WEBVTT - This is the best investment I’ve ever made…

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the

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<v Speaker 1>land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo

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<v Speaker 1>Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present

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<v Speaker 1>and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and

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<v Speaker 1>Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is the Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and

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<v Speaker 1>becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,

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<v Speaker 1>plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses

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<v Speaker 1>and being among Think of us as the perfect combo

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<v Speaker 1>of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No

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<v Speaker 1>matter where you are in your journey, We're here to

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<v Speaker 1>help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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<v Speaker 1>self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's

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<v Speaker 1>seat of your own life and stop letting life pass

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<v Speaker 1>you by, then you're in the right place. Hello everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>and welcome back to the podcast. Today we have an

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<v Speaker 1>episode with Cooper Stevenson, my brother and co founder of

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<v Speaker 1>Naked Harvest Supplements, and we are chatting about the importance

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<v Speaker 1>of investing in yourself and how we have invested in

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves over the years. If you are someone who has

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<v Speaker 1>big dreams and you have been trying to decide whether

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<v Speaker 1>you should book that retreat, do that course, hire that coach,

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<v Speaker 1>you will love this episode. We take you through the

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<v Speaker 1>exact process we use when you make these sorts of decisions,

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<v Speaker 1>and we've made a lot of them. And in case

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<v Speaker 1>you missed it, guys, we have just had the most

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<v Speaker 1>exciting week here at RNC because last Tuesday we dropped

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<v Speaker 1>in private episode for you guys saying how we are

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<v Speaker 1>launching an app, so we're so excited. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't listen to it, bloody go back there, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>very the big one, a big one, very important news.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's called Rise and it's going to be available

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<v Speaker 1>to download and subscribe on Ironc's fifth birthday, which is

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<v Speaker 1>the eighth of feb Guys, I literally can't believe IRONC

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<v Speaker 1>is five years old. I know, it's crazy, my swill

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<v Speaker 1>baby five years old. Honestly, it feels like dent. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's so bloody exciting. So we're gonna pop a

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<v Speaker 1>link in the show notes you can check it all

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<v Speaker 1>out if you want to find more information. But basically,

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<v Speaker 1>the app is all about being. It's gonna be your

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<v Speaker 1>bloody mindset bestie in your pocket. So it's giving you

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<v Speaker 1>the tools and resources so every single day you can

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<v Speaker 1>tap into your highest self, you know, feel solid in

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and do anything that you need to do to

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<v Speaker 1>be the person that you need to be. Because we

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<v Speaker 1>know it doesn't just happen with one course, one coaching session.

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<v Speaker 1>It's consistency. Just like you would when you go to gym.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, one class isn't going to change your life.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to consistently show up. And that's the same

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<v Speaker 1>concept with RISE. So yeah, we're so excited to Rise

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<v Speaker 1>with you soon.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I have a downloaded on my phone and

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<v Speaker 2>it's so surreal. Every time I look at it, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's our app.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an app. I know, I see it. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>who's that bloody professional at there? I know it's very exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>But before we get into the show, a tear a

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<v Speaker 1>weekly recommendation.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been a while since we've done REX, so I

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<v Speaker 2>have two Yes. Number one is it's almost February, so

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<v Speaker 2>do your monthly audit if you've done it for your

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<v Speaker 2>future self, the workbook, get on that smart. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 2>started that on the weekend, but I do have a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit to finish off. And then my second recommendation

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<v Speaker 2>is a book cool tell Us more a Cord of

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<v Speaker 2>Thorns and Roses.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you guys have missed so much. So George's actually

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<v Speaker 1>become a full time reader. She has. It's scary. It's

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<v Speaker 1>actually scary how many books I've read over the hol days.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm up to ten books now. I read

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<v Speaker 1>two on the weekend, two books I read one per day. Fantasy. No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's I'm back to the real world. Oh okay, so guys,

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<v Speaker 1>my my rex. I obviously we've already spoke about four

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<v Speaker 1>Wing and Iron Flame. Been there, done that, love it. Obsessed,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't wait for the next book. I've done the

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<v Speaker 1>whole series of.

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<v Speaker 2>Akata, which I've only done a book of.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm honestly so disappointed. I'm obsessed with being in like

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<v Speaker 1>a book world. I love it, and I've never been

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<v Speaker 1>like I haven't been on social media because you're just

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<v Speaker 1>so consumed. As soon as Ivy goes to bed, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>see Tim, I'm bed reading and I just yeah, I'm obsessed, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually I'm a book where I love that. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be like last year where all we would

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<v Speaker 1>recommend the same thing, and now this year it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be all we recommend to books. Except all right, Cooper,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get into investing in ourselves. First of all, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the body. Thanks Jordan, thanks for being here. How

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<v Speaker 1>was your yoga this morning?

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<v Speaker 4>It was pretty hard. Actually I only had a few

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<v Speaker 4>hours sleep, so very tough.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also a little bit daisly, so excuse that you

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<v Speaker 1>was like, why don't you go and blow your nose?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, I have a hundred times. It's really

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<v Speaker 1>not that simple, Like shut up, all right, Coop. So

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<v Speaker 1>today we are chatting about investing in ourselves, and this

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<v Speaker 1>is because we do every single year and activation called

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<v Speaker 1>the New Beginnings Grant where for a month, if you

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<v Speaker 1>shop through Naked harvests, for every fifty dollars you spend,

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<v Speaker 1>you gain a ticket entry into the grant where you

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<v Speaker 1>can win ten thousand dollars to spend on your New beginnings.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is something that we did. We started two

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<v Speaker 1>years ago and we just wanted to give back to

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<v Speaker 1>our end hate community because we know, like ten thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars is life changing and we are absolutely doing it

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<v Speaker 1>again this year from Feb first to the end of

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<v Speaker 1>feb Actually I think it's the twenty nine check the details,

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<v Speaker 1>don't quote me, And basically we have decided to rebrand

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<v Speaker 1>it and it is now called the Future You Fund,

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<v Speaker 1>exact same concept, but we wanted to call it the

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<v Speaker 1>Future You Fund because me and Cooper something that we

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<v Speaker 1>have consistently done is invest in our future self and

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<v Speaker 1>this is something that we did not grow up, our

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<v Speaker 1>parents did, all the people around us do, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>something that for example, I've seen Cooper really do in

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<v Speaker 1>the last couple of years, and I've just seen such

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<v Speaker 1>a difference in you as a human and your evolution

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<v Speaker 1>and who you have become. And you know much myself

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<v Speaker 1>of how I've invested in myself from way back in

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<v Speaker 1>the day, from the very first time I spent fifty

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars on a coach because I just believed in

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<v Speaker 1>my visions so much and I remember being like so

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<v Speaker 1>shit scared and so like, holy shite was Now if

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<v Speaker 1>I could go back, of course, I would do it

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<v Speaker 1>because it's got me to who I am today. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's not normalized to spend money on yourself unless it's

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<v Speaker 1>in like a very conventional way like a degree or

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<v Speaker 1>tafe or like schooling or whatnot. So today we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>an episode all about what investing in yourself means, how

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<v Speaker 1>Me Cooper do it, how it's changed our lives, and

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<v Speaker 1>just giving you guys some insight. Yeah, definitely, why don't

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<v Speaker 1>we get straight into it, Cooper and just tat to

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<v Speaker 1>us about like, let's just go back and forth about

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<v Speaker 1>how we invest in ourselves can be like from really

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<v Speaker 1>small to really big.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So the smaller things I have always done, Jim,

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<v Speaker 4>I've always wanted to do other stuff, but I've always

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<v Speaker 4>been drawn to the gym and just wanting to be fit.

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<v Speaker 4>When I was younger, it was more muscle, but now

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<v Speaker 4>it's yeah, just to be fit and healthy. So I

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<v Speaker 4>go to gym three times a week, and then yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>the next thing is yoga.

