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Speaker 1: Welcome to Fearlessly Failing hot Seat. In this EPP, I

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Speaker 1: fire rapid questions at one of our fearlessly failing guests.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm not so good

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Speaker 1: at the rapid part. I get too intrigued by the

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Speaker 1: Failing Hot Seat hot Seat time. Full name, my friend.

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Speaker 2: Palatina Elizabeth Nagara hap beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Do you know? Matt says that is your full name

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Speaker 1: when you call yeah. Their favorite meal.

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Speaker 2: My favorite food in the whole world is figs. Oh,

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Speaker 2: and you got some of the farmer's market, the other

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Speaker 2: ones market. And I was in heaven a good one

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Speaker 2: when I saw your stray away and just sat in

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Speaker 2: my car.

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Speaker 1: Well, when I saw that story, I said to Matt.

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Speaker 2: We should have bought figs, mate.

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Speaker 1: Because we bought the raspberries and they were no good. No, no,

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Speaker 1: no no, because they hadn't have enough sunshine. Not good.

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Speaker 2: Not this season.

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Speaker 1: Should have got figs.

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Speaker 2: Then yum chart, then Japanese.

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Speaker 1: Oh good choices, Oh good job. You've obviously been to

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Speaker 1: Doma in Byron Bain fed Do you like that?

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Speaker 2: Love that place?

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Speaker 1: Anybody listening? Dome omer in Federal You don't get phone reception,

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Speaker 1: but the Japanese food is insane.

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Speaker 2: Miley Cyrus six things about it? Does she? I think?

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Speaker 2: I think dom is in one of her songs. Yeah. Really,

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Speaker 2: she loved it so much. She has been promoting domer.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait a long time.

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Speaker 1: But okay, what's the bravest thing you've done?

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Speaker 2: The ravest thing I've ever done is leaving a relationship

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Speaker 2: that was less than love with an eleven month old

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Speaker 2: and a one and a half year old ah and

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Speaker 2: going to I don't know where, but just somewhere safe.

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Speaker 1: The courage that would have taken.

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Speaker 2: I think I had everything that materially anyone could have want.

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Speaker 2: Be a beautiful home, we had. I had all of

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Speaker 2: the designer bags that anyone could want. I left them all. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and I went good on you with my two children.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, good on you, mate. How good that you can

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Speaker 1: connect to yourself and know this is time for me

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Speaker 1: to geo.

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Speaker 2: I'm really proud of that because I think that a

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Speaker 2: lot of my friends, a lot of my people around me,

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Speaker 2: said no, you just stay. You've got life so good,

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Speaker 2: but in my heart it was life is love, and

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Speaker 2: when there's no love and you're not being loved at all,

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Speaker 2: you're less than love, less than love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think it would have eventually cost you

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Speaker 1: well energetically.

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Speaker 2: And you know, my children would have grown up completely different,

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Speaker 2: you know, with the same wounding. My daughter, with the

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Speaker 2: same wounding as me and my son, you know, a

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Speaker 2: toxic individual. And I just I love them so much.

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Speaker 2: They're my reason for being here. And you know, when

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Speaker 2: you put your children first, the rest will follow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, I love that. Do you have a favorite movie?

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Speaker 2: Avatar?

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Speaker 1: The original?

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Speaker 2: I love the Original Avatar?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the Original is great.

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Speaker 2: I think the meaning behind the movie. I'm a huge,

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Speaker 2: huge spiritual person and it's a very spiritual story.

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Speaker 1: Did you like the new one, The Way the Water Won.

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Speaker 2: I just saw it the other night actually, and it

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Speaker 2: was very long.

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Speaker 1: It's quite long.

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Speaker 2: I got really pissed off in it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Matt did too. But I did like the whale

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Speaker 1: characters like whale and the messaging around whale lot booning and.

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Speaker 2: Stuff, but also the messaging of a deeper issue in

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Speaker 2: the world that's happening, of trafficking and that was really

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Speaker 2: evident to me with the harvesting of a certain fluid.

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Speaker 1: Yes, oh mate, so I was.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was very I didn't love it as much

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I got teary in it too. What about do

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Speaker 1: you have a favorite city?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I love It's not a city, but it's a place.

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Speaker 2: I love Uluwatu. It is one of my favorite places

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Speaker 2: in the world. So is that are we saying Hawaii

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Speaker 2: in Bali? In Bali in Bali, Lawatu in Bali. I mean,

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Speaker 2: how often you get very magic at least once a year.

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Speaker 2: But my dream is to, you know, have a little

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Speaker 1: Of course.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's matt. You've got the surf, you've got the

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Speaker 2: fresh you've got still got little warongs, You've got you

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Speaker 2: know what's war Warong is a restaurant, but it's like

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Speaker 2: local food. So you've got the little ibu cooking, you know,

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Speaker 2: the old man's out the front. You've got gasoline bottles

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Speaker 2: coming back to Lauatu.

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Speaker 1: Oh mate, you sat your cell on it. Put it

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Speaker 1: way you're selling it to me. Do you have a fear?

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Speaker 2: I think my biggest fear is not living my full potential.

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Speaker 2: I still have the I still have the ability to

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Speaker 2: sabotage any We all do opportunities that come, and I

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Speaker 2: feel that when I have something really great in my lap,

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Speaker 2: I try my best not to do it. It's the

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Speaker 2: weirdest thing, but I'm really working on that.

