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Speaker 2: Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life
Speaker 2: on Cut. I'm Laura, I'm Brittany, and this is our
Speaker 2: Saturday radio show. Every Saturday, we bundle up the very
Speaker 2: best bits and we bring it to you right here
Speaker 2: in a sweet little warsl best bits. I don't know
Speaker 2: if this is the best bit, but we do speak about.
Speaker 1: I moved into your house, Laura, and you like you
Speaker 1: sold it to me right you moved out. You moved
Speaker 1: into a bigger and better place, basically room for the
Speaker 1: kids with a.
Speaker 2: Yard run around.
Speaker 1: And I moved into your house because I had my dog, Delilah,
Speaker 1: and I needed some space. What you didn't tell me
Speaker 1: was you have the neighbor from hell. And now it
Speaker 1: is too late for me. I'm locked and loaded into
Speaker 1: my lease and she's causing she's causing me some proper havoc.
Speaker 1: I hope she doesn't listen to this.
Speaker 2: Actually maybe no. Everybody who listens to the podcast knows
Speaker 2: about this neighbor. I used to tell you all how
Speaker 2: she used to hose down my washing constantly. And I'm
Speaker 2: very glad that I don't have to deal with her anymore.
Speaker 2: But I have so much sympathy for you, brit because
Speaker 2: if you haven't lived this neighbor, like, if you haven't
Speaker 2: lived this experience, you wouldn't believe how bad she is. Okay,
Speaker 2: I almost want a doctor, but I won't.
Speaker 1: You told me she hosed your washing, well, Mitch chu,
Speaker 1: and I can confirm that has escalated.
Speaker 2: Let me just say that, Yeah, she hosed a human.
Speaker 2: I was there. I know I was also part of it.
Speaker 1: She also hosed the Chris Mitch brought me because croissant
Speaker 1: when I was seeing a range jew a COVID croissant
Speaker 1: and a green juice. Not only did she hose Mitch down,
Speaker 1: but the croissant got caught in the fire and I
Speaker 1: didn't get the croissant.
Speaker 3: But I had words with her. Remember like she mumbled
Speaker 3: something under her breath. Maybe she put a spell on me.
Speaker 2: I think she told you to stop talking. Please, No
Speaker 2: one can stop me from talking.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: I also had something very unfortunate happened to me this week.
Speaker 2: I sent a text that I shouldn't sent to my cleaner. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and we'll just leave.
Speaker 4: It at that. You've really made a mess of it.
Speaker 2: And I don't think that she'll ever be my cleaner again.
Speaker 2: If it makes you feel better.
Speaker 1: We know I've sent the wrong text for some one
Speaker 1: one hundred times, so let's hope that you came out
Speaker 1: on the other side.
Speaker 2: But we have so much more than that coming up.
Speaker 2: Let's get into the show.
Speaker 3: It's a Life on Cut radio show around Australia. Brittany
Speaker 3: Hockily and Laura Burn. It's wedding season, guys, lots of weddings.
Speaker 4: Yours are sooner. Laura, you just have one, Bri.
Speaker 2: I did not. We've got something.
Speaker 1: I had a wedding. I went to two weddings. But
Speaker 1: I'm so far from getting married.
Speaker 2: It's ridiculous. I know. We keep talking about it, and
Speaker 2: we probably will keep talking about it until it happens.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Mine is four weeks away and we're so unorganized and
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think I think I won't get
Speaker 2: that excited until it's the day. Is that a really
Speaker 2: bad thing to say? No, don't tell Matt. I don't
Speaker 2: think so.
Speaker 1: I think it's because it's so much of a I
Speaker 1: can only imagine it's much of a build up and
Speaker 1: so much stress that I don't think you can get
Speaker 1: excited until it's there.
Speaker 3: Some stress in juice in your life, Laura, because you've
Speaker 3: accidentally you've sent an embarrassing DM or tech.
Speaker 2: It wasn't embarrassing, it's chruy, Okay, I was just these
Speaker 2: guys in the break. So it's got nothing to do
Speaker 2: with weddings. It's got to do with my cleaner, is
Speaker 2: what happened? Okay, my cleaner. We have a beautiful cleaner.
Speaker 2: Her name is Paula.
Speaker 4: We love Paula good.
Speaker 2: She is divine and Paula comes in and she cleans
Speaker 2: until that house is so sparkly. It never looks like that,
Speaker 2: but she's amazing. But anyway, Paula's got away been on
Speaker 2: holidays for the last oh maybe seven weeks. She went
Speaker 2: back to Columbia to see her family, and she left
Speaker 2: me with no cleaner and two kids and no time.
Speaker 2: So we found a new cleaner just to fill in
Speaker 2: while Paula's gone. We found him. What's the what's the site? Yes,
Speaker 2: it was okay. BRIT's like loves an air taskar, so
Speaker 2: she got me onto air Tasker. I found a cleaner
Speaker 2: and air tasker amazing reviews. We booked her in. She
Speaker 2: came the other day and we didn't meet her. This
Speaker 2: was a very ballsy thing. But I just left a
Speaker 2: key out, so never met the cleaner. And that is
Speaker 2: wild off air task it is, isn't it. I know
Speaker 2: people that have been robbed off Air Tasker. I think
Speaker 2: that is wild. I just I'm very trusting. This is
Speaker 2: a wild as you saying it's okay to marry your
Speaker 2: cousin last week.
Speaker 4: I'm still not like every one.