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<v Speaker 3>Big from yoga and.

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<v Speaker 1>Just going back to the gym thing. You Know, what

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<v Speaker 1>I think is interesting is I had almost a block

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<v Speaker 1>because I also had a PET last year, and I

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<v Speaker 1>had a bit of a block between getting a PTE

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<v Speaker 1>because I was like, oh, but this class is that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a cheaper Why would I get a PT.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever have that.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely, back in the day I used to do the classes,

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<v Speaker 4>I did prefer them because I just never trusted a

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<v Speaker 4>PT and it was just too I didn't really want

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<v Speaker 4>to be with someone and talk to them the whole time.

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<v Speaker 4>Like you're a big group, you're with everyone, and it's

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<v Speaker 4>more of a team thing. So it was just a

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<v Speaker 4>lot more fun. But my PT that I've got now, Wade,

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<v Speaker 4>he's the owner of the gym and he's a fitness scientist.

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<v Speaker 4>So when I first it was really cool to get

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<v Speaker 4>in with him because he's so busy, but I found

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<v Speaker 4>that he looked at my body and my posture, and

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<v Speaker 4>then we did the workouts and we always did stretches

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<v Speaker 4>to stretch out certain muscles, and every every session we

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<v Speaker 4>did was always different because you kind of always I've

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<v Speaker 4>been to other pets and they do the same thing. Monday,

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<v Speaker 4>you do back and buyers and stuff like that. But

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<v Speaker 4>we just did so much different stuff because my body

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<v Speaker 4>changed each day, so that I was just really lucky

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<v Speaker 4>that I stumbled across that.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's something you think, it's definitely worth it because

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<v Speaker 1>it's so specific to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, very tailor made to my body. And what it needs.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I was very arched over because.

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<v Speaker 1>And stuff don't didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>You, Yeah, back and neck pain. So he's strengthened my

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<v Speaker 4>back and my neck and my lower back and then

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<v Speaker 4>did chest and now I'm just like proportioned as I

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<v Speaker 4>stand up. Yeah, it was really weird my chest. I

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<v Speaker 4>used to have a big chest, but then I did

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<v Speaker 4>that and it was like, oh, it's not big anymore

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<v Speaker 4>because I'd straightened my posture. And then and then I

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<v Speaker 4>was kind of like sticking my got at because of

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<v Speaker 4>my lower back. And then I was like I just

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<v Speaker 4>look like I'm really bloated, and he's like, it's just

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<v Speaker 4>your posture. We'll fix that up. And then like brought

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<v Speaker 4>my stomach in stronger, and then it was just all

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<v Speaker 4>in life, continuous yeah, continuous line. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, I'll.

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<v Speaker 3>Stay with it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you got me at posture.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's been that's been massive to invest like that,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I wouldn't change that.

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's the gym yoga.

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<v Speaker 4>Yoga just opens up my whole body and I'm so

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<v Speaker 4>much more flexible, so much my core strengths way stronger,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's challenging and Georgia said discipline as well, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's hot yoga.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've done yoga classes where it's like more relaxing

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<v Speaker 1>and calm. Whar as I found this year got to

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<v Speaker 1>be it's very about like the poses and you get

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<v Speaker 1>in the pose and you hold it and it feels

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<v Speaker 1>like a discipline like it it feels really good.

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<v Speaker 4>It just feels it's hard. It's hard, you're sweating. It's

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<v Speaker 4>forty one or three degrees, like you're in a sauana. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>what are your little things doing?

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<v Speaker 1>So very similar, Jim, I'm like, I'm a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of a workout slot right now. Sorry that

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<v Speaker 1>language just in the way of I haven't been consistent

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<v Speaker 1>with tears. I just haven't been consistent. I have been

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<v Speaker 1>loving doing different things. So first of all, I got

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<v Speaker 1>into pilates last year because I needed to like really

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<v Speaker 1>calm my nervous system, and I was consistent with pilates.

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<v Speaker 1>But I have noticed myself and obviously we did the

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<v Speaker 1>twenty day challenge with Hustle and that was incredible, But

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<v Speaker 1>I have noticed myself just like wanting to try different things.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like I've been doing like a strength session

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<v Speaker 1>at a local gym that Tim goes through and really enjoys,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll just do like one of those, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I might do like an at home pilates workout on

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<v Speaker 1>the Tuesday because Tim goes to gym, so I've got

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<v Speaker 1>to be at home and I just do it through

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<v Speaker 1>the Hustle app And then on a Wednesday, I might

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<v Speaker 1>do like a reformer class and I just book in

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<v Speaker 1>because I just bought like ten classes. And then Thursday

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<v Speaker 1>I might do a bit of yoga, and then on

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<v Speaker 1>Friday I might just go for a walk or like

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<v Speaker 1>a run. And I.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, so all over the place. You're very normally.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually I'm so routine, But Cooper my word for twenty

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four is like pleasure. So it's like what, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what is going to bring me pleasure? And it's not

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<v Speaker 1>just one thing right now. It's like dancing between all

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<v Speaker 1>these and it's like literally the night before, I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>what do I feel like doing? Sometimes it does bite

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<v Speaker 1>me in the ass because some things are like already

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<v Speaker 1>booked out, But I'm really leaning into this stage with

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<v Speaker 1>my workouts to like what would feel good of my

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<v Speaker 1>body tomorrow. And that's been really Yeah, that's been really

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<v Speaker 1>serving me, and it's like I might go back into

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<v Speaker 1>more consistency. But I really wanted to say this to

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, because I've seen so much content on social

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<v Speaker 1>media right now that is all about this like consistency

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<v Speaker 1>and discipline and like you have to do it this

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<v Speaker 1>way in order to you know, hit your new year goals,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just don't agree with it. I think there's

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely seasons where consistency is what you need. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you're in a different season like me, where it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to try different things and I want

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<v Speaker 1>the movement to feel good, and that's what's going to

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<v Speaker 1>serve me right now. Is like leaning into what feels good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay to look different.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say, and I would challenge that, but you

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<v Speaker 4>said you're not consistent, but you're very much consistent because

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<v Speaker 4>you look back from that and at a higher level

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<v Speaker 4>and you're consistently wanting to listen to your body, feel

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<v Speaker 4>happy and do it for yourself, and that's consistency. You're

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<v Speaker 4>just doing it in a different way that you're not

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<v Speaker 4>used to. Consistency might be in in people's head that

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<v Speaker 4>I've got to do this and I've got to do that.

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<v Speaker 4>Because that's this is how I'm going to get to

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<v Speaker 4>my goal. But like the more higher level of that

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<v Speaker 4>is I'm just going to be consistently sure love my

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<v Speaker 4>body and happiness, Like that's the biggest like all this

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<v Speaker 4>investment of what.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing, that's the point of it is.

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<v Speaker 4>To be happy every day, and then that's a big

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<v Speaker 4>thing a lot of people, Well.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so true. I guess I am being very consistent

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like a consistency to my pleasure to myself

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<v Speaker 1>to that kind of like what would feel good rather

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<v Speaker 1>than I have to do this workout because I paid

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<v Speaker 1>for this membership or I had to do this thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, it just feels really good at the moment

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<v Speaker 1>to lean into that because it is very different, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm usually the opposite. Yeah, so that's kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>my current workouts. On top of that, I'm huge on acupuncture.

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<v Speaker 1>I started acupuncture when me and Tim were trying to

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<v Speaker 1>conceive IVY, and it's all about like realigning your pathways

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<v Speaker 1>and your energies and your hormones. And I just keep

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<v Speaker 1>going back to it over the years, and I've been

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<v Speaker 1>getting it consistently for maybe the last six months and

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<v Speaker 1>not only is the appointment beautiful, because it's like you've

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<v Speaker 1>just got to sit there needles inside you and you

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<v Speaker 1>can't move, and so you have to be present and

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<v Speaker 1>it's almost like in a meditative state. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>there's also this like power to I'm here for myself,

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<v Speaker 1>for my future self, and that always just feels really good.

