1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: It's Will and Woody Podcast Mini. 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 2: With Brook Bonny Brooks filling in for wods Boy. He's 3 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 2: in the IMI Celeb Jungle and Brook, You're very lucky 4 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 2: because you are here when we have got the imperfect 5 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 2: Boys in the studio. I've got Hugh Van Klnderg and 6 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 2: Ryan Shelton and join us right now, two thirds of 7 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:19,920 Speaker 2: the mighty Imperfects. If you haven't listened to the podcast, 8 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 2: I say this every time you're missing out. 9 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: It's so good. 10 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 3: It's elite. It's really really good. 11 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 1: It's just it's a bit life changing. 12 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 3: More than a bit. 13 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 4: More than a bit. 14 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 3: Oh, that's good. I forgot. 15 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 5: I just sort of didn't want to pump it up 16 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 5: too much. I'll say full at the end. 17 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, good. 18 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 3: Welcome guys, Welcome, thank. 19 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,279 Speaker 4: You, thanks guys, Thanks for thanks for having us back. 20 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 4: I just love coming in here. 21 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 6: It's really great. And it feels weird that I'm you 22 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 6: guys are in Sydney and we're kind of staring at you. Yes, 23 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 6: it's still nice. It's still nice. 24 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 4: His favorite thing to do is to ruin the magic. 25 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 6: As I was saying that, I'm not sure. 26 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 4: You you will never be a magician's assistant. 27 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 6: Or a person who goes on radio. 28 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 4: Good to be here with you, guys. 29 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 2: Now, normally, guys, we you know, I'm sort of in 30 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 2: the position of talking to people while they're on the 31 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 2: road who are musicians. You know, they're touring, and it's like, oh, 32 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 2: how's ther time going in Australia? And I feel like 33 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 2: we can have that same chat with you because you're 34 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: also you're on the road right now. 35 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: You're touring, touring artists touring. 36 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, we are touring artists. Yeah, we're doing our imperfect 37 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 4: live stage show, which we've we've just started, but you know, 38 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 4: there's still plenty of the tour left and and yeah, 39 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 4: we had our first couple of shows on the weekend 40 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 4: and it was really fun. 41 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 6: Yeah. 42 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 5: Do you feel weird when you can see people's reaction 43 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 5: to things because normally you're in a podcast studio, you know, 44 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 5: you're just having a chat. But now you can see 45 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 5: people's reaction in real time, so maybe they're gasping, maybe 46 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 5: maybe they're crying. 47 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: How does that feel? 48 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, Well, especially when what we're doing for the live 49 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 6: show is nothing like the podcast. 50 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:13,679 Speaker 4: Really, I think it's it's it's sort of more of 51 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 4: an erotic thriller. 52 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 6: So yeah, seeing their faces is quite something shocking. 53 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: For everyone, I would imagine. 54 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, we didn't know where the show would end up, 55 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 4: but yeah, I think it's got to a place which 56 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 4: is definitely surprising. 57 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 6: We didn't we didn't expect the R rating, but I 58 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 6: guess it's warranted. And yeah, I don't know. 59 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's fun, but to seriously answer it's it is. 60 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,639 Speaker 4: It is really cool because you know, it's like any 61 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 4: radio show that you don't really you hear people sometimes 62 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 4: call up or you get messages, but yeah, to see 63 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 4: people reacting in real time, and then we met people afterwards, 64 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 4: that was that was pretty amazing. 65 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I got I got I've got a DM 66 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 6: from someone I know I shouldn't have, but I went 67 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 6: to my dms afterward because I was just interested in 68 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 6: how it went down. The first one I got was 69 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 6: what in God's name was that? And I still don't know. 70 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:12,399 Speaker 6: I don't know what in God's name was that? So wow, yeah, 71 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 6: I don't know. If this is come along and find out, though, 72 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 6: please come along and probably what in God's name it is? 73 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 6: Probably won't put it on the tour poster for next time. 74 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 6: There's a review. 