Speaker 2: I'll never be over that everywhere to say it's okay
Speaker 2: to marry your cousin. I said it's legal at.
Speaker 4: The wedding in a couple of weeks. Let's just keep
Speaker 4: an eye on the family table.
Speaker 2: I might do a DNA test, pluck some of those
Speaker 2: hands out. Wait, wait, my cleaner story. Let's get back
Speaker 2: on track. Everyone, all right, So I left the gey
Speaker 2: out the Air Tasker. Cleaner came, at least I think
Speaker 2: she came, she said, she came, and she said, please,
Speaker 2: you know, release the funds, because I came and cleaned
Speaker 2: the house. And I got home and it looked like
Speaker 2: some things had been moved around, but not really cleaned
Speaker 2: very well right like it was. I mean, it was
Speaker 2: like like a fifty percent job, nothing like what Paula
Speaker 2: can do. Let me tell you that. So I send
Speaker 2: Matt a text message which was like, quite angry your
Speaker 2: partner that, yeah, yeah, my partner, Matt. I send him
Speaker 2: a text message the very first thing I do, like
Speaker 2: walk in, I'm like, okay, I can't believe that wasn't done,
Speaker 2: can't believe for how much it cost. I feel very
Speaker 2: very angry by this. So I sent Matt quite a
Speaker 2: angry message about the cleaner, and I was like, the
Speaker 2: house looks like a piece of shit. It couldn't possibly
Speaker 2: look worse. It looks like she's done nothing. What are
Speaker 2: we paying her for? And I sent the text message.
Speaker 2: Didn't hear back from back for a little while, but
Speaker 2: I get this text message back about fifteen minutes later,
Speaker 2: and it just said, I'm sorry you're so disappointed with
Speaker 2: the service. Can you send us to cleaner? I sent
Speaker 2: the text message to my air task cleaner. Well least
Speaker 2: she got it the message around and clear. Well yes,
Speaker 2: what did she say? Just that? But you still want
Speaker 2: me to pay off? Didn't give me a discount? Did
Speaker 2: you ride back again?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 5: Not yet?
Speaker 2: You have left her on red. Did you pay her?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: Why you don't sound her confidently? I know I did
Speaker 2: pay I'm going to pay her out of guilt.
Speaker 4: She took you jewelry, Yeah, she's like, jokes on you.
Speaker 4: I took your kettle.
Speaker 2: I paid her out of the kig. My actual tactic
Speaker 2: was that I was going to ask for a bit
Speaker 2: of a discount, and I don't think I can after
Speaker 2: I just insult her and swore out of everyone. She's
Speaker 2: not giving it back. Okay, I did it out of
Speaker 2: guilt and pity.
Speaker 4: We've all had an experience like this.
Speaker 3: When did you accidentally send a text to the person
Speaker 3: The message was about give us a call, and I
Speaker 3: don't think you can top that.
Speaker 2: I feel some people have probably done it in their relationships.
Speaker 1: Which it all the time, really, yeah, all the time,
Speaker 1: think about many things at once.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can never run saying you're thinking about the
Speaker 2: person and then you send it to the person. That's
Speaker 2: what happened.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, all right, let's get some horror stories.
Speaker 3: Call us thirteen about six five talking a wrong text,
Speaker 3: wrong person, wrong time.
Speaker 4: We've all done it.
Speaker 3: You will sent a text which is meant to be
Speaker 3: about the person that sent it to that person.
Speaker 2: Yes, do you know what I once did? I mean,
Speaker 2: we all know about the cleaner story, But I once
Speaker 2: an ex. Well, it wasn't next my friend at the time,
Speaker 2: Steve was his name.
Speaker 4: That sounds so fake.
Speaker 2: It was really his next, Steve Glass. We were best friends,
Speaker 2: and he sent me a text message and said, hey,
Speaker 2: I have feelings for you. Would it be okay maybe
Speaker 2: if we go on a date or something. And I
Speaker 2: sent a text message to my girlfriend that said Steve
Speaker 2: just asked me on a date, as if I would
Speaker 2: ever date him, And I sent it back to Steve.
Speaker 2: Oh I did the opposite.
Speaker 1: I got asked out by a really hot guy, like
Speaker 1: a really really beautiful guy, and I took a screenshot
Speaker 1: of the conversation to send to my friends.
Speaker 2: Oh god, I sent it back to him. I sent
Speaker 2: the screech of nothing more lame is there? When you're
Speaker 2: just like you got to just admit it because you
Speaker 2: can't get out of it.
Speaker 1: You're like, this is it, but like, let's let's hear
Speaker 1: I don't know. Surely someone out there can make me
Speaker 1: feel a little bit better about it.
Speaker 3: Maria in Brunswick. I'm thirteen one, I sixty five. Hello,
Speaker 3: who did you take?
Speaker 6: Guys? Harry going good?
Speaker 2: What did you do?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 7: So I sent a snap to the person I was
Speaker 7: talking about on Snapchat. Basically We're going to a Coldplay concert.
Speaker 7: And it was kind of like someone that I was
Speaker 7: somewhat seeing at the time. We had waited in the
Speaker 7: line all day and then we got there and they
Speaker 7: were like, oh, I want to stand at the back,
Speaker 7: and I was like really pissed off at the whole situation.
Speaker 7: The next day, I'm having a mad rant about it,
Speaker 7: like I can't believe we waited this whole time waiting
Speaker 7: for this concert, Coldplay, favorite band. We're at the back,
Speaker 7: mad mad rant, And I've.