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<v Speaker 1>And so acupuncha has always been something I go back to.

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<v Speaker 3>I get a massage every week.

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<v Speaker 1>Love massages.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, acupuncha.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you tried it?

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<v Speaker 3>I've tried it. Just don't feel indifferent.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also big on massages. One of my love languages

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<v Speaker 1>is touch. Wa'ts your love language very similar and I

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<v Speaker 1>reckon yours would also be quality time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like now having more of awareness, I've got

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of love languages, all them. Yeah, like kind

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<v Speaker 4>of love, skifts, love touch. Yeah, I don't know, just

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<v Speaker 4>because you like, why not have all? Why do you

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<v Speaker 4>have to have one?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think it's just more what you vibe with.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Yeah, so we both get massages. That is a

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<v Speaker 1>huge one. Something I also want to get back into

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<v Speaker 1>is hydro facials because that was something I was really

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<v Speaker 1>in my glowy skin era last year, and I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like being consistent. I only I get them done like

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<v Speaker 1>every six to eight weeks. Oh and you know what else,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, we're like focusing more in health. I was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about this the other day. Two appointments that are

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<v Speaker 1>like high maintenance appointments that help me be low maintenance

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<v Speaker 1>is getting my eyebrows and lashes done, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, me too.

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<v Speaker 1>Shut the fuck. But as a girl, I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I love not wearing makeup, and I will just use

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<v Speaker 1>my summer skin glow drops. I'll have my eyebrows already done,

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<v Speaker 1>my lash is tinted, I'll put a bit of lippy

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<v Speaker 1>stuff on, and I'm like, good to go, and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel presentable and I feel good. And that's just like

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<v Speaker 1>an appointment that I'm like, oh this, this is something

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<v Speaker 1>that I invest in to feel really good. I think

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<v Speaker 1>those are.

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<v Speaker 3>Use code Georgie. I couldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I use I say, don't, actually you don't put

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<v Speaker 1>some skin in oil.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I have that every night.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't actually you don't put the tear drops on your face.

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<v Speaker 4>I did that once and then every once everyone called

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<v Speaker 4>me out and I'm like, no, I'm not doing it.

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<v Speaker 5>Everyone goes why is your face so And you're like,

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<v Speaker 5>it actually did match your body, but I think it's

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<v Speaker 5>just because we weren't used to it and it was

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<v Speaker 5>so glowy, and everyone was like, why is your skin

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<v Speaker 5>so glowy?

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<v Speaker 4>Right now, it's investment that as I about a year ago,

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<v Speaker 4>I stopped drinking and I started going on a real

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<v Speaker 4>health kick, and that was a huge investment on myself

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<v Speaker 4>because before that I was very pale and just not

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<v Speaker 4>like that was one thing. Yeah, I didn't look just looked, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>just not healthy, I guess in my eyes and my

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<v Speaker 4>skin was very white, and I just didn't I just

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<v Speaker 4>looked tired. And since stopping alcohol, I yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 4>I did say it on a podcast, but I started

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<v Speaker 4>getting tan, and then when I started eating healthier, I

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<v Speaker 4>got more tan. And then now like, yeah, I'm in

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<v Speaker 4>the shower just with the ash. She's just like why

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<v Speaker 4>so tan all the time, like she's just so used

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<v Speaker 4>to me being wider and I.

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<v Speaker 3>Just feel healthier, Like yeah, well.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not really. I wouldn't actually call you ten, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's like vibrancy. It's like you've got vibrancy back in

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<v Speaker 1>your skin and body.

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<v Speaker 4>That's because you're very but like for me, I'm like

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<v Speaker 4>stoked because I'm investing in myself, in my health, in

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<v Speaker 4>my body, because.

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<v Speaker 3>You are what you eat. The Netflix thing I haven't watched.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I loved the drinking one. That is such

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<v Speaker 1>a good I'm gonna get like a bit left field here.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what has really helped like future me is

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<v Speaker 1>really being conscious where and who I spend my time with.

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<v Speaker 1>So it kind of happened once I had IVY and

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<v Speaker 1>I just realized how much limited time I have. But

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<v Speaker 1>a huge thing is like being conscious of like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, where am I spending my time and energy?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I have got limited And when you think about it,

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<v Speaker 1>like who you surround yourself with is the what's that

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<v Speaker 1>saying of? Like the five people you surround yourself is

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<v Speaker 1>like the average of like who you are. And so

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<v Speaker 1>really being conscious about like investing in future you is

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<v Speaker 1>actually being like where am I spending my time?

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<v Speaker 4>You I've seen something online and it's show me your

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<v Speaker 4>five friends and I'll show you your future.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a good one.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's stuck in my head. So you look at

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<v Speaker 4>them and what they're doing. Because everything's energy energy, So

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<v Speaker 4>if you're around energy that's not going in the way

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<v Speaker 4>you want to go.

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<v Speaker 3>It's maybe time to.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave that energy and you go in nowhere fast.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And so that's a huge, huge one because it's influenced,

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<v Speaker 4>like yeah, massive influence.

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<v Speaker 1>Hugely runs off. All right, sorry, going back to investments

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<v Speaker 1>because I went off. Let's talk about like the bigger

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<v Speaker 1>investments we have made in our future selves. I said

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<v Speaker 1>this at the start that one of my first big

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<v Speaker 1>investments was I got like a life coach and well

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<v Speaker 1>she was like live slash business. But again, it was

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<v Speaker 1>at a time where I had just quit my corporate

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<v Speaker 1>job and I really wanted to make this other thing work.

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<v Speaker 1>And this was before Naked Harvest, before rn C, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, I need some guidance, I need

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<v Speaker 1>someone who has done the thing. Let me get help

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<v Speaker 1>from someone who has done the thing. And it was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money, and I remember being really shit

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<v Speaker 1>scared and remember what I told you. You're like, what

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck?

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<v Speaker 4>But I remember you're telling me, and I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>do it, go girl, go and do it, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're very snot of and I yeah, I invested

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<v Speaker 1>in my future self. And obviously then after that RNC

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<v Speaker 1>came and h and that was like one of the

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<v Speaker 1>best investments. And I'm so proud of myself because especially

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<v Speaker 1>back then, like I know, the coaching world is a

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<v Speaker 1>bit more prominent now, but it was not normal to

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<v Speaker 1>spend that much money on a life coach or a

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<v Speaker 1>business coach. And I did it, and it was literally

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<v Speaker 1>the best thing I have done.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like on that note, like fifty k was a

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<v Speaker 4>lot for you, Like it was massive. But if there's

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<v Speaker 4>someone that just fifty k is too much out of

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<v Speaker 4>your just can't fathom it, Like do five grand, like

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<v Speaker 4>or a couple grand whatever you think that is above

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<v Speaker 4>what you're thinking. Because when you invest a lot of money,

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<v Speaker 4>it kind of it turns in your brain that you

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<v Speaker 4>have to make it work. And you just think, if

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to do this investment, it just has to work.

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<v Speaker 4>There's no failure like this, like it just has to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Other words, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Just it ignites something in you. Yeah, we're like I

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<v Speaker 1>am going to make this worth it, yes, and that

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<v Speaker 1>like the actual price of it one hundred percent. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to like live within your means and understand what

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<v Speaker 1>is available to you. But one hundredcent Cooper, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>it's almost that stretch of extra, st that little And

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<v Speaker 1>this is something we consistently do where me and Cooper

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<v Speaker 1>will absolutely take a risk that feels a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>out of touch or like or a lot out of touch,

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<v Speaker 1>and it pushes us and it drives us. And also

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you thrive off doing things that other

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<v Speaker 1>people think you can't do.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>I love people to say, yeah, you can't do that.

