WEBVTT - Captain Jimmy reporting for Bachelor duty 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:03.040 What have you eaten in the last forty eight hours 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:09.520 that has made you fart non stop around the house? Edit, 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:13.640 It's just it's constant. I can hear it from across 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:15.120 the apartment. I'm in the bedroom in. 0:00:15.080 --> 0:00:16.919 The living room, to be it's a smaller apartment. 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:17.880 This is what it sounds like. 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:27.840 It's like a whales making a mating call. 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:28.920 Pretty willing, is that you? 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:31.400 And it's just Laura relaxing on the couch with wine 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:37.000 in hand, of poor children, lollers in your arms, going 0:00:37.200 --> 0:00:38.880 please someone rescue me. 0:00:41.280 --> 0:01:05.000 Hi guys, Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:09.399 of Live Uncut. I'm Laura, and I'm really sad that 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:10.559 it's not Brittany you to. 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:14.280 Those part is made bus that come over making sure 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:15.040 everything's okay. 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:16.760 It's fine, buddy, it's fine, okay. 0:01:16.880 --> 0:01:19.240 I'm really sorry that that's how we started this episode. 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:21.880 I'm really sorry if we're in lockdown. We've been spending 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:24.119 a lot of time together, too much time. 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:27.679 It's good to be back, is it, Yeah? It is. 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:29.120 It's always nice to get the call up. 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:32.559 Well, we have a very very special episode for you today, 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:34.759 and that is because we are getting to know our 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:39.240 brand spanking new pilot, Captain Jimmy. We have Jimmy Nicholson 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:40.840 on the episode and we're going to get to know 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:44.399 a little bit more about Australia's brand new bachelor. 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:46.600 I always get a little bit jealous when the new 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:48.160 bachelor comes around. 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:50.600 Why is it because you're like, you see the new 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:53.240 girls and you're like, oh, maybe those girls are hotter 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:53.840 than my girls. 0:01:53.880 --> 0:01:58.400 No one's hotter than you. Well, as you pull out 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:00.600 a clump of hair from your head. 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:02.600 I have postpartum hair loss. 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:04.360 You are stunning, my darling. 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:07.040 Thank you. Our love for each other has gotten deeper 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:08.640 over the years, very deep. 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:09.040 There you go. 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:11.720 But I'm very excited for the new Bachelor. It's just 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:14.480 it's interesting that, you know, all eyes are on this 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:20.359 new guy and I'm this old, haggard, dad, boded ex bachelor. 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:23.040 He's like, you remember me. I used to be pretty and. 0:02:23.000 --> 0:02:24.960 Handsome making TikTok videos. 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:26.280 That's all I've got now. 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:28.840 It is a very big thanks to Starbucks at home, 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:31.760 who are bringing you this content. And we were supposed 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:34.160 to be sitting down with Jimmy and having a heart 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:37.000 to heart over a cup of coffee. However, because of COVID. 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:39.079 We've had to do this in a very safer COVID 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:41.160 safe way. So this is a zoom interview now, and 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:43.119 Matt and I are just sitting here having a Starbucks 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:45.320 fine Espresso capsule coffee. Now, Matt, do you want to 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:46.720 just tell everyone before we. 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:50.960 Sorry continue, I want you. 0:02:50.880 --> 0:02:53.480 To tell everyone before we start. How do you have 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:55.680 your coffee in the morning these days? 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:58.160 I don't think it's that disgusting. You don't like it. 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:00.360 Sometimes we get our coffees mixed up and you have 0:03:00.360 --> 0:03:02.040 a sip of mine and it looks like you've just 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:04.400 had a sip of petrol. But my coffee is a 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:07.160 flat white large with three shots. 0:03:07.600 --> 0:03:09.240 It's not that I feel like it's a super petrol. 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:11.120 I feel like my balls just got blown off, Like 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:15.200 I literally feel like I am jacked. 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:17.320 On pre workout. I love it. 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:19.480 And then he spends half an hour in the toilet afterwards. 