:03:26.040 Try what do I give? 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:28.079 My name is? 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:31.640 My middle name is named after It's a condiment that 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:33.520 you would find in your supermarket. 0:03:33.960 --> 0:03:35.120 Brittany Mustard hockey. 0:03:35.360 --> 0:03:36.280 Oh, that's pretty close. 0:03:38.680 --> 0:03:40.840 If that was my first guess, it's closed. 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:42.920 Okay. It starts with the same. 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:48.560 Letter, starts with the same letter M. Britney. What's like them? 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:50.600 The best? One of your favorite condiments? 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:52.360 Brittany marmite hockey. This is. 0:03:55.160 --> 0:03:55.440 All right. 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:58.640 I have another clue. It's creamy and delicious. You can 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:01.280 get low fat, high fat full you would put it. 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:08.280 On I want to say Madarin, but as your middle name, 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:09.320 that's so stupid. 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:12.720 Last you last him my middle name, so it starts 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:15.280 with an M. It is something that if you were 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:18.320 going to have, like a true Aussie chicken roll, like 0:04:18.360 --> 0:04:20.560 a chicken salad roll, what condiment would you put on 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:22.560 that chicken roll? Like a barbecue chuck? 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:23.720 The fear in his eyes. 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:30.280 Come on, yes, sorry, can we just al say this 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:32.279 out loud? Brittany mayonnaise? 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:37.599 It's Mayo Mayo for sure? The version slang chicken roll, 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:39.760 it's Brittany Mayo. Yeah so. 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:42.680 And the best part about this middle name is it's 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:44.760 one child in every generation has to have it. So 0:04:44.760 --> 0:04:47.159 one of my poor future children has to have Mayo. 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:49.640 Also, why was it you like? I feel like Mayo 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:51.280 could have been better for a boy? Why do they 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:53.920 go Britney is the lucky one? Mitchell mayow Nut. You're 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:54.880 not even the first born. 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:55.880 It was just in the middle. 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:56.599 They just picked you. 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:00.320 We want to know about yours, though, th see one 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:02.080 of six five give us a call. That's what we're after. 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:03.360 Weird middle names? Is that right? 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:05.280 Weird middle names? What's the name that you want to 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:06.720 keep a deep, dark, dirty secret. 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:08.920 We have Beck on the air this morning. Oh Beck, 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:09.840 what's your weird middle name? 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:13.640 It's actually my daughter's weird middle name, and we called 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:14.200 her Danger? 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:21.960 What Danger? Why if you know the chase? Okay, but 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:23.960 my question is if you're going to call a radio 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:26.720 station and say that your kid's name is weird, why 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:28.040 did you name them a weird name. 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:31.720 Well, I guess we kind of thought, who doesn't legitimately 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:35.440 want to say that their middle name is danger? And 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:37.280 we kind of thought no one really likes their middle 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:39.839 name anyway, so we may feel picked something that's a 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:42.440 little bit fun. And I don't know if you guys 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:45.360 subscribe to the whole you're drunken oldter ego is your 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:45.880 middle name? 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:49.000 So that your girl's going to be dangerous? 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:50.640 Well, I just feel like you're setting them up for 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:53.240 sort of like an approach with caution kind of thing 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:54.680 for when they're a bit older, because I feel like 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:57.240 you really start to embody your name, Like for me, 0:05:58.000 --> 0:06:01.000 I put Mayo and everything. Now my name wasn't Mayor 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:01.760 would I have done that? 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:02.280 I don't know. 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:05.040 But now she what if like she embodies danger or. 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:06.400 What if this comes to back to buy you in 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:08.520 the arse and she's actually just dangerous for you guys, 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:11.040 as in like he turns out to be a problem child. 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:14.599 Well, it is funny. She's ten now, and she's a 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:17.040 really responsible, kind of serious kind of. 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:20.520 Almost when he loves to ray the way. 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:23.280 Yeah, okay for you to shut down everything we just. 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:23.880 Said she did. 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:26.240 Let's go to Jessic, you're on thirteen one or six five. Hollo, 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:28.120 jess you're on with the girls. What's your weird middle name? 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:34.279 It's actually high friends of mine or a guy that 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:37.520 I used to take. He got to change his own 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:39.760 middle name when he was about three years old. He 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:42.479 actually never had one, and his little brother came along 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:44.640 and they gave his little brother a middle name. He 0:06:44.760 --> 0:06:46.960 was like, why don't I get one? So like, okay, 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.080 what do you want? And so he was obsessed with 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:52.360 foxes at the time, so he chose a middle name Fox. 