WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: More TERRIBLE Job Interviews 📋 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:14.520 Laura, come on. 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:20.560 Happy Thursday. Everyone the pick up his own ladies. We're 0:00:20.600 --> 0:00:21.759 all live to air babies. 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:25.200 Hello. I just put chocolate on my white top. 0:00:25.239 --> 0:00:27.600 I've just realized that now I had a chocolate protein 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:29.480 by and this is my first white this. 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:31.639 Is my it's down south. It kind of looks like 0:00:31.720 --> 0:00:32.520 from the nether regions. 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:34.440 Oh my god, just packing them down south. I've just 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:37.080 been getting more water transition. I've been getting lazizer on 0:00:37.120 --> 0:00:40.280 my hair. Well not well, yes, Laura, but that's not 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:42.200 what I was going to say. Not on your legs. 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:44.640 I mean, I already know you share too much with me. 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:45.479 I was getting it. 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:49.960 I'm getting laser hair removal on my legs, Brazilian and underarms. 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:51.639 Like I just pigured, I'd get the whole lot. 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:53.320 Right, whatever hair is you want, it wants to be 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:55.040 a sphinx cat from the eyeballs down. 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:57.760 I want to be a sphinx. But I went in 0:00:58.400 --> 0:00:59.319 and because you have. 0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:00.920 To if you don't know about you have to get 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:03.000 it in like every four to six weeks, and you 0:01:03.000 --> 0:01:04.880 have to get it six or eight times, so it's. 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:06.880 A whole big pro and then it kills it permanently. Right, 0:01:07.040 --> 0:01:07.759 So yeah. 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:10.800 Yeah. It grows back like very fine, like little flimsy 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:11.280 little head. 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:15.279 And she's like, okay, rollover. You don't have any pants 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:19.000 on right because it's Brazilian. It's just very vulnerable bury there. 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:21.200 And she's like, okay, rollover, we'll do the. 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:23.440 Back of the legs. And there's no little towel. Modesty 0:01:23.440 --> 0:01:24.160 towel is nothing. 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:26.880 So I rolled over my tummy and she's going up 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:28.760 the legs and she goes, are we doing the Hollywood? 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:29.480 The what? 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:31.679 And I said the Hollywood. She's like, yeah, do you 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:34.640 want the Hollywood? And I was like Hollywood. She's like 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:37.280 looking at me, She's like, yeah, do you get the Hollywood? 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:37.920 And I looked at her. 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:39.520 She looked at me and I was like, do you 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:43.240 mean my butthole? And she was like, yeah, that's part 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:43.760 of the package. 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:45.400 Do you want it? And I was like, the hole, 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:48.440 not the whole world? The Hollywood? Yeah, I think there 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:50.480 is a bit of a pun there the Hollywood. 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:53.680 Anyway, how's your butt now? 0:01:53.880 --> 0:01:57.440 I think white humbles you more than bright fluoro lights 0:01:57.680 --> 0:01:59.640 and pulling your butt checks. But so some other chicken 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:01.560 can get a laser gun in there, it's the pulling 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:03.720 you have to part ways you. 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:05.160 Should get it mere. Yeah. 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:07.280 Anyway, Look, coming off on the it was good for 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:10.639 you today kids, what do you have for recess? Look? 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:11.919 Everyone gets laser hair, they. 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:13.799 Do know, they do you so right, and Pop wants 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:16.040 to know what they're in store for because it is 0:02:16.080 --> 0:02:17.359 a little bit more confronting than you think. 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:19.839 I'll have to go to Jim's mowing before I got 0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:21.760 I got laser though, there'd be a bit of groundwork 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:22.280 to do for me. 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:24.680 I'm a hairy No, you shave it first and then 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:26.560 they laser back inside. 0:02:26.600 --> 0:02:28.600 So I learned so much hosting this show with you girls. 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:32.080 The Mother's Day this weekend. A thousand dollars cashes up 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:33.760 for grabs on this show today, which is very exciting. 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:35.120 That's going to happen before four o'clock. 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:37.520 Yeah, and also Thursday, which means it's ask gun Cut 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:39.480 where you guys call up and you you know, you 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:41.320 get a little bit of free therapy here at the show. 