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:20.679 So if you're going to come in with the fart 0:03:20.720 --> 0:03:23.200 jokes about me, that's what you do with your mornings. 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:25.800 I really enjoyed talking to Jimmy. And obviously they're not 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:28.120 going to pick a crap bloke to be the bachelor. 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:29.880 They're always going to pick someone who's you know, he's 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.960 very intelligent, very well spoken, but he is delightful, he 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:33.480 really is. 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:35.320 And we did actually put a call out to you 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:37.440 guys to get all your questions, things that you wanted 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.280 to know about Jimmy before we sat down with him. Now, 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:43.200 there were some very questionable questions that came in. One 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:45.680 of our listeners wrote in asking us to ask Jimmy 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:48.800 for her bra back. We didn't ask him that. I 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:50.440 didn't want to put the guy on the spot, but 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:52.760 we did ask him all the things about his past, 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:57.240 about his past relationships, about his upbringing, why he wanted. 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:59.400 To do the show, whether person he's after. 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:03.200 He's in love now and he is very very much 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:05.440 in love. His face is the face of man who's 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:07.960 very happy. So we're really excited to share this little 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:10.600 bonus episode with you. And next week is when The 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:13.640 Bachelor starts, So it starts on Wednesday, the twenty first. 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:15.720 That is going to be the first episode where we 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:17.960 can get a real taste of who Jimmy Nicholson is. 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:19.320 On Channel ten as well. 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:20.880 Laura Byrn, thank you for that. 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:23.080 Those playing at home question for you. You don't have 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:24.520 to answer this, but I'm going to put you. 0:04:24.520 --> 0:04:25.120 On the spot. 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:29.480 Will we do more podcast episodes on The Bachelor doing 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:30.360 little recaps? 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:32.360 Do you think we will? Or will we just give 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:33.920 it a bit of a wide berth? What do you think? 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:35.760 Okay, so we put this out there to you guys 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:39.360 as well. We are considering doing a Bachelor recap episode 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:43.760 each week now. We haven't completely decided yet whether or 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:46.200 not that's going to happen, but it's in the works potentially. 0:04:46.360 --> 0:04:49.960 We if only you lived with somebody who could also 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:51.680 podcast co host with you. 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:54.039 I mean, I wonder who it could be. 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:56.679 Maybe you know what they say, never work with children, 0:04:56.720 --> 0:05:00.280 animals or Maddie Jay. Anyway, guys, let's get into the 0:05:00.360 --> 0:05:05.800 chat with Jimmy today. We have here, the man, the myth, 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:09.080 the legend, the one and only. We have Jimmy Nicholson, 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:12.920 who is our brand spanking new pilot, Jimmy joining us 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:15.880 on this season of the Bachelor. Jimmy, Welcome to life 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:16.400 on Cut. 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:19.120 Laura, Maddie, lovely to meet you both, and thanks for 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:19.640 having me here. 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:21.360 It's very interesting that this is the way that we're 0:05:21.360 --> 0:05:22.840 meeting over a zoom call. 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:25.280 This interview could go any which way. 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:27.200 Jimmy, Oh yeah, I'm ready for it. Should I bring 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:28.200 my new partner in as well? 0:05:28.760 --> 0:05:28.920 Oh? 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:30.760 You know, we want to meet number. 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:31.440 One out. 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:33.200 Jimmy. 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:37.280 Laura did say, she said, just remember this is my podcast, 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:40.520 not yours, So I'm on my best behavior today. 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:43.040 So we know who wears the pants in this relationship, 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:44.760 then right, you could establish that. 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:48.080 Well, we're sitting here on zoom, so I means debatable 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:49.800 whether either of us are wearing pants right now. But 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:52.799 the way that we always kick off every single episode 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:55.880 that we do is we start with an accidentally unfiltered story, 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:59.240 which is basically just you sharing with us your most 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:01.839 embarrassing story, and we're here for it. 0:06:02.080 --> 0:06:04.960 Okay, I'm still trying to defend myself on this one. 