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:56.760 At three years old, they gave him more autonomy to 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:58.559 choose his own name. 0:06:58.760 --> 0:07:01.200 I feel like three year olds can't be trusted for anything. 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:02.720 Like if I asked my three year old what she 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:05.400 wants for dinner, she'll say lollipop. Let alone, what I'm 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:06.960 going to name her, She'll say blippy. 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:08.560 I don't think I've let my three year old name 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:12.720 my dog, But you know what Fox does about it? Yeah, 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:14.680 I actually like Fox, so I think we'll let that 0:07:14.680 --> 0:07:15.360 one slide. 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:17.160 Yeah. I like Fox too. I think it was a 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:17.600 good choice. 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:19.400 Yeah, there we are one positive one. Let's get Katie. 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:21.400 I'm thirty one oh six five morning Katie, what's your 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:22.080 weird middle name? 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:25.800 Hey, yeah, my mum decided to put her whole name 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:28.920 in as my middle name, so it's not so much 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:30.760 about it like her full name. 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:33.320 How many names are we talking about? We're saying first name, 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:35.600 middle name, and last name, Like how much of the name. 0:07:36.000 --> 0:07:37.880 No, so it's her first name and last name. But 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:40.880 pretty much the reason was because when she was pregnant 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:43.560 with me, she wasn't entirely sure that she was going 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:45.720 to keep the guy around, but she was sure she 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:47.280 was going to have me. So she just wanted to 0:07:47.320 --> 0:07:50.320 make sure that I would always remember that she birthed me, 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:52.160 you know, So she. 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:53.920 Gave you twenty six names so that you would never 0:07:53.960 --> 0:07:55.800 forget that. So she got her maiden name in it. 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:58.000 What is your full name? She might not want to 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:02.960 say that on the rest, it's. 0:08:02.840 --> 0:08:05.560 Not even that funny. But I didn't understand when I 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:07.440 was a kid that you weren't really meant to add 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:09.160 in your own names. But because I had so many, 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:11.400 I would just pop in her one bit of a Lilian, 0:08:11.480 --> 0:08:13.920 bit of a Ramsey. It's a bit of a trouble 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:16.120 for my landlords to figure out which my name, But 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:17.400 I It's all good. 0:08:17.440 --> 0:08:17.600 You know. 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:19.480 I kind of like that you have some alter egos. 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:21.280 But I also like that you've danced around telling us 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:21.640 what your. 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:23.080 Actually that's very clever. 0:08:24.640 --> 0:08:31.600 Well, I don't even know if you're Ramsey or mystery. 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:33.000 Thank you, Katie. 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:37.719 Janie is a mystery, She's an enigma. She is wasn't 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:39.360 even a real name. Do you want to know what? 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:42.280 Off the back of this, I thought, what names. 0:08:42.000 --> 0:08:44.080 Are actually banned in Australia, because you know we do 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:46.480 have Every country has names in a band. You cannot 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:49.080 call your kids anyway? You would not believe something. I'm 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:53.680 going to run through a few and Zach Australia Baron, Bishop, cadet, captain, chief. 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:55.760 Has one name. 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:58.800 All of these names maybe okay, nothing military. You can't 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:01.240 name your child after the military. So nothing military. 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:04.920 And then God, honor, Justice, judge, nothing nothing to know 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:08.080 to do? Yes, yes, these are the two that really 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:15.680 got me. You cannot call your child Ikia. 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:16.599 Do you because I Kia has trademarked the name, or 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:20.160 because somebody's actually named their child Akia and the Australian 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:23.920 government went back to inherent. But you also can't call 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:28.480 it ntella or iMac it's actually ridiculous. Like it is 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:29.360 actually ridiculous. 0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:30.880 So if you're out there thinking that you want to 0:09:30.960 --> 0:09:33.600 call your child iMac or monkey, think again. 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:36.520 You absolutely cannot. If only Mayo had been trademarked as well, 0:09:37.040 --> 0:09:38.040 I'm trademarking now. 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:38.800 I agree. 0:09:39.160 --> 0:09:42.320 Call you two your Saturday morning for the last time 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:46.120 radiation Red Hockley and Laura ben Wor. 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:48.800 You're a bit upset something's happened with your family. 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:50.400 Well, I'm not really upset. I need a bit of 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:52.280 a I want to know your opinion on whether I 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:54.480 should admit something to my sister. 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:57.840 So yes, there's always no if you need to ask 0:09:57.920 --> 0:09:59.040 someone if you should admit something. 