WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Does she need to return the ring?

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<v Speaker 1>Come on.

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<v Speaker 2>Thursday. Are welcome to the pickup?

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hello, hey guys, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>All things a chemists warehouse heading today, great savings every day.

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<v Speaker 3>Do either of you care about the King's coronation? It's

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<v Speaker 3>okay to say that because everyone's talking about it, and

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<v Speaker 3>every time I hear about it, I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, it's okay to look. It's pretty big news. It's

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<v Speaker 4>the sort of thing is like in quotes, stopping the world.

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<v Speaker 4>People are lining up for it already, even though it's

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<v Speaker 4>days away.

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<v Speaker 3>Literally people are people are lining up from yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>Well they're also getting an iPhone when they get to

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<v Speaker 2>the front. I hate happened.

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<v Speaker 3>You're the only person I know that would line up

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<v Speaker 3>for something. You would line up for yeezis you would

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<v Speaker 3>line up for an iPhone.

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<v Speaker 4>Remember those really hideous giant red boots that Mish wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to like pre order and line up for and they

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<v Speaker 4>were so.

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<v Speaker 5>Ugly, Mitch, shit, we pulled you.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in an online waiting room for thirteen hours

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<v Speaker 2>and they're.

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<v Speaker 4>So I wouldn't wear them for free if someone gave

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<v Speaker 4>them to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I really enjoy how talking about the King's coronation just

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<v Speaker 3>turned into us selledging dumping on me.

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<v Speaker 5>And his boots. That's how much we don't care about

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<v Speaker 5>you know.

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<v Speaker 2>The last time I lined up somewhere was when you

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<v Speaker 2>were sick, Britt, and I had to go all the

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<v Speaker 2>way to your house and line up for that green

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<v Speaker 2>juice that you demanded to have. Took me an hour

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<v Speaker 2>to get that green juice.

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<v Speaker 5>And then you got fined and then I got a

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<v Speaker 5>parking fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Last time I line up, Hey, on the show today,

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<v Speaker 2>we don't really know much, but we just know that Britt,

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<v Speaker 2>you've had a health scare.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Look, I have had a health scare. It was

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<v Speaker 4>a very concerning, very worrying out of the blue. But

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to tell you about it. But I'm undergoing

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<v Speaker 4>treatment for it as we speak.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, something that could affect everyone listening, effects everyone. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that's on the way to pick up for your Thursday

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<v Speaker 2>A welcome. It's the pick up with Britt, Laura and

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<v Speaker 3>Ask Yes, it is time to ask on Kant and

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<v Speaker 3>that is when you guys write in or call in

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<v Speaker 3>with your big, deep, dark and dirty questions. Look, we

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<v Speaker 3>love this segment. We do it on the podcast on

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<v Speaker 3>Life on cart every Thursday where we answer listener questions,

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<v Speaker 3>and on the radio show Oh you come up with

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<v Speaker 3>some doozies.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Christy joins this on thirteen one or six five.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey Christy, what do you need help with?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, guys, I have a bit of a predicament. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if I'm a bad person or not, but

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<v Speaker 1>engagement rings. Now, I was engaged for four years. I've

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<v Speaker 1>just recently canceled my wedding. A bit of hum and hiring,

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<v Speaker 1>no cheating, nothing like that. But I guess I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like I needed to constantly reassure my partner and I

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<v Speaker 1>needed constant I guess help from him to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in our relationship. I just needed help. He wasn't improving whatsoever,

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<v Speaker 1>So I just it wasn't feeling right for me at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I've got this engagement ring and he's beggar for

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<v Speaker 1>it back. What do I do? Do I give it

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<v Speaker 1>back or can I keep it?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait?

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<v Speaker 3>So, so you still have the engaged ring, You've been

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<v Speaker 3>wearing it for the past four years, and now that

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<v Speaker 3>you haven't gone through with the wedding, is he asking

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<v Speaker 3>for it back? Like, is he demanding or are you

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<v Speaker 3>just kind of wanting to know what's the best thing

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<v Speaker 3>to do.

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<v Speaker 1>No, well, he's asking for it back now. In regards

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<v Speaker 1>for the ring, I work in hospitality, so I work

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<v Speaker 1>in a kitchen, so it's not like I was wearing

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<v Speaker 1>it every single day for work purposes. We couldn't actually

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<v Speaker 1>have it on, so you know when we'd go out,

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<v Speaker 1>I put it on the weekends and stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 1>so sentimental value for me, it wasn't on my hand

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<v Speaker 1>every single day. So for me, I'm like, well it's mine, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>can I keep the ring? Can I get it repurposed

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<v Speaker 1>into another kind of ring so it doesn't have that

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<v Speaker 1>engagement pooy?

