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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Jonesy and Demanda podcast.

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Speaker 2: Get on down to the j and A Arms for

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Speaker 2: the Jonesy Amanda Arms. We like to call it for

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Speaker 2: the pub test for pub test.

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Speaker 1: Top test does not past the pub test, hub test tests,

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Speaker 1: up test, shun test, the pub.

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Speaker 3: Test doesn't pass the sniff test.

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Speaker 2: Stop it, it's not helpful. This lady has blown up

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Speaker 2: TikTok for criticizing her husband's effort on Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 3: His effort enough. What's happened is she has said, quietly

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Speaker 3: because he's in the next room, and she said, he

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Speaker 3: knows We've been married for years. He knows I don't

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Speaker 3: like the color purple, he knows I'm on a diet.

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Speaker 3: And the gift was just all this purple paper, a

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Speaker 3: whole lot of chocolates, and a Teddy bear or like

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Speaker 3: a small bear thing that was purple. And you think,

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Speaker 3: how ungracious of her to complain. But her point, I guess,

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Speaker 3: is this effort, just making an effort, isn't really enough

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Speaker 3: when they'd be married for a number of years and

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Speaker 3: he knows these things about it but doesn't care enough

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Speaker 3: to do anything about it.

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Speaker 2: I'd say he put a lot of care into that

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Speaker 2: to get the bag, he had to get the chalks

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Speaker 2: and little Teddy Bear on the car.

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Speaker 3: But she this is what a lot of women want

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Speaker 3: to feel, seen and know.

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Speaker 2: Will I'd say, she's seen and known. What do you want?

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Speaker 3: Well, how do you feel? Does just the effort past

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Speaker 3: the pub test?

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Speaker 1: No, it doesn't, because he was well aware that she

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Speaker 1: didn't like the color purple, and she was on a diet,

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Speaker 1: and I think it was deliberate.

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Speaker 4: One year I'd done the Woolworth flowers and for the

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Speaker 4: next seven years go suffered, So now I have to

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Speaker 4: make an effort.

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Speaker 5: So, yes, it's part of the pubs. Well, no, I

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Speaker 5: don't think it does. I think if they married for

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Speaker 5: a long time and he thinks about you any day

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Speaker 5: of the week and comes home with a chocolate or

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Speaker 5: flowers that you like, that's better than Valentine's Day, where

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Speaker 5: everybody's telling you to make an airpat.

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Speaker 6: Not at all. She's just a wingebag. I'll give anything

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Speaker 6: to have anything incorrect for my husband at the moment,

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Speaker 6: who I've only just lost recently. So I think she

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Speaker 6: should appreciate anything she gets.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, your wingebag, the length and breadth of some thoughts.

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Speaker 2: I imagine that you lose the love of your life,

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Speaker 2: and the only thing you've got is that little we

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Speaker 2: love view teddy Bear.

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Speaker 3: That's the only thing you have.

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Speaker 2: I love you, teddy Bear.