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<v Speaker 4>I talked to my dad last night and it's about

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<v Speaker 4>a holiday, and you just said, how the hell can

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<v Speaker 4>you spend that money?

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, yes, you're a sicker. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to do it just to really fuck with them.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's the thing, Like money is money, Like it's

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<v Speaker 4>just the thing when we are here for experiences, we're

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<v Speaker 4>here to learn and those things you hold on. So

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<v Speaker 4>like if you didn't want to do the five grand

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<v Speaker 4>coach or something because you wanted to keep the five grand, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>are you going to remember the coach or are you

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<v Speaker 4>going to remember saving five grand? Like You're not going

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<v Speaker 4>to remember that. You're going to remember the experience, the

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<v Speaker 4>experience and what you got out of it, and you're

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<v Speaker 4>going to hold that forever and then.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so true.

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<v Speaker 3>Love such a money block.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and should we absolutely do a whole episode of money.

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<v Speaker 3>She should do more?

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<v Speaker 1>Should we do a.

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<v Speaker 3>Course might be controversial?

0:26:41.119 --> 0:26:44.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like I love that and that and that's absolutely

0:26:44.560 --> 0:26:47.160
<v Speaker 1>what we want to normalize in this episode of like

0:26:48.240 --> 0:26:53.840
<v Speaker 1>investing in yourself, you are always going to be your

0:26:54.000 --> 0:26:58.879
<v Speaker 1>best investment. Growing up personally, like with me and Cooper,

0:26:58.920 --> 0:27:00.960
<v Speaker 1>I remember it was like if you're going to invest

0:27:01.000 --> 0:27:04.159
<v Speaker 1>its property or It's like I remember growing up and

0:27:04.240 --> 0:27:07.360
<v Speaker 1>like my whole goal in life was like do my degree,

0:27:07.920 --> 0:27:11.800
<v Speaker 1>get a job, buy a house, get married, And I

0:27:11.800 --> 0:27:18.159
<v Speaker 1>absolutely did all those things to the fucking tea. But

0:27:18.720 --> 0:27:21.639
<v Speaker 1>now that I have like the other knowledge, I'm like,

0:27:22.200 --> 0:27:26.080
<v Speaker 1>no life is about So it's I really like to

0:27:26.200 --> 0:27:28.959
<v Speaker 1>like think of it a different way of like I

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:31.320
<v Speaker 1>am my best investment. When I went and spent that

0:27:31.400 --> 0:27:34.240
<v Speaker 1>money on a life and business coach, again, it was

0:27:34.280 --> 0:27:38.080
<v Speaker 1>like that feeling of like if anyone's gonna make it happen,

0:27:38.520 --> 0:27:42.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna make it happen because I know myself and

0:27:42.359 --> 0:27:46.720
<v Speaker 1>that was such that changed me, changed my brain chemistry

0:27:47.040 --> 0:27:50.120
<v Speaker 1>as a person, and it and I think even it's

0:27:50.160 --> 0:27:52.639
<v Speaker 1>like those small things. It's like the yoga and the

0:27:52.680 --> 0:27:56.520
<v Speaker 1>acupuncture and like those little things of investing in yourself

0:27:56.560 --> 0:27:59.960
<v Speaker 1>and the PT and mindset coach and my body coach

0:28:00.119 --> 0:28:00.960
<v Speaker 1>and all those things.

0:28:01.000 --> 0:28:03.280
<v Speaker 3>It's studying courses like all that stuff.

0:28:03.680 --> 0:28:06.439
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you want to chat about what you're studying

0:28:06.480 --> 0:28:10.160
<v Speaker 1>this year because that's a huge investment in yourself.

0:28:10.520 --> 0:28:16.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's I'm investing in doing my NLP course. So

0:28:16.080 --> 0:28:22.560
<v Speaker 4>that's neuro linguistic programming, and it's yeah, to become a therapist,

0:28:22.600 --> 0:28:26.880
<v Speaker 4>which I'm very unsure right now, just my confidence in that.

0:28:27.119 --> 0:28:27.919
<v Speaker 3>I'm just not ready.

0:28:27.960 --> 0:28:32.959
<v Speaker 4>But I'm gaining a lot of knowledge with the mind

0:28:33.080 --> 0:28:36.320
<v Speaker 4>and how we think and using all of our senses

0:28:36.400 --> 0:28:39.160
<v Speaker 4>and how we yeah, and that sort of thing and

0:28:39.520 --> 0:28:44.760
<v Speaker 4>potentially yeah, go into more the trauma side, which we'll

0:28:44.800 --> 0:28:48.400
<v Speaker 4>get on that later. But yeah, so that's a pretty

0:28:48.400 --> 0:28:50.320
<v Speaker 4>good investment huge myself.

0:28:50.520 --> 0:28:53.440
<v Speaker 1>And even that's even like I think about my law

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:57.000
<v Speaker 1>degree and that was a huge investment that I'm not

0:28:57.040 --> 0:29:01.840
<v Speaker 1>currently utilizing, but it gave me so many skills and

0:29:01.880 --> 0:29:05.000
<v Speaker 1>it gave me so much life knowledge. It's like the

0:29:05.080 --> 0:29:08.400
<v Speaker 1>life and Business coach, like I probably don't use the

0:29:08.520 --> 0:29:12.719
<v Speaker 1>exact knowledge that she gave me when you know, we

0:29:12.880 --> 0:29:16.920
<v Speaker 1>did that container. But I have so much life knowledge

0:29:16.960 --> 0:29:21.280
<v Speaker 1>and like lessons and like moments from that that I

0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:23.440
<v Speaker 1>can now implement in what I do now.

0:29:24.400 --> 0:29:25.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, hugely.

0:29:25.400 --> 0:29:28.720
<v Speaker 4>I think that's why that's a big part why you're

0:29:28.760 --> 0:29:32.960
<v Speaker 4>so successful as well. Like it's definitely given you a

0:29:33.000 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 4>lot of discipline and like doing all this studying and

0:29:35.840 --> 0:29:38.720
<v Speaker 4>I've been talking to you that you're up studying every

0:29:38.960 --> 0:29:41.760
<v Speaker 4>freaking day and I was just plumbing.

0:29:41.440 --> 0:29:42.640
<v Speaker 1>But fun times.

0:29:42.920 --> 0:29:45.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So it's given a lot.

0:29:45.320 --> 0:29:48.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like it's never a waste even if you

0:29:48.640 --> 0:29:52.840
<v Speaker 1>don't go and then live out the thing. What other

0:29:52.880 --> 0:29:54.760
<v Speaker 1>investments do you invest in for yourself?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, my biggest one that I've done is investing into

0:29:59.240 --> 0:30:02.640
<v Speaker 4>his call a Mind Body Coach, and he deals with

0:30:02.960 --> 0:30:07.520
<v Speaker 4>he does trauma therapy and toxins and toxin yeah, but

0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:10.920
<v Speaker 4>he also does like your body and because he's a

0:30:11.000 --> 0:30:14.640
<v Speaker 4>natural path as well and nutritionists and he's just got

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:19.880
<v Speaker 4>a lot of licenses and he has definitely changed my life.

0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:24.840
<v Speaker 4>And it's been a wild ride for sure, dealing with

0:30:25.120 --> 0:30:27.640
<v Speaker 4>like I didn't even know what trauma was. I just

0:30:27.680 --> 0:30:31.800
<v Speaker 4>thought trauma was a pretty bad word, and it wasn't

0:30:32.200 --> 0:30:36.880
<v Speaker 4>used at all. But what I've gained is that everyone

0:30:37.080 --> 0:30:44.240
<v Speaker 4>has trauma, and it's people's traumas are different levels in

0:30:44.320 --> 0:30:48.400
<v Speaker 4>everyone's head and different, but everyone has the same sort

0:30:48.440 --> 0:30:52.440
<v Speaker 4>of level of trauma that we carry on that and

0:30:52.720 --> 0:30:53.480
<v Speaker 4>aren't benefiting.