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:08.000 To this day, I think I was about fourteen, maybe 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:09.719 it probably would have been fifteen. I was getting ready 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:12.240 to go to like my first party. The theme was 0:06:12.279 --> 0:06:15.960 pimps and hose, so I wasn't sure what to wear. 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:18.880 And back in the day, so we're at that house 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:21.960 we're living in, so Dad does all the washing and 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:24.320 like cleaning in the house. It's a very modern household 0:06:24.360 --> 0:06:27.320 my family set up anyway. So Dad's outside and I 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:29.560 didn't realize. He was outside hanging up the washing on 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:32.599 the line, and I was inside and searched on the computer. 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:35.719 Pimps and hose those days, like the pop up thing 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:39.480 was big. Anyway, as I searched, I pressed, like you know, 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:43.279 search on Google, and this website popped up, you know 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:45.719 back in the day where you click on one link and 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:47.960 then suddenly like the pop up. It just my whole 0:06:47.960 --> 0:06:52.440 computer screen was filled with the most like heavy pawn 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:54.480 to see as a fourteen year old. 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:56.600 And anyway, and some pretty like some acts that. 0:06:56.640 --> 0:07:00.320 I didn't even think existed at that at that age. 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:04.520 And as that all popped up, Dad came in from outside. 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:06.360 It was dark. He came in and walked in and 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:08.080 he's like oh, And I was like oh oh. And 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:09.520 he's like, well, what is that? 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:12.520 And like our families, like mum's a psychologist, we're a 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:15.280 really cruisy family. You guys will see you'll meet my 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:17.760 parents on the show that they're really really relaxed. But 0:07:18.080 --> 0:07:21.600 it was so awkward because Dad obviously saw he thought I. 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:23.200 Was having some special Jimmy time. 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:29.239 Yeah, and like under normal circumstances, if it was normal porn, 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:32.720 he could probably be like Okay, that's like, that's acceptable. 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:35.240 He's young exploring his you know, all that kind of stuff. 0:07:35.360 --> 0:07:38.800 But this is really full on stuff. So I spent 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:40.880 years and years defending myself and I still think I'm 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:44.320 defending myself to this day that I actually wasn't searching 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:44.840 that stuff. 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:48.440 So Jimmy, look, we're not gonna shame you if your fetishes. 0:07:48.520 --> 0:07:51.240 But also this is a very elaborate story that you 0:07:51.280 --> 0:07:52.800 have come up with to try and cover up the 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:54.560 fact that you were googling porn when you were fourteen. 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:57.040 Like, well, look, I mean, I'll be honest, I probably was, 0:07:57.120 --> 0:07:58.000 but not this stuff. 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:00.760 What did you end not to the party? 0:08:01.200 --> 0:08:02.400 He went as a hope, Oh. 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:04.520 I can't remember. I'm too traumatized. I probably didn't go 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:06.760 too traumatized from that little incident with dad. 0:08:06.920 --> 0:08:10.720 Jeez, hey, Jimmy, quick question when it comes to coffee, 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:13.200 how do you take yours hot cap? 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:17.160 Which I have been told is incredibly feminine, but I'm 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:17.760 going to roll with it. 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:19.720 Which do you know what, considering that you're a Bondai boy, 0:08:19.760 --> 0:08:22.840 I'm actually really impressed by how normal your coffee order is. 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:25.760 Was expecting some like sort of chiric larte or something. 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:27.600 I saw a late with half an equal, yeah, and 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:30.240 it was I do a pink keep cut. You know. 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:32.599 Caring for the environments very important. But I want to 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:34.760 go back. So this whole purpose of this episode was 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:36.960 because we wanted to give our listeners an insight into 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:39.120 who you are, all the reasons why you wanted to 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:40.960 do the show in the first place. But let's wind 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:44.280 it right back to your childhood. How like your upbringing. 0:08:44.480 --> 0:08:46.560 Tell us a little bit about who Jimmy was before 0:08:46.600 --> 0:08:47.400 Jimmy was a pilot. 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:48.760 All right, I'm watching lots of port. 0:08:49.760 --> 0:08:50.959 Is this after the porn addictional? 