WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Laura can NEVER return to this cafe 0:00:01.360 --> 0:00:01.920 Are you ready? 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:05.439 Good pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Ben. 0:00:05.640 --> 0:00:08.600 Brady or what our windows day? 0:00:08.880 --> 0:00:12.560 That's my world risen the dust only good zabug all day. 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:17.600 I've done much, but yeah, I'll big. 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:18.639 Get and what I want. 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:20.600 It don't matter where Radne. 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:21.880 This is the pickup. 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:25.200 Happy Friday, everyone, It's the pickup with Britt Hackley and 0:00:25.239 --> 0:00:26.880 Laura Ben Happy Friday. 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:28.160 What are you doing this weekend? Laws? 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:28.880 What am I doing? 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:29.280 God? 0:00:29.320 --> 0:00:30.520 You really put me on the spot there. 0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:32.320 You don't plan that far ahead, dude. 0:00:32.440 --> 0:00:34.880 I've got both kids by myself this weekend, and it's 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:37.760 the first weekend without Matt here because. 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:39.160 He's in the I'm a sleb jungle. 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:42.640 So Sunday night, everyone, Premiere, go and watch I'm a Celebrity. 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:43.279 That's what I'll be doing. 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:44.840 Yep, So you're parenting this weekend? Gotcha? 0:00:44.960 --> 0:00:45.920 Yeah, I'll be at the park. 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:49.600 Everyone well vibes big show today, guys. 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:52.800 I'm getting married this year and I am well, I'm 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:54.960 still in the planning stage. I feel like I should 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:56.800 probably have planned it by now because it's not that 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:58.080 far away, but I haven't. 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:00.720 And I put a call out on me insta. 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:04.960 A couple of days ago asking for other people's wedding regrets. 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:07.440 Because I wanted to know as I'm making like these 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:10.600 final preparations. It's a lot of pressure planning a wedding. 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:12.560 I'm like, I don't want to do anything that I'll regret, 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:14.399 and I don't want to miss out on anything. 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:16.280 Later of that I'll be like I wish I did that. 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:18.640 I can imagine from that call out, what are your 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:20.959 wedding regrets? A lot of people would have said their 0:01:21.080 --> 0:01:22.240 husband or their wife. 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:25.280 At the time, Overwhelmingly it was the groom. 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:30.720 A groom is my biggest regret. But I'm gonna go 0:01:30.720 --> 0:01:31.280 through a few of those. 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:32.640 We're gonna put the call out for you guys to 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:34.880 call up and let us know what's your biggest regrets 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:36.640 to ask so that I can plan the ultimate wedding. 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:38.560 I know I'm not going to regret the groom, but 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:40.120 I don't want to regret anything else. 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:41.839 All right, Well, I also did something at a cafe 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:44.119 this week, which might mean I could never go back 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:44.800 there because I'm. 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:46.559 Still horrified by it, that's for sure. 0:01:46.800 --> 0:01:48.360 And before we get into all of that, we do 0:01:48.440 --> 0:01:50.640 have that pick me up song, and I have finally 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:53.960 won and we are going to play tub Thumping by Chumbawamba, 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:56.480 which I know that means nothing to anyone. But this 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:59.000 is our anthem, which is a weird anthem. I know 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:02.040 because there is one part in this song where the 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:04.280 lyrics are A drink, a whiskey drink, a drink of 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:05.920 vod could drink, a drink, a side drink. 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:07.360 A drink, a lugg a drink. They drink a lot. 0:02:07.640 --> 0:02:10.000 But the reason why I say it's our anthem, what 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:12.320 I actually mean is that it is the anthem that 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:14.120 our kids want to put on all the time, and 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:15.840 we just have to like mumble over those words so 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:18.160 they don't hear it. This is Lola in the back 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:19.760 of the car, absolutely breaking it. 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:21.280 Down to tub Thumpy. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:29.560 I again, you never hear me. 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:35.520 I did not do that. I you keep you had 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:36.040 it here first. 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:38.480 Everyone, if you get knocked down, get up again. You're 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:39.640 never gonna keep us down. 0:02:39.760 --> 0:02:43.440 She really does hits those keywords, doesn't she got down again? 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:49.240 Down? She only got those She's three and half. Give 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:49.920 the kid a break. 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:51.639 I will I do no such thing. 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:54.359 All right, let's get into the show. It's a pick up. 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:56.120 Britt. 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:59.960 Do you ever have those moments where you completely misread 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:05.280 somebody else's body language or what they're trying to get across, 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:08.000 Like just when you think to yourself, how can we 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:09.640 be so deeply on different pages? 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:16.639 Often often I had Lola and I my my three 0:03:16.680 --> 0:03:17.040 year old. 