0:30:53.520 --> 0:30:56.040
<v Speaker 1>Now you're kind of talking about it doesn't have to

0:30:56.080 --> 0:30:58.400
<v Speaker 1>be like, it doesn't have to be big tig trauma,

0:30:58.440 --> 0:31:01.760
<v Speaker 1>like you see a parent die, like something horrific. It

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:04.640
<v Speaker 1>can just be trauma in the way of like maybe

0:31:04.640 --> 0:31:07.120
<v Speaker 1>you're trying to get your parents' attention and they didn't

0:31:07.160 --> 0:31:10.920
<v Speaker 1>give you what you needed in that moment, and then

0:31:10.960 --> 0:31:15.480
<v Speaker 1>your body stores that as like rejection or not being seen,

0:31:15.920 --> 0:31:18.160
<v Speaker 1>and it's something that gets stored in your body that

0:31:18.200 --> 0:31:20.040
<v Speaker 1>you then react in a certain way.

0:31:21.320 --> 0:31:23.280
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's just a big thing. When you're a child,

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:26.760
<v Speaker 4>we always put it in ourselves, and we blame ourselves

0:31:26.840 --> 0:31:30.480
<v Speaker 4>because we don't have the knowledge to not like we

0:31:30.680 --> 0:31:33.960
<v Speaker 4>just naturally have it into ourselves. We put it on

0:31:34.000 --> 0:31:38.560
<v Speaker 4>our shoulders and then it's stored for a long time,

0:31:38.600 --> 0:31:42.240
<v Speaker 4>and that's that's the trauma that kind of follows on

0:31:42.960 --> 0:31:48.920
<v Speaker 4>as an adult. So doing that and life changing that

0:31:49.120 --> 0:31:53.000
<v Speaker 4>was just Yeah, it's like I was thinking about it

0:31:53.040 --> 0:31:57.040
<v Speaker 4>like to go with him, which does your self, It

0:31:57.080 --> 0:31:59.719
<v Speaker 4>does your inner self because there's a lot of coaches

0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:02.680
<v Speaker 4>business coaches, and there's all sorts of coaches that do

0:32:03.080 --> 0:32:06.959
<v Speaker 4>the outside stuff. But if you invest into a coach

0:32:07.760 --> 0:32:13.760
<v Speaker 4>in yourself, everything around you starts getting better, business, makes

0:32:13.760 --> 0:32:14.600
<v Speaker 4>your relationship.

0:32:15.360 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 1>It all starts with you.

0:32:16.360 --> 0:32:17.560
<v Speaker 3>It all starts with you.

0:32:18.280 --> 0:32:22.080
<v Speaker 4>So I like learned that the hard way because I've

0:32:22.120 --> 0:32:26.320
<v Speaker 4>done other stuff and but yeah, that one has just

0:32:27.040 --> 0:32:31.160
<v Speaker 4>flipped me upside down. Like the knowledge I've gained from that,

0:32:31.320 --> 0:32:34.840
<v Speaker 4>and I'm able to talk a lot easier and better

0:32:34.960 --> 0:32:38.480
<v Speaker 4>with everything that I do now. And it's it is from.

0:32:38.920 --> 0:32:44.160
<v Speaker 1>You're a completely different person. Yeah, absolutely changed your life.

0:32:44.640 --> 0:32:49.400
<v Speaker 1>But also like the investment of you taking because sometimes

0:32:49.400 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 1>your sessions like four hours long, are they? Yeah, so

0:32:52.640 --> 0:32:57.080
<v Speaker 1>you're you're you investing that sort of time out of

0:32:57.120 --> 0:33:00.480
<v Speaker 1>your week is so huge and a lot of people

0:33:00.640 --> 0:33:02.760
<v Speaker 1>like aren't prepared to do it or feel like they

0:33:02.800 --> 0:33:03.400
<v Speaker 1>can't do it.

0:33:04.440 --> 0:33:07.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because that's the funny part which a lot of

0:33:07.720 --> 0:33:10.360
<v Speaker 4>people don't understand what it can give you.

0:33:10.440 --> 0:33:13.840
<v Speaker 1>But like, well it's not normalized, is that.

0:33:13.960 --> 0:33:17.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's not, Well, no one knows about it. We

0:33:17.080 --> 0:33:19.479
<v Speaker 4>didn't know about this stuff. We didn't know have this knowledge,

0:33:19.520 --> 0:33:22.320
<v Speaker 4>And like I talked to our mom and dad, and

0:33:23.640 --> 0:33:27.480
<v Speaker 4>I'm letting them know what I'm learning, and they're learning

0:33:27.600 --> 0:33:31.600
<v Speaker 4>off what I've learned and changing their lives already, Like

0:33:31.680 --> 0:33:36.120
<v Speaker 4>they've changed a lot since I've done it, and the

0:33:36.160 --> 0:33:41.560
<v Speaker 4>people around me, and it's huge. But like we I

0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:46.000
<v Speaker 4>was thinking that we invest so many other things external,

0:33:46.080 --> 0:33:48.440
<v Speaker 4>like you said, the house and car and that sort

0:33:48.480 --> 0:33:51.240
<v Speaker 4>of thing, and we were like put all of our

0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:56.200
<v Speaker 4>money into something or maybe smaller like a car or

0:33:57.400 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 4>even a holiday or something. When you can just sacrifice

0:34:00.760 --> 0:34:05.080
<v Speaker 4>that one thing and invest in yourself and then from

0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:09.480
<v Speaker 4>then on everything else is better, Like everything's like a

0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:12.840
<v Speaker 4>domino happiness, and then you'll get those other things that

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:17.040
<v Speaker 4>you were gonna invest ten times tenfold on that. So

0:34:18.160 --> 0:34:21.880
<v Speaker 4>I just I couldn't recommend enough to just invest yourself

0:34:21.960 --> 0:34:24.759
<v Speaker 4>first and then do the rest later.

0:34:26.840 --> 0:34:28.000
<v Speaker 3>Is that too too much?

0:34:28.120 --> 0:34:28.359
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:34:28.360 --> 0:34:32.120
<v Speaker 1>No, that's and then just do the rest after. No,

0:34:32.200 --> 0:34:37.120
<v Speaker 1>but one hundred, it's not normalized to look at the

0:34:37.200 --> 0:34:41.640
<v Speaker 1>internal things first and to focus on your internal things first.

0:34:42.080 --> 0:34:44.960
<v Speaker 1>It's normalized to do the external things, to buy the house,

0:34:45.040 --> 0:34:51.239
<v Speaker 1>to invest in those like the recognized education, because in society,

0:34:51.320 --> 0:34:54.640
<v Speaker 1>that's what we're told you need to be successful. But

0:34:54.719 --> 0:34:55.560
<v Speaker 1>it's like if you.

0:34:55.520 --> 0:34:58.040
<v Speaker 4>Get the car, you get this status, and then when

0:34:58.040 --> 0:35:00.520
<v Speaker 4>you get the house, you get this, and then you

0:35:00.560 --> 0:35:02.239
<v Speaker 4>get whenever you.

0:35:02.239 --> 0:35:04.800
<v Speaker 1>Read security, I don't feel different.

0:35:05.760 --> 0:35:08.080
<v Speaker 3>I feel worse because I've got a bloody mortgage for

0:35:08.160 --> 0:35:09.200
<v Speaker 3>the Yeah.