Speaker 6: Sent it directly to them, sending it to all my friends.
Speaker 2: What did he say?
Speaker 7: I was like, like an unfriend kind of situation.
Speaker 2: It was an unfriend situation.
Speaker 4: Very diplomatic from Maria too.
Speaker 3: It was no unfriendly conscious act coupling, all right, Kate
Speaker 3: Who did you message Kate?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 8: Hi, Yes, so I messaged my boss instead of my
Speaker 8: boyfriend one day when I was job hunting.
Speaker 9: Oh so yeah.
Speaker 8: I sent them the link to the seakad and basically
Speaker 8: said this looks way better. I'm definitely applying. And my
Speaker 8: boss wrote back saying, what's the.
Speaker 2: Oh what happened?
Speaker 1: What was that?
Speaker 2: What was the end result? You still worked?
Speaker 1: There?
Speaker 8: No, the relationship went down hill pretty quick. It wasn't
Speaker 8: a really great hence I was looking. But my boss
Speaker 8: and my boyfriend had the same name, start was the
Speaker 8: same initial, so it was very easily done.
Speaker 6: I should have been more careful.
Speaker 2: There was another conscious un coupling goodness with me.
Speaker 3: Thanks Kate, Hannah wrap it up for us. Who did
Speaker 3: you accidentally text?
Speaker 1: Hi? Hi?
Speaker 6: Well, I'm mortified even talking you about this, but we
Speaker 6: love it. I was sending a message to my boyfriend
Speaker 6: and I was just a full sexy my lingerie and
Speaker 6: I send it to my dad.
Speaker 7: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what level of laundree?
Speaker 9: You know?
Speaker 1: There's like a one or two and a three, Like
Speaker 1: there's the seage read there's like where the nipples pop through?
Speaker 2: Was it a photo?
Speaker 6: It was a photo? Look? It was it was pretty reveally.
Speaker 2: Okay, wait wait, wait, how did you accidentally send it
Speaker 2: to your dad? Because you were thinking of your dad
Speaker 2: at the time, Like, how did the dad come into
Speaker 2: the picture?
Speaker 6: They've got very similar names. So well, my boyfriend's same
Speaker 6: day and there was dad, And I only just messaged
Speaker 6: my dad that day anyway, so I was sort of
Speaker 6: just and it was in the heat of the moment.
Speaker 2: And what did your dad say? What'd your dad say back?
Speaker 2: Was he just like dig eight?
Speaker 6: He just avoided it? Really, we both used that awkward
Speaker 6: but that did not happen because like he said nothing.
Speaker 2: Yes, forget Dad, I wasn't thinking of you.
Speaker 4: I swear bonding experience. All right, we've got to ask Guncut. Next.
Speaker 4: We get a listener's qualm on and we answered the
Speaker 4: best as we can.
Speaker 2: It's completely unqualified enthusiastic that way.
Speaker 4: I really shot at that.
Speaker 8: Ask Uncut.
Speaker 2: So ask gun Cut is an episode we do on
Speaker 2: the podcast every week. It is where you write in
Speaker 2: you're deep, you're dark, you're burning questions and we do
Speaker 2: our absolute best to answer them. Now, we received one
Speaker 2: this week and it was a very long ask gun Cut,
Speaker 2: So I'm going to summarize it but basically the woman
Speaker 2: who wrote in she is a FI faux worker. Now,
Speaker 2: she said she works in flying, So she works in
Speaker 2: the mines basically, but she said it's a very male
Speaker 2: dominated industry that she works in. And she has recently
Speaker 2: fallen in love with a guy who she works with
Speaker 2: in the mines. Now they've taken their relationship a little
Speaker 2: bit more public, but he's been keeping things kind of
Speaker 2: on the DL. And it turns out the reason that
Speaker 2: he's been keeping on the DL is because he's going
Speaker 2: through a messy divorce. At the moment, they're not separated,
Speaker 2: apparently they're still living with each other and he's working
Speaker 2: through it. Now she's already I know, I can see
Speaker 2: everyone's faces. She's already invested in him, and she wants
Speaker 2: to know. Does she wait and wait for him to
Speaker 2: work it out with his wife as in like go
Speaker 2: through the divorce proceedings, or is this just a big
Speaker 2: cover up and he's actually still happily married and she's
Speaker 2: a side piece.
Speaker 1: Look, historically speaking, I'm going to say he's probably still
Speaker 1: married and he's pulling the wool over her eyes. That's
Speaker 1: where I mean, like, that's where I want to go
Speaker 1: straight away.
Speaker 2: You know, that was the first thing that I thought.
Speaker 2: I was like, if you think that maybe they're still
Speaker 2: happily married, they're probably still happily now.
Speaker 1: You know why I say that is because it's not
Speaker 1: like this was brought up at the beginning when they
Speaker 1: started dating.
Speaker 2: She's only just found this out.
Speaker 1: If you really were going through a divorce and it
Speaker 1: was taking this time, you'd say that when you met
Speaker 1: someone and started.
Speaker 2: Dating, yes, not just like it's obviously that.
Speaker 1: She's discovered something or something's come out and he said, oh, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: you know, we're together, but it's not good. It's like
Speaker 1: where we are separating, I'm calling bullshit.
Speaker 2: I feel like when people can say, oh, oh, it's
Speaker 2: just it's really hard, we're trying to work through stuff,
Speaker 2: like they always are going to overinflate it to the
Speaker 2: person that they're cheating with. Right they're away, was going
Speaker 2: to say, oh, my relationship, it's been really difficult. I
Speaker 2: bet if you asked his wife if they're in a
Speaker 2: difficult phase, she might have a different feeling about their relationships.
