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Speaker 1: Merry Chrissy, Can you believe it?

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Speaker 2: Last episode of our Christmas series. I hope you have

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Speaker 2: enjoyed it. I hope you've had fun with your little

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Speaker 2: Christmas goober elf. Here, Lola is my name. If you're

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Speaker 2: new to this podcast. All right, I want to talk

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Speaker 2: goal setting with you for twenty twenty one because twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty was such an unpredictable year in that our worlds

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Speaker 2: were turned upside down, our jobs were turned upside down,

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Speaker 2: our living was turned upside down, travel went like so

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Speaker 2: many things changed and so many experiences provided us with

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Speaker 2: a wonderful opportunity to learn and grow and understand ourselves more.

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Speaker 2: But it also come came with a lot of uncomfortable

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Speaker 2: feelings and confrontation. Not to be a down or about

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty. Twenty twenty is a wonderful has been a

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Speaker 2: wonderful gift for many people to understand and learn themselves

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Speaker 2: and work on themselves. And I've spoken to a lot

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Speaker 2: of people that have started to get therapy during this time.

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Speaker 2: So twenty twenty we have lived through history. What an incredible, bizarre, confronting, horrible, beautiful,

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Speaker 2: and everything in between experience.

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Speaker 1: So twenty twenty one. How does that look for you?

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Speaker 1: How does that feel?

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Speaker 2: I don't know about you, but I think twenty twenty

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Speaker 2: one is the year that we're.

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Speaker 1: All just going to go, let's just chase that dream.

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Speaker 2: It's that kind of thing where you just go, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna swear right now, but fuck it, you know, like,

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Speaker 2: let's just give it a shot. Let's just chase the dream.

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Speaker 2: I felt during twenty twenty super confronted with mortality. I

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, like, you're seeing footage and hearing numbers

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Speaker 2: of so many fatalities and so many people dying, and

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Speaker 2: it's really confronting, and all of a sudden, you're like, oh, wow,

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Speaker 2: we're not here forever, so we may as well be

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Speaker 2: doing something that we love and chasing something that makes

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Speaker 2: sense to our hearts. And I invite you to tap

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Speaker 2: into that energy of chasing whatever's in your heart. For

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty one. This is going to be the year

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Speaker 2: that people fly quite literally to I imagine. But I

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Speaker 2: think this is the year where we've had all this

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Speaker 2: time to really sit with ourselves and face ourselves and

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Speaker 1: What it is we want.

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Speaker 2: And now moving into the new year, it is like, wow,

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Speaker 2: if we want something, we've got to have the courage

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Speaker 2: and the bravery to really go after it. And that

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Speaker 2: means sailing away from the safe harbor. That means letting

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Speaker 2: go of all the things that feel good but not

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Speaker 2: passionate and great, and it means not living your back

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Speaker 2: up job. And it means you know, having that fire

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Speaker 2: within you that propels you forward into the unknown. So

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Speaker 2: that's what twenty twenty one for me, is going to

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Speaker 2: be all about. It's about jumping, and it's about chasing

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Speaker 2: the dream and not letting self doubt pull me back

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Speaker 2: and stop me from moving forward and hold me back

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Speaker 2: from being who I truly want to be.

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Speaker 1: So how does that sound? I hope you're like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty one, Well, let's do this.

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Speaker 2: The start of a year is always confronting, end of

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Speaker 2: one year, moving into a new year, it's always confronting. Obviously, again,

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty has been.

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Speaker 2: We're going to move into this next year, maybe feeling

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Speaker 1: Feeling a bit like, oh what do I do? I

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Speaker 1: don't I feel lost?

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Speaker 2: I feel you know, I want security, I want you know.

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Speaker 2: That's fine, and it's good to feel all those things.