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:19.520 We went on a little one on one coffee date, right, 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.360 gonna spend some cute time together. And we went into 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:25.959 a cafe to get some baby chinos and some banana bread, 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:29.560 and it was cute. And standing behind the counter is 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:31.680 this guy who I know from when I was like 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:34.280 fourteen fifteen years old, Like we used to we used 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:36.600 to do sports together, and I used to have the 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:39.800 biggest crush on this man, like I was obsessed with him, 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.480 which obviously I'm not now I have a husband and 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:44.680 I have kids. But it is still always that little 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:47.240 bit startling when you see someone who's like a blast 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:49.360 from the past. I still get those little butterflies, just 0:03:49.440 --> 0:03:51.600 like no butterflies, but just a bit like. 0:03:51.800 --> 0:03:54.040 No, but that feeling, that jolt where it takes you back. 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:55.840 I'm like, God, do I need to still impress this man? 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:58.160 I don't know, just like the feeling of a bit weirdness. 0:03:58.400 --> 0:03:59.080 How do I look. 0:03:59.600 --> 0:04:02.760 So so I order these. 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:05.120 Firstly, I order a baby Chino, and Lola's like a 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:07.320 bit of a handful, so she's like yapping away but 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:09.120 also like yelling at me at the same time, so 0:04:09.160 --> 0:04:10.560 I'm trying to keep her in line. 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:13.080 I order baby Chinos. I order myself a coffee. 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:15.560 Midway through the order, she changes her mind wants a 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:17.680 hot chocolate, so then I'm changing the order. Not a 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:21.000 big deal, all fine, all very manageable. And I go 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:23.720 to pay and the machine's not working and I was like, oh, 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:26.119 it's not working, and he was like, yeah, it's not working, 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:27.760 and I was like, no, the machine's not working. This 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:31.039 exchange happened for far longer than necessary, when he was 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:32.520 just trying to give me the coffees for free and 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:33.240 be nice. 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:36.880 Read between the lines. So anyway, I walk over to 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:37.440 the side. 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:40.280 The coffees come out, and Lola's got a baby China 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:41.880 when she's got a hot chocolate because somehow the order 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:43.960 got screwed up, and now she's got a double so 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:46.920 she's double handling two things. And she goes to take 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.320 a sip of the hot chocolate and she paws it 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:52.800 straight down the front of herself, so she's screaming. 0:04:53.240 --> 0:04:56.799 She's burning a friend new hot chocolate on a skin. 0:04:57.320 --> 0:04:59.560 It's a baby one's no worry about it being too hot, 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:00.600 but she's covered in it. 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:01.480 She's crying. 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:04.880 So I grab a whole heap of napkins and I'm 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:06.720 trying to still have a conversation with this guy at 0:05:06.720 --> 0:05:08.279 the same time, and I'm like mopping her up, and 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:11.160 we're like half having this really fragmented conversation. 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:12.320 You're still trying to flirt. 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:14.760 I was still trying to I was like, my husband's 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:15.320 in the jungle. 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:17.680 No, it's stuffed on. 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:19.560 So I'm mopping her up and I have all of 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:22.960 the tissues in my hand and I'm covered in coffee 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:25.920 and it's all over my hands, and we're still chatting away, 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:28.320 and then I'll go to say goodbye, and I was like, oh, 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:29.279 thanks so much for the coffee. 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:30.720 Is really nice. It's nice to run into you. 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:33.360 And he puts his hand out and I was like, oh, 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:33.720 like a. 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:37.120 Bit high five. It's cool, weird, weird, but I'm down 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.000 and I find another adult and ages. 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:40.920 But I had heaps of coffee on my hand, so 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:43.479 I kind of just gave this really weak high five. 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:46.200 I just high five their end of his fingers. 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:49.000 Nothing worse than a limp handshaker and a limp high five, 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:52.080 or when you don't make the it was don't connect. 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:56.240 It was the saddest limpest high five I have ever delivered. 0:05:56.480 --> 0:05:58.279 And he just looked at me silent for a while, 0:05:58.480 --> 0:05:58.920 and then I. 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:00.920 Looked at him even I was like, well that was 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:04.080 a bit awkward, and he goes, no, I just I 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:05.480 just want your rubbish. 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:09.640 He was gonna put the rubbish. He didn't want your. 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:12.080 Lips second life and I and I high fived him 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:13.960 with a wet coffee head. So now he had a 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:15.640 wet hand and then he just had to He just 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:16.920 kind of like wiped it on his leg. 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:18.640 And anyway, I'm never going back there. 