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:54.880 Before after a traumatizing event when I was fourteen with 0:08:54.920 --> 0:08:57.080 my dad. From then onwards, look grew up on all 0:08:57.080 --> 0:09:00.559 the beaches, typical kind of beaches like style, a lot 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:02.319 of time at the beach, spent a whole bunch of 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:04.480 time on pit water, cruising around on my tinny with 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:04.960 my mates. 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:07.280 So that pretty normal childhood. 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:09.200 Because I was just like little tanned looking kid, but 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:10.360 kind of like I used to I think I was 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:11.000 a bit teased. 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:12.520 Like I changed schools early. 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:14.080 On, so I went from Avalon to Mona of our 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:16.880 school because my sister, the Golden Child got into the 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:18.599 classes there, which is like the it was called the 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:21.440 OC class anyway, so I had to move schools. I 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:24.120 spent my first like the early days at Mona of 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:26.520 our public school, hanging out with my sister and Reese's 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:29.839 and lunch because I didn't have any friends. So that 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:31.520 was a bit of a rough little but then I 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:33.960 established myself. I got there, it was all right, probably 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:35.680 a bit of a different Jimmy that you see now, 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:38.920 and then through high school was right into my exercise 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:40.400 all that kind of stuff. 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:41.800 I always knew I wanted to fly. 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:44.480 That's in the family, so dad flies, My uncle was 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:48.200 a pilot, cousin's a pilot, grandfather was a pilot. So yeah, 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:50.880 it was kind of, you know, it was the obvious progression. 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:53.040 But I finished school and I didn't want to goal 0:09:53.120 --> 0:09:55.680 into aviation because you know, you could lose your medical 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:57.839 or something and then you screwed. So I went and 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:00.640 got a degree, finished that and then started flying. And 0:10:00.920 --> 0:10:02.960 I've worked for a regional airline for a little bit 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:05.720 and then got a gig flying the jets with Jetstar. 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:07.560 So rest is history. 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:09.679 I think the good thing about growing up with an 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:12.120 older sister is the fact that it gives you a 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:14.400 real advantage when it comes to talking to girls and 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:16.080 understanding the opposite sex. 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:18.280 Yes, I would agree with that. 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:20.680 I was definitely brought up by my sister and my 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:22.240 mum and they're both psychologists. 0:10:22.280 --> 0:10:25.280 So yeah, yeah, you two, so you're in trouble. 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:27.600 Nothing's off limits. So it's been good. 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:30.040 It's nice to have that open relationship with my mum 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:32.600 and my sister were I can talk about like sexual things, 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:34.040 anything and justsch it's all good. 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:36.200 Well, I know that Matt is asking these questions and 0:10:36.240 --> 0:10:38.679 it comes from like his own personal relationship with his 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:41.199 sister and his mum. He's really really close with them. 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:43.400 And I think when we went through our experience with 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:45.760 the Bachelor, the one person who he leaned on so 0:10:45.840 --> 0:10:49.040 heavily was his sister for her support and her guidance. 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:50.960 And I mean every time we have an argument now 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:53.960 he still goes through his success. She's that point of 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:56.800 compact for him. But Jimmy, we did when we put 0:10:56.800 --> 0:10:58.960 out a call out telling our audience that you were 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:01.400 coming on the podcast, we did ask our listeners if 0:11:01.400 --> 0:11:04.040 they had any questions for you. Now, it would seem 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:06.000 that maybe you were a bit of a Bachelor before 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:06.760 you were the Bachelor. 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:07.280 Oh, here we go. 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:11.160 So we had a couple of people slates, but no 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:13.439 the one I wanted to bring up, and that's because 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:16.760 she's not here to defend herself. Brittany Hockley heard you 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:19.319 guys matched on Tinder. They have had a couple of chats. 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:20.240 What happened there? 