75 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 4: What in God's name was that. 76 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 6: In a good way? 77 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 3: So where can where can people? Where can people get 78 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 3: tickets to find out? In God's name what exactly that is? 79 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 4: Livenation dot com dot au you can go to and 80 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 4: get tickets. 81 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 3: You've still got a few shows left obviously. 82 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 4: Yep, Yeah, still got some shows. There's some new shows 83 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 4: being added later in the year. So yeah, still opportunities 84 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 4: to see it if you want to come along. 85 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 2: And the really special moment for mine we spoke about 86 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 2: this just for you guys started talking is Obviously Josh 87 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 2: isn't here today, but a big moment in your podcast 88 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 2: is this story that he told about effectively being bullied 89 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 2: for a book of songs that he wrote and then 90 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 2: he sort of had someone found the book and then 91 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: people read out the lyrics at a party at him 92 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 2: and laughed, which the most horrific story. 93 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 5: Sounds like a movie, one of those American teen movies. 94 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 4: In this in this movie, Brook and we will agree 95 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 4: we won't reveal what the ending is and what actually 96 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 4: happens at the end of the movie. You know, yeah, 97 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 4: wouldn't because you wouldn't want to tell people the surprise. 98 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 6: Sorry, it's a surprise. You're just trying to get me 99 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 6: back for the for my magic. Yeah, that's right. 100 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 3: You pull down the curtain. 101 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 2: I'll put down the curtain on you man, turn the 102 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 2: curtain on the show. 103 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: The Kibooki? Is it down down? 104 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 3: Oh God, I hope that's not too much of a spoiler, 105 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 3: too much of is that? Okay? 106 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 4: It's fine? 107 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 3: Sure? 108 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, it was pretty close to it was ruining everything. 109 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 3: There's a great surprise in the show. 110 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 2: If you go and see The Boys Live, So Live 111 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 2: Nation not comment if you want to go see The Imperfect. 112 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 6: Especially especially if you're in camera. Okay, you know we've 113 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 6: only had I think I've got a fifteen hundred seat venue. 114 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 6: I think we've sold four tickets so fast. If your 115 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 6: four hundred friends want to come along, please please feel. 116 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 3: Or just or just wait until they're giving them away. Guys, 117 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 3: that's what I do. Just wait until now, and you'll 118 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 3: be able to rock up at the door and walk in. 119 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 3: I reckon, no no come. 120 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 4: By ticket, He reluctantly says. 121 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 7: When things are down, you need and frown for a 122 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 7: kind word. We'll turn you around. 123 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 3: It The im Perfect Boys here. 124 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 2: Van Khleenberg, Ryan Shelton Josh Van Krlenberg join us every 125 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 2: fortnight for a brand new segment called the Compliment. 126 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 4: You're cutting me off? Ryan came on, Yeah, I was 127 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 4: trying my best to. 128 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 3: Luck good luck mate, you will lose. 129 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,239 Speaker 4: Well, I just feel like we need to we can't 130 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 4: call it the compliments and it has to be the 131 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 4: compler people or so there has to be some sort 132 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 4: of we have to address the fact that, you. 133 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 1: Know, complement and comple women. 134 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, does it work? Yeah of course, yeah, sure, complic. 135 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 2: Girl feels long, but I think it's there. 136 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: Catch you though, you won't get you won't forget that. 137 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 4: So the way, this was just a big compl mess. 138 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:22,159 Speaker 4: If you asked me, someone put him out. 139 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 6: Thank you. 140 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 2: That's the sort of momentum you only get from doing 141 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 2: a live stage show. And the boys are doing a 142 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 2: stage show. If you want to see aim livenation dot 143 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 2: com dot you see the Imperfect on stage in Canberra 144 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 2: in particular. Now let's get down to the segment here, 145 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 2: because Hugh, you don't think we're delivering compliments. 146 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 6: Well enough, Well, I don't think we. I think as 147 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 6: men particularly we would much rather put someone down or 148 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,160 Speaker 6: have a crack at them, or even if it's a 149 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 6: way of connecting or trying somehow to build the relationship. 