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:00.480 I feel like you just bury. I feel like the 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:02.400 other problem is that were on the national radio show, 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:05.400 so she might find out after this. Okay, every week 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:07.840 I do my grocery shopping online these days. I find 0:10:07.840 --> 0:10:10.200 it very convenient, and I do two different shops. I 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:12.120 do my wool work shop and then I also do 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:14.199 my shop through a health food store, right, and they 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:16.520 send us for all the snacks for the kids, like 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:18.679 I get roll ups that aren't really roll ups, but 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:19.679 like healthy snacks. 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:21.559 I did not know this about you I feel like 0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:23.160 there are two kinds of people in the world, one 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:26.120 that does one grocery shop and one that does multiple grocerieshop. 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:28.880 I love to surprise you. But anyway, so the story is, 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:32.560 my health food box arrived, and sometimes they like to 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:34.680 give you a sample or they give you like extra 0:10:34.760 --> 0:10:36.440 things in there that you didn't actually order us. 0:10:36.679 --> 0:10:36.880 Right. 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:39.520 So I received the box and I received these little 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:42.560 biscuit donuts and like a packet of them, and I 0:10:42.559 --> 0:10:44.080 was like, Oh, that's cute. I'll take them into work 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:46.199 with me. So I went into work and I took them. 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.280 I work with my sister. I took these little biscuit 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:51.080 donuts in and I gave one to her and I 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:52.840 wasn't eating at the time. I was eating something else. 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:55.760 She was like, these are great, take them, take them home, 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:58.160 give them to my g What do I. 0:10:58.080 --> 0:11:00.480 Feel like, Yeah, I feel like I know where it's 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:02.400 going as well. Okay, Well, I got. 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:05.000 Home, guys, and realized with a little insert that had 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:07.160 been put into the box, I had all the details 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:12.559 about what I'd been sent. I gave her dog, which 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:17.040 she ate at the office and then gave to my nephew. Okay, 0:11:17.080 --> 0:11:19.440 hang on, Okay, I. I haven't told me yet. It 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:20.240 happened just the other day. 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:20.640 She knows. 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:21.320 Now I'm telling you. 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:22.120 She justged. 0:11:22.160 --> 0:11:24.840 She knows a few questions. How was there not? 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:26.400 Like what was the packaging? Because I feel like most 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:27.960 of these things have like a really happy dog on 0:11:28.000 --> 0:11:28.360 the front. 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:30.320 No they don't. Well, this is like you know what, 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:32.640 it's like really cool like and that's the problem with this. 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:37.120 Everything's cool and it's like earthy paper and it just 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:40.840 has like minimal details. Honestly, didn't see anything on the 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:43.200 packaging that made you think And they were donuts with 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:44.640 I seeing little biscuits. 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:46.880 So you're saying there was not one picture of a dog, 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:48.960 not one word of a dog? Or are you like 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:51.080 tell the truth? He Laura, did you just not look 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:54.480 at the title? Did you were like, oh, shimmery, sparkly donuts. 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:57.600 To be fair, the packaging obviously didn't look dog like 0:11:57.640 --> 0:11:59.160 because she took it and she ate it and I 0:11:59.200 --> 0:12:01.520 opened it in front of her. But the insert that 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:04.240 was the details which was also attached to the bag, 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:05.719 so I had to pull that off before I gave 0:12:05.720 --> 0:12:06.040 it to her. 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:08.440 If that was me, I would be calling to tell 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:10.840 her because I would think it was hysterical. Also in 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:12.679 your defense, if it was like if you fed her 0:12:12.720 --> 0:12:14.559 pal or chump, I wouldn't big. 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:16.400 I would not be going to tell her that it 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:18.240 was a curry, Like how would she eat that? 0:12:18.720 --> 0:12:19.400 That's what I mean. 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:22.280 Like you'd be like, hey, these are like startings on toast. No, 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:24.120 but the fact that it was like an organic it's 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:26.240 probably got full of really good food that you'd feature, kid. 0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:27.440 Yeah, yeah, it's healthy. 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:28.040 It's healthy. 0:12:28.120 --> 0:12:30.080 Yeah, coconut oils, carab I mean. 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:32.080 It's from the health food story. 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:34.840 Tell her no, tell her when she next time she's 0:12:34.880 --> 0:12:36.240 pissed you off, be like, well, you know what I 0:12:36.280 --> 0:12:36.599 fetch you. 0:12:37.080 --> 0:12:39.560 You've had dog treats and your hair looks great. It's 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:48.280 glossy every week. We do this, right, ladies, what's an ask? 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:49.600 Gun Cut? 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:52.560 Where you guys were right into us your deepest, darkest, 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:56.679 sometimes dirtiest questions to our Instagram life on Cut podcast 0:12:56.840 --> 0:13:00.040 and we do our best to answer them. Now, we 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:02.880 we're not therapists, but we are enthusiastic in our responses, 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:04.200 and we have lived. 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:06.600 A lot of life. So what do we have today, Mitch. 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:09.480 Ladies, Sarah, Hey, he send us a voice message today 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:10.760 it's just it's a question. 