Speaker 2: She might have no idea that they're having hard times.
Speaker 2: It's difficult because we're for a child. Maybe that's it
Speaker 2: like they're probably in very difficult.
Speaker 4: So it's probably difficult because he's FIFO. That is a
Speaker 4: tough life to live.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it really is, isn't it? Advice in this situation,
Speaker 2: I think unless you can be absolutely sure, like one
Speaker 2: hundred percent sure that they are separated, they are going
Speaker 2: through the divorce proceedings, he's moved out, they're not still
Speaker 2: living together, then I think I would cut my losses
Speaker 2: and make some separation from this situation. Yeah, I agree you,
Speaker 2: I mean I agree to.
Speaker 1: I'd be tapping out. And there's plenty of fish in
Speaker 1: the sea. There's plenty of stones in the mine.
Speaker 2: Is that something? Capacity of males out in those mines?
Speaker 2: Find someone else.
Speaker 3: Get slide into the DM's Life Uncut podcast and we'll
Speaker 3: get you on the show. If you've got some question
Speaker 3: that needs answering or a conundrum, we'll do our best.
Speaker 10: All right.
Speaker 4: Joining us on the way today is Rob Mills, Millsie.
Speaker 4: He's got a new book out and he's a good
Speaker 4: egg Millsy.
Speaker 2: We love Mills. He's talking all about his experiences with masculinity.
Speaker 2: Just one of these overachievers. He sings, he dances, he
Speaker 2: acts theater. He's handsome. He's written a book.
Speaker 1: But yeah, there's a reason we love him because he's
Speaker 1: absolutely Brilliant's been.
Speaker 3: A lot of wedding talk on this show. Brittany, your
Speaker 3: sister got married. She had two weddings.
Speaker 1: It's wedding season, isn't it. But I don't think that
Speaker 1: means you have to have two. But yes, my sister
Speaker 1: had two weddings. Lawyas getting married soon or I've got
Speaker 1: a lot of friends getting engaged in married.
Speaker 2: It's really the time for a single people to feel
Speaker 2: it warmer. That's why everyone wants a warm weddings, so
Speaker 2: they do it at the end.
Speaker 1: Of the year. We need some winter weddings, guys. Spread
Speaker 1: it out because I wone go get married in the snow.
Speaker 2: I'm worried it's going to rain. Bluddy Lannina, good luck. No,
Speaker 2: I don't believe that it is good luck.
Speaker 3: Well listen, this Australian ex girlfriend has sparked some wedding
Speaker 3: chat online. She's selling her wedding ring and it's caused
Speaker 3: a wild debate on the internet.
Speaker 2: Somebody is trying to howk that Tiffany's ring like they're
Speaker 2: trying to hok it on Facebook, Marketplace it's nice.
Speaker 4: It's a big rock.
Speaker 9: Is that?
Speaker 2: What's wrong with that? Okay, it's a one carrot ring.
Speaker 2: It's quite beautiful. It's set in platinum. It's valued at
Speaker 2: twenty three thousand dollars, and she's.
Speaker 4: A fair price Laury. You'd know who Tony Man.
Speaker 2: I mean, that seems a bit steep, but it is Tiffany,
Speaker 2: so they always put things up a bit. Okay, twenty
Speaker 2: three thousand dollars and she's selling it for eighteen thousand,
Speaker 2: five hundred and this is which he's written bargain compared
Speaker 2: to current Tiffany pricings of one carrot rings at twenty
Speaker 2: three thousand, six hundred dollars. I am letting go of
Speaker 2: this beauty at eighteen five hundred dollars. The condition is
Speaker 2: close to brand new, never worn much. Sorry, no receipt
Speaker 2: as I obviously didn't buy it for myself, being transfers only.
Speaker 2: Now this has sparked a huge debate between whether it
Speaker 2: is actually okay as a woman to sell an engagement
Speaker 2: ring when the wedding has been called off.
Speaker 1: I mean it depends because if he has done the
Speaker 1: dirty and if he's cheating, well then yes I would
Speaker 1: be going and selling that ring, I'd be adding some mayo,
Speaker 1: I'd be adding some inflation. But if she has cheated,
Speaker 1: then no, I think that she needs to leave the
Speaker 1: ring with him.
Speaker 3: Look, I think this is a case. Really at the
Speaker 3: end of the day, no one else can bust this.
Speaker 3: But other than Laura Burne, let's do law's laws.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, So we did do a little bit of
Speaker 2: a research into this, and assuming that it was a
Speaker 2: traditional engagement, the laws are, if a woman who has
Speaker 2: received a ring in contemplation of marriage refuse to fulfill
Speaker 2: the condition of the gift, she must return the ring.
Speaker 2: So basically, if she oh yeah, I like that? Did
Speaker 2: that turn anyone else on? So basically, if you change
Speaker 2: your mind, you have to return the ring. It is
Speaker 2: no longer your property. The second law is if a
Speaker 2: man refuses to carry out his promise of marriage without
Speaker 2: legal justification, he cannot demand the ring in return. So
Speaker 2: if he's the one who decides that he doesn't want
Speaker 2: to get married, he can't ask for it back. But
Speaker 2: there's nothing about cheating in this. I feel like it's
Speaker 2: a diplomatic way of saying cheating, right, No, because I
Speaker 2: think that that's debatable. What if you cheated, but you
Speaker 2: still wanted the marriage to go forward, then you don't
Speaker 2: like that. Those rules don't apply.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: So if he cheated but he still wants to get married,
Speaker 2: and he's not the one to call off the wedding,
Speaker 2: then she technically can't keep the ring, is how it
Speaker 2: would be interpreted. Is cheating not legal justification?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Is that not against legal justification? You need a lawyer,
Speaker 2: you know, a real lawyer.