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Speaker 2: But what I'm going to invite you to do today

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Speaker 2: is to really if what would you do right now,

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Speaker 2: if nothing else mattered, where would you be? What would

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Speaker 2: hanging out with? You know? Does it mean that twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty one is the year that you tell that person

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Speaker 2: freaking love them.

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Speaker 1: Is twenty twenty one the year.

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Speaker 2: That you go, I've had this career for five years,

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Speaker 2: but it doesn't feel righted. I'm chasing something new. Is

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Speaker 1: Is it that year? You know?

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Speaker 2: It's the year where you've got to put yourself out there.

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Speaker 2: I had a phone call the other day and someone

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Speaker 2: I sound like a crazy person right now because my

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Speaker 2: your nutrition and your TV hosting and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: if an acting gig comes up, I'm going to jump

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Speaker 2: wholeheartedly and I'm going to give it a red heart crack.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not going to niche myself into just one thing.

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Speaker 2: I believe that you can be many great things, and

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Speaker 2: I believe that you're in charge of getting to where

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Speaker 2: you want to go. I often say this quote, and

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Speaker 2: it was my first year nutrition teacher. Her name was

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Speaker 2: mal and she said, if you've got a dream, you're

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Speaker 2: the only person that can get you there, and you're

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Speaker 2: the only person that can stop you. You're the only

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Speaker 2: person who can get you there. So it's up to you,

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Speaker 2: and you're the only person who can stop you. So

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Speaker 2: it's only you that can sabotage it. It's only you

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Speaker 2: that can get in your way. It's only you that

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Speaker 2: can lack the drive. It's no one else. We can't

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Speaker 2: lay blame in other places. And I remember hearing that, going.

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Speaker 2: It's true, and it's empowering when we know that it's

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Speaker 2: only you that can get you to your dream. It's

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Speaker 2: only you that can stop you.

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Speaker 1: How cool? Right? How cool?

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Speaker 2: So I said to this person that was saying, oh,

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Speaker 2: you know, you're focusing on just being an actor, I'm like, nah,

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Speaker 2: I'm focusing on being anything that makes me feel alive.

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Speaker 2: And I feel most alive when I'm in front of

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Speaker 2: or home and away, bring it on. I'll give any

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Speaker 2: say it, and I was like, oh wow, I'm starting

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Speaker 2: to get fearless. And I think fearlessness and this podcast

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Speaker 2: is called Fearlessly Failing. I think fearlessness is a key

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Speaker 2: element and a key ingredient to moving into twenty twenty one.

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Speaker 2: We've got to be fearless, and people around you that

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Speaker 2: you sure you want to do that. I don't think

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Speaker 2: that that's the right thing. That's not as safe as

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Speaker 2: this other job that you've got. All that's not as

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Speaker 2: I don't know that that that's the way you need

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Speaker 2: to learn to go. I hear you. Thank you for

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Speaker 2: wanting to protect me. I'm going to trust my gut here,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to trust my intuition.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to trust my heart.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to chase this thing because ninety percent, maybe more,

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Speaker 2: don't do that. Most people let the doubt stop them.

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Speaker 2: On Monday, that Dennis Walter episode came out and he

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Speaker 2: said he knew at fifteen years old he wanted to

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Speaker 2: the news for sixteen years for win Now. I thought

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Speaker 2: that's interesting. They're three very different careers and standalone careers.

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Speaker 2: And he was like, no, I knew I wanted to

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Speaker 1: He literally does all three.

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Speaker 2: That guy was driven enough and able enough to ignore

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Speaker 2: able to ignore the self doubt and move forward and

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Speaker 2: forge his own path simply because he had the drive.

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Speaker 2: He grew up with nothing, very humble beginnings, had the

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Speaker 2: Monday's podcast, Dennis Walter is hands down one of the

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Speaker 2: coolest humans I have ever met. He's also going to

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Speaker 2: be doing carols by candlelight on Christmas Eve from Melbourne.

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Speaker 2: Tune in, Feel the fear and do it anyway. That's

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Speaker 2: what fearlessness is. It doesn't mean you don't feel the fear.