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:41.720 Yeah. 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:43.639 I feel like we just gave brit some free therapy there. 0:02:43.680 --> 0:02:46.640 I think I need therapy. You feel judged. Let's do no, no, no, 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:49.639 we don't judge you, Miss Hollywood. Let's do an ask 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:51.320 gun cut. Next to start a first day edition of 0:02:51.320 --> 0:02:51.840 The Pickup. 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:59.680 Welcome, Ask, Ask, gun Cut is one of our favorite segments. 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:03.000 We do it every Thursday. We call it Therapy Thursday. Basically, 0:03:03.120 --> 0:03:03.919 you call in. 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:06.560 With your biggest predicaments, your deepest, darkest problems. 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:09.200 We do our best to give you completely uneducated advice, 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:10.880 but we're very passionate about it. 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:13.040 It's definitely on thirteen one of sixty five. You need 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:15.240 some advice, You've come to the right place, grew therapy. 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:17.360 The Pickup is where people come. How can we help you? 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:18.240 What's your con under him? 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:21.280 So, I've been with my partner for a long time 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:24.880 and everything in our relationship is fine. There's nothing wrong 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:28.480 with him. We're very happy. The only thing is that 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:32.239 he really wants vinears. He's always been very unhappy with 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:36.840 his smile. And the thing is he wants Veneers. They're 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:39.160 very expensive and he thinks that he should dip into 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:41.200 our joint savings account to pay for them. 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:44.440 Oh no, that's a hit, that's an himn thing. 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:47.240 Hold on, no, no, get the facts. How bad are 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:49.240 his teeth? Since since you met him? Has he been 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:50.440 an insecurity for him? 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:51.400 Yeah? 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:53.960 And look, so he doesn't smile in photos. But I 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:56.040 don't look at him and think that it's bad. But 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:58.640 it's something that I think for him it's bad because, yeah, 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:01.040 he doesn't smile in photos. It's something he's always been 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:03.960 very self conscious about. And I do it's feel bad. 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:08.640 Five years and is he the one? Oh, no question, 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:12.320 he's the one. We're very happy together. The thing is, though, 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:15.400 without joint savings, we don't own our home, and it 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:19.279 would be I think, probably smarter that we keep building 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:22.799 for a deposit rather than dipping into it for something cosmetic. 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:24.600 I think if he wants to do this, it almost 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:28.120 has to be something he should pay for himself. 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:30.560 How much how much divining is cost? Do we know? 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:32.400 It's like ten thous looking at. 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:36.320 About yeah, okay, we'll be looking at about ten about 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:36.880 ten thousand. 0:04:37.040 --> 0:04:39.080 Can you not split it down the middle and be like, okay, 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:40.960 well we can put ten thousand dollars for your teeth 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:42.280 in from the joint account, and then you've got to 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:44.240 give me ten thousand dollars and I'll go do something 0:04:44.240 --> 0:04:44.920 with it that I want. 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:47.680 Oh it's not it's not two for two. 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:49.600 You don't go, hey, yeah, I'll pay for two front 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:50.960 teeth you pay for two bottom times. 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:53.159 I'm about to suggest maybe getting the top row only. 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:57.279 Okay, but I mean, yeah, it's very non essential. Like 0:04:57.320 --> 0:04:59.279 I mean, I would say for other things, like you know, 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:01.400 if it's a surgery or something you have to have 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:02.800 of cause you're going to pay for your partner. 0:05:03.160 --> 0:05:06.880 But venis it's just superficial. 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:09.440 Agree for a lot of people. I mean, your smile 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:12.679 and your teeth are like you said, he's so self 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:14.680 conscious and he doesn't smile. It's a really big thing 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:15.440 for a lot of people. 