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:20.520 And then You're like, does this mean my chance is gone? 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:22.120 He's like, yeah, I. 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:23.719 Did I tell you my husbands in the jungle. 0:06:23.800 --> 0:06:24.640 This reminds me. 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:26.719 I had to have a laugh. The same thing was 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:28.920 going viral not that long ago. There was like a 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:33.880 family that was baptizing there a daughter, and there was 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:36.320 like the up on the stage. I don't know how 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:38.760 this works, and I don't know the name because I 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:40.640 don't know all the technical names. I'm not really just 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:42.279 but they were baptizing the daughter and there was the 0:06:42.279 --> 0:06:44.360 bowl of the pond of water or whatever it is, 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:44.920 and then there. 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:46.040 Was the priest water. 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.880 Yeah, and so they went to baptize and the priest 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:50.520 went to put his hands up and I guess do 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:51.839 like the cross or something. 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:53.320 And she mustn't have known, but. 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:54.760 He was really slow and old, and as he put 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:56.280 his hand across him, she. 0:06:56.360 --> 0:07:01.080 High fived him across them. I find him like across 0:07:01.160 --> 0:07:04.960 the holy pond. And then and then he looked at. 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:07.280 Her and was just like continued with his prayer and 0:07:07.320 --> 0:07:08.880 she was and it was all on camera and she 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:10.840 was like, oh my god, the priest is not high 0:07:10.920 --> 0:07:12.600 fiving me over baptizing my child. 0:07:12.760 --> 0:07:15.160 Man, we walked out of that cafe and even while 0:07:15.160 --> 0:07:16.360 it was like, Mum, that was lame. 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:18.360 Okay, we'll call it together. 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:21.280 Speaking of regrets, Laura, as much as you regret that, 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:24.440 give us a call next. What did you regret from 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:28.520 your wedding? Besides who you married, what did you regret 0:07:28.960 --> 0:07:30.880 or what did you wish to do differently? Maybe we're 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:35.120 gonna be taking your calls after the break, guys, give 0:07:35.200 --> 0:07:37.480 us a call if you have gotten married and you 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:39.760 have any kind of wedding regret or you wish you 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:41.760 did something differently In hindsight. 0:07:41.840 --> 0:07:42.880 I'm planning my wedding. 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:46.360 I'm getting married to my wonderfully beautiful, handsome, lovely fiance 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:49.320 Ben later this year, and I put this call out 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:52.440 on my Instagram a couple of days ago. I was like, Hey, 0:07:52.560 --> 0:07:55.240 tell me, what do you guys regret from your wedding, 0:07:55.320 --> 0:07:57.120 because I just wanted some inspo to make sure that 0:07:57.200 --> 0:07:59.680 I book in or I do everything that I want 0:07:59.720 --> 0:08:01.360 to do. I don't want to leave the wedding wishing 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:02.400 I did something differently. 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:03.760 It was wild. 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:06.480 I had like a thousand people write their regrets on 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.560 my post, and it just got me thinking of now 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:11.920 I'm overthinking and I'm panicking, and I wanted to speak 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:12.680 to you guys. 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:13.600 About your regrets. 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:16.520 But overwhelmingly, the number one thing that came through was 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:20.400 people saying they regretted the groom, which I thought was 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:23.680 very funny. But the other thing that came through probably 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:25.640 the most were people saying that they. 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:27.400 Wish they had a videographer. 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:29.560 Like a lot of people book photography and they don't 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:32.079 think of the video and then time goes past and 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:34.480 they're like, oh, I wish I could watch it, like 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:36.319 watch it happening and watch the moment. 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:38.560 Well, the problem is we booked a videographer, but then 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:40.679 the cameraman stood in front of the camera and so 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:43.280 we got a video of his back like hour in time. 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:45.560 Ah that did you pay for that? 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:46.959 Yeah? So much money. 0:08:46.960 --> 0:08:49.120 Actually it was like the one thing that happened at 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:51.800 our wedding, which like the aftermath of that was like 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:54.520 the most disappointing. So Matt and I had learned like 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:58.240 a really special, silly first dance. He'd just come off 0:08:58.280 --> 0:09:00.400 dancing with the Stars, so he really I wanted to 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:03.480 like learn this dance, and so we had booked this 0:09:03.559 --> 0:09:07.719 videographer who were not cheap, like they were very expensive, 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:10.320 and we got the first dance video sent to us, 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:13.000 and it was weird. It was like close up shots 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:15.720 and like zooming and zooming out and like shots to 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:18.520 like like kind of like b roll of flowers and 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:21.400 stuff like really pieced really pieced together, and it was 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:23.440 a super ARTI edit and wh then we asked for 0:09:23.559 --> 0:09:26.440 just like the straight shot of the first dance and 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:29.040 it got sent to us and it was literally fifteen 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:31.360 seconds and then a figure just walks in front of 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:33.880 the camera and then there was nothing else. 