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:21.800 I actually think it was hinge. 0:11:22.160 --> 0:11:23.679 I haven't watched a whole lot of Bachelor, but I 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:26.760 did watch your season and then Honey Badger's season. I 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:28.520 got around as well because I thought it was really 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:30.400 funny and I tried to watch a few days. Anyway, 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:32.080 I remember seeing Brittany on there and I was like, 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:33.480 she's absolutely stunning. 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:34.560 Why didn't you pick her? Or? 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:37.440 You know, years later, I was in a relationship and 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:39.640 then came out of a long term relationship. I've been 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:41.920 single for a few years, and then you know, got 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:44.120 on the apps as a lot of people did last year, 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:48.240 and I think I matched with Brittany and I was like, oh, 0:11:48.280 --> 0:11:51.120 she's the chick from the Bachelor. Anyway, we were going 0:11:51.200 --> 0:11:52.760 to go on a date at a coffee day and I 0:11:52.800 --> 0:11:56.040 think she flaked me. From memory, I'm pretty sure she 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:58.679 flaked me, I know outrage. 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:02.200 Brit was pretty good at picking really crappy guys to date. 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:04.040 This is going back last year. She's very happy in 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:06.520 a relationship now, but any like normal, decent guy that 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:08.400 came along she could find a good excuse not to 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:10.560 go on that date. So maybe that, like that's like 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:12.400 a tick in your corner or tick in your box. 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:15.160 Well, obviously my dating app game wasn't too strong because 0:12:15.160 --> 0:12:18.240 I was still single up until well recently. Maybe I 0:12:18.240 --> 0:12:20.600 came across as boring. So I'll wait for an apology 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:21.720 from Britt for flaking on me. 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:24.200 She'll slide into your DMS. Can you tell us have 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:27.400 you had a horrendous or terrible dating story that you 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:27.880 can share. 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:28.600 I've had one. 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:31.160 It didn't eventuate to a date, but there was one 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:33.559 particular girl who I can't remember how I met. I 0:12:33.600 --> 0:12:35.760 think it might have just been on Instagram. But I 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:38.360 suggested that we go on a date, and I was like, cool, 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:40.400 so and going into it first date, you know you're 0:12:40.400 --> 0:12:42.240 going to pay as a guy, and I've got no 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:44.360 problem with that. But I think, like I wanted to 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:47.760 suggest where we go, so I love Italian food, so 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:50.080 I was like, let's go to like a little cozy 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:52.760 Italian place, you know, I have a drink, have some dinner. 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:58.360 And she wrote back and said, oh, what about this 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:01.720 place and suggest to it and googled it literally the 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:04.360 most expensive restaurant in Sydney. And then I was like, oh, 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:07.480 and I don't really like fine dying anyway, but also 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:09.360 this place was like hugely expensive. 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:11.440 I think I would have been paying like six hundred bucks. God, 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:12.600 and so I. 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:15.760 Was like, oh, I just thought maybe Italian that first date, 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:17.400 you know, like let's keep it kind of low key. 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:19.600 And then she's like, what about this place and then 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:22.840 suggested the second most expensive restaurant in Sydney, and I 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:25.120 was just like, So I went to my I had 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:27.440 a female roommate then, and I was like, Alisa, what's 0:13:27.440 --> 0:13:29.640 the go here? Like am I having a shaka here? 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:31.400 Like should I be? Should I be going? And she 0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:33.800 was like no way, like she's just taking you for 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:36.200 a ride. When I said suggested that the Italian place 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:38.360 might be more appropriate, she said, well, don't you like 0:13:38.400 --> 0:13:41.240 good food? And I was like I do like good food, 0:13:41.240 --> 0:13:43.360 but you know, so in the end I just said 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:45.199 to her, Hey, look, I think we might just give 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:47.560 this miss sure, guys used to you might be used 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:49.560 to guys like taking to these places and stuff, but 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:50.720 you know, I just want to. 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:51.440 Get to know someone. 