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:19.520 I think it's look for me. 0:05:19.760 --> 0:05:21.760 If I was with my partner for five years and 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:24.000 we were getting married and it's something that made him 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:27.960 deeply unhappy, I would probably be okay with it and think, Okay, 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:30.200 maybe it takes us a little bit longer to get 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:32.279 that renovation money if it's his day to day. 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:34.440 That he's living. But it's completely up to you. If 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:37.000 you know that you don't want to do that, you 0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:39.039 just say that. But I don't know. I think five 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:40.080 years and it's your partner. 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:42.479 For me, i'd probably want to try and make my 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:44.000 partner feel really happy. 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:45.520 Yeah, I reckon individual choice. 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:48.000 I reckon you can like split, don't dip into the 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:49.599 whole funds and pay for the whole thing. I think 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:51.800 he needs to pay for a chunk of it. But 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:55.560 I also think have you considered here, Stephanie, applying for 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:59.000 married at First Sight? Because think about it. Those contestants 0:05:59.000 --> 0:06:00.560 go on that show and what do they all come 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:02.560 off with, no love, free dental work. 0:06:02.680 --> 0:06:05.160 Yeah, this is very true. That's a good tactic. Or 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:07.240 is there anything that you want to get done? Maybe 0:06:07.279 --> 0:06:09.400 you want to go and get something, but lifted, you 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:11.960 don't get a BBL don't it takes. 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:13.760 Even more money away. I don't think it's like you 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:14.719 get this, I get this. 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:18.039 I think yeah, you're just making him happy and making 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:19.839 him smile as long as you say. 0:06:20.120 --> 0:06:22.159 Afraid to Yeah, and you put in the eye you 0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:25.520 how bad are we talking? Can you send us a 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:30.240 photo please? Producer Grace has a photo. Yeah, look at 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:37.040 these girls. They're pretty bad, bad bad. Hey, guys, it's 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:38.880 about what you all think, it's about what he thinks. 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:39.760 You know what they look like? 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:42.160 They look like Patricia Arquet from Medium, you know how 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:43.920 the front two kind of and I'm not negging, I'm 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:45.640 just saying for a visual for the listeners that the 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:47.560 front two kind of come in like a funnel. 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:50.599 I'm sure Patricia would think that you're negging her. 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:52.760 I'm just saying that's how the teeth look. For a 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:54.520 visual for the audience, asked. 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:57.000 The dentist if you can do a payment plan, a 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:57.880 long term payment plan. 0:06:57.920 --> 0:06:59.400 I know a lot of them do it or get 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:01.840 those you know, those teethies O break. 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:06.560 Now, as I'm sure a lot of us are already 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:09.000 familiar with, it is Mother's Day on the weekend, on Sunday, 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:11.960 and for so many moms out there, it is such 0:07:11.960 --> 0:07:14.840 a beautiful day. It's such an important day where we 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:17.600 get to celebrate the very important women in our life. 0:07:17.800 --> 0:07:20.120 But also, and I think it's become a more increasing 0:07:20.160 --> 0:07:23.280 conversation over the years, it can be a really challenging 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:25.160 day for a lot of women. It can be a 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:28.160 challenging day for women who have lost babies. It can 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:30.880 be a challenging day for women who have lost their mums. 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:34.600 And we're just talking about the statistics around this. Now 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:37.640 there's twelve million women in Australia and a quarter of 0:07:37.680 --> 0:07:41.240 those have lost their mums. And when you think about that, 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:43.200 that's just like there's going to be so many people 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:46.120 who not only wanting to celebrate the life of their mum, 0:07:46.160 --> 0:07:48.160 but also just the memory of them as well, and 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:51.480 that is the very reason why Motherless Daughters was created. 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:54.360 Motherless Daughters Australia. It's run by Danielle Snelling. She's a 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:57.960 co founder of this and we have Danielle on the show. 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:00.240 Danielle. Welcome to the pick up daniel. 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:02.560 Hi, guys, thank you for having me. 0:08:02.920 --> 0:08:03.520 Danielle. 