Speaker 4: Sorry, I just good point.
Speaker 2: You just love it, you just love the sound of Well. No,
Speaker 2: because I think ultimately, cheating is a moral thing. It's
Speaker 2: not a legal thing. You can legally cheat on someone.
Speaker 2: Trust me, I wish my ex would go to prison.
Speaker 2: You can cheat on someone and it's not a legal thing.
Speaker 2: So I think unfortunately, when it comes to actual money
Speaker 2: and which is an engagement ring, just because someone's cheated,
Speaker 2: that's not enough of a basis to say that that
Speaker 2: then passes the ownership of that ring.
Speaker 1: On producer miss here for next week, Dragon, we could
Speaker 1: get a divorce later on the radio show Jack, we
Speaker 1: could ask some hard questions.
Speaker 2: We absolutely can. Okay, I've got some questions here for
Speaker 2: some scenarios that I think we need to ask a
Speaker 2: divorce law Britney Hockley doesn't believe laws laws. I did
Speaker 2: the due diligence and still not good enough.
Speaker 1: I'd like to have some curiosity, that's all. I'd like
Speaker 1: to see where you got your RW degree from laws Laws.
Speaker 2: It's from cis.
Speaker 4: Actually the case closed for now. You might pick back
Speaker 4: up next week.
Speaker 3: Joining us now, guys, Rob Mills, actor, singer, Broadway star.
Speaker 3: He's now an author to his brand new book, Putting
Speaker 3: on a Show manhood Mates and Mental Health.
Speaker 4: It's a good read. It's available everywhere.
Speaker 11: Hello Mills, e guys, thank you so much for having me.
Speaker 2: Rather, how has it been since launching the book this week?
Speaker 4: Really good?
Speaker 11: Actually, really great response, some really good reviews, Like people
Speaker 11: have already read it within the week, which is for me,
Speaker 11: I'm like a two or three week before I can
Speaker 11: actually finish a book. So some people have actually picked
Speaker 11: it up and written reviews about it already.
Speaker 2: So do you sound surprised by.
Speaker 11: That about people reading books?
Speaker 4: You're like, well, a lot of.
Speaker 2: People have actually left me a review and read it.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 1: No, I mean like you came on the podcast recently.
Speaker 1: We absolutely love you. The book is absolutely incredible. I
Speaker 1: don't think you should be shook that people are loving it.
Speaker 1: I mean, for me, I take about a year to
Speaker 1: read a book. In all honesty, I'm it's like I
Speaker 1: drink I read a book like I drink my coffee,
Speaker 1: like very very slow in the state of a coffee
Speaker 1: after a year.
Speaker 11: No, I think it's Yeah, I'm wrapped, and I'm hoping
Speaker 11: the response. It's one of those sort of word of
Speaker 11: mouth kind of things because I know most my audiences
Speaker 11: mainly women, but the book is definitely for so maybe
Speaker 11: women will give it to their partners. But yeah, I'm
Speaker 11: just wrapped that it's out and that people can get
Speaker 11: some tips and tricks or just you know, a bit
Speaker 11: more about myself, but also about the state of the world,
Speaker 11: of the manly world that we're in or the less
Speaker 11: manly world that we're in.
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of the manly world that we're in, you
Speaker 2: are a theater loving and forty loving man, and those
Speaker 2: two things don't usually sit together, or we don't expect
Speaker 2: them to sit together.
Speaker 10: For sure.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well they should exactly. You speak about this in
Speaker 2: your book and also in some of the discussions we've had.
Speaker 2: How do you think masculinity is changing look along with
Speaker 2: a lot.
Speaker 11: Of things, we're sort of getting moving away from stereotypes
Speaker 11: and things are becoming more fluid. We're happier to sit
Speaker 11: in the gray area. I imagine a lot of mass
Speaker 11: media and probably social media is trying to put everything
Speaker 11: to be black and white.
Speaker 2: Can I ask you a question?
Speaker 1: This is like just really curious for myself. We met
Speaker 1: you quite a long time ago. We won't put a
Speaker 1: number on it on Australian idol. So you're obviously first
Speaker 1: and foremost you are a singer, but you have done
Speaker 1: a lot of acting. You actually one best actor I
Speaker 1: don't know if it was in the UK Australia, but
Speaker 1: it was for Neighbors. You've done a lot of other acting.
Speaker 1: You're in Wicked next year, which is a theater production.
Speaker 11: I just launched Wicked, but I'm not doing Wicked.
Speaker 10: I am.
Speaker 11: An ambassador or for Wicked the show itself, as an
Speaker 11: original company member. They asked myself and Lustie to your
Speaker 11: act to launch the show.
Speaker 2: I was trying to get you a job on there.
Speaker 2: Then sorry, it.
Speaker 11: May or may not be doing another show next year,
Speaker 11: which I can't talk about, okay.
Speaker 2: So obviously we'll get you back next year to launch
Speaker 2: that show.
Speaker 10: But no.