0:35:09.920 --> 0:35:12.120
<v Speaker 1>And I think that's like the biggest thing we want

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:15.000
<v Speaker 1>to want to push in this episode is just like

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:19.960
<v Speaker 1>realizing that when you invest in yourself, in the eternal

0:35:20.200 --> 0:35:26.200
<v Speaker 1>in you, yeah, the return is tenfold. And I think

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:30.560
<v Speaker 1>also there's so much to be said about how starting

0:35:30.840 --> 0:35:33.719
<v Speaker 1>with you, like you just said, Cooper, is such a

0:35:33.760 --> 0:35:38.680
<v Speaker 1>catalyst for other things falling into place. Because when you're

0:35:38.960 --> 0:35:43.040
<v Speaker 1>happy with you, when you're solid with who you are,

0:35:43.480 --> 0:35:46.640
<v Speaker 1>when you feel good in your body, in your mind,

0:35:47.840 --> 0:35:52.640
<v Speaker 1>everything else feels better. Yeah, Like everything else falls into place.

0:35:53.160 --> 0:35:56.919
<v Speaker 1>And again, it's just not normalized to do it that way.

0:35:57.760 --> 0:36:00.880
<v Speaker 4>No, definitely not. And it's a shame, Like it is

0:36:00.920 --> 0:36:04.480
<v Speaker 4>a shame. It's a shame that our society.

0:36:04.440 --> 0:36:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, doesn't prioritize it.

0:36:06.480 --> 0:36:06.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:36:07.000 --> 0:36:09.279
<v Speaker 1>And because I have worked with the same or I'm

0:36:09.320 --> 0:36:11.719
<v Speaker 1>still currently working with the same coach that Cooper has

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:18.880
<v Speaker 1>and absolutely life changing and also I have also I remember,

0:36:19.320 --> 0:36:22.840
<v Speaker 1>I want to say, three years ago, I started seeing

0:36:22.960 --> 0:36:28.480
<v Speaker 1>like a psychologist and even that I remember, you know,

0:36:28.640 --> 0:36:30.520
<v Speaker 1>she was, you know, two hundred bucks an hour or

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:32.279
<v Speaker 1>something like that, and that was a stretch for me

0:36:32.400 --> 0:36:36.000
<v Speaker 1>at that time financially. But I remember being like, it's

0:36:36.080 --> 0:36:38.560
<v Speaker 1>not a nice place in my head, and I need

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:42.560
<v Speaker 1>to make it a nice place because I just I knew,

0:36:42.640 --> 0:36:44.759
<v Speaker 1>like everything else would you know, like you said, fall

0:36:44.760 --> 0:36:48.280
<v Speaker 1>into place. But that was also a huge thing because

0:36:48.320 --> 0:36:51.560
<v Speaker 1>it's not normalized to see a psychologist unless you're like

0:36:51.680 --> 0:36:53.960
<v Speaker 1>actually having a mental breakdown or like that's how it

0:36:54.000 --> 0:36:57.160
<v Speaker 1>was in our childhood. And it's so even things like

0:36:57.280 --> 0:36:59.279
<v Speaker 1>that that I've done on my journey that I'm like,

0:36:59.760 --> 0:37:04.600
<v Speaker 1>I I am so grateful for investing in myself and

0:37:04.680 --> 0:37:09.200
<v Speaker 1>taking that seriously. And that absolutely served me at the time,

0:37:09.320 --> 0:37:11.640
<v Speaker 1>even though you know, now I'm doing something different, I'm

0:37:11.640 --> 0:37:15.279
<v Speaker 1>seeing someone different. It's about understanding. It's like what do

0:37:15.800 --> 0:37:18.920
<v Speaker 1>I need right now and how could I invest in

0:37:18.960 --> 0:37:23.280
<v Speaker 1>myself for future me who's like six or twelve months

0:37:23.360 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 1>down the track.

0:37:24.080 --> 0:37:27.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's a good point that there's so many different

0:37:28.719 --> 0:37:31.960
<v Speaker 4>therapists there's so many different therapists in the world, so

0:37:32.520 --> 0:37:34.680
<v Speaker 4>trial it. If you go to one and it's just

0:37:34.719 --> 0:37:36.960
<v Speaker 4>not working, get out, like, yeah, there's so.

0:37:37.000 --> 0:37:39.560
<v Speaker 1>Many, don't don't then go oh, well all this boody

0:37:39.680 --> 0:37:41.399
<v Speaker 1>mental health thing that don't work.

0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:45.279
<v Speaker 4>Don't don't give up because I did do that and

0:37:45.719 --> 0:37:47.320
<v Speaker 4>I even want your therapist.

0:37:47.400 --> 0:37:49.399
<v Speaker 3>And it was the worst except in my life.

0:37:49.440 --> 0:37:53.399
<v Speaker 4>But I didn't like it, but I gave up and

0:37:53.600 --> 0:37:56.160
<v Speaker 4>I just thought, nah, I can fix it in myself,

0:37:57.000 --> 0:38:00.239
<v Speaker 4>and then a couple of years down the track, not

0:38:00.320 --> 0:38:06.239
<v Speaker 4>fix it help because when we have triggers that we

0:38:06.400 --> 0:38:10.759
<v Speaker 4>have and things that come up, it is near impossible

0:38:11.000 --> 0:38:15.800
<v Speaker 4>to fix them on your own. And that's very annoying,

0:38:16.239 --> 0:38:18.680
<v Speaker 4>like you can try and help it, but deep down

0:38:19.320 --> 0:38:21.279
<v Speaker 4>it's just it's too hard to get rid of.

0:38:21.480 --> 0:38:23.800
<v Speaker 1>But well, I think it's even not like I was

0:38:23.840 --> 0:38:27.920
<v Speaker 1>just gonna say. That's also another thing that I've noticed

0:38:27.960 --> 0:38:33.720
<v Speaker 1>in our evolution is like normalize getting support and help,

0:38:34.200 --> 0:38:38.520
<v Speaker 1>Whereas growing up it felt like I couldn't do that

0:38:38.760 --> 0:38:42.600
<v Speaker 1>unless I was like at breaking point, Like I shouldn't

0:38:42.640 --> 0:38:45.680
<v Speaker 1>get a pet because I was like somewhat fit. I

0:38:45.719 --> 0:38:49.080
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't see a psychologist because I wasn't having a mental breakdown,

0:38:49.160 --> 0:38:51.239
<v Speaker 1>Like it was almost like I needed to be on

0:38:51.440 --> 0:38:56.359
<v Speaker 1>the extremes to feel worthy to invest in myself, whereas now,

0:38:57.160 --> 0:38:59.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, at a period where I'm like, no, I'm

0:38:59.040 --> 0:39:01.480
<v Speaker 1>going to invest that. It's actually like something I did

0:39:01.560 --> 0:39:04.319
<v Speaker 1>the other day is I've been to a couple of

0:39:04.320 --> 0:39:07.719
<v Speaker 1>events and I met this really beautiful lady who she

0:39:07.920 --> 0:39:10.800
<v Speaker 1>caters and she does like the catering for the events,

0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:14.040
<v Speaker 1>and she's so she lives in Biobay. She's like so

0:39:14.200 --> 0:39:17.279
<v Speaker 1>wholesome and she does like all whole foods. She gets

0:39:17.320 --> 0:39:20.880
<v Speaker 1>all her food from the markets. She preps everything fresh

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:24.200
<v Speaker 1>and it's all made like with very simple like the

0:39:24.280 --> 0:39:27.960
<v Speaker 1>salads are just like olive oil and vinegarette and herbs

0:39:28.160 --> 0:39:31.400
<v Speaker 1>and anyway, we got her over to meal prep us

0:39:31.440 --> 0:39:35.120
<v Speaker 1>for the week, and again that absolutely is an expense,

0:39:35.160 --> 0:39:37.439
<v Speaker 1>where like if I told mom and dad they would

0:39:37.440 --> 0:39:39.959
<v Speaker 1>be like, what the fuck go and just meal prep

0:39:40.040 --> 0:39:44.600
<v Speaker 1>yourself for you know whatnot Like that's from my childhood ingrained,

0:39:45.080 --> 0:39:48.120
<v Speaker 1>and I had to like have a conversation with myself

0:39:48.160 --> 0:39:50.960
<v Speaker 1>and be like, well, you do struggle with your time, Georgia,

0:39:51.280 --> 0:39:54.160
<v Speaker 1>and this is a priority for you, and this is

0:39:54.239 --> 0:39:56.960
<v Speaker 1>something that's really going to help you and your family.