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:06.880 What made you start this? I mean, do you call 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:09.600 it a foundation? Do you call it a community? 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:10.160 Yeah? 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:11.560 Not for profit organization? 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:13.800 For profit organization? What will they just start it? 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:17.800 Mom died when I was twenty three, so twelve years 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:21.200 ago now, and there was just no specific support. I 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:23.920 think that's such a critical age too, where you're kind 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:27.120 of still out partying and you don't expect to lose 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:32.200 your mum. So my friendships quickly changed my perspective, my priorities, 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:35.680 and I was really lonely and isolated and couldn't find 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:40.600 specific support. So set out to find someone just like me, 0:08:40.920 --> 0:08:45.600 and thank god, found her online and that first meeting 0:08:45.640 --> 0:08:48.880 we had together was just incredible, and went on and 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:52.800 started the organization together to help so many more women 0:08:53.000 --> 0:08:55.480 find that validation and connection. 0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:58.960 Danielle, what does Mother's Day mean to you? And I 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:01.160 know that that's probably a chanl lenging question to answer, 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:03.880 but when everybody else is talking about how we should 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:07.160 celebrate Mum and get Mama card and get mom this, Like, 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:09.280 what does that day mean to you? 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:14.600 Oh? Look, it's a really hard day's It really does 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:18.920 highlight what you have missing, and especially on socials when 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:21.000 you see all your friends out and about with their mum, 0:09:21.040 --> 0:09:25.800 which is wonderful for them, but absolutely heartbreaking for me 0:09:26.000 --> 0:09:28.240 and for those of us that are without their mum. 0:09:28.400 --> 0:09:30.880 So it's really challenging and isolating. 0:09:31.640 --> 0:09:32.040 Danielle. 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:34.600 I've seen some like a few companies do things like 0:09:34.760 --> 0:09:37.199 because obviously you get inundated with the Mother's Day messaging, 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:39.000 like you hear it on the radio, you hear it 0:09:39.040 --> 0:09:41.199 on social media, you get it in your bloody inbox, 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:43.200 you get the Mother's Day gifts and the discounts. And 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:46.040 I've seen some hacks online in the Facebook groups around 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:47.880 this stuff. You can opt out of emails so you 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:49.719 don't see these things in your feed. What do you 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:51.839 recommend and also maybe some advice to those out there, 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:55.000 how can we discuss a Mother's Day with friends of 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:56.760 ours that have lost their mums. 0:09:57.360 --> 0:10:00.480 Yeah, look, I think of holding space. It's so important 0:10:00.520 --> 0:10:03.320 to acknowledge and validate, and by those companies that are 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:06.280 offering you opt out, that's exactly what they're doing. And 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:09.360 I know from the twenty five thousand plus women in 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:13.960 our community, when they get that from a retailer, they 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:16.960 just love it. They feel seen, they feel heard, and 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:22.319 we're encouraging everyone. We know the conversation can be uncomfortable 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:25.400 and we feel a lot of discomfort around grief and loss, 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:29.040 but we're encouraging everyone to push past that and hold space. 0:10:29.280 --> 0:10:31.600 Ask your friend about their mum. Ask if they want 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:35.720 to talk about them, check in, say Mother's Days coming up. 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:38.200 We know it's a hard time. Want to grab a coffee, 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:41.840 tell me about your mum. Lean into the conversation rather 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:42.400 than a way. 0:10:42.760 --> 0:10:43.600 Yeah, it's so interesting. 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:46.719 So I feel like some people that would make them uncomfortable, 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:48.400 so they want to lean away from it for fear 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:51.599 of making you feel uncomfortable, fear of bringing up emotions 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:54.480 that maybe you're trying to push down on Mother's Day. 0:10:54.480 --> 0:10:56.720 But I think the reality is if you've lost someone 0:10:56.760 --> 0:11:00.480 who you love so deeply like your mum. Never you 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:02.319 never want to push those feelings away entirely because you 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:03.200 don't want to forget about them. 