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:36.439 Producer, Grace, you got married last year, not that long ago. 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:37.760 What did anything you regret? 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:38.120 So far? 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:40.880 The day was amazing, But probably the only thing I 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:43.240 regret is in the lead up not being stricter with 0:09:43.280 --> 0:09:46.240 the dress code because I wanted people to go full out. 0:09:46.360 --> 0:09:49.000 I wanted people in gowns, in everything. 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:51.800 And I just don't think I was mean enough because 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:54.440 people rocked up wearing Birkenstocks. Sneaky. 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:56.560 People went to your wedding in Berkeley Stocks. 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:58.160 That is Jean's No. 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:02.040 You put black tie on the invite and people arrived 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:03.599 to your wedding in jeans. 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:06.160 Yeah, and they were cool jeans. They looked great, but 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:09.040 it was just not what I wanted. Birkinstocks's next level though, 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:11.160 And he was wearing a vest over a dress. 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:12.480 No, that could be fashion. 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:13.280 I wasn't. 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:16.040 I have a question for you, though, when you say 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:18.360 you wish you were more strict on the dress code, Like, 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:20.120 how strict if they rock up and they're not wearing 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:23.400 appropriate a tie? You're sending you Nana home. Nana can 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:26.439 have the vest, all right, Nana? Where you're birkenstocks. But 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:27.200 I'm not happy about it. 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:28.360 But this is what happened to me. 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:31.360 Right on my dress code already, I put no thongs 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:33.640 and we know how that went down. Half of Ben's 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:36.079 European side thought they couldn't wear g strings to the wedding. 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:38.520 Do not wear any underwear. So dude, you need to. 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:39.560 Be very very clear. 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:40.280 We've got Ella. 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:42.960 Ella's called up, Hi Ella, what do you regret. 0:10:42.640 --> 0:10:43.240 From your wedding? 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:47.240 So I had a little bit of pre wedding dishes, 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:51.280 and so I had a few too many mimosas. 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:52.880 Oh you you were. 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:54.000 Drunk walking down the aisle. 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:57.840 Imagine saying you're like your wedding vows and just slurring 0:10:57.880 --> 0:10:58.280 through them. 0:10:58.280 --> 0:10:59.120 How drunk were you? 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:03.240 Not drunk but a little bit tipsy to the point 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:05.920 where I did take a little bit of a tumble 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:07.000 walking down the aisle. 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:11.120 But I did take Oh, oh my god, imagine Commando rolling 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:13.439 down your wedding aisle because you've had tu many mimosas. 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:15.280 Claire's on the line, Hi. 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:17.079 Claire, Hi, how are you? 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:18.079 Hey, Hilaire? 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:20.120 What do you regret from your wedding? Or what do 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:20.920 you wish you do differently? 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:23.080 I don't want it to all the regrets. 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:25.800 And so my biggest regret would be spending so much 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:28.000 time before the day worrying about the weather. 0:11:28.760 --> 0:11:30.840 Okay, it was an ounce or ceremony. 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:33.920 Yes, So we were supposed to be getting married on 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:38.520 the beach, and I spent literally the months beforehand, you 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:43.120 know the thirty day weather forecast, just watching that every day, 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:45.400 and of course it's changing. One day it's raining, one 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:48.000 day it's sunny. Had all the plans in place, and 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:50.400 on the day it just went all went to pop. 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:52.920 My producer, Grace is just handing me the photo from 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:53.560 your wedding time. 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:55.560 You are understating how bad the weather was. 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:57.680 The umbrella couldn't be more inside out. 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:02.839 O mind. God, Claire, you look absolutely beautiful. But yeah, 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:04.800 you're trying to, I guess, make it to the alto. 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:05.800 You're trying to walk down the aisle. 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:06.240 I don't know what. 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:09.679 I didn't know where I was going because she was 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:13.520 in a hurricane was out. I had no idea where 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:15.400 I was going to get married when I was walking 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:16.960 in that spot in that photo. 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:18.960 I mean, I think with weddings you can only worry 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:20.960 about the things that are within your control, because there's 0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:23.319 no point stressing about something like the weather. And some 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:26.000 of the most incredible photos I have ever seen have 0:12:26.120 --> 0:12:28.440 been from weddings that have been taken on rainy days, 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:32.400 like magical, magical rainy wedding photos are beautiful, but also 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:33.240 that photo. 