WEBVTT - LHFM ✨ the universe has your back stories 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.600 The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:08.320 land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen Bear region. 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:13.320 We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land, 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:16.840 sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:20.880 past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:34.159 and Terrestrate Islander peoples today. Hello and welcome back to 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:37.360 the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:49.360 ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things. 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:53.479 Oh my god, I you doing no. 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:57.680 I can't get over this story. 0:00:57.840 --> 0:00:59.120 It's like the best story ever. 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:09.760 Hello and welcome back to the Rise and Conker Podcast. 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:13.280 It is your host, Georgie Stevenson here, and I've got 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:14.200 a tear with me. 0:01:14.640 --> 0:01:16.400 Hello everybody, guys. 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:18.959 Today we are changing things up. We're not doing the 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:23.199 usual g's hotline. We've got a fun new segment. 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:25.600 Called Life Happens for Me. 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:38.320 I hope you enjoyed that fun A little down there. 0:01:38.360 --> 0:01:40.960 We just found that I couldn't tell me and a 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:44.720 tear were like jamming out guys. So new segment we 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:49.040 got you guys to send in your Life Happens for 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:52.800 Me messages and they're the best, and they're the best, 0:01:52.840 --> 0:01:57.280 and this is going to be a feel good expanded episode, 0:01:57.320 --> 0:02:00.480 you guys know, with manifesting, what I say is go 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:05.280 out and find your expanders of what makes you believe 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:08.919 that you can do life and life happens for you 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:13.639 when you know all those all those things and oh 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:16.160 my god, these stories are extraordinary, aren't they are, Tea? 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.400 They are. They're so good this episode. 0:02:19.240 --> 0:02:22.880 So this is just going to pep you up and 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:26.960 make you believe that good shit happens and life happens 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:29.360 bloody for you. Before we get into the show, though, 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:32.760 weekly recommendations a tear you go. 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:34.800 First, I would like to recommend a song. 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:40.880 Oh she got told movie recommendations. 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:41.799 Guys. 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:43.920 We're having a team lunch the other day and we 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:48.120 got into this conversation and a Tea has basically seen 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:49.760 every movie and show. 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:52.040 Everyone just like couldn't believe it. 0:02:52.560 --> 0:02:56.359 And then she was like off recommending all all these 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:59.440 TVs and shows to everyone for like their personalities. 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:04.840 Love that. Watch your song I'm good the David Ghettar version. 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:06.760 Have you heard of play a little bit for me? 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:09.440 You for sure would have heard it. It's a trending 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:11.440 sound at the moment, but I listened to the full 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:15.040 song and it's like that with your windows down and 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:17.360 the sun and just makes you feel so good. 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:18.920 You know, it's been raining. 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:22.400 I played it this morning and it just like really 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:23.639 pumps you up for a good day. 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:25.440 Love play. 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:29.680 It's a little snippet, Oh my god, this is like 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:34.440 a oh I'm Blue, the remix step I fucking vibes 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:38.840 that song when I was like twelve, and if you 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:40.960 hear the words, it's nice. 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:43.320 Oh my god, Yeah, I know the song. 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:48.000 Love. 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:51.000 Thanks Tatia, You're welcome. What's your actual song name? 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:54.280 It is I'm Good in brackets blue because it's the 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:57.040 remix of I'm Blue and it's David Ghetter and bb 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:59.920 Rexer love. Yeah, and the beginning's kind of an app 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.440 You're like, I'm good, I'm feeling all right, I'm going 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:03.440 to have a good night. 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:05.640 Driving to work. 