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:06.360 Yeah, yeah, one hundred percent. We've actually just launched a 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:10.640 campaign on our website and it addresses exactly what you've 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:14.000 just mentioned there, So hopefully people can go and have 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:17.360 a look and understand how to hold those conversations and 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:20.400 to be reassured that you know their friend or their 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:24.480 family member does want to talk about their mum. 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:25.480 And Danielle, last thing I wanted to ask you is 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:28.160 what about those mums out there who who have had 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:31.760 children themselves but are in that really precarious space between 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:34.480 celebrating the fact that they're a mum, but then they 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:38.000 are also simultaneously missing the mum that they have because 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:39.040 their mum's passed away. 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:43.360 Yeah, it is really tricky for them, and we just say, 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:46.160 you know, enjoy parts of the day, let your kids 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:49.520 celebrate you, but also don't be scared or worried to 0:11:49.640 --> 0:11:52.280 let your kids know that you actually miss your mom 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:55.800 and that's okay to show that emotion and share that 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:59.199 with them, and to hold space for yourself and find 0:11:59.200 --> 0:12:01.680 something to do to on your mum throughout the day. 0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:05.040 Yeah, oh it's beautiful. It gets me. 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:07.000 I just think, yeah, I think it must be so 0:12:07.040 --> 0:12:08.920 hard for some people who don't have their mums to 0:12:09.000 --> 0:12:11.199 lean on, especially when they're going through parenting themselves. 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:15.800 Yeah, yeah, you're doing great stuff. Motherless Daughters Australia. Danielle Snelling, 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:17.400 thank you so much for joining us on the Pickup. 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:18.960 We loved having you. 0:12:19.280 --> 0:12:20.680 Thanks for having me. 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:24.280 So Yesterday on the show, we did a segment where 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:26.880 we were talking about the worst job interviews that you 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:30.479 guys have ever been to. And I was not expecting 0:12:30.640 --> 0:12:33.080 to get as many calls and as many messages, but 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:36.160 overnight we received so many messages to the pick Up dms. 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:38.959 Because there there's some truly horrific. 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:41.560 Employees out there in a bad job interview. 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:45.480 You've never been to a bad job interview? Really, you're in, 0:12:45.520 --> 0:12:45.840 You're right. 0:12:46.160 --> 0:12:48.559 I had a shocking trial once at a fancy dress shop. 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:50.840 I had to do a week's trial and by the 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:53.120 end she was like Mitch. I said, how did I go? 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:53.760 And she's like Mitch. 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:55.679 To be honest, she put Rose from Titanic in the 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:58.640 Elizabethan area, and then you also put et in the 0:12:58.840 --> 0:12:59.880 medieval catalog. 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:02.200 You're not coming back. I had a shocking period. 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:03.360 I like that. 0:13:03.360 --> 0:13:05.040 That was the worst thing that you've done. Okay, well 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:05.560 some of the things. 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:09.120 The one the woman who we were speaking about yesterday, 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:12.120 she she was going for a job as a as 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:15.120 a school ambassador right at the university, and she got 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:16.640 asked to get down on her hands and knees and 0:13:16.679 --> 0:13:17.400 move like a cow. 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:20.079 I'm sorry, you cannot say I want to test if 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:24.160 you're fun at a university by making somebody, a woman 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:25.880 get on her hands and knees and move like a cow. 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:28.319 Usually you get people to do beer bongs at university. 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:29.360 That's how you find out your phone. 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:30.440 We also don't do that. 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:33.240 The ambassador to farm life, I don't know because she's 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:34.320 like a school ambassador. 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:36.120 Was math positions? 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:36.360 All right? 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:37.840 Well, some of the other ones we got on that 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:38.320 wrote in. 0:13:38.559 --> 0:13:40.079 We had one woman write in and she said that 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:42.720 at her very started the interview, she got asked what her. 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:44.800 Star sign was, and then when she told her the 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:45.679 star sign, she. 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:48.360 Got accused of not being outgoing enough because it didn't 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:49.160 match her star sign. 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:49.840 Rubbish. 