150 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 6: Our first go to is to, yeah, give someone crap basically, 151 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 6: And I think, sorry, Brooke, you want to jump. 152 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: Into going to say. 153 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 5: The beautiful thing about this that I can relate to 154 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 5: is that I too do that. 155 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're all in this together. 156 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 157 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 5: I think it's a country person thing because they've got brothers. Yeah, 158 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 5: it's definitely not because I'm a little bit mean. Doesn't 159 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 5: have anything to do with having a mean streak. Deny 160 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 5: those rumors. Just clear that up. 161 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 4: Complament is. 162 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 6: Spoken like a tyrant, and so I think we kind 163 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 6: of feel like there is a time and place for that, 164 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 6: But I feel like it's just it's our go to 165 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 6: way too often. I think it does. I think we 166 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 6: miss opportunities to also be kind and to give people 167 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 6: commiments because so often people just need it, like they 168 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 6: need to hear the good things about themselves. And I 169 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 6: think every now and again, if you do make the 170 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 6: effort to give someone a compliment, to let them know 171 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 6: what you love about them, what the what, what what 172 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 6: you really admire about them, it's so unbelievably good for them. 173 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 6: But it's also good for us as well to connect 174 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 6: on that level. So we come in here every couple 175 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 6: of weeks and we just like to model how to 176 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 6: give compliments. 177 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 4: And the and the really the sort of second part 178 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 4: of it is, which this is what I found really 179 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 4: interesting about giving compliments in the correct way. It's like, yes, 180 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 4: you you be really kind and you say to the 181 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 4: person how you admire them or what you think about 182 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 4: them in a positive way. But then it's you follow 183 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 4: it up with how that then makes you feel, or 184 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 4: how it's like helped your day or improved your life 185 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 4: in some way. So it's the to the double header 186 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 4: of those two things, the two parts. 187 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 1: So we're definitely ruling out compliment from there. 188 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 4: We can workshop it a bit longer if you want, Brook, 189 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 4: We can try some mean shit if. 190 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 3: What are you talking about? Other? 191 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it is it's a little bit different. 192 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 3: That will require a workshop. I agon with you guys, 193 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 3: maybe off air. 194 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 2: I'm happy to hear it, you know, if it gets 195 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:00,080 Speaker 2: through the filters, Yeah, Okay. 196 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,079 Speaker 6: What do he know when he comes back? If that 197 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 6: and he walks in and someone just doesn't compliment to him, 198 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 6: we need to let him know it's coming, just to 199 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 6: remind him. 200 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 4: Okay, I'm complimenting you today, Woody. I hate your hair 201 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 4: and that makes me feel better about myself. 202 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 1: I'm now the father of your child. 203 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 6: I forgot this. 204 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 3: Brook's taken over your life. Thanks for coming back. All right, 205 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 3: let's okay. 206 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 2: So now we've been doing the compliment segment for probably 207 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 2: about six weeks now, I'm going to say, maybe even 208 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 2: more a couple of months, which is awesome. And everybody 209 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 2: in the room has had a compliment, bar one person. 210 00:09:54,120 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 2: So yeah, without further ado, all right, I'm going to 211 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 2: be complimenting Brook. 212 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 1: I thought it was going to be me. 213 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. Now she's in. 214 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 3: Now she got in before the compliments started. Well done. 215 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 2: Hugh hasn't received a compliment yet, so you've you've yeah, 216 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 2: you've betten him to the post as well, and he's. 217 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 3: Quite clearly livid at the We will wait for what 218 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 3: to come back so that he can be a part 219 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 3: of that. So, Brook, I also really. 220 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 2: Wanted a chance to compliment you because I only get 221 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 2: one chance, will only get one chance to do this together. 222 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 3: So are you ready? 