Speaker 1: But my question is, because you started as a singer
Speaker 1: on a reality show, but you've done all these acting
Speaker 1: and you won these actor in awards. Did that just
Speaker 1: happen organically or did you go to an acting school
Speaker 1: and do that and just we didn't hear about it.
Speaker 11: I did drama and year nine and y ten, and
Speaker 11: then I changed schools to go and do drama and
Speaker 11: you eleven and twelve. But I dropped out at the
Speaker 11: end of year eleven because I was too scared to
Speaker 11: do it in front of people. I didn't think I
Speaker 11: was any good. But years later I picked it back
Speaker 11: up by falling in love with musical feed outro.
Speaker 2: It has been almost has it been twenty years now?
Speaker 4: As you were on Idol?
Speaker 2: I mean I literally just said I was gonna put
Speaker 2: I might happy to just throw it out it. But
Speaker 2: because like that is a long time and a lot
Speaker 2: has changed in the reality TV world, would you ever
Speaker 2: do another reality TV show?
Speaker 11: I think I've done them all. I think I'm all out.
Speaker 11: I think I've clocked it. I think I've clocked the
Speaker 11: game of reality TV. But I go in to try
Speaker 11: and be a pop star on a reality show. No,
Speaker 11: whould I like to go on a show that challenges
Speaker 11: me and something in going to show that I think
Speaker 11: I can learn something from from other people.
Speaker 2: Yes, we can't wait to see you on Survivor. Then yeah,
Speaker 2: that's confirmed.
Speaker 11: No, nobody needs to see me angry.
Speaker 3: Hey Milsey, we've got a bunch of headlines we've collated
Speaker 3: than the girls have a pile of headlines written about you.
Speaker 3: It's a game we play on the show. Are called headlines,
Speaker 3: so some are real, some are fake. It's your job
Speaker 3: to debunk them. You're good to stick around and we'll
Speaker 3: quiz you out.
Speaker 11: Love it.
Speaker 7: I love it.
Speaker 4: Rob Mills is here.
Speaker 3: His brand new book, Putting on a Show manhood Mates
Speaker 3: and Mental Health is available now and he's going to
Speaker 3: debunk some of the headlines that.
Speaker 4: Have been written about him. It's a show staple, right, ladies.
Speaker 2: Headlines is your opportunity to tell us exactly the true
Speaker 2: story of what lies beneath. Whether it's a headline or
Speaker 2: a headline, let's.
Speaker 4: Play head lies.
Speaker 2: Rob Mills turns down offer to host the new series
Speaker 2: of Australian Idol.
Speaker 11: Oh that's really good. I wish it's a lot.
Speaker 2: Here's a headline. Now, if you had been offered the job,
Speaker 2: would you have done it?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 11: I mean I love I love doing workshops for kids
Speaker 11: across the country, in musical theater workshops and performance workshops.
Speaker 11: So yeah, it's right up, my Aley and I also
Speaker 11: got to host The Young Talent Time a few years ago.
Speaker 2: Greedy is coming for you.
Speaker 11: Yeah, all right, I love Tweety. I'm so rapp that
Speaker 11: he got the Job's so wrapped.
Speaker 1: You too, You're too diplomatic, okay, go star. Rob Mills
Speaker 1: reveals how I got my swazy body.
Speaker 11: Well, that sounds that sounds that sounds like a truth.
Speaker 11: That was really hard of it.
Speaker 4: That's real, that was true.
Speaker 2: What did you do to get get a body like that?
Speaker 11: Lots of training? Looks a good eating. Yeah, I would
Speaker 11: just say it's the old thing. It's sirventy percent training.
Speaker 4: The other answer as.
Speaker 2: Well, it's like the old happens in a kitchen kind
Speaker 2: of thing, isn't.
Speaker 8: It in the kitchen?
Speaker 11: All right, I've got another like a beer.
Speaker 2: Okay. Rob Mills and Georgie Tunney have monthly relationship check ins.
Speaker 11: Yeah, this is true.
Speaker 2: God, these are all true. How does this help? What
Speaker 2: is a relationship check in each month.
Speaker 11: Usually it's like a drive in the car or a
Speaker 11: long wall and it's just kind of what it'll be done. Well,
Speaker 11: that sounds very corporatey, doesn't it When I say.
Speaker 1: It like that?
Speaker 2: We sit downe for a board meeting once a month.
Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, we got a whiteboard, we go through the
Speaker 11: pros and yeah.
Speaker 2: All right, we got one more Rob and this is
Speaker 2: a goody. I hope to God that this one's real.
Speaker 1: Rob Mills strips down to g sturing at Clavelli Beach
Speaker 1: in Sydney after announcing his engagement because he now has
Speaker 1: a swazy body.
Speaker 11: It does sound like, mate, don't.
Speaker 2: Oh damn it. I was hoping there'd be some pat
Speaker 2: pictures to go along with that headline.
Speaker 3: All right, Mills is new book, putting on a show
Speaker 3: manhood Mates and Mental Health is available now you can
Speaker 3: grab it, have a good read, get it out there, guys.
Speaker 4: Thank you so much, MILSI great to have you on
Speaker 4: the show.
Speaker 11: Thanks ry supporting mental health months as well.
Speaker 4: Appreciate it, are you?
Speaker 7: Thanks?
Speaker 4: Alleged It's a Life Uncut Radio show. Brittany Hockley and
Speaker 4: Laura Ben Saturday Morning. Laura Burn just nods her head y,
Speaker 4: it is it is it is us.