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:10.840 Yes, I'm like, it's gonna be a good day love. Yeah. 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:13.280 What's your recommendation? So? 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:16.520 Something I did at the start of the week, and 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:20.440 I will keep you updated if I stick to it 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:22.599 is Sorry, guys, I've got like a block no, so 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:24.720 I probably sound a bit weird. I'm just getting over 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:27.719 a sickness, but I overhauled my calendar. 0:04:28.160 --> 0:04:31.320 Oh so me and Ellie sat down. 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:35.120 If you guys don't know, Ellie is my EA executive 0:04:35.279 --> 0:04:38.080 assistant and she helps me out with content and all 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:38.920 the life things. 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:42.560 And she had an intervention with me the other day. 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:46.280 And I have I have a calendar and I plan 0:04:46.360 --> 0:04:50.120 things out and I have meetings in there. But there'll 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:52.559 be a meeting on the same time of another meeting, 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:56.400 and I'll just accept it. It will just be in 0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:58.560 my calendar and it won't be till the time and 0:04:58.600 --> 0:05:00.159 someone's like, I've got a meeting with you, and then 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:01.719 the other person's like, I've good a meeting with you. 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:06.080 And I'm like, oh, this is a dilemma. Just wasn't 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:09.359 good at like keeping my calendar. So what we've done 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:12.560 is we have And then also I was complaining to 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:15.320 her about I have I feel like I'm on a 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:16.159 hamster wheel. 0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:18.200 I feel like because what I. 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:22.240 Do at work is I'm not really in the doing 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:25.760 anymore because I'm more I do approvals and I have meetings, 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:29.960 Like my whole weeks is meetings. I pitch my vision 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:33.720 idea and then we have an amazing team who implement it, 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:36.040 and then I approve, we go back and. 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:36.960 Forth, blah blah blah. 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:39.640 Yeah, so my whole week is those sorts of meetings, 0:05:39.760 --> 0:05:42.280 and so I feel like my whole calendar was just 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:44.920 like a random meeting here and a random meeting there, 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:47.880 and then I'd like randomly do emails and there's all 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:51.320 these wearing a certain hat, and I didn't have my 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:53.880 creative time, which I winch about all the time. So 0:05:53.920 --> 0:05:56.040 I didn't have my creative time in there. It's not 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:57.919 like I have my workouts in there. It's not like 0:05:57.960 --> 0:05:59.800 I have my self care time. And then I'd always 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:03.280 been like double booked and feeling flustered and just not good. 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:07.000 So Ellie's like, I'm going to take control of your calendar. 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:09.880 And what we've done is Thursdays, I've booked in my 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:12.839 weekly check ins with the whole team. So literally my 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:16.120 whole day from eight till you know, four pm is 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:19.480 like back to back meetings of check ins. And what 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:22.480 I'm going to try and stick to is doing my 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:27.080 approvals and admin with everyone that day. And then it's 0:06:27.160 --> 0:06:29.040 kind of like you're not going to chat to me 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:34.000 until next sersay yaha ya, no, no of course that's 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:37.760 like not going to be viable. Yeah, But it's more 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:40.560 just trying to have that time so people know, oh, 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:43.240 I'm not going to randomly like go into Georgie's office, 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:44.880 even though I just said you could it here. But 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:50.719 it's like, you know, keeping things being ahead and having 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:51.680 that like really. 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:55.080 Set time because then you won't ning it other time exactly. 0:06:55.680 --> 0:07:00.120 And I think what has gone wrong here is I 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:03.880 M a bit elusive, So people are always like having 0:07:03.920 --> 0:07:06.520 to chase me or they will just have to pop 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:07.160 their headings. 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:09.200 We have it like I never go to their meeting. 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:12.720 Because she's got three meetings because I've got three meetings 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:15.400 on at the same time. So I'm trying to be 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:18.880 like really strict, really have enough time for everyone, but 0:07:18.920 --> 0:07:22.040 it be put into the calendar and have those boundaries. 