0:39:57.360 --> 0:40:01.600
<v Speaker 1>And it feels really good and it feels like the

0:40:02.000 --> 0:40:04.120
<v Speaker 1>energy that I want to be in. And so I

0:40:04.160 --> 0:40:07.719
<v Speaker 1>was like, no, this is an invest investment that I

0:40:07.880 --> 0:40:11.640
<v Speaker 1>want to make for myself, even though it's like not

0:40:11.760 --> 0:40:14.239
<v Speaker 1>how I thought I should be or you know in

0:40:14.280 --> 0:40:15.400
<v Speaker 1>my Does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, it makes sense. Like that is hard probably

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<v Speaker 4>to hear from other people because they probably can't do it,

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<v Speaker 4>but doing it yourself and getting like that the meal

0:40:28.520 --> 0:40:33.320
<v Speaker 4>preps and going to that investing in yourself with good nutrition, food,

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<v Speaker 4>take the time and the journey you're on now, like

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<v Speaker 4>you can do it and you shouldn't feel guilty.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's for that's what comes in. It's guilt, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of like I shouldn't be doing this and.

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<v Speaker 3>That that can stem back from our parents.

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<v Speaker 1>But just blame everything on your parents.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what we do.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's not absolutely take her to.

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<v Speaker 4>It's in yourself. But it's okay, And yeah, but that's

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<v Speaker 4>so good that you're able to do that, and like

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<v Speaker 4>you might have a bit of guilt there, but you

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<v Speaker 4>still did it.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's not enough.

0:41:12.360 --> 0:41:17.200
<v Speaker 4>And you've changed a lot since going to the mind,

0:41:17.200 --> 0:41:20.239
<v Speaker 4>body coach, like you're a different person as well, So

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<v Speaker 4>like you, I always tell you lately that you're just

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<v Speaker 4>completely different and like consistently being happy and free flowing.

0:41:31.000 --> 0:41:34.960
<v Speaker 4>It's like weird a mere but it's so nice to

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<v Speaker 4>be around, and it's I'm getting such good energy from you,

0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:44.360
<v Speaker 4>especially in business when shit does hit the fan and I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, how are we going to do next month? And

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, it's all good, It'll come to work, Universe.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And I'm like, lord, but then it does work,

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<v Speaker 4>and then I've slowly like I am pretty good. But

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's because you've always been that person. Now

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<v Speaker 4>you're not. I have to take it on board. But

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<v Speaker 4>then now I'm following in your footsteps of that's it

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<v Speaker 4>all happened for us.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the biggest thing that I worked on with

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<v Speaker 1>my body coaches, like my need to control an outcome

0:42:16.760 --> 0:42:20.080
<v Speaker 1>and to be that like driving factor in every single

0:42:20.120 --> 0:42:23.560
<v Speaker 1>aspect of my life. And Goop is like it's absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>backfired because now I'm like the chill One Naked Harvest

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<v Speaker 1>is like it's just all gonna work out and it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be perfect.

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<v Speaker 4>It was like not that fucking card to take, but

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<v Speaker 4>now it's like so much easier, Like why would you

0:42:40.520 --> 0:42:44.799
<v Speaker 4>live your life worrying about something that hasn't happened, And like,

0:42:44.920 --> 0:42:47.880
<v Speaker 4>that's what anxiety is. It's worrying about the future.

0:42:48.080 --> 0:42:49.680
<v Speaker 1>And I was I was living in a state of

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<v Speaker 1>anxiety like my whole life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, and that's very common and to live. I

0:42:56.520 --> 0:42:58.799
<v Speaker 4>have found this with a lot of people around me

0:42:58.880 --> 0:43:01.640
<v Speaker 4>that were either living in the past or we're living

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<v Speaker 4>in the future. Yeah, and it's not benefit you, and

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<v Speaker 4>it is so hard. But if you can get to

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<v Speaker 4>the point that you live in the present every day,

0:43:12.480 --> 0:43:16.720
<v Speaker 4>happiness is right there. Because I always like worry about

0:43:16.719 --> 0:43:19.320
<v Speaker 4>something in the future or the past, and I stop

0:43:19.400 --> 0:43:22.839
<v Speaker 4>myself and I think, look where you are, Look what

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<v Speaker 4>you're doing, Look who you are. It's pretty fucking awesome.

0:43:28.239 --> 0:43:30.560
<v Speaker 4>And you just and then you kind of stay in

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<v Speaker 4>the present and you're like and you get this wave

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<v Speaker 4>of happiness and you're like, it's actually pretty good. You

0:43:37.800 --> 0:43:39.040
<v Speaker 4>might just feel so much better.

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<v Speaker 1>And even if like the present isn't that good, like

0:43:43.320 --> 0:43:47.280
<v Speaker 1>maybe something is upp or whatever like that, it's still

0:43:47.320 --> 0:43:52.200
<v Speaker 1>being like, but what can I do right now? Rather

0:43:52.280 --> 0:43:55.000
<v Speaker 1>than being like, oh, well, this happened, and I feel

0:43:55.000 --> 0:43:56.880
<v Speaker 1>like this or this could happen in the future.

0:43:57.840 --> 0:44:02.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you can always if this bad happening in that moment,

0:44:03.000 --> 0:44:06.080
<v Speaker 4>there's always good right there right next to you.

0:44:06.080 --> 0:44:07.799
<v Speaker 3>You just got to look for it well.

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<v Speaker 1>To finish coup. I think a good question is, you know,

0:44:12.239 --> 0:44:15.840
<v Speaker 1>we're talking about investing in ourselves, and it is quite

0:44:15.920 --> 0:44:19.200
<v Speaker 1>easy to you know, invest in We're not easy, but

0:44:19.480 --> 0:44:22.319
<v Speaker 1>it is more normalized to invest in like a pt

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<v Speaker 1>or acupuncture and those sorts of things. But when it

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<v Speaker 1>does come to bigger investments, like something that is ten

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars, which we're you know, giving away to our

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<v Speaker 1>end h CO for February with the Future Youth Fund.

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<v Speaker 1>But if someone is wanting to invest ten thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 1>in something like that's a huge amount of money, especially

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<v Speaker 1>if it's not normalized maybe they grew up similar to us.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you have any tips of like what to do

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<v Speaker 1>in that scenario when they are feeling like the guilt

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<v Speaker 1>or like I shouldn't do this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's hard because it'd be pretty normal. I would

0:45:01.680 --> 0:45:06.480
<v Speaker 4>imagine that you just put on your house or even

0:45:07.239 --> 0:45:11.120
<v Speaker 4>go on a holiday or something along those lines.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's think it's you getting clear on what the

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<v Speaker 1>priority is for you. And like you know, my favorite

0:45:21.440 --> 0:45:24.040
<v Speaker 1>saying is like, if you want different, you have to

0:45:24.160 --> 0:45:27.480
<v Speaker 1>move different. So if you want a different reality, if

0:45:27.520 --> 0:45:31.120
<v Speaker 1>you want something different, you absolutely have to do something different.