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:53.640 And even with my long term X, like we would 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:55.679 go to those places on like special occasions, so I'm 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:58.000 not going to take some random So anyway, it didn't 0:13:58.000 --> 0:13:59.880 eventuate in a date, and that's the rest of it. 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:01.400 I called it off. Well. 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:05.920 I thought being a captain, every first date would just be, hey, 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:09.520 what do you want to come into my plane? That 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:12.320 would be the suggestion that I would throw out every 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:13.040 single time. 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:15.160 You can't bring out all the big guns in the 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:15.640 first day. 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:18.640 See, I reckon. You probably had a photo of yourself 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:21.080 on your Tinder profile of you as a pilot, and 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:23.240 she was like, this guy's a baller. He's going to 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:26.720 take me to a rest. But also I Matt and 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:28.920 I were having this conversation earlier, so you kind of 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:31.800 get lulled as the girl on the Bachelor, you get 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:35.360 lulled into this false sense of lag fancy fancy dates. 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:40.080 So yeah, like all of the stuff. Now fast forward 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:41.840 four and a half years later, We've got two kids, 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:43.840 a massive dog, we live in a two bedroom apartment. 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.480 She got very, very real, but you get to still 0:14:46.480 --> 0:14:48.440 take your girls on dates like the dates that you 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:49.320 would do on The Bachelor. 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:50.440 True, I get. 0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:52.120 That, Yeah, I mean, look, I'd love to take my 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:55.480 girl flying when we're both announced and the finales over. 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:56.120 That'd be awesome. 0:14:56.160 --> 0:14:58.120 But also, like I think some of the most low 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:01.760 key days dates are isis Like, I mean, I'm curious 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:04.640 you guys going through the process together. What was the 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:07.400 first date that you went on after the whole theories? 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:11.160 I think thinking back, it was as simple as going 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:13.760 to your sister's place for lunch. 0:15:13.960 --> 0:15:16.600 Yeah, yeah, I mean things are still pretty weird when 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:19.120 the show first finishes and then you can be out 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:21.200 in the world together. You almost don't want to be 0:15:21.240 --> 0:15:23.080 out in the world together because there's so many paps 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:25.720 and there's just so like you feel like everyone's watching you. 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:28.440 So for us, we kind of just spent so much 0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:31.120 time by ourselves, like in our own home, doing nothing 0:15:31.200 --> 0:15:32.840 like it was like and that for us was what 0:15:32.880 --> 0:15:33.760 we wanted. 0:15:33.440 --> 0:15:36.680 Because I think, yeah, do you remember, I mean, like 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:40.360 the peak of interest with paparazzi is just after the 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:43.120 show finishes. Now they won't even look twice at us. 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:45.280 But I remember driving to your sisters. 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:47.000 I could literally walk out of the house naked and 0:15:47.040 --> 0:15:48.360 no one would give a bus and they'd be like, 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:49.280 that's a crazy person. 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:51.480 Again crazy. 0:15:51.880 --> 0:15:54.960 But when it came to that date, we had like 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:58.040 six cars. It was like a modicade of cars following us. 0:15:58.040 --> 0:15:58.800 It was crazy. 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:01.440 So it's just, you know, doing anything low key is 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:03.880 what's most exciting and appealing after the show. 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:06.520 Okay, that's interesting, Yeah, because it's to be tough. You 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:07.440 go through You're doing all. 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:10.120 These amazing dates where you like, no date is off 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:12.440 the cards. You're doing all these incredible things, and then 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.360 all of a sudden like finishes and it say like, 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:14.880 oh what do you want to do? 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:15.880 Oh should we go to the park? 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:18.080 Or I think it's actually a really nice adjustment, like 0:16:18.280 --> 0:16:20.360 you know you do, especially if that's not a world 0:16:20.360 --> 0:16:22.480 that you're used to, Like for me, being in that 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:25.359 batch situation and like you know, going on the helicopters 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:29.280 and having these really lavish experiences, that's not normal for me, 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:31.520