223 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:53,560 Speaker 4: Yeah? 224 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: I think so? 225 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 4: Okay, Oh gosh, am I going to cry that just 226 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 4: it's probably important. Yes, you will cry it's it's probably 227 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 4: also important to say that when receiving a compliment, and 228 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 4: this is all part of the compliment process, is that 229 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 4: the temptation is to is to sort of deny the 230 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 4: compliment or kind of like brush it aside or make 231 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 4: a joke or whatever. But the challenge here is is 232 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,559 Speaker 4: to just accept it and thank the person for the compliment. 233 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 1: And don't look at your phone. Probably if you can 234 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: avoid it. 235 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 4: I know that's tricky, but try your best. 236 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 6: And also you can't give a compliment back because that's 237 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 6: what you just want to get it off yourself and go, well, 238 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 6: I actually think this about you. You just need to 239 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 6: accept it and let it watch over you. 240 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 3: And that's it. 241 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: This is like a challenge. It's like we're in the jungle. 242 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 3: Equally nerve racking for me as well. Say it's okay, 243 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 3: but I'm really really don't have to make eye contact. 244 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a couple of things I need to read. 245 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 2: But yes, I had to write this down because I 246 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:46,479 Speaker 2: really want to think about. 247 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 7: When things are down, you need and frown for a 248 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 7: kind word will turn you around. 249 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 2: Okay, So I am giving a compliment to you, Brooke Hugh. 250 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 2: To receive a compliment, but we've dealt with that. 251 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 3: He'll get over it. 252 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 6: Okay. 253 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 2: So Brooke, I'm going to start with something that's going 254 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 2: to be sound a bit strange, but I'll work it 255 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 2: in promise. 256 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 3: So we've only known each other for a little while, Okay. 257 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:17,839 Speaker 2: So something I want you to know is that one 258 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 2: of the things I've been working with with myself recently 259 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 2: is this concept of the fact that we're all going 260 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 2: to die. And I really am trying really hard to 261 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:31,719 Speaker 2: cold that really close to me because sometimes I get 262 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:34,079 Speaker 2: really caught up in my own narrative and in little 263 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 2: things that don't matter. 264 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 3: And when I'm reminded of that, it. 265 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 2: Simplifies things for me and it makes my life really 266 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 2: easy and I let go. 267 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 3: So I try and come back to that truth. 268 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 2: Now, we've sort of spoken over the phone a little 269 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 2: bit before we started doing the show, and we did 270 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 2: a demo and stuff and without realizing it. I don't 271 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 2: think you realize that you did this, but it's something 272 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 2: that I feel like you really close to you as well, 273 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 2: because you say all the time, like, well, you only 274 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 2: live once, and we're all going to die one day, 275 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:08,199 Speaker 2: And I've heard you say it like a few times, 276 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 2: and it's kind of been like a bit of a 277 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:12,439 Speaker 2: guiding light for me too. 278 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 3: It's really helped me. 279 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 2: I've had some pretty tricky times recently, and that has 280 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 2: like just constantly reminded me of the fact that my 281 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:25,560 Speaker 2: life is finite and my time here is finite, and 282 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 2: I want to use it more preciously and pay more 283 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 2: attention to the things that I love. And I want 284 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 2: you to know that because you wear this like a badge, 285 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 2: it oozes off you and you're kind of glossed with 286 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:47,839 Speaker 2: this sine of spontaneity and effortless joy and it's completely infectious. 287 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,080 Speaker 2: And when they asked me if I want to do 288 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 2: the show with anyone, my response was very quickly you, 289 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 2: and really only you, because how does it make me feel. 290 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 3: You make me feel fearless. 291 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 2: You make me feel like I can do anything and 292 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 2: nothing really matters because I'm okay, and that's really the 293 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 2: greatest gift that you could give me. 294 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 3: So thank you forgiving me that confidence. 295 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 5: My gosh, thanks, thank you so much. 296 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 3: That's okay, that's all right. 