0:45:31.600 --> 0:45:34.560
<v Speaker 1>And we don't have the we don't always have the

0:45:34.600 --> 0:45:38.040
<v Speaker 1>tools to do something different. And that's why we invest

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<v Speaker 1>in something external that is for us internally, that is

0:45:42.600 --> 0:45:46.120
<v Speaker 1>going to help us with the different. And I think

0:45:46.480 --> 0:45:48.719
<v Speaker 1>when you think of it that way of like, well,

0:45:48.800 --> 0:45:51.920
<v Speaker 1>I've absolutely done the best that I can with what

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<v Speaker 1>I have and this is my reality. This is like

0:45:55.080 --> 0:45:57.480
<v Speaker 1>currently what my life is, and that's amazing, but I

0:45:57.520 --> 0:46:00.480
<v Speaker 1>do want different, so I've got to do something different.

0:46:01.160 --> 0:46:04.400
<v Speaker 1>And I think, like you said, this life, it's like

0:46:05.040 --> 0:46:08.520
<v Speaker 1>we're here to have experiences, we're here to grow, we're

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<v Speaker 1>here to evolve and get out of our comfort zones.

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<v Speaker 4>So like when we're nervous or something comes up and

0:46:16.560 --> 0:46:18.960
<v Speaker 4>you're like, oh, it's kind of telling you not to

0:46:19.040 --> 0:46:25.000
<v Speaker 4>do it. Like being nervous is awesome, it's so being uncomfortable, Yeah, uncomfortable,

0:46:25.840 --> 0:46:27.160
<v Speaker 4>Like that's.

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<v Speaker 3>When the magic happens.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you should lean in on it and not

0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:35.200
<v Speaker 4>go back inside and not do it because your experiences,

0:46:35.400 --> 0:46:40.960
<v Speaker 4>learning and doing more for yourself and don't have that

0:46:41.040 --> 0:46:45.520
<v Speaker 4>guilt that you shouldn't do it for yourself of like

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<v Speaker 4>who am I to do it?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not that person.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's the thing that I've noticed as well, that

0:46:52.480 --> 0:46:57.080
<v Speaker 4>everyone has a personality of like that's just who I am,

0:46:57.600 --> 0:46:59.080
<v Speaker 4>Like it isn't.

0:47:00.200 --> 0:47:02.399
<v Speaker 1>Literally be whoever the fuck you want.

0:47:02.560 --> 0:47:05.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Yeah, and you can go and do it, Like

0:47:05.600 --> 0:47:10.640
<v Speaker 4>you can change your personality and be the person who

0:47:10.640 --> 0:47:11.239
<v Speaker 4>you want to be.

0:47:11.960 --> 0:47:14.640
<v Speaker 1>And the difference between you and the person you want

0:47:14.640 --> 0:47:20.200
<v Speaker 1>to be is they just have a different set of beliefs, emotions,

0:47:20.680 --> 0:47:24.080
<v Speaker 1>and tools. So if you want to be that different person,

0:47:24.520 --> 0:47:26.759
<v Speaker 1>go and invest in what you need to invest to

0:47:26.800 --> 0:47:27.880
<v Speaker 1>be that different person.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, just tell yourself, like the best version of myself,

0:47:33.320 --> 0:47:34.160
<v Speaker 4>what would they do?

0:47:34.520 --> 0:47:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I do that daily.

0:47:37.239 --> 0:47:40.960
<v Speaker 4>I have my values that I stick to and any

0:47:41.160 --> 0:47:43.640
<v Speaker 4>decision I make or anything I do in my life

0:47:44.080 --> 0:47:46.160
<v Speaker 4>has to go in line with those values, and if

0:47:46.160 --> 0:47:48.440
<v Speaker 4>they don't, then it's just not right for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's also another thing, is like get clear on

0:47:52.160 --> 0:47:55.799
<v Speaker 1>what your priorities are, because if your priorities are is

0:47:55.880 --> 0:47:59.120
<v Speaker 1>I want something different? I want this reality that's over here,

0:47:59.200 --> 0:48:01.600
<v Speaker 1>all this thing that's over here and you don't know

0:48:01.640 --> 0:48:04.040
<v Speaker 1>how to get there, then it's obviously a priority to

0:48:04.160 --> 0:48:07.160
<v Speaker 1>invest in yourself to get there and like being clear

0:48:07.200 --> 0:48:10.279
<v Speaker 1>in that. But guys, that was just a long, long

0:48:10.400 --> 0:48:13.800
<v Speaker 1>rant meaning Cooper going on about how we invested ourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that was very powerful.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we appreciate it, We absolutely do.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's it's good to have this conversation Cooper because,

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<v Speaker 1>like we said, we didn't get this conversation growing up.

0:48:30.200 --> 0:48:32.319
<v Speaker 1>It was not normalized for us, and we've had to

0:48:32.360 --> 0:48:36.440
<v Speaker 1>like tread through a lot of interesting emotions and beliefs.

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<v Speaker 1>So we think it's really important to put this information

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<v Speaker 1>out there and talk about this concept because it's not

0:48:42.360 --> 0:48:46.279
<v Speaker 1>often talked about. And also we are just so excited

0:48:46.360 --> 0:48:50.120
<v Speaker 1>for one of our nh CO community members to get

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<v Speaker 1>ten thousand dollars to invest in their future selves.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's just going to be life changing.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally life changing. So guys, if you do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to go into the future, you fund or you have

0:49:02.920 --> 0:49:05.160
<v Speaker 1>to do a shop through en h for the whole

0:49:05.160 --> 0:49:08.399
<v Speaker 1>month of feb There will be t's and c's in

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<v Speaker 1>the show notes. We'll put a link there and then

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<v Speaker 1>you do have to register your interest, so you just

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<v Speaker 1>go onto the landing page on the website, you put

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<v Speaker 1>in your AUDER number. And also we would just love

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<v Speaker 1>for you to just write a little brief explanation of

0:49:24.880 --> 0:49:28.759
<v Speaker 1>like what you would invest your future, like what you

0:49:28.800 --> 0:49:32.120
<v Speaker 1>would invest the future you fund in two for your

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<v Speaker 1>future self. I just can't wait to hear all the answers.

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<v Speaker 4>And because on that, like you might it might be

0:49:39.719 --> 0:49:43.319
<v Speaker 4>a bit much for you to do it, but and

0:49:43.400 --> 0:49:45.680
<v Speaker 4>a bit silly, but for you to actually go in

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<v Speaker 4>there and just let go and see what you come

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<v Speaker 4>up with and then read back on it, like you'll

0:49:51.920 --> 0:49:56.080
<v Speaker 4>surprise yourself. Because I just kind of think that listening

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<v Speaker 4>to that, I probably would be like ain doing that,

0:49:59.520 --> 0:50:01.319
<v Speaker 4>but that might be me, But I just want to

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<v Speaker 4>say that, just give it a chance, see what you

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<v Speaker 4>come up with, and see what you write down, and

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<v Speaker 4>you'll surprise yourself and what kind of comes up. And

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<v Speaker 4>because yeah, I was the complete opposite.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you did it in the day, prioritize yourself for but.

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<v Speaker 4>Now since doing it, like I wish I did more

0:50:23.760 --> 0:50:27.200
<v Speaker 4>of that stuff and I was let into that. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>give it a go, and it'd be really powerful.

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<v Speaker 1>So powerful all right, guys, thank you so much for listening.

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<v Speaker 1>We love doing this episode. Come with the Facebook group

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<v Speaker 1>and chat to us because we're going to put a

0:50:38.360 --> 0:50:40.919
<v Speaker 1>thread in there because I'd love to know what you

0:50:41.080 --> 0:50:44.440
<v Speaker 1>would invest in. And of course all links will be

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<v Speaker 1>in the show notes. Cooper, thanks so much for joining me. Thanks,

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