Speaker 2: It's because you pause and it's the life uncut radio
Speaker 2: was do you forget it? Because he's like, is it
Speaker 2: the podcast? Is it a live show? Is it the
Speaker 2: radio show?
Speaker 1: Book?
Speaker 2: We do everything together? You do and all our time together?
Speaker 4: Now what's going on? Britt actually speaking of doing things together?
Speaker 4: This is so funny.
Speaker 3: Brittany now lives in Laura's old house. Your rental was up,
Speaker 3: and BRIT's like, I'll take it on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just can't get enough. I think it was
Speaker 2: more that it came out of convenience. Earlier this year,
Speaker 2: I moved to a house in Bronti and my two
Speaker 2: bedroom apartment that I was living in in Bondi was
Speaker 2: bacont and we thought it would an easy trade because
Speaker 2: britt has a dog. I had a dog that that
Speaker 2: apartment has a great outdoor area. So she just moved
Speaker 2: in and I moved out. So there's this lady. This
Speaker 2: is the problem, right, this is the problem. Having the
Speaker 2: house great.
Speaker 1: There's a lady that lives upstairs and she's a bit
Speaker 1: no I want to say crazy, but she's got some problems.
Speaker 2: Now she's the worst part of that apartment. She's an
Speaker 2: older lady. She sits outside all day.
Speaker 1: And what she used to do to Laura a few
Speaker 1: times was when you would be outside putting your washing
Speaker 1: out right, you'd put on the balcony. She would know
Speaker 1: it's there, and she would purposely pretend she's water in
Speaker 1: her balcony, so that water would go over her balcony
Speaker 1: above us and onto Laura's balcony.
Speaker 2: So she did it a few times, and I caught
Speaker 2: her doing it. So she would go out. She would
Speaker 2: look over the balcony, because you can sit out there.
Speaker 2: That's where outdoor patios the furniture stuff is. She would
Speaker 2: look over the balcony, she would see my washing, and
Speaker 2: then she would start hosing down her balcony, so all
Speaker 2: the possum, poo and everything would start floating off and
Speaker 2: just trickle down onto my clothes.
Speaker 3: It happened to me too, when you had a co
Speaker 3: I dropped you a croissant and was trying to help
Speaker 3: my sick friend, and she was hosing me down.
Speaker 1: She woked, so she watered Mitch Churry right mit, wait
Speaker 1: for it, Mitch Churry was on the other side of
Speaker 1: the balcony giving me a COVID croissant.
Speaker 2: And she knows in the day she comes out, she
Speaker 2: started to water Mitch. Then Mitch get this.
Speaker 1: A couple of days ago, Laura and produce a Keisha
Speaker 1: of our podcast was We're having a meeting at my
Speaker 1: house and I was walking them out. So we're all
Speaker 1: standing outside at the end of the balcony and we
Speaker 1: were saying our goodbyes as I'll see them out the gate,
Speaker 1: the three of us.
Speaker 2: Ten thirty in the morning, broad daylight.
Speaker 1: She walks out with her hose and hoses all three
Speaker 1: of us down outside.
Speaker 2: We were so we were standing.
Speaker 4: There close to the eye.
Speaker 2: But it's truly comical, like it's like we're out there chatting,
Speaker 2: so she can obviously hear that we're outside. You hear
Speaker 2: the glass doors open because she's only on the balcony
Speaker 2: directly above. You hear the glass doors go and the slide.
Speaker 2: And then she turns the hose on and just walks
Speaker 2: over to the side and starts hosing us.
Speaker 1: She literally hosts us down, and you're like, you literally
Speaker 1: say an excuse, excuse me, like Dona, we're here, and
Speaker 1: then you just hear it.
Speaker 2: Turn the pressure up more. She does, spraying hard.
Speaker 3: All right, Well, let's do a community service call out.
Speaker 3: If you've got a bad neighbor and you want to
Speaker 3: get it off your chest, we'll open the lines and
Speaker 3: you can vent to us because we know what it's like.
Speaker 2: Well, if you have a worse neighbor than that, she
Speaker 2: also put a combine. That's another story.
Speaker 4: She's doing a lot of to talk to the therapists.
Speaker 3: Right, will take your calls now, thirteen one oh sixty five.
Speaker 3: What's your beef with your neighbor? Talking neighbors from hell
Speaker 3: or like above neighbors. That's still a neighbor, right, it's
Speaker 3: your above floor neighbor.
Speaker 2: Well, I think I like, one of the walls has
Speaker 2: to be touching.
Speaker 1: So my ceiling is her floor, and my balcony is
Speaker 1: underneath her balcony, and she waters me daily like she's
Speaker 1: watering the plants.
Speaker 2: I don't even think. I mean, we have multiple neighbors
Speaker 2: in the apartment block next door. I like some of them.
Speaker 2: I don't like some of them. I think if they're
Speaker 2: in a close enough vicinity to you to where you live,
Speaker 2: and they impact you in any way, they're your neighbor.
Speaker 3: Yep, so brit has them. It's been your neighbor. I've
Speaker 3: had neighbors from hell. I think it's an Australian universal experience.
Speaker 3: So thirteen one oh six y five, get off your chest.
Speaker 3: We've got Maddie. Hi, tell us about your neighbor from hell.
Speaker 8: Hallo.
Speaker 12: Oh my god, I'm starstruck at the moment.
Speaker 2: Sorry, no, keep going, you more more more more.
Speaker 10: So.