297 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: It is so weird to. 298 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 5: Get a compliment, isn't it, Because your natural inclination is 299 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 5: to jump in and make. 300 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 1: Jokes the whole time. Yeah, like the whole time. Then 301 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 1: I was thinking like. 302 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 5: Oh, yeah, what about this. It's actually so hard to 303 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 5: sit there and just accept it. 304 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, but what a great thing to hear, Like, 305 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 6: how does like how do you feel hearing that? 306 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 3: Like? 307 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 6: Does it? It must be because I mean, so many 308 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 6: people would do radio shows together in this kind of 309 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 6: situation and not have the opportunity to just stop and say, hey, 310 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 6: this is what I really value about you. It's pretty 311 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 6: cool what you've just done. 312 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 5: I feel very seen because I do have We've talked 313 00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 5: about it. I do have a penchon for nuisance and 314 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 5: mischief at every possible opportunity. 315 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 4: And French words. 316 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: Thank you for noticing them, right, mischief in the classics 317 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 1: and she tried it. 318 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 3: It's awesome. 319 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 2: Well. 320 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: I do try to live. 321 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 5: With like a lot of joy, because you know, there's 322 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 5: a whole narrative around indigenity that is around like misery 323 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 5: and like dwelling and sadness, and you know the things 324 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 5: that you see on the news about Aboriginal people, who 325 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 5: is always like, oh, these miserable statistics and these miserable lives, 326 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 5: and I just sort of think, like all of the 327 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 5: things that my ancestors went through. 328 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: They didn't do it. 329 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 5: So I have to sit around and dwell and misery 330 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 5: all the time. Like I can know about all of 331 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 5: those things and try to make them better, but it 332 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 5: doesn't mean that they have to be serious or miserable. 333 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 5: And so I live with like a lot of joy 334 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 5: as much as possible, because the alternative is is that 335 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 5: you do live in that sort of you know, that murkier. 336 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: Sub side of reality. 337 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 4: That's awesome. 338 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 1: Much for noticing. I really appreciate it. 339 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 3: Unbelievable, It's totally liberating. 340 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 2: It's so nice to bear around you for that reason, 341 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 2: it really is. 342 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 6: Can I jump into that very quickly? I don't know. 343 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 6: I don't not sure i've met before Brook, But like 344 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 6: when you said hi to me before and the way 345 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 6: you said hi, it was like I was like, oh 346 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 6: my god, think book knows who I am. I'm on 347 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 6: the biggest high from that. So you have a gift 348 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 6: of making people feel really just like yeah you really do. 349 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 4: Yeah I got I got to say, actually, I'll jump 350 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 4: in this as well. So when we broke a couple 351 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 4: of years it we were just talking about off air. 352 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 4: I think we were just before covid. We went to 353 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 4: the Good A La thing in America, and I remember 354 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 4: now thinking when because I was intimidated as all hell 355 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 4: being at those events. I don't hate them, but I 356 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 4: feel really insecure and I shouldn't be there and so 357 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 4: but I remember you were there, and I remember I 358 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 4: did feel very welcome with you there, like you made 359 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 4: me feel like I belonged. 360 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 1: Oh that was so lovely. Guys, thank you. 361 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 3: She's a hit, isn't she. She's awesome. 362 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 6: This is not good for you, guys, just gets worse 363 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 6: and worse for him, doesn't It's a picturing him coming 364 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 6: back to the studio in Melbourne and seeing me and 365 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:28,920 Speaker 6: Ryan are sitting in his chairs as well. 366 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 4: But at least, but at least, at least he lost 367 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:35,199 Speaker 4: his job for a really good cause. 368 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 5: And the good thing is is that that won't actually 369 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 5: sting as much as when he gets home and he 370 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:45,879 Speaker 5: finds out I'm actually living with calling his mum and dad, 371 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 5: isn't it? 372 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: Talented mister Woody. 373 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 2: Hey, thank you so much for coming in here. 374 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 4: More of the boys on the full podcast just scroll up.