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, can I turn it into a pair of shoes? Maybe?

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<v Speaker 4>Can I go to a jewel r and maybe the

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<v Speaker 4>next engagement ring?

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on. So when you say you said at the

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<v Speaker 2>start that he's not showing any signs of improvement, what

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<v Speaker 2>has he done is he has he been cheating, like

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<v Speaker 2>a motional cheating. Because I think this answer will depend

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<v Speaker 2>on what he did to you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, he's not emotionally cheating, but I just don't get

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<v Speaker 1>that feeling of yep, this is the one like this

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<v Speaker 1>is for me, Like just the issues at home, like

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<v Speaker 1>come on, dude, pick up after yourself. I'm not your

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<v Speaker 1>mum right look.

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<v Speaker 5>And the relationship just its course.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just what it.

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<v Speaker 5>Sounds like nothing happened, You're just not right for each other.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm it's hard for me because I'm sitting on the

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<v Speaker 4>fence because if I want to say, for you, as

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<v Speaker 4>a woman, yeah, keep that ring, it's yours, sell it,

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<v Speaker 4>do it.

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<v Speaker 5>You will melt it down.

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<v Speaker 4>But then I think, oh god, if I was the

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<v Speaker 4>guy in that situation, I'd want the ring back.

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<v Speaker 2>For sure, you got to give it back, But I

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<v Speaker 2>spent like.

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<v Speaker 3>Twenty k on it. Well that's my question is do

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<v Speaker 3>you have shared finances?

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<v Speaker 5>It all?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, do you have a shared bank account? Because if

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<v Speaker 3>you did have it, when you've been together with someone

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<v Speaker 3>for so long, aren't the things kind of just yours mutually?

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<v Speaker 3>And therefore who gets to keep the ring?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, what bank account did it come from?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it came from CES. We do have joint bank accounts.

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<v Speaker 1>But what about my time that I've put into the relationship, Like, that's.

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<v Speaker 2>All value, Christy, this is his money. If he cheated

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<v Speaker 2>on you, I would be I'd go, Christie, you go

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<v Speaker 2>full scorched earth. You take that ring, you take the dog,

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<v Speaker 2>you get out of there. But you've just fallen out

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<v Speaker 2>of love with him. Give the man his ring backs?

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<v Speaker 3>Also, did he still want to get married?

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<v Speaker 1>He did anyone else?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, but some people do think it's a gift. Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Has he made it very clear that he wants the

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<v Speaker 3>ring back, like he's asking okay, right, did he pay

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<v Speaker 3>for it?

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<v Speaker 1>He did pay for it.

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<v Speaker 3>So there is this in Australia. I think the laws

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<v Speaker 3>are different everywhere, but I actually think legally you have

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<v Speaker 3>to give.

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<v Speaker 2>The ring back. What is the law? Do we know

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<v Speaker 2>what the law is?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, because I think an engagement ring is like it's

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<v Speaker 3>it's the contract. You're saying, I'm going to marry you,

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<v Speaker 3>and that is your like physical contract. So if you

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<v Speaker 3>call the wedding off, as the person who's been proposed to,

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<v Speaker 3>if you call the wedding off, you can't keep the

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<v Speaker 3>ring because it's part of the contract.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, there are no dotted lines signed, were there?

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<v Speaker 3>But if he calls it off. I think then you

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<v Speaker 3>can keep the ring. So maybe if you go to court,

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<v Speaker 3>you say it was him, blame him for it, and

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<v Speaker 3>then keep the rinks.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you know what, I would just the number, just blocking.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't take that terrible advice, Christy, give the ring back?

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<v Speaker 3>What would you if it was you? What would you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Would you give a ring back if you've been proposed

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<v Speaker 3>to in all one thousand dollars xterra in your bank account?

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<v Speaker 5>In all honesty, I probably would just to be done

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<v Speaker 5>with it.