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:52.079 Another question was, and this one's pretty bad, the very 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:54.440 first question when she sat down was are you planning 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:55.640 to get pregnant anytime soon? 0:13:56.679 --> 0:13:59.640 Oh? Whose business? Can't ask that? Of course you can't. 0:13:59.640 --> 0:14:04.000 It's actually illegal, you cannot. This is just making me mad. Okay, well, 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:04.280 I reckon. 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:06.280 We've got a few more shocking people have called on 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:08.400 thirteen one or six five? Dave, Hello, mate, So what's 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:10.959 your bad interview story? 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:13.600 I'm an account and by trade. So I was sitting 0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:16.120 in the boardroom with in an interview with the managing 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:20.400 director of this FERM. Then yeah, the door flying open 0:14:20.520 --> 0:14:23.400 from one of the doors connecting to the boardroom, and 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:26.080 he just looks at her and says, can't you say 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:29.920 I'm in an interview here? She's the employee. Shops stands 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:32.680 still and stand and he just goes off. 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:35.240 He told her to f off in the middle of 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:35.800 your interview. 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:39.400 Yep, Oh my god, doesn't that make you just want 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:40.320 to walk right out? 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:42.240 Did you take the job? 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:43.320 Wait? 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:45.520 You're not working for them now, are you? 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:46.480 No? Definitely not. 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:48.840 He's like, great benefits. I had to do it, guys, 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:49.880 Pozzi leaves. 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:53.080 You know, I imagine working for someone who feels okay 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:55.040 with telling an employee to f off in the middle 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:56.120 of an interview. 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:57.600 Not how you want to start your relationship like it's 0:14:57.600 --> 0:15:01.640 only I'm Jordan on thirteen when I was sixty five. 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:02.680 He Jordan, was your story? 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:02.920 Hello? 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:07.520 Uh yeah, I peed myself right before going into my 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:09.640 job interview, and I wasn't wearing underwear. 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:12.240 Sorry you what? You wet yourselfself? 0:15:13.960 --> 0:15:19.120 So it was a spring afternoon in Melbourne. I had 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:21.560 no control. I was stabbing on the side of the road. 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:24.680 It's out to walk him and I for some reason 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:26.240 decided that day that it was a day that I 0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:28.160 wouldn't be very underwear with no girt. 0:15:28.600 --> 0:15:32.640 Can I wearing no underwear to job interview is risking itself? 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:34.680 Why are you feeling so brazen? No, I don't think 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:38.240 I understand. And she had no unders on for a job. 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:40.760 Oh my god, Jordan, I missed the knees part and 0:15:40.800 --> 0:15:42.680 I thought you just said it was a beautiful witch 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:43.440 summer's day. 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:45.040 So I wet myself and I was like, am I 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:48.600 missing something? Yeah? Oh was barmy out and I decided 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:50.200 to wet my paint. I'm going to say rogue. I 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:52.160 think I think a little dribble is better than a 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:55.920 full on fart. No, No, it is because you can't 0:15:55.920 --> 0:15:58.240 smell with you. You don't know what's happening. Was your 0:15:58.680 --> 0:15:59.280 was your skirt? 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:01.360 Was it one of those you know, like some fabrics 0:16:01.440 --> 0:16:03.320 is just more forgiving than others. Like I'm wearing black pants. 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:05.160 No one would know if I've wet myself today, but 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:07.080 if you wear in a satin skirt, everyone's gonna know. 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:10.720 Oh it was like an eelink skirt. And I had 0:16:10.760 --> 0:16:13.920 to bline it to your Starbucks to get myself sorted 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:17.560 and the interview did you get the job? 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:19.000 I did? 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:22.320 He felt sorry for me for wearing your pants. He's like, 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:23.120 let's give it the job. 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:25.480 That's funny. But do you wear undies regularly? 0:16:25.520 --> 0:16:25.720 Now? 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:30.480 Every day of my life apart from that one particular, it's. 0:16:30.440 --> 0:16:32.680 Such an it's such an interesting day to choose not 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:34.600 to wear underwear, but you know what you go, you 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:35.000