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:22.480 I guess. 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:23.480 Yeah, So we're going to. 0:07:23.400 --> 0:07:24.160 See how that goes. 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:26.880 And then every Friday, me and Ellie are going to 0:07:26.960 --> 0:07:30.400 have a call where we go over the next week 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:34.080 we confirm. For example, if I've got a podcast for recording, 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:37.040 it's like have you confirmed it with that person? Is 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:40.200 it definitely happening? So Ellie will like email you know, 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:45.040 Jamie or my other meetings, confirm them, and then from 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:48.800 there we'll book in when I'm going to gym, when 0:07:48.960 --> 0:07:52.440 I'm going to have some down creative time to like, 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.960 you know, think of whatever I want to do or 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:58.920 the vision of the business, rather than just stuck in. 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:01.520 The rivals to do lists. 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:03.559 If that makes sense, that's really clever. 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:05.080 I will update you, guys. 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:08.800 But that's what I'm recommending is doing like a calendar 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:13.120 overhaul and being like this weekly recurring meeting in there? 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:15.720 Am I actually doing it? Is this productive? Do I 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:18.040 need to put in something recurring? You know? 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:18.800 Blah blah blah. 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:20.840 Yeah, do a bit of a overhaul, a bit of 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:22.320 a spring clean of the old calendar. 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:23.280 Love that. 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:27.320 On that note, guys, A Lance get into a Life 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:29.080 Happens for Me episode. 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:33.200 First one. I was twenty. 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:37.520 Four and never had a boyfriend. I moved to Australia 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:41.040 from London. Met this guy two weeks after I landed. 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:43.880 We've now been together eighteen years. 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:46.119 I think I'm gonna cry in this episode. 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:51.280 Oh my god, A tears literally, Oh my god, You're okay. 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:57.199 I think so sweet the universe needed me to move 0:08:57.240 --> 0:08:58.600 countries to meet my soulmate. 0:08:58.800 --> 0:08:59.840 That's so sweet. 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:01.600 Watering up. 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:03.600 I don't know if that's going to make me water up, 0:09:03.640 --> 0:09:06.480 but I think there'll be some that'll make you water Okay, 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:08.080 love that, And you know what. 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:09.959 I just want to say on that quickly. Yeah, she 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:14.240 wasn't worried. No, she wasn't worried. Fucking twenty four, that's 0:09:14.240 --> 0:09:15.200 still very young. 0:09:15.440 --> 0:09:18.480 Yeah, but I think people feel like it's not as 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:21.080 soon as you hit like twenty one and you haven't 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:22.800 been in a relationship. 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:24.480 It's like the big deal, one hundred percent. When you've 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:26.920 never had a relationship, you don't realize. 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:27.400 How shit they can be. 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:31.359 And this would have been her first relationship. 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:35.240 Oh I love that. Eighteen years. We love that life 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:36.440 happens for you. 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:43.080 Okay. The second one bit of a long one love 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:46.800 Hi ladies. My story of when I truly realized the 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:49.600 universe had my back. For two and a half years, 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:52.880 my husband and I tried for a baby and absolutely 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:57.400 nothing happened, And nothing was wrong medically with either of us. 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:01.439 It just wasn't happening, much to our sadness. After one 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:03.959 and a half years of trying, I was offered a 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:06.520 new role at work, which was a huge pay rise 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:10.520 and wonderful opportunity. With this additional money, we finished huge 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:13.880 amounts of renovations. At the end of the financial year, 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:16.480 I was also given a huge bonus pay. I felt 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:19.400 so incredible. I treated myself to a lux handbag for 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:21.840 the first time. I love that for you. My husband 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:24.080 and I went to dinner to celebrate the big bonus, 