Speaker 5: Me and my husband got home one day and our
Speaker 5: neighbor had chain sawed our tree down from our front yard.
Speaker 5: She had pulled up all of our garden and had
Speaker 5: actually gone into our backyard and re arranged all of
Speaker 5: our furniture.
Speaker 2: What do you think she's at the wrong house? Why
Speaker 2: did she come into your backyard? The front kind?
Speaker 5: She was crazy from the day we moved in, always
Speaker 5: doing all sorts of things. But this was our final
Speaker 5: straw and we contacted the real estate. We were like,
Speaker 5: we have just had enough, so we moved.
Speaker 11: It was great.
Speaker 2: I mean, that's breaking into That's what I said.
Speaker 5: I was like, she's literally come onto our property, into
Speaker 5: our backyard as well.
Speaker 2: Okay, you think she's been watching too many renovation design shows?
Speaker 4: All right, let's go to I'm thirteen six five Ocean. Hey,
Speaker 4: what's your neighbour story?
Speaker 1: Hey?
Speaker 6: Hi, I was at your live show last week and
Speaker 6: I absolutely loved it.
Speaker 12: Thank you so much, Thank you massive OGFIM, thank you
Speaker 12: so much.
Speaker 2: We're so glad you had fun. We're still buzzing from it.
Speaker 12: Yeah, it might be when my neighbor is I lived
Speaker 12: on the Central Coast in like suburbia, and they won't
Speaker 12: let us park the car in front of their house,
Speaker 12: like on the street, and my sister like slept over
Speaker 12: one night and had her car park in front of
Speaker 12: their house, and we woke up in the morning and
Speaker 12: they reversed their car deliberately, like millimeters from the front
Speaker 12: of her car, and then left the note don't park
Speaker 12: in front of our house, park across the street, Like
Speaker 12: totally ridiculous.
Speaker 4: What my Mum's this person?
Speaker 3: My mind, My mind sits out the front of her house,
Speaker 3: peers through the Venetian blinds and would bark like a
Speaker 3: dog if anyone parks out in the front.
Speaker 2: Of her house. No, do you know what, You don't
Speaker 2: own the street.
Speaker 4: I know, but people get very territorial of their parking spot.
Speaker 2: No, because I think when things like this happen, it
Speaker 2: makes me think, God, your will must be so little
Speaker 2: to be so angry about something like that.
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, sure it is.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, sorry missus Cherry.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, she loves you guys, so I shall be
Speaker 4: really cut to hear that.
Speaker 3: No, I kind of get that, but that is very
Speaker 3: annoying when you've got a neighbor who's leaving your notes.
Speaker 3: All right, let's go over Ellen. I'm thirteen one, I
Speaker 3: six ' five wrap it up for us. Ellen, your
Speaker 3: neighbor from hell?
Speaker 4: What are they doing?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 10: Actually, where the neighbor from hell?
Speaker 2: We had a confession.
Speaker 6: So our dog he dug under the.
Speaker 9: Fence and our neighbors had a whole coop of chickens,
Speaker 9: so he ate one of their chickens. And then we
Speaker 9: felt so awful about it, so we baked them a cake,
Speaker 9: We sent them money, we took them flowers.
Speaker 6: We felt awful.
Speaker 10: And then that night we're going to knock on our
Speaker 10: front door and they come back with a tray of
Speaker 10: spring rolls, which they always make like delicious food, and
Speaker 10: they use a lot of their own produce. But as
Speaker 10: we were eating the spring rolls, we realized the spring
Speaker 10: rolls were these of chickens.
Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, they gave you the dead chickens in
Speaker 1: spring roll is that what you're saying.
Speaker 10: Yes, we put two and two together and there was
Speaker 10: their chicken was inside these spring rolls.
Speaker 2: From hell. That is you guys are even now you
Speaker 2: can start fresh.
Speaker 10: As we were trying to work out, like is this
Speaker 10: revenge or what.
Speaker 3: Is the dog in your bed for the time being, Ellen,
Speaker 3: I think that's probably for the safety of the animal.
Speaker 2: Goodness made closer. Yeah, don't take food from your neighbors.
Speaker 4: Goodness may all right, that is us for the day.
Speaker 4: We're done, ladies. What's on the pod?
Speaker 2: Okay, we have an awesome episode coming up on the
Speaker 2: podcast this week. It is such a saucy, sexy, wild
Speaker 2: little episode. So we're interviewing a woman named Jess and
Speaker 2: she is the owner of a sex club in Sydney.
Speaker 2: It is called Our Secret Spot, and it is it's
Speaker 2: not even underground. It's just literally a sex club that
Speaker 2: runs from a Thursday through to a Saturday. You can
Speaker 2: buy a ticket and you can go and have a
Speaker 2: real wild time.
Speaker 1: And we find out all about it, and you guys
Speaker 1: aren't going to find out about this, but what's wild
Speaker 1: is off air. She told us that there's a couple
Speaker 1: a listers that have been going there but I mean,
Speaker 1: we're not going to spoil that, we're not going to
Speaker 1: tell that she's made a sign of an NBA. But
Speaker 1: but it was absolutely wild and I'm thinking that maybe
Speaker 1: we need to do some team bonding at.
Speaker 2: The want to go to the EPIS Club? What do
Speaker 2: you guys? Reckon? Would you go?
Speaker 4: I have a Christmas party there?
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's have a Christmas in the orgy room.
Speaker 4: Oh nice, bring the scene presents, secret Santa.
Speaker 2: That is it from us? Guys. Please don't beget to
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