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Speaker 1: It's we all. I think a lot of people will

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Speaker 1: relate to that because it's more comfortable to sit in

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Speaker 1: the safe and security and it is so it's like

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Speaker 1: jumping out of a plane, Like it's so scary to

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Speaker 1: what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? And I think that also. You know, my agent

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Speaker 2: will tell you that, like I cannot respond to emails,

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Speaker 2: I can, you know, submit jobs late on time. And

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Speaker 2: it's all about sabotage. It's like a fear of becoming

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Speaker 2: great and a fear of shining bright.

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Speaker 1: So I've heard actors can do this because I'm a

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Speaker 2: Yes, You're you're actually really influential to me because you're

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Speaker 2: such a doer and you're such a go getter and

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Speaker 2: you're such a powerhouse that you just like you're like

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Speaker 2: have you answered that email yet? Have you sent? Have

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Speaker 2: you seen that? It's like, have you done this yet?

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Speaker 1: I just think I don't want regret. That's what I

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Speaker 1: always think. Well, I think that's what we froze, the

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Speaker 1: a mama bear. Do you know what I mean? I

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Speaker 1: don't want that. And then I also don't want the

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Speaker 1: regret of going I had this dream and I didn't

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Speaker 1: I didn't stand in it, and I didn't honor it.

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Speaker 1: That's a feeling I don't want to have as well.

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Speaker 1: All right, nearly there my friend favorite nature.

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Speaker 2: Spot, oh, my favorite nature spot, I mean is everywhere

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Speaker 2: here on Bugelan Country.

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Speaker 1: I knew you.

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Speaker 2: I feel it was going to.

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Speaker 1: Is there anywhere where you just like like we were

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Speaker 1: swimming it like Cozy Corner the other day you know

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Speaker 1: the ocean and you're just like not even Clarks are

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Speaker 2: We could go on. I mean my favorite spots you'll

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Speaker 2: find me are at the past.

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Speaker 2: I love the tea tree lake, even in Lennox. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like Ainsworth so yeah, like Ainsworth in Suffolk there's a beautiful, yes,

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Speaker 2: tea tree lake. Those are the probably the spots that

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Speaker 2: you'll find me. Isn't that we're indigenous women birthed. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they came to birth their babies in the tea tree.

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Speaker 1: Is that where it was?

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Speaker 2: Beautiful and it feels so motherly healing. I used to

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Speaker 2: go there just to lay and be held. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: The nurturing is the nurturing energy.

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Speaker 1: And you taught me black onyx.

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Speaker 2: Oh there is black tormally or was it black tormal

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Speaker 2: underneath the protection in Byron Bay, and it's protection removing

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Speaker 1: Matt Night. You gave Matt and I a little piece

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Speaker 1: and I'm taking one to La and he's keeping his hair.

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Speaker 1: So we're connected.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's beautiful. We are, my beautiful friend. Egan from

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Speaker 2: Barron Cara told me to go for a walk along

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Speaker 2: tellows and have a look for these black crystals like stones,

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Speaker 2: turn gray and I'm like, oh, that's not one. But

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Speaker 2: you gave us so thank you, thank you for doing it,

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Speaker 2: because we had no idea.

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Speaker 1: What's something that's moved you recently?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Even what about seeing you a little bambinos get off

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Speaker 2: Oh? Every time I am back reunited with my children.

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Speaker 2: I think that that is probably what lights me up.

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Speaker 2: You know that that really definitely moves me. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: I think that's amazing though, And it being in the

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Speaker 2: You know, I think you just lost your first tooth.

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Speaker 1: Oh I saw. I asked all about it.

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Speaker 2: I was so nervous. She was like, no, don't, I

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Speaker 2: can't lose it. I was like, no, the truth very

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Speaker 2: brings you gold and she was like, oh, still no.

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Speaker 2: And then it just came out the top shop screaming.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's like, what's happened, What's happened? And then she's like

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Speaker 2: She's like, oh, it's a good thing. I asked us to.

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Speaker 1: Did the tooth fairy come She's like yeah, yeah, and

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Speaker 1: just eating a bottle of a sah Yeah. I go,

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Speaker 2: Fuddy.

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, well, you can make a pooh

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Speaker 1: sandwich with that. She was like yeah. Final question, do

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Speaker 1: you have a favorite self care ritual?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, my favorite self care ritual is body scrubbing.

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Speaker 2: So in Bali we have this thing called Lulua scrubbing

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Speaker 2: and it has turmeric. It's so scrubby, and I just

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Speaker 2: used Himalayan rock salt and coconut oil. And I love

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Speaker 2: to really scrub myself and then do hot hot shower,

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Speaker 2: like really hot that your blood comes to the surface

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Speaker 2: of your skin and it's really like itchy. And then

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Speaker 2: you do cold you have if you're lucky enough to

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Speaker 2: cold plunge or I just do cold shower and hot cold,

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Speaker 2: hot cold for about five times. That is a game changer.

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Speaker 1: That'd be so good for your immune system to it

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Speaker 1: be like such a waker.

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Speaker 2: Well it is.

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Speaker 1: When I was in Bali, actually I had a turmeric

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Speaker 1: yogurt scrub thing. Yeah, an all body like, I was

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Speaker 1: like what And it wasn't expensive In Australia that would

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Speaker 1: have cost me like three hundred.

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Speaker 2: Dollars, I know, and it's what like three dollars.

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Speaker 1: I think it was like twenty five bucks or something.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, what have I been sitting out?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, but we can do this at home.

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Speaker 2: That's what I love about the Balinese culture is that

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Speaker 2: there's ingredients that we can do at home, like ginger

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Speaker 2: and turmeric. You should launch your own business, mate, mate,

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Speaker 2: watch this space.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, You're a legend.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.