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:26.800 and for the first time we spoke about things that 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:29.880 are meant to be. I said, perhaps the universe hadn't 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:32.200 allowed a baby into our lives, because then I would 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:36.480 have had missed my incredible work opportunity. Our house would 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:39.520 have still been very hard work, especially to juggle with 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:42.800 a baby, and we were just feeling this amazing ease 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:46.560 and flow of life together. Two days later, I had 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.960 this strange feeling to do a pregnancy test, the first 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:53.520 I'd ever done. I was pregnant. We now have the 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:56.480 most perfect baby in our lives. I know the universe 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:59.120 had our backs and was as much as we didn't 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:02.560 really want to times be patient, everything came into line 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:05.520 and I wouldn't have it any other way. I'm so grateful. 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:08.560 Also another secret little side note, I'm doing the project 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:11.559 and loving it. Some of what I'm manifesting includes stepping 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:14.280 into my new self as a working mother and also 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:17.360 being a boss at work with significant pay rise. I 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:20.079 returned it to work on Monday, and after some discussions 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:23.160 and negotiations today was offered a new bonus structure which 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:25.920 can boocet my current pay by very significant figures. 0:11:26.120 --> 0:11:27.160 Oh my god, I know. 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:28.520 I love this so much. 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:30.040 I got shivers, mean too. 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:33.080 I can obviously resonate with this a lot because we 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:36.400 had to be so patient with our trying to conceive journey, 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:38.720 and as much as I hated it at the time, 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:42.240 with hindsight, I can look back and also say the 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:44.240 same things of like, I don't know, I think the 0:11:44.320 --> 0:11:48.240 universe this is going to sound quite cruel, especially if 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:50.920 you ask someone who's trying to conceive and it's not happening. 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:54.160 I think life gives you a baby at the perfect 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:58.080 time for you and your you know everything, and like, 0:11:58.200 --> 0:12:01.720 I couldn't imagine that too, and half years is long. 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:05.120 But I'm just so happy for them, mean too. 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:06.240 It's so sweet. 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:09.720 And I think as well, especially with this one, while 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:11.520 you're in the think of it, it just would be 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:13.240 so hard to make sense of it. But as soon 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:17.520 as you can look back, it's like, oh. 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:19.400 Yes, love, life happens for you. 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:22.600 Okay, guys. 0:12:22.600 --> 0:12:25.319 The next one, life happens for me, not to me story. 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:29.200 Our company got made redundant, which at the time everyone 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:30.720 was super upset and. 0:12:30.640 --> 0:12:32.520 Freaking out about losing their jobs. 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:35.320 Of course, I was a little worried, but kept my 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:38.880 call and embraced the change. Go you, because I wouldn't 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:43.040 have literally everything felt a bit scary for a bit. 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:46.240 The new company who bought out the old owners saw 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:51.000 my mature attitude and not just rehired me, but promoted 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:54.000 me and moved me to a bigger location which was 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:58.200 closer to home. So I got a redundancy payout, a promotion, 0:12:58.520 --> 0:13:02.160 a pay rise, found way more enjoyment out of my 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:05.120 job and less travel time to work. I used my 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:08.920 payout towards my house deposit, which propelled me to my goals. 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:12.199 I was subconsciously manifesting at the time. 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:13.520 I love this one. 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:15.360 I love this so much. 