0:12:33.000 --> 0:12:35.720 Is incredible, like that is such a different cool photo. 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:38.720 And I have heard that if it rains on your 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:39.280 wedding days. 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:40.360 Actually, good luck you. 0:12:40.280 --> 0:12:43.600 Guys, still together? We are okay? Great? Thank god? 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:47.040 Well, look coming up. Something happened recently. You guys might know. 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:49.600 Matt has gone into the I'm a celeb jungle. He 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:53.199 has left, but the reaction from when he told our 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:56.559 girls that he was leaving was not exactly what he expected. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:57.920 And I don't think he's going to be rushing home 0:12:57.920 --> 0:13:01.400 many times soon. Put it that way. Now, you guys 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:03.760 are probably aware, but I'm a celebrity. Get Me Out 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:07.280 of Here premieres this Sunday, the nineteenth of January, and 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:08.839 it is on ten and on ten play. 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:10.040 How exciting. 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:13.440 The reason why I am very excited about it this year. 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:15.800 Also I was very excited about it last year, Britt 0:13:15.840 --> 0:13:16.360 when you were on it. 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:17.280 Oh yeah, good cover up. 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:19.480 I mean I was though I was there in your 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:20.360 corner cheering on. 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:23.880 But this year is a particularly big one in our household, 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:27.400 and that's because my husband, Maddy Jay, is a contestant 0:13:27.400 --> 0:13:29.280 on I'm a Celebrity, Get Me out of Here. And 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:31.400 he's been gone now for a week, like pretty much 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:34.000 a whole week. He's been over there sending me photos 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:35.920 of zebras and whatnot. 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:38.120 Because it's so cool, it's pretty amazing. 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:40.839 And the only reason to clarify he's sending pictures is because, 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:43.520 like for those couple of days before the show starts, 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:45.720 you still have your phone, so he's obviously like seeing 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:46.679 his stuff center back. 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:48.520 But now he's going off grid. 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:50.760 Yeah, he's pretty much off grid now. 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:53.160 Yeah, and he goes in like the actual filming of 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:55.360 it because it's all live, so it starts on Sunday night. 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:57.880 But it's been a really big transition for our girls 0:13:57.920 --> 0:14:00.160 to kind of understand that dad's going on a tea TV 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:02.040 show and that he's not going to be able to 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:04.520 contact them from anywhere. It could be two weeks if 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:06.400 he does really bad, but it could be six weeks, 0:14:06.400 --> 0:14:10.079 which is so long to go away. And Matt does 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:12.640 so much for our family and for the girls, like 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:15.880 he does most daycare drop offs because of the radio show, 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:19.000 he does most pickups as well. He's just like such 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:22.000 a constant part of their every day. And when he 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:25.240 sat them down to tell them how it was going 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:26.760 to go and to tell them that he was doing 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:30.160 this show, our two girls had some very very different reactions. 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:32.920 We talked about it recently. Matt came on to do 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.720 an announcement episode with us on Life on Cut podcast 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:39.720 and he shared just how differently that experience was between our. 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:41.400 First daughter and our second. Have listened to this. 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:44.000 What was it like telling the girls that you're leaving, 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:46.000 Because so Matt's known now for a couple of weeks, 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:47.960 and obviously we've both known for a couple of months, 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:52.000 but you only recently last week told Marley and Lola. 0:14:52.040 --> 0:14:55.160 Okay, So when I told Lola, I wasn't expecting much 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:56.040 of reaction. 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:57.880 Because Lola hates match, she doesn't. 0:14:57.600 --> 0:14:59.920 Like me at all. It went down exactly as I expect. 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:02.320 I was like, look, I've got some news to tell 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:04.360 you girls. Is in the morning. I sat them down 0:15:04.400 --> 0:15:06.040 and I said, Daddy is going to be going away 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:09.200 for work for a long time. I'm going to go 0:15:09.240 --> 0:15:17.440 to Africa. And Lola instantly goes girl's Day. She did 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:21.520 not care at all, and Marley was like, wait, where 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:24.880 are you going and what's happening? But also, I now know, 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:27.720 in hindsight, I shouldn't have said Africa or mentioned the 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:29.560 show name because she's been telling everyone. 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:31.000 She's told everyone. 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:33.760 So Molly's just started vacation care at her new school 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:36.000 and she's told all the kids. 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:38.120 She's told all the teachers like she's like, my dad's 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:39.080 a celebrity everyone. 0:15:39.200 --> 0:15:41.360 I said to the teacher, I'm actually going away for 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:43.720 work next week, and she goes, oh, yeah, you're going 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:45.600