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<v Speaker 4>If they were hounding me for it, I'd probably give

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<v Speaker 4>it back because I didn't like confrontation. I don't like

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<v Speaker 4>and I probably wouldn't want the memories constantly. But if

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<v Speaker 4>it doesn't bother you and you feel like you deserve

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<v Speaker 4>it for whatever reason, CHRISTI, I mean, do what you

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<v Speaker 4>want to do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a different story if you're you're going to keep it.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you're going to take it to cash converters,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I back that. You know, I love an independent woman.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're going to get a bit of cash back,

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<v Speaker 2>go for it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to change to give it back.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want some advice like that start somewhere and

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<v Speaker 2>ends in it completely different.

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<v Speaker 3>If you'd like to be confused, please give us a call.

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<v Speaker 2>Let us know on the pickup Social send us a

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<v Speaker 2>DM now next on the show, Britt, this is very serious,

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<v Speaker 2>very true. You've had a health scare.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I have had a health scare. I am okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I am undergoing treatment for something at the moment on

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<v Speaker 4>my face that is pretty scary, and you guys are

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<v Speaker 4>not gonna want to look at me over the coming days.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, You're gonna reveal it next after this on

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<v Speaker 2>the Pickup. It's the Pickup Thursday afternoon with Britt Laura

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<v Speaker 2>mitch here heading the Chemist's Warehouse today, great savings every day.

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<v Speaker 5>Guys.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to talk to you about something a bit

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<v Speaker 4>more serious today, but it's very important, So bear with me.

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<v Speaker 5>Over the next week.

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<v Speaker 4>You are going to witness something on my face that

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<v Speaker 4>he is going to be quite disturbing. So I went

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<v Speaker 4>and got a skin check a couple of weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 4>probably two weeks ago, now three weeks ago. I had

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<v Speaker 4>three spots on my face that I was a bit

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<v Speaker 4>worried about, and I'd been really lazy with it, really.

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<v Speaker 5>Putting it off.

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<v Speaker 4>But I thought enough's enough. I saw a young person

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<v Speaker 4>in Australia. Just on the news, I saw them pass

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<v Speaker 4>away from melanoma. And that's what scared me enough to

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<v Speaker 4>say I'm going to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm glad I did because the three spots that I

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<v Speaker 4>have was worried about turns out to be something called

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<v Speaker 4>solar keratosis, which isn't exactly rare, it can be quite common.

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<v Speaker 4>It is not yet cancer, but it turns into cancer.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's it's called pre cancer.

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<v Speaker 3>And looking at your skin, Okay, your skin looks pretty

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<v Speaker 3>perfect to me. I would never have looked at your

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<v Speaker 3>face and thought, oh that's something you go checked out.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, this is the worrying thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I will say, I have really great skin. I've never

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<v Speaker 4>had to suffer with bad skin. It's always been really great.

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<v Speaker 4>It looks on the outside like it's great quality. But

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<v Speaker 4>this is the thing that doesn't mean anything. So I've

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<v Speaker 4>got these three spots that are pre cancerous. If left

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<v Speaker 4>will turn into skin cancer. We'll turn into something called SCC,

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<v Speaker 4>which is squamous cell carcinoma, which is a nasty skin cancer.

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<v Speaker 2>So what's the treatment? They cut them out? What do

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<v Speaker 2>you do from here?

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<v Speaker 4>No, So the treatment is you have to order a

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<v Speaker 4>cytotoxic cream. I had to order it from another state.

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<v Speaker 4>Now you cannot touch this cream without gloves. It cannot

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<v Speaker 4>touch anything. Anything it touches, you have to double bag

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<v Speaker 4>in a plastic bag. You can't even put it in

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<v Speaker 4>the rubbish bin. You have to take it to a

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<v Speaker 4>chemist to disclose of it. It's cytotoxic. You've got to

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<v Speaker 4>put on your face, so I have to put it

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<v Speaker 4>on my entire face so you can't tell.

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<v Speaker 5>Now I'm three days in.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been using it for three days, but it takes

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<v Speaker 4>a three weeks and in a couple of days it's

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<v Speaker 4>going to kick in.

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<v Speaker 5>But what it's going to do to.

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<v Speaker 4>My face is essentially it kills all the skin, kills

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<v Speaker 4>everything around it. It stops the bad skin cancer cells from duplicating,

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<v Speaker 4>which is very important, but I will my face could

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<v Speaker 4>potentially turn into one giant, huge, red, weeping scabs.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to be off the cameras. When that, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean like looking at your skin. Now, I know I

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<v Speaker 3>say I would never look at your skin and think

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<v Speaker 3>that there was something wrong with it. But it's not

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<v Speaker 3>like you have moles, you know. I think traditionally you think,

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<v Speaker 3>oh skin cancer. It's from a rogue mole that's changed

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<v Speaker 3>color and size. No, I don't have any moles in

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<v Speaker 3>your face.

