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Speaker 1: It's Will and Woody podcast Mini.

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Speaker 2: The other one that I would like to be rid

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Speaker 2: of is and this is like, it's a bit of

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Speaker 2: a childhood hang up that I've had and I'm getting Yeah,

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Speaker 2: a lot of them just stay with him from child

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Speaker 2: which imagine that's just here, isn't it. So it's the

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Speaker 2: idea that if you actually really get to know me,

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Speaker 2: you won't like me. And that's it's really difficult meeting

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Speaker 2: new people because I I've got an awareness of it now,

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Speaker 2: but I straight away I put on this performance or

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Speaker 2: I become the person that I think I need to

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Speaker 2: become so that person likes me yep. And then and

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Speaker 2: then that that's okay, Like I think it's okay to

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Speaker 2: be a bit sociable like that. But where it becomes

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Speaker 2: trouble is if I then develop a friendship with that person.

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Speaker 2: I get scared that, oh, you're going to figure out

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Speaker 2: who I really am. We're going to figure out what

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Speaker 2: I'm actually like, and then you won't like me. So

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Speaker 2: then I might distance myself a little bit, and I

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Speaker 2: reckon I can do that a bit. And it's really

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Speaker 2: once they.

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Speaker 1: Start to get to know you and they try hard

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Speaker 1: to be mates with you and you're like, oh, you're

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Speaker 1: not gonna like what you find here.

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Speaker 2: And I'm trying to like keeping arms like that. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: no no. I don't want you to figure out that

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Speaker 2: I'm what I'm actually until what I'm actually like, because

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Speaker 2: you're that'd be really embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: That'd be embarrassing for you. Did they find that out?

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Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed about what I'm actually like.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, what are you actually like? Then?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, so you know me very well? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I like, I'm pretty sure.

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Speaker 1: What I want to know? What it is about that

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Speaker 1: that you're afraid people will see.

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Speaker 2: As in like as in the real mat But I'm

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Speaker 2: most about the real.

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Speaker 1: Thing that you're worried about that they're not going to

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Speaker 1: like everything.

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Speaker 2: Really, But there's there's just a lot of there's just

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Speaker 2: a lot about me, like what I So, for example,

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Speaker 2: if I was to say, on a first date with

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Speaker 2: someone what I really wanted to do, it would be like,

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Speaker 2: I can't be in an environment where there's too many

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Speaker 2: people because that'll make me feel a little bit weird.

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Speaker 2: I don't want there to be loud music playing. I

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Speaker 2: probably I probably don't want to go too hard on

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Speaker 2: the drink. Yeah, you know, like that it's a shame.

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Speaker 2: But I probably put on a bit of a front

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Speaker 2: early on where I'm like, oh, yeah, Tuesday night, I'll

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Speaker 2: have oh, a couple of goddamn bevies. Yeah, but in

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Speaker 2: my head, I might No, I probably don't want to

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Speaker 2: do that. Yeah, I'd probably just want to go to

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Speaker 2: like a very quiet environment on some grass and sit

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Speaker 2: in silence for a while. Yeah. Right, And that for

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Speaker 2: me is like, oh.

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Speaker 1: But that's not Can I just say like that that's

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Speaker 1: your preference on a date, that's not who you are?

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Speaker 1: But you know what I mean, Like, are you more afraid?

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Speaker 1: Do you think? And again I'm not I don't know this,

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Speaker 1: but are you more afraid? Do you think about the

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Speaker 1: disparity between like how entertaining you can be and how

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Speaker 1: you are away from being entertaining?

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Speaker 2: Like who you are?

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Speaker 1: You know? It's almost like that Jim Carrey movie The Mask, Right,

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Speaker 1: you know that's what he's afraid of. He's like, who

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Speaker 1: I am and who I'm not. When I've got the

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Speaker 1: mask on, when I've got the mask off, they're very

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Speaker 1: I can't do this without the mask. He's kind of

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Speaker 1: the idea of that. But but I feel as if

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Speaker 1: like a lot of people would find that kind of

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Speaker 1: relieving in.

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Speaker 2: A way in which circumstances and the person who's taken

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Speaker 2: off the mask, or the person who's seen the person

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Speaker 2: without the mask on.

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Speaker 1: The person who's dating the person, the other person to

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Speaker 1: know that they've got gears where they can take the

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Speaker 1: mask off.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sure, that's got to be a great thing. And as

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Speaker 1: your friend, Yeah, that's awesome that I know that about you.

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Speaker 2: And there is a group of people in my life

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Speaker 2: who one hundred percent know the real met and because

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Speaker 2: of that, it's a it's a far stronger bond and

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Speaker 2: a better relationship. But I'm just saying the fear that

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Speaker 2: I've got, the irrational fear that I've got, is I

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Speaker 2: still find it difficult to take that mask off with

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Speaker 2: new people that I made. Yeah, And so what I'm

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Speaker 2: saying is I just I'd love to be rid of that,

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Speaker 2: even with new people. Yeah, because I've got it with you,

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Speaker 2: I've got it with my partner, Mim, I've got it with.

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Speaker 1: Friends with me. I hate you, mate, No, I love

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Speaker 1: your work. Well, thanks for being honest. That was really great.

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Speaker 1: That was really good. I think a lot of people

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Speaker 1: would have benefit because again with all those questions, there's always

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Speaker 1: a lot of people who are listening who would have

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Speaker 1: exactly the same exactly the same complex, I would think.

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Speaker 2: So, Yeah, hear more of the boys on the full podcast.

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Speaker 1: Just scroll up.