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:21.120 Life happens for you, Okay. I was feeling very stuck 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:23.720 and unfulfilled in my job. I knew I needed a 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:26.800 change and craved a new chapter. So I started applying 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:29.760 for many jobs for many different companies, but I always 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:33.160 got knocked back before the interview stage. One of my 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:36.200 last jobs I applied for was looking promising, and deep 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:39.280 down I just felt this was the one, but once 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:42.240 again I didn't make interviews. At this point, I was 0:13:42.240 --> 0:13:45.079 feeling very defeated and started thinking I would never get 0:13:45.120 --> 0:13:47.960 out of the job that no longer served me. I 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:50.959 started having thoughts like who am I to think I 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:54.400 am better than the job I have, and really doubted 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:57.160 and questioned my worth. Then I came across the R 0:13:57.200 --> 0:13:59.920 and C poty, and after binge listening for a whole weekend, 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:02.840 I realized I was clinging on too tightly to the 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:05.280 idea of leaving my job and starting a new career. 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:09.000 I was being unnecessarily desperate and trying to force it 0:14:09.040 --> 0:14:12.840 into fruition. After coming to this realization, I sat down 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:15.440 and said to the universe, this is what I want, 0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:18.040 and if it is meant for me, then I trust 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:20.200 you will bring it to me when the time is right. 0:14:20.280 --> 0:14:22.440 I completely surrendered to the idea that if it is 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:25.000 meant to be, it will be, and perhaps the jobs 0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:27.640 I applied for so far just weren't meant for me 0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:31.920 and something better is coming. The very next day I 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:34.400 got a call saying a candidate had pulled out of 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:37.000 the recruitment for the job I had felt was the one, 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:40.320 and I was now invited to attend an interview. After 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:43.240 that interview, I was flagged as being more suited to 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:45.800 another role and was asked to come in for a 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:48.640 second interview for a job I didn't even apply for, 0:14:49.040 --> 0:14:51.640 got paid more, and was more aligned with my long 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:54.200 term career goals. I was offered the position for the 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:57.440 second job only three hours after my interview and was 0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:59.960 asked to start as soon as possible. I truly believe 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.480 if every experience in life is designed to teach us 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:05.080 a lesson, and I believe the universe was trying to 0:15:05.120 --> 0:15:07.160 show me that I needed to start believing in my 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:10.240 worth and as a control freak proof it is okay 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:13.120 to let go of the exact details because everything will 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:15.640 always happen as it's supposed to, and I should add 0:15:15.960 --> 0:15:18.240 I believe I had to learn that lesson before the 0:15:18.280 --> 0:15:20.800 next step could be unlocked, so I could move into 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:23.720 the next chapter with a new mindset that facilitates the 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:26.160 next level self that lives in that chapter. 0:15:26.400 --> 0:15:28.360 Oh my god, I love this so much. 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:31.680 I love to she the way she articulated that my 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:35.040 story was beautiful, so beautiful, that is perfect. Do you 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:37.120 believe that a Tia that to get to the next 0:15:37.240 --> 0:15:40.480 level you have to first learn the lessons of this level. 0:15:40.640 --> 0:15:43.600 Absolutely, And I think that it'll keep coming to you 0:15:43.640 --> 0:15:45.760 in different ways. So if you feel like you're on 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:48.680 a merry go round of the same sort of negative 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:52.080 situation coming up, or like the same area of your 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:55.280 life not working out, then something needs to change there. 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:57.560 Ah, one hundred and ten percent. 0:15:57.640 --> 0:16:00.720 Hey, and I love what you said about it will 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:03.600 come up in different ways, but it's almost the same thing. 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:06.000 Yeah. It's like, if you need to learn more about 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:07.880 your worth or you need to learn to step up, 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:10.920 you'll be given millions of opportunities to step up, and 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:13.840 if you don't, you're gonna keep missing it until you 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:14.320 do it. 0:16:14.440 --> 0:16:16.240 And I think the big thing about you know, this 0:16:16.280 --> 0:16:19.320 whole segment of life happens for you, is when negative 0:16:19.480 --> 0:16:23.480 shit happens to you, and it like constantly happens. There 0:16:23.480 --> 0:16:25.200 has to be a point where you stop and you're like, 0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:28.600 hang on, this can't actually be negative, but like, what 0:16:28.880 --> 0:16:30.920 is the universe trying to teach me here? And I 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:34.120 love that she came to this realization, and I love that. 0:16:34.160 --> 0:16:35.480 It happened like two days after. 