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<v Speaker 5>Nope, I have three. You know what it was?

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<v Speaker 4>I have three areas that when a little bit darker,

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<v Speaker 4>they were almost like a freckly area. They went a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit darker and a little bit drier, so that

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<v Speaker 4>I had quite dry skin. But these parts were particularly

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<v Speaker 4>dry and nothing would get rid of it. I would

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<v Speaker 4>go and get the deepest, most hydrating lotions, I would

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<v Speaker 4>get lasers on my face for like regeneration. Nothing would

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<v Speaker 4>touch these three spots. And that's when I thought, something

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't seem right.

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<v Speaker 2>It's crazy. I don't know about you, but I haven't

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<v Speaker 2>had a skin check in I'd say five years. It's

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<v Speaker 2>been five.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's crazy to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel ashamed to say this. I've not been had

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<v Speaker 3>a skin check in ten years, a decade.

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<v Speaker 2>Really bad.

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<v Speaker 3>I was twenty seven the last time I got it checked.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I remember who I was dating at the time.

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<v Speaker 5>This is really scary.

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<v Speaker 4>So Australia has the most the high rated skin cancer

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<v Speaker 4>in the world. One in fourteen men and one in

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<v Speaker 4>twenty five women will have melanoma in their lifetime. Now

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<v Speaker 4>that is scary. One in fourteen men, one in twenty

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<v Speaker 4>five women, and it's the third most common yeah type

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<v Speaker 4>of cancer in Australia.

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder if mena more predisposed because traditionally men have

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<v Speaker 3>more outside jobs, you know, they're like possibly laborers, or

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<v Speaker 3>maybe they're exposed to the sun a bit more. But

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<v Speaker 3>I genuinely do I feel embarrassed to say ten years

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<v Speaker 3>it's been.

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<v Speaker 2>I have spots as well, guys that I mean, I'm freckly.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got actual spots that I am worried about, and

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<v Speaker 2>I've just put it off because you think the mentality

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<v Speaker 2>is it's not gonna happen to me. I'll cut it

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<v Speaker 2>out if I need to.

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<v Speaker 5>Haven't you gone because this is ridiculous, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>One of the reasons why I haven't gone is because

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<v Speaker 3>because I think when you feel healthy, when you think

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<v Speaker 3>you're healthy, and you can't like nothing. I haven't never

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<v Speaker 3>seen a spot that's changed. I've never had anything that

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<v Speaker 3>I feel overly worried about. And so when you're busy,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just one of those back of mind things you go,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll go next year, not a prior. I'll make another

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<v Speaker 3>booking I think I made a booking once and then

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<v Speaker 3>I had to cancel it just never rebooked.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I made a booking one since she's like, you

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<v Speaker 2>do realize you have to get naked, and I just

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<v Speaker 2>ghosted it didn't turn.

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<v Speaker 5>Up day.

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<v Speaker 2>All right? Everyone, Well, Britt, we're glad you're okay. All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Next on the show, and we've all had few through

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<v Speaker 2>our neighbors. You will never believe how bad this feud

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<v Speaker 2>between two neighbors in the UK is gotten. I'll tell

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<v Speaker 2>you all about it next on the Pickup. It's the

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<v Speaker 2>Pickup Thursday AVA with Brent, Laura and Mitche.

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<v Speaker 4>Here.

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<v Speaker 2>to the UK. Everyone's talking about the King's coronation. No no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>no no. A union of two people more so than

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<v Speaker 2>the royal family is catching my attention. We'll tell you

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<v Speaker 2>what talking about. We all know how bad and intense

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<v Speaker 2>arguments with your neighbors can get. We've all been through them.

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<v Speaker 2>We've spoken about them on the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh especially Brett Britton hates her neighbor.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's because my neighbor was your neighbor, and you

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<v Speaker 4>handed your neighbor then too.

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<v Speaker 3>She is truly horrible.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, people don't know that Britt rented Laura's past department.