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Speaker 2: Holy smokes, you feel it, beat you do it anyway.

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Speaker 2: Don't let the doubt stop you. You know, move into

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty one, going I got this, I have got this.

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Speaker 2: It is your self belief that will get you that.

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Speaker 2: You got to have your own back one hundred million percent.

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Speaker 2: you not to do it, that will laugh at you,

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Speaker 2: that will tell you you're a failure. You know that

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Speaker 2: don't actually want you to succeed. Know that, Know that

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Speaker 2: right now and do it anyway, Like do it because

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Speaker 2: how you get there. Like I'm a list girl, I'm

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Speaker 2: a manifesto girl. Like you know, as I'm sitting here,

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Speaker 2: I've got a plan for this month, for next month,

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Speaker 2: It might mean for you you're like, Okay, what are

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Speaker 1: Is your goal for twenty twenty one?

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Speaker 2: To chase that dream or to change your career start

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Speaker 2: studying is your goal for twenty twenty one. To move

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Speaker 2: only one stopping you. It's not going to be comfortable.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to sit here in sugarcoat it and

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Speaker 2: be like, chase your dreams. It's all sugar and pie

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Speaker 2: and delicious and easy. It's hard, it's uncomfortable, and people

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Speaker 2: are going to tell you no, do it anyway.

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Speaker 1: Chase your dreams. You have to because.

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Speaker 2: You have to do it, because you deserve to do that,

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Speaker 2: and we deserve to live that way where you are

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Speaker 2: honestly marching to the beat of your own drum, and

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Speaker 2: you were you how many people seven billion point blah

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Speaker 2: blah blah people in the world. There's only one you,

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Speaker 2: and there's only one you in this one lifetime. By jingy,

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Speaker 2: you better chase that dream. Chase it. Let twenty twenty

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Speaker 2: one be the year that you feel the fear and

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Speaker 2: do it anyway, that you open your heart and be vulnerable,

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Speaker 2: that you be seen, that you let go of yourself doubt.

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Speaker 2: Nobody is going to judge you as harshly as you

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Speaker 2: judge yourself. And if they do, they're a dickhead, They're

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Speaker 2: a dingo. Cut them out, let them go. Have the

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Speaker 2: go after it, and there'll be peeps people listening to

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Speaker 2: this going no like yogi.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you're chasing your dream and it'll.

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Speaker 2: Flow, It'll just flow, and there will be totally moments

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Speaker 2: of that. There's going to be totally moments where time

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Speaker 2: stops and you're like, ah, the universe is rewarding.

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Speaker 1: I'm in flow.

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Speaker 2: But they're really successful people. They've felt failure, they've got

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Speaker 2: back up, they've dusted themselves off, and.

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Speaker 1: They've failed again. They've done it again.

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Speaker 2: They've got up, dusted themselves off, learn a little bit,

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Speaker 2: and that's where eventually you hit success. I believe, have

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Speaker 2: the courage, have the vulnerability, have the drive, have the

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Speaker 2: self belief to go after it because life's way too

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Speaker 2: short to have regrets. I don't want anybody who's listening

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Speaker 2: to this right now to have a regret.

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Speaker 1: Don't.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to leave you with the question I asked

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Speaker 2: at the start of this, and it's simple, what would

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Speaker 2: you do if nothing else mattered? Money, time, location, love,

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Speaker 2: blah blah blah, all those things, social expectations, if none

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Speaker 2: of that mattered, what would you be doing? Are you

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Speaker 2: doing it? Make twenty twenty one the year that you

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Speaker 2: do it, big love. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas.

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Speaker 1: I hope you have a.

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Speaker 2: Phenomenal New Year, and I hope that twenty twenty one

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Speaker 2: is the year that you make your dreams come true.

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Speaker 1: Love you all.

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Speaker 2: The space, space spat it

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Speaker 1: Splas