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:35.960 I know. 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:38.680 That's like a running theme in all these messages is 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:42.560 them having this big realization, surrendering and being like fucking 0:16:42.800 --> 0:16:45.720 next day, yeah, literally the next day, which it doesn't 0:16:45.720 --> 0:16:47.680 always happen like that, so please don't get that. 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:49.360 In your head. Oh. 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:55.880 I love that life happens for you, all right, guys, 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:59.800 this next one is about having endometriosis, and you could 0:16:59.840 --> 0:17:02.880 like think about this from any health issue. I guess so, 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:07.080 she explained. Honestly, it changed my life. Of course, it 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:10.919 can be super painful, exhausting and also frustrating, but I 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:14.800 also started to take way more care of myself, started 0:17:14.800 --> 0:17:18.639 my healing journey on my body, mind, and soul level, 0:17:18.800 --> 0:17:22.480 and started to set healthy boundaries. Without this disease, I 0:17:22.520 --> 0:17:25.080 wouldn't be where I am today. I started to take 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:28.320 more care of myself. I started to say no, I 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:32.960 started my personal development journey and coachings, and now I 0:17:33.000 --> 0:17:37.159 am building my own holistic healthcare and coaching business. The 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:41.080 magic happens when we accept that life happens for us, 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:41.920 not to us. 0:17:42.359 --> 0:17:44.320 I love this one so much. 0:17:44.240 --> 0:17:44.920 So beautiful. 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:48.640 I can just say, anytime you have a health issue, 0:17:48.760 --> 0:17:53.199 instead of trying to treat that like really direct part 0:17:53.520 --> 0:17:55.520 when you try and I guess, treat it as a 0:17:55.560 --> 0:17:59.640 whole and really look holistically in your life what's happening 0:18:00.240 --> 0:18:02.720 is huge. I experienced the exact same thing when I 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:05.919 got my implants out, because I, oh, yes, for years 0:18:06.000 --> 0:18:08.520 I kept trying to treat that, Oh I'm tired all 0:18:08.560 --> 0:18:10.920 the time, so it must be my iron levels, or 0:18:11.240 --> 0:18:14.600 oh I'm anxious all the time, so I'll see a psychologist, 0:18:14.680 --> 0:18:17.480 and like, all those little things of course helped. But 0:18:17.600 --> 0:18:20.360 it's like I had to actually go through a lot 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:22.879 of pain and a lot of these little situations to 0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:25.800 then step back and be like, let's see the bigger 0:18:25.840 --> 0:18:28.639 fucking picture here, And then it led me to you know, 0:18:29.000 --> 0:18:30.040 so many other things. 0:18:30.080 --> 0:18:31.040 But I love that. 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:31.720 I love this. 0:18:32.119 --> 0:18:35.720 I think also her just having I guess the realization 0:18:36.400 --> 0:18:40.960 that going through pain can actually come out really beautiful 0:18:41.560 --> 0:18:42.840 is like, I don't know, really nice. 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:45.639 I feel like a lot of people, can you know resonate. 0:18:45.280 --> 0:18:52.600 With that, Yeah, life happens for you, Okay, our next one. 0:18:52.680 --> 0:18:55.439 I was having this conversation with my boyfriend just the 0:18:55.560 --> 0:18:58.920 other day in December twenty twenty, gen Atkin posted about 0:18:58.920 --> 0:19:02.520 writing intentions for twenty twenty one, and something pulled me 0:19:02.560 --> 0:19:05.360 to write my own. One of the intentions or desires 0:19:05.480 --> 0:19:08.119 was to be in a loving relationship with a kind man. 0:19:08.680 --> 0:19:11.880 I wrote this on the thirty first of the twelfth, 0:19:11.920 --> 0:19:16.080 twenty twenty. I met my boyfriend, my person, my penguin 0:19:16.400 --> 0:19:20.000 on the twenty eighth of feb twenty twenty one. However, 0:19:20.119 --> 0:19:22.040 he had just gotten out of a four and a 0:19:22.080 --> 0:19:25.720 half year relationship who he broke up with on the 0:19:25.840 --> 0:19:30.720 first of the first, twenty twenty one, literally the day 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:33.920 after I put into the universe what I desired. 0:19:34.040 --> 0:19:34.879 That's weird. 0:19:35.520 --> 0:19:39.680 I love my mind and her second one she sent. 0:19:39.920 --> 0:19:43.040 I recently qualified as an attorney. The firm where I 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:47.040 trained had a qualified position open. Myself and another colleague 0:19:47.119 --> 0:19:51.920 interviewed for it, but I wasn't the successful candidate. Utterly heartbroken, however, 0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:54.240 in the weeks leading up to their decision, I was 0:19:54.280 --> 0:19:58.879 doing Georgie's manifestation meditation. If not this, then something better. 0:19:59.400 --> 0:20:02.439 Two days after being rejected by the firm I worked 0:20:02.440 --> 0:20:04.680 at for three and a half years, I had two 0:20:04.760 --> 0:20:07.040 offers from other firms, and I'm now at a firm 0:20:07.080 --> 0:20:09.760 who value their employees, and I am the happiest I've 0:20:09.840 --> 0:20:12.600 ever been. Life definitely happens for me. 0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:17.840 Ah, I could scream that too. That's really really incredible. 0:20:17.960 --> 0:20:19.560 And I don't know if I've ever told you this 0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:23.280 the story a TIA, but the firm where I did 0:20:23.400 --> 0:20:27.560 my grad law grad and like placement of when I 0:20:27.600 --> 0:20:30.359 was doing like my PLT and stuff. Yeah, a big 0:20:30.400 --> 0:20:33.760 decision that made me like stop doing law and go 0:20:33.840 --> 0:20:36.639