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<v Speaker 2>They had the same neighbor. She holds people down, long

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<v Speaker 2>story shorts. She's terrible. But this feud in the UK

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<v Speaker 2>has gotten so out of control. It's reached new heights

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<v Speaker 2>that I actually admire. So Wendy, who's sixty eight, lives

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<v Speaker 2>next door to Lee who's twenty eight. He parks his

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<v Speaker 2>VW camp van in her allocated parking spots. Well, it's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>They both have spots, mind you. They live on a

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<v Speaker 2>coulder sack, like a classic British culd De sack, so

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<v Speaker 2>spots are already very weed tight as they are. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a bad move. She's written letters and said, I know, mate,

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<v Speaker 2>do you mind not parking me migirl? Because I've got

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<v Speaker 2>a cook through the morning. I've got to get off

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<v Speaker 2>to work and get to Scores and I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>you to be there in my parking space.

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<v Speaker 3>This was from English to Irish.

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<v Speaker 2>It got so bad he kept ignoring these letters, Wendy

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<v Speaker 2>decided to erect a two foot metal ballard to keep

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<v Speaker 2>her parking spot reserved.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's one way to go about it. Well

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<v Speaker 3>they do in Sydney.

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<v Speaker 2>Lee just got up and decided he'd knock it out.

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<v Speaker 2>He'd pull it out of the ground, he would pull

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<v Speaker 2>it down, She'd put it back up. She put CCTV

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<v Speaker 2>cameras up, he'd pull it back down.

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<v Speaker 3>Who was putting up CCTV cameras to protect their car

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<v Speaker 3>path on a car?

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<v Speaker 4>No car spaces are so rare and hard to come by.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd be protecting mine at all costs.

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<v Speaker 2>As would I. And you think, God, this is gonna

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<v Speaker 2>get It's gonna go up and down, up and down

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<v Speaker 2>forever and ever. Wendy installs a CCTV camera. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>she hires a handy band. She wouldn't be able on

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<v Speaker 2>a ladder at sixty eight. Jesus, what she catches on

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<v Speaker 2>this camera is so mind boggling and so admirable. I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's incredible To get back at Wendy. Lee has

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<v Speaker 2>brought his partner, his female partner over late at night,

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<v Speaker 2>in the early hours of the morning, and he and

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<v Speaker 2>her have got.

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<v Speaker 3>It on Oh, they had some special cuddles.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he was parking something very different in that spot.

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<v Speaker 5>A smaller suv, a much smaller.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a two door, and the windshield wipers were

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<v Speaker 2>going because he was he was getting it on with

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<v Speaker 2>his girlfriend on said Ballard direct eye contact with the

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<v Speaker 2>CCTV camera and said, Hey, Wendy, how did your ballard veel?

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<v Speaker 5>Now you definitely did not say that.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know what Wendy needs to do? She needs

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<v Speaker 3>If this is something that he's doing, like on the rag,

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<v Speaker 3>if this is his new thing, don't approach him, don't

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<v Speaker 3>tell him that you know about it, But go and

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<v Speaker 3>put something that's going to make him really itchy all

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<v Speaker 3>over the bar, something on there. And then it's like

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<v Speaker 3>you're upping the revenge and it keeps on growing. Chili. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>rum it down with chili.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good.

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<v Speaker 5>What's the purpose? How is that getting back at her

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<v Speaker 5>because you have sexy car?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I reckon, it's because he has a kink. His

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<v Speaker 3>is like a parking kink. He wants to win the

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<v Speaker 3>parking kink.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you think he's into he's into spots.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean he's literally into sacks. Well, let's not yuck

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<v Speaker 3>anyone's Yeah, maybe that's the thing that gets him off.

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<v Speaker 5>I was her, I'd be like parking Mini, They're fine,

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<v Speaker 5>do what you want.

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<v Speaker 2>Go park it, don't park the v parking Minnie. Is

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<v Speaker 2>that a slab? Is that a stab?

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<v Speaker 3>It in?

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<v Speaker 2>When he's done is she's called the police. He's been

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<v Speaker 2>arrested for indecent exposure, so she's really had the laugh last.

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<v Speaker 2>So they're in federal court now. He's been slapped with

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<v Speaker 2>an eighteen month community order, ordered to do one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>and fifty hours of unpaid work, and two hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>fifty quid compensation to missus Bryant. So she's had the

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<v Speaker 2>last laugh. He's in prison.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they say crime never pays No, definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we're done, guys. We'll see tomorrow for Friday.

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<v Speaker 2>All the gosh from the King's Coronation will be on

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<v Speaker 2>the show Will and what are you up next to you?

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<v Speaker 5>Then by bye,