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:12.760 Hey, girls, So I have a question, and I'm not 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:15.160 sure if I'm being a nosy neighbor or a good friend. 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:17.679 My husband and I moved into our house about a 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:21.480 year ago, and we became friends with our neighbors to 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:24.680 the point that we share drinks together from time to time, 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:28.040 we have him and his partner over, and what we've 0:13:28.120 --> 0:13:30.760 learned he's actually a fly and fly out worker, which 0:13:30.800 --> 0:13:33.080 means he's away for a couple of days at a time. 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:36.160 And what I've noticed is every time he goes away, 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:38.680 there's a particular car that shows up in the driveway 0:13:38.679 --> 0:13:42.920 at nighttime. So I guess my question is do you 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:46.439 think the neighbor is cheating? And if that's the case, 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:49.160 should I say something to him. 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:53.319 Or let it be or advice would be great? Thank you, 0:13:53.760 --> 0:13:58.600 Spicy Saucy. I mean, I understand why you're a nosy neighbor, 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:02.440 but also I'm very strongly feel like sometimes we just 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:04.880 don't need to invite the drama into our lives. Like 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:07.360 if that was me, I would be staying out of it. Oh, 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:11.320 for sure, cheating, How do you know there could be 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:13.280 other reasons? It could be a cleaner that only comes 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:14.000 when he's not around. 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:16.520 It only comes at nighttime, when he's away and not 0:14:17.000 --> 0:14:17.319 not there. 0:14:17.440 --> 0:14:20.640 You're six foot tall and ripped. Look, obviously you can't say. 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:22.520 Obviously you can't say one hundred percent that they're cheating. 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:26.320 But usually where there's smoke, there's fire. Do I think 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:27.280 you need to say something? 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:27.560 No? 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:29.280 I do not think this is your business. 0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:31.320 What you could do is like set up a little 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:33.880 camp at night, stay up one night, yes. 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:36.720 Stay out and figure out. Figure it out. 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:39.200 Yeah, Detective Sarah, I just has a ring to it. 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:41.320 And I think that way at least you'll know within yourself, 0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:43.920 or you might worry yourself sick thinking about it. But 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:46.200 I do I think that you need to go and 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:50.200 break this knowledge. Unless these people are so close and 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:52.200 like really really good friends of yours, I think just 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:54.360 mind your own business and just use it as some viewing. 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:57.040 Okay, but what if Detective Sarah does do a stakeout 0:14:57.120 --> 0:15:00.480 and she does discover that actually it's pretty ninety nine 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:02.800 point nine percent sure that the cheating is going on, 0:15:02.880 --> 0:15:06.320 the cheating is happening. Should she then tell or do 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:09.080 you think find out, get all the information, gather it, 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:12.840 and then sit on it and then tell what's the 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:14.920 point of doing a stakeout if you're not going to 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:16.200 then help your neighbor out. 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:19.360 From history, from experience, I think that you should only 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:21.760 be interfering if these are very very close people to you, 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:24.200 because it is gonna have some big repercussions. 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:25.960 Maybe send a letter and just drop it in a 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:28.960 letter box a friendly name. Yeah, but don't say it's 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:31.600 from you, don't sign it, yeah, I just put I 0:15:31.640 --> 0:15:33.880 genuinely feel like sometimes with this sort of stuff in life, 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:35.240 as much as you want to do the right thing 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:37.160 and help the person who you know you think is 0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:39.880 being cheated on, inviting that drama into your life can 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:42.920 be so full on. So but aside on that. 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:46.120 On the flip side, Laura, if this was you and 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:49.120 every time your partner went away, and every time you 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:51.520 went away, sorry your partner, I mean, you have a 0:15:51.560 --> 0:15:53.800 partner Matt was cheating on you, would you want to 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:55.760 know whether that came from me, a good friend, or 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:57.640 whether that came from a neighbor. 0:15:57.360 --> 0:15:58.240 That just saw it happening. 0:15:58.360 --> 0:16:01.120 Regardless if you're I was cheating on you, would you 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:01.440 want to know? 0:16:01.520 --> 0:16:03.760 I would want hundred percent, I want to know this 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:06.160 is the codrum. This is the conundrum that would I 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:08.560 like my neighbor for telling me, I probably would still 0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:11.160 be I don't think I would intentionally shoot the messenger, 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:13.200 but it's just what happens when you're hurt and you're angry, 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:14.360 and you so you'd. 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:15.800 Put a bag of poop on their door and set offline. 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:21.880 I feel like that's what you'd do. This is the 0:16:21.920 --> 0:16:25.080 life on count radio show and Laura. 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:28.040 Ben We may have shared a little bit from last week, 0:16:28.080 --> 0:16:31.560